You're probably smarter than most of the people around you. If they don't understand, it's probably because they have inferior minds or no experience at all, so they're naive. Present it like you were presenting to a child and I'd bet they'll understand. Then that will show you precisely what I'm suggesting here. You're probably smarter than most of the people around you and just don't believe that about yourself. Know that and things change because your perspective changes.
I find I have to 'over' explain sometimes because my mind works faster than my mouth/words do. It's like speaking for ten minutes and skipping half of it in the process. I've left out important items that helps them understand. I have not filled in the gaps that sometimes I don't realize that I filled them in myself without even realizing that I had. I understand certain things and take it for granted other people already know so I leave that out too.
th-cam.com/users/shortsJ05hvO_L4Cc?feature=share All of u.s. should now have complex trauma from the tyrannical policies of forcing those injections Arbitrarily on everyone of u.s. peons by the narcissists in charge abusing their power and their authority over u.s. citizens
Your comment just read and just experienced this in repeating the pattern of attempting resolution by talking again and not only felt worse but resolution not even begun. I do have hope with my faith but the pain has been anguish at times and painful now in spite of my failure to receive what I hoped for. Tim came to my attention only recently and though not the context of addiction ... have had traumatic experiences where I am helped and given much food for thought and education to understand myself and others better!
Tim you explained things in such a great and understanding light. You got me right in the gut here!! Thank you so much for your videos, they have truly helped me understand myself and my addiction. 💖
This is an amazing lecture. There's also the changes that happen in perimenopause and menopause in women during this time that makes it even more dangerous.
I dont need apology, but what im asking is not to be invalidated, no more, is thats too much expectation? If i confronted i got this answer,......BUT IM NOT INVALIDATED YOU....stop attacking . I felt more invalidated,...
People with complex trauma need to learn to validate themselves because they risk getting into abusive relationships due to that need of outside validation. I know because I had too many narcissistic relationship, starting at childhood with my mother, my first bully. Take care. We need to learn self love and self respect.
Good teaching Tim, grateful for your sharing helpful insights. fortunately we are both still working. We both had the virus and quarantined for 2 weeks.
I do have one person who gets me but I'm 58 and alone . I wake up crying every day. I just feel so depressed and anxious. Life doesn't seem worth living.
Please pray for courage to reach out to someone and get help! You deserve to not be crying everyday. God does not want this for you. Is there a free support group meeting around you? Ia sending love and prayers for you to find more support and encouragement. Do not give up. There will be some smiles and hugs in your future.
I had that too, plus nightmares so Bad I was afraid to sleep. I’m ok now, but I had to learn how to think properly- it’s not just positive thinking, it’s difficult to explain. Listening to Norman Vincent Peal or Florence Shovel Shinn helps it’s a start.
I always try to over explain because I constantly feel like I’m not being understood and then people get irritated with me
You're probably smarter than most of the people around you. If they don't understand, it's probably because they have inferior minds or no experience at all, so they're naive. Present it like you were presenting to a child and I'd bet they'll understand. Then that will show you precisely what I'm suggesting here. You're probably smarter than most of the people around you and just don't believe that about yourself. Know that and things change because your perspective changes.
I find I have to 'over' explain sometimes because my mind works faster than my mouth/words do. It's like speaking for ten minutes and skipping half of it in the process. I've left out important items that helps them understand. I have not filled in the gaps that sometimes I don't realize that I filled them in myself without even realizing that I had. I understand certain things and take it for granted other people already know so I leave that out too.
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th-cam.com/users/shortsJ05hvO_L4Cc?feature=share
All of u.s. should now have complex trauma from the tyrannical policies of forcing those injections
Arbitrarily on everyone of u.s. peons by the narcissists in charge abusing their power and their authority over u.s. citizens
Your comment just read and just experienced this in repeating the pattern of attempting resolution by talking again and not only felt worse but resolution not even begun. I do have hope with my faith but the pain has been anguish at times and painful now in spite of my failure to receive what I hoped for. Tim came to my attention only recently and though not the context of addiction ... have had traumatic experiences where I am helped and given much food for thought and education to understand myself and others better!
BRAVO!!🙌
My brain has apparently never produced dopamine.
I thank God for this remarkable man. I knewer knew, that its so common for people..to be broken... I thought Im the only one
I am so grateful, thanks God for your teaching.
Tim you explained things in such a great and understanding light. You got me right in the gut here!! Thank you so much for your videos, they have truly helped me understand myself and my addiction. 💖
wow, that thoroughly scared me about turning 40 in a few years....especially considering the place i am in now
I’m learning how to forgive 😅 and learn how to think correctly
This is an amazing lecture. There's also the changes that happen in perimenopause and menopause in women during this time that makes it even more dangerous.
Resentment was my downfall, I do think of bad things that could happen to them!
When Tim talked about dangers in romantic relationships I related to what he said in my work life. Amazing!
I dont need apology, but what im asking is not to be invalidated, no more, is thats too much expectation?
If i confronted i got this answer,......BUT IM NOT INVALIDATED YOU....stop attacking .
I felt more invalidated,...
People with complex trauma need to learn to validate themselves because they risk getting into abusive relationships due to that need of outside validation. I know because I had too many narcissistic relationship, starting at childhood with my mother, my first bully. Take care. We need to learn self love and self respect.
You Are the Best!
Very good thank you
Thank you for continuing to work during the shutdowns. Your ministry is ESSENTIAL.
Moore Mary Young Jennifer Johnson Angela
Good teaching Tim, grateful for your sharing helpful insights. fortunately we are both still working. We both had the virus and quarantined for 2 weeks.
Life is already blah and less satisfying. I am 36 years old. 😐
I do have one person who gets me but I'm 58 and alone . I wake up crying every day. I just feel so depressed and anxious. Life doesn't seem worth living.
It's not.
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I am right there with you
Please pray for courage to reach out to someone and get help!
You deserve to not be crying everyday.
God does not want this for you. Is there a free support group meeting around you?
Ia sending love and prayers for you to find more support and encouragement.
Do not give up.
There will be some smiles and hugs in your future.
I had that too, plus nightmares so
Bad I was afraid to sleep. I’m ok now, but I had to learn how to think properly- it’s not just positive thinking, it’s difficult to explain. Listening to Norman Vincent Peal or Florence Shovel Shinn helps it’s a start.
You cover everything
So many relatable things.
Lets go !! Court fate and time !! Stopmtalking non semse for God sake !! Hell.idvwrong with you ???
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Merry Christmas 2020 Pastor Tim!
Thank you so much. Merry Christmas to you as well
Thank you ❤ much Love from Germany
You people all fell for the scam. Just listening to him say over and over and over about the lockdown way out in 2024 is unbearably triggering!!
This was recorded three years ago.