How To Make Friends When You're Shy

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  • @kaitlyndudley1649
    @kaitlyndudley1649 5 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    Its so easy for non shy people to give "advice" to a shy person.

    • @77362
      @77362 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But-
      But how about they say are u ok? When u say wanna be friends? Oof

  • @yourfavoriterussianyoutube3621
    @yourfavoriterussianyoutube3621 5 ปีที่แล้ว +382

    *A lot of people are shy. I guess breaking out of the comfort zone is key*

    • @melissaleinen-mccarty6665
      @melissaleinen-mccarty6665 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Master key

    • @istrazuvanjepazar3822
      @istrazuvanjepazar3822 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Right on point ! You may be asking yourself questions like, "What if they don't like me?" or "What if they make fun of me?" The truth is, we are all afraid of rejection. You are not alone in this. I remember transferring to a new school and not knowing where to begin. I had the same self-doubt. Then, one day, I pulled myself up and brushed all those doubts aside. We wrote a blog post on Myfriendshop blog covering your remarks.

    • @adamender9092
      @adamender9092 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It's not that easy

    • @mlbbclip3614
      @mlbbclip3614 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'll try

    • @janetaboytes9770
      @janetaboytes9770 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly

  • @ella.travels
    @ella.travels 5 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    I am quiet/shy, and all of my friends are in different classrooms. That leaves me with no friends in my class and I really need friends but it is very hard for me 😢

    • @rawanpink3127
      @rawanpink3127 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Ella Travels me too I really don't know what to do....but I hope you make a lot of new friends that makes you happy 😊😊
      Look I know you don't know me but I'm quite and shy and I know how you feel 😔

    • @ella.travels
      @ella.travels 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      ARMY FOREVER same I know how you feel too.. I’m going to high school next grade so hopefully I will make good friends 🙂

    • @raulenceflorsaplala508
      @raulenceflorsaplala508 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same

    • @Daezies23
      @Daezies23 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ella Travels i feel you

    • @aeipathyedits7273
      @aeipathyedits7273 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      i have been shy all my life and have no friend everyone in my school hates me and my parents won't let me move schools they just tell me to make friends if only they knew how hard it is for me.....

  • @leahisreallyhungry
    @leahisreallyhungry 5 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Ok here’s my problem: I’m definitely not shy but whenever I try to talk around people I just mess up my words

    • @ninjagomasternya
      @ninjagomasternya 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @prionti8167
      @prionti8167 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      same

    • @fuffyaesthetic9962
      @fuffyaesthetic9962 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have the exact same problem i have friends but ill be moving away :/

    • @kritikaroraa
      @kritikaroraa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just keep practicing on new places
      Practice socializing
      I did same now its all good going

  • @unleashingpotential-psycho9433
    @unleashingpotential-psycho9433 5 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    Group activities are great for shy people to make friends 🔥

    • @alaa5754
      @alaa5754 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      i think i am going to ban you

    • @aeipathyedits7273
      @aeipathyedits7273 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i will never make friends no mater how hard i try

    • @rick5219
      @rick5219 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      alaa 57 lol

    • @jennygutierrez2546
      @jennygutierrez2546 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea they are especially in a book club for English short story😬 i am in this book club that leaves me out of everything and i dont know them and they are very judgemental based on what ive heard😂😂 but ny techer yelled at me for not contributing alot or talking witg thrm but its hard because i dont like them

    • @christabel7718
      @christabel7718 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Friends come from school. Almost everybody makes their friends from schools 80% of people's friends come from school. It's harder to make friends out of school. Okay maybe some people have made friends from out of school but thats very hard and you have to be careful. and plus you can't just approach a random stranger at a art club and say "HELLO WANNA BE FRIENDS!!? 🤪" That's silly and you will end up getting your feelings hurt after please don't approach random people like that in public and do that. You will look very stupid and that is stupid.

  • @izza5163
    @izza5163 5 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    "Accept invitations"
    Annddd i dont even recieve them...

