I can 100% relate to the body hair one. When I was 13 I was in the car with my dad after a volleyball game that my team had lost and I just bursted out crying. He thought it was because we lost but I eventually told him I was crying because I was so insecure of my legs. He said he would talk to my mom about it and EVENTUALLY she said I could shave, when I was 15. I know some girls have it worse or different but this was my experience 🙃
Omg same but I literally had noticeable body hair at 7 and I literally didn't shave until I was 10 and honestly I have thicker hair then my mom so I didn't shave that much because she didn't have the right razor and I would wear pants ALL THE TIME
I don’t have visible hair on my body but I do have quite some on my face. Mostly above my lip and on my forehead. Ugh I really want to shave it but I’m not allowed
The worst thing in school is when you ask to go to the bathroom and they say "You should have gone passing period" even though there class is across the whole campus 💀
To any parents, if your daughter asks for makeup, it’s not always because she doesn’t feel beautiful enough. Even so not letting her have makeup won’t make her feel beautiful, it will make her feel worse. Just because you tell your child their beautiful doesn’t always mean they believe it
@@DarthObscurity that's not what I'm saying. I specified that if she wants makeup, you can allow her some. Maybe dont let her appearance take over her life, but just brushing off "your already pretty" and not saying anything else about it won't convince them. Most teenagers need to feel like they put in an effort to look good to feel good. It doesn't have to be a big effort, but a small one is fine.
But I can understand parents they don't want their young kids ruining their sensitive skin at young age and it's true makeup does affect your skin I am 21 and whenever I use makeup I don't like the feeling when I remove my skin gets damaged I think skincare products should be used more than makeup.
My parents literally expect me to act like an adult like: do this on your own you’re almost an adult but then they are like: “you can’t do this you’re just a kid!” It seriously annoys me so much!
The amount of kids in this comment section feeling insecure about their appearance and body hair is honestly heartbreaking. You are all beautiful whether or not you shave or wear makeup and you should only do those things if you want to not because you feel pressured to!! 💕
What some people don’t realize about the body hair is the opposite can be true. I have darker hair so my body hair has always been quite visible but it generally doesn’t bother me. However, since I was literally NINE years old my mom has been making me shave and if she ever sees that I haven’t shaved in the past couple of weeks she’ll give me a look and tell me to shave NOW. It’s terrible and I really hate it.
I’m so sorry that must be really hard 😢 my mum doesn’t care if I shave for not, I’m a closeted trans boy so body hair really helps me with my body dysphoria but then again everyone sees me as a girl so i never show it❤
i cant shave until im 16 and my mom said "most girls shave at that age" im like yea right how come i see ppl who have no hair on them when they are my age im glad im homeschooled tho thats better or id get bullied for it but still it can be a pain even my mom makes fun of me sometimes and says im hairy when shes the one who wont even let me shave-
When I was in school how I overcame the period scenario was by throwing my pad at the teachers and shouting "I'll just bleed then". They'd force me out of the class and soon they changed the rules to allow anyone to go to the toilet when needed. Which ended as a win win for everyone 😂
As a guy, I really hate how some guys in schools literally don't want to control themselves. And then teachers make that into unfair rules for the girls. Unfair dress codes need to stop.
We have a uniform same as most schools in Ireland but we’re not allowed wear our hockey gear in the building as it’s “distracting” like sorry but it’s ur problem if u can’t be a creep
The first time I ever experienced period cramps was at the beginning of 6th grade. I was in physical education. We were supposed to be warming up for the soccer unit but I thought I was dying and it hurt so bad that I just sat down on the ground and started having a mental breakdown (again, please take note it was 6th grade and I was 11 years old). Everyone was super concerned for my life but my Bestie handed me a tampon and said the words I will never forget: “Get it together, gworl…”
@@Sasaluvley12 girl I don't know that ur parents have told u about this Or not but u have asked ( to paige freeman) but i am telling that it comes to every girl as this is the step if puberty nd there is no need to get scared in periods we bleed from our reproductive part nd during periods we feel pain but this is different for everyone some suffers with a lot of pain some with less nd some with like no pain (thnx to God that I feel like no pain) so we have to wear pad Or tampons but I guess pads r much better than tampons nd if u feel too much pain u may take pain killer nd there is no need to worry as it happens with every girl nd period comes once in a month but ur menstrual cycle can be different according to ur body nd u should feel lucky that God choosed u to bear this pain as he thinks u r brave
enjoy the parts that are worth enjoying and the times spent with people who make you happy and who you make happy let yourself have fun the school and stress doesn’t last forever
The period thing happened to me today, I forgot to get my tissue so I went back to class and when I asked him if I could go back he said I couldn't, I told him I was getting my tissues and the only thing he said was "go back to your seat" so I asked for help from my friend and she had to go tell another teacher that i was sick and when she said "you can go" I literally ran to the bathroom. It was so humiliating. Teachers shouldn't stop people from going to the bathroom, especially girls.
they really shouldn't but i see why they don't as in my class If two girls end up going at the same time they will talk until the lesson is over and a few girls say they are going to the bathroom but ens up going around the school
I don’t rlly see the point why girls can’t use bathroom during a class, bc u can’t stop your period, and that’s why i actually hate THOSE teachers who say no to a girl, bruh
I really can relate, I'm being bullied mentally and I'm on edge. To anyone in the same situation, you're not alone and seek for help if needed, stay safe and hydrated ^^
I was so insecure (heck, still am) as a preteen about my body hair but too awkward to ask my mom for a razor. Like,everyone else had no hair and they hated me.
