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After years of sleeping with the enemy, im 100% all good being single
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Sleeping with the enemy, the enemy sleeps in peace while we remain awake and on guard
This is a hard pill to swallow when you’re watching everyone around you getting married or in relationships or even having friendships and for you it NOTHING ❗️💯
And this is sooo true a lot of us aren’t gonna get married, have children, have friendships, have happy family relationships…The only thing I always wonder is, why do we have these feelings..I wish they would disappear for the ones that it’ll never happen for because for some of us it’s depressing.💯 I struggle with this every other month and I see people with big friend circles, family circles, marriages..Relationships..It’s hard!!
@vanillapudding9471 I can relate. I've always been a loner, but not all by choice. Very small family, only associates - no.friends, single mom for years. I keep my eyes fixed on Jesus and the thought rarely crosses my mind anymore, and when it does, it doesn't hurt so much. God is helping me to accept His will.
I agree totally.....im in the same situation...
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It ain’t all g like that. Lotta cheatin and neck-breakin goin on. It ain’t happen to me but I was invited to many love triangles I didn’t want no parts of. Usually friends’ girls. No reason to be jealous.
I've been single for a long time and celibate for a few years. Can't meet anyone I can relate to.
It has been four years for me and I am happy and content. ❤ love to you all.
Jesus will send u a righteous man in due time when ur all way ready may jesus bless u and renew all your ways love u sis
WE ARE OUR OWN WORST ENEMY BY SAYING WE WANT GOD'S WILL YET FORCING OUR OWN 💯
Amen.
After battling and overcoming a 20+ year long porn/lust addiction I don't have any desire for physical intimacy. I'm a bride of Christ and that's good enough for me.
Idk what God's plan is for me. What I do know is I've lost many friends, people I love, even my kids. I've learned to let go and give my life to follow God's path. I've stopped everything. I have a relationship with my oldest daughter, and thats all I need. I'm helping her get on the right path and not make the mistakes I made. Been single for 10 months now and I have no desire to seek any women or any relationship unless its with God. I've surrendered my life to him.
Amen bro love u
I have been targeted so bad. They bugged my phone. They follow me, stalk me, and harass me. I just need someone to talk to. They tried to mess with me mentally by gaslighting me and making me feel that I’m crazy and have a wild imagination. I was put through horrific traumatizing things that’s very dark. They hurt my body and I still choose to love and be the best person I can be. I have helped so many people that turned there back on me. I’m very happy, content, and at peace being single. But I have no friends to talk to that will understand me.
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I understand!
God does not permit his children to be mistreated.
Won’t get any relationship at this time. Following the path of God. Especially in these times we don’t need to be distracted. Healing and don’t want any interruptions on my spiritual path.💜😇🙏
where does it say in I Cor 7 that marriage would be a distraction?
The real chosen ones are single. Relationships are lessons and cycles endings we can chose to stay but our calling is higher to the world and the people's. You were made to stand out not fit in. You're walking God's path. Empaths are God's gift to the world They be trying to strip you of something and things that God gave you. They are jealous of your rank. They were trying to lower your value because, you're way more valuable than them toxic takers/ leeches, they are the second best, that's why they had to do a deal with the Devil because the Devil is the second best. God yeah the Devil is the runner up, God will always be first, and when you put God first you will be first! They've been playing us, I'm really getting those that were last will be first, and the first will be last. stop playing, stop playing, something about these people feels inferior to you. They made a deal with the devil to try and stop you and take away your gifts. They tried to strip you of things God gave you and steal your gifts through the devil. A spiritual warfare. They manipulated did spells and magic. You're God's gift to the world and they don't like that! You're touching the world with your gifts! These people, they were trying to take your gifts, spiritually, physically and your blessings, your fortune. Your energy is currency, they don't have the energy that you got, it is above their pay grade! You're supposed to be doing something with the world or doing something for the world and someone is trying to stop you or something like that (( we got the whole world in our hands, we got the whole world in our hands)) That's crazy that they made a deal with the Devil to get your gifts. We're very important. You're very important and with your energy, your energy is a currency. You're more gifted than them and more valuable, you matter. They don't feel valuable. They feel like nothing they do matters. I'm not saying that they are not. They don't feel valuable especially when they are looking at you.
