PRIORITISING MYSELF | Estée Lalonde

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  • @flawedpeanut
    @flawedpeanut 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +123

    The sad irony is that therapists who work for BetterHelp are not prioritising themselves. It's an extremely exploitative system (with many many documented concerns, both for consumers and providers) and leads to burnout and significantly underpays therapists. I know there may be a mentality that something is better than nothing, but I wish influencers would do more research on the products they promote.

    • @elmaaa3
      @elmaaa3 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      betterhelp is also not secure in terms of confidentiality/privacy and your data.

  • @georgiap5159
    @georgiap5159 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    Really disappointed in the betterhelp sponsorship. The amount of young people I work with who turn to it for therapy only to be matched up with unaccredited “therapists” who give dangerous advice!

  • @ReptileJen
    @ReptileJen 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    I would advise avoiding Better Help - there are so many horror stories and channel 4 made a documentary on them! There are no regulations and therapists are encouraged to work long hours

  • @fdpcompdm
    @fdpcompdm 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +111

    In the past your videos were fun to watch and kind of a vibe, a glimpse into your life easy and breeze. it was fun but now every single video is you trying to shove down our throats a new product not to mention what you did to your vlog chanel

    • @kat.5927
      @kat.5927 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Gotta make money 🤷‍♀

  • @coleo1356
    @coleo1356 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +109

    Effie is the epitome of prioritizing herself. She is her absolute best, most confident self. Love her.

  • @brittanywitmartin4024
    @brittanywitmartin4024 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    betterhelp sucks, please please do more to research! i understand money is vital to life unfortunately, but surely there are tons of other sponsors you could have that aren't absolute garbage! xo

  • @chanelowelove
    @chanelowelove 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +299

    NOOOOO BETTERHELP IS A HORRIBLE CHOICE!!!!! THEY SOLD A LOT OF DATA!!!! NO NO NO!

    • @stephaniea1398
      @stephaniea1398 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +95

      TH-camrs don't care, they also don't use it themselves! If you notice they all say they love therapy but they don't say they use Betterhelp. It's just a paycheck.

    • @medhabhattarai
      @medhabhattarai 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

      @@stephaniea1398 Estee just tries to get money from anywhere she possibly can.

    • @mememeeee3
      @mememeeee3 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@medhabhattarai??? That's not even true.

    • @MissCandyTattoo
      @MissCandyTattoo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      better help saved my life, sit down and stfu

    • @JulieMooody
      @JulieMooody 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Gotta get that cash moneys 😑

  • @jessicakirby6095
    @jessicakirby6095 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I've been off TH-cam for a bit and haven't seen one of your vlogs in while. Effie has come so far!! It is so amazing to see how comfortable she's become and what a happy girl she's is!! Well done you x

  • @aliaelborai
    @aliaelborai 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    Would so love a closet tour :) a little chat about what you kept and if you decluttered before moving, I find these topics soothing 😊

  • @elizabethl4241
    @elizabethl4241 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

    Effie has come along way when I see her so playful I’m so glad she found you

  • @debipowell9509
    @debipowell9509 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    Ok, so WHO IS THIS DOG???? That cant be Miss Effie!!!!! She's happy, funny, playful, and not terrified!!!!! I'm dying at the growth from her!!!!! YAY!!!

  • @hello_amy
    @hello_amy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    It's the BEST thing seeing Effie so brave and confident!!! We're all so proud of you girly!!!

  • @medhabhattarai
    @medhabhattarai 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    Estee trying to sell anything and everything and get money from it... even therapy! There is no video where Estee is not trying to sell something. Seeing her trying to sell Mental Health to her fanbase just makes me sad.

    • @fdpcompdm
      @fdpcompdm 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      It is very on brand for her actually haha

    • @00jdn
      @00jdn 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      BetterHelp is such a shitty company too, I'm so sick of seeing influencers do brand deals with them

  • @JustOlafromPoland
    @JustOlafromPoland 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dear Estee, it's incredible how Effie became happy being with You. And her lightness of being during the walk. Amazing. It is good to hear her voice and nice to see her happiness. Greetings ❤

  • @carrielubing216
    @carrielubing216 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I would love to see you make a body lotion/cream. I love to the scent so much but don't always want to use an oil. The smell is heavenly.

  • @littleunknownsk8611
    @littleunknownsk8611 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    We love Effie running around like a crazy girl!!!

  • @justpassingby1094
    @justpassingby1094 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I miss ur old flat

    • @fdpcompdm
      @fdpcompdm 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      That flat was such a vibe

  • @Courtney6
    @Courtney6 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    Estee, I love you but better help was founded by a former Israeli IDF soldier. Consider that they also have a disclaimer to record everyone’s sessions and data and wonder where that info went.

