after seeing this video i have opened my eyes to see that are parents are more then some people that you live with i have realized that they love you and that you should put them in front of others. may Allah forgive me of when i have wronged them.
I feel sorry to my mom. I always do same thing to them. I always lost my control and talk bad to them when they cant give my needs. I thought i have learned my lessons before, but i did not. It always happen and ive made my mother cry for several times. I am so bad daughter. My mother really loves me and always give what they have. I love my mom so much. I dont know how to gain her forgiveness. Help me pls.
Download this video and watch it daily, if you feel you need more support then watch 2 to 3 times a day until you change completely from inside. Because these are the ayahs of Quran and the instructions and commands of Allah and we realize that he is superior to all the things and he is the God hence if listen to this video daily I hope we take some heed.
The reason you came here..is you feel sorry for your behavior... That’s enough prove that you’ll be able to be a good daughter..... May Allah bless you.
Just talk to her be honest say exactly what you wrote here And ask her to forgive you but you must become stronge and control your self .soon you feel you going to say anything which will upset your parents just leave the house or go to other room and don't come out for 10 minutes reflect with your self. You have to judge your self daily you must make progress. I pray for you Allah will help you to make great changes
Maybe when you feel anger, stay away from her. Go into your bedroom manage your anger properly. Ask protection from Allah, istighfar, wudhu, sit down, lie down. Reflect on situations, and try to think from her perspective too. We always focus one mistake that our parents’ve done, while forgeting the thousands of kindness they’ve done. It’s easier said than done but let’s do it together right 🥰 Pray for me too sis
An eye-opening video indeed. May Allah guide us all towards Jannah! And a big thumbs up for Nouman Ali Khan, you're doing an excellent job...May Allah keep you blessed :)
Thank you so much with this video. I was going through a lot. And I messed up my relationship with my family. But this video solved my problems in a glimpse. Alhumdulillah.
Masha Allah! I really need this right now with how my mother is behaving, and also my father, but my mother more. She is old and often really tests our patience, but it's only because she can't do all of the stuff that she used to do when she was younger and more physically capable of. It's not her fault at all, it's just time taking its toll on her body. I pray for Allah to show us patience and help us as well as her in becoming more humble and patient
this video really moves me. thank you so much. Alhamdulillah. May Allah SWT bless all of the people who involved in the presence of this video on youtube. aamiinn. :)
I must admit this has always been a difficult topic for me. My parents, in a lot of ways, never treated me the way Allah swt is telling me to treat them. But I am going to take his commands because I know that in the end of the day Allah knows whats best for me. Its just that its definitely one of those things I'm struggling with...Inshaallah one step at a time...
@@themissoumi3484 Remember how when we were babies, we didn’t appreciate anything that they did for us (changing diapers, staying up all night when we were sick etc), our smile and happy face was enough for them. That’s how we’re supposed to think about them and Allah SWT will bless us
I keep arguing with my mom I am working on finding a way to change it. I feel I am going to go to jahanam over it I am weak on this I can’t bring up Islam or she insults me it’s hard but possible I love you allah
Salam bro, I used to do the same with my parents but Alhumdolilla not any more due to my children and they are disrespectful with me and realized how was I with my parents. So Alhumdolilla I have never disrespectful to them.. I saw one of the guy in our work place and he was lying to parents that he had no job and can't send money but he would spend on his wife and children's. One day I sit down with him and told him that the book ,that you write ,your kids will read it for you. Please be respectful to them and your kids will do it to you automatically. Wasalam
Try always listening to lectures. Read up and increase your knowledge. Ask Allah for patience. I gave my mum hell as a teenager but once I became a Muslim I told my parents to see how I treat them. Alhamdulillah they are proud of me now ma sha Allah.
We have just launched a video explaining the link between "ihsaan with parents", "Shirk" and "Haraam". Please feel free to watch the video using the link below, and let me know if you learnt something new: th-cam.com/video/pXckFJzXzI8/w-d-xo.html
Download this video and watch it daily, if you feel you need more support then watch 2 to 3 times a day until you change completely from inside. Because these are the ayahs of Quran and the instructions and commands of Allah and we realize that he is superior to all the things and he is the God hence if listen to this video daily I hope we take some heed.
