@EmperorBlud Actually you do need it you fool. The only way people get REAL confidence is by actually receiving positive feedback. Confidence comes with reality. If you're a 3/10 and have been told you're ugly you will never have real confidence.
you have to be tall and handsome to mean anything for most women. You are invisible otherwise. Not to mention that you can't build confidence and learn how to not behave around woman yhou are attracted to if you aren't attractive. ok - you can but this will be crazy difficult
One hundred percent true. They don't care about anything else. They will often go with a guy just for money, but they will have chads on the side because they won't actually like him. However, who really cares about what they want in the first place. They just don't matter in the long run. Never let it get you down because there just is not enough time to experience the endless facets of an adventurous and creative life.
Look is the lock of the gates that is needed to even begin relationship. No looks no starting step. Personality is only valued when the first lock is "unlocked" and you are attractive enough to be there. Personality is a tool for attractive people to transform Short term relationship into a Long term.
Personality=Confidence. It just means the way you act according to who you believe you are and thus what value you assign to yourself. If looks determine your outcome in the world by positive feedback looping and you act more confident as a result of that, then it makes sense to conclude that looks=personality. So the better you look, the better your personality is going to be.
Because the dating world that is online or rather bigger cities or countries is just based on sex appeal rather than a long fulfilled partner . But ofc what you look for a partner is all up to you .
Because society knows that if they were to accept this truth, people would fall into deep depressions and won't be able to cope. People will say all the cliche things to protect their feelings and to avoid negative opinions. My opinion is to never bring up this topic with people. Life is already hard as is. Keep these truths to yourselves and move accordingly.
@@orianogiorgetti6459ofc other factors are at play no one knows ur life, but yes, being ugly and shy is bad especially the shy part, you need both reversed for optimal living
Personality matters if you are attractive. If you are unattractive, then qualities such as confidence and charisma will of course give you a little more points, but for women you will be a clown friend. When women say they love confident guys, they're not lying. Chads and pretty boys are self-confident because throughout their lives, most people reacted positively to them. This created a positive feedback loop for them. For guys with an appearance score below 5, on the contrary, many reacted to them with indifference or even negatively. This created a negative feedback loop for them. I think that what we are talking about is very tragic and unfair! But we need to find a solution👍
Wrong. If you’re ugly, being confident and outgoing will make you seem narcissistic and annoying. The opposite is true for attractive people. This is called the halo effect.
I'be treated women like shit and still they do not seem to mind that because they're still showing sign of obsession as if their dignity does not matter at all. the same can't be said about a sub5 who mistreats a woman, she will gladly find that an excuse to get rid of that man who she is not attracted to. LOOKS MATTER
@@henrykwieniawski7233 I agree with you. And now I have taken this path. But at the same time, I understand that there are things that cannot be changed. Of course, you can increase your appearance level by 1-2 points. I believe that supporters of the black pill need to promote genetic engineering and transhumanism. After all, it is your genetics that determines your attractiveness.
@@amelwolf There are other factors like the place you were born (country) and the circumstances that sometimes determine the path of your life. this is far more complex than what it might seem, though.
Looks are so crucial, particularly for young men even more so than women despite what’s normally thought. it goes deeper even than just dating, you’re likelihood of finding work, earning, your quality of friendships and relationships at work/school, and much more are all partially or majorly dependent on your looks. If you’re a young man, DO NOT NEGLECT LOOKS, its a brutal world we live in.
Looks is not only genetics but: 1) being Jacked and fit 2) Well groomed 3) Good skincare 4) Good facial hair or hairstyle 5) darker and defined eyebrows 6) Good jawline and white teeths 7) Good and masculine style 8) Good posture and open body language Then work on communication and confidence.
@@cgab12 ngl most of my friends dont go to the gym but i do plan to bring one of my friends but pls do remember that jacked is not for girls but better health because thats the same mindset i always put for. If i am jacked for woman then its a waste that you go to gym for that purpose.
Good looking person always has great personality because they are hardly depressed or have anxiety so they are very open cause they get better treatment
We all have been guilty of this sin at some point of our lives. most “smart” guys in my school were sub5, they were either genetically defective like being too short, or just displayed any sign of congenital issue in their body or faces. the most commons between those genetic disgraces were for instance having a very recessed jawline, morbid obesity, buggy eyes, alopecia, hydrocephalus, achondroplasia, one of them have more than 8 congenital issues. and nowadays, they're forced to work more than 12 hours a day. they're social though but between their own species.
Looks are literally personality, if you are attractive, your subconscious mind itself create a personality like how you should act with whom or in different situations, i were ugly because of gaming too much not eating right and bad habits but i had height so i fixed things and now i have good personality and friends who are ignored me alot of times now are interested in me, previously they didn't become ofcourse I was fcking insecure so that is also why i got teeth aligners so i can talk and laugh freely. And if you see on social media or most successful people in 1-2 decades you will see all those people are attractive where ugly and abd average die playing games in basements and don't leave any legacy
Good summary in a surprisingly encouraging manner … well health is another factor as well. Ironically I went full carnivore, lost weight and get decent looks. But here comes the kicker. I got promoted as a programmer . Even in highly technical areas looks still matter XD
As a girl who's experienced life on both ends of the spectrum, I unfortunately have to agree that looks are important. For example, if I'm slightly nice, people think I'm 10x nicer. Basically every positive adjective is applied 10x to you. If you're smart and participate in class, they'll think you're Einstein. I think this is why people say personality is important, because if you're good looking, your personality genuinely attracts people!! People will want to get to know you and think highly of you (even if you've only said a few words to them). People will assume your morals for you, give you more grace if you make mistakes, and people will want to impress you. Idk if there's a single downside I've experienced (yet). Being ugly was such a dehumanizing experience, at one point people I didn't even know would laugh when they saw me. I really hope I'm doing good treating everyone well!!
honestly as a guy same. i used to care a lot about how i looked a few years ago and would do everything in my power to look more attractive. everyone would treat me better. gave up looksmaxxing after that cuz it was honestly depressing
I am sorry. I am woman. Do not include me on the same page of majority woman. I will never say, personality matter. If ask, I always answer that LOOKS MATTER. LOOKS>>>personality. Because, I know the pain of not being attractive.
