Relaxed Hair Do's and Don'ts! Habits to Ditch & Quick Tips to Start!

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  • @AlexisKimberlyy
    @AlexisKimberlyy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hey Babes! I know some of us are guilty of these relaxer don'ts lol. I know I am! Which habits are you ridding and which tips will you be implementing in your relaxed hair journey? Let’s chat! xoxo

  • @PinkIslandJewel
    @PinkIslandJewel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I relaxed my hair!! 😮😮 After being natural 10 years I was ready for a change. And can I say....I LOVE my relaxed hair! ❤️❤️ I’m learning so much about it, it’s actually fun. Wash day doesn’t feel like a chore nor is it an all day process anymore. Your videos have both inspired me and helped me take care of my hair on this amazing new journey 🤗🤗🥰🥰

    • @luckyducky224
      @luckyducky224 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm right there with you! I relaxed two days ago after 14 years natural. I'm loving it.

    • @astoldbyaja3010
      @astoldbyaja3010 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yasss girl I relaxed my hair after 3 years and it’s way more manageable

    • @kay-ty5rx
      @kay-ty5rx 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      How long have you all had the relaxer? I’m just curious to people experienced after 6+ months. Really thinking about this, I’m scared because I have low porosity+density hair

    • @luckyducky224
      @luckyducky224 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kay-ty5rx I'm only a week in so I don't have good feedback yet but I have medium to low density hair, however, my hair has high porosity and it is very fine. So far, the benefits I have noticed is that my hair is quicker/easier to detangle (which helps alot since I was constantly breaking it). I can style and moisturize it more easily and can "baby" my hair better. Since it would shrink significantly, I was constant yanking on it to take care of it and style it and when I would get impatient....I'd rip through my hair😣.
      I haven't noticed any cons yet but happy to share in the future if you are still on the fence and looking for feedback.

    • @kay-ty5rx
      @kay-ty5rx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      luckyducky224 omg wow, I also get so impatient and yank through it, it’s barley touching my shoulders so idk what I’d do if it gets any longer. I’m thinking about relaxing a 2 inch section of my hair to see how it’ll behave. I’m so ready to baby my hair thanks so much 🙏🏽 💜

  • @swittykarendi
    @swittykarendi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I am relaxing my hair tomorrow after 5 years of natural hair. I am tired of managing 4C hair!!
    I have been watching your videos because I do not want to mess up 😉
    You are absolutely gorgeous and your hair is goals 😍

    • @octaviawalker823
      @octaviawalker823 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Flygirl, are you going to a professional to get your hair relaxed?

  • @rosii6432
    @rosii6432 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    please keep up with the relaxed hair videos, love them

  • @KnockknockNox
    @KnockknockNox 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm natural and would probably never get a relaxer ever again but these are great tips and maybe if I'd heard them 6 years ago I probably wouldn't have big chopped. I really enjoyed watching this and you have yourself a new subbie, your energy is wonderful

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nokhanyo Njokwana Damn y’all making me emotional over here! Lol. Thank you for the kind words, my love! I’m so happy to be a part of your journey-hair is hair and we should support one another in whatever form ! I appreciate you ❤️❤️

  • @dazzlinginthekitchen5742
    @dazzlinginthekitchen5742 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I accidentally clicked on your video while holding my phone. I’m staying bc you sold me on your personality and hair knowledge. Glad I accidentally clicked sis 😁💞

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dazzling In the Kitchen Yay! So happy for the accidental click! Haha welcome to the fam sis, feel free to ask any questions along your journey!! ❤️💋😘

  • @jazminereyes9179
    @jazminereyes9179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    You made me laugh at 6:30 when you were talking about moisturizing at night. "I'm tired I'll do it in the morning" 😂😂😂 that was me many nights but not anymore lol

  • @fishchicken4188
    @fishchicken4188 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Yes I get excited Everytime your videos pop up, can't stop smiling great tips ♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      fish chicken You’re the best. Love seeing your comments every week ❤️❤️ thanks for watching my love!