I have misbehaved with my parents so many times... it is unimaginable how bad i misbehaved.. I messed around with them without even realising ...yet every time I pray I always pray for them and then again when my parents be like yelling at me for some reason I misbehave with them .. I feel so sorry now and I hope I stop behaving like I use to before .. o lord pls forgive me..and bless my parents long life and give me time to humble my self to them and give them happiness once they did to me when I was little... may allah bless us all inshAllah
Assalamualiakum, I am a Muslim teen and so inspired by his lectures and bi idhnillah trying and striving to be a better one. I noticed on 4:57 Uzthadh Nouman said Fa Ammal ya tima fala Tanhar . I feel that he is referring to sourate ad-duha which says Fa ammal yatima fala Taqhar. If anyone could double confirm this it'd be great! Jazakallah khairan.
Salam After watching this video, i realised how much a bad person , a bad daughter i am !!!! Always my friends and my parent's friends praise me for the way i am, but right now i have understand that i need to do lots of good things to be a nice person especially begining with respecting my parents! All those thing that you said were right! I do all these!! When they call me i feel angry (for no reason). I really don't understand sometimes why i am so much uncomfortable with my own parents and confortale (and good) with others ? Even being so rude and "disrespectful" with them .... they still love me a lots and try always to make me happy. I have some bitter past but still these are actually nothing in front of they love. I hope Allah will forgive me .... for today i promise to give my 100 % to be nice to my parents (speciallly to my mum who sacrified lots of things). (will Allah forgive me?). Ameen
assalamualaikum ,,, I know v should respect our parents come what may ,,, I love ma parents , buh the problem is that they are always rude to me , not only me buh to my siblings too , they always tell us that they want us to be on right path , n I understand that , buh their way of saying is not good at all , they always shout on us like do this ,do that ,n all ,,which makes us furious , and because of that v do not deal with them in proper way ,even I tried lot to b humble n soft buh it's,the who don't let me b so ,, now plz tell me any solution to come out from it , n how can I tolerate their shouts n how can I be humble to them , I really want to b a good child to ma parents
Allah is kind, He forgives all sins as long as you do not commit shirk and ask for true forgiveness. And always ask your parents to forgive you, tell them you are sorry and striving hard to be better!
@@cooking1st he will forgive shirk but only in this life, once you die you cannot ask for forgiveness for shirk or any other sin u committed in this dunya.. Your mates/sons/daughters can ask forgiveness on your behalf.. ASSALAMUALAIKUM
Uff Allah, islam gives so many rights to parents, we as Muslims should really really think twice before messing this relationship no matter what the circumstances
MashAllah !!! I really appreciate His teaching... it's always logical & easy to get. SubhanAllah. Moses spoke many times with Allah SWT, but the last time He spoke He asked Allah SWT to give Him some unique instruction. The Almighty said, "O... Moses if Your parents are pleased with You, I will be pleased at You too." 'Jazak Allahu Khair'n'
Am not the type of people who r always angry i tent to keep it in check when it comes to my parents. Since am human there r times i slip and increase my voice to my mom but wallahi i feel guilty after doing it i go up to mom and ask her forgivness and apolagise. If i do something wrong to my mom this thoughts comes rushing to my head saying if ur mom dies today after the inccident how will the effect my life. So i make sure i kiss her goodnight and as her forgivness and then allah's forgivness
Please make dua for me and every other brother like me, I am not a good son and I want to be better to my parents and I kno im a bad guy but i just wanna change insh'Allah cos i know thts not how my parents raised me.... I pray that i become better and insh'Allah every other brother aswell. i just feel so sad , i must turn to Allah
Jazakillah khayran khatira for uploading these videos. Shared this with my kid brother. Am studying overseas so he's all alone at home w my parents. Plays too much games! haha. Intend to watch one vid every week w him. Inshallah it'll benefit us both :)
i just love this man,,, from every single angle of he speaks, acts , explaining, delivering , n so much more ... i wish to marry this kind type of man in shaa Allah ... may Allah rewards you with much more than u ever expected... love you brother ... =)
Beautiful speech, May ALLAH all might bless you and your parents here and life after. I have just shown your video to my 15 year old son , who had an argument with his mother last night , after watching this video he felt sorry for his attitude and decided to apologize his mother. May ALLAH give you jaza and more capability and effectiveness in your speech so the kids get proper guidance from your videos Many thanks
They give you unconditional love and expect nothing in return Even if they aren’t the best always They’re people too and I think we forget that our parents are people they don’t want to do things they still do it Now you do it too It’s a beautiful thing if you can step back from the day to day problems and routine and appreciate it
Love your mom because she has been a wonderful mother she has always loved you every day your mother cook for you if you love your mom she will love you too.