    • @janekim1623
      @janekim1623 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      exactly!!, me too loll, litterly like "never"

    • @kariman3511
      @kariman3511 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too

  • @PracticalInspiration
    @PracticalInspiration 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Number 3, talking to people, is so important. You have to push yourself out of your comfort zone and the best way to deal with the difficulty is to expose yourself to the solution

  • @hibish2725
    @hibish2725 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Everyone else in my skool r already in groups and clicks and I'm left with no one i keep telling myself I'm a loner when my friends r right next to me

  • @AnOrdinaryIndian69
    @AnOrdinaryIndian69 5 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    I am so shy I want to make some friends

    • @worldjudges
      @worldjudges 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      am your friend now

    • @fanart.2373
      @fanart.2373 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dm me on Instagram : @fanart.23

    • @Dianav-hv2jh
      @Dianav-hv2jh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      an ordinary Indian same 😭😭

    • @koreanlover4574
      @koreanlover4574 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      May I be your friend

    • @ramina.h4344
      @ramina.h4344 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

  • @MentorMyLife
    @MentorMyLife 5 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Play a team sport. Force yourself in those social situations that make you talk to others

    • @melissaleinen-mccarty6665
      @melissaleinen-mccarty6665 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mentor My Life

    • @xienela
      @xienela 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sir. Fox try tennis that’s okay

    • @aliciagrover3600
      @aliciagrover3600 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I’ve tried that,everyone laughed at me because I suck at sports and I look weird while trying to play soccer.

    • @kharift
      @kharift 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@aliciagrover3600 you made my cry for 5 minutes i feel your pain

    • @goldiethecat2752
      @goldiethecat2752 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      *_I can't talk..i just can't is soo hard😭_*

  • @kristellahjames5814
    @kristellahjames5814 5 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    When I want to talk to them they just go away without reason just because they want to talk to someone that have more ability 😡😡

    • @KeithStop
      @KeithStop 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Kristellah James
      How old are you? I am 14 and would like to make friends. I am straight, female and I am Christian.

    • @jemimaizua4711
      @jemimaizua4711 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KeithStop I wanna be your friend

    • @farjanaahmed4939
      @farjanaahmed4939 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same here I feel like I get ignored quite oftenly but I never ignore. I don't mind being friends with you 🙂

    • @koreanlover4574
      @koreanlover4574 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      May I be your friend too

    • @koreanlover4574
      @koreanlover4574 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KeithStop may I be your friend too,and I'm not Christian

  • @goblingirl17
    @goblingirl17 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I had friends but they made me shy

    • @elifilsantony9222
      @elifilsantony9222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have friends but they made .me shy. Because they never talk to me .

  • @이예린-c1y
    @이예린-c1y 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is my story. Im from Korea. I live really far from the school I go. I have been going to my school for just about 1 month and Im kinda shy so at first I didnt have any friends. And then, friend A liked BTS and asked me about Korea so we talked a bit. But that didnt go far. We did talk, but were so awkward because of my shyness.
    Few days later, I got suprisingly friendly with A, and she had some other members in the crew so I joined in.
    In Korea, I was always good at sports, so I expected I might be able to make friends out of that reason. But here, I was really bad at sports. By the way, I did feel that my sports skills got worse.
    I did have other talents, like playing the piano, gymnastics(i know its a sport but ONLY gymnastics om self taught btw🤪), and drawing. And math..but you know when other kids get really rude during a game, like I know they are trying to win, but they put even MORE pressure on you. And that happens especially from A. She sometimes is kinda rude, and there is another asian, B in my class, so we always get left out in PE. btw, I dont even like B. And because of that, I get really mad thinking about it. Is there a how to make friends even though youre asian?

  • @bobcat24
    @bobcat24 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    1) No one ever invites me to anything.
    2) I try to ask ppl to hang out, either over coffee or something. But they always decline..
    3) As far as making new friends, I live in a small city with no social events.

    • @nicolecaguana5561
      @nicolecaguana5561 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bob cat i hope that you have a good day

  • @midori6913
    @midori6913 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I want to make tons of friends before I graduate middle school. That’s my #1 goal.