    • @sarahs9801
      @sarahs9801 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      I didn't know this. I know BetterHelp was trash already but THIS takes the cake. Shame on them! Thanks for sharing this. Free Palestine!

    • @willowspektor
      @willowspektor 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      This is really helpful to know!! Thankyou Courtney ❤

  • @karenpetursdottir6274
    @karenpetursdottir6274 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Can never get enough of Effie!

  • @gretabianco1283
    @gretabianco1283 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    it made me feel so happy to see effie so happy and confident!

  • @louisehvam9476
    @louisehvam9476 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    I love you Estee but Betterhelp sells your data and they record all session's. Please do not promote them. On top of that the founder is an Israeli IDF solider!

  • @janecrenshaw3678
    @janecrenshaw3678 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Effie!!! She has come so far. Love seeing her happy self! 🩷🩷

  • @samrug
    @samrug 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    OMGGG. Effie is THE CUTEST!

    •  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I'm totally obsessed with her!

  • @___sojo
    @___sojo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As a dog mom of two (anxious & reactive) rescue dogs, seeing Effie live her best life with such loving dog parents warms my heart & is my fave content P.S. Love how so many comments are also about Effie! We love our gorl 💗

  • @nisa360
    @nisa360 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Look at effies tail!!!!! It’s not between her legs like a constantly scared puppy anymore she made such progress, you are a great person for being such a good mom for her estee thank you for that :/

  • @madzmadon
    @madzmadon 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love how far your little Effie has come from that first day bringing her home. Her personality has bloomed and her bravery has grown 💕

  • @onedividedbyzero
    @onedividedbyzero 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i have never seen Effie so happy::)) she is finally herself at best

  • @julietetlours
    @julietetlours 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    awww effie is the biggest ray of sunshine x

  • @cavaliersinneed9607
    @cavaliersinneed9607 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The change in Effie is amazing, love her.

  • @bymillie
    @bymillie 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love seeing Effie living her best life! She has come such a long way, bless her! 🥲😍

  • @Europa1749
    @Europa1749 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Effie is so confident and full of fun now, just adorable.

  • @themellaedit8817
    @themellaedit8817 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Effie on the bed is everything!!! ❤️❤️

  • @Jasminarabian_369
    @Jasminarabian_369 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I enjoyed every-bit of this vlog. Such a joy to watch you Estée. You are a lovely lovely human ♡💛

  • @Nubianette
    @Nubianette 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’ve never seen such a happy Effie! It’s good to see! Yes, to prioritizing yourself! Thanks for sharing! 🤗

  • @she_goes_simply
    @she_goes_simply 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That pizza seasoning is my OBSESSION. SO good on literally everything - popcorn, eggs, even cooked veg....they really bring the seasoning game to a new level. Definitely try the Aglio & Olio next time you come to the states!

    • @AlexisBelon
      @AlexisBelon 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Where do you usually get yours? Btw idk if you’re into nyc vlogs but if so, you might like mine! I’d be sooo grateful if you swung by and took a peek. 🙏 Stick around if you like!

    • @she_goes_simply
      @she_goes_simply 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Trader Joe's of course, I don't think you can get it anywhere else?@@AlexisBelon

  • @Delala
    @Delala 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Effies zoonoses are the absolute cutest thing ever!!! 😍🥰😍

  • @llnut4775
    @llnut4775 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So great to see Effie living life! 🐾

  • @marianaguberti9419
    @marianaguberti9419 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I could watch Effie all day ❤

  • @emmabrkrshrp
    @emmabrkrshrp 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Estee, can you do a video on how you're prepping for your wedding in September? I'm also getting married in September tooooooo! 🥹❤️

  • @forever-rosebud
    @forever-rosebud 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You have the sweetest, sweetest dog 🤍

  • @jennifer6833
    @jennifer6833 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Effie is such a happy girl 🐾💖🌷.

  • @sundari555-f2g
    @sundari555-f2g 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Effie is awesome 👏🏻🐾

  • @Britbabe53
    @Britbabe53 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Such a drastic change in esthetic from your previous flats and this one... no judgement, I just miss the overall vibe of your lovely flats.

    • @nicole066
      @nicole066 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Actually, it is really superficial judgement. I’m sure she will have her reasons for the apartment change, but she doesn’t owe you an explanation.

    • @Britbabe53
      @Britbabe53 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@nicole066 I didn't say she owed me anything

    • @fdpcompdm
      @fdpcompdm 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@nicole066 she's saying what she's thinking and not asking for an explanation why do sheep like you feel the need to defend your idols all the time lol

  • @vee1324
    @vee1324 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Effie is so friggin cute can’t believe how much she’s come on❤

  • @GinaM3
    @GinaM3 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I'm going on my third bottle of the body oil and it is amazing! The scent makes it feel like such a luxurious treat! I would buy a body spray/ perfume in the same scent if you ever make one 😉

    • @littleunknownsk8611
      @littleunknownsk8611 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I second a request for a perfume! I'd die!

