The fact he even believes that a woman that beautiful wants him is beyond stupid. Tammy should leave him for spending 8k of their money period. Screw him calling her a back up. How hurtful!
The fact that you think that looks decide what Beauty is for a person is narrow. There are super good looking both females and males that have chosen partners that "according to this stupid mentality out of your league" would not choose them. Which show that , the sentence is not a fact. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
The absolute glee on his wife’s face when they told him he was probably talking to a Nigerian guy and he was so upset he had to go outside. I bet that poor woman hasn’t been that happy in years 😂😢
Women are inherently unhappy. Maybe she’s a hellion at home, and he’s the nice one for continuing to take care of her. I mean, the guy’s an idiot for paying out the cash - that’s moronic. But it’s possible his wife is a frigid nasty person who plays a good part.
You look like a career woman. Tammy won't find someone, because she most likely will get pumped and dumped, or she will realize that the man she "deserves" is going to be a fat plumber type of guy. There isn't a 40s-50s aged man who is tall, has a house, has a retirement etc looking for a woman his age. That is a "waiting for superman" fantasy. The only way.... The ONLY way this woman might find that kind if guy is if she aggressively searches for him and is able to convince him that she will benefit his life in some way... But 99% of women are offended when a man asks what she brings to the table, and 99% of women aren't willing to ask a man out. "Old maid" is the phrase. In the 50s-2010s it was still possible for an old guy to choose an old woman because she could be a widow, and she might provide benefit to the man and actually love him. Not anymore...
i lnow il die alone and im 35 and like like single minimlist life. i got a ps5 and can go and do whatever. i dont want kids or girls who want a family. im done trying to put on some show that is supposed to entertain women knowing they will be out giving it to someone other than me
I've finally realized why people cheat instead of breaking things off. It's because they need someone to continue to take care of them - cleaning, cooking, financially, etc
Bingo - these married people who are in long marriages who cheat are not “unhappy” with their spouse they are unhappy with themselves and cheat because they are crappy people.
This is an abused woman. I couldnt imagine sitting by his side as he checked out the validity of his new hunny..... but its so easy to judge without understanding what has led her to this place ..and what motivates her to stay . ....
@@truth_teller571 no you werent! Your comment was really astute and insightful... My initial thoughts were ( "I couldnt imagine sitting by his side.."...) and I was trying to point out how easy it is to make such a judgement without considering what someone may have suffered.. ...I was trying to follow your comment not undermine it. ..cleared didnt do a very good job sorry...
#PREACH - the LOWest- of LOW self-esteem/ worth. Too old to start over, get used to someone new. That's how A LOT of “men” get to take advantage of women- and violate their insecurities 🙄😠😒
@@Likelyfairy There’s always a choice, my friend. Those might be awful and nearly as awful but there’s a choice to confront your fear of being alone head on and find out you’re much more competent, capable and worthy of love and respect than you believe or have experienced with the current jackazz.
No one is ever trapped. The other person is always free to leave. Unless the woman is being beaten and held by fear she can walk. He could have left if he was miserable.
Exactly my thinking. No thank you. What a blind in denial fool He wants an attractive wife well he should be taking care of himself too. All that money and effort he spent on the scammer could of been used to fix their teeth travel and work on their marriage to reconnect. Grass already seems greener or the other side.
I often wish the best for Miss Tammy 🙂! That dude seems to have one synapsis firing. And it's in his pants. She is better off alone and happy. Run don't walk Miss T. Life is far too precious.
This is by far the saddest episode I've seen so far - and I think I've seen almost all of them now. I feel so bad for Tammy. But I've met many men like him. They always think they can get the beautiful women - if they can just be persistent enough! These are the type of man that will push and push and wear you down. They are the ones who expect gorgeous women to "pay them back" for every little thing they do. They might open the door for you. Smile. Ask about your day. Compliment something about you... Then they expect you to meet their every whim. They expect you to fall to your knees and "worship" (if you get my drift) or something else equally as humiliating (for you).
Notice how he said that like it wasn’t even ridiculously shameful. Like you’ll keep your wife around as a backup? And you don’t think that makes you a horrible human being? Just throw that statement out there and let it raw dog in the world as casually as if you said you were going to buy milk? What a doof
@@hillaryh.5197 we get it. But the woman clearly has no sense of self worth. Seriously, who are you going to vilify? The person whose self esteem is in the toilet or the asshat who takes advantage of that? Because if it’s the former, you need to sit down with yourself and figure out how your life got to that point.
@@BeckBeckGo I’m not vilifying anyone. That narrative is a figment if your imagination. when someone fails to implement a solution to free themselves from their own unhappiness, we cannot blame the bad guy. He’ll never do the right thing. So it’s up to her.
My mom is around this woman's age and my folks have been together since 78 & I think after everything that's gone on some people can't see life without the person they planned to grow old w.
@@ginaverdi6101 My husband’s aunt, is one of these scammed individuals. She’s now a widow at 89 yrs of age, and thinks these younger 45-60 yr old Dr.’s and lawyers (SURE…) in Europe, are wanting an emotional/physical relationship with her. You cannot reason with her, she won’t listen. When I reverse searched a phone number she said one Dr was calling her from in Europe, it showed it was coming from the Bronx in NY. I even showed her copies of typical dialog/stories, these scammers use that have been uploaded to the internet, and one of them almost verbatim, was what one of the scammers told her. She asked me, “what do they want?” I said, “Your money.” But she won’t stop, she thinks they’re real.
She shot that MF two looks that were lethal!! She HATED this man. It'd have been poetic justice if Alyx has told Tammy to leave the flea and she'd help her. Then baby bluey can pursue his Nigerian lover! This man is disgusting I'm appalled!
He really thinks this young, beautiful, famous, wealthy woman (whom he's never spoken to on the phone), wants to come be with a hobbling, aged man missing teeth? Wow.... The esteem on this one! You gotta hand it to him
I’m screaming she said “hobbling aged man with missing teeth” I can’t. You typed out what we were all thinking 😅😅😳🤣🤣🤣🤣 he got what he deserved old fool
i love it when they bring the stolen face on to talk to the victim. i cannot imagine anything more embarassing than being an old grey haired dude and having to tell this young pretty woman that yes, i thought we were in an online relationship.
This is horrible. He’s unashamedly admitting that the wife that loves him so much is plan B. My heart broke seeing her cry in so much pain. At this age leaving isn’t easy, but I hope she has family and friends to support her so she can.
Unfortunately that's really on her - there will always be worthless men, but when you're prepared to sit there "proving" that a garbage guy's plan A isn't real, that means you've sought out one of those worthless men and explicitly committed to tolerating any amount of humiliating, unfaithful behavior from him. He can't force her to accept a relationship with him on such ridiculous terms - that's ENTIRELY his wife's fault for choosing to have zero standards for herself.
@@andrew8168 honestly, it's better for men that they don't. How many women are choosing to be in terrible relationships, then instead of leaving they blame the bad partner for their choice to be with him? That's not a positive thing - the incel/manosphere clowns are pushing for men to be just as weak, to never be solving their problems and to simply blame women for everything. It's a trap. It's not a bonus to men that they aren't given the option of being treated like they aren't responsible for their own choices.
I love that they pointed that out too. Kind of to crush his ego a bit because he needs to be taken down a few pegs. He thinks way too highly of himself, but doesn't put any effort into actually making himself worthy of that kind of attention. Not just his looks, but his attitude as well.
"I'm a dumpy, unremarkable dude who walks like a swamp creature, slipping out of the far side of middle age. Why wouldn't a beautiful woman half my age want me immediately?" is the equivalent of "I'm a 10 and nobody can tell me I'm not!"
I don't know what's worse, the fact that he cheated on his wife or the fact that he sits next to his wife and shows his sadness and disappointment at finding out his mistress is not real.
Yes! That and the fact that he still believes he’s talking to the p*rn star Alix, even after talking to the real person on Skype with the Social Catfish team and her clearly explaining and saying multiple times that she is NOT the person he’s communicating with. The delusion is real in this one.
@@solanum6039 Sure its delusion, stupidity, a lot of things but one thing this channel needs to do is talk about mental health. At least in general. This guy did not look like he was all there and I don't say it based on his "romantic" situation. Something is off for sure and they've had more than a couple of episodes w/ ppl like that in them.
@willissudweeks1050 why? Look at all the comments in all these type of videos. Ppl criticizing the hell out of the ones who get scammed. It's never useless to get to the underlying issue
@@michaelhumphrey3982 I mean. They aren’t really good at this. They are obvious. However to older people it seems as if they are good and believable lol
Tammy, if you're reading this, you do not need that man in your life anymore. You seem so sweet and forgiving. Don't waste the rest of your life picking up trash ❤
@@kaufybeanss Uhhh, what? She didn't need to know in advance - she knows NOW. Do you believe women are only responsible for their own choices BEFORE they're married, and afterwards their continued choice to be with a man is somehow the man's fault? She became aware in this video that he was trying to cheat on her with young women, and in this video, she chose to remain with him. This means she has chosen to stay married to him in full knowledge of how he acts - she has chosen to have a cheater as a husband, and if you choose to have a cheater as a husband the joke is very much on you.
