Why do Narcissists cheat?

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  • @santorinirocksbykatie3552
    @santorinirocksbykatie3552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My ex who is a neglectful narcissist was excellent at dancing around the truth and any point of a conversation. I used to joke with him that he spoke in riddles. After a while I got so irritated because it was like pulling teeth to get any conversation out of him. The stonewalling was crazy making

  • @vincecavedog3219
    @vincecavedog3219 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sadistic emotional predators of the dark triad.

  • @surfshack2
    @surfshack2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love how you explain it. You are teaching it right. This is exactly how i saw the abuse that i went through. Thank you for stepping up and telling it like it is. You do have to remember that they are insatiable and will get bored with you and have to have other sources of supply to fill their void and their fantasy. They are telling you that you are amazing and the "one and only" but they are telling other people this too. I think as they get older they become more desperate and delusional and more blatant because they are in a constant state of panic.

  • @tinac6114
    @tinac6114 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Great video...BUT...I just cant bring myself to feel sorry for the NS! She knew about me, she left her hubby & 4 young daughters for the Narc & his 3 young kids. I'm a mom. What kind of mom leaves her family like that?!! I think they deserve each other! ❤

    • @cjfree1375
      @cjfree1375 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I dont feel sorry for either, they both lied and snuck around behind my back.
      Hes a creepy old narc man that is with a loose woman 22 years younger than him.
      I'm still very angry.

    • @tinac6114
      @tinac6114 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@cjfree1375 it's hard to get past that.

  • @empathicwarriorlissy3716
    @empathicwarriorlissy3716 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Well he had several phones and he had his fingerprints as passwords. Well he got drunk and I used his finger to open his phone. LMFAO I called his ex she confirmed what I already knew about him she is a real nice person. She even told me they were engaged that conversation never came up how funny is that.

  • @micktaylor1991
    @micktaylor1991 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Narcissistic nearley 7 years with the covert narc girlfriend. Before I went no contact I recieved a lot of texts from the narc. She text me I told her she d abused me she said there’s many forms of abuse. I text her and said you’ve been sleeping with other guys. She really replied there s no one in me rite now. She then said I am special . I replied ok jezabel. Conversation ended

    • @reneekelley4279
      @reneekelley4279 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Have always believed in love to cure many things but it only fed my narc’s enormous ego. it is important to be wise when dealing with a narcissist and I’m glad that darkwebprohack helped cloned my husband’s phone. i got access to his dealings both on phone and social media without touching his phone,I’m here in Miami Florida USA and able to access my husband’s phone even while his was away in the UK cheating on me.All I did was share my husband’s phone number with darkwebprohack and I was able to read both his new and deleted messages from my phone through a remote link to a programmed app containing cloned cell information without having to touch his phone...my husband was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad to find out all his secrets and infidelity with the help of darkwebprohack. My husband also tried to use this corona virus outbreak as a means to get back to me but I’m not stupid to allow someone so toxic back into my life, I’m finally going through divorce with a lot of evidence against him. i read all deleted and recent chat on Whats app,Facebook,Instagram and GPS location of his phone at all times, you can contact the great hacker via Gmail (darkwebprohack) or text and speak to him directly on the phone and Whats App +17076225057 and I hope you will fund the peace with your heart after finding the truth just like myself

  • @Drummergirl2876
    @Drummergirl2876 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You speak the truth. Love this channel. 💜

    • @reneekelley4279
      @reneekelley4279 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Have always believed in love to cure many things but it only fed my narc’s enormous ego. it is important to be wise when dealing with a narcissist and I’m glad that darkwebprohack helped cloned my husband’s phone. i got access to his dealings both on phone and social media without touching his phone,I’m here in Miami Florida USA and able to access my husband’s phone even while his was away in the UK cheating on me.All I did was share my husband’s phone number with darkwebprohack and I was able to read both his new and deleted messages from my phone through a remote link to a programmed app containing cloned cell information without having to touch his phone...my husband was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad to find out all his secrets and infidelity with the help of darkwebprohack. My husband also tried to use this corona virus outbreak as a means to get back to me but I’m not stupid to allow someone so toxic back into my life, I’m finally going through divorce with a lot of evidence against him. i read all deleted and recent chat on Whats app,Facebook,Instagram and GPS location of his phone at all times, you can contact the great hacker via Gmail (darkwebprohack) or text and speak to him directly on the phone and Whats App +17076225057 and I hope you will fund the peace with your heart after finding the truth just like myself

  • @debmccafferty1007
    @debmccafferty1007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    100% shade.

