The second time i had depression: i challenged myself to go outside for a walk, it was just down the lane near my house and back. I done this every day, and after awhile i went just a little bit further each time. This wasn't planned or anything. After some months or so i was doing entire laps of my town, 3 hour walks, sometimes twice a day. It felt great.
I’m jealous. I’ve been agoraphobic since childhood. It’s completely irrational but I can’t force myself to be outside on an aimless walk alone. Someday maybe. Not sure why it’s so terrifying, I live in a very safe neighborhood and people are constantly walking by my home.
@@LisaValentine1maybe you feel there is no purpose in the walk but there is❤ it helps me to know i will feel better about myself when i go walk for some time. And also knowing one day maybe iwont be able to walk anymore... so just do it while i can, now❤
@@edatatu2739People often like to use Christianity to judge everyone else, but they don't want to look at themselves. While true Christianity is to say "I fail as much as everyone else, so I have no right to judge". Christianity comes out of a huge downfall for Jewish society, they were occupied by the Romans as their own leaders thought Romans could be used as soldiers for hire when they really wanted to keep power for themselves. And then some time after Jesus their revolt was brutally crushed and they were chased out of their country. They had all failed, with their leaders first and foremost, so how do you handle that? History teaches us that we fail just as bad, repeatedly, and there's no end in sight.
This man has litterally changed my life.. I feel prepared for the future more so then I ever have before.. and every time it makes me cry it helps me heal and grow. I appreciate this so much as its hard to get help sometimes and this is helping.
I think sometimes, routines can amplify the hopeless ness, the predictability, the same ol same ol, I think it exasperated it, maybe by changing up your day and making it in routine it may help rewire your brain and make that muscle healthier, I dunno....
32:33 How do you reach out to someone when you don't have anyone. The people who I thought loved and cared for me showed me that they don't. I can't even go to therapy because I can't afford it. This is my therapy. I'm in tears because I had hope before I watched this. Now I have realized after taking the quiz that I am worse off then I thought I was. I used to think that I was alone but not lonely. Now I know that was false hope.
Not knowing clearly--keeps you stuck! Knowing where you're at is half the battle! You're half way out of it! Never let that stinking, shitty thinkin' beat you! YOU CAN DO THIS! Just take one step at a time. Don't get overwhelmed. It's like learning a new dance. One step forward, maybe two steps back, then one step forward again and then turn!
@@alexxx4434 yes, it's there-though there are 1 in 4 people, statistically dealing with some level of f'd-upnesses, there's still that 3 of 4 who aren't and literally cannot comprehend the other quarter. They may have empathy, compassion, pity or even disgust-but comprehend? No.
@@nicolaa9672 just fyi, I had 10 sessions with a therapist and frankly-coming here and hearing people talk about their experiences-helps me so much more! You guys get me. Most people never will-not even the pro's! (no offense to the doc here, obviously he's more aware than some are about these things)
Please, don't say that. I am in the same situation right now, but I know that if you, me and others came here, we did it not to prove that we are done, we did it because we want to get better. We are here for you.
@DN-yv3gq only until you learn to have a positive connection with yourself. Don't abandon yourself - hope then becomes exciting, failure is an option and is good for you, success becomes joyful all the more so because it's fleeting - not something to fear because of it's nature to expire.
Thanks a bunch for this, Tim. I've been struggling with this especially bad the last week or more. I was even discussing it with a friend last night. Hopelessness and Depression are an awful place to find yourself in.
@@davidnorman2134I'm sorry to hear that. I've experienced the same since at least age 9. I wish you didn't struggle with those things- and they are a major thing to endure. All the best... 🤍
@@davidnorman2134 That's why I really enjoy Tim's videos- is because they help validate my feelings and offer me insight as to where they're coming from. Pretty much the entire time until recently, I blamed myself for EVERYTHING.
