My Spanish husband calls me a monkey, wants to take my children from me | Tuko TV | Tuko Talks
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- When Ruth left Kenya for Spain to be with her husband, she knew her life would change for better. But upon arrival, her husband started mistreating her and would hardly acknowledge her and all he wanted was his kids. He would at times refer to her as an "ugly monkey from Kenya" and even at one point had her forcefully committed to a mental hospital claiming she was a mad woman with potential to hurt her own children. But even after after a judge granted her custody to the kids, her husband still insists he will come to Kenya, bribe local officials and take away the children.
She opens up to Lynn Ngugi on this exclusive episode of Tuko Talks
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To contact Ruth and offer her any Free legal advice/services kindly email her mayaruth286@gmail.com
There is solution on this and that man can never come across those kids and he will be burned not to come to Kenya.
Can I get contact with Ruth??? I'm a Kenyan living in Valencia Spain.... Ruth has all the rights here....that dude took advantage of her coz she doesn't know her rights
Ruth should receive social help !!! She has all the rights to get help...of which it's always 300 euro per child until they are 18 yrs!!!! That stupid guy has to loose his inheritance coz of negligence!!! How can I get Ruth?
Some comments though, akuje London how? You will process her visas and where she will stay and give her a job? Fucks sake, she was assulted and abused abroad, you think she wants to go abroad?
This lady needs to heal, she went through fire.
She needs to go to Spain Embassy in Westlands, that man needs to support those children by Law.
Second, he needs to stay away from Ruth and her children, the man is using drugs, he is a nutter.
Ruth if you are here and reading this, and you cannot get any leads to a bright road, keep pushing! No situation is permanent, but you seriously must go to Embassy of Spain. It's off Peponi road.
I will get in touch with you.
Naomi Foard akuje kufanya? Are you going to process the visa and all?
Can we all show some love to the woman who help Ruth fight for kids 😍💯💯💯👏👏💅💪
yaya J God bless this angel
Im working with spanish people is true there are very bad against african and racist it is true
She should have married a black man and not date outside of her race.
Thank you from a white woman married to a black man for 42 years. I would have killed him if I was this sweet woman and say he made me crazy for a short time from fear. No one should be treated this way, thank God for this wonderful woman that helped her gain freedom. Peace and God's love.
yaya J ❤️
Let's appreciate the judge, doctor and social workers who helped her in a foreign country. May God protect your children.
god bless them
Typical European BAST ARDS THEY RIB MY LAND SPANISH BOTCHES.
Swahili Mandela Typical europeans what? Lmao we had the whole world , the whole world speaks our languages , we rule! Get on our level
Mungu Yuko na sababu
God bless them so much
The doctor the judge and lawyers acted as Angels this story shows us how God can be there for us even in the darkest moments
Sure
AMEN 🙏🏻
I can't understand why so much Africans women marrying these white men then in the end they suffer .they only want you because your children are stronger
Preston Kenya Official
God? God no, the Spanish laws against gender violence !!
@@sweetladyhotmommy6294 Why are these men leaving their kids behind?
The woman who helped Ruth to fight for her kids she's an heaven sent Angel
I can't marry anybody that isn't serious with God.
Foundation of God leads to a stable marriage
Amen
True my sister
Thank You! Unless you mention God.. then u haven't really started with anything! Sis Thank You!
Naomi Kao you are soo ryt
hahaha hey Sis you can marry some showing you that he is holy and in few year changes like nothing therefore just ask God for real partner
This woman shouldn't be afraid at all, this is her country and those baby girls can not be taken away from her.
Grace who is going to stop that, are you going too?
This is Kenya my friend.kenya republic of china 😥ama niite "kani Kaka 🤣
@@angiewamwangi6175 lol I need some I'm running out of my popcorns for this comment lol this a merit 😂😂😂😂😂
We will stop him and you know what this is Africa you don't know Kenya you will never see him
@@fartunabdullah6702 what are you even saying 🙄🙄🤷
"If someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time" Maya Angelou. Run when you see the first red flag
Uyuhhjh I'm in ok uno rules and sister oijjjjjuyyyuuuuuuuu I uuu I think we will oui it to the right and selling a
By the time i saw the first sign it was too late I was already pregnant though I love my son it was God's plan to get a child with him....... but what I went through thereafter ....................... he almost killed me, he assaulted me....... I don't know how much longer I have to live but God will heal me
Many don't know where to run. There should be a place to run...