  • @nxthgbutgemz
    @nxthgbutgemz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I’m not sure if I’m shy or too quite BUT
    I’M HANDSOME!!!!!!!!! 😛

  • @virginiatrujillo3717
    @virginiatrujillo3717 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I say hi to people and that works or I should say its a start

    • @coolgamerzach6565
      @coolgamerzach6565 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well they run away from me like I have just kicked them or something.

    • @commanderwaddles3483
      @commanderwaddles3483 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I do too but I still have no friends..

  • @dead2675
    @dead2675 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I do have friends but fake ones

    • @mairih
      @mairih 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have 3 friends and one is fake. None of them is in my class.

    • @dorkasulyi3673
      @dorkasulyi3673 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same!!!

    • @tinkywinky5708
      @tinkywinky5708 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      rip

    • @malcalaholmes7224
      @malcalaholmes7224 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Who want to become friends

    • @mcjug1350
      @mcjug1350 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Better than no friends

  • @khulood7678
    @khulood7678 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I really can’t believe i’m watching vids like this...

  • @ArturoCabello
    @ArturoCabello 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    *Going to conventions that share your passions like real estate, or hell even comic con, you'll definitely meet great people! :)*

    • @rick5219
      @rick5219 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you said hell.. what if I don’t go to hell what if I just go to sleep

  • @pritney6690
    @pritney6690 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank u so much, im extremely shy, whenever i talk to someone i dont know what to do, the other day one guy from my tecnology class invited me to their group because i always sit alone, i said ok an smiled, he told me he was also in my spanish class, like he wanted to talk to me, i just smiled and said that i saw him too, and then i looked the other way, he looked at me like "Arent u going to say something?" it was embarrassing, but i cant wait to my next tecnology class and ask them if i can sit with them :) Btw they are the typical "nerds" so i think we can get alone.

    • @strabeex-alt940
      @strabeex-alt940 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg you're so lucky :') Nobody would talk to the weird child (they say I'm weird 'cause I'm shy) :' >

  • @goonggoongginga9954
    @goonggoongginga9954 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm really shy but I'm lucky because every one of my friends I've met in a class when they start the conversations

  • @tonyd3974
    @tonyd3974 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Brainy Dose these are solid tips that I can use. Thank you for posting!

  • @allyattack1232
    @allyattack1232 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    me wanting more friends
    “ok i’ll watch this, see if this can help.”
    “#1 get involved, join a school club”
    me: YOUR KIDDING😭

  • @archangelgabriel27
    @archangelgabriel27 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am Friendly and one has to be open minded and hearted as every person is different, yet may have some common traits like yourself. Just being yourself is far better than pretending being someone else. Just be careful to whom you give your trust. Positive Attitude eventually brings Positive people, that same applies for the negative. I wish each one of you the very best in your lives as you deserve the best friends. Good Luck and Many Blessings. :)

  • @gilanasworld4231
    @gilanasworld4231 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m shy at school but at home and everywhere else I am very sociable, fun, outgoing, and all that good stuff. At school I am quiet and I made one real friend and she’s in a different class. Everyone says I am quiet and some say I’m chill. I wait for someone to talk to me but I guess I have to make the first move, but how? My mom has been giving me advise for school but I am always so scared to talk to someone once I do it, it’s not that bad but everyone else has been around each other for years and another new girl got friends from volleyball. I really want to talk more and let people get to know me. ITS HARDDDD

    • @Frojoo
      @Frojoo ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel you and i have exact the Same Problem :( but i cant give you advice unfortunatly :( ❣️

  • @salahdewan433
    @salahdewan433 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is really comprehensive. I love how this is written and how thought out it is

  • @azariel6669
    @azariel6669 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Here is my question what if you have severe anxiety and severe depression and no social skills and you want friends and there is no clubs at all in your local area

  • @lovehearts450
    @lovehearts450 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Main things to consider: move out of your comfort zone and be more exposed to social interactions

  • @bryanmccallum4614
    @bryanmccallum4614 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm shy and older than the people that I hang out with on the weekends! Great videos thank you!

