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How Women Can Succeed in Marriage | Marriage Today | Jimmy Evans
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 ส.ค. 2012
- A good wife is an encourager, a cheerleader. She creates a positive atmosphere for her husband to flourish. Women primarily need security, but men primarily need honor in a positive atmosphere.
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I've just discovered this channel. My marriage is currently and has been suffering for quite sometime. While I thought I was the only one actively trying to fix it, I've realized that I've went about it all wrong and could be the reason why I'm not getting through. Thank you for your faith guided advice. I'll be watching every single video taking it all to heart. Please pray for my marriage. I love this man but the road we are traveling is leading me farther to darkness and that's not what I want. In Jesus name, amen
"Men become in an atmosphere of honour "
Awesome and so true.
Proverbs 31 says that the wife brings good , not evil to her husband everyday of her life.
Not evil ...
Proverbs 31 3 says give not they strength to women nor they ways to that which ruins kings. This is a warning to men to not give up their power to any female. This happens when he marries as she now has power over him backed up by the force of government and family court s.
This pastors words are full of grace
This is wonderful and so true. I've applied this in my own marriage and seen beautiful growth in both of us. (:
I truly thank God for this channel. Me and my husband have been together for 9 years and married for 1 1/2 and its been so rocky because of this very thing. I criticize so much and try to control everything and I speak about all the bad that he does and its ripping my marriage apart. Smh thank you for this!
Wooow that was very informative! God wisdom is always needed! I will start working on that Right Now!
Oh Great One. LOL Awesome, God's Word is ALIVE.. We Love what you do. God bless you. 😇🙏✝️
Jacob, what does that have to do with this message? Nothing, your clearly not listening to this message. It is truly a positive message in the aspect of marriage. Awesome...
Women want to be encouraged too. I think that’s a human thing. ❤
how do you do this with someone who doesn't want to share or talk about anything ?
Cori Randolph be the first one to do it and trust Good! And you will see a tremendous change 😄
@@alicb17 Actually very wrong.
Smack him over the head with the Bible , and tell him Good made you do it ..and said you better open it and read it !!!
People feel most connected whe they feel heard. They feel most loved, when they feel connected.
If she feels heard she will want commited longterm relationsip and also offer him listening.
The same is with customers. If they feel heard, they always come back. They see a genuine interest.
Woman feels loved the most, when she feels heard, therefore she is inspired to listen.....because she realizes on the other side of phone isnt just some "artificial robot"
If man feels heard he feels loved the most.
If their kids feel heard, they will listen because they feel loved and it inspires them to share ideas.
"fake nice men" seek short term pleasure, or approval, from customers or wife, without listening.
They probably are not bad men but they are most likely addicted to dopamine hit
because "short term" pleasure gives much more dopamine and much faster, than "love and intimacy"....
.because love and intimacy in sex connection" gives except dopamine also other hormones,
like serotonin, oxytocin...there are much more pleasure happy chemicals during genuine sex love and intimacy.
Plus genuine loving sex is better, because when woman is in love with a man,
she wants to cook for her husband.....so the dopamine is very slow, but from different sources
as hobbies, connection sports,
so he gets slowly the dopamine, because he isnt "hustling" so much but its actually better, because he gets healthy connection with people.
and he may go on picnic with kids so he gets the dopamine slowly not so fast, but from differents sources as playing footbal or playing with kids.
"genuine nice men" offer listening and communication and mutual respect.
You seek a genuine partner
but make sure when they offer genuine listening, or genuine texts
that you are able to share a genuine ideas, so they see your true personality,
so they react to your genuine personality, not to "a fantasy" self. (the fantasy of some tv show)
only then you realize you have connection, because they react to your true personality, and you react to their true personality.
Maybe humor is also a good indicator that the person is genuinelly interested, that isnt looking for a perfect answer all the time.
So first listen to your thoughts, without judgment. It gives you love and empathy from yourself and to change some habits.
because when you dont judge yourself you change habits much more easily.
and then you are able to listen other people, so they feel heard, loved and happy and
maybe they notice not just their flaws but also the good qualities about themselves.
they see that you dont judge their flaws, or that they dont judge your falws because often flaws can be short term thing and people learn new things.