@@biblereading9280 Ruth is that you? 🧐🤔 How is your life now? Updates?
Why don't she go to embassy and they will ban he's passport from coming to Africa
He has a right to visit his kids😔such animal I'm sure given a chance he can abuse those kids also
There are 54 countries in Africa. Just a reminder for you, Africa is a continent.
danniah kay I guess she means in this situation not all African countries needs to ban him coming close to impossible to do so for he has the right to visit in other African countries. Although it is serious matter still not big enough to ban him coming a country in the continent.
@@nalouchaa Thank you for this comment, I've been trying to tell people this for a long time. African food, African snacks, African shop, African restaurant, African clothes. These are the things we deal with outside the continent and the culprit are Africans, to the extent now people in other countries think Africa is a country not a continent.
I’m glad she manage to get away and save her girls.
I'm glad too
He looks like a homeless drug addict. I'm glad she got her kids back. I wish them all the best.
😂😂😂😂
We ukinunuliwa pombe si utatombwa tu...
@@ukiniita_909 I don't speak Swahili and google translated the above as: "
If you buy alcohol, you will not be drunk"... which makes no sense.
@@elizcringle6505 This one killed me!! I am so sorry, wish I could translate for you
@@shay1999 Well, hopefully it was a positive comment 😁
That man doesn't need custody of those children. He would teach them to hate themselves and their mother. 4-25-2020(Sat.)
Yes you are right. He is crazy & racist. He will abuse those babies. He does not need them at all.
Yes...100%. Im happy she did not become depressed or turned to alcohol. She's winning.
Ghai Ruth hayo ndo yalikupata aki pole nakumbuka tukiwa na ww umoja
Probably abuse them sexually as well.
@@smw372002able , you are right. He could possibly do that. He is already wicked. 11-24-2020(Tues.)
God bless all the people who came to the rescue of Ruth.
Amen
Amen
Her baby breathing, lying on her chest, is the best feeling ever.. ❤️❤️😘😍😭
@George Barnett then when they see somalis they will call them arabs foreigners let them having white people in there life it will soon end up them being real atabs somalis dont marry out of their clan but kenya they defy mzungu white man like jesus 😂😂😂😂
@George Barnett lol
Am married to a Russian man and its the best decision of my life, your life partner can come from anywhere, her husband was just a heartless man
The best feeling ever 🥰🥰
This is a very nice person. A good mother. Even the way she talks. She is very genuine. And God has been with her from the beginning. God is great all the times.
Absolutely.
I see so many red flags. After he disappeared first I wouldn't have trusted him at all. Also getting married alone without your parent's consent was not it.. I am sorry my sister the Lord will see you through.
Yes she is a fool.
Very unwise decision, good she escaped . Could have ended much worse.
Somehow women need to be aware of the red flags from the beginning of a relationship. They go a long away
Very true
He was on and off, in and out. Those were red flags.
We women need to stop feeling bad to cut someone off after the first red flag. They go a long way, and can destroy your spirit and faith in love. From experience!
Its so unfortunate that those around are the ones that usually see the red flags but not the woman in the situation most of them are usually blinded by love and only see the flags when its too late
The moment he disappeared first I wouldn't have never trusted him
16:0 we Africans the problem we have is we respect white people so much but we don't respect each other
armaaz mohazim at the point
Money talks bullshit walks
Good point
True
@Elizabeth Irungu yea I will watch
After all the torture he did to her she still has the guts to say “my husband “😪😪😪
hafsa musa she is a fool.
👍
Woye msamehe
She is respectful that man is the father to her kids......and she can't call him "names" in front of the kids........all over the world this things are happening every day.....our African men too some got this behaviour beating up their women you know.......but its better walk away than someone rule over your life
Was also asking myself that , she is not well . Going away with a foreigner without her parents' consent , she deserves what she got . Never go against your parents .
The best thing is that you have custody of the kids. The lesson is that you don't just start having kids with someone you don't know much about, especially a foreigner.
When do you know a person,ppl change we don’t know even what our own relatives are capable of.