@@dctalk4641 I was married to a very narcissistic person previously. It was years of abuse. Not all marriages are bad but mine was a mental prison.
Being alone gives you the clarity to be on the path of God.🙏😇💜
@@Skyviking Im sorry to hear about your failed marriage. Picking a partner for marriage is the 2nd most important decision a person can make in life besides getting saved. However, God never intended for man to be alone. It was never designed to be that way. In Genesis 2:18 the Lord said
It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him It is always better and easier to have a partner in marriage to help each other to get to heaven. This guy that made this video is a false teacher. I warn you now dont believe a thing he says about the Bible. He will lead you to hell.
@@dctalk4641did you read where Paul said it’s better to be single, and if we cannot control ourselves sexually then get married? Before accusing someone of being a false teacher, read the Bible. The whole Bible, not just the parts that support your argument.
He wants to keep you single until you are prepared for the person He wants you to be with. That’s all it is. Genesis 2:18 tells us it is not good for man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him. There is nothing more beautiful than 2 people coming together in the Lord as one flesh. There is a time of healing and transformation that must take place for us chosen ones before the Lord will bring your partner in your life. Don’t ever give up hope. God doesn’t want you or me or any of his children single forever it’s only temporary!
it sounds optimistic, but how do you explain people who die single or Christians who never get married? i mean im 35 and a guy in this day and age and it could be that i don't ever get married, esp with this whole 'modern dating' garbage going on. what do you say to that then?
You absolutely nailed it!. I have been single for 12 years. I can count how many times men have approached me and it’s 4 for these 12 yrs. I am an attractive fit women to the point I look way younger than my age. No one understands why I’m single, but I do it’s the Lord. I gave my life to him and I live a life according to his will.
Nice!
Woah 12 years? Maybe you denied one of your suitors thats been gifted to you.
Did you even get to know them?
Honestly with your looks, you can pretty much choose any.
Many Christian women became single at age 40 with that thinking.
This got me thinking that their standards became too high and waited and waited for the perfect man.
Remember. Loving someone's imperfection is also God's part of his perfection.
But if it's really your choice to not have kids then fine.
I personally dont want to have a family.
At 32 it seems like asking for trouble.
@@cleangoblin2021 These men that approached me were not Christian. They all wanted sex before marriage. I let them know my legs are closed until I walk down the aisle and say I do.
Same here, 13 years single
That's why men should go by choosing signals instead of wasting their time and giving out free compliments. 😅
My soul is weary with sorrow;strengthen me according to your word.(Psalm119:28,NIV) thank you, stay blessed and safe ❤️🩹
I really understand .
Psalms 91: Powerful within the Words Spoken❤
Wow, thank you so much. I’ve been single for seven years after a 25 year narcissistic marriage and sometimes I feel lonely but this was just confirmation that I need to keep my focus on Jesus and not add a new distraction thank you thank you.
Amen
Such a distraction. And then the whole fleshy, lust problem can come up. Just saying
The Bible also says that when you walk in the will of the father, he adds No Sorrow with it. So He is not going to lead you into a narcissistic relationship ship. Not unless it celibate. We save ourselves for marriage right, so date or whatever but usually if with a narcissist your emotional or spiritually connected. Think about it. The Lord adds no sorrow he carries your weight
There is SO MUCH RESENTMENT IN MY HEART TOWARDS GOD BECAUSE OF THIS ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️I AM SO FED UP
I've been single and selebate for 17 months now 🙌 a peace like nothing else!
Amen!!! 🙏🏾
"Rejection is protection"
💯 FACTZ, have patience, GOD will send the right person into your life when his time is right! I’m single & I love it because I know it’s on GODs timing not mine. Put GOD 1st and the rest will follow.
Seek his kingdom first!