Thank you for your sincerity. Thank you for being honest and showing empathy. Thank you for showing emotional intelligence. And on a spiritual level, my dear friend, thank you for existing. Namaste ♥
Genetics determine everything. It even determines how high you climb the corporate latter. The better looking and taller you are the more likely you are to be higher in business. It also determines how rich or poor, who you marry, what job you have.
This is why pre-destination and self-fulfilling prophecy are entirely legit concepts. Mechanistically, if arguing cause and effect as the explanation for anything, you end up with a circular reference. It’s not because those attractive people did anything to be deemed attractive. They are attractive because they’re attractive. That’s why we shouldn’t desire for more, rather be gracious for what we have. The whole zero to hero and rags to riches concept is illusory and examples like that are wildly exceptional, yet everyone clings to them when they are akin to fantasies.
@@jchoi9340 I agree. I’m not one hundred percent sold on the deterministic philosophy, I believe in free will. However, that doesn’t mean genetics don’t play a role in your life for about 80 percent. Women literally find you attractive in the first 2 seconds, and it isn’t controllable. You can’t explain why you’re attracted to a certain person it just happens, and if you’re good looking that’s pretty easy for you. It’s like a spark happens right when a girl see’s you.
@@Yeahbruh200 I believe there is free will in a certain sense, but not the type most claim, which is one in which we all control our own destinies. I don’t believe we have such power. On the contrary, we are powerless. I believe our paths in life are set but we are still the ones who walk them. I’m entirely responsible for the bad things in my life, but I don’t claim the good things as if they’re a result of me being special. I don’t have anyone to blame for the problems in my life, and I’m not blessed with good things because I deserved them or I’m better than the next person. It is only through God can I achieve anything and because of that, I am at his mercy.
If you are hot or a chad, you are settled for life in dating, and you won’t have to do almost anything. If you are cute, you can have success in dating, but you have to work on that, lookmax as much as you can. If you are ugly, dating is not for you unless you are rich or you have a high social status. This is just the truth, and ugly people need to realize it’s not their fault if they don’t have success in dating, don’t listen to bullshit advices about “working on yourself” when chads get chicks without doing absolutely nothing. Of course, if you are ugly it doesn’t mean your life is not worth it, your beauty will never determine your value as a human being, never. Knowing this only helps in you in understanding the dating world and to not fall to lies, which on the long term will make you feel miserable and sad. Know your worth even if women don’t like you, because you are worth.
men also care about looks they want them young and beautiful.. the attractive women get taken first the frumpy women go to the leftover men. the devil wears prada is a good example. simpson and delilah from the simpsons also prove this point. the Halo effect can create the Mathew effect. to hose who have much will be given to those who have not much will be taken. the episode DO ya think im sexy from married with children also is a good example.
I completely agree that everything in this video is the general rule, but there are exceptions and deviations that can be used to one’s advantage. Even if unlikely because of ones looks, there are some things at the right timing that can get you what you want. Being healthy, looksmaxxing as much as feels healthy, walking out there and not giving a fuck because of a perfect self concept, (unethical to abuse: power dynamics and other mental issues like daddy/mommy issues), are factors that little by little add up and gives you advantage. It’s true, Chads don’t have to do any of this, but there are (some) downsides to that. If they never have to push themselves, if they always get what they want before they even want it, how trully happy do you think they are? They are probably comfortable and soothed by a world that babies them by its delusion, but are they authentic? Do they know who they are? Maybe some. However with looksmaxxing and other maxxing one can to an extent select how they are perceived by the world, something that the Chads can’t do. Chad’s will always be perceived in only one way. Do you really think that being so predictable is attractive? Look who Monica Bellucci ended up being married with! What about Zendaya, who is taller than Tom Holland? Confidence might be perceived as arrogance if one is ugly, but I am almost certain that feeling secure in oneself is always perceived as attractive. People of all levels of attractiveness want the reassurance of being around someone secure in themselves. And does one need to be attractive to be secure? No. Being secure has nothing to do with attractiveness. To be secure it’s about will. You are secure because you decided you are. And there is nothing that could sway that once you make that decision. Still lookmaxxing will amplify this, but just want to make yall aware of the aura of security effect.
Looks are the cake, personality is the icing. If you have a great personality but awful looks nobody will even come close enough to you to see what you have to offer
Guys it's really simple. In life you gotta look at dating in this way, "Looks are the key to the door but personality locks it". If you do not understand this basically means that if you look good you will get numbers but it's your personality which keeps her from breaking up.
When you are 5 feet 4 you can't do anything about looks nor about personality you have to live like a zombie to complete your life journey on this damn planet.😭
Same here. The facts are the facts, if we were beautiful we wouldn’t be alone. Have you ever seen a beautiful person who was single for a good length of time? If you are like me, the answer is no. I just cope with it by keeping my mind busy with other things besides women.
Interesting video, I agree with most of what you're saying. Of course there are some exceptions to the norm. What do you think about autistics chads or chads with mental health issues? Do you think these chads are also successful with women?
hierarchy of how many laid one get sub5 < sub 7 < 8-10 Chad with mental disability < 8-10 Chad < Sub 5 women with mental disabilities < sub 5 women < sub 7 women < 8-10 Women
Most important is love. The feeling of wanting to be with that person. It goes for both genders. Men also discriminate against unattractive women. Hot guys in my college only date slim and attractive girls. They are even worse at this sin.