  • @cwheelerm
    @cwheelerm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    starting a new college in a new area so i know NO ONE, so scared omg

  • @Emilyx239
    @Emilyx239 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Fear of being rejected so walking up to people is hard

  • @DanTrustsTheFathersPlan
    @DanTrustsTheFathersPlan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Solid Advice bro!! Pardon the additional "know it all" comment from ⚡BadBoyD⚡ However please remember folks you are the average of the 5 people you hang around the most.. So when you do make friends choose wisely it's usually harder to get rid of friends than it is to make friends👊

    • @DanTrustsTheFathersPlan
      @DanTrustsTheFathersPlan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@happytv79 We'll see.. haha!

    • @novafang01
      @novafang01 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You were changing your comments and writing about stupid stuff that was not related with the video

    • @DanTrustsTheFathersPlan
      @DanTrustsTheFathersPlan 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@novafang01 what? You got right guy bro? Who do you work for!!

    • @izza5163
      @izza5163 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, so true, it really is harder to get rid of friends than to make them.... (my current situation TwT)

  • @fumanchutripitaka6639
    @fumanchutripitaka6639 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So basically if you want to have friends and a life stop being shy!? That's right it is all your fault that you don't have any friends just get over it and don't be shy!!?? Well thanks for the absolutely profound thoughts and advice! I now know that I should just give up altogether what's the point!!

  • @EliannaCH
    @EliannaCH 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My plan: me at 4-h "hi I like your horse, what breed is he?" Or after I finish my barrel run, "Good luck" except that's what we all say and you can't really talk when they are running around the barrels. But I am not good at talking to new people so I will probably fail

    • @kaceyequestrian5191
      @kaceyequestrian5191 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Crazy Trios Of Nebraska horses are my world and I do nothing but horses

  • @lunch7213
    @lunch7213 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really wish that people who make these suggestion videos actually did field experiments as well. Do they not understand for shy people that not knowing how we’ll be responded to is another factor?

  • @opfer1555
    @opfer1555 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Focus on People that don’t have any friends they are most likely to be desperate to get friends ( just like you, but don’t be offended everyone Lowkey is )

  • @sweetdaemon
    @sweetdaemon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What if you hate to smile and hate people, but still wanna have friends?

    • @MJ-ng8fm
      @MJ-ng8fm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      YOU just describe me lol.

    • @sweetdaemon
      @sweetdaemon 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      M J hahah 😂 Nice to know that I’m not the only one

    • @dorathehomebody886
      @dorathehomebody886 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      then you’re not getting any 😘

  • @geronimo635
    @geronimo635 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    These were such a good tips... thank to you too bro... blessings...

  • @emmarose4287
    @emmarose4287 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I honestly can’t talk to anyone unless it’s online

  • @Dianav-hv2jh
    @Dianav-hv2jh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m going to try my best when school starts bc I want to have fun everyday going out with them

  • @amo_res9266
    @amo_res9266 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have friends, but we aren't friends enough to hang out during break time. Only in class

  • @pendoofficials.pak123
    @pendoofficials.pak123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So sweet information my dear thanks alot

  • @MacedoniaTheGreatEmpire
    @MacedoniaTheGreatEmpire 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Wtf Facebook is still
    a thing?

    • @coolgamerzach6565
      @coolgamerzach6565 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wth don't swear

    • @coolgamerzach6565
      @coolgamerzach6565 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And also the answer to your question is.. DUH WHAT DID U THINK?! Don't answer my question

    • @rick5219
      @rick5219 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Area 51 Storm****

  • @mikaelamacaranas6939
    @mikaelamacaranas6939 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi everyone. I am very shy and I am afraid of being alone and have no friends in school even in classroom. When I came to them and talk to them they also talk to me then afterwards they ignore me like im a stranger🙁 I feel like im not a good at socializing and communicating in people😭

    • @malcalaholmes7224
      @malcalaholmes7224 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mikaela Macaranas I feel like that everyday in high school. Want to become friends or something