Jajhakallah Khair brother. May Allah reward you with the best. That was a wonderful explanation. I've never thought of that Ayaat like this before. I now realize how arrogant and rude my behavior is when it comes to my parents, specially my mother. May Allah give me patience and help me behave more politely with my parents.
I have pressed dislike. eventhough i am a big supporter of brother nouman Ali khan. Eventhough the video hold truth. it is very one sided. it seems in many muslim cultures theer is extreme emphasis on obedience to parents. this reality cannot be ignored. i feel people confuse showing mercy and being kid tio your parents is very much confused with obedience to extreme interfering with (adult) childerens life. childeren should be mercyfull to the perents. and can never repay them. how ever this should not obey the door for abuse of unreasonable demands and interfering. There are so many stories of childerend well in their 30-ties, still feel obliged to obey their parents for none sense. or some times even to suffer from their fysical, verbal abuse. both sides of the story should be be presented.
@@c-baazb5668 Being a child is something and being adult is another. Once you grow up you balance your life and put parent at a place of respect meanwhile you deal with your life. Respecting your parents doesn't mean to let them decide for your life choices. Being good doesn't mean to be under their control all the time. Grow up
please sheik advice us how to be around abusive parents. how to protect our self and been emotionaly abused,we can't function properly with our own life nd family. there are lack of topic regarding abusive parents, we need ur help.😢
Download this video and watch it daily, if you feel you need more support then watch 2 to 3 times a day until you change completely from inside. Because these are the ayahs of Quran and the instructions and commands of Allah and we realize that he is superior to all the things and he is the God hence if listen to this video daily I hope we take some heed.
Will someone ever be forgiven for majorly disrespecting their parents? What if one day that person wanted to change his life around and become the best Muslim?
GamerzDailyFix If you sincerly make tawbah and prove to them that you are sorry for everything and be the best you can be. Then there is a big chanse yes.
The one who feels repentance and regret and seeks Allah's forgiveness with pure heart Allah says I forgive him/her even if he or she commited adultery or stole. So always remember that Allah is so merciful to his creatures.
I can honestly just cry and cry....this is the saddest topic ever. The many times I have said bad things to my parents, the many times I didn't use good speech. Ya Rabi forgive me and let them live long enough so that I can give them their rights and treat them well. Ya Rab let me be near them until they die, so that I can show them mercy and love and please them and please You ya Rab. Allahuma Ameen.
The most and always thinking of which rights I am are the rights of parents. I am always in fear about the default in it. May Allah may Allah give us more and more strength to fulfill these rights. Ameen.
It's extremely hard for me to say sorry to my parent about the bad behavior i showed to them when i was a teenager. I cry almost every night thinking about what i would say to them in the morning and ask for forgiveness but i just don't have the courage to talk to them about this topic without crying. Even I'm crying right now. I know i was bad but i just can't go and show my emotions. Please let me know if I'm truely sorry , do i still need to ask them for forgiveness?
Zehra Abid i think changing your behavior for the good with them is the best apology they can have ! Apologies don’t have to be in words , actions speak louder! all the love for you and your family 🌹
Zahra Abid u know what? same situation with me I also can't say sorry or express my emotions bcoz these words like sorry or I love you are not in use in my home seriously! and I am really scared that what will happen with me in the day of judgment💔
Subhan'Allah. I feel so bad and I feel like crying so much and I already am now. I was being so rude and mean to my parents, but that is so Haram in Islam. I will never do it again and In'Sha'Allah Allah SWT will forgive our parents and us. I will change forever now, Jazakhulakharan. In'Sha'Allah I will be a much better Muslim, and I will change In'Sha'Allah. I will never do this again. Ameen 🤲🕌🕋☪️
Alhamdulilah.I have never ever a single day disobeyed my parents and Thanks to Allah for all of these. by Allah I nver left home without their knowledge and never went to bed without their knowledge.Allah is my witness. yaa Allah grant all our parents Jannah
To all those who are in guilt after wronging their parents...just undo it by praying for them , seek forguveness for them and give charity on their name.
Still you need to respect and humble to them even though they are not Muslims. You need to DUA for them, Allah show them right path. Keep on praying InshaAllah Allah with grant them with Imaan.