Because Scripture is God's Word as the Creator we can rest assured He knows what He's talking about for instruction if we will obey. The issue comes as a result of us wanting to be in control rather than submit to Him.
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This is such a great video !!! Thanks so much for this 😊 🙏🏽
I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHICH STRENGTHENS ME
PHIL 4:13
Awesome!
He doesn’t want to learn, he is stubborn and constantly repeats the same mistakes and doesn’t want anybody to tell him anything... how I can praise that? I just learned to remain shut.
may God grant you the wisdom to deal with it.
Funny but so true lol
But answer this...my husband is an introvert and hates it when I complement or praise him....and he hates it when I try and uplift him and says he doesn't need it...
i had a similar problem with a friend of mine. He said he wanted to be complimented for something specific and didn't appreciate being told he is great or he is smart etc. but rather "wow you did the garden really well". Also some men are quite sensitive to specific words, for example being told I love you doesn't really get to them, they'd rather hear I respect you. Have you read the 5 languages of love? or books on how we are wired different. Please check out Mark Gungor he is excellent at explaining differences.
I hate it when it’s fake and constant. Patronizing
Smack him , and ask him ...is that better !??
He's lying to you. Genuine praise and encourage feeds his soul. Sounds like he has hardened his heart to you and may not trust you
God told Abraham to walk before him without blame.
Quote: Truth shall outlast everyone lies
Cheerleaders says something negative in a positive way
Last time I checked, women need praise and a cheerleader too. Why get gender mixed in with it....just keep it simple and equal. Men and women need the same things, we are human with human needs. Both men and women need honor.
@ Cross Referenced
Men need more since they need to be respected as the head.
It is not a matter of 'human' needs , it is a matter of position and identity.
Women need respect too! Look around the world and you tell me who gets less repect globally? Women have been treated less than for centuries. Love and respect go hand in hand, you can't have one without the other. Both men and women need it!!
Cross Referenced
"Women have been treated less than for centuries."
It is appalling and somewhat scary how modern Christians buy into feminist lies .
Have you ever read your Bible honey ?
Did not you notice how women were shown as blessing or curse to men ?
Did you notice how the Lord Himself warned His sons against sexually immoral women (especially in Proverbs) ?
The devil told you to portray your poor weak little gender as an oppressed one and have a I am a victim card everywhere you go .
OK , but , I have never seen such thing in the Bible. Never.
The Bible praises good women who fear the Lord , trustworthy wives but firmly rebukes the bad ones. No victim card in the Bible.
Paul says the woman was in transgression in Eden. He never said that she was a "victim" !
Was Potiphar's wife a victim ? Jezebel a victim ? the woman who demanded John the Baptist's head on a plate ( there is much cruelty in women ) ?
Sugar-coated 'christianity ' loves portraying women as victims and bashing men all the time.
If women don't submit to their husband , it is because the husband is not enough this , too much that ... Christ is perfect though , so why don't all men on earth submit to Him ? Because of REBELLION.
If women don't submit to their husbands , it is because they are rebellious .
Are Christian women still told Titus 2:4 doctrine ?
Today's women are told to make an idol of themselves .
I never said anything about being a victim, only stated some facts. The fact is many men have used the bible and interpreted it to use to their advantage to control women and to dominate. Jesus died for us to be free. We submit, in love to one another. Might you be the victim, if you think you have to be the only submissive partner, while your husband lords over you. You can't teach a man or usurp any authority. Put it any way you like, but that is not freedom, that is slavery.. If you choose to submit in love, and he does likewise in a way that makes your relationship the most loving it can possibly be, than that to me is freedom. Free to be respected, equally, and loved, and mutual submissive by choice, and through love. I don't hear a loving tone coming from your letter...If you have nothing to teach your husband, than that is truly very sad...And I'm tired of of the "feminist" label. I have nothing to do with any kind of groups that cause dissension. I'm a woman, that believes Jesus created me to be all that I can be, and he gave me a brain, to use and to teach...
Good luck in your marriage, hope it works for you.....
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Nope, He is a God of love.
Bible: Jesus is harmless and undefiled
My thoughts are Satan free
I do not watch the news. Nor do I watch tv. Only thing on there is drugs, violence, drama, and sex. And I’m not into none of these things
Quote: Satan has nothing new or nothing true
yyyyyyikes! Sounds like "marriage repellent" for women.