LITTERALLY same and what made it worse for me is that they pointed it out what also infuriates me is that at my school they teach that only boys have facial hair so when a person like me has facial hair I get weird looks and people pointing it out and it just lowers my self-esteem To any person out there it’s absolutely normal and I am starting to learn that it’s ok and normal to have facial or body hair and EVERYONE has it just some people have more or darker hair which makes it more visible but please appreciate your own body 💗
@@Natalie-ds2uu ikr..... ppl always make fun of me for being hairy meanwhile the only hair they have is on their head eyelashes and eyebrows and im not aloud to shave bc apparently im too young and im turning 16 . i hate it bc everyone bugs me that im hairy and i dont have clear skin or a iphone 14 pro max and stupid things like that 😔
I've always been insecure of my scars. I had a severe case of meningitis when I was really young and it left me having to get a tube to drain the excessive liquid that the brain basically bathes in which left me with scars on my head and stomach. My insecurities about the scars I got from my lifesaving procedures were so severe I used to change for PE in the bathroom before class only not to deal with my classmates staring at my stomach area.
@Master Debater You don't even understand how those words made me happy... It's one of the first times someone, besides my family, actually, in other words, said to me "your insecurities are valid and you shouldn't have to feel down just because the people around you don't know how to react to something different."
When my sister was 13, she thought that body hair was an issue. We have black hair, so it's really dark and thick. I showed her my body hair and said, "If body hair was that bad, why do we have it?" She never wanted to shave after. I recommend we let our flaws' breath. I know this wasn't the goal of the Short, but I felt like it was a wholesome moment.
Yes, I agree with you! Also, I think we should just explain things to children instead of simply forbidden some things to them! That way they wouldn't feel that these things are unfair. Body hair is natural, why shouldn't have to feel insecure about it.
ok but like at my school (it was middle school) girls got bullied all the time for being hairy, you shouldn’t force your child to not be able to shave, it can lead to a lot of bullying and self hate
@@parrotlover8547 Instead of listening to those bullies, you got to make the change. I know it's hard, but if we work together things can get better. It's natural.
@@parrotlover8547 Also, are those girls some sort of God? They're unconfident with themselves. so they put their problems on others. This same problem applies to muscular women. If we don't change the standards, indeed, self hate and bullying will increase and I guided all through out the way.
I remember going to school wearing shorts and these older kids on the bus were making me feel insecure about my "hairy" legs so I asked my mom to shave and she said no so for the rest of the year I only wore pants.
i can definitely relate especially the body hair. im stitting here looking like a bear getting teased. my mom doesn’t care. i ask her to ask her to wax cuz im being bullied. still no
I’m not that insecure, but most of the time I wear hoodies and sweatpants to school because it’s comfortable and it follows the dress code. The last thing I want is to be judged on what i’m wearing, or get in trouble. Also, it hides when I forget to shave. And if I’m more focused on my schoolwork than what I look like, then that will help me in the future.
My mom is against shaving but since she knows that I’m insecure with my body she lets me do my makeup, and shave she shaves my “mustache” cuz she knows I’m insecure about it even tho it’s normal for everyone to have one she shaved it for me so I don’t feel insecure and now I feel more confident
Thank you, I thought I was the only one when I was just freaking twelve years old and a classmate told me i should shave my axilas. She said it in a "polite" way but WHY DO YOU THINK I SHOULD? I was still leaving childhood and I felt terrible by simple fact of growing. Even though she didn't do any "mean" things to me it still keeps up as a bad memory in my mind.
I honestly don't see anything wrong with shaving. Lile honestly. No parent should tell their child not to shave. It's their kid's OWN body, not theirs! If I was a mom, I wouldn't mind if my future daughter would want to shave at some point.
i'm so glad i go to a school where everyone doesn't say anything like that. i didn't realize how much of a privilege i have going to a school with such considerate teachers. the longest i've ever had to wait to go to the bathroom was only 5 minutes. so lucky
I’m really grateful to my mum for understanding that I might want to shave and offered to buy me a pack of razors so I could occasionally shave my armpits, and I’m just very happy my mum understands girls needs, especially at my age
I was always insecure about my upper lip hair and when even my closest friends made fun of me for it my mum finally gave me cream. Forever grateful for that.
Exactly. For the period thing, last year I was in math class and two kids from my science teacher’s class came and knocked on our class door (my math teacher was the lead teacher on the hall) and they were talking abt something when the teacher came back in and called the VP. I later found out what happened, so my science teacher was a bad teacher and basically never taught us anything, so it turned out that one girl was on her period and had to go to the bathroom, she asked, the teacher said no. She told the teacher she was on her period, the teacher still said “you can wait” the rest of the class knew what was going on and they were on the girls side, but the teacher still wouldn’t listen. So the girl left the class and went to the bathroom without the teachers permission. Later the VP gave the girl detention and told the kids that if that happened again, they would get ISS. (The teacher did not get in any trouble, the VP was on the teachers side.) anyway, it made me hate my science teacher even more and I feel so bad for the girl who got in trouble.