  • @rachelhwang478
    @rachelhwang478 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im in 8th grade and 2 of my friends who I haven’t been in contact with for over a year don’t even come to school. I always see ny other classmates from elementary school with new friends and being mature and stuff. Im really insecure, unconfident and shy. I can never get to talk to people and i speak really quietly. Im getting more and more sad, then my parents and everyone keep saying to make friends. its so much easier to make friends when your not self conscious. I just want a friend who is just like me

  • @SilentGrayz
    @SilentGrayz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i have one friend i have but me and her only have one class together, which makes me lonely in my class and i makes me upset when seeing people have friends in all of their class and i don’t, but i’m shy and quiet and i don’t have the confidences to talk to someone :,>

  • @parkchaeyoung833
    @parkchaeyoung833 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The most depressing thing about this is that some people search up for this like me

  • @footballreview4k
    @footballreview4k 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Love your videos x😘x😘

    • @BrainyDose
      @BrainyDose  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you! 😁

  • @Sissou007
    @Sissou007 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for this list it helps me so much keep going ❤️❤️

  • @nehharao
    @nehharao 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    im starting freshman year in highschool in 2 weeks and i'm SUPER introverted and shy and i always feel so scared to talk to people so idkwhatimgonnadoomg

  • @darcik3743
    @darcik3743 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i am a lot different to my friends than to strangers. to strangers im so nice and caring and calm, but with my friends...let's just say i roast them (jokingly), and *accidentally* talk about myself a lot (im working on it), and being a bit craycray..but my 'friend' personality isn't that attractive to strangers, i have experience.

  • @victoriasargent3913
    @victoriasargent3913 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    someone just b my friend lol

    • @punitparashar2147
      @punitparashar2147 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes i will if u don't mind

    • @acatumxryvyz6037
      @acatumxryvyz6037 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dont count on me •_•. Ill regret it

    • @worldjudges
      @worldjudges 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      am your friend now

    • @eh9381
      @eh9381 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I need a friend too 🖤

  • @koolumi7132
    @koolumi7132 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I thought I was an introvert but after watching this I’m actually an extrovert

  • @cobyjames3606
    @cobyjames3606 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm really quiet and don't talk at all

  • @nurinaleeyana9422
    @nurinaleeyana9422 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    im not that shy , i made alot of friends during the 1st day. but they all just made new friends during 2nd day and left me alone.

  • @SoarseX
    @SoarseX 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm using your videotexts to learn English and to be a better person. Amazing video.

  • @ayshaamin3552
    @ayshaamin3552 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Whoever is reading this comment may all your wishes come true...............❤️

  • @josephtvshow7467
    @josephtvshow7467 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Involve is this what I heard how will yourself to group of people while you are still shy seriously?

  • @furiousegrimsans7861
    @furiousegrimsans7861 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m crazy shy I have not even one friend in highschool I’m 15 years old.

    • @furiousegrimsans7861
      @furiousegrimsans7861 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      KeithStop Voisin hey that sounds great, I am also a Christian, I am in Quebec.

    • @furiousegrimsans7861
      @furiousegrimsans7861 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      KeithStop Voisin I’ll just give my instagram it’s ok, its_savagesheldhini

    • @furiousegrimsans7861
      @furiousegrimsans7861 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      KeithStop Voisin alrighty ☺️

    • @zaragirl9616
      @zaragirl9616 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@furiousegrimsans7861 hy

  • @shertazh8011
    @shertazh8011 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    What if your doing sports or something and you want to become friends with the other people you play with but you feel like they don’t like you and judge u?

  • @starsonlyrandom2400
    @starsonlyrandom2400 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    No matter how much sports I do, clubs I join, outgoing as can be, I still have no friends, I guess I just don’t fit in highschool.

  • @sleepylunaa
    @sleepylunaa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've know that this tutorial was what i try to do everyday,but tysm u also helped me to feel better :)

  • @superbgpaul
    @superbgpaul 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just don't know what to talk about or even break the ice. Not having friends is affecting my marriage.

  • @jasminehernandez1615
    @jasminehernandez1615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When you brought up Facebook I pretended it was instagram or snapchat

  • @dipankar2010able
    @dipankar2010able 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In a nutshell, read the book" how to win friends and influence people" and I guarantee it will change your life.