Most girls can be slim. This is a freaking FACT! I know unattractive (facially) women who go to the gym three times a week and can get more men than chad get a women. Most girls looking 4/10 with slim body and decent ass can get 7/10 guy. I have seen so many girls just putting on some leggins or skirt and getting guys out of the league. Women are lot more focused on looks than men. Men can be fine with below average girl who just takes care for herself. But women can't understand that. They can get a ons with a guy above their league - and refuse to date men on their level afterward. Women think that they can land the most attractive guy who they slept with. The fact is that they can't. But they live in denial
Looks and Personality must Go hand in hand Being Good looking but tyrannical wreak havoc Good Looking with Good Personality like Calm, Ambitious, Kind, Fearless, Decisive, Knowledgeable and Loving is better than Good Looking Killers, Murderers, Rapist, Scammers
Good for whom? You can put in the same club the first type of guys, and next to them the second ones. The handsome rapists would get more women than calm kind guy. Dream on and live in denial. WOmen pick a good looking guys first. DOesn't matter that they never commit. Most men are average. No most men are below average to most women. Pair up this with being kind and good - "he is too good to me", "hi is so sweet, but..." you will hear those more often than anything like "oh god - he is so kind, it's so hot". Kindness is not hot to women.
You summed it up: the better-looking you are, the more confident you are. And for me, I have missing teeth I need to get fixed, and I am losing my hair, so I need a hair transplant, and then I wouldn't mind getting plastic surgery to see if that improved my looks. Then I want to hit the gym and Moneymaxx so I can get Richer and stop being a fuckup in my twenties vi'm 25 and stil living at home. But I am not confident because of my hair and my teeth, and my height i am like 5'3 or 5'4 and I don't know how to be confident around women because I don't have the looks to back it up or the status like money to back up my confidence. According to a 2019 study by Georgetown University Medical Center "facial plastic surgery" can increase men's perceptions of attractiveness, likability, social skills and trustworthiness. The study also found that 84% of men surveyed believe that physical attractiveness contributes to success and power on the job.
Well... The part "There is no such thing as a UNIVERSALLY acknowledged personality" is not entirely true... :) It is, but only to some extent. The best proof is that there is such thing as "bad" and "good" characters in movies :) And it's there for a reason - people are generaly drawn to some personality characterisc and repulsed by others. HOWEVER, unfortunately, almost always "good guys" in movies are also HANDSOME... :D And it's THIS very combination that makes them stars, idols, hearthrobs and so on :)
Although most (but not all) assertions made in this video are true, the tonality of the script seems as if written by someone bitter, cynical, and jaded. Someone who seems to feel as if good looks are the secret to happiness. Newsflash: They’re not. Besides, what’s beautiful today is ordinary tomorrow, because looks fade . Beauty may not be egalitarian, but It’s only condition is temporary. A fleeting gift either randomly granted at birth or acquired through self discipline or surgery. Another thing to consider is that beauty doesn’t always equate to attractiveness. Some of the biggest sexual icons weren’t exactly paragons of beauty. Viewing beauty at such a superficial level is so shortsighted. Particularly if seen through the eyes of envy.
Actually, looks/height will determine marriage satisfacion, studies show this. in 99% of cases, being attractive will result in having a better life overall (happiness, job opportunities, partner satisfaction etc...)
Have you noted that whoever comes out of this "belief system" and see it from outside don't need arguments? Why? Because they are in the correct side, as dictated by the social masses. The norm is to believe that personality is what keep people interested, not looks; the norm is to be a delusional believer in societies dogmas. Assertions like "beauty is temporary" or "beauty not always equate attractiveness" are great examples, because, when critically analysed, you note 2 things: In the first assertion, the person assumed that the fact that beauty is not permanent, but temporary, makes the notion that beauty is important for sucess in life wrong, but that is a simplist and low effort "analysis"; the problem, as dictated by norms, is not that you can take advantage throughout your life off of your beauty, but that you can reproduce and live the best life you can, without much effort. You see? It is not a direct counter to the premise that looks are important, but a lazy way to deny it; the assertion 2 claim beauty not to be equal attractiveness, which is a error: beauty, in a normative way, is equals attractiveness. So, to sum it up: People don't need to analyse deeply about certain topics when they are in the society's side, they just need to use "common sense" to counter and, ironically, they are correct, because most people will find that a solid point, since it is "common sense"; common sense ≠ truth.
I look hideous, but babies don't start crying when they see me. They are just as curious of me as they are of better looking people. I think beauty standards are only dictated by the society, and we start subconsciously applying these standards to our own sense of beauty around the age of 3-8 years. For example, fairy tale cartoons and dolls (especially fashion/beauty centered ones) put a great emphasis on them.
I have a Question is this video about Game with women or to get a life long partner . Striving for Game is good for confidence but is it good in the sense that it's worth your life of 10 years to be striving just for game or do you want an actual good and moral experience trying to find a partner for life . I feel like the striving for game has started with FreshAndFit and Kai Cenat and Other "Influencers" . Having a partner that is trying to grow with you and live is much more rewarding than a partner designed just for sex appeal .
yea this was obvious even as a child, the attractive children got a lot more attention from the girls and the unattractive / weird ones were taunted by the girls lol, nothing from that changes, it is the same in adulthood.
You know what matters at life? Being a good person, having friends that care about you, not being so insecure about your looks. Family, health, personal goals, moral compass, compassion, optimism, spirituality and peace of mind are the things that are really important You really think handsome people are happier? Any expert will laugh at your face if you'll tell him that... why the guy that makes these goofy videos doesn't show his face? Reveal his actual life before preaching this dumb shit??? You think attractive people talk and think like this guy? Most of them not.