I scored 12. I also realized that my impulse to get others to harm me is a trauma reenactment from when I was physically abused as a child by both my parents and my brother 😔
Good lord, that's the same as me. I choose to be alone, and with the bible study. However I'm only running away from my life, which is going fast. Sad isn't it. Glad we have God and pods. 🙏🏼
Thank you for teaching me so much about hope and hopelessness. And a huge thank you for the separation of church and state so I am able to get the benefits of your wisdom without a book I don’t enjoy getting in the way.
Thanks for this. I'm nearly out of hope. I have a little left, but, i'm also getting more and more comfortable with thoughts of rejecting life. I keep thinking that if I was to swim out to sea, would I get far enough for my body to stay out and get eaten. I want it to disappear with every memory and record of my existence. I will watch this over and over. Try and remind myself that I can recover.
I can’t believe other people feel so bad about there life - I am the same way- I have a narcissistic mother who scapegoated, controlled and put me down all my life, it has made me my own worst critic. Learning from people like Tim and Prof Sam Vaknin do help, I just try and remind myself everyday - there is always someone else more worst off, remember to be grateful for even the roof over your head, stop wasting your life with the narcissist and take care of yourself - do things for you to fill your soul, and do keep trying for happiness - even though no one cares - there is millions of more people out there and I’m sure someone will care, I care because I know how painful it is, just cry and let it out, pick yourself up and carry on, for tomorrow is another day - who knows what it may bring 😀
I can’t believe other people feel so bad about there life - I am the same way- I have a narcissistic mother who scapegoated, controlled and put me down all my life, it has made me my own worst critic. Learning from people like Tim and Prof Sam Vaknin do help, just I try and remind myself everyday - there is always someone else more worst off, remember to be grateful for even the roof over your head, stop wasting your life with the narcissist and take care of yourself - do things for you to fill your soul, and do keep trying for happiness - even though no one cares - there is millions of more people out there and I’m sure someone will care, I care because I know how painful it is, just cry and let it out, pick yourself up and carry on, for tomorrow is another day - who knows what it may bring 😀
The fact that you found yourself here, is proof that today is better than yesterday, simply for having heard this video of enlightenment. What great words of wisdom.
Thank you Tim. I’ve been actively aware of my need to recover and on the path for about two years. All Of what you said hits so close to home. At the slightest sign of trouble I tend to go back to hopelessness, to addictive patterns, to avoidance. This made me cry. As long as I am still breathing there is hope. Even when I feel broke, powerless and terrified. And tired. So tired.
21:02 INTERMITTENT REINFORCEMENT. It’s a measure I could use to identify where the manipulating forces in my life were. Who was giving me random splurges of attention? Because that person was keeping me addictively hooked to them. Hard to see, but once the grief starts to happen for ‘the relationship that never was’, it becomes plenty apparent where the suck of my time/attention/energy was going. Brief hopelessness as I un-stuck those narcissistic hooks from my spirit, but then faith and hope returns outside of that dynamic. Just takes time and patience, and rest.
I've battled with discouragement and hopelessness off and on my whole life. I'm glad to see some helpful info that gives me insight about it and also how to heal and overcome it. My counselors (2 of them) are both trying to help me and have wondered why I keep saying, yeah, I'll try that.... but then I don't stick with things or say it isn't helping, etc... and keep looking, trying to find something to help but it seems like nothing is. I get overwhelmed or discouraged easily and give up so soon. I see this in some of my kids too. I think my two youngest struggle with it the most. :(
Thank you so much for these vids, thanks Tim and everyone contributed to this work, understanding the issue and having the awareness have been a great help for me
I love these videos, this is the mental health education i have been sorely needing. Therapy is such a stab in the dark - expecting one to draw conclusions from a void of knowledge and poor self- insight. I still believe in therapy, but to me, it works best by complimenting knowledge, not operating in the absence of.
Thank you so much, i have cptsd and have this pattern. And this helped me understand so much. I appreciate your videos and solutions immensely.🌻This inspired me to take positive steps, thank you.
wow truly inspirational!Thank you Tim for all your hard work you are truly a blessing and have inspired me to remove the bandaids of my traumas and understand the complexities they have on our growth and development your works inspire. thank you for mapping out this wisdom to allow all of us to dive deeper into our personal journeys and trials we have had to face god bless you my man !