I have to say this is one really hard task. My father is a person that naturally gets away from his family, he feels bored with family meetings.. and when he is with us so many times says hurtful things specially to my mom...as I grew up unfortunately I became so cold to him, I am not necessarily mean, I don't speak bad to him... but I am unable to be close to him...I am really sad that my dad always constatly hurts me... whenever he shouts at me I don't argue back ever, I just cry hided
My mom is always so harsh on me always makes me feel crazy , sometimes I just can't stop myself from yelling back at her and getting angry , I try my best to be good to her but she just doesn't let me
Salaam to Sheikh Nouman Saheb, for the speech. To the point and accurate, such that it should be an eye opener for those who want their Lord Allah Subhaana Wata Aala to be lenient and merciful on them, on The Day of Judgement, where everything a person or Jinn did, will be looked at by Allah Almighty in very fine details! I'd hate to be the ONE who mistreated or hurt his or her parents, as Allah's wrath will be upon those individuals who caused grief to their PARENT'S! Sheikh Mohammed Yasin of Bolton
@Flowerofdesert1 he seems to be a very good man and father, ALLAH knows the best, and I too love what he reprisents. Very up to date, easy for our youth to relate too topics and way of speach. MashaALLAH brother you are doing a great job inshaALLAH. may ALLAH grant us all spouses that will be good to us and our Iman and may ALLAH make us vessels for them to reach higher levels of Jannah.
brother nouan jazak Allah realli very beautiful...nd ur tilawaaah ....jazak Allah once again...:) ALLAH HAMDULILAH im a MUSLIM...nd realli very proud to To be...nd want TO DIE AS A MUSLIMMMM YA RAAABBB....Ameeen
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Wow! I'm not even a Muslim, and I have a tonne to learn from this.
my keyboard is covered in tears, subhanallah everything i shouldnt do.. i did. may all grant me the tawfig and understanding to correct myself.
after seeing this video i have opened my eyes to see that are parents are more then some people that you live with i have realized that they love you and that you should put them in front of others. may Allah forgive me of when i have wronged them.
Shukran.
JAZAAKALLAAHUL KHEYRUL JAZAA.
I feel sorry to my mom. I always do same thing to them. I always lost my control and talk bad to them when they cant give my needs. I thought i have learned my lessons before, but i did not. It always happen and ive made my mother cry for several times. I am so bad daughter. My mother really loves me and always give what they have. I love my mom so much. I dont know how to gain her forgiveness. Help me pls.
Download this video and watch it daily, if you feel you need more support then watch 2 to 3 times a day until you change completely from inside. Because these are the ayahs of Quran and the instructions and commands of Allah and we realize that he is superior to all the things and he is the God hence if listen to this video daily I hope we take some heed.
The reason you came here..is you feel sorry for your behavior... That’s enough prove that you’ll be able to be a good daughter..... May Allah bless you.
Maybe try to not be rude and not to raise your voice because without your mum you wouldnt be where ever you are 👍 its not hard to not shout
Just talk to her be honest say exactly what you wrote here
And ask her to forgive you but you must become stronge and control your self .soon you feel you going to say anything which will upset your parents just leave the house or go to other room and don't come out for 10 minutes reflect with your self. You have to judge your self daily you must make progress.
I pray for you Allah will help you to make great changes
Maybe when you feel anger, stay away from her. Go into your bedroom manage your anger properly. Ask protection from Allah, istighfar, wudhu, sit down, lie down. Reflect on situations, and try to think from her perspective too. We always focus one mistake that our parents’ve done, while forgeting the thousands of kindness they’ve done. It’s easier said than done but let’s do it together right 🥰 Pray for me too sis
May Allah grant you the highest level of paradise Brother Nouman!
Mashallah...no mater how many times I listen to this, it acts like a powerful reminder everytime.
This really shows me the real people in your life that care about u. Thank you
An eye-opening video indeed. May Allah guide us all towards Jannah! And a big thumbs up for Nouman Ali Khan, you're doing an excellent job...May Allah keep you blessed :)
Thank you so much with this video. I was going through a lot. And I messed up my relationship with my family. But this video solved my problems in a glimpse. Alhumdulillah.
Masha Allah! I really need this right now with how my mother is behaving, and also my father, but my mother more. She is old and often really tests our patience, but it's only because she can't do all of the stuff that she used to do when she was younger and more physically capable of. It's not her fault at all, it's just time taking its toll on her body. I pray for Allah to show us patience and help us as well as her in becoming more humble and patient
this video really moves me. thank you so much. Alhamdulillah. May Allah SWT bless all of the people who involved in the presence of this video on youtube. aamiinn. :)
What a heartfelt message! Thanks for this powerful reminder about our parents.
❤
Such a good video
My parents mean the world to me words can't describe how much I love them Alhamdulillah for the most amazing parents ever!
"If I was at your house I will break your TV" this shows how serious Nouman is about it. Kudos
Subhanalah, Jazakalahu kaira for spreading this message. May Allah give you the power to keep making more videos like this.Ameen!