@@troytruong8246 100% much better than the horrible horrible advice you would give of staying with a horrible man like that. Anything is better than staying with that spineless old fool
OMG.. When he says at the end"That person is supposedly coming to meet at the end of the month, so IDK what I'm gonna do".. I was like WOW,The magnitude of delusion is astounding
My ex-husband is doing the exact same thing. He has made plans three or four times for a young catfish from Indiana to come meet him in Hamilton, Wilson and he even took the bus there with our 18-year-old boy, convinced he was going to meet the love of his life. She (it) never showed up. He believed the excuses he got from "it" afterwards. This was in February or March. It's now late June and "it" was supposed to come meet him in Hamilton this past weekend but never did. You can't make up a story more insane and bizarre than this hellish reality he's put me through after I gave him everything for 13 years. He used to be obsessed with me and then fell in love with an online phantom three years ago and it hasn't ended yet. There is so much more to the story. I need to go public or write a book. He's given this person thousands.
Tammy is being 'scammed' by her so called husband. I wonder how long they have been together? He doesn't find her attractive anymore....if he ever did. Him and his nasty cluttered man-cave. Stay in it pal.
Has he ever looked in a mirror? Why on earth would a model half his age want to be with him? If he thinks 8000 is a lot of money, he can't afford her. It's a lot of money to me but not a lot for a beautiful young model. They can get handbags costing more than that from their sugar daddy admirers. He's a vain fool.
Her crying right away just broke my heart. Why is she so agreeable to him having an online “ relationship “ ? She deserves so much better , I want her to get the ultimate makeover and make him feel insecure because men are noticing her. Then she can decide if She wants to keep him as a “backup” or if she wants to “ throw him away’ like he said about her. And he should have apologized to his wife immediately when they found( and before )out but he was a coward and walked out of the room. Then his last video was pathetic, he will definitely be at it again.
As a 64 yr. old woman who lives alone after being married to an extreme abusive narcissist I can tell you life is soooo much better having the peace! I can do what I want, when I want and never have to worry about making someone else happy all the time! Kick him to the curb!
This guy is beyond help. I hope he spends the rest of his miserable life waiting on this woman who will never come and I hope Tammy moves on to find the love she deserves.
@This Person But it's not facile to say "stupid or deluded". They are. But intelligent people fall for scams too, so it's not necessarily an intelligence thing
I was surprised at how well that model handled the situation. She stayed completely cold and factual, which is how someone in such a dangerous parasocial relationship should exactly handle it. Smart person!
Ya and he should have apologized to her for continuing the relationship allowing the scammers to use her photos! These people that are getting scammed need to be reminded that they are just as at fault continuing the scam when they’ve been told it’s fake and shown proof. He had no care for anyone else but himself!
@@aaronlalembaarook5626 has it ever occurred to you that old people need food shelter and nice things too? Or do you think that old women live off of air and prune juice?
@@anthrobeats5927 i would fact check that statement if I were you...and check the meaning of the prefix "co"....with, together, joint...“Codependency refers to any enmeshed relationship in which one person loses their sense of independence and believes they need to tend to someone else"
@@isay207 Thing is though, blokes that do this, when they realise that they have messed up, they demand that you go back and when you don't they are a risk to you.
Honestly annoying she’s doing this to herself like I feel she’s been hurt so much that’s she’s afraid of being alone and Chose this loser as a partner she should definitely leave him he’s no Prince Charming definitely a better person out there
@@professionaltrollgirl2682I get what your saying. But still feel sad. Maybe he is the bread winner and she cannot support herself or she may feel she is old and rejectable. I liked your comment. BTW adultery is serious in Pakistan for both women and men.
@@vellabella1 but only men in Pakistan can have multiple spouses. 😊. Thank you for liking my comment ,I do still know that this is a grown woman who decided to marry this man and knew what he was about
That's the problem with codependency. From the outside it looks like there is a victim and a perpetrator but in truth they are stabilising each other on their dynamic. She is not at fault but she is responsible. She is an adult in a free country and she exposes herself to this situation by (subconscious) choice.
How degrading for the wife to sit there next to him while he’s deciding if he will continue using her or leave. She sits there all subservient. So spineless
I'm so afraid that he later took out his anger and embarrassment on his wife after the video call ended. He was seething and she (the wife) has likely put up with a lifetime of his abuse whether that be emotional, verbal, mental or physical. I hope that she's happy, healthy and well. Stephen is never going to change.
Firstly, this dude actually has someone that loves him for him and not how he looks. He is hobbling, huge guts, shifty eyes, missing teeth, and is sloppily dressed - as we say here in Barbados, he looks "pop-down"! I mean I don't advocate for pulling down people because to each his own, but how dare he treats his wife as if she is worthless and not up to his standards? She is a lovely woman and anyone with a brain and some morals dreams of having such a supportive partner as her. This man needs to look in a mirror and evaluates if he matches with his so-called ideal of a beautiful woman.
Pop-down! I love it, describes him exactly! His wife may not be a young stunner but she's age appropriate for him and obviously cares about the dolt, which I feel like he doesn't deserve.
I think it does mean she left him. The text message she sent them at the end shows how she sees her husband as a delusional fool who is beyond help, then afterwards the text says that Tammy has “decided to move on with her life.”
This guy is the worst. What a jerk. And such a big ego he was still deluded at the end. His poor wife deserves better. Glad she left him. And did you notice he never attempted to apologise to her.
Imagine thinking your spouse is old and raggedy and you want to replace them with the younger version and not thinking for a moment that your spouse sees you the same way but she isn't trying to bounce.
He does not love his wife. He loves only himself. He is brutal. Unless he demontrates genuine remorse for hurting her and changes his ways, he will continue to torture her.
He doesn’t care. Not once did he look his wife in the eye and apologize. He was humiliated and he was probably angry and feeling sorry for himself because he couldn’t score of the model he wanted. He’s a pile of crap and I’m glad he was embarrassed so gloriously. He’s upset because he Was Rejected in the same way he rejected his wife. He deserves every ounce of pain and suffering and embarrassment from this
His wife needs to divorce him quick! I think now that he was humiliated on TH-cam and finds out that this beautiful woman was not the person he was communicating with, I think he will take out his frustration and anger on his wife. She DESERVES a loyal man that will worship her and treat her right.
Sadly he is stupid , I often get friend request from model looking woman on facebook! I always message them and say ", what's the weather like in Nigeria bro ? They block me straight away ! Pmsl there so easy to spot !
It's times like this I actually don't get mad at the scammers, they literally find the most toxic pathetic assholes to prey on. I hope she leaves him, being alone is a blessing compared to being with such a horrible man.
As much as I feel sorry for the victims, I don’t feel bad for this guy. Whatever happens to him, he put it upon himself. He deserves to be scammed. No victim deserves to lose their money, but he needs to learn. If he keeps this up, he’s going to lose everything.
That’s a stupid statement. I get what ur saying. But people like Tammy get hurt. They don’t just effect a single individual… it’s innocent loved ones too. I think that was made clear in this episode.
To the wife: YOU ARE WORTHY OF LOVE and so much more in this life. This man will never be happy with you because he’s not happy with himself. And it’s not your job to stick by his side. You seem so sweet and loving. Good things are on their way. ❤️
100% agree. She deserves better. This guy is delusional. Even though the truth came forward as a result of the investigation, he STILL held on to the thought of meeting this impostor. SMH 🤦♀️
@@Doesitreallymstter if you hate yourself it will impact all relationships you have. Check out some self love info on youtube or google I would highly recommended it
the man is literally, clinically delusional. At the end he refuses to believe he was scammed. Just look at his shifty, crazy looking eyes in the last clip, in full daylight. He is clinically unwell.
Why did I enjoy him feeling humiliated so much 😩🙌🏽 I really hope Tammy finds someone who can reciprocate the love and dedication she’s willing to give 🖤
I truly hope that this channel was making fun of him at the end when they wrote in subtitles “plutonic” with the way he mispronounced it, instead of platonic. If they actually thought it was spelled like that, then that is sad lol.
Her saying "I'm sorry" when she starts crying 😭😭😞 This is a flag for abuse. Abusers love to make you feel guilt and shame when you cry...instead of going to hold her 😞
You'd be surprised how many narcissists out there actually believe that gorgeous and successful people *waaaay* out of their league in all aspects are in love with them for no reason at all.
You could see he was probably very handsome at one point in his life... so was she probably but we all lose our looks in the end and then you just need to get over it and move on to other things. Narcissist assuming he is one, have the hardest time.
This episode was sad. His wife deserves so much better. The fact his wife continues to stand by him screams emotional abuse. Leave, let him grow old alone.
Before she finds a new man, she needs to get pampered at a beauty salon, new wardrobe, vacation, go see some hot male strippers, and just have fun! The way to get over a man, is to get under another one! (Don't get married for awhile!)