Tell him that you and the kids moved to Somalia, and no longer live in kenya, and he can visit them in mogadishu,
😂😂😂😂 yeees
One thing for sure he is not paying child support now , but don’t worry the ransom money will be sent to the kids for their education, case closed
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Moral of the story. Know somebody better before getting serious.
Facts detected.
There is no guarantee in that a human being can change anytime please do not make this woman regret anything. We all make unwise decisions
I watched this video and was disgusted the way that guy treated his wife and kids ,I am white and British , God sees everything and one day he will face his creator, I wish this lady all the best and am so pleased she got back home , I have many friends from Africa and love everyone of them , may God bless her and her children , please just know we may have different colour skins but that is the only difference ,inside we all have a heart and we all have red blood the blood of our creator and he made us all equal 🙏 Godbless 🙏💕 one Love 💞✌ & I would like to add I think black women are very beautiful as for him calling her names he should first look in the mirror 😱😘
you are the type of friends i want to meet. Thank u for ur kind words
Thank you for your love,God bless you
@@ruthtricia9728 Godbless you ruth tricia ☝️💯🥰🙏🇬🇧 one love 4 eva 💯🙏☝️🇬🇧🥰🥰
@@eno-obongokon4057 Thankyou I'm humbled and Godbless you too 💯🥰☝️🙏🇬🇧🥰
God Bless u too
The babies are sooo cute 😍 May God protect this cute family ❤️ and give you strength
The doctor and the judge and the lawyers, thank God for them. Yoohhhh
Why did she get back with him after his disappearing acts? I don't deal with men who pull that madness! This man is a narcissist and a psychopath!
I was thinking the same thing, she should be telling this story with One child not two
Maybe she got back with him for the sake of her kids
@@Nichellesinae That sounds like lack of accountability for her poor selection of a partner.
max well : Speaking in her defense, immigration laws vary from country to country. It’s not unusual for engaged or married couples to endure long separations between visits and finalizing legal immigration arrangements. But once his antisocial behavior was obvious it would have been best to leave immediately.
Often when a person is closely involved with a disturbed spouse (or other close relative) the abuse is “normalized.” Things we objectively KNOW are wrong or inappropriate are explained, justified, or minimized. Sometimes you have to “hit rock bottom” (hopefully without permanent injuries or death) before you realize the person (and the relationship) is beyond help.
Because she worship white man white skin for mixed kids...
Please Africans let us love ourselves every thing will be okay!!
I love you
True, its self hate. If Africans only knew the ture origin of the wazungu, they would not even mix with them. The Bible even states that their king is Satan and apparenty they are the seed of fallen angles! That is why they do what they do.
MAY GOD BLESS YOU
Sad story nimeogopa
That is a big lie . Human race is one whether black,white,yellow or brown.
Nothing makes one superior to the other.
If this was solved by the Kenyan system, she'd have lost her kids. I hope we can learn to value ourselves over any foreigner.
Thats the sad truth. Her husband was right about that. He could take her kids here if he wanted to
It's a rotten country. I don't go to courts or police station.
Us Black women are beautiful Queens and should never sell our self’s short and learn to love our selves before we give love. It’s so sad but I’m glad she and her babies are okay
@Supreme Ace You can have short hair, long hair, weave, braids, hair extensions, dye your hair different colors...and still love yourself.
I think every woman is a queen.
@Surpreme Ace Not all Black women have weaves. They have long hair too. That statement you made was way out of line.
@@floridagirl386 Yah! That is true!
Wong Lee What do you mean?
How come no one is talking about how cute her babies are
WURAOLA IKUPOLATI Gorgeous.
Aki they are pretty😍
They're cute for real!
They are beautiful and come from a great mom that don’t let no one take her kids
Because that’s irrelevant considering the circumstances!
Kenyan Govenment please protect these little girls from this racist, hands up for this lady who stood up for Ruth to the end. Haki Mungu ambariki.