I must admit this has always been a difficult topic for me. My parents, in a lot of ways, never treated me the way Allah swt is telling me to treat them. But I am going to take his commands because I know that in the end of the day Allah knows whats best for me. Its just that its definitely one of those things I'm struggling with...Inshaallah one step at a time...
SAME SITUATION! They don't approciate me at all, what's the solution for this?
@@themissoumi3484 still respect them and reap the rewards on the day of judgdement
@@themissoumi3484 Remember how when we were babies, we didn’t appreciate anything that they did for us (changing diapers, staying up all night when we were sick etc), our smile and happy face was enough for them. That’s how we’re supposed to think about them and Allah SWT will bless us
. مَنك😅
wow this really put a turn in my head about me doing all those things i shouldn't say or do to my parents thanks a lot .
Salam brother .
Rabbi irhumma kama rabyaina sagirah.Ameen!!
thank you very much!!!!!!!!may Allah bless you uncle
Excellent
ماشاءالله تبارک الرحمٰن ، جَزَاکَ اللہُ خَیراً وَ اَحسَنَ الجَزاء
keep going we all support you.
I keep arguing with my mom I am working on finding a way to change it. I feel I am going to go to jahanam over it I am weak on this I can’t bring up Islam or she insults me it’s hard but possible I love you allah
Salam bro,
I used to do the same with my parents but Alhumdolilla not any more due to my children and they are disrespectful with me and realized how was I with my parents.
So Alhumdolilla I have never disrespectful to them..
I saw one of the guy in our work place and he was lying to parents that he had no job and can't send money but he would spend on his wife and children's.
One day I sit down with him and told him that the book ,that you write ,your kids will read it for you.
Please be respectful to them and your kids will do it to you automatically.
Wasalam
Try always listening to lectures. Read up and increase your knowledge. Ask Allah for patience. I gave my mum hell as a teenager but once I became a Muslim I told my parents to see how I treat them. Alhamdulillah they are proud of me now ma sha Allah.
Same
We have just launched a video explaining the link between "ihsaan with parents", "Shirk" and "Haraam". Please feel free to watch the video using the link below, and let me know if you learnt something new:
th-cam.com/video/pXckFJzXzI8/w-d-xo.html
Download this video and watch it daily, if you feel you need more support then watch 2 to 3 times a day until you change completely from inside. Because these are the ayahs of Quran and the instructions and commands of Allah and we realize that he is superior to all the things and he is the God hence if listen to this video daily I hope we take some heed.
Mash'allah. You really make me realize and help me through this process of change i am going through. Subhan'Allah
May Allah guide those who are rude to their parents ameen 🤲😭
I have misbehaved with my parents so many times... it is unimaginable how bad i misbehaved.. I messed around with them without even realising ...yet every time I pray I always pray for them and then again when my parents be like yelling at me for some reason I misbehave with them .. I feel so sorry now and I hope I stop behaving like I use to before .. o lord pls forgive me..and bless my parents long life and give me time to humble my self to them and give them happiness once they did to me when I was little... may allah bless us all inshAllah
how beautiful is our deen :)
I used to think it didn't matter what I say to my parents but now I know
what a beautiful lesson
Assalamualiakum, I am a Muslim teen and so inspired by his lectures and bi idhnillah trying and striving to be a better one. I noticed on 4:57 Uzthadh Nouman said Fa Ammal ya tima fala Tanhar . I feel that he is referring to sourate ad-duha which says Fa ammal yatima fala Taqhar. If anyone could double confirm this it'd be great! Jazakallah khairan.
wa alaykum as salam. Yeah, that's surah ad-duha. It means therefore don't repeal the orphan ;)
he is very positive . god bless him. I HAVE LEARNT A LOT FROM HIM .
Subhan Allah. My 7 year old son said that you are a very nice man. Allah bless you. May we get to know our deen as you. Amin
Jaza k Allah khair.. So Simple & So Important,,,,,
May Allah bless Nouman to keep continuing such teachings,, really great.. Masha Allah!!!
Salam
After watching this video, i realised how much a bad person , a bad daughter i am !!!! Always my friends and my parent's friends praise me for the way i am, but right now i have understand that i need to do lots of good things to be a nice person especially begining with respecting my parents! All those thing that you said were right! I do all these!! When they call me i feel angry (for no reason). I really don't understand sometimes why i am so much uncomfortable with my own parents and confortale (and good) with others ?
