Ache of Singlehood

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ส.ค. 2024
  • Are you single? Do you feel the ache? Find out how to be joyful and peaceful as a single person!

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  • @nyashathandi
    @nyashathandi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Haha I really wish you’d watch this again sometime! Look at you now 😍😅 all married and being a great mum!

  • @Wearysiren3
    @Wearysiren3 8 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I love when you said about the healthier you are as a single person, and the more rooted you are in God, the healthier you're marriage will be. Needed to hear that.

    • @Rbreaux87
      @Rbreaux87 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True. I've watched the other video she posted go from a few hundred views to over 36,000 in a few days! This is really telling that so many are looking for authenticity and not finding it...yet.

  • @fannuu2434
    @fannuu2434 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m 20 and i really needed to hear all these beautiful words!, im fighting day by day with this ache, and thanks God and Mary most of the times i win the fight against anxiety about future 💪🏾💖 God times are perfect, and even when we fall down he is ready to help us with his holy grace

  • @JesusIsLov3
    @JesusIsLov3 9 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    LOL I love your humour, you're so real, it's fantastic.. God bless you and your handsome husband Bobby

  • @josesuarez7484
    @josesuarez7484 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I realize this is a really old video of yours, but I discovered it in such a timely way, as I have felt the ache of singleness for a long time. I feel so motivated now, thank you for this Jackie. May God continue to bless you and Mary intercede for you always.

  • @katebecker2040
    @katebecker2040 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I freaking love you. YOU ARE JOY!

  • @kevin-gf5uz
    @kevin-gf5uz 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    At 4:10 "Marriage is not to make you happy, it is to make you Holy." This is the best thing that you could ever tell a single person because it is the absolute truth, yet, until now, I have never heard anybody say it. In addition, you are responsible for helping your spouse and children attain Holiness. Parents are the children's first teacher. All throughout your child's life (including adulthood), you will have to tell them the exact opposite of what their "friends", significant other, spouse, TV shows, Catholic school teacher, and possibly even clergy are telling them is morally acceptable. They will likely have difficulty accepting your words because they see and hear immorality continuously and from everybody but you.
    How many couples pray together? How many families pray together? How many include God in the decision regarding their calling in life? How many read the Holy Bible together? How many keep Holy Sunday? How many tell their children birth control and abortion is mortal sin? How many tell their children they are not to have sex until marriage? How many ask if their child is having or has had sex with their boy/girlfriend? These are things that Catholic parents are required to do because God has entrusted a soul to them. Imagine standing before God at the end of your life and He asks why you never told your children that birth control was immoral and because you did not, you allowed them to sin mortally and your just judgement is eternity in Hell beside your faithless children.
    The primary reason for marriage is to procreate, not for companionship. Genesis 1:28 And God blessed them, saying: Increase and multiply, and fill the earth, and subdue it, and rule over the fishes of the sea, and the fowls of the air, and all living creatures that move upon the earth. God did not say "Go find your soul mate then live sinfully."
    1 Corinthians chapter 7 speaks about the calling to virginity is higher than the married state. This seems odd because it is much easier to control one's actions than to control the actions of one's spouse and children. I have a friend whose wife had a brain injury that left her paralyzed on one side and with memory problems. They have been married for over 20 years and for the 18 years that his spouse has been sick, they have been celibate.
    He told me that when people say priests cannot live a celibate life, these people believe this because do not put their trust in God. Only with God's Grace it is possible to live a celibate life.
    Pray the Holy Rosary daily and have devotion to the Immaculate Heart of Mary - God's final two remedies given to us at Fatima Portugal in 1917 by our Blessed Mother.

  • @wheretruth_lies
    @wheretruth_lies ปีที่แล้ว

    She is so cute! God bless you Jackie!

  • @patydigi
    @patydigi 13 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks I'm feeling that ache so hard lately ... Your video came just in time!

  • @grunt12394
    @grunt12394 9 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Marriage to another human being can't make you fully happy. Only marriage to God through completely willing the Good is the only thing that leads to true happiness.

  • @mahantalebi788
    @mahantalebi788 ปีที่แล้ว

    ooooooorh look hwo cute you were here, Glad you found your husband. God bless you and your family, Amen.

  • @ignatius600
    @ignatius600 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow! It's wonderful to hear someone so young with so much authentic Christian wisdom! Jackie, you have come a long way in a short time.