I’m Sudanese I live in USA 🇺🇸 but I never married withe women or even sleeping with them im African and I want an African woman period
My brother I don't think it's about the race even black people can be so cruel to each other 😔it takes God's grace to get a suitable partner
@@XOLIRWAXA Amen 💯💯🙏🙏❤❤🌍🌍 and that is the truth, Godbless you 💯🙏❤🌍 one love as Bob Marley said 💯🙏❤🌍
browneet caramell same thing right
Xoli S it is about race her fellow country man will never do this to her in another country am not kenyan but it’s better to marry ur kind of u can but there is always good and bad in every race but stick to ur own people I lived in America since u was 9 years old but I will never marry where women I will try to marry a girl from my country if not African she has to be black or else I will not get married
Remain with your stand
The most painful part is when she said " he calls me monkey in front of the children" Mom is always mom, she is feared for the children with respect the impact such words could have in the lives of the innocent and beautifu souls. God bless you mam.
He didn't change it was the mask that fell off
like that .
it's so sad right?
@franck njosh
You're SPOT-ON!👌🏾
True
True he was wearing a mass
He looks like he could play a role as one of the 'wrong turn' horror movie cannibals🤦♀️
I just remember those movies.too hard to watch
@@mariamkikula1614 tell me about it😣
Ntsoaki Motapanyane 😂💦💦💦 very true
I'm glad her and her daughters are fine in Kenya. She will be fine from that racist man now since she is in her homeland. She is a strong women to deal with what she dealt with. The only thing good thing she got out of the relationship is her beautiful daughters. I don't think she should worry about that nutcase, she is educated woman, so I can tell she will be able to take care of herself and children.
May God bless you Ruth. you are the strongest woman.God will never leave you nor forsake you.
Record a statement in a police station in Kenya and submit a criminal case to the court providing all his details including his passport so he can be arrested upon his arrival to Kenya.
It’s not about marrying or having kids with someone of another race. The problem is that she didn’t get to know the man well before having sex with him and having kids.
extactly end of the story
@donthavetime4that well black men abuse black women the most. Black men are often sexist and colorist, and often their behavior isn't any better than a racist white person.
Bingo! I’m American. And mixed with other crap but I’m black. Kiss my ass. My ppl were stolen. This isn’t home. We aren’t welcomed here. They will never respect ya. And until we stop being divided, we will continue to fall.
tarsha sutton our people on the continent don’t understand white people black and white will never coexist, our relationship will never evolve past tolerations
dop
""mwanamke anafaa avumilie ndoa tu"" that statement has taken many women six feet under with their untouched dreams holding on to their dead-end marriages just to please society.
Ukweli!
Sad truth
Kwakweli
Amen
That's the problem black women are facing. Just get out of any abusive relationship. You will just die leaving the society you are pleasing 😪
Thanks God you’ve got your children back. 🙏🏻 My late husband who was born and raised in Spain by white Spanish father and an black Indian mother went through great traumas at school (which fatally damaged his personality for life) because of the color of his skin and was brutally beaten for it....
My husband passed away very young, he killed himself so that after his death his parents would literally steal my three-year-old daughter through corruption and connections. That even my lawyer of Spanish descent admits and claims that in my case it is also nationalism among other reasons because I am not Spanish. Because I am from Serbia, although white skin color. Another Spanish lady lawyer from a high elite law office hearing my case was confused she could not understand me , she immediately requested to talk to my lawyer. After the conversation, she said: “I am ashamed to be Spanish for this to happen to you in Spain. This is corruption! They couldn't take your child away by law. In 25 years of work, I have never seen anything like this! ” The other two lawyers I approached before looked at me in shock and one even in doubt that he could not believe that something like this had happened at all ... One of them asked me: “So what did you do, you was taking drugs, alcohol? ” None of that I answered. I don't even smoke cigarettes, on the contrary I lead a completely healthy life. Yes, unfortunately, the world is full of injustice and racism where they rob us of our own children. I am still fighting for my child for 4 years. I am on my end now as I can not live further without my only child. I will fight untill my last breath for my child for her to have right to have at least her mother after she lost her father. I am fighting not just for my self and my baby, I am fighting for all the women and children . I will be going to media. I will expose all of them that this never happens to anyone. I need help people of good will who fight for justice, for a better world; lawyer journalists ... NGO for human-women rights.🙏🏻💛
Do you believe if her kids were born in Spain, would she have been able to leave the country and get full custody? Just wondering, thanks for your response
You are a strong woman I hope you found justice as at now…. May the good Lord see you through this ❤️
So sorry. Praying for you and your child🙏🙏🙏
Let's learn from this confession. Before you get into a relationship please be sure of the partner. Signs will always tell you if this life will work. Take precautions dear ones. Men are men be white or black or yellow.