How do you work on your looks? I mean you can change diet and do exercise but that won't change your face with that. As a woman you can do make up, but thst doesn't change your physique much and it is not sustainable. Unless you have a lot of money to spend in surgery... So if you are poor and ugly that's it?? 🙁
It’s not that simple. Even the good doctors screw up on the simplest procedure. Getting a good result is based on luck, just like genetics. Of course your surgeon won’t tell you this. Also, if your surgeon subconsciously doesn’t like your face, you probably won’t get a good result. He will subconsciously think that you don’t deserve to be beautiful, especially if he is ugly, too (why should he make you beautiful?), so there will be little if any improvement. Life is more about the subconscious than the conscious mind. He’ll tell you that he did his best, though, and that you were expecting too much. It seems that ugly people are just destined to be ugly
True. Agree with you 1000%. Another fact which most people specifically men do not agree is that, a father's genes has a significant role in his offsprings. Won't say it is rare, but kids taking after their mother is not common like kids take after their father. When selection of mate happens, obviously women choose good looking men to have beautiful kids.
Not really, we are ruled by our biology, we have just been mislead with bluepill beliefs of personality. being a good person and all that nonesense when in reality only looks matter
First impression is mostly based on looks due to information scarcity, moreover brain works in a simplified way to save energy and/or due to laziness. So being shallow during first impression evaluation is human nature.
I've read on a blackpilled subreddit I'm in that even the Black ops 2 cel guy was able to get married or something like that. I might still have a chance.
Looks >>> personality
*looksonality and heightfidence
Cap
the better-looking you are, the more confident you are.
@@Marty_TH-camr Exactly. You can't have confidence if you've never been validated.
@EmperorBlud Actually you do need it you fool. The only way people get REAL confidence is by actually receiving positive feedback. Confidence comes with reality. If you're a 3/10 and have been told you're ugly you will never have real confidence.
Looks is the only thing that matters. Women don't give AF about anything else, unless they like ur looks first.
you have to be tall and handsome to mean anything for most women. You are invisible otherwise. Not to mention that you can't build confidence and learn how to not behave around woman yhou are attracted to if you aren't attractive. ok - you can but this will be crazy difficult
@@HCforLife1 facts
Says the incel, the guy who has never dated before
One hundred percent true. They don't care about anything else. They will often go with a guy just for money, but they will have chads on the side because they won't actually like him.
However, who really cares about what they want in the first place. They just don't matter in the long run. Never let it get you down because there just is not enough time to experience the endless facets of an adventurous and creative life.
@@wanderingsage-x4z true. ty!
Looksmaxx like your life depends on it boyos , because it does
FAX
You can do it.
Looksmax is just taking care of yourself right?
Literally, and not even just in dating but in having friends and job prospects
Looks maxxing can only take you so far
Look is the lock of the gates that is needed to even begin relationship. No looks no starting step.
Personality is only valued when the first lock is "unlocked" and you are attractive enough to be there.
Personality is a tool for attractive people to transform Short term relationship into a Long term.
cope
Absolutely correct.
Could even question what having a good personality even means?
If you beat your girlfriend up if she has any sense of self worth she will leave you. Looks matter alot no question there. @@renegade2853
Personality=Confidence. It just means the way you act according to who you believe you are and thus what value you assign to yourself. If looks determine your outcome in the world by positive feedback looping and you act more confident as a result of that, then it makes sense to conclude that looks=personality. So the better you look, the better your personality is going to be.
Anytime a woman says she likes an architect, engineer, doctor etc, attach the word "good looking" in front of those nouns.
THE MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION! WHY IS SOCIETY AFRAID TO RECOGNIZE THAT APPEARANCE IS VERY IMPORTANT?! ESPECIALLY IN THE DATING AREA!🤔
Because the dating world that is online or rather bigger cities or countries is just based on sex appeal rather than a long fulfilled partner . But ofc what you look for a partner is all up to you .
Dating is finished, and is a joke today.
@@neox9369 Dating is a joke in the west not entirely in the east
Because society knows that if they were to accept this truth, people would fall into deep depressions and won't be able to cope. People will say all the cliche things to protect their feelings and to avoid negative opinions. My opinion is to never bring up this topic with people. Life is already hard as is. Keep these truths to yourselves and move accordingly.
@@Desmutted there’s truth in this but the cancer is spreading slowly but surely
genetics = looks , Attractiveness = power , i keep saying that for years. In fact, beauty is more powerful than money !
beauty can get you money but not more powerful
Friends, I am ugly and poor and shy. Is this the reason why I am alone and single all my life, at 52 years old?
Not when it comes to women
@@orianogiorgetti6459ofc other factors are at play no one knows ur life, but yes, being ugly and shy is bad especially the shy part, you need both reversed for optimal living
Personality matters if you are attractive. If you are unattractive, then qualities such as confidence and charisma will of course give you a little more points, but for women you will be a clown friend. When women say they love confident guys, they're not lying. Chads and pretty boys are self-confident because throughout their lives, most people reacted positively to them. This created a positive feedback loop for them. For guys with an appearance score below 5, on the contrary, many reacted to them with indifference or even negatively. This created a negative feedback loop for them. I think that what we are talking about is very tragic and unfair! But we need to find a solution👍
Wrong. If you’re ugly, being confident and outgoing will make you seem narcissistic and annoying. The opposite is true for attractive people. This is called the halo effect.