I asked my mom for razor and she said ‘of course’ and when I asked her for waxing my hands and legs she was totally fine about it. (I have lot of hair on my body and I was really insecure about it but I was so relieved when my mom said yes)
@@djgallo502gt3 even I did. It makes me feel weird from inside for some reason but in the end it’s body hair and it’s normal ❤️ hope she will come around! I could understand the uncomfortable feeling especially when someone else points it out, it’s so frustrating.
I've been told with the shaving one .My mom said I had hairy legs so I asked for a razor . She said why? You don't need it? Well you pointed out my hairy legs so now I feel like I should shave them. That's how insecurities are formed.
I remember when I was young I didn't realize it but my I was super privileged. My Mother let me start hair removal when I was 10 years old and let me try out various forms of it aswel. My Dad though it was dumb for a girl at that age to remove any hair but I ignored him of course. By the time I was in highschool I was absolutely flabbergasted at how much girls, including my closest friend stole their Mother razor or used to a friend's just because their parents were afraid they were "Too Young". I had no idea how blessed I was, and only recently have learned that ❤️
I am so glad my mom is the best mom and isn’t ashamed of my body hair but is happy to buy me razors and help me shave. She even bought me cream that removes hair! ❤
I can relate to everyone of them, everyone expects girls to have no hair on their arms, absurd, we’re all humans, we all have hair- I had this friend that kept on picking on me since she had no hair on her arms and my arms are basically the Amazon forest (lol)
To the girls out there who aren’t aloud to go to the bathroom, first ask and if they say no then just go anyway. Its not ur fault that ur on ur period. You have a reason to go to the bathroom- so they can’t complain. Be a girlboss and walk outta there.
Relatable. I had a substitute who let one person out of the room at a time. I had to wait half the class for a guy to get back and I told “I really have to go though” and he’s like “I don’t care. You have to wait” so I legit bled through and one of my guy friends noticed and gave me his sweatshirt to help cover up the stain. L sub, but W friend!
It's okay,my friends are doing that too i hope you get better and , head up there are a lot of good things waiting for you -random stranger on the internet
This feels a lot like middle school because everyone is trying to target people because they are insecure. It isn’t okay and lots of people go through this
I have hair on my Arms and legs too, I thought it was a problem too, I thought nobody had it… But if u look better, Everyone does. I wasn’t that shy anymore after I saw that, so I’m happy
I relate mostly. For me it’s the opposite. I feel comfortable in who I am right now and my mum is forcing me to shave, I don’t want to and I feel fine in my skin. Shaving makes me uncomfortable. Remember only shave if you want!!
Same haha. My mom harassed me for my hairy legs but it makes me feel so much more confident and in control. I just think it looks better too but that's just my opinion
I can relate to the armpit hair one so much, in class i had to raise my hand for something and i was covering my armpit because 1 of my friends and my sister always brings it up. But i really like your vids!
Boys dont know what we have to go through, yet they call us weak. But I have one thing to say to them: GOD CHOSE US GIRLS TO DO THE THINGS THAT GUYS CANT BEACUSE WE ARE STRONG.😊
I feel so lucky that my mum let me have razors when I asked, i have friends who seen through this and I just don't understand why you wouldn't let your child do something that helps them be more comfortable and happy
oh why not? 😭. it’s personal hygiene and your parents should not neglect that! i’m so glad mine let me shave when i started getting hairy. i hope yours will allow you too very soon!
yeah. also, i stress over my weight a lot. i currently weigh under 80lbs which isn’t good for me but any bigger and i don’t know what i will do. i usually weigh like 68ish lbs. i feel so big ☹️
Yeah, I was REALLY hairy too. The other kids would call me a bear or a monkey or whatever else and it stuck with me. My mom FINALLY let me shave at thirteen or fourteen and i still remember my self esteem going up.
I really, really want my kids to be able to talk to me about stuff like this. I'd probably ask why they want the razor, and teach them positivity about their bodies, but if it's making them uncomfortable it's just hair.
Look it up on TH-cam, try to find your moms ones and use a clean one of hers, go very gently and don’t dig into ur skin or u might get an ingrown hair there’s lots of tutorials out there made for u hope this helps xx
I can relate. "Ur too young to shave!" " Ur not getting picked on for it ur fine" I get picked on a lot. Like a lot. Because I don't shave. Correction, I CANT!!
Once my period was really bad- like leaking onto the chair and giving birth to a giant jellyfish bad. I gestured to my (male) teacher that I needed to use the bathroom, but he refused to let me go despite me explaining. It sucks, but at least I didn’t bleed into the chair THAT much 💀
I can relate to the body hair one I have hair all of my body, I have unibrows, visible moustache line still my mom says I can't use razors or threads ;(
i was actually in maths the other day and the girl sat next to me asked to go to the toilet, and the maths teacher physically asked if it was a “period issue” quietly to her and it made me so happy
I started shaving my upper lip hair when I was 10 bc I was rlly self conscious abt my moustache I didn’t tell me mum b ur I was terrified she would notice bc my hair would notice bc it was rlly noticeable since I have dark hair but then I got an ingrown hair and she found out and screamed her lungs out at me for years, I’ve never done it again so now I’m just self conscious
Damn my friend ask me what I was hiding in the middle of class and I emptied my pockets and put them on his desk and said loudly “ there pads you want some?!” 😂
My mum told me I couldn’t shave my arms. I put way to much trust in her just because she’s a nurse. One day I just had enough. I got my shaver and shaved my arms and now I feel much more confident about myself.