I spent 40 years trying everything I could possibly think of to be on good terms with my mother. I exhausted my last solution about 4 years ago. And I discovered through accounts from a trusted family member that she didn’t like me even when I was a baby. I also discovered that I didn’t have a legal name until she had to register me for kindergarten nearly six years later. That was when my hope died its final death. My creativity and optimism only prolonged my hope’s torment.
I am sorry you experienced this. 😢 Our families can do a lot of damage. But it is possible to get to a place where you realize that your value is not in how others see us. We are valuable because God sees us as valuable. I was extremely depressed for 35 years. It wasn't until I turned fully to God that I found healing. My family still does not value me. But I no longer see myself through their eyes. I pray you find lasting hope and healing.
I was narcessisticly abused by my parents and friends. My hope is that I‘ll see the red flags sooner so I can get in no contact much earlier. But I‘m hopeless that I can find a real loving partner in my life.
This is exactly what I’ve been feeling for at least a montThe one thing I’ve thought I can control is my perspective. But I can.only see that I can do is return to the way I was before I escaped my mother’s house at 21- emotionally shut down, ask for and expect nothing because denial is too painful. It’s hard to squeeze myself into that small box, especially since I just started understanding CPTSD and hoping I could be more authentic and giving context and voice for what I didn’t understand. Of course, it’s like going all the way back to 2 years old and learning to say ‘no’.
I felt like things were looking up friday, fast forward to this morning at 3am and snot crying in my bed because I couldn't sleep, tossing and turning for hours. The bare minimum of trying to set a bedtime i cant accomplish it, trying to wake up at a reasonable time doesn't work. If i can't do that simple thing then what is the point? I've been having more and more unaliving thoughts because i have no purpose amd I'm just so tired and exhausted. I've been holding on by a thread my whole life, and being grateful is just not a great enough tool
14:15 What is wrong with a) looking forward to the future with hope and enthusiasm, c) when things are going badly I am helped by knowing they can’t stay that way forever, e) I have enough time to accomplish the things I most want to do, f) in the future I expect the succeed in what concerns me most, and j) my past experiences have prepared me well for the future???
Alienated abandoned uninspired helpless and oppressed. On every level at different times. The worst part is when I get hope it gets twisted in some way, like the endings of most Outer Limits episodes. The worst part is the trap part was set sometimes years before.
Yup hopeless 💯 My only hope is eventually one day I will turn a corner and something wonderful will be there for me.. before I die. Thanks Tim for the insight into CPTSD
I often think how am I still alive, after decades of this crazyness. I feel a bit better now, but only compared to the previous periods. For several years I was planning to finish myself on my birthday, but then I woke up and said fy, today is my birthday, I'm gonna have fun. And entertained myself in all the ways possible. Mornings were difficult, still remember how I lighted weed in the gravity bong and felt two rivers of tears going down my cheeks. Going through life without support is so tough. Poverty, misery, shity family and friends, no money, no home, car, sometimes even decent clothes and footwear. Divorce. Yeah, and the war. I'm from Ukraine. Missile strikes are almost a usual thing already, I show my middle finger to the sky, giggle and curse.
Tim, how many times do people that are not Peter need to experience Friday's and Saturday's to finally get a Sunday? A real one though, not one that's just meant to get your hopes up but then by Monday you find out that the guy is actually dead. What's the point of putting me through the test if there's no resurrection at the end?
If you truly want something, the whole universe will come to your help to achieve it if you dont give up. But you really need to want it truly. Not just thinking you want it.
The second time i had depression: i challenged myself to go outside for a walk, it was just down the lane near my house and back. I done this every day, and after awhile i went just a little bit further each time. This wasn't planned or anything. After some months or so i was doing entire laps of my town, 3 hour walks, sometimes twice a day. It felt great.
I’m jealous. I’ve been agoraphobic since childhood. It’s completely irrational but I can’t force myself to be outside on an aimless walk alone. Someday maybe. Not sure why it’s so terrifying, I live in a very safe neighborhood and people are constantly walking by my home.