  • @GlydLev
    @GlydLev 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Only step to not be shy is to avoiding be shy

  • @cobyjames3606
    @cobyjames3606 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks

  • @zhine7382
    @zhine7382 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    im always quiet but my classmate is extremely loud. ._.

  • @arcaneschool6350
    @arcaneschool6350 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Being that I have been marred with an inferiority complex with a side of neediness because noone ever related or attached themselves to me. In fact, most people do not understand me even professionarls, therapists, dr's, police.. etc. They always react to me the same way that others do in never believing anything I say, quick to mocking and getting others to do the same or quick to anger because they assume I'm not applying myself. If you could tell me how to jump through people's behavior towards me. I have gotten past the pain and neediness finally and maybe I am still growing out of how people react and relate to me but when I have brought supervisors into confusing situations it usually ends up the same so my issue has been deep since a child and noone spotted my inferiority complex or my struggle all they did was keep pushing me to do better and now after 49 years I'm just spotting what is exactly happening. I can't work, count money in front of cashiers or nothing because others lack of patience of me has broken me is my interpretation if that makes sense. Thanks for listening. I have never given up but always had the same cycle. My caregiver hates how much he has to defend me from angry or ignorant people when they don't know me and I never said anything to them people have just always treated me one of a few ways.

  • @mianahmad3232
    @mianahmad3232 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice..new friend here

  • @emperorlizZ
    @emperorlizZ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can't even go up to a random person and say "Hello" I am so quiet and shy so no one wants to talk to a quiet girl like me....

    • @zeeshanahmed5745
      @zeeshanahmed5745 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes and i am a shy guy as well what should we do now Dear 😂😂😂 i came to US in 2016 and everything is very hard.live in US is very difficult 😔

  • @sanepjin9213
    @sanepjin9213 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Idk y but when I involve myself into something, I always overthink about people assuming I’m just an extra and that I’m no help to them ;:/

  • @nakedtacoman1725
    @nakedtacoman1725 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Basically some kid who used to be my friend he took legit all my friends and I couldn’t even talk to them because that kid told bullshit about that isn’t true and I’m trying to make new friends to forget about them

  • @prechyatos9260
    @prechyatos9260 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need friend to always chat with and talk about where they come from.

  • @jamesrobertson5475
    @jamesrobertson5475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I do this but i have dystonia and parkinsonism so everyone looks at me like im a freak i have a pacemaker for my brain and no one want to talk w me.... So there's that im not "normal

  • @angeldaisie9807
    @angeldaisie9807 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thx

  • @yaash8337
    @yaash8337 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's true if you want reaily good partner in your life b honest and respectful with him

  • @lxminum5551
    @lxminum5551 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    2:Smile
    Me:Boi I look like a donkey rabbit when I smile ._.

  • @strabeex-alt940
    @strabeex-alt940 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So here is how I made my first friends in my new school:
    ✨F o o d✨
    Guess what? After 2 years we got new classes and then 'Corona' came-
    And thats the reason why I can't make friends with my bootiful food ;-;

    • @strabeex-alt940
      @strabeex-alt940 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@moodieanimated9711 haha yeah 😂

    • @moodieanimated9711
      @moodieanimated9711 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm homeschooled now so I only have 1 digital friend and I give her digital food emojis.🥘🍔🥪🥞🍞🍗🎂🍭🍬🍩🍨🍧🍫🥧

    • @strabeex-alt940
      @strabeex-alt940 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@moodieanimated9711 Digital food 🍇🍈🍉🍊🍓🍞🥜🥖🥨🧇🥞🍕🍟 :>>

    • @moodieanimated9711
      @moodieanimated9711 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@strabeex-alt940 🍍🍎🍇🍉🥝🍑🍋🍒🍅

    • @moodieanimated9711
      @moodieanimated9711 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Digital fruit!!