@@juanlake53 Amen Amen 🙏🏽
@faithoverfear1329 Amen 🙌🛐❤️ Its hard sometimes, but I definitely believe, I know it will be worth it in the end... 😊
Amen.. truth..facts.,💯💯🤞🤞🤞✝️🙏🙏😊
Amen sis love u may jesus bless u and renew your heart and mind he will bless u in due time and right season 🙏 he loves u and has ya back always stay blessed I'm going thru same things I count it all joy for are lord
I have been married 2 times, but never had an anniversary. For many years I was jealous of those who were married. I hated looking at any wedding dresses. Because for years I thought I was cursed. Couldn't understand why, God said no. So I finally gave him my anger and jealousy. Now for at least five years I have Peace, and no desire to find a husband. By the way I have been single for over 20 years
Single and celibate is so much better for my life. God straightened me out with bonus lessons learned! Idolatry can be found in desiring to put another first before God. God is so faithful and true to deliver me from idolatry . You speak truth!!
I hear u justice I can understand that , what I'm gona say is the paradise aspect is the issue and being stopped from getting your money cause of what others deliberately inflict that is the liberty
Yes, Lord let your will be done in Jesus name! Amen!🙏🏼
Sometimes we need to be alone to be able to do what God wants from us ,is very hard to even meet anyone that won't look at us like we need to be in a mental hospital... God has a better plan and if God has someone for each of us,He will show us ,,,and the one for us if is fromGod He will lead the way ,,,, sometimes we feel lonely 🥺 and i can relate 💯,,,when i feel lonely I ask Jesus to remind me im love by Him ,Even if i have no partner im sstill very much loved ...
Absolutely Amen ❤
Lol I feel like people look at me like I need to be in a mental hospital too
I understand completely
The real chosen ones are single. Relationships are lessons and cycles endings we can chose to stay but our calling is higher to the world and the people's. You were made to stand out not fit in. You're walking God's path. Empaths are God's gift to the world They be trying to strip you of something and things that God gave you. They are jealous of your rank. They were trying to lower your value because, you're way more valuable than them toxic takers/ leeches, they are the second best, that's why they had to do a deal with the Devil because the Devil is the second best. God yeah the Devil is the runner up, God will always be first, and when you put God first you will be first! They've been playing us, I'm really getting those that were last will be first, and the first will be last. stop playing, stop playing, something about these people feels inferior to you. They made a deal with the devil to try and stop you and take away your gifts. They tried to strip you of things God gave you and steal your gifts through the devil. A spiritual warfare. They manipulated did spells and magic. You're God's gift to the world and they don't like that! You're touching the world with your gifts! These people, they were trying to take your gifts, spiritually, physically and your blessings, your fortune. Your energy is currency, they don't have the energy that you got, it is above their pay grade! You're supposed to be doing something with the world or doing something for the world and someone is trying to stop you or something like that (( we got the whole world in our hands, we got the whole world in our hands)) That's crazy that they made a deal with the Devil to get your gifts. We're very important. You're very important and with your energy, your energy is a currency. You're more gifted than them and more valuable, you matter. They don't feel valuable. They feel like nothing they do matters. I'm not saying that they are not. They don't feel valuable especially when they are looking at you.
@@JoseGarcia-dm2bnyeppers🤣
I feel sometimes I’m suppose to be alone ! I can’t relate or connect with many
It’s not fair, how can you be in the flesh and not have worldly desires. Its so stupid, its truly a curse to be chosen
Jeremiah 17:9-10
The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked; who can know it?
I, the Lord, search the heart, I test the mind, even to give every man according to his ways, according to the fruit of his doing.
I agree man if your partner isn’t for God and the Holy Spirit as much as you are you will be unequally yoked and you’ll do things more worldly of the flesh than the spirit of righteousness
God is an illusion ✊🏽💎😌
In my 50s here I've been single most of my life. We are living in the end time. The Ezikial 38 war is starting soon. Tribulation is starting so no reason to pursue a relationship we are in the end end times. So I feel it's irrelevant
I agree ❤ scripture backs it up… I’ve battled w this at times,
but He is sufficient for us. ❤
Yes, when people get in relationships they tend to walk more with the world, we stop putting our relationship with the lord first. It's way more peaceful to be single and with the lord.
I think I do feel that God's love is the love that is most appropriate for me.❤
I’m guilty of this. I sometimes fixate on why I don’t have a partner. I do believe that they would be a distraction. Thank you for this message. I really needed to hear it this morning.
The most honest spit I’ve heard anyone ever say that confirms exactly where I’ve been for 13 years now….