Lmao can't believe after meeting the real women, hearing her say "I've never talked to you," and having a whole episode done about how he got scammed, he still thought he was talking to the real women. He literally tells the camera guy at the end that he thinks she just lied when she came on the video chat because she has "social media" and needs to keep the relationship a secret.. 🤯
He treats his wife with disgusts if he's better than her. He needs to look in the mirror and face the reality that a woman like whatever her name was is not gonna fall for him. He deserved to get scammed and I hope that his wife learns to love herself and leave his pathetic @$$
I can't get over the fact, that all those ripped off by a scammer are totally ignorant regards their own looks- lack of personality/intelligence etc, yet believe, that there are some gorgeous - YOUNG- people adoring them- they almost deserve to be conned !
What on God's green earth did he ever think a young pretty woman would fall for him who is obviously out of shape & unappealing! He said there was no monetary gain so what does he think sending the scammer 8,000 dollars was? He's ignorant, selfish and his wife is correct this guy is beyond help and his wife deserves so much better. This video is two years old so a lot may have changed with this couple or no longer a couple.
The fact that his response about the marriage that he's betrayed is "I don't plan on her leaving" 7:03 speaks volumes about the type of emotional/mental and likely financial abuse he does to his poor wife. She needs to get in touch with resources to safely and effectively prove him wrong and just _leave his cheating ass_ .
Amanda, Yes, you are right; he knows that he controls and manipulates her. She is not financially or emotionally able to stand on her own two feet; rather, she is dependent upon him in a very sick, twisted "relationship." She will not seek outside resources, such as counseling, until she admits that she has a codependency problem.
@@nataliamiles7109 Feeling trapped by your real life circumstances/limitations is not the same as being codependent. Yes, she had an unrealistic hope that he could have an online fantasy and a real life marriage. She also had no power in the relationship and hadn't heard that she was Plan B before this. At the end it was said that she was "moving on with her life" . We don't know what that means exactly but I don't think your negative assessment of her is warranted by the facts presented.
@@heidikickhouse- I don't think it's a "negative assessment", but rather a more realistic assessment based on the facts given as well as her body language and observations made watching the interactions between the two of them. This woman has not and will not leave this man...he has conditioned her not to be able to 😞 part of that conditioning is creating codependency, of which she has...giving her a say it whether he's "allowed" to have this "online fantasy" is a tactic of this dynamic, she's given false premise that it would make a difference if she didn't allow it. This pig will do whatever he wants regardless, yet still has the say in whether he stays with his wife...what kind of backwoods world are they living in? Probably one where she is BOTH, codependent AND trapped in her circumstance.
I was devastated for this man's wife; how could he not just hurt her, but damage her to the point where its going to take years for her to heal! He is just an old sick bs who needs to live out the rest of his years ALONE. I pray his wife found the courage to leave him, its not too late for her to find real love!,
This is literally one of those cases where I actually want to go find the scammers and THANK them for the service they are doing exposing delusional, awful people like this guy.
Some guys have not been taught by their fathers to value their relationships (with a good woman of course). Sadly, many find out later once the woman have left what they threw away. And they do suffer, they just dont talk about it, therefore little information on the net about this. They are traumatized but the male culture dont allow them to talk about it, or will be seen as weak. Very sad. But I hope, that one day, people/society will evolve more to allow men to have feelings, to cry and be weak. I think this will be good for all, a healthier society. The man in this case, may be suffering from depression, but is drawn to this "fake person" on the net, as the sexy immage causes "feel good hormones" being released into his brain. Just like a gambler gets high when in the casino.
11:33 Stephen: "Why would someone do this? There's no monetary gain out of it really." The Host: "But there is! There's a $8000 monetary gain. I'll talk to you for $8000" SAVAGE MOMENT!!😂😂
What a horrible, selfish lowlife the husband is. The poor woman needs to get counseling to develop enough self-esteem to leave that loser. He should be completely ashamed of himself but he isn't. He doesn't deserve a wife at all.
Exactly. I used to fall for the okie-doke thinking I could change them, that I could WILL them to love me (look how good I clean, how good I cook, how good I f*¢k!). Always ended in disaster. Now, if the words don't match the actions, I cut it off. No regrets.
This husband is a cheater. Decent MARRIED people don’t chat in a romantic way. His wife is a beautiful lady, she needs a decent real husband. Please divorce him, the cheater is always a cheater.
@Dian Be Are you saying that that pose of a pug, is the only thing she can get ? That's so wrong. And btw, it is even better to be alone,then be with a stupid shit like that. I think you are wrong, she can do better,but she is in love with the man she THOUGHT he was. I hope she remove him ,like a old piece of garbage he is. He is really evil, doing a loyal lady like this. She can do better. Not all men are this stupid.
@Dian Be You really think that all men at her age only want younger girls , huh? You are wrong. I know a man who dated a younger girl. He felt they was so far apart in the way he think, and life style ,that he felt lonely. He no refuse to date other, if they are younger. I really dont think that all men are so shallow,like you are saying. To find a life partner when you are at a golden age, it is not the look that has a meaning. Sorry about my Borken english.
His wife deserves better all around. She seems like such a sweet, kind, and forgiving woman and somewhere out there is a man who will wholeheartedly appreciate that.
It’s not always about finding another man. Unfortunately she may just have to learn to love herself enough to see being alone is better than being hurt.
So many women would rather put up with infidelity than be alone. They figure if my husband/boyfriend wants to talk to other women at least he's still here to help support me financially. They are scared to death to be and live alone and probably emotionally too beaten down to support themselves and find a full time job. They are financially dependent in their husband.
@@SusieQ1971 not just women but also men especially at the age is not easy to leave as if they are in their 20s because they know they are going to be alone after as they are too old.
What a creep. “She’s one of the ones i messaged.” Why would he think a woman who looks like that would love him? Why do so many men have such an unrealistic sense of who they are? The best thing about this is seeing these horrible men get destroyed by reality. The worst is the loving and kind women who these men easily throw away because of someone attractive.
I’ve thrown away my own share of happiness due to always being chosen over more attractive people…I have settled for all the relationships I’ve been in and I end up feeling unhappy…I’m trash
@@chrysrubio1024 it's hard. I was married to a psychopath for 23 years and didn't know it. Hindsight, I knew things were odd, but he is super sly. they start slipping around 50 and start giving themselves away.
even if he would be a milionare , it will still be a question mark ... but considering he is a stupid guy in a shitty house unwashed unshaved un everything ... never been anywhere ... why in hell she will be with him
Yes, there is something off about this guy. He doesn't understand what is really going on. Hope his wife divorces him immediately and safeguards her money.
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The fact he even believes that a woman that beautiful wants him is beyond stupid. Tammy should leave him for spending 8k of their money period. Screw him calling her a back up. How hurtful!
Belive me, alot of beautiful women go for old, ugly guys with money.. This is nothing new ..
@@leilaodelbrink77 he not rich though
@@leilaodelbrink77 like melania and trump lol
Leave him for what? Live in a cardbox under a bridge? They re on the bottom
The fact that you think that looks decide what Beauty is for a person is narrow. There are super good looking both females and males that have chosen partners that "according to this stupid mentality out of your league" would not choose them. Which show that , the sentence is not a fact. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Solution: wife creates fake romance account, takes all his money and divorced him 😊
I don’t think a wife needs a fake romance account to be able take all the money in a divorce 😂
@@richperkins5192 Still, much more carma 😜
Brilliant
I would never have thought of that
Genius
@@richperkins5192 yeah but she might get all of it instead of just half this way lol
I loved at the end when he had to leave to go cry. He 100 percent got what he deserved. Such a gross and disrespectful husband.
Go cry? I figured he had to go smoke some more Crystal.
I want to know what happened afterwards. Like a video of the wife laying in to him and ripping him up.
@@daeviant I genuinely doubt that’s what will happen. She’s overlooked it this long…
She is a door matf. She will take whatever crumbs he throws her way. So sad. The guy is a shit bag
@@DTyrannosaurusbahhahahahaha this got me
The absolute glee on his wife’s face when they told him he was probably talking to a Nigerian guy and he was so upset he had to go outside. I bet that poor woman hasn’t been that happy in years 😂😢
I loved it, even David was smiling 😂
Poor woman, codependent. 😔
@@TheTwilightBong Yeah, I felt like David was working really hard to hide the sweet joy he was feeling in that moment. 😊
He's probably been sending him photos of his bits & bobs!!! 🫢
Women are inherently unhappy. Maybe she’s a hellion at home, and he’s the nice one for continuing to take care of her.
I mean, the guy’s an idiot for paying out the cash - that’s moronic. But it’s possible his wife is a frigid nasty person who plays a good part.
He deserves to be alone. What a horrible way to treat his wife. She seems like such a sweet lady.
She is his backup! No respect for her or her feelings! She needs to dump him, now. He treats her like a doormat!
@@ginajoseph8776 He only wants to work it out because he's being fooled. If they was the real lady he dropped his wife faster then we could blink.