  • @ARLITA4545
    @ARLITA4545 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    We appreciate you too! I do agree with everything you said about moisture and taking care of our precious strands...I find myself in summer months taking moisture in a small container in my purse because even though you moisturize at night during the summer your hair get dry when u go outside because of the humidity! Lol..So once I arrive to my destination I apply some light weigh non greasy moisture to my wavy, curly hair! Thank u once again..with your help we can figure this hair thing our together one week at a time! Very Informative video once again!

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Arlita Yessss sista you got this figured out! Lol that’s so smart to bring a container with you. That’s dedication. I just love your positivity. Because you are so right! Every week we get just a little bit closer to our goals, together! I’m so happy we have each other on this journey! I appreciate you as always ❤️❤️

    • @charlotteclark2207
      @charlotteclark2207 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great idea

  • @adedeassem
    @adedeassem 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Trusting the manufacturer, moisturizing at night,paying attention to the sheen(never really thought of this)....
    Need to work a lot on these
    Thanks so much for these tips😊
    And oh my..we appreciate you so much too❤

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Adede Assem The feeling’s mutual babe! ❤️❤️ You are so welcome!

  • @sharobb6904
    @sharobb6904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    your hair is jaw-dropping gorgeous

  • @annettewilliams8330
    @annettewilliams8330 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Girl, yesss I do wait sometimes too long to moisturize....but your hair is all that, Thanks for the tips.

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Annette Williams Hahaha thank you babe! Listen, you are not the only one! We just gotta do better. Commit to the change and follow through. Thanks for watching ❤️❤️

  • @traceylennon1204
    @traceylennon1204 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That's what I literally used to do wait till my hair was completely dry before I realized it needs to be remoisturized!

  • @carmenbailey5125
    @carmenbailey5125 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for the great advice and your hair is very pretty. Iam on a journey with my hair now from nov 19 too current my hair became my best friend, I will implement your tips🌷Thank you for sharing.

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      carmen bailey Yay! That’s amazing! You’re well on your way to healthy hair. You made the commitment to yourself and feel the love in caring for it. Happy to hear my loveee! ❤️😘

  • @mildrededmiston2095
    @mildrededmiston2095 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great job! Luv your hair!!

  • @valenciawalker6498
    @valenciawalker6498 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks so much ! I plan to implement them in my relax hair journey . I never let my hair get dry . I’ve never tried protein treatments, I’m willing to implement protein . I’ve been relaxed since ,I was fourteen . I use a lot of leave in conditioner that come in hair masks . I need to moisturize more at night I rarely moisturize at night . I just noticed these past days my hair has been really shiny . I’ll try elasticity.

  • @monicareynolds1995
    @monicareynolds1995 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love your channel! Your hair videos especially... so informative

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Monica Reynolds Aww thank you love!! I appreciate you for supporting them ❤️❤️

  • @rhondadowell476
    @rhondadowell476 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am trying really hard to stay the course of the journey. Your videos are very informative and I enjoy them.

  • @roseoliver7179
    @roseoliver7179 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing keep up the good work looking forward to seeing your VIDEO again so beautiful great. I have been natural for to year now for 3year now until May of this year 2024 it will be 4 year. I just cut my hair feb 19,2024 of this year natural. I am not sure what I will do. Because of other things last year trying to keep it up coloring my hair over the years. And a lot of stress last year.

  • @Zaiispace
    @Zaiispace 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are hair and beauty goals Alexis!

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Zainab Muktar You are the best. So sweet. Thank you for watching and for your support! ❤️💋

    • @Extraordinary-80
      @Extraordinary-80 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey miss lady if the picture is you on your profile, you are naturally gorgeous😉.

  • @lashondahaywood6157
    @lashondahaywood6157 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    New sub! Love the great information you provide for healthy hair care. Thankful for finding your channel.

  • @dreamervert
    @dreamervert 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much! Your videos are really helpful 🥰

  • @normashindika4323
    @normashindika4323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You have great tips!

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Norma Shindika Thank you for watching my love!! 🙌🏾

  • @tammygreaves2119
    @tammygreaves2119 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yea just about to oil my scalps and grease my hair now , been too lazy with this

  • @kaybee1749
    @kaybee1749 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How often should I be moisturizing my hair?