I’ve been married twice, I’m good I don’t need to b in a relationship I enjoy me time, iv given myself to my kids two husbands and family members and ended up being treated like crap, and yes I’m a very good, kind, loving and compassionate woman, but sadly iv attracted bad ppl into my life, due to my kind heart cuz any good man or family would never want to see me hurt or in pain, yet they all have betrayed me and let me down but what’s funny is how they think I did them wrong omg really so bcuz I stopped allowing them to bully me and manipulate me I’m now the bad one, oh well, I no I’m not so I’m good it’s time to yes get closer to God, cuz he’s the only Man who’s been their for me and I’m so grateful, thank you lord Jesus amen 🙏
Thank you for this message. I was married to a narcissist for 11 years. I have felt so guilty for not desiring another relationship…my minor children want a “traditional family”. They want a step dad…but I know what I endured and have no interest in accidentally enduring again.
Brother we have to remember that marriage and children is a treasure and blessing in this lifetime. I don't understand why preachers these days talk down about it, or make it seem like being single is the ultimate blessing when for most people it's not. We also have to remember that people have SEXUAL DESIRES. Better to MARRY than to burn (not stay single). I sought God for an answer diligently and he told me to be patient and it will be worth the wait, I have been praying for a spouse for 5 years now.
There is nothing more attractive than an authentic man of God who seeks to do the will of God over everything else. I would rather be single than waste my time with guys who look like men, but behave like boys. Sex is a spiritual and sexual act and unfortunately there aren't very many people who have the discipline to wait until marriage
This video blessed me because I agree with it 100%. After leaving a marriage from dealing with infidelity toward the end, I no longer have a desire for a relationship. I’ve spent so many years trying to get a man to love & accept me, but relationships are not for everyone and during that timeframe I spent more time playing “mom” or “therapist”, than the actual role of girlfriend and wife. A lot of relationships are for aesthetics. Some of them are unfortunately laying with someone who doesn’t even like them. Scary, right? But there’s so much emphasis on the glitz and glam of marriage, that it becomes idolized. If God isn’t present in any relationship, it’s guaranteed to fail. I’ve always spent time alone, but you’ll be mind boggled on how many others struggle with loneliness & necessary isolation. This is why ppl hop from person to person and still become unhappy. God bless you for this video. Being the chosen one is not easy, but it’s rewarding. Singleness is not punishment, only preparation.
I’ve never had a real relationship, just experienced limerence. I’ve been celibate over 7 years and honestly can’t even connect with other people anymore because I feel like an alien. I don’t fit in with Christians or family. I don’t feel like I connect with anyone so I don’t bother talking to my friends or even getting together and I wonder why I’m even here because I’ve stopped trying to live. I’m not depressed or anything just lost any sense of joy or direction and I don’t really have empathy for other peoples problems. I just go to work so I don’t starve to death, I’m bored and have no dreams or desires really. I’m tired of feeling like I get to do the whole job alone and go home to zero hugs.
You say you are not depressed but it sounds to me that you actually are! We are in a spiritual war. You've got to fight by seeking God through prayer and His word. The devil is trying to take all that he can from you. Put on the full armor of God!!!
Been celibate for 7 years! Thought it was best to wait until I met the right person …. It didn’t happen and im okay with it ❤
But if you are yoked equally, then you will strengthen each other’s faith. That’s what I have discovered with my husband.
I'm going to spend time along with the Lord God. My broken heart is not yet healed. Plus, I want to remain close to the Most High. ❤❤
This is spot on for me. I know my relationship with Christ and his purpose for my life is stronger with just he and I. My life is about Kingdom Business. 55 never been married. I will never forget when God spoke to me during worship one day 20 some years ago and asked me if He was all I ever had would he be enough. He is more than enough
Thank you brother.
Same here. If the partner don't know the lord. Easy for devil to attack.
To remain single is not for everyone.
The holy spirit remind me
Matthew 22:30
At the resurrection people will neither marry nor be given in marriage; they will be like the angels in heaven.