@@LisaValentine1maybe you feel there is no purpose in the walk but there is❤ it helps me to know i will feel better about myself when i go walk for some time. And also knowing one day maybe iwont be able to walk anymore... so just do it while i can, now❤
This helped me a lot, too.
For a long time the only thing I could do was make myself food and go for a walk.
I need a lot more than a long walk
This series is fantastic. I thoroughly enjoy the biblical parts even though I'm not a Christian.
His non judgemental approach is awesome
@@edatatu2739People often like to use Christianity to judge everyone else, but they don't want to look at themselves. While true Christianity is to say "I fail as much as everyone else, so I have no right to judge".
Christianity comes out of a huge downfall for Jewish society, they were occupied by the Romans as their own leaders thought Romans could be used as soldiers for hire when they really wanted to keep power for themselves. And then some time after Jesus their revolt was brutally crushed and they were chased out of their country. They had all failed, with their leaders first and foremost, so how do you handle that? History teaches us that we fail just as bad, repeatedly, and there's no end in sight.
Wow these videos are worth more than years of therapy!! And I should know I've gone to a Lot of therapists Tim is excellent
Because therapy is not a lecture or college class.
This man has litterally changed my life.. I feel prepared for the future more so then I ever have before.. and every time it makes me cry it helps me heal and grow. I appreciate this so much as its hard to get help sometimes and this is helping.
I think sometimes, routines can amplify the hopeless ness, the predictability, the same ol same ol, I think it exasperated it, maybe by changing up your day and making it in routine it may help rewire your brain and make that muscle healthier, I dunno....
Tim is such a nice person. I'm recommending his videos to everyone.
Bigtime ❤
32:33 How do you reach out to someone when you don't have anyone. The people who I thought loved and cared for me showed me that they don't. I can't even go to therapy because I can't afford it. This is my therapy. I'm in tears because I had hope before I watched this. Now I have realized after taking the quiz that I am worse off then I thought I was. I used to think that I was alone but not lonely. Now I know that was false hope.
Not knowing clearly--keeps you stuck! Knowing where you're at is half the battle! You're half way out of it! Never let that stinking, shitty thinkin' beat you! YOU CAN DO THIS! Just take one step at a time. Don't get overwhelmed. It's like learning a new dance. One step forward, maybe two steps back, then one step forward again and then turn!
@@alexxx4434 yes, it's there-though there are 1 in 4 people, statistically dealing with some level of f'd-upnesses, there's still that 3 of 4 who aren't and literally cannot comprehend the other quarter. They may have empathy, compassion, pity or even disgust-but comprehend? No.
@@nicolaa9672 just fyi, I had 10 sessions with a therapist and frankly-coming here and hearing people talk about their experiences-helps me so much more! You guys get me. Most people never will-not even the pro's! (no offense to the doc here, obviously he's more aware than some are about these things)
Please, don't say that. I am in the same situation right now, but I know that if you, me and others came here, we did it not to prove that we are done, we did it because we want to get better. We are here for you.
Welcome, to the Desert of the Real
Hope is the cruelest emotion
Hope for thingsyou know will never happen, yes. Hope for everything else what is reasonable, is the best
Hope allows you to act. Without hope everything is pointless.
@DN-yv3gq only until you learn to have a positive connection with yourself. Don't abandon yourself - hope then becomes exciting, failure is an option and is good for you, success becomes joyful all the more so because it's fleeting - not something to fear because of it's nature to expire.
Wise wise man! It all makes sense.
Sometimes when you’ve been in a dark place for some time, you think you’ve been buried, but actually you’ve been planted!
Amazing how he weaves eveyting to make so much sense . It gives me hope ..grateful
Thanks a bunch for this, Tim. I've been struggling with this especially bad the last week or more. I was even discussing it with a friend last night. Hopelessness and Depression are an awful place to find yourself in.