Husband need to be black listed not only to enter Kenya but Africa. She needs also to apply for children benefits which they are entitled for monthly by EU law +Spanish passports for kid's in Spanish Embassy. Report him in their Embassy & by DCI. Hope she get a good lawyer to get her through. Sad what she is going through.
All the best in their lives.
God will take care of the children not all that glitters is gold.African women be wise.
Harold Matouba Infact entire africa is corrupt
Jenny Rhein true you need to fast and clever get the children European Union passport get benefits every month and you can always move in European Union and work freely
No one is supposed to threaten you especially in European Union the moment he insult you divorce and move to another country in European Union and you can work wish you knew
You are right!but so sad 😢 to say that our Africa leaders don't have that Sense
He is going to abuse those children, please do not let him.
Exactly!he could do a world of harm to them
I was thinking the same thing! Protect your girls. Some people are just sperms donors but not fathers! Keep it moving.
I agree..he wants the children in a insidious way
She is fearing nothing, let her get anywhere in Nairobi and change her conducts
Sister, bakiya na watoto wako njo bahati yako , bahati yetu wana wa Afurika. ❤️🇷🇼
I'm so happy she got custody of her daughters and thanks for everyone who helped her get through her ordeal
This is a really sad story and needs to be broadcast worldwide on major channels. This frustrated, violent man fortunately met a good,kind,humble and loving African woman,if he had met some tough ones like me,I bet the story would have been different!😄
Long live Africa! Long live Ruth✌
Hugs and kisses to this gorgeous lady and those lovely children.
Once you marry secretly without your family knowing,you must know that you are in for a high jump
i wish the kenyan govt helps this lady, the man should be banned from entering kenya! please help protect this lady and her kids.
Mama wapi after all hako Kenya amepeana pesa as you know Kenya Yetu ni pesa court hilisema achukue watoto after 5 years nikingangana peke yangu
@@ruth-pb6rnpole sana dear keep on praying for strength
"Usirukie hii rangi ukiona" haha. Enyewe aki am happy u have the kids now. That man is a monster. So evil. He should be banned from coming to Kenya!
This a sad story but i hope our African sisters learnt something about trusting strangers outside Africa
True
This narcissist may even kill those kids,luckily you have the kids.
Mkenya Mzalendo yes mkenya mzalendo
👍
That story is touching
Her own mother said he is a violence man......he can also rape them. ...sad
Yep!!exactly a Narcissist
🤦♀️ I mean he ghosted on her not once but twice and that too for years and she still had another. Child with him 🤦♀️
He never loved her in the first place and she was naive but thank God she's out of it..have some discernment family..most people non melanated dont love us and we have to much hatred for self n our own
True indeed. The non-melanated and less melanated.
So sad..it happened to me just this year in Denmark.. Never again will i date a different race from mine..pole mummy,Pray alot watoto ni blessing
Wazungu
Wengine
Ni
Madevil
True,my sister is in such situation,inaniuma sana
Ooooh so sorry Juliana😓
Ngai😭😭😭😭
@Abisola Abiodun may God increase you in wisdom.mmmm well spoken words
Oh God protect those children and their mother😔look how cute those children's are
@donthavetime4that Yea! Way too many!!!!
@Daughter of Enoch You are so right! How can the Dad be U G L Y and the kids are "JUST SO CUTE"? Those commenters' minds have been brainwashed and colonized...they are sad and don't even know it.🤣🤣🤣❗
Don't be surprised if the two gets together and baby number 3 is born and we repeat the same story again.....
And yes, I was also abused by my late Spanish husband mentally physically.. he tried to kill me many times. He also used drugs.
Does anyone hear the sleeping child breathing?
At a point I thought it was me.
Well done to the social workers and all who helped RUTH.
Ahahaaa mimi too
Lol I heard that part laying next to my sleeping daughter but when I moved away I realized it’s her child😂
Me too oooo
I kept checking my breathing too 🤣
@@MakaZama LOL
My dear, he is nothing and nobody.
We Africans are the GENESIS OF HUMAN .