Yeah I did not want to hear God when I was being sent all my desires in front of my face and the relationship never worked out. I definitely get committed to one person. I was with my ex for 11 years and he was a narcissist and when I started standing up for myself he couldn't take it no more and dipped out and it was sad because we had had kids together. Now all I can do is pray for him but keep your head up. It's amazing that there's somebody else out there like me. I really didn't think it was even possible to hear a man say the things that you're saying😊 You are amazing! Like absolutely a godsent gift. I surround myself with the angels now and the holy spirit and I find more peace and love than I ever felt. Having people around being isolated is the easiest form of obedience. You are absolutely amazing! I'll definitely make sure I'm giving you recognition for that. God bless you man. I pray for you. We're not perfect but we doing it and he sees it. Thank you 100
Amen! Some of us have a higher calling and are waiting for God to call us into action. We need to calm our walk with Him to be able to hear His direction. I have grown to Love my alone time, maybe a bit too much.
Proverbs 28 13
The one who conceals his sins will not prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them will find mercy.
I am alone but not lonely. The peace from being single is a blessing compared to someone narcissistic. The attention people demand and tine a relationship takes from you walk with God, is not worth it
Good word man, I need Godly friends in my life. It's super satisfying seeing a wise tattooed young buck humbled in the Holyspirit. This is a great message and resonates with me as I am currently being redirected and separated from my fiance of 11years. There was a purpose and our time together was a season. It's the most painful experience I've ever felt emotionally, mentally and spiritually. It has taught us hard lessons and tests. Memories and crippling and pictures inflict pain. I don't want to distract this one shot at life that I got over a temporary human relationship. Everything on this planet has a potential and risk to pull u away from the will if God. I don't wanna ditch the ultimate bridegroom at the alter. I wanna make my Savior and creator so proud and cherished.
I see people get into relationships just because they don't want to be alone. But the strongest action is saying no to people and preserving the self. Most humans are now corrupt by materialism, status, and look for someone else for all the wrong reasons. Intention is everything.
💔 24, never had a girlfriend before. But I know deep down if I get one it would be a huge distraction.
Thank you for the word brother this gave me the confirmation I needed
Same except I’m 26
If the godly woman is dedicated to God, then a beautiful life can be shared in testimony of the Lord and Jesus. I pray you get to know a girl who loves Jesus more than anyone , that woman will treat you godly 🙏🏽☺️ I am asking to the lord, the only man I want in my life is the one who loves him more than me! That's the man who will always stay faithful, respectful, loyal, kind, passionate and generous and innocent but yet so strong Spirit ! Blessings
My son is 20 yrs and never had girlfriend ever. HE suffers anxiety dyslexia self recluse... but he starts university this year one day a week.. for special needs ... I love my sons... im a warfare praying mama... my eldest son 29 now is bed ridden seizures.. hes also Autistic.. sweet gentle soul.. hes never had girlfriend.. hes so pure hearted innocent.. hes our precious gift from God.. hes always lifting his arms to GOD in prayer.. I pray for them to grow strong in Lord Jesus.. I pray for my son with dyslexia future wife whom will be who God chooses for him.. a young beautiful born again Christian woman... wife to cherish him and aid him working together .. vice versa for Gods will in Jesus name and GODS Timing.. I pray same for you right now if it is Gods will.... be encouraged JESUS ORDERS STEPS OF HIS RIGHTEOUS MEN... I ASK GODS MERCY OVER ALL SAINTS LIVES IN JESUS ALMIGHTY NAME AMEN 🙏. ❤ BLESS YOU FROM NEW ZEALAND...
@@srlife4583Lord Jesus bless you.. cover you in his wings of refuge... HALLELUJA JESUS AMEN 🙏.
When I asked why am I single I heard you belong to me now. Well that's that. I'm not allowed to put any one over God. Not even my kids.
Bro I have been praying on this. Like I have been trying to ask women out and nothing. Like someone pray for on this.
You're definitely saying the hard truth. Great message!!!
We also weren't meant to be alone. God made man and women To be together.
I hope so I feel way more at peace
❤Isaiah 54:5
Isaiah 54:5 KJV
For thy Maker is thine husband; the LORD of hosts is his name; and thy Redeemer the Holy One of Israel; The God of the whole earth shall he be called.