@Finlay Mackenzie You are right.
Exactly
@@summerdowlig definitely!
I think it’s hilarious he thinks this young attractive woman would want him… absolutely the epitome of delusion
There's no.fool like an old fool.
The wife isn't too smart.
My dad is this delusional. I can see him falling for this. The ego and arrogance is so strong that they believe it is possible.
he is not bad looking....
My thoughts exactly.
I hope he and his Nigerian boyfriend have a good life together on his dime, and I hope Tammy finds someone who will treat her better.
You look like a career woman.
Tammy won't find someone, because she most likely will get pumped and dumped, or she will realize that the man she "deserves" is going to be a fat plumber type of guy.
There isn't a 40s-50s aged man who is tall, has a house, has a retirement etc looking for a woman his age. That is a "waiting for superman" fantasy.
The only way.... The ONLY way this woman might find that kind if guy is if she aggressively searches for him and is able to convince him that she will benefit his life in some way... But 99% of women are offended when a man asks what she brings to the table, and 99% of women aren't willing to ask a man out.
"Old maid" is the phrase. In the 50s-2010s it was still possible for an old guy to choose an old woman because she could be a widow, and she might provide benefit to the man and actually love him.
Not anymore...
😂😂😂💯
Lol exactly. For her sake, I’m glad he continued to play the fool. She deserves so much better. What a waste of time he was!
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i lnow il die alone and im 35 and like like single minimlist life. i got a ps5 and can go and do whatever. i dont want kids or girls who want a family. im done trying to put on some show that is supposed to entertain women knowing they will be out giving it to someone other than me
I've finally realized why people cheat instead of breaking things off. It's because they need someone to continue to take care of them - cleaning, cooking, financially, etc
Oh, a thousand million percent. Might be the reason most men get married in the first place! Ha.
@@sarahf.9686 should stay with their mothers
Bingo - these married people who are in long marriages who cheat are not “unhappy” with their spouse they are unhappy with themselves and cheat because they are crappy people.
Beta males are users and cheaters
Exactly...maid service.
very rarely does someone deserve to be scammed but he 100000% deserved it
He was not scammed. He scammed the lady sitting next to him into a loveless marriage!!!!
I don't feel sorry for him either.
But his wife didnt deserve it. He is a selfish ,self centered man
He is going to keep looking for someone to replace his wife!!!! So sad for her
@@anitaostrander4301 she needs to take half the marital property and leave. Then let him get scammed to the end of time. Better him than someone else
When she said "if he wants an online relationship I'm okay with that" that just screams years of emotional abuse and lack of self-respect.
This is an abused woman. I couldnt imagine sitting by his side as he checked out the validity of his new hunny..... but its so easy to judge without understanding what has led her to this place ..and what motivates her to stay . ....
@@mandyedwards6729 I wasn't judging I was making an comment on my observation.
@@truth_teller571 no you werent! Your comment was really astute and insightful... My initial thoughts were ( "I couldnt imagine sitting by his side.."...) and I was trying to point out how easy it is to make such a judgement without considering what someone may have suffered.. ...I was trying to follow your comment not undermine it. ..cleared didnt do a very good job sorry...
#PREACH - the LOWest- of LOW self-esteem/ worth. Too old to start over, get used to someone new. That's how A LOT of “men” get to take advantage of women- and violate their insecurities 🙄😠😒
@@k.p.5240 Maybe instead of blaming women for staying with awful men, why aren't you blaming men for being awful in the first place?
There's nothing lonelier than being trapped in an emotionally abusive marriage.
Especially at an age where you feel like you have no choice because you might not find someone else 😢
@@Likelyfairy There’s always a choice, my friend. Those might be awful and nearly as awful but there’s a choice to confront your fear of being alone head on and find out you’re much more competent, capable and worthy of love and respect than you believe or have experienced with the current jackazz.
@@tundrawomansays694 I was speaking from the perspective many older women have I wasn’t speaking about myself
@@Likelyfairy It's sad folks make themselves so vulnerable, inside and outside of marriage.
No one is ever trapped. The other person is always free to leave. Unless the woman is being beaten and held by fear she can walk. He could have left if he was miserable.
"I don't plan on her leaving..." Buddy, that's HER decision, not yours.
There's an old saying...
" Better to be miserably single, than miserably married"..
At least with the former, you still can make choices..🙂
Sorry pal. You're stuck with the old lady.
@@robertsmith3672don't disrespect her...she did nothing wrong here
Right!? Like you don't own her dude...he doesn't even deserve her.
You don’t know what his wife is like.
He’s insane. Please leave him. He’s abusive, Tammy. You can do so much better.
@Marja Annukka no they said she's moving on with her life, they didn't say she left him.
I’m willing to contribute to her divorce lawyer fund 🙌🏽
No fool like an old fool.
Living your life alone would be so much more respectful
I'm not so sure that Tammy will have it in her to do better. She has rock bottom self esteem.
This is why it’s better to be single than with someone toxic
Exactly my thinking. No thank you. What a blind in denial fool
He wants an attractive wife well he should be taking care of himself too. All that money and effort he spent on the scammer could of been used to fix their teeth travel and work on their marriage to reconnect. Grass already seems greener or the other side.
Absolutely💯
Al the money he sent he can use on his wife n make her hotter
Amen
But that's the thing: he IS NOT WITH this girl.
Cutie Pie is probably cutie guy.
This woman deserves so much more. Being alone is better than putting up with this juvenile crap.
I often wish the best for Miss Tammy 🙂! That dude seems to have one synapsis firing. And it's in his pants. She is better off alone and happy. Run don't walk Miss T. Life is far too precious.
I thought he went out back of the barn to put himself outta his misery. Kinda disappointed
Think I might get into romance scamming myself given it's so easy and these fools have it coming anyway🤣
This is by far the saddest episode I've seen so far - and I think I've seen almost all of them now.
I feel so bad for Tammy.
But I've met many men like him.
They always think they can get the beautiful women - if they can just be persistent enough!
These are the type of man that will push and push and wear you down. They are the ones who expect gorgeous women to "pay them back" for every little thing they do.
They might open the door for you. Smile. Ask about your day. Compliment something about you...
Then they expect you to meet their every whim.
They expect you to fall to your knees and "worship" (if you get my drift) or something else equally as humiliating (for you).
Yes she deserves someone living in Reality, not Fantasy
The wife is the real victim here.
Tammy needs to dump his sorry ass before he falls for the next scammer.
You’re sure right about that!
They are both disfunctional.
She left him! It says at the end that she moved on with her life.
Justice for Tammy.
“Oh, I am just gonna keep my wife as a back up in case my online girlfriend doesn’t work out.” This guy is a piece of work. 😡
💩👍🏻
She allows it though. That’s the core problem you’re not getting
Notice how he said that like it wasn’t even ridiculously shameful. Like you’ll keep your wife around as a backup? And you don’t think that makes you a horrible human being? Just throw that statement out there and let it raw dog in the world as casually as if you said you were going to buy milk?
What a doof
@@hillaryh.5197 we get it. But the woman clearly has no sense of self worth. Seriously, who are you going to vilify? The person whose self esteem is in the toilet or the asshat who takes advantage of that?
Because if it’s the former, you need to sit down with yourself and figure out how your life got to that point.
@@BeckBeckGo I’m not vilifying anyone. That narrative is a figment if your imagination. when someone fails to implement a solution to free themselves from their own unhappiness, we cannot blame the bad guy. He’ll never do the right thing. So it’s up to her.
He has already left the marriage and deserves everything he got. His wife needs to divorce him.
My mom is around this woman's age and my folks have been together since 78 & I think after everything that's gone on some people can't see life without the person they planned to grow old w.
Unfortunately, I don't think it was just his $8k that fake Alix stole. He's taking poor Tammy down with him.
Agree he's a fool! Alot of people have fallen for this! It's really cruel!!
@@ginaverdi6101 My husband’s aunt, is one of these scammed individuals. She’s now a widow at 89 yrs of age, and thinks these younger 45-60 yr old Dr.’s and lawyers (SURE…) in Europe, are wanting an emotional/physical relationship with her.
You cannot reason with her, she won’t listen.
When I reverse searched a phone number she said one Dr was calling her from in Europe, it showed it was coming from the Bronx in NY. I even showed her copies of typical dialog/stories, these scammers use that have been uploaded to the internet, and one of them almost verbatim, was what one of the scammers told her.
She asked me, “what do they want?” I said, “Your money.”
But she won’t stop, she thinks they’re real.
the woman beside him,.is his wife？
My heart broke for her when Tammy said in her recorded interview, "It hurts." Her husband is a complete shithead. I pray she leave him.
Hi Cutie.
Me too! 💔
She did leave him.
Me too! I was heartbroken hearing that
They both look a little "special ed"
I love how more salt is rubbed into an open wound when Alyx doesn’t even acknowledge Stephen on the video call 😂
She shot that MF two looks that were lethal!! She HATED this man. It'd have been poetic justice if Alyx has told Tammy to leave the flea and she'd help her. Then baby bluey can pursue his Nigerian lover! This man is disgusting I'm appalled!