  • @ashleighstavrou8981
    @ashleighstavrou8981 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love the effie content ❤❤❤

  • @AlliesBeautyTips
    @AlliesBeautyTips 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    effie is so happy!

  • @itsChiliiii
    @itsChiliiii 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    the mug is from Lyngby Porcelain - Rhombe Color, if anyone should be interested :)

  • @nataliacrtessegll2837
    @nataliacrtessegll2837 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love Effie’s part ❤

  • @kkyles605
    @kkyles605 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I seriously use Mirror Water products everyday. The bath oil is (chef's kiss)! Love the bath salts, rub, etc. Love it all. Look at Effie go!!! Therapy is the the best thing that I ever could have done for myself.

  • @Carolll9
    @Carolll9 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My doggie thinks it’s playtime every time I make the bed, he jumps up and brings his toy for us to play. It’s adorable and a little annoying at the same time. I humor him and play because he enjoys it so much.

  • @michellesiecris5153
    @michellesiecris5153 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh my heart. Effie doing zoomies is the nicest thing to see 🧡

  • @ErnestYeap
    @ErnestYeap 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    ❤️❤️❤️ take the most care of yourself ya Estee and Gob bless you, your fiancé and little Effie ☺️

    •  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you thank you!

  • @marthagalvis7251
    @marthagalvis7251 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i love effie! makes my day!

  • @jessicamoonharris
    @jessicamoonharris 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Effie ❤

  • @dedeoconnor2759
    @dedeoconnor2759 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    A friend of mine is a psychotherapist. She said to stay well clear of Better Health. Apparently they are a big American company who prioritise ‘sales’ and income and pay the therapists a fraction of their publicised rates. I see some of your other comments chime with this. Please better research the organisations you work with before recommending them to your audience.

  • @holisticmaya
    @holisticmaya 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    May I ask what size you have in that purple knit sweater?? IT'S SO BEAUTIFUL! And Effie is SO FREAKIN' CUTE!

  • @donnamckee810
    @donnamckee810 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love Effie!!!!!!

  • @NathalieLW
    @NathalieLW 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I don’t need Betterhelp Therapy, I need Effie Therapy .. daily 🤣 she is just so lovely 🥰

  • @juliavanderley3837
    @juliavanderley3837 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How do you motivate yourself? Also what's the cost of living like there? It's quite high in NZ

  • @britneyalyse
    @britneyalyse 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Effie zoomies is just what my heart needed,

    • @ds7675
      @ds7675 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Plus the single rollover is adorable!

  • @kaesmithmusic
    @kaesmithmusic 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Our cats 'help us make the bed', too! So cute!

  • @justwannabeaudrey
    @justwannabeaudrey 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    omg the way i opened youtube hoping to have a new video from you

  • @katef1384
    @katef1384 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Effie vlog 🥰🥰the best girl

  • @oliviahastie
    @oliviahastie 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Effie playing and smiling while you’re making the bed is everything my soul needed 🥰🥹

  • @karenmyers3672
    @karenmyers3672 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have been a follower for so, so long and there is just something about your content that is so real and I love that about you! I do have a question, we are traveling to London, our first trip to your wonderful city, I was wondering where a great place to stay would be? Not only a nice location, but also a great hotel. It could be a boutique hotel or not. We are looking at both 4 or 5 star locations. Do any of the hotels use your Mirror Water products? That would be a plus!! Thanks so much!

  • @GmaMom
    @GmaMom 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We need the Mirror Water in the US

  • @aysheypops
    @aysheypops 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Where is your coffee table from?

  • @incrediblycomfy
    @incrediblycomfy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm jealous of your green grass and "spring" atmosphere. My yard is still covered in snow in the Kawarthas (ontario) 😅

    •  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That is one good thing about the UK! We get Spring quite early!

  • @ganeeva8635
    @ganeeva8635 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oww wow, I didn’t know anything about Better Help until I start reading the comments 😢 so many of my favorite influencers do sponsorships with BH

  • @MichelleJonesKralka
    @MichelleJonesKralka 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I hope the Space NK in Chiswick or Sloane Sq. get the mini. Neither of them have any Mirror Water products in stock. ☹️

  • @Chisesan89
    @Chisesan89 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Effie was so good in the bath ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @tinacarrol6702
    @tinacarrol6702 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Estee I Would Love To Try The Mirror Water Oil. As My Skin Is So Dry. Lovely To See you Back. Xx 😊😘

  • @ninjaturtles12121
    @ninjaturtles12121 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    how do you get the seasoning to stick to air popped popcorn?? I always have a hard time getting seasoning to stick to it as it's air popped so no oil

  • @natale149
    @natale149 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a good doggy. ❤❤❤

  • @aimeewhite06
    @aimeewhite06 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Effie could not be more done with that bath time

  • @emmaw390
    @emmaw390 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Effie’s zoomies make me so happy

  • @juliavanderley3837
    @juliavanderley3837 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are a big inspiration would love if mirror water could sell in New Zealand

  • @The.Caroline
    @The.Caroline 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Seeing Effie have the zoomies warms my heart.
    I had a dream your mirror water body oil increased in price to 250(!!!) pounds and I was devastated I couldn't afford it anymore
    🤣 I love it. The scent needs to come in a perfume.