The solution is fixing your facial/body flaws. That’s it reslly
I'be treated women like shit and still they do not seem to mind that because they're still showing sign of obsession as if their dignity does not matter at all. the same can't be said about a sub5 who mistreats a woman, she will gladly find that an excuse to get rid of that man who she is not attracted to. LOOKS MATTER
@@henrykwieniawski7233 I agree with you. And now I have taken this path. But at the same time, I understand that there are things that cannot be changed. Of course, you can increase your appearance level by 1-2 points. I believe that supporters of the black pill need to promote genetic engineering and transhumanism. After all, it is your genetics that determines your attractiveness.
@@amelwolf There are other factors like the place you were born (country) and the circumstances that sometimes determine the path of your life. this is far more complex than what it might seem, though.
its not only dating, its about everything. if youre beautiful youre percieved as kind. people will treat you better.
Inless you are basement dweller, then your looks is truly inimportant
If you're good looking but you look dangerous you will be looked at as a threat regardless, just look at the pretty boy thugs
JEREMY EVEN WAS SAVED FROM JAIL AND EARNS MILLIONS JUST FOR BEING HANDSOME AND NOBODY CARE THAT HE'S A CRIMINAL. FACIAL BEAUTY IS EVERYTHING.
When you are attractive morality can wait
im better looking than jeremy meeks and I got introuble with the police many times. him doing that means nothing he just got lucky
@@CringiestDab😂😂 who said you look better than jeremy
@@CringiestDab🧐🧐
@@CringiestDab Show pics or it's a lie.
Looks are so crucial, particularly for young men even more so than women despite what’s normally thought. it goes deeper even than just dating, you’re likelihood of finding work, earning, your quality of friendships and relationships at work/school, and much more are all partially or majorly dependent on your looks. If you’re a young man, DO NOT NEGLECT LOOKS, its a brutal world we live in.
Chad: "Only stupid people go to school."
Best comment i have ever seen 😂🤘
School is to brainwash the slaves
Brutally truthful video. I suggest every thinking person to start looksmaxxing today and the rest can cope with their personality bullshit
Looks is not only genetics but:
1) being Jacked and fit
2) Well groomed
3) Good skincare
4) Good facial hair or hairstyle
5) darker and defined eyebrows
6) Good jawline and white teeths
7) Good and masculine style
8) Good posture and open body language
Then work on communication and confidence.
It’s mostly genetics. If just doing these things made you handsome, then everyone would be doing it.
Don’t forget surgery
@@cgab12 not everyone do these things, they all talk about how ugly they are.
@@cgab12 ngl most of my friends dont go to the gym but i do plan to bring one of my friends but pls do remember that jacked is not for girls but better health because thats the same mindset i always put for. If i am jacked for woman then its a waste that you go to gym for that purpose.
Your looks ARE your personality to most people
Good looking person always has great personality because they are hardly depressed or have anxiety so they are very open cause they get better treatment
"HARD WORK IS FOR UGLY PPL!" 14:00 - wow had me cracked xD
We all have been guilty of this sin at some point of our lives. most “smart” guys in my school were sub5, they were either genetically defective like being too short, or just displayed any sign of congenital issue in their body or faces. the most commons between those genetic disgraces were for instance having a very recessed jawline, morbid obesity, buggy eyes, alopecia, hydrocephalus, achondroplasia, one of them have more than 8 congenital issues. and nowadays, they're forced to work more than 12 hours a day. they're social though but between their own species.
Lol
@@boratsagdiyev522fr
"between their own species" lmao XD
Looks are literally personality, if you are attractive, your subconscious mind itself create a personality like how you should act with whom or in different situations, i were ugly because of gaming too much not eating right and bad habits but i had height so i fixed things and now i have good personality and friends who are ignored me alot of times now are interested in me, previously they didn't become ofcourse I was fcking insecure so that is also why i got teeth aligners so i can talk and laugh freely. And if you see on social media or most successful people in 1-2 decades you will see all those people are attractive where ugly and abd average die playing games in basements and don't leave any legacy
So, they go hand in hand is what you are saying?
What blue pilled drivel is this.. its genetics buddy , stop coping.
Looks matters no matter what.
In this day and age, attractive people cannot say what they get away with; therefore, we never know the truth.
I HAVE ASPERGER'S SYNDROME AS A NORMIE SO I CAN'T GET SHIT AAAAA FUCK MEEEE
Skinwalkermaxxing is da way , you don’t need Normie social skills you just gotta be able to mimic them for long enough lol 💀
Good summary in a surprisingly encouraging manner … well health is another factor as well. Ironically I went full carnivore, lost weight and get decent looks. But here comes the kicker. I got promoted as a programmer . Even in highly technical areas looks still matter XD
As a girl who's experienced life on both ends of the spectrum, I unfortunately have to agree that looks are important. For example, if I'm slightly nice, people think I'm 10x nicer. Basically every positive adjective is applied 10x to you. If you're smart and participate in class, they'll think you're Einstein. I think this is why people say personality is important, because if you're good looking, your personality genuinely attracts people!! People will want to get to know you and think highly of you (even if you've only said a few words to them). People will assume your morals for you, give you more grace if you make mistakes, and people will want to impress you. Idk if there's a single downside I've experienced (yet). Being ugly was such a dehumanizing experience, at one point people I didn't even know would laugh when they saw me. I really hope I'm doing good treating everyone well!!
honestly as a guy same. i used to care a lot about how i looked a few years ago and would do everything in my power to look more attractive. everyone would treat me better. gave up looksmaxxing after that cuz it was honestly depressing
It’s basically
Face>Height>Body
And the formular is
Health=Good Looks , Good Looks= Good Quality of Life
Good looks=Halo effect
@@SEANGRAY1120
100% ,We live in a World of Vanity
height>face>body
@@deepyokan
Uhhm Hello? Brad Pitt? Tom Cruise? Johnny Depp?
@@Jadire keep coping, if you're short it's over. Women don't separate face from height, that's how they work, so stop denying the heightpill
I am sorry. I am woman. Do not include me on the same page of majority woman.