Lived with both all my life, its all i know
@@davidnorman2134I'm sorry to hear that. I've experienced the same since at least age 9. I wish you didn't struggle with those things- and they are a major thing to endure. All the best... 🤍
@@JustJ-Me thanks, Ive felt guilty my who life for just beingbalive hard to explain unless you've experienced it yourself
I may not fully understand it bc I'm not you, but I do understand it in my own way and with my own experiences. You're welcome btw. 😊
@@davidnorman2134 That's why I really enjoy Tim's videos- is because they help validate my feelings and offer me insight as to where they're coming from. Pretty much the entire time until recently, I blamed myself for EVERYTHING.
Feeling a sense of 'hope'... looking forward to the layers of lies being exposed and discarded.
And the lies we tell ourselves...
May God bless you, Mr. Fletcher. Your channel is absolutely beyond price!! A profound thank you!! ❤
Bingo!! You nailed the very serious problem have battled for so long.
I scored 12. I also realized that my impulse to get others to harm me is a trauma reenactment from when I was physically abused as a child by both my parents and my brother 😔
Good lord, that's the same as me. I choose to be alone, and with the bible study. However I'm only running away from my life, which is going fast. Sad isn't it. Glad we have God and pods. 🙏🏼
Thank you for teaching me so much about hope and hopelessness. And a huge thank you for the separation of church and state so I am able to get the benefits of your wisdom without a book I don’t enjoy getting in the way.
This series is THE BEST of its kind. God bless you for sharing this life-changing info. 💓🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Thanks for this. I'm nearly out of hope. I have a little left, but, i'm also getting more and more comfortable with thoughts of rejecting life. I keep thinking that if I was to swim out to sea, would I get far enough for my body to stay out and get eaten. I want it to disappear with every memory and record of my existence. I will watch this over and over. Try and remind myself that I can recover.
I can’t believe other people feel so bad about there life - I am the same way- I have a narcissistic mother who scapegoated, controlled and put me down all my life, it has made me my own worst critic. Learning from people like Tim and Prof Sam Vaknin do help, I just try and remind myself everyday - there is always someone else more worst off, remember to be grateful for even the roof over your head, stop wasting your life with the narcissist and take care of yourself - do things for you to fill your soul, and do keep trying for happiness - even though no one cares - there is millions of more people out there and I’m sure someone will care, I care because I know how painful it is, just cry and let it out, pick yourself up and carry on, for tomorrow is another day - who knows what it may bring 😀
I can’t believe other people feel so bad about there life - I am the same way- I have a narcissistic mother who scapegoated, controlled and put me down all my life, it has made me my own worst critic. Learning from people like Tim and Prof Sam Vaknin do help, just I try and remind myself everyday - there is always someone else more worst off, remember to be grateful for even the roof over your head, stop wasting your life with the narcissist and take care of yourself - do things for you to fill your soul, and do keep trying for happiness - even though no one cares - there is millions of more people out there and I’m sure someone will care, I care because I know how painful it is, just cry and let it out, pick yourself up and carry on, for tomorrow is another day - who knows what it may bring 😀
I'm 70 years old. I don't have time to be patient!!
Lol. You don't really have time to be impatient
The fact that you found yourself here, is proof that today is better than yesterday, simply for having heard this video of enlightenment. What great words of wisdom.
Patience is more than conquering a City
Quite the opposite, you finally do 😁
Replace neg thoughts with positive scripture promises- this is building our faith.
What faith is: To hope for what is not yet seen.
Doesn’t mean anything to a person that despises religion
Thank you Tim.
I’ve been actively aware of my need to recover and on the path for about two years.
All
Of what you said hits so close to home.
At the slightest sign of trouble I tend to go back to hopelessness, to addictive patterns, to avoidance.
This made me cry.
As long as I am still breathing there is hope.
Even when I feel broke, powerless and terrified. And tired. So tired.
I’ve come to know Hope as the precursor to Disappointment. But I’m stubborn and hang on to it despite myself.
Expectation is the root of dissapointment. Not hope❤
@@jarkachalmovianska7812 thank you for this. A new perspective ❤️
@@jarkachalmovianska7812what’s the difference?