God BLESS KENYA 🇰🇪 GOD BLESS AFRICA 👍
We should marry on in ourselves
@@arushanioshaka5600 yes it's better,but black people love money too much.instead of being in love with black
@@shonnassanga2839 i know but i just hope more we start marring other blacks
@@arushanioshaka5600 enough is enough white will never respect blacks
@@shonnassanga2839 i know
He is psychopath/narcissist that played a role in the beginning to lure his pray... The more vulnerable/helpless/insecure/lonely the woman would be - the better for predator. He is deeply wounded ( most likely by his mom - they do share the same energy of psychic vampires/predators ). Ruth has wounded soul as well and therefore lack of self love that blinded her to see red flags. To break free she needs to commit to self love and deep soul healing. Btw - Kids inherit emotions ( what mom feels about herself ) - not what you tell them to think or to do. Deep healing is a must to give them different future! ❤️❤️❤️
Just came across this video. Interesting the part where the interviewer says "so he just wants your children, he doesn't want you" and Ruth agrees. He doesn't even want the children. He's an abusive man and abusive men thrive off of power and control. He knows Ruth's weak spot is her children, and he's using that as a way to maintain control and power over Ruth. She needs to find a way to cut that control and power and he'll lose interest. I'd love to see a follow up of Ruth and hope her and her children are happy and thriving.
I totally agree with you. I suspect he has evil agenda since he abuse drugs and drugs goes hand in hand with human trafficking. There is more to this Man than what is said, seen and experienced by Ruth
I support you
Hmmmm
The reason why I love my African men gonga like kama hupendi hizi pua refu
Help her please in any way you can
@@annyungelle3792 am here
Kudos💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻...brownskin kiatu
Why was the Kenyan embassy not involved with this matter?
Was Kenyan embassy send that woman to get married to that colonizer? The answer is noooo then oleka na watu wenyu wazungu wacha wazungu wao and that is
Right. In such a case the embassy should've been responsible for bringing her back. It is sad that Ruth did not know exactly what to do.
Africa doesn't have embassies.😂
@@@fruitsarelife148 we have our Kenyan embassy in Madrid Spain and I think Ruth was not free in this country so she never knew what to do in such case
Kenyan Embassy are like any other USELESS African Embassies.
She saw that he was unreliable from the very beginning with child 1, why did she allow herself to get pregnant again? She fell in love with the life she thought she would have and not the reality he was giving her.
So sad after he abandoned her and first baby,she still got pregnant a second,lady the man already showed you his true colors there !
Exactly 💯
Guys guys, why don't we all advocate for this woman's rights to have her kids. We should all try and speak out and help this mama asiwahichukuliwa hawa watoi. Huyo mwendawazimu ya mtu asijaribu kuingia hii Kenya at all. Why shouldn't we help this mama aki???
sio raisi hii ni kenya atakam tu kama tourist
Yes yes that would be so much of importance to her but ladies should be advised Wana onanga wski olewa na mzungu wasga fika most of the wazungus are out on usings our daughters but wasichana Hawa oni ivo
but ladies dont follow whitemen bcoz of life wengi sana ni kafiri inchi za ngambo
Achana na wawili wanaopendana
i second you she also has her country and she has her rights too
Thank God she's alive and back in Kenya with her kids. That man has weired looks I wouldn't even have dated him, he looks evil from the start 😈😈😈😈
In the process of getting married the so called 2pac of Spain 🇪🇸 gave her another pregnancy 🤰 what a shame 2pac of Spain 🇪🇸
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What a very strong woman, respect to you sister. Continue to keep your head up, always!!!
A part of this lady didn’t love herself or was desperate for what she thought could become a better situation. Somehow, this man is the best she thought she could do. I don’t think he ever treated her well. He is a narcissist & they are really good at exploiting a person’s weaknesses.
She was desperate and blinded by his whiteness. Should never have seen him again after she got pregnant because he was completely absent for 2 years! So why would she then allow him to walk in and out of her life when he felt like it,marry him ,get pregnant again and then move to another country with his crazy ass. Hes an evil racist who would have killed her if he got the chance . I can tell She still Dosent value herself even now.
100 percent true.
Because our people associate whiteness with God and purity, and love that image instead of loving themselves.