Fun fact: Teenager are expected to act like adults, yet they are treated like kids…
Innit my teacher are always saying that
That is so freaking true
Ik
Bro ! My teenager time has started now and I'm thinking that it's very hard to be a teenager , is it ?
Yh same
I can relate all of them. And some more things.
Same
same
SAME ALWAYS HAVE CRAMPS
Same
Same
TEACHERS NEED TO UNDERSTAND WHAT A PERIOD IS I SWEARRRR
Some times I think they forget we are human 😂
Ikr they act like it doesn’t exist or smt smh rn ngl
Especially the older ones
Yeah like you either let me go or I will put a pad on in the classroom
@@RachelBaxter-dm5hnREAL
I can 100% relate to the body hair one. When I was 13 I was in the car with my dad after a volleyball game that my team had lost and I just bursted out crying. He thought it was because we lost but I eventually told him I was crying because I was so insecure of my legs. He said he would talk to my mom about it and EVENTUALLY she said I could shave, when I was 15.
I know some girls have it worse or different but this was my experience 🙃
omg same I ALWAYS wore pants in school even in hot weather just to not show off my legs
I too...
Omg same but I literally had noticeable body hair at 7 and I literally didn't shave until I was 10 and honestly I have thicker hair then my mom so I didn't shave that much because she didn't have the right razor and I would wear pants ALL THE TIME
I don’t have visible hair on my body but I do have quite some on my face. Mostly above my lip and on my forehead. Ugh I really want to shave it but I’m not allowed
The worst thing in school is when you ask to go to the bathroom and they say "You should have gone passing period" even though there class is across the whole campus 💀
My teachers literally block the bathrooms
Thank goodness my teacher would call my parents and send me home whenever I get stains in my clothes from the period blood
My teachers don't let kids go to the bathroom between classes
RIGHT
The teachers always say that we should’ve gone passing period- then there’s admin saying “No go straight to class”
To any parents, if your daughter asks for makeup, it’s not always because she doesn’t feel beautiful enough. Even so not letting her have makeup won’t make her feel beautiful, it will make her feel worse. Just because you tell your child their beautiful doesn’t always mean they believe it
So true 😐
Exactly 💜
Yeah, instead of teaching them about expressing their feelings or having self worth, just give them the makeup. Less headache for you, too.
@@DarthObscurity that's not what I'm saying. I specified that if she wants makeup, you can allow her some. Maybe dont let her appearance take over her life, but just brushing off "your already pretty" and not saying anything else about it won't convince them. Most teenagers need to feel like they put in an effort to look good to feel good. It doesn't have to be a big effort, but a small one is fine.
But I can understand parents they don't want their young kids ruining their sensitive skin at young age and it's true makeup does affect your skin I am 21 and whenever I use makeup I don't like the feeling when I remove my skin gets damaged I think skincare products should be used more than makeup.
My parents literally expect me to act like an adult like: do this on your own you’re almost an adult but then they are like: “you can’t do this you’re just a kid!” It seriously annoys me so much!
The amount of kids in this comment section feeling insecure about their appearance and body hair is honestly heartbreaking. You are all beautiful whether or not you shave or wear makeup and you should only do those things if you want to not because you feel pressured to!! 💕
Awww, thank you! It's giving this smile when you know your not alone and you believe in yourself
Ive been scared for high school since We have school uniforms and they have skirts and short sleeves
@@Line-of-a-friendships hun, I feel you there, my school also has uniforms that have skirts and short sleeves
I am not really hairy but i just have smelly hands (idk how that part is called i am not native sorryyy) and i dont feel insecure :)
This person is helping people so idc if you don’t want to but BLOW THIS PERSONS PHONE UP WITH LIKES!!!
Parents need to understand that we can't always be strong. Teens can also have depression and anxiety
i won’t say my age, but i’m a really young teenager and even i have anxiety 😭
Become stronger then
@@Reality_Gamer_2 shut the hell up bro
@@Reality_Gamer_2 difficult to do on your own
They were always like : "you never do anything" our neighbour's kid is better than you "
But we just argue with them and cry in bathroom 🙂
What some people don’t realize about the body hair is the opposite can be true. I have darker hair so my body hair has always been quite visible but it generally doesn’t bother me. However, since I was literally NINE years old my mom has been making me shave and if she ever sees that I haven’t shaved in the past couple of weeks she’ll give me a look and tell me to shave NOW. It’s terrible and I really hate it.
🥺 I am sorry
I’m so sorry that must be really hard 😢 my mum doesn’t care if I shave for not, I’m a closeted trans boy so body hair really helps me with my body dysphoria but then again everyone sees me as a girl so i never show it❤
U should tell ur mom ur feelings
That’s even worse for
i cant shave until im 16 and my mom said "most girls shave at that age" im like yea right how come i see ppl who have no hair on them when they are my age im glad im homeschooled tho thats better or id get bullied for it but still it can be a pain even my mom makes fun of me sometimes and says im hairy when shes the one who wont even let me shave-
When I was in school how I overcame the period scenario was by throwing my pad at the teachers and shouting "I'll just bleed then". They'd force me out of the class and soon they changed the rules to allow anyone to go to the toilet when needed. Which ended as a win win for everyone 😂
If l do it l'm gonna "jUsT" get suspended..