21:02 INTERMITTENT REINFORCEMENT. It’s a measure I could use to identify where the manipulating forces in my life were. Who was giving me random splurges of attention? Because that person was keeping me addictively hooked to them. Hard to see, but once the grief starts to happen for ‘the relationship that never was’, it becomes plenty apparent where the suck of my time/attention/energy was going. Brief hopelessness as I un-stuck those narcissistic hooks from my spirit, but then faith and hope returns outside of that dynamic. Just takes time and patience, and rest.
you have helped so much! thank you!!!!
The running script in my head is, "what's the point?" I give this to God.
I've battled with discouragement and hopelessness off and on my whole life. I'm glad to see some helpful info that gives me insight about it and also how to heal and overcome it. My counselors (2 of them) are both trying to help me and have wondered why I keep saying, yeah, I'll try that.... but then I don't stick with things or say it isn't helping, etc... and keep looking, trying to find something to help but it seems like nothing is. I get overwhelmed or discouraged easily and give up so soon. I see this in some of my kids too. I think my two youngest struggle with it the most. :(
Thank you so much❤ everyone NEVER EVER GIVE UP YOU ARE WORTHY!!
Thank you so much for these vids, thanks Tim and everyone contributed to this work, understanding the issue and having the awareness have been a great help for me
I cannot thank you enough for your work. So grateful.
Tim you are god send
I love these videos, this is the mental health education i have been sorely needing. Therapy is such a stab in the dark - expecting one to draw conclusions from a void of knowledge and poor self- insight. I still believe in therapy, but to me, it works best by complimenting knowledge, not operating in the absence of.
Thank you so much, i have cptsd and have this pattern. And this helped me understand so much. I appreciate your videos and solutions immensely.🌻This inspired me to take positive steps, thank you.
This is so helpful. Thank you.
Thank you for this amazing content and the work that you do 🙏🏻❤️
This is the best thing ive ever heard the series. Very clear. I failed therapy
God bless you for your work 🙏
Yep! Raised to not have hope.
wow truly inspirational!Thank you Tim for all your hard work you are truly a blessing and have inspired me to remove the bandaids of my traumas and understand the complexities they have on our growth and development your works inspire. thank you for mapping out this wisdom to allow all of us to dive deeper into our personal journeys and trials we have had to face god bless you my man !
Thanks for the way of pointing hopelessness You reine of my favorite teacher
Thank you so much for these videos! I'm so grateful. God is using you to save many lives. 💛
I spent 40 years trying everything I could possibly think of to be on good terms with my mother. I exhausted my last solution about 4 years ago. And I discovered through accounts from a trusted family member that she didn’t like me even when I was a baby. I also discovered that I didn’t have a legal name until she had to register me for kindergarten nearly six years later. That was when my hope died its final death. My creativity and optimism only prolonged my hope’s torment.
I am sorry you experienced this. 😢 Our families can do a lot of damage. But it is possible to get to a place where you realize that your value is not in how others see us. We are valuable because God sees us as valuable. I was extremely depressed for 35 years. It wasn't until I turned fully to God that I found healing. My family still does not value me. But I no longer see myself through their eyes. I pray you find lasting hope and healing.
I am sorry 😞 Sending you some love and hope 💕💕💕💕💕
You're the best💚💚
Great job 👏
I discovered when I was very depressed that acting “as if” things were normal could eventually bring me back into a better place.
My limbic totally lies to me about that. But your post actually helps put that into perspective, so thanks
You didn't dwell on it but consistently tried to look past it, until you were actually past it. You kept an optimistic attitude. 💯
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Yess! It's weirdly helpful! Like a feedback system, but with good outcomes!
Fake it until you make it. Does anybody ever 'make it'? or is it a lifetime of faking it?
I was narcessisticly abused by my parents and friends. My hope is that I‘ll see the red flags sooner so I can get in no contact much earlier. But I‘m hopeless that I can find a real loving partner in my life.
People, I'm trying to read the slides. Leave them up for more than 3 seconds please.
lol yes! I had to. pause it to be able to read the slides.
@@MultiSignlanguageJust screen shot them
Waiting for hope but afraid to hope , wow , I feel like this.