@@susanlett9632 she couldn’t care less if she hated him or not because she simply didn’t care enough to even hate him lmao
The look of hatred she shot him went right over his head@@CrodolookslikeFrody
He blushes so much
@Melinda-sz4lh my point exactly. She couldn’t care less about his existence, probably because she noticed his wife was on the call as well.
I love that Stephan was humiliated online. To his wife, this man does not deserve you. You can do better but he can't.
His wife should leave dat old fart to rot. Why u think a young beautiful woman would want him.
His wife should leave dat old fart to rot. Why u think a young beautiful woman would want him.
Shrek is more handsome than you.
Yes!
absolutely!
My grandma used to say there’s no fool like an old fool. I hope his wife has realized that she deserves better
When my mom won't see you this should call them foolish 'old duffers'.
Hahah nice saying
Lol my mom and grandma used to say this too
@@ohsoyouthinkyoucandance you’re su pretty I kinda want to be scammed by you myself!
@@Maverick19959 thanks baby I take Venmo 😜
He really thinks this young, beautiful, famous, wealthy woman (whom he's never spoken to on the phone), wants to come be with a hobbling, aged man missing teeth?
Wow.... The esteem on this one! You gotta hand it to him
I’m screaming she said “hobbling aged man with missing teeth” I can’t. You typed out what we were all thinking 😅😅😳🤣🤣🤣🤣 he got what he deserved old fool
Your comment is so disrespectful. There’s no need to judge an aged man looking traits !
Delusion and mental illness not esteem.
@@sassy139by his actions this hobbling aged man with missing teeth disrespected himself, Tonya was just saying the truth.
😂😂😂😂 missing teeth so true though
i love it when they bring the stolen face on to talk to the victim. i cannot imagine anything more embarassing than being an old grey haired dude and having to tell this young pretty woman that yes, i thought we were in an online relationship.
And then to find out at the end that he thinks she just lied on the video call, and that he really is dating her. Such an unbelievable idiot.
lmao I went into a state euphoria as his humiliation went on. LOL
@@nickimillennium😂 just BLISS 🤗
That part was amazing, lmao
@@BlitzinMackGaminghe was a shameful old man on that video call.😖
"I don't understand why they'd do that, there's no monetary gain"
Mate, you paid them $8K 🤦♀️
makes me think Wife earned that money. he doesn't even think of being out 8k. EIGHT GRAND
Right! Talk about stupid!
Can he spell idiot?
Scammers are horrible "people" but you have to admit they sure know how to pick an idiot.
@@mbmochinski no he can’t, IDIOT is written on his four head.
I feel so terrible for his wife, especially when she started to cry, she seems lovely🥺her husband is extremely cruel.
He's terrible. But, a person can only treat you how you let them. It's just as simple as that.
Yes, he is as cruel as he is stupid. That is to say, a whole lot.
@@meccahdawn yes that is true, sadly many people can’t find the strength within to remove themselves from bad situations
I agree. She’s lovely and he is a heartless piece of shit.
She’s a real sweetheart. It broke my heart when she cried.
This is horrible. He’s unashamedly admitting that the wife that loves him so much is plan B. My heart broke seeing her cry in so much pain. At this age leaving isn’t easy, but I hope she has family and friends to support her so she can.
It’s hard to sleep thinking his wife is still there ..
He needs a fucking lesson
Unfortunately that's really on her - there will always be worthless men, but when you're prepared to sit there "proving" that a garbage guy's plan A isn't real, that means you've sought out one of those worthless men and explicitly committed to tolerating any amount of humiliating, unfaithful behavior from him.
He can't force her to accept a relationship with him on such ridiculous terms - that's ENTIRELY his wife's fault for choosing to have zero standards for herself.
Yes that guy deserves to be alone
Men get treated like this all the time. No one cries for them though
@@andrew8168 honestly, it's better for men that they don't.
How many women are choosing to be in terrible relationships, then instead of leaving they blame the bad partner for their choice to be with him?
That's not a positive thing - the incel/manosphere clowns are pushing for men to be just as weak, to never be solving their problems and to simply blame women for everything.
It's a trap. It's not a bonus to men that they aren't given the option of being treated like they aren't responsible for their own choices.
Oh, NOW he loves Tammy and doesn't want her to leave. She absolutely SHOULD LEAVE HIM.
She probably won’t
@@Emeraldgemini290why should she, theyre equally yoked--he thinks she's a B plan, and she thinks he's a joke.
How embarrassing for him. "You were probably talking to a guy" was the cherry on top. 🤡🤡🤡
I hope his wife leaves him.
Yes. I hope she finds the strength to leave him.
A black Nigerian guy! 😂
I love that they pointed that out too. Kind of to crush his ego a bit because he needs to be taken down a few pegs. He thinks way too highly of himself, but doesn't put any effort into actually making himself worthy of that kind of attention. Not just his looks, but his attitude as well.
@Dreamgirl650. Yeah they should've added that just to rub it in, lol.
110% awesome "They're typically men." I agree with you. Fun to watch him get up and leave.
"I'm a dumpy, unremarkable dude who walks like a swamp creature, slipping out of the far side of middle age. Why wouldn't a beautiful woman half my age want me immediately?" is the equivalent of "I'm a 10 and nobody can tell me I'm not!"
Bruh... don't hold back💀
😅😅😅😅
This is poetry
Exactly 😂
@@UMBR. they were being kind and tactful.
I don't know what's worse, the fact that he cheated on his wife or the fact that he sits next to his wife and shows his sadness and disappointment at finding out his mistress is not real.
Yes! That and the fact that he still believes he’s talking to the p*rn star Alix, even after talking to the real person on Skype with the Social Catfish team and her clearly explaining and saying multiple times that she is NOT the person he’s communicating with. The delusion is real in this one.
My goodness she's beaten down
@@solanum6039 Sure its delusion, stupidity, a lot of things but one thing this channel needs to do is talk about mental health. At least in general. This guy did not look like he was all there and I don't say it based on his "romantic" situation. Something is off for sure and they've had more than a couple of episodes w/ ppl like that in them.
@@zerocal76the idea of “talking about mental health” is really just vague and useless
@willissudweeks1050 why? Look at all the comments in all these type of videos. Ppl criticizing the hell out of the ones who get scammed. It's never useless to get to the underlying issue
If I was the wife I would make a fake profile to scam him them use the money to leave him😂😂😂
PLUTONIC?😅😅😅
@@michaelhumphrey3982 I mean. They aren’t really good at this. They are obvious. However to older people it seems as if they are good and believable lol
Yep🎉
Tammy, if you're reading this, you do not need that man in your life anymore. You seem so sweet and forgiving. Don't waste the rest of your life picking up trash ❤
Yes Tammy you don’t deserve this man
At the very end it said Tammy is moving on with her life 👏👏
@@cady__good for her! He doesn’t deserve her at all!
Well said.
@@honeydecena559he doesn't deserve Her
His wife started smiling more and more when she began to realize how foolish her husband truly is. 😁
I mean the joke is really on her for choosing to be in a marriage with him.
😂😂😂
She should rub it in his face every now and then..At least I know that I would..
@@benisprobablyangry239how was she supposed to know her husband was going to do something like that?
@@kaufybeanss Uhhh, what?
She didn't need to know in advance - she knows NOW.
Do you believe women are only responsible for their own choices BEFORE they're married, and afterwards their continued choice to be with a man is somehow the man's fault?
She became aware in this video that he was trying to cheat on her with young women, and in this video, she chose to remain with him. This means she has chosen to stay married to him in full knowledge of how he acts - she has chosen to have a cheater as a husband, and if you choose to have a cheater as a husband the joke is very much on you.
Tammy, as a happy single woman myself, don't be afraid to be alone, much better than having a person who disrespect you. Wish you the best ❤
Yes ❤️💯 agreed
U sure about that? Women give each other horrible advice.
Oh How you are so right! So, so right! 💃 I'm dancing (the emoticon) because I am FREE !! And it's soooooooo empowering !
@@troytruong8246 100% much better than the horrible horrible advice you would give of staying with a horrible man like that.
Anything is better than staying with that spineless old fool
@@troytruong8246 oohh Troy... you always so positive 😆🙈
OMG.. When he says at the end"That person is supposedly coming to meet at the end of the month, so IDK what I'm gonna do".. I was like WOW,The magnitude of delusion is astounding
My ex-husband is doing the exact same thing. He has made plans three or four times for a young catfish from Indiana to come meet him in Hamilton, Wilson and he even took the bus there with our 18-year-old boy, convinced he was going to meet the love of his life. She (it) never showed up. He believed the excuses he got from "it" afterwards. This was in February or March. It's now late June and "it" was supposed to come meet him in Hamilton this past weekend but never did. You can't make up a story more insane and bizarre than this hellish reality he's put me through after I gave him everything for 13 years. He used to be obsessed with me and then fell in love with an online phantom three years ago and it hasn't ended yet. There is so much more to the story. I need to go public or write a book. He's given this person thousands.