I would do that to but if I got suspended my dad would be proud of me
THATS SUS
massive W
Damn you're so brave ! 😂
Pro tip, always have 2 pads on you. One to put on the teachers forehead if they say no and one to use. They never wanna mess with u again
How to get suspended and in trouble 💀
✨Genius✨
@@RandomPerson-gr7yoYeah 😐😐😐
They deserve it tho-
@@RandomPerson-gr7yo Dunno,my teachers would just laugh. Mine ain't public school strict
As a guy, I really hate how some guys in schools literally don't want to control themselves. And then teachers make that into unfair rules for the girls. Unfair dress codes need to stop.
Ty ❤
We have a uniform same as most schools in Ireland but we’re not allowed wear our hockey gear in the building as it’s “distracting” like sorry but it’s ur problem if u can’t be a creep
FR finally someone that understands us girls
true facts
❤
The first time I ever experienced period cramps was at the beginning of 6th grade. I was in physical education. We were supposed to be warming up for the soccer unit but I thought I was dying and it hurt so bad that I just sat down on the ground and started having a mental breakdown (again, please take note it was 6th grade and I was 11 years old). Everyone was super concerned for my life but my Bestie handed me a tampon and said the words I will never forget: “Get it together, gworl…”
This got me heartbroken
I will be eleven soon. Paige Freeman can u please give me advise 😭
@@Sasaluvley12 girl I don't know that ur parents have told u about this Or not but u have asked ( to paige freeman) but i am telling that it comes to every girl as this is the step if puberty nd there is no need to get scared in periods we bleed from our reproductive part nd during periods we feel pain but this is different for everyone some suffers with a lot of pain some with less nd some with like no pain (thnx to God that I feel like no pain) so we have to wear pad Or tampons but I guess pads r much better than tampons nd if u feel too much pain u may take pain killer nd there is no need to worry as it happens with every girl nd period comes once in a month but ur menstrual cycle can be different according to ur body nd u should feel lucky that God choosed u to bear this pain as he thinks u r brave
@@starvibe7563this is the most confronting message (for me)❤
@@starvibe7563 ty i was just asking
Another reminder for me to become a teacher who actually cares about kids and let them go to the bathroom and make sure they feel safe in my classes.
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I can relate to the “How was school?” 😢
"If someone tells me one more time 'enjoy you're youth' I'm gonna cry"
-Olivia Rodrigo
What song by Olivia Rodrigo is that? I love her music and I keep hearing that audio everywhere, had no idea it was from her!
@@Luna_ratorx2 brutal
@@rae1442 tysm :D
enjoy the parts that are worth enjoying and the times spent with people who make you happy and who you make happy let yourself have fun the school and stress doesn’t last forever
The period thing happened to me today, I forgot to get my tissue so I went back to class and when I asked him if I could go back he said I couldn't, I told him I was getting my tissues and the only thing he said was "go back to your seat" so I asked for help from my friend and she had to go tell another teacher that i was sick and when she said "you can go" I literally ran to the bathroom. It was so humiliating. Teachers shouldn't stop people from going to the bathroom, especially girls.
they really shouldn't but i see why they don't as in my class If two girls end up going at the same time they will talk until the lesson is over and a few girls say they are going to the bathroom but ens up going around the school
@@princessland_28 yea thats true
I don’t rlly see the point why girls can’t use bathroom during a class, bc u can’t stop your period, and that’s why i actually hate THOSE teachers who say no to a girl, bruh
@@congey37 frr
I relate to this, the cramps are the worst, tho. The breakdowns are the worst part of it
I really can relate, I'm being bullied mentally and I'm on edge. To anyone in the same situation, you're not alone and seek for help if needed, stay safe and hydrated ^^
I can relate to some and I graduated almost a year ago 💔
Congrats on graduating!! ❤❤
I was so insecure (heck, still am) as a preteen about my body hair but too awkward to ask my mom for a razor. Like,everyone else had no hair and they hated me.
LITTERALLY same and what made it worse for me is that they pointed it out what also infuriates me is that at my school they teach that only boys have facial hair so when a person like me has facial hair I get weird looks and people pointing it out and it just lowers my self-esteem
To any person out there it’s absolutely normal and I am starting to learn that it’s ok and normal to have facial or body hair and EVERYONE has it just some people have more or darker hair which makes it more visible but please appreciate your own body 💗
@@Natalie-ds2uu ikr..... ppl always make fun of me for being hairy meanwhile the only hair they have is on their head eyelashes and eyebrows and im not aloud to shave bc apparently im too young and im turning 16 . i hate it bc everyone bugs me that im hairy and i dont have clear skin or a iphone 14 pro max and stupid things like that 😔
Yeah when I was preteen I had trouble with that..in year 5 my friends had shaved legs but I was still hairy it was sorta awkward
Everytime I ask my mom if I can remove my body hair she says I’m too young💀 So I just do it when she’s not home💀
@@izmechristie5614 omg thats sooo smart 💀 my aunt saw i was struggling with my body hair and she said she will take me for laser surgery:)
That's why I love my mom. She told me I could use the razor whenever felt like it at age 10
Me too
I've always been insecure of my scars. I had a severe case of meningitis when I was really young and it left me having to get a tube to drain the excessive liquid that the brain basically bathes in which left me with scars on my head and stomach. My insecurities about the scars I got from my lifesaving procedures were so severe I used to change for PE in the bathroom before class only not to deal with my classmates staring at my stomach area.