Even being so rude and "disrespectful" with them .... they still love me a lots and try always to make me happy. I have some bitter past but still these are actually nothing in front of they love.
I hope Allah will forgive me .... for today i promise to give my 100 % to be nice to my parents (speciallly to my mum who sacrified lots of things).
(will Allah forgive me?).
Ameen
shah watch this video too, you will cry, /watch?v=CXGCiAA7N5s
assalamualaikum ,,, I know v should respect our parents come what may ,,, I love ma parents , buh the problem is that they are always rude to me , not only me buh to my siblings too , they always tell us that they want us to be on right path , n I understand that , buh their way of saying is not good at all , they always shout on us like do this ,do that ,n all ,,which makes us furious , and because of that v do not deal with them in proper way ,even I tried lot to b humble n soft buh it's,the who don't let me b so ,, now plz tell me any solution to come out from it , n how can I tolerate their shouts n how can I be humble to them , I really want to b a good child to ma parents
Allah is kind, He forgives all sins as long as you do not commit shirk and ask for true forgiveness. And always ask your parents to forgive you, tell them you are sorry and striving hard to be better!
@@cooking1st he will forgive shirk but only in this life, once you die you cannot ask for forgiveness for shirk or any other sin u committed in this dunya..
Your mates/sons/daughters can ask forgiveness on your behalf..
ASSALAMUALAIKUM
@@Adnan_Khan__111 yes I totally agree.
I love my mom and dad there so nice to me
Mashallah
Mashallah!
Mashallah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mashallah!!!!
Mashallah :)
Uff Allah, islam gives so many rights to parents, we as Muslims should really really think twice before messing this relationship no matter what the circumstances
i really need allah's mercy
i'm going to cry when i hear this video.
may Allah guide us to His mercy and be our best to our parent.
MashAllah !!! I really appreciate His teaching... it's always logical & easy to get. SubhanAllah. Moses spoke many times with Allah SWT, but the last time He spoke He asked Allah SWT to give Him some unique instruction. The Almighty said, "O... Moses if Your parents are pleased with You, I will be pleased at You too." 'Jazak Allahu Khair'n'
Ma sha allah..very well explained . May allah (swt) bless them with the highest reward of jannah .
How could you 'not like' this video.. Or at least the message of it. Unbelievable subhana'allah
aamiinn . i will always respect my lovely parents.
Am not the type of people who r always angry i tent to keep it in check when it comes to my parents. Since am human there r times i slip and increase my voice to my mom but wallahi i feel guilty after doing it i go up to mom and ask her forgivness and apolagise. If i do something wrong to my mom this thoughts comes rushing to my head saying if ur mom dies today after the inccident how will the effect my life. So i make sure i kiss her goodnight and as her forgivness and then allah's forgivness
chocolate ADAM546463GF4D3HDS43H very correct and inspireing
same my brother.
We can even give them a massage on feet every night really helps them 😊 ALHAMDULILLAH
Please make dua for me and every other brother like me, I am not a good son and I want to be better to my parents and I kno im a bad guy but i just wanna change insh'Allah cos i know thts not how my parents raised me.... I pray that i become better and insh'Allah every other brother aswell. i just feel so sad , i must turn to Allah
Jazakillah khayran khatira for uploading these videos. Shared this with my kid brother. Am studying overseas so he's all alone at home w my parents. Plays too much games! haha. Intend to watch one vid every week w him. Inshallah it'll benefit us both :)
Ma Sha Allah...respect from India✨
subhanallah,may allah give us all the tawfiq to serve our parents the best we could...............
i just love this man,,, from every single angle of he speaks, acts , explaining, delivering , n so much more ...
i wish to marry this kind type of man in shaa Allah ...
may Allah rewards you with much more than u ever expected...
love you brother ... =)
This is a big struggle of mine. InshAllah I will learn to catch myself slipping, before I make the same mistake.
MashAllah amazing video. May Allah SWT bless us & our Parents & the people who made such an amazing short eye opening clip.salam brothers :]
Beautiful speech, May ALLAH all might bless you and your parents here and life after. I have just shown your video to my 15 year old son , who had an argument with his mother last night , after watching this video he felt sorry for his attitude and decided to apologize his mother. May ALLAH give you jaza and more capability and effectiveness in your speech so the kids get proper guidance from your videos
Many thanks
I really need to always have this in mind!
They give you unconditional love and expect nothing in return
Even if they aren’t the best always
They’re people too and I think we forget that our parents are people they don’t want to do things they still do it
Now you do it too
It’s a beautiful thing if you can step back from the day to day problems and routine and appreciate it
"If I was at your house I would break your TV"
Nouman brother I love your speech :D
I feel so guilty :( May Allah forgive and guide us all. Ameen.