  • @Coolct
    @Coolct 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Your definitely talking about me when it comes to not moisturizing at night.. oops I gotta do better !

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      CoolCalmChris Haha listen we’ve all been there! We can always start anew!! ❤️😘

  • @misstebbie9529
    @misstebbie9529 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really love your hair. How often do you relax your hair?

  • @cynthiak277
    @cynthiak277 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is great.Thanks for the tips.
    One thing though, Heat.
    Is it really THAT essential?
    I ask because it's too expensive for me to get a steamer or hooded dryer right now so I'm dependant on body heat to do my deep conditioning. So I'll keep the conditioner in for 45 mins to 1hr as I keep active to generate body heat or sit out in the sun.
    Is that method really ineffective?

    • @CharleyCharlez
      @CharleyCharlez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      In my experience using heat has been a game changer. I use a bonnet hooded dryer attachment...the kind that you attach to your regular hair dryer and works great. They're cheap too so no need to invest in a proper hooded dryer 😊

  • @kk92922
    @kk92922 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hey, sis! i loved the video; thanks for sharing. is detangling relaxed hair wet bad? i recently was told it should be dry. guess i should see what works for me 😂😂😂 💖

  • @ayonnazglam9050
    @ayonnazglam9050 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great tips!!

  • @dedravaughan7500
    @dedravaughan7500 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    how often do you moisturize and seal?

  • @kemleypedroza7239
    @kemleypedroza7239 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experience. You look like Beyonce.

    • @habbaticchio2468
      @habbaticchio2468 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought the same. Someone said Kelly Rowland but it’s Beyonce 😁

  • @gush3645
    @gush3645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Useful tips; thanks doll♡♡

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Precious Msipa You are so welcome my loveee ❤️❤️

  • @charlotteclark2207
    @charlotteclark2207 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wonderful advice your hair is gorg

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Charlotte Clark Thank you beautiful! ❤️❤️

  • @softlife888
    @softlife888 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    How many time do i need to put moisture and protein?

  • @blaccchai8518
    @blaccchai8518 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    U resemble Kelly Rowland 😍😍

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Blacc Chai Why thank you dawlingg ❤️💋

  • @AuthorLHollingsworth
    @AuthorLHollingsworth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Queen, this video gets four stars.

  • @misslee8939
    @misslee8939 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How did you get your hair to get that look?

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kerry Lee The front of my hair from ear to ear is out. I divided it into three sections and braid it up overnight. Took it out in the am and just fluffed to blend the hair! ❤️

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The curly hair is sewed on to a cap.

  • @Ms_Lyn33
    @Ms_Lyn33 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great tips

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      ATX - Sharonda Thank you so much! 💋

  • @thee_bougiebronzebeauty5192
    @thee_bougiebronzebeauty5192 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    These are some really great, practical tips. My hair is in braids right now, so I'm 100% guilty of skipping on the moisture. I needed that reminder. I always love your style, but those earrings 😍 Where did you get them, if you don't mind sharing?

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bronze Beauty Hahaha my hair underneath this wig has been in need of moisture so I had to remind my damn self 😂😂 It’s okay, we’re human! And thanks babe! I got the earrings over the holiday season. Pretty sure I picked them up at Macy’s.

  • @destiny1287
    @destiny1287 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😍

  • @MA-mq3xo
    @MA-mq3xo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you think Olaplex is good for relaxed hair?

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      M A Absolutelyyyyy. Use it every week!

  • @itsafrah._.8953
    @itsafrah._.8953 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow I don’t get how your hair is relaxed but looks natural

    • @natalieknight8695
      @natalieknight8695 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      She may not straighten with heat all the time, and probably doesn't pull it to the ends

    • @natalieknight8695
      @natalieknight8695 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      ***the perm to the ends

    • @AlexisKimberlyy
      @AlexisKimberlyy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      EpicGamergirl Hey sis! I get that question a lot. Be sure to check out my Texlaxing videos and salon relaxer routine. I go into depth there ❤️❤️