Bro God Bless you I been having those feelings Gods been speaking to me saying just be still don’t worry my love is sufficient God is Love
Pray for a guy I knew named Nick..was said today he has 48 hours to live. He 43.
I'm currently discerning a calling for something called the "Consecrated Single Life."
your a smart younge man, the greatest decision you've made was to accept Jesus in your life,
l'm amazed at God's charater and awareness of me, when there's so many people in this world that are more important than l am,
loving God with all my heart isn't something l have to do, it's a decision l made, and a decision l hope my children understand too,
my goal in life is to make God smile, because He's proud of me.
My decision to not remarry us for many reasons, but the most important reason is GRATITUDE!
I know l can never pay Him back for the Salvation He gave me, but l can try
REALITY OF IT.THEEEE CHOSEN ONES.
I know I was meant to love and be loved, but I am wiser, much wiser and thankful for the lessons. Grateful to be on my own with God and working on health, food and interest in musical abilities. Living in the moment and not dependent on another. Gratitude and Love. I got my own wild birds and deer that love me everyday and they are more consistent than any man I have been around.
Animals are where it's at! God gives us unconditional love in different ways if we're open to receive. 🙏🏻🐾
Single yes. Relationship yes.
Single for Christ🔥🔥
I really appreciate what you had to say in this one brother. And a lot of y'all out there, y'all need to just adopt a cat because there's a million of them out there that need a home, and a cat will teach you more about a give and take relationship than any other animal. I did it and I was not a cat person. But I stuck it out and I've learned a lot about myself and having a give and take relationship and not giving up( everything is earned with a cat). Mind you I was with the same person for 15 years before all of this and I have been single for 7 years because I kept going back to the same kind of relationships. Thank you
Single, and this fact provides me peace ☮️🕊️.
I have to say most the things that is sed in this video is truth. I 'm married and God showed me that purpose of marriage is not to please one another ,but walk thogeder towards Him. I live in celibacy with my husband and He gave us crroses wich we wouldn't have if we stayed single. It is hard lesson but we did it against His will. Please pray hard if you want to know what is best for you regardlrss yout wishes.
God is our creator and watcher. He gave us tools to use so its upto us how we use them. Our angels guide us to the right path but if we dont pay attention to the signs and signals and messages then we end up being with the wrong people. God doesnt want us to be alone or single but we need to use our common sense and pay attention to everything. And most importantly.......listen to your intuition.
Fire 🔥 In Jesus Name Amen
I want everyone to understand that being single but still having sex is not God plan. Being a single Christian is walking with God in all things and that means no hook ups. Yes it can be challenging but it the way to reach a level with God unseen by many. I’ve poured all I am into relationships. At this point in life I’m trying to take this walk of being single. Preach my brother. Thx
This is the truth you confirmed what God told me when I got married that demonic narcissist It was to teach me a lesson at first, I was upset I had to take accountability for being unequally yoked with a unbeliever which I knew was wrong I didn’t take heed I have repented since I’ll leave it to God to send me a spouse according to His will 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾.
I'm praying to be released from a bad relationship with a narc I'm currently trapped due to financial abuse ..
Also I have a heart he won't do well without me but if I could leave hima lump sum at least I've done one last thing at the end of the day it's the demon I want to get away from ..
Please pray for us ..
For him to have the strength to beat this demon and for me to be freed so I can be with God ..
Thank you for your work 💯💪🙏💜
Thank you
Am at the same place as you for the same reasons and God is first for me too 🤍🙏🏻
AMEN BROTHA 🙏 "I AM HIS AND HE IS MINE😊"-THIS MIRACLE STICK IS OWNED ALREADY❤
It is better to come from a broken relationship than to remain in one
I prefer single 2 b a merciful missionary
We need more Christian warrior. Ppl who are ready and willing to risk there life’s for the gods world. We have too many brave talker we need to show ppl that Christian doesn’t mean passive or soft
The word of God says to be passive and turn the other cheek, to pray for and love thine enemies, to be wise as serpents yet harmless as doves.
I really needed to hear this. I've allowed the men in my life to become more important than God by my actions.
I just went through an ugly breakup. been doing semen retention for a couple months now. lonely. horny. frustrated. desperately miss and love the woman that mistreated me. not having a great time.