Dealt with toxic people so much I'm on my own toxic people's list 😥
Man, don't I know how that feels. 😰
I hear that
Yes 😢
Wow. Surprisingly relatable.
Thanks!
God bless you all
Tim, you the man.
This is exactly what I’ve been feeling for at least a montThe one thing I’ve thought I can control is my perspective. But I can.only see that I can do is return to the way I was before I escaped my mother’s house at 21- emotionally shut down, ask for and expect nothing because denial is too painful. It’s hard to squeeze myself into that small box, especially since I just started understanding CPTSD and hoping I could be more authentic and giving context and voice for what I didn’t understand. Of course, it’s like going all the way back to 2 years old and learning to say ‘no’.
I felt like things were looking up friday, fast forward to this morning at 3am and snot crying in my bed because I couldn't sleep, tossing and turning for hours. The bare minimum of trying to set a bedtime i cant accomplish it, trying to wake up at a reasonable time doesn't work.
If i can't do that simple thing then what is the point? I've been having more and more unaliving thoughts because i have no purpose amd I'm just so tired and exhausted. I've been holding on by a thread my whole life, and being grateful is just not a great enough tool
Thank you
So powerful!!🔥🙏🏽🔥
I feel deeply this message 😢
Thank you for this
14:15 What is wrong with a) looking forward to the future with hope and enthusiasm, c) when things are going badly I am helped by knowing they can’t stay that way forever, e) I have enough time to accomplish the things I most want to do, f) in the future I expect the succeed in what concerns me most, and j) my past experiences have prepared me well for the future???
It is wednesday today, in two days it is Good Friday. It helped. Thank you Tim.
Thanks
26:00 - Triggers against Hope.
Alienated abandoned uninspired helpless and oppressed. On every level at different times. The worst part is when I get hope it gets twisted in some way, like the endings of most Outer Limits episodes. The worst part is the trap part was set sometimes years before.
It's still so difficult. God has put so much on me
Thank you so much!😊
Wonderful ❤👍
Yup hopeless 💯 My only hope is eventually one day I will turn a corner and something wonderful will be there for me.. before I die.
Thanks Tim for the insight into CPTSD
I often think how am I still alive, after decades of this crazyness. I feel a bit better now, but only compared to the previous periods. For several years I was planning to finish myself on my birthday, but then I woke up and said fy, today is my birthday, I'm gonna have fun. And entertained myself in all the ways possible. Mornings were difficult, still remember how I lighted weed in the gravity bong and felt two rivers of tears going down my cheeks. Going through life without support is so tough. Poverty, misery, shity family and friends, no money, no home, car, sometimes even decent clothes and footwear. Divorce. Yeah, and the war. I'm from Ukraine. Missile strikes are almost a usual thing already, I show my middle finger to the sky, giggle and curse.
As a white person I feel frightened and hopeless as a person of being white as being treated second class
Tim, how many times do people that are not Peter need to experience Friday's and Saturday's to finally get a Sunday? A real one though, not one that's just meant to get your hopes up but then by Monday you find out that the guy is actually dead. What's the point of putting me through the test if there's no resurrection at the end?
Does Tim Fletcher write a book?
Hope deferred maketh the heart sick...
Super important content! But an hour of plosives puffed straight into the mic is a bit tough to listen to.
I have enough time to do the things I want to do? How is that helpless
If you truly want something, the whole universe will come to your help to achieve it if you dont give up. But you really need to want it truly. Not just thinking you want it.
People that talk about the universe like that sound mentally ill
@@bryannicholas2130 People that waste their time making negative comments need to get a life.
Perjury helped Andy Dennis when it seemed hopeless to avoid multiple sexually inappropriate allegations
I feel like peter
Why would I look forward to the future with hope and enthusiasm be on this list? That isn’t helplessness
That list is messed up. Of course some people are going to get some of those true.
Fix the list fletcher
Some people are deceived
Yeah unrealistic hope only leads to failure and defeat it is useless
This is why some therapy doesn’t work.
If following God changes nothing, then why do it? It feels like a chore if there’s no real benefit