Ameen
MashAllah amazing video and i feel so gulity for the way i have treated my parents and after what they have been through for me may Allah forgive me
Jazak Allah 1000 Khare "thankyou"
its scary how this affects me so much i will try to be better for my parents
Jazak Allahu Khair dear Shaikh for this. May Allah bless you
Jazakallah (jzk) for this really good and helpful video! Its so inspiring and inshallah it helps us all to improve
Love your mom because she has been a wonderful mother she has always loved you every day your mother cook for you if you love your mom she will love you too.
Thank you soo much.for you the tips🥰🥰🥰
Jajhakallah Khair brother.
May Allah reward you with the best.
That was a wonderful explanation. I've never thought of that Ayaat like this before.
I now realize how arrogant and rude my behavior is when it comes to my parents, specially my mother.
May Allah give me patience and help me behave more politely with my parents.
Every parents love their children unconditionally..with out any expectations.. .
Can't believe 46 people have unliked a video that is SO TRUE. May Allah forgive us. Ameen!
Miraal Asim
I have pressed dislike. eventhough i am a big supporter of brother nouman Ali khan.
Eventhough the video hold truth. it is very one sided. it seems in many muslim cultures theer is extreme emphasis on obedience to parents. this reality cannot be ignored.
i feel people confuse showing mercy and being kid tio your parents is very much confused with obedience to extreme interfering with (adult) childerens life.
childeren should be mercyfull to the perents. and can never repay them. how ever this should not obey the door for abuse of unreasonable demands and interfering.
There are so many stories of childerend well in their 30-ties, still feel obliged to obey their parents for none sense. or some times even to suffer from their fysical, verbal abuse. both sides of the story should be be presented.
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Being a child is something and being adult is another. Once you grow up you balance your life and put parent at a place of respect meanwhile you deal with your life. Respecting your parents doesn't mean to let them decide for your life choices. Being good doesn't mean to be under their control all the time. Grow up
@@c-baazb5668 you are mad
Its 84 now...
>:( HOW DARE THEY
please sheik advice us how to be around abusive parents. how to protect our self and been emotionaly abused,we can't function properly with our own life nd family. there are lack of topic regarding abusive parents, we need ur help.😢
Intrepid Ca He talks about that in this video : th-cam.com/video/vaEMNx7a1bY/w-d-xo.html
Check it out. Hope it's not too late :)
Pray for them
Download this video and watch it daily, if you feel you need more support then watch 2 to 3 times a day until you change completely from inside. Because these are the ayahs of Quran and the instructions and commands of Allah and we realize that he is superior to all the things and he is the God hence if listen to this video daily I hope we take some heed.
May Allah bless you ustadh Khan and your family abundantly!
Masha'Allah beautiful reminder
Will someone ever be forgiven for majorly disrespecting their parents? What if one day that person wanted to change his life around and become the best Muslim?
GamerzDailyFix If you sincerly make tawbah and prove to them that you are sorry for everything and be the best you can be. Then there is a big chanse yes.
The one who feels repentance and regret and seeks Allah's forgiveness with pure heart Allah says I forgive him/her even if he or she commited adultery or stole. So always remember that Allah is so merciful to his creatures.
Thank you for the video. I show this to my children.
Machalla Jazakallah khayran, May god rewards you inchallah 🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽
I can honestly just cry and cry....this is the saddest topic ever. The many times I have said bad things to my parents, the many times I didn't use good speech.
Ya Rabi forgive me and let them live long enough so that I can give them their rights and treat them well. Ya Rab let me be near them until they die, so that I can show them mercy and love and please them and please You ya Rab. Allahuma Ameen.
The most and always thinking of which rights I am are the rights of parents. I am always in fear about the default in it. May Allah may Allah give us more and more strength to fulfill these rights. Ameen.
It's extremely hard for me to say sorry to my parent about the bad behavior i showed to them when i was a teenager. I cry almost every night thinking about what i would say to them in the morning and ask for forgiveness but i just don't have the courage to talk to them about this topic without crying. Even I'm crying right now. I know i was bad but i just can't go and show my emotions. Please let me know if I'm truely sorry , do i still need to ask them for forgiveness?