I will never say, personality matter. If ask, I always answer that LOOKS MATTER. LOOKS>>>personality.
Because, I know the pain of not being attractive.
Thank you for your sincerity. Thank you for being honest and showing empathy. Thank you for showing emotional intelligence. And on a spiritual level, my dear friend, thank you for existing. Namaste ♥
Genetics determine everything. It even determines how high you climb the corporate latter. The better looking and taller you are the more likely you are to be higher in business. It also determines how rich or poor, who you marry, what job you have.
Genes matter, looks matter.
@@jasonmuniz-contreras6630That's what I'm saying my nigga.
This is why pre-destination and self-fulfilling prophecy are entirely legit concepts. Mechanistically, if arguing cause and effect as the explanation for anything, you end up with a circular reference. It’s not because those attractive people did anything to be deemed attractive. They are attractive because they’re attractive. That’s why we shouldn’t desire for more, rather be gracious for what we have. The whole zero to hero and rags to riches concept is illusory and examples like that are wildly exceptional, yet everyone clings to them when they are akin to fantasies.
@@jchoi9340 I agree. I’m not one hundred percent sold on the deterministic philosophy, I believe in free will. However, that doesn’t mean genetics don’t play a role in your life for about 80 percent. Women literally find you attractive in the first 2 seconds, and it isn’t controllable. You can’t explain why you’re attracted to a certain person it just happens, and if you’re good looking that’s pretty easy for you. It’s like a spark happens right when a girl see’s you.
@@Yeahbruh200 I believe there is free will in a certain sense, but not the type most claim, which is one in which we all control our own destinies. I don’t believe we have such power. On the contrary, we are powerless. I believe our paths in life are set but we are still the ones who walk them. I’m entirely responsible for the bad things in my life, but I don’t claim the good things as if they’re a result of me being special. I don’t have anyone to blame for the problems in my life, and I’m not blessed with good things because I deserved them or I’m better than the next person. It is only through God can I achieve anything and because of that, I am at his mercy.
If you are hot or a chad, you are settled for life in dating, and you won’t have to do almost anything. If you are cute, you can have success in dating, but you have to work on that, lookmax as much as you can.
If you are ugly, dating is not for you unless you are rich or you have a high social status.
This is just the truth, and ugly people need to realize it’s not their fault if they don’t have success in dating, don’t listen to bullshit advices about “working on yourself” when chads get chicks without doing absolutely nothing.
Of course, if you are ugly it doesn’t mean your life is not worth it, your beauty will never determine your value as a human being, never.
Knowing this only helps in you in understanding the dating world and to not fall to lies, which on the long term will make you feel miserable and sad. Know your worth even if women don’t like you, because you are worth.
I dont need woman to love me because god's love beats the force of love itself
men also care about looks they want them young and beautiful.. the attractive women get taken first the frumpy women go to the leftover men. the devil wears prada is a good example. simpson and delilah from the simpsons also prove this point. the Halo effect can create the Mathew effect. to hose who have much will be given to those who have not much will be taken. the episode DO ya think im sexy from married with children also is a good example.
I completely agree that everything in this video is the general rule, but there are exceptions and deviations that can be used to one’s advantage. Even if unlikely because of ones looks, there are some things at the right timing that can get you what you want. Being healthy, looksmaxxing as much as feels healthy, walking out there and not giving a fuck because of a perfect self concept, (unethical to abuse: power dynamics and other mental issues like daddy/mommy issues), are factors that little by little add up and gives you advantage.
It’s true, Chads don’t have to do any of this, but there are (some) downsides to that. If they never have to push themselves, if they always get what they want before they even want it, how trully happy do you think they are? They are probably comfortable and soothed by a world that babies them by its delusion, but are they authentic? Do they know who they are? Maybe some.
However with looksmaxxing and other maxxing one can to an extent select how they are perceived by the world, something that the Chads can’t do. Chad’s will always be perceived in only one way. Do you really think that being so predictable is attractive?
Look who Monica Bellucci ended up being married with! What about Zendaya, who is taller than Tom Holland?
Confidence might be perceived as arrogance if one is ugly, but I am almost certain that feeling secure in oneself is always perceived as attractive.
People of all levels of attractiveness want the reassurance of being around someone secure in themselves.
And does one need to be attractive to be secure?
No.
Being secure has nothing to do with attractiveness. To be secure it’s about will.
You are secure because you decided you are. And there is nothing that could sway that once you make that decision.
Still lookmaxxing will amplify this, but just want to make yall aware of the aura of security effect.
Looks are the cake, personality is the icing. If you have a great personality but awful looks nobody will even come close enough to you to see what you have to offer
It's over.
Never begun
Guys it's really simple. In life you gotta look at dating in this way, "Looks are the key to the door but personality locks it". If you do not understand this basically means that if you look good you will get numbers but it's your personality which keeps her from breaking up.
Monogamy doesn't sound appealing to chads.
@FuckOuttaHere That doesn't necessarily imply they'll become monogamous.
Based
This video's narration is so right.
Testify! Testify! Testify!
An ugly guy who has been kind to everyone all his life - ignored
A handsome guy who went to jail - rich and famous
Life is unfair😂
When you are 5 feet 4 you can't do anything about looks nor about personality you have to live like a zombie to complete your life journey on this damn planet.😭
Great essay. First prize.. first prize.. first prize
Attractive people can get away with bad personality. Richard Ramirez was a terrible person but still girls simp for him.
Friends, I am ugly and poor and shy. Is this the reason why I am alone and single all my life, at 52 years old?
Same here. The facts are the facts, if we were beautiful we wouldn’t be alone. Have you ever seen a beautiful person who was single for a good length of time? If you are like me, the answer is no. I just cope with it by keeping my mind busy with other things besides women.
