Infidelity PTSD: Symptoms & How to Cope (tips from a therapist)

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  • Licensed therapist, Dr. Jaclyn Gulotta, answers the question "Can Infidelity Cause PTSD?" She goes over symptoms of ptsd caused by infidelity in your relationship and how to cope.
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    Video voice over by Dr. Jaclyn Gulotta, LMHC
    Article: Infidelity PTSD: Symptoms & How to Cope
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    Written by: Jaclyn Gulotta, LMHC
    Reviewed by: Benjamin Troy, MD
    #infidelity #cheating #ptsd

ความคิดเห็น • 18

  • @laurelarchambault4936
    @laurelarchambault4936 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    When it goes on between your boyfriend and very close girlfriend the deceit and humiliation betrayal is doubled . Neither one has ever even apologized. I ended up in a mental hospital have been in therapy 2 years just now seeing light at end of tunnel, diagnosed with CPTSD

    • @choosingtherapy
      @choosingtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for sharing your story. For anyone else reading this that wants to learn more about CPTSD, here's an article we published: www.choosingtherapy.com/complex-ptsd/
      We also linked an article we published on betrayal trauma below: www.choosingtherapy.com/betrayal-trauma/

    • @saintejeannedarc9460
      @saintejeannedarc9460 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I really understand about that level of betrayal. I was commonlaw, we'd bought a house and were together 10 years. He brought a girl half his age home, because her father had just died. I feel for it, and befriended and helped her for a few months, before I figured it out. They used my church as a chasing ground, and then she moved a few doors down months before I finally knew the full extent of the affair and kicked him out. It had been so traumatic. He's been out a year, but I just found out a month ago how close she lived. It was yet another lie he told that I knew she was close, but didn't realize her damn doorway was right out my front door so near.

    • @lexiemaep7930
      @lexiemaep7930 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My ex husband of 17 yrs was having an affair with my identical twin. I got over it by water fasting for 1 week. It actually works. I know what your going through, forgive yourself and the rest will follow. I had no idea that I was the one I had to forgive. Forgive myself for not seeing the signs, for staying with an abusive asshole and cheater.

    • @jayjay1443
      @jayjay1443 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Happened to me too.

  • @paulbriamroy
    @paulbriamroy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My ex had an affair and hooked up 50-100 (her words) for a year. I was working so much and so hard to give us a beautiful home and allowed her to be a stay at home mom. I knew something was up and after I finally caught her. Our life was a lie. It’s been 15 years and I’m still destroyed about her betrayal and all the lies. I can’t even get sensual with other ladies cuz I’m the moment I think about her cheating. She ruined our family and now my children have nothing to do with me cuz i coped by drinking beer. When I was thinking about harming myself I discovered those thoughts went away when I was drunk. I’m sure I have ptsd. Wish I would have sought help back then. I still can’t go around family or friends because I’m so embarrassed at what she did.

    • @josephinefernandez4150
      @josephinefernandez4150 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Why ashame?its their wrongdoings not ours...

    • @pinsku-wh5ze
      @pinsku-wh5ze 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I know it Hurts like hell😢 not you're Shame .. its her Shame💯

  • @saiden0512
    @saiden0512 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Even the term cptsd triggeres me cuz he made it about his betrayal. Even a letter in the alphabet can trigger me at this point. My life is ruined.i changed as a person

    • @choosingtherapy
      @choosingtherapy  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for sharing! Here's an article that goes over how to cope with infidelity here: www.choosingtherapy.com/infidelity

  • @Callmenobody369
    @Callmenobody369 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much 🙏

  • @HollyMaysHarshAwakening2024
    @HollyMaysHarshAwakening2024 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much I needed to hear this

    • @choosingtherapy
      @choosingtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are so welcome! Here's the full article we published if you'd like to read more on infidelity ptsd: www.choosingtherapy.com/infidelity-ptsd/

  • @1975gdawn
    @1975gdawn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Me

  • @davemcdonald8790
    @davemcdonald8790 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The background music is a bit distracting

  • @user-em1sj5ph6h
    @user-em1sj5ph6h หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’d never marry again….marriage is the agreement where the one who breaks the agreement is rewarded.

  • @Patriotloghomes
    @Patriotloghomes 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is not good for advice.