  • @TheCaliGirlK
    @TheCaliGirlK 14 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey I'm a teenage girl and living in the society we live in today ever since I started jr. High I have felt this ache. I found you video to be such a blessing. Eveytime I feel the ache or pressure to have a boyfriend I watch your video and god speaks to me everytime. Thank you so much you have truly drawn me closer to God. God bless!

  • @co6742
    @co6742 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Glad I stumbled upon this video 11 years later. I am actively praying to God about my vocation(marriage or priesthood) and putting myself out there as much as possible along with putting my trust ultimately in Him as he can work miracles.

  • @justinitsthatguyme010
    @justinitsthatguyme010 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I predict you'll marry a man named Bobby and you two will become angels. Cause this'll be your last name.

  • @romina1212
    @romina1212 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is exactly what I needed today, thank you Jackie Francois Angel. I needed that encouragement/reminder that only God can satisfy and that I don't need a husband to make me feel whole/complete/ confident. I'm going to take on your advice and enjoy singlehood and to take this time to prepare myself for marriage and make myself a Godly bride for my HTB

    • @Jay-ef2ii
      @Jay-ef2ii 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pray the Rosary. Ask God to bring you your Husband. July 7, 2021.

  • @Zamazizi
    @Zamazizi 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Still relevant 10 years later. I love that Jackie was fulfilled even as a single person. It’s true, you cannot expect marriage or another person to fix your brokenness. Only Christ can do that.

  • @JB-ou6fl
    @JB-ou6fl 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jackie, I enjoy watching your videos with Bobby on Ascension Presents and I just discovered this old video of yours. It is refreshing to see that your message has remained consistent over the years. I agree with what you said. God bless you and everyone who watches this video.

  • @classicsfan10
    @classicsfan10 14 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You have really beautiful hair. Yeah, but on a less superficial note--great video!

  • @marygraceolfindo8356
    @marygraceolfindo8356 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are also the Jackie in the Ascension Presents... Wow✨😃💛

  • @rorolovesbeauty1
    @rorolovesbeauty1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Who's watching this in 2016💕

  • @livemystic1958
    @livemystic1958 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so true that we need to live in the right now!

  • @gwardso
    @gwardso 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for that, Jackie. I really needed to hear it.

  • @rachelw3533
    @rachelw3533 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well I am relieved! The deeper I long for God, the closer I will come to Him.

  • @laurensmith3380
    @laurensmith3380 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Needed this reminder, thanks

  • @agnieszkabeszlej1524
    @agnieszkabeszlej1524 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    A BIG THANK YOU FROM POLAND!!:) I found you three weeks ago and I can't stop watching you!!:) Keep on the good work for Our Lord and His Mother:)

  • @SirenaMafnas
    @SirenaMafnas 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "watch out cuz she will make you a spouse of the Holy Spirit. Dang"" lol

  • @yousraadly7341
    @yousraadly7341 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Its a blessing to be single unless you meet someone that worth your time ,loyal and would seriously commit and keep u safe after in whatever it counts even after commitment .i dont understand why people fear singlehood i am having fun with my self and all my time is invested in doing what benifit me and more i paint and design and working and mastering my studies & i love it , ithink people shouldnt stress about this mirrage and relationship issue and dont push their self to negative people to escape or over a fear of lonely ,God got something good for those who obey him & wait never lose your faith in him & the utimate tragedy and loss is when a person lose their soul & self only in this case sit cry and weep in national T.V if you have too because then and this is the case is when a human is in a real seriouse jam that worth to break down, i am so greatfull to be from those that heavens reveleaved to them that fact before its too late i found out that many crossed that line and not even aware of the serious jam they are in😂😂😂😂 both lifes system was designed for lions type sheeps go to slaughter house .

  • @nicholasgeranios
    @nicholasgeranios 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Iv'e done som more homework for the past 2 years and am proud to say that I am becoming Roman Catholic as well. Mary was sinless by Gods grace, not her own. As an Orthodox, I had the wrong understanding of this, and many other Catholic teachings. Thankyou Catholic Answers apologists,I understand so much more now

  • @roxysk8trgirl
    @roxysk8trgirl 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you soo much! i needed this video to remind me that i can be happy being single and God is enough to fulfill me :)

  • @Shootinforthestars1
    @Shootinforthestars1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Was looking for your video where you sing Justin Beiber’s ” I just need someone to love “Found this today , so happy I did . Here we are years later and this rings so true today .

  • @kayleesanchez9274
    @kayleesanchez9274 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for this Jackie💜

  • @roshanot04
    @roshanot04 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow!!! I must say that you put it out so plain and simple!! Beautiful and meaningful!!!