It could have happened with an African man. Abuse is abuse. She was just naive or socialized to accept abuse like many women worldwide. She was tricked into marrying him
It could have happened with an African man. Abuse is abuse. She was just naive or socialized to accept abuse like many women worldwide. She was tricked into marrying him. He was a narcissist. Stop blaming her because she hadn't seen that side of him. Had nothing to do with being impressed with whiteness. Such a ridiculous thing to say.
The husband should be caught when he comes to Kenya. He should not be allowed in Kenya. Get a restraining order.
Mulenga the government should put him in jail when he come to any Africa country
Why because he is the father of these beautiful girls, before you comment would you like you to be denied of your child, just because it's not you doesn't mean those girls don't love their father, they will grow up and go visit their father. Stop commenting what you wouldn't want to happen to you.
If he hates her he hates the kids too this is why I'm afraid to date men who do not share my ethnicity and culture
I am in an interracial relationship. He loves me, and our daughter, and our 2 son's. It has nothing to do with race. Its just the man that this woman got with is nuts.
Thankyou.
So true, I'm afraid too...I read a story about a White guy only dating black teens or young adults to give them HIV , it 's really scary....Now Everytime, a White guy wants to hit on me, I give him the side eyes ...Some of them are really seeing Black women as experiment or objects for their crazy and evil desires 🙄🙄🙄
You are right
Did anyone noticed that she is still wearing a ring?
You should bring her back for another interview so that we can know how she is doing and the kids.....
She Is not doing well at all I wish tuko wamlete tena aki
What I cant understand is if he found her repulsive, why re procreate with her
I'm glad that people while she was in Europe eventually help her when they realized what was up even though that's his so called country. Nice 2 see all he can run is his mouth n nothing more
Sad. Terrible. I Comment those who helped her to raise money to escape. That lady in the video is also a shero or hero for organizing for her to leave. Ruth so sorry for all you went through. Take ❤ care of your girls. Buy land somewhere else and report the fool to immigration.
Once he comes promise him septic tank as a free gift
Wazungu all my foot. Surely poverty can really lower some one dignity. Africans love u all
The lady needs to be take accountability for her own actions here... He disappeared for 2 yrs according to her after baby no. 1...what more did she want to know he doesn't care about her... How on earth did she get pregnant with the second child? She must be accountable as well
Pls stop calling that scarecrow my husband....hes a devil incarnate
Niice
Agree
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@Cathy Kimani YESSSS! this is why you have to be careful who you sleep with as a Woman. We get mentally & physically yoked to that person through demonic strongholds.
Am married to one and him and his family are living under my rules nikikohoa wanaiitika i told them its my time to colonise them,kulipisha kisasi🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣maafia gal from kenya
hapo sasa
unapologetically lady 😂😂😂😊this is funny but if this lady knew her rights in a foreign country she couldn’t be here
Exactly I told mine when you dare abuse me you will never see that baby
Susan Muthoni me and you together 😂😂😂
unapologetically lady I agree, also don’t get married to stay at home, be independent, look for like minded people then you good to go
That’s why I sticking with my black men
I’m so sorry to hear her misfortune but the reality is that she married a drug addict they can be charming one minute and alarming the next because cocían fries their brain.
Sorry to say that these woman can marry anything with pant and have children with them. I am ONLY sorry fo those children. LADIES STOP marrying and having kids with every eve.
Exactly right! He would sell those precious babies for drug money!
Lesson ladies:Men are just men!whether white or black,if he ain’t consinstent from the word go,drop him🚮
consistency is really a key⚠️..if there is not consistency kanyaga kubwa kubwa don't wait for it
Uko right
This is the most insightful and balanced answer to this problem on here. In this case he would have been a loser no matter which race, culture or creed he belonged to. She, unfortunately for whatever reason, was far too accommodating and compliant and he exploited that fully.
True...
So you are saying a black man would treat her like less than a human the way he did?
He's here calling samone a monkey an yet he's the one looking like a monkey, broke, n a drug addict, heheee,nmependa watoi tu BT this story is too sad
Shes not attractive
Jesus will Judge even though BT u CNT call same one a monkey, its God who created us n the bible says we were created on God's image. . . am nt here to argue ooh ,was juz an opinion
Beautiful angels💕💕💕😍😍😍aawwww...the first daughter understands her..the second one will never judge her
The man looks crazy just from looking at his picture, he looks weird.