  • @Prop8Hater
    @Prop8Hater 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    About #1. In my city, social groups are only for women, which is sex discrimination even if it's against the historically favored group.
    And when I took community college classes, daytime students NEVER had any free time between homework and internships. Regardless of if I went during the day or at night, they were too immature for me want to be with them anyway.
    I'm triggered. :`(

  • @Aurora-rw9lp
    @Aurora-rw9lp 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    i feel like if i ask for someone’s social media they’ll think i wanna date them and im asking for that. embarrassing aaa

  • @sabineesswein4689
    @sabineesswein4689 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am shy and i Life alone but i have a Job a little Family Hobby s my fanpassion that enough for me

    • @Elizabeth-yg2mg
      @Elizabeth-yg2mg 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too--with work, exercise, a house, reading and hobbies there's only time to choose carefully and get to know just a few people well.

    • @coolgamerzach6565
      @coolgamerzach6565 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Idc

    • @worldjudges
      @worldjudges 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      sorry you will find a friend

  • @gotllno__beanie7514
    @gotllno__beanie7514 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another hard part is my brother telling ppl mean things about me. Even tell my secrets. Of course brothers do that. But I'm shy at the same time and I loove friends!! 😶😰

  • @ms.pirate
    @ms.pirate 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    How do i join a club when no one is allowed to see each other in person during the pandemic?!?!

  • @sniperammow4865
    @sniperammow4865 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    just have a interesting personality. say things that push boundaries, at least in my personal life i got a lot of my friends because i can make fun of both my self and sensitive topics like racism.

  • @madisonwhelan4219
    @madisonwhelan4219 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Talking is what i struggle with

  • @Dianav-hv2jh
    @Dianav-hv2jh 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m going to try my best to make friends for the second grade of high school when school starts. (If school will continue) I’m going to be real honest in first grade of high school I had friends but I also felt they weren’t.

  • @maryamshareef6428
    @maryamshareef6428 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am just so freaking lonely 😭

    • @KeithStop
      @KeithStop 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maryam Shareef
      Hello,
      I am 14, how old are you? I am looking for friendship too.

  • @lily2833
    @lily2833 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    The thing is I can’t go up to someone smile and then talk bc I’m scared to talk

  • @meowmrau
    @meowmrau 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oof im starting a new school in september in a complete different country with no friends there when i was being signed up to school the head teacher said i should make friends around that school so she knows what class to put me in

  • @izzypaynter8361
    @izzypaynter8361 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm shy, I have some friends but now my bff is moving school I need to seriously find some new friends!

  • @beamazed54
    @beamazed54 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Asking for a friend

    • @Kearskill
      @Kearskill 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      May i have friends

  • @hufflepuff7479
    @hufflepuff7479 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Im still to shy to do those :/
    *Said relax*
    That works but I dont have facebook I only have 4 friends
    Reniel
    Kyan
    Kristoff
    Rafael
    Oh yeah I mean 5 and Elixa

    • @nezumiy4115
      @nezumiy4115 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have less than 10 friends.

    • @quill_7834
      @quill_7834 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dude only one friend came to my 13th birthday so I ended ties with my other “friends” ;-;

    • @Kearskill
      @Kearskill 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't ever share out real names dude

  • @cobyjames3606
    @cobyjames3606 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My friends get pissed off at me because of my music obsession

  • @fatimamohammed278
    @fatimamohammed278 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am trying to do a new friend at school but l am the most shy person at school 😔

  • @maurice3184
    @maurice3184 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    bruh literally in primary school how I made friends was sharing blocks with someone once

  • @madisonlol203
    @madisonlol203 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ok I’m going to try this I have no friends right now i will update you

    • @hmj6806
      @hmj6806 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Billie Elish so what happened?😁

    • @saiyanlll7005
      @saiyanlll7005 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      What happened?

    • @caseyyy2572
      @caseyyy2572 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol did it work?

  • @Taybi-_12
    @Taybi-_12 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Personally....
    I don't agree with 1, "get involved"....in....clubs???🙃
    2, the point in relation to face book?🤔
    3,accepting invitation😒? Oh no! I do not agree with those points RATHER....."OFFER HELP" +" SMILE"works a lot for me! Any ways I always miss your videos. From Ethiopia

  • @nazerkesaduova4221
    @nazerkesaduova4221 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks a lot,I like your videos😊