Zehra Abid u have to
Zehra Abid i think changing your behavior for the good with them is the best apology they can have ! Apologies don’t have to be in words , actions speak louder!
all the love for you and your family 🌹
Even I've that same problem I can't just say sorry to my father I used to dishurt him
Ali Ahmed Bro me too man I feel so bad ffs and they do so much for me as much as they can yet im so ungrateful
Zahra Abid u know what? same situation with me I also can't say sorry or express my emotions bcoz these words like sorry or I love you are not in use in my home seriously! and I am really scared that what will happen with me in the day of judgment💔
He is 100 percent right ❤🕌🕋
Subhan'Allah. I feel so bad and I feel like crying so much and I already am now. I was being so rude and mean to my parents, but that is so Haram in Islam. I will never do it again and In'Sha'Allah Allah SWT will forgive our parents and us. I will change forever now, Jazakhulakharan. In'Sha'Allah I will be a much better Muslim, and I will change In'Sha'Allah. I will never do this again. Ameen 🤲🕌🕋☪️
MashAllah brother jazakhallah khair for the guidance
jazakAllah! amazing vid! may Allah bless and reward you for your efforts inshAllah
Jazak ALLAH 🌹
Alhamdulilah.I have never ever a single day disobeyed my parents and Thanks to Allah for all of these.
by Allah I nver left home without their knowledge and never went to bed without their knowledge.Allah is my witness.
yaa Allah grant all our parents Jannah
Brother, those last words: if you want Allah to show you mercy, you show them mercy.
Now that's so beautiful, MashaAllah ♥️
To all those who are in guilt after wronging their parents...just undo it by praying for them , seek forguveness for them and give charity on their name.
Salam. Brother you are good for us!! May Allah reward you much. Ws.
Allah will grant us goodness inshallah
Thank u Sir.. this i hope can teach my teenage May Allah give him hidaayah and me patience Ameen
Wallahi, U r super!!!!
My parents, Alhamdulilah!
Jazak Allah kulaa khaire
Still you need to respect and humble to them even though they are not Muslims. You need to DUA for them, Allah show them right path. Keep on praying InshaAllah Allah with grant them with Imaan.
really.... wonderful ..so heart touching..
I have to say this is one really hard task. My father is a person that naturally gets away from his family, he feels bored with family meetings.. and when he is with us so many times says hurtful things specially to my mom...as I grew up unfortunately I became so cold to him, I am not necessarily mean, I don't speak bad to him... but I am unable to be close to him...I am really sad that my dad always constatly hurts me... whenever he shouts at me I don't argue back ever, I just cry hided
I feel for you dear.... May Allah grant you sweetness in your heart for being patient with him..
Same here... he's with really bad phone addiction 😭Really need help 😭 oh ALLAH swt help us ALLAHumma Ameen
My mom is always so harsh on me always makes me feel crazy , sometimes I just can't stop myself from yelling back at her and getting angry , I try my best to be good to her but she just doesn't let me
Same situation! They also take advantage of me, don't approciate what I do , what's the solution for this?
@@themissoumi3484 just be patient and learn to ignore , and don't let it get to you , this is what worked for me
Same
The video is awesome but I wished if you mentioned Ahadeeth and some stories from prophet
Mohamed Ara on the topic.
Salaam to Sheikh Nouman Saheb, for the speech. To the point and accurate, such that it should be an eye opener for those who want their Lord Allah Subhaana Wata Aala to be lenient and merciful on them, on The Day of Judgement, where everything a person or Jinn did, will be looked at by Allah Almighty in very fine details!
I'd hate to be the ONE who mistreated or hurt his or her parents, as Allah's wrath will be upon those individuals who caused grief to their PARENT'S!
Sheikh Mohammed Yasin of Bolton
Thanks for such beautiful explanation
@Flowerofdesert1 he seems to be a very good man and father, ALLAH knows the best, and I too love what he reprisents. Very up to date, easy for our youth to relate too topics and way of speach. MashaALLAH brother you are doing a great job inshaALLAH. may ALLAH grant us all spouses that will be good to us and our Iman and may ALLAH make us vessels for them to reach higher levels of Jannah.
it doesnt matter you still should be nice to them
Allhamdulillah, amazing lecture, I felt terrible after...
brother nouan jazak Allah realli very beautiful...nd ur tilawaaah ....jazak Allah once again...:)
ALLAH HAMDULILAH im a MUSLIM...nd realli very proud to To be...nd want TO DIE AS A MUSLIMMMM YA RAAABBB....Ameeen
The only positive. Do good for Allah, because human being will screw up and it won't be worth it for them.
Masha ALLAH brother very well said
جزاك الله خيرا
Wow that's a lesson for everyone