@Master Debater 🥹🥹🥹🥹
@Master Debater You don't even understand how those words made me happy... It's one of the first times someone, besides my family, actually, in other words, said to me "your insecurities are valid and you shouldn't have to feel down just because the people around you don't know how to react to something different."
This is so true and the fact that no one understands how we really feel
When my sister was 13, she thought that body hair was an issue. We have black hair, so it's really dark and thick. I showed her my body hair and said, "If body hair was that bad, why do we have it?" She never wanted to shave after. I recommend we let our flaws' breath. I know this wasn't the goal of the Short, but I felt like it was a wholesome moment.
Yes, I agree with you! Also, I think we should just explain things to children instead of simply forbidden some things to them! That way they wouldn't feel that these things are unfair. Body hair is natural, why shouldn't have to feel insecure about it.
ok but like at my school (it was middle school) girls got bullied all the time for being hairy, you shouldn’t force your child to not be able to shave, it can lead to a lot of bullying and self hate
@@parrotlover8547 Instead of listening to those bullies, you got to make the change. I know it's hard, but if we work together things can get better. It's natural.
@@parrotlover8547 Also, are those girls some sort of God? They're unconfident with themselves. so they put their problems on others. This same problem applies to muscular women. If we don't change the standards, indeed, self hate and bullying will increase and I guided all through out the way.
I remember going to school wearing shorts and these older kids on the bus were making me feel insecure about my "hairy" legs so I asked my mom to shave and she said no so for the rest of the year I only wore pants.
i can definitely relate especially the body hair. im stitting here looking like a bear getting teased. my mom doesn’t care. i ask her to ask her to wax cuz im being bullied. still no
I’m not that insecure, but most of the time I wear hoodies and sweatpants to school because it’s comfortable and it follows the dress code. The last thing I want is to be judged on what i’m wearing, or get in trouble. Also, it hides when I forget to shave. And if I’m more focused on my schoolwork than what I look like, then that will help me in the future.
Can definitely relate the hair part, not being able to wear my favourite dresses anymore because of same reason😪 and yes, I m 16
My mom is against shaving but since she knows that I’m insecure with my body she lets me do my makeup, and shave she shaves my “mustache” cuz she knows I’m insecure about it even tho it’s normal for everyone to have one she shaved it for me so I don’t feel insecure and now I feel more confident
Thank you, I thought I was the only one when I was just freaking twelve years old and a classmate told me i should shave my axilas. She said it in a "polite" way but WHY DO YOU THINK I SHOULD? I was still leaving childhood and I felt terrible by simple fact of growing. Even though she didn't do any "mean" things to me it still keeps up as a bad memory in my mind.
The shaving one is so relatable all my friends shave their legs and im not allowed and I look like a freaking Gorrilia
Same
I asked my mom in 6th grade if I could shave and my mom said no. In 7th grade my mom finally let me get a razor after asking her for months.
I also used to look like a gorilla
I honestly don't see anything wrong with shaving. Lile honestly. No parent should tell their child not to shave. It's their kid's OWN body, not theirs! If I was a mom, I wouldn't mind if my future daughter would want to shave at some point.
Ikr like im only in year 7 but still all my friends are normal and i look like a god damn coconut :(
i'm so glad i go to a school where everyone doesn't say anything like that. i didn't realize how much of a privilege i have going to a school with such considerate teachers. the longest i've ever had to wait to go to the bathroom was only 5 minutes. so lucky
At abt 10 or 11 my mom was like “if u ever want to learn how to shave u can ask me”
U see all other moms, this is how u should be
Wish she was my mother.
I’m really grateful to my mum for understanding that I might want to shave and offered to buy me a pack of razors so I could occasionally shave my armpits, and I’m just very happy my mum understands girls needs, especially at my age
I was always insecure about my upper lip hair and when even my closest friends made fun of me for it my mum finally gave me cream. Forever grateful for that.
what cream name is that??
Wish my mom was like that…
@@shubhanbiswasshubhanbiswas4636 cu-
personally boys say sum abt it all the time so i just say , at least i can grow one, but it still hurts bc its noticable
just shave bozo
cant we just agree that she really look like a goddess
Exactly. For the period thing, last year I was in math class and two kids from my science teacher’s class came and knocked on our class door (my math teacher was the lead teacher on the hall) and they were talking abt something when the teacher came back in and called the VP. I later found out what happened, so my science teacher was a bad teacher and basically never taught us anything, so it turned out that one girl was on her period and had to go to the bathroom, she asked, the teacher said no. She told the teacher she was on her period, the teacher still said “you can wait” the rest of the class knew what was going on and they were on the girls side, but the teacher still wouldn’t listen. So the girl left the class and went to the bathroom without the teachers permission. Later the VP gave the girl detention and told the kids that if that happened again, they would get ISS. (The teacher did not get in any trouble, the VP was on the teachers side.) anyway, it made me hate my science teacher even more and I feel so bad for the girl who got in trouble.