Sorry, *Hamilton, Ontario
How are you in Ontario ? Is hubby still messing around 🤔@@donatellaversace7384
@@donatellaversace7384
damn, are you going to go to catfish with this story? If you do, it will at least embarrassed your ex husband
It's not love - platonic or otherwise - when he calls his wife a "backup plan". Run, Tammy, run!
He does not deserve his wife!
I am so very concerned for her because her self-confidence has been drained and probably does not have the strength to move
Tammy is being 'scammed' by her so called husband. I wonder how long they have been together? He doesn't find her attractive anymore....if he ever did. Him and his nasty cluttered man-cave. Stay in it pal.
You mean "plutonic", right?
@@JuBeYo huh? What is 'plutonic'?
When he said, "I don't get why they would do something like that, I mean there's no monetary gain really" I almost fell out of my chair.
Pure denial.
Hope you didnt hurt yourself and if you did i hope he felt it cause he stupid af😂😂😂
😂😂😂 I guess the $8,000 don't count
I can give $8000 reasons. They must've made up this saying for him "no fool like an old fool"
I think I actually did fall outta my chair
Has he ever looked in a mirror? Why on earth would a model half his age want to be with him? If he thinks 8000 is a lot of money, he can't afford her. It's a lot of money to me but not a lot for a beautiful young model. They can get handbags costing more than that from their sugar daddy admirers. He's a vain fool.
Its because u think with ur right head...lol and he thinks with his tiny willy
@@alinan4320 *with his tiny, shrivelled up willy.
@@SoramimiKeiki lol yes, thank u for the correction !
@@SoramimiKeiki 😆😆
He has wasted his money on someone with a penis....
Her crying right away just broke my heart. Why is she so agreeable to him having an online “ relationship “ ? She deserves so much better , I want her to get the ultimate makeover and make him feel insecure because men are noticing her. Then she can decide if She wants to keep him as a “backup” or if she wants to “ throw him away’ like he said about her. And he should have apologized to his wife immediately when they found( and before )out but he was a coward and walked out of the room. Then his last video was pathetic, he will definitely be at it again.
As a 64 yr. old woman who lives alone after being married to an extreme abusive narcissist I can tell you life is soooo much better having the peace! I can do what I want, when I want and never have to worry about making someone else happy all the time! Kick him to the curb!
Af 57 I am very content to be by myself
Good on you. I wish you peace healing and happiness ❤
Good on you for getting away. Time to enjoy your hobbies in peace.
I’m happy for you. I’m sorry you went through what you did.
❤
This guy is beyond help. I hope he spends the rest of his miserable life waiting on this woman who will never come and I hope Tammy moves on to find the love she deserves.
He looks sweaty and stinking, the only thing missing was the pot noodle stains on his T.shirt🤣🤣🤣
It is facile to say people are stupid or deluded. I would like to know why people keep believing in the scammer even after they are exposed.
@This Person It's a sunken cost thing, if you admit you were fooled you admit you're a fooled, a lot of people can't face it.
@This Person But it's not facile to say "stupid or deluded". They are. But intelligent people fall for scams too, so it's not necessarily an intelligence thing
...the love she needs "to find" is SELF LOVE.....
Respect for the girl behind the real profile for joining the call, explaining and bursting the bubble
He said she was just covering it up by saying she doesnt know him. He still thinks he's seeing her.
she just wanted to promote her sites lol
she should have asked stephen for another $8000.
Please. If anything she was promoting herself, saying where she CAN be reached and paid!
It didn’t help for this abusing pos unfortunately.
I was surprised at how well that model handled the situation. She stayed completely cold and factual, which is how someone in such a dangerous parasocial relationship should exactly handle it. Smart person!
Ya and he should have apologized to her for continuing the relationship allowing the scammers to use her photos! These people that are getting scammed need to be reminded that they are just as at fault continuing the scam when they’ve been told it’s fake and shown proof. He had no care for anyone else but himself!
she's a porn star, not a model.
For sure I bet he wasn’t the 1st and he won’t be the last clearly she’s equipped for the industry she’s in
Spends 8 thousand dollars on someone he never met. But he couldn’t spend that money on his own wife? 🤦🏼♀️
No one wanna spend money on a old bag
@@aaronlalembaarook5626 He would rather show off his lack of intelligence and spend it on some scammer who's likely old and ugly himself.
@@aaronlalembaarook5626 Is that how your dad treated your mom 😂
@@aaronlalembaarook5626 has it ever occurred to you that old people need food shelter and nice things too? Or do you think that old women live off of air and prune juice?
@@aaronlalembaarook5626 he isn’t spring chicken either.
This one was super frustrating. Most of these victims are super lonely people, but this guy has a wife who loves him so much.
is it love or codependency?
@@dawna4185she definitely loves him… they’ve been together 15 years dude.
@Dawna codependency is referring to substance abuse, it's just called dependent when you need somebody else
@@anthrobeats5927 i would fact check that statement if I were you...and check the meaning of the prefix "co"....with, together, joint...“Codependency refers to any enmeshed relationship in which one person loses their sense of independence and believes they need to tend to someone else"
@@anthrobeats5927 No it doesn’t. It’s common in substance abuse but definitely not exclusive.
When Tammy started to cry, it ached my heart. She doesn't deserve that kind of treatment. She's too sweet
I immediately started tearing up she’s such a sweet lady
Hes not worth your tears move out you'll see your better off on your own
@@isay207 Thing is though, blokes that do this, when they realise that they have messed up, they demand that you go back and when you don't they are a risk to you.
Honestly annoying she’s doing this to herself like I feel she’s been hurt so much that’s she’s afraid of being alone and Chose this loser as a partner she should definitely leave him he’s no Prince Charming definitely a better person out there
His wife is too forgiving. She is worth much more than him and what he did to her.
They deserve each other. She CHOSE him and STAYED with him. She's not living in Pakistan
@@professionaltrollgirl2682I get what your saying. But still feel sad. Maybe he is the bread winner and she cannot support herself or she may feel she is old and rejectable. I liked your comment. BTW adultery is serious in Pakistan for both women and men.
@@vellabella1 but only men in Pakistan can have multiple spouses. 😊. Thank you for liking my comment ,I do still know that this is a grown woman who decided to marry this man and knew what he was about
That's the problem with codependency. From the outside it looks like there is a victim and a perpetrator but in truth they are stabilising each other on their dynamic.
She is not at fault but she is responsible. She is an adult in a free country and she exposes herself to this situation by (subconscious) choice.
@@professionaltrollgirl2682 exactly, u get what u settle 4!! Get some self respect woman!!
Can’t believe he thought that young pretty girl would want him wow unbelievable
If he hit the lotto she and all her friends would.
He is delusional. He's absolutely disgusting🤮
I KNOW!
@@aaronlalembaarook5626 If he hit the lotto and won 5 $? 🤣
This guy is delusional. He thinks he is hot, when he is only hot garbage.
The only person she needs to be seeking advice from, is a divorce attorney. Smh
I'm sure that money he is throwing away is also his wife's savings as well as his own. What a prat!
Yes he doesn’t seem to feel that he is using THEIR money to send to this “woman”. No moral base.
Even if it was his... what a coward.
This isn’t the first time he’s done something like this and why he does it without hesitation.
One more reason she should consider bolting before he blows their retirement on a fake relationship.
@@wildolive3630 exactly. He’s going to spend it all so it’s time to take your half before he loses all of it. Not a smart man
How degrading for the wife to sit there next to him while he’s deciding if he will continue using her or leave. She sits there all subservient. So spineless
Spineless? Looks like years of verbal domestic abuse.
Doormat is a good word
I'm so afraid that he later took out his anger and embarrassment on his wife after the video call ended. He was seething and she (the wife) has likely put up with a lifetime of his abuse whether that be emotional, verbal, mental or physical. I hope that she's happy, healthy and well. Stephen is never going to change.
She could leave him she’s doing it to herself
@@cocokitten2252 yes exactly. I hope Tammy is safe but she needs to leave to ensure her safety
I thought the same thing, she needs some help and support.
@@SindyJ37 omy god, where would she leave? To live in a box under a bridge? If she had any money she would have left long time ago
@@bambinaforever1402 - If he had 8thousands dollars just to pay for a fantasy, she could divorce, divide their assets and rent a small flat somewhere.
Firstly, this dude actually has someone that loves him for him and not how he looks. He is hobbling, huge guts, shifty eyes, missing teeth, and is sloppily dressed - as we say here in Barbados, he looks "pop-down"! I mean I don't advocate for pulling down people because to each his own, but how dare he treats his wife as if she is worthless and not up to his standards? She is a lovely woman and anyone with a brain and some morals dreams of having such a supportive partner as her. This man needs to look in a mirror and evaluates if he matches with his so-called ideal of a beautiful woman.