Yup. It's a global size club with automatically accepted involuntary members, including my dear self.
Interesting video, I agree with most of what you're saying. Of course there are some exceptions to the norm. What do you think about autistics chads or chads with mental health issues? Do you think these chads are also successful with women?
Yes chad is like a girl and girls are like guys in the sense that they are the ones chasing
hierarchy of how many laid one get
sub5 < sub 7 < 8-10 Chad with mental disability < 8-10 Chad < Sub 5 women with mental disabilities < sub 5 women < sub 7 women < 8-10 Women
Looks define personality
Most important is love. The feeling of wanting to be with that person. It goes for both genders. Men also discriminate against unattractive women. Hot guys in my college only date slim and attractive girls. They are even worse at this sin.
And love is based on looks.
Most girls can be slim. This is a freaking FACT! I know unattractive (facially) women who go to the gym three times a week and can get more men than chad get a women.
Most girls looking 4/10 with slim body and decent ass can get 7/10 guy. I have seen so many girls just putting on some leggins or skirt and getting guys out of the league.
Women are lot more focused on looks than men. Men can be fine with below average girl who just takes care for herself. But women can't understand that. They can get a ons with a guy above their league - and refuse to date men on their level afterward. Women think that they can land the most attractive guy who they slept with. The fact is that they can't. But they live in denial
Love only exists for attractive men.
Unattractive women would still not date us lol, because of simps and guys who think if they go for the ugly girl it will be easy
Love doesn't exist. It's a lie.
Looks and Personality must Go hand in hand
Being Good looking but tyrannical wreak havoc
Good Looking with Good Personality like Calm, Ambitious, Kind, Fearless, Decisive, Knowledgeable and Loving is better than Good Looking Killers, Murderers, Rapist, Scammers
Good for whom? You can put in the same club the first type of guys, and next to them the second ones. The handsome rapists would get more women than calm kind guy.
Dream on and live in denial. WOmen pick a good looking guys first. DOesn't matter that they never commit. Most men are average. No most men are below average to most women. Pair up this with being kind and good - "he is too good to me", "hi is so sweet, but..." you will hear those more often than anything like "oh god - he is so kind, it's so hot". Kindness is not hot to women.
Your looks create your personality
Richard Ramirez still had more female fans because he was good looking.
Men do the same don't they? Looks are everything!!
The other day I got gigamogged by a 5'7 chinese looking prince, he looked like an anime guy, the guy was a millionaire as well.
The guy obviously likes the expression "scientifically proven". It seems that science has become the new religion nowadays.
Its called facing reality, you can use real life too to know its facts
You summed it up: the better-looking you are, the more confident you are. And for me, I have missing teeth I need to get fixed, and I am losing my hair, so I need a hair transplant, and then I wouldn't mind getting plastic surgery to see if that improved my looks.
Then I want to hit the gym and Moneymaxx so I can get Richer and stop being a fuckup in my twenties vi'm 25 and stil living at home. But I am not confident because of my hair and my teeth, and my height i am like 5'3 or 5'4 and I don't know how to be confident around women because I don't have the looks to back it up or the status like money to back up my confidence.
According to a 2019 study by Georgetown University Medical Center
"facial plastic surgery" can increase men's perceptions of attractiveness, likability, social skills and trustworthiness. The study also found that 84% of men surveyed believe that physical attractiveness
contributes to success and power on the job.
Personality may be easier to fake than some aspects of looks
Who says "Don't judge the book by it's cover" is wrong???..It still exist till the end of times...🤔🤔🤔
Well... The part "There is no such thing as a UNIVERSALLY acknowledged personality" is not entirely true... :) It is, but only to some extent. The best proof is that there is such thing as "bad" and "good" characters in movies :) And it's there for a reason - people are generaly drawn to some personality characterisc and repulsed by others. HOWEVER, unfortunately, almost always "good guys" in movies are also HANDSOME... :D And it's THIS very combination that makes them stars, idols, hearthrobs and so on :)
Brilliant
Looks matter the most
PERSONALITY, PERSONALITY, PERSONALITY
Thats stuff about the Chads being smarter but avoiding hard work was eye opening. 😂
Although most (but not all) assertions made in this video are true, the tonality of the script seems as if written by someone bitter, cynical, and jaded. Someone who seems to feel as if good looks are the secret to happiness.
Newsflash: They’re not.
Besides, what’s beautiful today is ordinary tomorrow, because looks fade .
Beauty may not be egalitarian, but It’s only condition is temporary.
A fleeting gift either randomly granted at birth or acquired through self discipline or surgery.
Another thing to consider is that beauty doesn’t always equate to attractiveness. Some of the biggest sexual icons weren’t exactly paragons of beauty.
Viewing beauty at such a superficial level is so shortsighted.
Particularly if seen through the eyes of envy.
Actually, looks/height will determine marriage satisfacion, studies show this.
in 99% of cases, being attractive will result in having a better life overall (happiness, job opportunities, partner satisfaction etc...)
Have you noted that whoever comes out of this "belief system" and see it from outside don't need arguments? Why? Because they are in the correct side, as dictated by the social masses. The norm is to believe that personality is what keep people interested, not looks; the norm is to be a delusional believer in societies dogmas. Assertions like "beauty is temporary" or "beauty not always equate attractiveness" are great examples, because, when critically analysed, you note 2 things: In the first assertion, the person assumed that the fact that beauty is not permanent, but temporary, makes the notion that beauty is important for sucess in life wrong, but that is a simplist and low effort "analysis"; the problem, as dictated by norms, is not that you can take advantage throughout your life off of your beauty, but that you can reproduce and live the best life you can, without much effort. You see? It is not a direct counter to the premise that looks are important, but a lazy way to deny it; the assertion 2 claim beauty not to be equal attractiveness, which is a error: beauty, in a normative way, is equals attractiveness. So, to sum it up: People don't need to analyse deeply about certain topics when they are in the society's side, they just need to use "common sense" to counter and, ironically, they are correct, because most people will find that a solid point, since it is "common sense"; common sense ≠ truth.