  • @PinkyPurky
    @PinkyPurky 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Estee where is your lovely yellow floral clip from? x

  • @skylilly1
    @skylilly1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Looks like Effie has come out of her shell 😂 You must be thrilled your body oil is selling so well. 👍👏

  • @PrettyPureSalina
    @PrettyPureSalina 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Where is your sofa from? I love it

  • @tinakragelund5105
    @tinakragelund5105 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think the mug is from Lyngby Porcelæn a danish brand ❤️

  • @juliebeck3796
    @juliebeck3796 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Effie’s zoomies are the best!🥰

  • @kristinchong629
    @kristinchong629 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The internet frontier. 🎉🎉🎉 the levels.
    Like I never really know how to explain anything so hopefully this makes sense.
    ***I think you’re so amazing. *** Ive been watching on and off for years. women and young women are so lucky to have someone see break language in all the moving parts of the internet commercializing complex. Like lalonde is the interlocutor of internet and private capital in the long mysterious haul called the internet . (Yes I do think men who control most things made it covertly difficult for women to just be themselves on the internet saying weird things like business model.) and also the very weird thing of the internet being liberal but women also at the same time trying to figure out like is the internet where u find a partner at the prime at their life and figuring out if they want to make a family and it’s just not an economic internet decision. And like whatever men on cracked out on like emrata tm. Men are so weird.
    I think I have more to say but I don’t want to make this obnoxiously long.
    But the meta levels. Can’t wait to see more stuff whatever it is. Whether it be skiing or going to Paris Olympics games. It would be so fun. The real mp.

  • @Karotsy68
    @Karotsy68 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I love how your doggy runs and rolls on the grass. Wow my dogs would never be that calm in the bathtub.

    • @AlexisBelon
      @AlexisBelon 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dog footage is my favorite part of anyones vlogs. Btw idk if you’re into nyc vlogs but if so, you might like mine! I’d be sooo grateful if you swung by and took a peek. 🙏 Stick around if you like!

  • @197countries
    @197countries 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I seem you might not be actually cheerd. That is better you are alone.❤❤❤

  • @alyssaalvarado2130
    @alyssaalvarado2130 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You need to make Mirror Water available to the USA! :) :) :) I'd love to try the body oil! I'm 8.5 months preggo, so it sounds divine! haha So happy for you! :)

  • @jenn_in_atl
    @jenn_in_atl 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Eye opening 👁️ and hip opening 🧘‍♀️

    • @salatee1
      @salatee1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      what are you thinking

  • @andreablamire5509
    @andreablamire5509 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Don’t you miss your old apartment? You seem to have had so much more room there.

  • @SuperLil35
    @SuperLil35 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Estee! So nice to see you again. I've missed your vlogs! Wanted to also say how wonderful it is to see Effie so happy & playful! We normally see her calm and a little timid. It's so nice to see her happy and having fun! Happy for the both of you!

  • @carolliu5911
    @carolliu5911 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @wandalast6618
    @wandalast6618 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I order your oil and I’m in USA it said 19L and when I put buy all my info came in plus that it waould cost me 42L. And it did not give me a chance to stop the buy and went automatically. I wanted to Cancel and there was no way back. Not fair😮

  • @ayla8345
    @ayla8345 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh man this made me miss my dog 😭

  • @Frick_79
    @Frick_79 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Effie’s zoomies bring me pure joy 🥹 I think that’s the first time I’ve heard her bark when she was playing on the bed. The mini is the cutest thing everrrrr! She will be fab for travel. Loved the vlog and hope you have a great week 🥰

  • @biorastorm7002
    @biorastorm7002 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    GUYS PLEASE AVOID BETTERHELP. LOVE Y'ALL ❤

  • @jujusmom1508
    @jujusmom1508 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You’re Hoovering with a Dyson!😅

  • @Themakeupgurux100
    @Themakeupgurux100 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Sorry not everyone can afford £35 for body oil

  • @peachtrees_
    @peachtrees_ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    excited for your Established Titles sponsorship next! Or maybe Temu? ...but really though, for someone who is so pro mental health I'm disappointed you decided to promote better help.

  • @ItIsMeTinF
    @ItIsMeTinF 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Is Effie interested in marrying soon? Such a darling. Wouldnt mind having her as a daughter-in-law. ❤