You're acting like his wife did him a favor. They're both equal in terms of looks.
@@Conservative_carnivore she did do him a favor coz they aren't equal in morals, personality, and integrity
Huge guts, missing teeth 🤣
Pop-down! I love it, describes him exactly! His wife may not be a young stunner but she's age appropriate for him and obviously cares about the dolt, which I feel like he doesn't deserve.
Pop down is frikken brilliant
I am so glad Tammy left that delusional fool. Go Tammy !
Yay!!!!!
Was that in the video? What’s your source?
I hope this is True.
It didn't say she left him.
@@athenarising9818 that doesn't mean she left him, unfortunately.
I think it does mean she left him. The text message she sent them at the end shows how she sees her husband as a delusional fool who is beyond help, then afterwards the text says that Tammy has “decided to move on with her life.”
This guy is the worst. What a jerk. And such a big ego he was still deluded at the end. His poor wife deserves better. Glad she left him. And did you notice he never attempted to apologise to her.
Imagine thinking your spouse is old and raggedy and you want to replace them with the younger version and not thinking for a moment that your spouse sees you the same way but she isn't trying to bounce.
Perfectly said!
A regular marriage then
she would probably want sex sometimes if he did simple things like bathe and be a decent human
@@Ljounieh no you shouldn't be married then
He does not love his wife. He loves only himself. He is brutal. Unless he demontrates genuine remorse for hurting her and changes his ways, he will continue to torture her.
Tammy is the best. Hopefully she finds happiness
He doesn’t care. Not once did he look his wife in the eye and apologize. He was humiliated and he was probably angry and feeling sorry for himself because he couldn’t score of the model he wanted. He’s a pile of crap and I’m glad he was embarrassed so gloriously. He’s upset because he Was Rejected in the same way he rejected his wife. He deserves every ounce of pain and suffering and embarrassment from this
@@AnotherTruth Maybe in his other life!
His wife needs to divorce him quick! I think now that he was humiliated on TH-cam and finds out that this beautiful woman was not the person he was communicating with, I think he will take out his frustration and anger on his wife. She DESERVES a loyal man that will worship her and treat her right.
Look at your "So-Called lover, and THEN look at YOURSELF......😂🤣😂🤣. Wake Up, you're being "CONNED"😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
I'm 42, not a porn star or model, and I wouldn't look twice at him.
Lol 🤣😂😂😂
Sadly he is stupid , I often get friend request from model looking woman on facebook! I always message them and say ", what's the weather like in Nigeria bro ? They block me straight away ! Pmsl there so easy to spot !
@@robertcollins7034 what is pmsl
@@pattygravs6354 pi55ing my self laughing is what pmsl means !
Me too he's living in cookoo land, im 83 and I wouldn't look at him twice he's delusional
Dude called his wife a “B-Plan” to getting scammed by a man. So disgusting.
A lot of men think like this unfortunately 😢..
@@savvystrandsxsnatchthatcat8122
and woman
😂99,99 ,,,,%
It's times like this I actually don't get mad at the scammers, they literally find the most toxic pathetic assholes to prey on. I hope she leaves him, being alone is a blessing compared to being with such a horrible man.
As much as I feel sorry for the victims, I don’t feel bad for this guy. Whatever happens to him, he put it upon himself. He deserves to be scammed. No victim deserves to lose their money, but he needs to learn. If he keeps this up, he’s going to lose everything.
He's not the only one being scammed though. The $8K, I assume, is also Tammy's money...
I don't feel sorry for the man though, I agree.
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That’s a stupid statement. I get what ur saying. But people like Tammy get hurt. They don’t just effect a single individual… it’s innocent loved ones too. I think that was made clear in this episode.
@@ms.hjohnson6820 "that's a stupid statement" "I get what you're saying..." 🤨🤦♀️
To the wife: YOU ARE WORTHY OF LOVE and so much more in this life. This man will never be happy with you because he’s not happy with himself. And it’s not your job to stick by his side. You seem so sweet and loving. Good things are on their way. ❤️
So true!
100% agree. She deserves better. This guy is delusional. Even though the truth came forward as a result of the investigation, he STILL held on to the thought of meeting this impostor. SMH 🤦♀️
I concur 🌷
I don't know. I hate myself but adore my gf
@@Doesitreallymstter if you hate yourself it will impact all relationships you have. Check out some self love info on youtube or google I would highly recommended it
Best sentence ever: “Tammy is moving on with her life.” YAS 👏🏽
She should have reached out to a divorce attorney. This guy is a train wreck, and she’s a glutton for punishment.
I had a good chuckle when you reminded him of the $8,000 when he was saying there was no monetary gain for the scammer.
ikr. He could have used that $8k to take his wife on a nice cruise to help rekindle their marriage.
He probably didn't want to admit that to his wife... she probably had no idea.
the man is literally, clinically delusional. At the end he refuses to believe he was scammed. Just look at his shifty, crazy looking eyes in the last clip, in full daylight. He is clinically unwell.
Why did I enjoy him feeling humiliated so much 😩🙌🏽
I really hope Tammy finds someone who can reciprocate the love and dedication she’s willing to give 🖤
I truly hope that this channel was making fun of him at the end when they wrote in subtitles “plutonic” with the way he mispronounced it, instead of platonic. If they actually thought it was spelled like that, then that is sad lol.
He had to step outside once he learned that it was a group of guys he sent his d/ck pics to.
I hope Tammy finds a man who will truly love her and not use her until he finds "greener grass" somewhere else.
Yes Tammy needs to leave her husband!
You enjoyed his humiliation because we are all wicked.
Her saying "I'm sorry" when she starts crying 😭😭😞 This is a flag for abuse. Abusers love to make you feel guilt and shame when you cry...instead of going to hold her 😞
Yep
This.
"She wasnt talking to me because it would f*** up her social media" ???? that is not what's happening here dude.
You'd be surprised how many narcissists out there actually believe that gorgeous and successful people *waaaay* out of their league in all aspects are in love with them for no reason at all.
You could see he was probably very handsome at one point in his life... so was she probably but we all lose our looks in the end and then you just need to get over it and move on to other things. Narcissist assuming he is one, have the hardest time.
And how they openly talk about treating their wife like their back up
He’s just stupid
I’m so happy that Tammy has enough sense to move on. I wish her the best in life away from hunchback of notredame
😂😂😂
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😂 my thoughts exactly
He’ll then find out what lonely really is because his prospects are dim being old, fat, ugly, and broke. He’ll be alone.
She ends up leaving?!!! Oh thank goodness
This episode was sad. His wife deserves so much better. The fact his wife continues to stand by him screams emotional abuse. Leave, let him grow old alone.
Did you read the end?
How the hell does such a pathetic human being get so delusional into thinking a good looking young woman would be into him???
Why is his wife sitting next to him? What kind of bizarre world is this?
Lady, you need to leave him. He’s playing with your feelings. No real man would treat you like this. Go find you a real man. ❤️
Before she finds a new man, she needs to get pampered at a beauty salon, new wardrobe, vacation, go see some hot male strippers, and just have fun! The way to get over a man, is to get under another one! (Don't get married for awhile!)
@@js5787 Why would she need to go to a beauty salon to meet somebody?
I absolutely agree. She deserves so much better than that lump of loserosity
H ha go find a real man do they still.exist ????????
Send him back to his MOMMY
What a horrible man. His wife is too good for him.
“Tammy is moving on with her life” best news ever! She deserves better. I hope you’ll make an update video about some of the people you’ve helped
Well he's still with Mr. Pig
Yes. Where are they now episode. 1 yr later
Lmao can't believe after meeting the real women, hearing her say "I've never talked to you," and having a whole episode done about how he got scammed, he still thought he was talking to the real women.
He literally tells the camera guy at the end that he thinks she just lied when she came on the video chat because she has "social media" and needs to keep the relationship a secret.. 🤯
@@Pooreditz😂😂😂😂😂
And I'm here for it
the way he stared at her there when she described how she didn't know him... ew. lmao
He treats his wife with disgusts if he's better than her. He needs to look in the mirror and face the reality that a woman like whatever her name was is not gonna fall for him. He deserved to get scammed and I hope that his wife learns to love herself and leave his pathetic @$$
He lumbers around like Igor. No young beautiful woman wants him. He deserves the humiliation. I hope she moved on.
@@raimeyewens7518 Yeah, cos she's a supermodel, lol
@@Sinsteel Her attitude and her love for this clearly undeserving human is what makes her a friggin supermodel. LOL
@@Sinsteel She looks 10x better than her skunk of a husband
@@Sinsteel yeah and he’s a Calvin Klein model
Selfish husband, I would dump him. She seems like a lovely wife. She deserves better in life.
I can't get over the fact, that all those ripped off by a scammer are totally ignorant regards their own looks- lack of personality/intelligence etc, yet believe, that there are some gorgeous - YOUNG- people adoring them- they almost deserve to be conned !
I knowwwwww its insane
Like Chris Rock once said, "You ever forget how old you are"? Some of us do sometimes.