  • @tibby126
    @tibby126 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you. You have given me so much hope and confidence. Holy Spirit really worked through this video. :)

  • @blacklabgordochicken
    @blacklabgordochicken 14 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video ministered to me, thanks so much! I love the way you approach this subject, it truly is counter-cultural to say that your spouse (or significant other) doesn't complete you. Thanks for posting! (I agree with Rae56789 about the Mary part, a little strange, but I love the core of the message!)

  • @TwinkleTinker90
    @TwinkleTinker90 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm inspired. No boyfriend since birth. I have to Trust God, Love People. Love God wholeheartedly as a single then only i am able to love another person(if i ever get into a relationship), thanx for offering mass for us Jackie, thank you:)

  • @broadwayboundqt
    @broadwayboundqt 14 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great Video! So true:) There are needs and desires that even a husband/wife will never be able to meet! There is a God shaped hole in each one of us that only The Lord can fill! Isn't it amazing that the lover of our soul longs to have a sacred romance with us?! I have found that True peace and satisfaction can only be found in our Creator. Thanks for the reminder Jackie:)
    * I have been encouraged by reading Books like "Sacred Singleness" and "Authentic beauty" By Leslie Ludy.

  • @mdaquioag
    @mdaquioag 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    i just want to let you know i will be using this video for small group discussion. thank you for posting this and thank you for being beautiful as you are. God bless sis!

  • @tifwit1
    @tifwit1 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    thankyou sooo much i have been feeling it girl you really enouraged me with your testiomony God Bless !

  • @SumanthLazarus
    @SumanthLazarus 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the black, mexicana phases haha

  • @SomethingCklever
    @SomethingCklever 11 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Actually... she was also born without sin - she would have had to be to bear Jesus! If you read Luke 1:26-38 - the angel says to Mary 'Hail, full of grace' - this meant that she was full of grace, without sin! If you're in sin, then you're definitely not FULL of grace. She was! :)

  • @tohellwithanyone
    @tohellwithanyone 14 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing video... Gives me hope... I know that God alone can satisfy me... But sometimes we tend to forget that fact... Sometimes I tend to feel lonely because its sad to say that there aren't many girls (and people in general) who are worth any effort... I try not to let the loneliness affect my thoughts and actions...
    So keep doing what your doing and being amazing... :-D

  • @JC-it4id
    @JC-it4id 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was a great video and eye opening!!

  • @davidmayer1513
    @davidmayer1513 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen. Well described Jackie.....

  • @MenardoPineda
    @MenardoPineda 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm a Single Person at 35 but i'm still a Single and the Most of All i'm a Renewal Catholic-Christian for Life!

  • @anaemily2
    @anaemily2 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this video. Lead me God with strong hands. I don't want to be hungry for love chasing dreams. I want to be with you.

  • @borgeskids
    @borgeskids 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're doing great! If EWTN is paying attention, you'll have your own show soon.

  • @BrianBashPhoto
    @BrianBashPhoto 14 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @nicholasgeranios : actually, mother mary was set aside and born without sin so that she could carry the son of man. so Jackie isnt wrong when she said that Mary was perfect. i'm Roman Catholic and they do teach that Mary was the perfect woman, and Jesus was the perfect man

  • @FernandoGCoca
    @FernandoGCoca 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    Only God fulfills our heart...if we have some pain, fear or some kind of emotional problem due to some broke on a past relationship, only God can heal that heart...I like when you say "Eucharist is my satisfaction" because It is the encounter with Love...God is love, and "there is no fear in love, but perfect love drives out fear" and "whoever does not love a brother whom he has seen cannot love God whom he has not seen" (1John 4:18, 20) What a blessing to hear someone talking like that. Thanks

  • @pilarschmitz9864
    @pilarschmitz9864 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is amazing! Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @shannonabeywardena7323
    @shannonabeywardena7323 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks, Jackie!

  • @mariapiag.4995
    @mariapiag.4995 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    i really needed to hear this

  • @_Claire_88
    @_Claire_88 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would love to see more videos like this!!!

  • @SirenaMafnas
    @SirenaMafnas 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mary was perfect because she didn't have to go to Purgatory. She aint more perfect than God, but her soul was perfect for Heaven.