I look hideous, but babies don't start crying when they see me. They are just as curious of me as they are of better looking people.
I think beauty standards are only dictated by the society, and we start subconsciously applying these standards to our own sense of beauty around the age of 3-8 years. For example, fairy tale cartoons and dolls (especially fashion/beauty centered ones) put a great emphasis on them.
LOoks isn't everything.
Its the only thing.
Perception biases also impact based on looks
Thank YOU
Just IMPROOV is what they tell you
I have a Question is this video about Game with women or to get a life long partner . Striving for Game is good for confidence but is it good in the sense that it's worth your life of 10 years to be striving just for game or do you want an actual good and moral experience trying to find a partner for life . I feel like the striving for game has started with FreshAndFit and Kai Cenat and Other "Influencers" . Having a partner that is trying to grow with you and live is much more rewarding than a partner designed just for sex appeal .
That's important too, just make sure she's not settling for you.
#luismiguel has everything good looks, great singing voice & natural charisma just like Elvis Presley
Constructive criticism for all content creators: Quit saying “without further adieu” at the beginning of your video.
who else high af rn
Of course society focuses more on looks. The Bible says this already that man looks on the outward appearance but God looks at the heart.
POV, kids finding out looks matter and they think they discovered something, everyone knows this
kids always know looks matter, thats why when sub5 comes near them they start crying out of nowhere
yea this was obvious even as a child, the attractive children got a lot more attention from the girls and the unattractive / weird ones were taunted by the girls lol, nothing from that changes, it is the same in adulthood.
Let us The ricecels begin!!!
You know what matters at life? Being a good person, having friends that care about you, not being so insecure about your looks. Family, health, personal goals, moral compass, compassion, optimism, spirituality and peace of mind are the things that are really important You really think handsome people are happier? Any expert will laugh at your face if you'll tell him that... why the guy that makes these goofy videos doesn't show his face? Reveal his actual life before preaching this dumb shit??? You think attractive people talk and think like this guy? Most of them not.
10:35 finally someone said that
How do you work on your looks? I mean you can change diet and do exercise but that won't change your face with that. As a woman you can do make up, but thst doesn't change your physique much and it is not sustainable. Unless you have a lot of money to spend in surgery... So if you are poor and ugly that's it?? 🙁
"you are not ugly you're just poor"
I’m getting plastic surgery
It’s not that simple. Even the good doctors screw up on the simplest procedure. Getting a good result is based on luck, just like genetics. Of course your surgeon won’t tell you this. Also, if your surgeon subconsciously doesn’t like your face, you probably won’t get a good result. He will subconsciously think that you don’t deserve to be beautiful, especially if he is ugly, too (why should he make you beautiful?), so there will be little if any improvement. Life is more about the subconscious than the conscious mind. He’ll tell you that he did his best, though, and that you were expecting too much. It seems that ugly people are just destined to be ugly
Looks don’t matter if you want to be friends
White girls never like me sadly
I guess the hot women in my city just don’t date, because I haven’t seen a true Chad around here in 20 years..
Then who is Google CEO 😂😂😂..is he attractive absolutely not 😂
The name of the person on the left ?
Looks matter to a point, and they fade overtime
Plastic surgery isn't a bad thing
good video but hate the ai robot voice
It’s over for pronunciation-cells
Agree with a lot of this but ... now what?
Looksmaxx, work hard, save hard, get surgery
Bruuuutal
Source: Trust me bro😎
high iq video very detailed
Only God cares about personality, humans care more about looks.
men like beautiful women, why surprised when the same happens to you? haha
True. Agree with you 1000%. Another fact which most people specifically men do not agree is that, a father's genes has a significant role in his offsprings. Won't say it is rare, but kids taking after their mother is not common like kids take after their father. When selection of mate happens, obviously women choose good looking men to have beautiful kids.
Amazing how shallow humans are
Not really, we are ruled by our biology, we have just been mislead with bluepill beliefs of personality. being a good person and all that nonesense when in reality only looks matter
@@Felix2011ylooks and personality matter. Both go hand in hand.
First impression is mostly based on looks due to information scarcity, moreover brain works in a simplified way to save energy and/or due to laziness. So being shallow during first impression evaluation is human nature.
@@Aknayros I agree that it is human nature. But educated and decent people are more likely to think beyond such primitive instincts
tl;dr: i'm ugly and i hate myself so you should too
You still have a chance bro.
yep !!!
❤
Gandy and the pale guy both have weird noses, thats were the similarities end...
It is not 50% 50%, more men are born than woman.
Is Donald Trump a chad?
He is food for gold diggers
Bro says he 6 ft 3 when hes no more than 5 ft 11
Looks matter see Wikipedia, jeremy meeks. Wow!!!!
We all know words can kill people inside😢 don't put video like this bro it's killing people 🙏
I've read on a blackpilled subreddit I'm in that even the Black ops 2 cel guy was able to get married or something like that. I might still have a chance.
Why yall always do this just get to the point
14:04 I guess Jeff Bezos is one of the exceptions
Personality lol lol anyway,that the lie women tell others lol lol lol
Looks are your personality lol
Sorry 😔😐💯
Broootal
Looks aren't important, ha ha ha ha what a bunch of b.s
They’re important to me, that’s how I know looks are important. I’d rather sit at home than go out with an ugly woman. I do a lot of sitting at home….