Yeah, he looks like he's on drugs!!!
He looks like a. drug addict
So she let him disappear for years and come back??????? 🤦🏾♀️
Get close to God you will find everlasting love that has no end you will never look back Jesus Christ will not forsake you
dedetea ,what do you mean ? Undressing saint peter to dress up saint paul? God is Jesus and Jesus is God for your information if you do believe that there is God. I pray that God will forgive you for your ignorance.
True
This is true
Yahusha Hamashiach
stay blesses jane you have made my day and empowered me
Thank You for helping Ruth, as one mother to another...both of you are brave.
She should move to Detroit USA. He would never harass her again and her children would have a good life. Actually anywhere in the USA
She needs a lot of money to do that and it's not easy
That's so sad to hear, after having kids.
At his age, he must be having many failed relationships behind him
That is how total loosers act.
He might not even have women back in Spain. He seems like the type that struggles to get women and because of that grows to hate women.
Lisa Roberson Why are you victim blaming? Abusers don’t always start out blatantly abusing their partners it’s more complex than that. It takes the average women 7 times to leave an abusive relationship because the emotional and psychological control is so strong. Please develop a shred of human empathy for the new year 2020.
weee mzeee mpumbafu kabisa
He probably abused all his women
Gosh. I am so sorry you went through this Ruth. My heart is heavy as I watch this. I am praying for you and your kids. Love and light 💞
Such a strong woman❤not everyone gets to tell their depressing stories
File for a restraining order and he can also be banned from getting into Kenya.
Java Konjo I cannot but the government can.
Java Konjo Google they can. That’s not ‘domestic stuff’ those 3 are Kenyans and we have rights. You life is on the government......or you didn’t know that??? You can’t even commit suicide in peace 🤷♀️. If it fails it’s life imprisonment. And you say what again????? Why do people get deported???? You think these people can book the next flight back to those countries?????? Anyway if she complains well she can be helped even though we know in Kenya everything is about money.
He can be restrained from going to kenya but will they restrain corruption? Through corrupt heartless greedy people he can do anything from where he is. Including killing Ruth God forbid! I think she needs help to relocate to another country that's the only solution.
As sad as this story is I want to just shake this women for being so naive
Mee too
It wasn't JUST naivite, it was low self-esteem!
some Black folks think the grass is greener on the other side but it is really more racist...
same here!! I understand the first pregnancy. But the second one😏 seriously.
She loves devils. She got what she deserves. I don't care about his children. He can have those little half demons!
Thank you Jo from Spain for the help u gave Ruth and the children. Blessings from God above for believing in her and putting yr life out there for another human being.
I just love how that baby girl slept soundly through out the interview,and even the older
girl seems to have a close attachment to mum.we should be thankful that children don't see colour... I hope all is well with her lovely girl's.
She is their mother.
why will her child care about her color.
May god bless everyone who helped Ruth and her children through this difficult times.
Kwa ground vitu in different!! And thats a fact Lynn. The white people we see in Africa are not the same white people in their country. These poeple are very smart actors.. Kind and lovely in Africa but when you arrive in their countries, you see their real face. I live in Germany for over 29 years now. I have seen kenyans been threatened with guns, knives or even locked out of their homes but when the law enforcement officers arrive, their white patners twist the story to make them look like victims. Majority of Kenyans who arrive here on inter-racial wedlocks end up divorcing and remarrying them same kenyans they fled from. But, let me be fair.. Not all whites are racist.. but majority of them.
Very true
Very true
You are right i agree with you
Very true bro. Same here in Sweden
@@amanimtasha9168 very true,..it's sad,my sister.sweden sikupendi ata kidogo
May God bless you in every thing you do . Thank you 🙏🏿 for help in Ruth . You are a champion for a person with no voice. God blessed you. Jamaican 🇯🇲 🇺🇸
Thank you, Lynn for helping her to share her story. This will be proof to the authorities, in the event he actually carries out this threat.
The devil will never win. Thank God, she's home, she and the children are safe, and I pray that he will never have the pleasure of seeing either of them again, anytime in the future.
He is demonic, he's evil and God will judge Him.
Ladies, pray and ask the Lord for the right men, and be willing to wait. 🙏🌹