  • @musathomas729
    @musathomas729 ปีที่แล้ว

    Little did she know two years later she will start dating her future husband the man, the myth, the legend Bobby Angel, marrying a literal Angel, whose first and last initials are also the same letters for Bachelors of Arts, she became a literal Angel, well as in becoming Jackie Francois Angel

  • @mikeyneedleman
    @mikeyneedleman 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    Freaking amazing... So awesome.

  • @MenardoPineda
    @MenardoPineda 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen Jackie Amen!

  • @JeffersonDinedAlone
    @JeffersonDinedAlone 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Many people are single simply because they prefer to remain single, which is fine. There is no "ache", it is simply a personal preference. And as for knowing Christ in full, the only genuine church of Christ is comprised of every human being who believes in, and abides by, Him, and no one needs to be Catholic, or affiliated with any other religion, for that matter, in order to know that, and in order to be a part of that.

  • @yeneyacuna1
    @yeneyacuna1 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    PREACH ON!!! OK...... AMEN

  • @twomarky
    @twomarky 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very relevant. A foreign concept to US culture. TIme for a change. Speaks of eternal worth. Keep it up. We all need this message to be repeated, and often to counteract the prevailing errors perpetuated by our media.

  • @SomethingCklever
    @SomethingCklever 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh I like this! :)

  • @nicholasgeranios
    @nicholasgeranios 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    @ one point you say that Mary was sinless like God/Jesus...This is a fundamental part of where the Greek Orthodox Church and the Catholic Church disagrees. It is also a major reason of why I remained Orthodox. Otherwise Great video and take on this subject!!! =)

  • @Mark-mq5uv
    @Mark-mq5uv 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where does it say in the Bible that Mary was Perfect Holy or Divine?

  • @CristineClairTherese
    @CristineClairTherese 14 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Be Satisfied
    Everyone longs to give themselves completely to someone,
    To have a deep soul relationship with another,
    To be loved thoroughly and exclusively.
    But God, to a Christian, says,
    "No, not until you are satisfied, fulfilled and content
    With being loved by Me alone

  • @steveneri6055
    @steveneri6055 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi hope everthing is fine there with you..just wondering if you heard something called..Our biblical roots of our faith?

  • @JoeTheDude
    @JoeTheDude 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow your so cool

  • @ngoman
    @ngoman 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    total anjelah johnson moments...

  • @Clickybux
    @Clickybux 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    thanx heaps for this video, ive just come out of a messy engagement and really needed to hear this, is our ache is for God why get married at all why not just all be religious?

    • @novelacollection
      @novelacollection 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tom Klein because everyone is not called to be clergy like Fr Mike Smidtdz or Fr Mark Goring some are called to married life to be a good husband and father or for women wife and mother some called to have ministry like Jackie Angle or Jason and Christalina Evert,

  • @CristineClairTherese
    @CristineClairTherese 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    @CristineClairTherese With giving yourself totally and unreservedly to Me,
    With having an intensely personal and unique relationship
    With Me alone.
    Discovering that only in Me is your satisfaction to be found,
    Will you be capable of the perfect human relationship
    That I have planned for you.
    You will never be united with another until you are united
    With Me alone,Exclusive of anyone or anything else,
    Exclusive of any other desires or longings.

  • @ashd2012
    @ashd2012 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is true amen. Just didn't agree as Mary being perfect ..she was just a vessel that God used. But yes Christ is who we need. He can't do two thing.. Lie or fail us :). God bless.

  • @ryanryanryanm
    @ryanryanryanm 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    you are perfect

  • @ashd2012
    @ashd2012 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    @rocky60191 I'm saying that she was used by God to complete his will not to be thrown away. It is a blessing to be a chosen vessel by God to fulfill his will and our destiny. Marry should not be worshiped she was just human. Jesus Christ and God the father is the only one that is divine. You do not have to pray to Mary, or any saint to get to Jesus. Viewing Marry as divine and worshiping her is idolatry. Even thinking that she is on the level of God and Christ is idolatry.

    • @Rose.Marie.
      @Rose.Marie. 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      AsheeTruth Productions no one worships her - we just ask her for help and she is seen as an example of how a human being can love God.

    • @Rose.Marie.
      @Rose.Marie. 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      AsheeTruth Productions she is also seen as a good role model for mothers and women when it comes to following Christ

  • @jjhernandez5244
    @jjhernandez5244 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're cute.

  • @abaloone
    @abaloone 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    BUDDDDDDDD!

  • @Mike.Cebert
    @Mike.Cebert 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mary was not perfect...only Jesus was and is.

  • @burnpoet
    @burnpoet 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    MGTOW.