I asked my mom for razor and she said ‘of course’ and when I asked her for waxing my hands and legs she was totally fine about it.
(I have lot of hair on my body and I was really insecure about it but I was so relieved when my mom said yes)
Wish my mom was like that 😢
My mom doesn’t let me do my arms and I wish she did every time I see a pic with my arms showing it makes me so uncomfortable I hate it 😭😭
@@djgallo502gt3 even I did. It makes me feel weird from inside for some reason but in the end it’s body hair and it’s normal ❤️ hope she will come around! I could understand the uncomfortable feeling especially when someone else points it out, it’s so frustrating.
When I was younger I always wanted to be a teenager but once I was a teen it was horrible,
I can relate.
I can relate. Plus so much more things.
I can relate...You're not alone😭
I feel and can relate to all of them. Its the worst thing to handle with.😢😭
I've been told with the shaving one .My mom said I had hairy legs so I asked for a razor . She said why? You don't need it? Well you pointed out my hairy legs so now I feel like I should shave them. That's how insecurities are formed.
I remember when I was young I didn't realize it but my I was super privileged. My Mother let me start hair removal when I was 10 years old and let me try out various forms of it aswel. My Dad though it was dumb for a girl at that age to remove any hair but I ignored him of course. By the time I was in highschool I was absolutely flabbergasted at how much girls, including my closest friend stole their Mother razor or used to a friend's just because their parents were afraid they were "Too Young". I had no idea how blessed I was, and only recently have learned that ❤️
I am so glad my mom is the best mom and isn’t ashamed of my body hair but is happy to buy me razors and help me shave. She even bought me cream that removes hair! ❤
The last one is me I think of all the bad things that happened then I says to my parents “yes I had a good day”when I really didn’t
It’s hard struggling with body image and I’m grateful for all of my supportive friends bc it’s my first time in high school
Omfg I thought I was alone. Thank u for making this it helped show me that I'm not the only one
One week I was crying my self to sleep every night because I was so overwhelmed but one night my mom found me crying and ended up helping A lot
I really agree with the hairy arms one! I’m so glad I’m not alone! ❤
I can relate to everyone of them, everyone expects girls to have no hair on their arms, absurd, we’re all humans, we all have hair-
I had this friend that kept on picking on me since she had no hair on her arms and my arms are basically the Amazon forest (lol)
I love how sweet they are and feel comfortable to come out to the internet🥰🥰
To the girls out there who aren’t aloud to go to the bathroom, first ask and if they say no then just go anyway. Its not ur fault that ur on ur period.
You have a reason to go to the bathroom- so they can’t complain.
Be a girlboss and walk outta there.
Exactly
Relatable. I had a substitute who let one person out of the room at a time. I had to wait half the class for a guy to get back and I told “I really have to go though” and he’s like “I don’t care. You have to wait” so I legit bled through and one of my guy friends noticed and gave me his sweatshirt to help cover up the stain. L sub, but W friend!
Yeah that's why I don't even ask to use the razor anymore- I just do it 🙃
same.
I stole my moms-
Me too I'm not allowed to do that but i still shave
Same but I got caught 😒
right? like i just don't ask my mom anything anymore
My friends were talking behind my back about me, and that’s how I feel, I’m still crying
It's okay,my friends are doing that too i hope you get better and , head up there are a lot of good things waiting for you
-random stranger on the internet
Im here to talk
This feels a lot like middle school because everyone is trying to target people because they are insecure. It isn’t okay and lots of people go through this
I have hair on my Arms and legs too, I thought it was a problem too, I thought nobody had it… But if u look better, Everyone does. I wasn’t that shy anymore after I saw that, so I’m happy
I relate mostly. For me it’s the opposite. I feel comfortable in who I am right now and my mum is forcing me to shave, I don’t want to and I feel fine in my skin. Shaving makes me uncomfortable. Remember only shave if you want!!
Same haha. My mom harassed me for my hairy legs but it makes me feel so much more confident and in control. I just think it looks better too but that's just my opinion
@@Churchills_Grimy_Ballsack yeah!! It also means more insulation!
I can relate to the armpit hair one so much, in class i had to raise my hand for something and i was covering my armpit because 1 of my friends and my sister always brings it up. But i really like your vids!
I feel bad for you..