Imagine giving all your money to somebody you never even talked to on the phone?
@@sherw7635 That's the power of lust.
Right?!? This guy’s super nasty looking- and a total jerk.
What on God's green earth did he ever think a young pretty woman would fall for him who is obviously out of shape & unappealing! He said there was no monetary gain so what does he think sending the scammer 8,000 dollars was? He's ignorant, selfish and his wife is correct this guy is beyond help and his wife deserves so much better. This video is two years old so a lot may have changed with this couple or no longer a couple.
This is your reminder to PLEASE don't settle for scumbags, ladies! You WILL be happier when you leave!!!!!
The fact that his response about the marriage that he's betrayed is "I don't plan on her leaving" 7:03 speaks volumes about the type of emotional/mental and likely financial abuse he does to his poor wife. She needs to get in touch with resources to safely and effectively prove him wrong and just _leave his cheating ass_ .
Amanda,
Yes, you are right; he knows that he controls and manipulates her. She is not financially or emotionally able to stand on her own two feet; rather, she is dependent upon him in a very sick, twisted "relationship." She will not seek outside resources, such as counseling, until she admits that she has a codependency problem.
@@nataliamiles7109 Feeling trapped by your real life circumstances/limitations is not the same as being codependent. Yes, she had an unrealistic hope that he could have an online fantasy and a real life marriage. She also had no power in the relationship and hadn't heard that she was Plan B before this. At the end it was said that she was "moving on with her life" . We don't know what that means exactly but I don't think your negative assessment of her is warranted by the facts presented.
That was terrible I just came across it. Poor woman smh
I think when people are older, they don’t want to be alone and end up sticking around for the foolishness in their relationships
@@heidikickhouse- I don't think it's a "negative assessment", but rather a more realistic assessment based on the facts given as well as her body language and observations made watching the interactions between the two of them. This woman has not and will not leave this man...he has conditioned her not to be able to 😞 part of that conditioning is creating codependency, of which she has...giving her a say it whether he's "allowed" to have this "online fantasy" is a tactic of this dynamic, she's given false premise that it would make a difference if she didn't allow it. This pig will do whatever he wants regardless, yet still has the say in whether he stays with his wife...what kind of backwoods world are they living in? Probably one where she is BOTH, codependent AND trapped in her circumstance.
The guy's wife is so much better than he deserves. I really feel sorry for her.
How can she be better? She has no self respect and does not believe that she deserves better than this crap of a man.
I believe she left him. It says “She moved on with her life” ion the last slide of her. Let’s hope she did, she deserves real love and respect.
I was devastated for this man's wife; how could he not just hurt her, but damage her to the point where its going to take years for her to heal! He is just an old sick bs who needs to live out the rest of his years ALONE. I pray his wife found the courage to leave him, its not too late for her to find real love!,
To be married to a man for 15-18 years just to have him behave as he has is a punch in the stomach, ugh.
This is literally one of those cases where I actually want to go find the scammers and THANK them for the service they are doing exposing delusional, awful people like this guy.
I hate to admit it but there are times I am team scammer.
Tammy made me sad.
@@amyepstein4868 Yep, I put on my Nigeria jersey for this episode for sure.
I want to gofund her more. Not for services, but to say ty.
Haha. The way he treats tammy is disgusting, I wish he would have left
Yeah, no. Tammy is the one suffering.
He is a sad old man who has a wife who loved him but is greedy wanting something he can’t have. His wife is a choice not a back up plan. He’s pathetic
Some guys have not been taught by their fathers to value their relationships (with a good woman of course). Sadly, many find out later once the woman have left what they threw away. And they do suffer, they just dont talk about it, therefore little information on the net about this. They are traumatized but the male culture dont allow them to talk about it, or will be seen as weak. Very sad. But I hope, that one day, people/society will evolve more to allow men to have feelings, to cry and be weak. I think this will be good for all, a healthier society.
The man in this case, may be suffering from depression, but is drawn to this "fake person" on the net, as the sexy immage causes "feel good hormones" being released into his brain. Just like a gambler gets high when in the casino.
Well said
X
11:33 Stephen: "Why would someone do this? There's no monetary gain out of it really."
The Host: "But there is! There's a $8000 monetary gain. I'll talk to you for $8000"
SAVAGE MOMENT!!😂😂
No, some beuty, young girl is talkin with this old man, not for money. But, because she loves him... 😂🤣😅 🤦🏻♀️🤮🤮🤮🙆🏻♀️
What a horrible, selfish lowlife the husband is. The poor woman needs to get counseling to develop enough self-esteem to leave that loser. He should be completely ashamed of himself but he isn't. He doesn't deserve a wife at all.
Tammy, if you are reading these comments, let us know you have left this guy. You deserve so much more.
When PEOPLE show you they don't LOVE YOU
BELIEVE THEM!!!
Exactly. I used to fall for the okie-doke thinking I could change them, that I could WILL them to love me (look how good I clean, how good I cook, how good I f*¢k!). Always ended in disaster. Now, if the words don't match the actions, I cut it off. No regrets.
I’m going to quote my brother when he says “if you want to know if you’re being catfished, look in the mirror”
This husband is a cheater. Decent MARRIED people don’t chat in a romantic way. His wife is a beautiful lady, she needs a decent real husband. Please divorce him, the cheater is always a cheater.
He's not decent at all , but he's searching for his DREAM hottie! Unfortunately you have to be a prize in your husband's eyes! He'll keep looking
Like hes such a young hottie HIMSELF!!! More like a delusional over middle aged dumpy, grey haired PLAyer!!! Whose really gettin PLAYED!!!
Loads of married bored men on dating sites!
@Dian Be
Are you saying that that pose of a pug, is the only thing she can get ?
That's so wrong. And btw, it is even better to be alone,then be with a stupid shit like that.
I think you are wrong, she can do better,but she is in love with the man she THOUGHT he was. I hope she remove him ,like a old piece of garbage he is.
He is really evil, doing a loyal lady like this.
She can do better. Not all men are this stupid.
@Dian Be
You really think that all men at her age only want younger girls , huh?
You are wrong.
I know a man who dated a younger girl. He felt they was so far apart in the way he think, and life style ,that he felt lonely. He no refuse to date other, if they are younger.
I really dont think that all men are so shallow,like you are saying.
To find a life partner when you are at a golden age, it is not the look that has a meaning.
Sorry about my Borken english.
Tammy please leave this man. You’re precious. Let him live out his “fantasy”.
His wife deserves better all around. She seems like such a sweet, kind, and forgiving woman and somewhere out there is a man who will wholeheartedly appreciate that.
It’s not always about finding another man. Unfortunately she may just have to learn to love herself enough to see being alone is better than being hurt.
So many women would rather put up with infidelity than be alone. They figure if my husband/boyfriend wants to talk to other women at least he's still here to help support me financially. They are scared to death to be and live alone and probably emotionally too beaten down to support themselves and find a full time job. They are financially dependent in their husband.
@@SusieQ1971 not just women but also men especially at the age is not easy to leave as if they are in their 20s because they know they are going to be alone after as they are too old.
She is all of the above but she is a fool. He will continue the behavior while using her.
TAMMY, start living now babe!!!! ❤❤❤ that tiny man is not needed, no one will ever miss his abuse.
What a creep. “She’s one of the ones i messaged.”
Why would he think a woman who looks like that would love him? Why do so many men have such an unrealistic sense of who they are?
The best thing about this is seeing these horrible men get destroyed by reality.
The worst is the loving and kind women who these men easily throw away because of someone attractive.
This is such an underrated comment, summed it up wisely
There were more than one, is that what he was saying?🙄
I’ve thrown away my own share of happiness due to always being chosen over more attractive people…I have settled for all the relationships I’ve been in and I end up feeling unhappy…I’m trash
@@chrysrubio1024 it's hard. I was married to a psychopath for 23 years and didn't know it. Hindsight, I knew things were odd, but he is super sly. they start slipping around 50 and start giving themselves away.
@@chrysrubio1024 you are not trash.
This is crazy that this man thinks this woman would want to be in a relationship with him 😳
DELUSION.
Right?!? He offers NOTHING!' He completely lacks self-awareness, & is SO delusional, UGLY, poor, OLD, & fat. The girl is a 10...he's a 1.
even if he would be a milionare , it will still be a question mark ... but considering he is a stupid guy in a shitty house unwashed unshaved un everything ... never been anywhere ... why in hell she will be with him
Exactly! Ugh! What a laugh!
I know....delusional much?
He looks a bit slow. Does he really think that a woman like that would go out with him in real life?🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️
She would if he paid 8.000 dollars, that's what he sent the money for, isn't it? A date he never got.
Yes, there is something off about this guy. He doesn't understand what is really going on. Hope his wife divorces him immediately and safeguards her money.
😳😳🤦🏿♀️🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤦🏿♀️😭😭😭😍🙏🏿🧚🏿♀️
I KNOW!
yes, he does think that. he's THAT pathetic & grotesque.