First off You are spot on Fam with a lot of your content… especially this one. I’am 48 and was married young in my first marriage.. 3 Boys all three grown and gone doing their thing in life very blessed with that .First marriage lasted nine and a half years .. went through a period afterwards of panic and had to be in a relationship immediately afterwards.. big mistake I got married for a second time to a very narcissistic woman that lasted 12 years.. it’s been going on a year and a half now since that divorce and have had no desire to be in a relationships.. no panicking on why am I single or any of that .. the focus on life now is God and reading His word .. and focusing on and checking myself through Christ daily.. sure it gets lonely but those are very fleeting thoughts and I know that’s my flesh so it’s only in small moments and iam able to wrangle those thoughts and desires through Christ Jesus… being single and focusing life that has been given to me by God is the most peaceful I’ve been ever.. thank You for your content keep up the good work God Bless You.. and all the followers.
I don’t mind single . I was for 5 yrs … well I have been most of my life and I seem to do well.
God’s message
Thank you 🤍🤍🙏🏻
Ive been single for a while and i just pray i meet the person god put on this earth for me , one i get more closer to god
I'm starting to feel like I don't have a soulmate that I merely just a stepping stone for others to find theirs I'm the catalyst that sparks the growth in others to elevate and become a better version of themselves in order to meet their kingdom spouse. God doesn't want anything to take the focus off my souls mission.
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Man…I thought I was the only one who thought this way!
Sad but story of my Life to the T 😢
I'm Muslim and I resonate with your message
After the narc i have zero faith in romantic love anymore. I would like to think there is someone for me,but i will always trust God. As hard as it is......i will follow God until my last breath. Gods will be done.
Good message I have been separated from my ex wife for almost ten months. We have a young daughter who is almost 3 years old. Our relationship turned toxic and both share blame. I can't see My daughter when I want because she has full custody. I've been divorced for almost 2 months. I've feel disgusted with myself and I know my daughter misses me sometimes. I stumbled on this vid randomly because I follow other content creators with similar views and spiritual beliefs. I thank God that I found this vid because I find some comfort in it. Thanks Justin D.
Get a lawyer and demand 50 50
Seek healing and deliverance. Praying 🙏
Resonates resonates with this amen brother amen
I always felt like I was settling for someone less than me when i chose a lady.. they felt like they belonged to the world and not me... it's like a bird falling in love with a fish... how can they live together?
I thought I was the only one
I’ve always been focused on God and never had a good relationship.
Wow, exactly, I always felt the same❤🎉🙏🙌✝️praise Jesus
GOD has filled the void I thought will come from a man. Now I don't feel like sharing my time I spend with GOD with no one When the time HE WILL SEND my RIB! I will KNOW ITS GOD'S TIMING🎯💯
A woman I would be interested in spending my life with wouldn’t be interested in me at this time in my life. I couldn’t in good conscience ask a woman to be a part of my life with all the crazy things that I deal with on a daily basis.
Believe it or not, i actually agree with this.
Good stuff. However I've zero clue what my purpose is. So all this suffering seems in vain at times.
I know I'm chosen. But, when you have zero clue as to your purpose other than loving God.
Then all this self denial really doesn't make sense.
Especially when much of this denial is towards natural good desires.
This deepens the spiritual depression in me.
But your points in the video are also solid.
This just is not easy to navigate nor understand, even with the best of teachings on the subject.
Thanks for the message to know that being single is a blessing and heard this now for the third time and want to draw near and closer to GOD more!!! To have an unshakable bond with him forever psalm 68:4 sing unto God, sing praises to his name:extol him that rideth upon the heavens by his name JAH, and rejoice before him!!! Amen
It occurs to me that God wants us to be happy and in divine partnership. When we are ready. Because as a divine couple we are even stronger with our mission. These co_dependent, trauma bonding relationships just drain one or both parties. We learn from these but we need to be aware when it's time to exit and stop the power struggle. It's not men against women out here like we are ingrained to believe. I actually felt in competition in most of my relationships. I'm 52 years old and happy and single. Not because i'm single but because i'm working on me. I'm not worried about the future, there's only the present. And if you aren't happy alone you're just going to make someone else miserable. We rise above! 🐦💙🧡🪽