  • @TheRosemami
    @TheRosemami 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love all your videos, but this one is your greatest for me! Thank you 🙏

  • @curts5508
    @curts5508 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    you should feel lucky. imagine dealing with 48 yrs of this. its enough to drive a saint absolutely crazy. my advice is to not become too jaded. still let people in, just be very vigilant and cast out people who exhibit these behaviors. otherwise they win. I'm convinced these people were born evil, not their upbringing, as people suggest. some people are just bad seeds imo

    • @climboutoftraumawithcoachk8245
      @climboutoftraumawithcoachk8245  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Curt S I’m so sorry you dealt with it so long. You will heal. It takes time. Don’t let these silly creatures steal your joy. Find loving people to surround yourself with. No more miserable Narcissists. These people are like dark clouds and they bring that wherever they go. Find your joy🙏

    • @surfshack2
      @surfshack2 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My friend said that too. He said some people are just born with a "dark cloud" over them.

  • @redbird1336
    @redbird1336 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's true that narcissists have no empathy, but they DO KNOW that their cheating will hurt their spouse. And they take pleasure in that knowing. My ex-husband cheated the whole time we were married (12 years) and was very good at never getting caught. I'd suspect and question and he'd always deny. It wasn't until I left him for good and he knew the game was completely over with me, that he decided to "confess" all the times he cheated. He gloated in it, and had the attitude of "oh yeah, take that." "Remember when you asked me and I said no? Well you were right...I was out f**king someone". He really thought he would get one last big hurt in, but by this time I had zero feelings left for him except disgust. Took the wind out of his sails. Then blocked, went completely no contact, got a restraining order, and filed for divorce.😂

  • @zumadale
    @zumadale 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Married to one. I can check every single box that shes a full blown narc. Only one box I haven't been able to check....cheating...although she projects it onto me constantly....always being accused or shes suspicious of me at all times. She gets home from work and is on her phone and the internet all night long in the bedroom. All night every night. I have my suspicions for sure. Trying to figure out how to catch her.

    • @Alex-ji2oj
      @Alex-ji2oj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey Dayle! I do know from personal experience with a narcissist that it is highly likely that a narcissist will cheat especially when they are on their phones all the time messaging other people. I know it’s unfortunate to hear but your suspicions might be right. Since you are married, you both should have full transparency with each other on who you message, etc. You definitely deserve to know that information. If she doesn’t provide that transparency and chooses to withhold that info then that’s a possible indicator for cheating. Anyways, best of luck to you.

    • @jaredw5059
      @jaredw5059 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh man sounds like my last girlfriend. All attentiveness disappeared once she thought she had me and got sick of me…

    • @pnq868
      @pnq868 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Caught my narc gf cheated on me about 3 weeks ago. I had a gut feeling for months and red flags were everywhere. Then one day she rushed out to meet her new supply and i opened her laptop while she was out. She left her fb logged on which is unusual for her. Got hold of the whole conversation with her new supply (pictures, dirty talk and even discussion of thier last sex session) and confronted her, she tried to lie of course. I’ve moved out since and current trying to establish a new life. Im still trying to work out whether the last 7 years together was just a lie. Regardless im glad I’ve moving on now.

    • @denislegeev1119
      @denislegeev1119 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Everything should be in her messengers. Most of them do little covering up because they are above such boring technical details and believe you are too stupid to follow up anyway

  • @tania2538
    @tania2538 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! After I was triangulated and lied to for two years when my husband had an affair with our neighbour whilst I was pregnant he left as the baby was just one month old. I have been worrying so much about their relationship, are they a better fit (they do share the same hobbies) and going over and over.. will it last? Will they be happy?? They both left their spouses and 4 small children have been duped. I think it is so unfair all! Watching this video confirms, history will repeat but since he seems the covert type it might take a while before the mask comes off. Thanks for the insights!

  • @shamimtemour
    @shamimtemour 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    His emotional affair partner was a childhood sweetheart, she knows it’s wrong, but doesn’t care. They could both be Narcissists. She’s on husband number 4 and now my husband left me because I gave an ultimatum. He’s probably waiting for her to get rid of her 4th husband before he moves in with her. Something similar happened with these two fools 13 years ago. He’s obsessed with her, I want her to teach him a lesson for walking out me and the kids 😔

  • @koreydavis8655
    @koreydavis8655 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is spot on!!

  • @rigosagrero
    @rigosagrero 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is spot on !
    If only you were a better husband .. Look at what you made me do to you !or , he hit on me even though I was married.

  • @wmhhealth2018
    @wmhhealth2018 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My nex triangulated me with her best female friend and her ex husband. It is likely these were her two most frequent cheating partners. She told me on our second date that she was attracted to women. I almost believe she is a lesbian.

    • @Seasquares
      @Seasquares 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought the same of my ex. She once mused she’s only 2 percent gay. She would checkout women then go to the washroom and look at herself in the mirror to compare. She was a very religious girl and even called herself a unicorn.

  • @imanistinson214
    @imanistinson214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Same !!! Omg

  • @jeffpayne5670
    @jeffpayne5670 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi my name is Jeff and