Tell them too stop and it hurts your feelings. I know it’s hard but I gotta or it will keep pushing down on you. And if they don’t tell someone
@@ZoeyPanda526 thanks I’ll try
You can use nair
Lol ok we don't care just wear full sleeves
What hurts more is that it is relatable to both genders...
the period one tho,so relatable I’m always scared someone will see me holding the pad because I got my period at an early age
Boys dont know what we have to go through, yet they call us weak. But I have one thing to say to them: GOD CHOSE US GIRLS TO DO THE THINGS THAT GUYS CANT BEACUSE WE ARE STRONG.😊
I feel so lucky that my mum let me have razors when I asked, i have friends who seen through this and I just don't understand why you wouldn't let your child do something that helps them be more comfortable and happy
i love how she said “can” feel like instead of “how it feels”
OMG I RELATE SO MUCH LIKE IT MAKES ME WANNA RUN AWAY FROM EVERYTHING AFTER SO MUCH 😭
School can be painful for anyone, not only girls
i can relate 😢
all me mates r allowed to shave but not me😟
Yeah I remember stealing my moms razor when I was young but shaving isn’t really all that. I only shave things that get uncomfortable 😂
I’m 11 and shave lol
My mom dont let me shave😑😒and im 13. I was litrly wearing jeans in summer
@@gray3500 same I started at 10 and everyone does it so I did it too lmao
oh why not? 😭. it’s personal hygiene and your parents should not neglect that! i’m so glad mine let me shave when i started getting hairy. i hope yours will allow you too very soon!
yeah. also, i stress over my weight a lot. i currently weigh under 80lbs which isn’t good for me but any bigger and i don’t know what i will do. i usually weigh like 68ish lbs. i feel so big ☹️
When I was 10 I didn’t like going to school with short sleeves bc I’m so insecure about my body hair and I still am
I can relate to some of them
Yeah, I was REALLY hairy too. The other kids would call me a bear or a monkey or whatever else and it stuck with me. My mom FINALLY let me shave at thirteen or fourteen and i still remember my self esteem going up.
ill never forgive mine for that
I can relate too but over the years, I gotten used to it. I have no emotions, life has made me like this.
So true😢 I wear a mask almost everyday coz I'm afraid of everyone laughing at my face
I really, really want my kids to be able to talk to me about stuff like this. I'd probably ask why they want the razor, and teach them positivity about their bodies, but if it's making them uncomfortable it's just hair.
It's not just hair when the teenager in question is being bullied for not being able to shave.
My mom was the one ENCOURAGING me to shave-
You say that like its a bad thing. She was probably trying to protect you from this outcome.
You are so lucky 😩. While me over here feeling insecure about my body hair 👎
My mom doesn’t care and says that it’s my choice and that I can shave if I want to and if I don’t want to I don’t have to
It's usually adults forcing these things but with the next generation coming these are all going to change
I can relate to the second one , it’s so hard with body hair when every girl is shaving in my school :((
I hate when they say you should have gone in between class but this was me when I was 9!
i’m 12 years old and i still haven’t learned how to shave and i have to wear sweatshirts and pants when its super hot cause i feel so insecure
Look it up on TH-cam, try to find your moms ones and use a clean one of hers, go very gently and don’t dig into ur skin or u might get an ingrown hair there’s lots of tutorials out there made for u hope this helps xx
“They are just teasing you, it won’t stick around :)”
Proceeds to get anxiety and depression bc
“Its all fun and games”-👨👩
“Anxiety and depression” Grow up dumbass
True
Yep really related to this video...❤
True we struggle even more than this
I relate to all of them even though I'm barely in 7th grade 😞 Why must the world be so judgmental?
Me 2 I just started 6th grade like 2 months ago
@@BBop1676 i got mine when i was in 5th😃
@@BBop1676 it was, no one else besides these two girls in my class knew what i was going through😭
@@elledayooo omg samee
Same tho. I usually skip school the first 2 days to curl up and cry.
I can relate. "Ur too young to shave!" " Ur not getting picked on for it ur fine"
I get picked on a lot. Like a lot. Because I don't shave. Correction, I CANT!!
Once my period was really bad- like leaking onto the chair and giving birth to a giant jellyfish bad. I gestured to my (male) teacher that I needed to use the bathroom, but he refused to let me go despite me explaining. It sucks, but at least I didn’t bleed into the chair THAT much 💀
I can relate I get rlly badly bullied at school it’s rlly hard for me 😢
I Can relate all of them its so sad 😢😢
I can relate to the body hair one I have hair all of my body, I have unibrows, visible moustache line still my mom says I can't use razors or threads ;(
I can with all😊❤
i’m not even a girl but i feel this because some people make “jokes” about me and it makes me feel so insecure being a teenager sucks 🙃
i was actually in maths the other day and the girl sat next to me asked to go to the toilet, and the maths teacher physically asked if it was a “period issue” quietly to her and it made me so happy
The hairy one is too relatable for me I started shaving when I was 10 because I was called man arms
Same but only on my legs I wasn’t supposed to shave my arms
I started shaving my upper lip hair when I was 10 bc I was rlly self conscious abt my moustache I didn’t tell me mum b ur I was terrified she would notice bc my hair would notice bc it was rlly noticeable since I have dark hair but then I got an ingrown hair and she found out and screamed her lungs out at me for years, I’ve never done it again so now I’m just self conscious
Yes same
Damn my friend ask me what I was hiding in the middle of class and I emptied my pockets and put them on his desk and said loudly “ there pads you want some?!” 😂
I can totally relate, don’t forget the chair with 2 acres majic things our hair ALWAYS get stuck in.
Thank you for making this, now I know I'm not alone
My mum told me I couldn’t shave my arms. I put way to much trust in her just because she’s a nurse. One day I just had enough. I got my shaver and shaved my arms and now I feel much more confident about myself.
I could relate until I learned how to love myself❤
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I also feel this and nowadays there is one person who bullying me every time and sometimes i just want to cry or die