I've heard Jackie speak several times & she always gives fantastic talks!! I'm 19 & I've never had a boyfriend or been in a relationship, but that's okay. All of this advice is GOLDEN!!! God Bless you Jackie!
Wow! How I wish somebody had spoken to me about all that when I was 17 or 18! I might not have learned from all of it, but if even some of it stuck with me, my life would have been so different and so much better.
I pray God every day to help me find a wonderful woman to someday marry. It's a bit discouraging to realize that there doesn't seem to be anyone in the horizon yet...
i think it's fair enough and valuable that this man says to take the next right step and take baby steps to address pornography addiction. i believe it takes more than this. It requires some strategy and thought about a solid plan for their life and methods. in fairness he had to give a quick answer. It would be worth hearing this man cover such a topic in more depth.
Jackie, you are an excellent speaker and are "spot on" with this topic. I have added you to my daily prayer to sustain your fortitude and dedication to working with and speaking to today's youth. You say it like it is, and you speak the truth. God bless you. P.S. You can use aroused instead of "horny." It's more dignified and less embarrassing to the innocent. You asked, that's why I'm commenting. You're amazing, keep up the good work.
Chivalry is the most needed aspect of dating. Girls, at least I observe, want the attention of chivalry of a guy. She wants him to open a bottle of water for her. If she does not get this, she falls for attention of guys who use them. It is an impoverishment of affection. And girls settle, because they do not find the real guy who places chivalry before them.
Nobody deserves anyone. God blesses us with His presence in the sacrament of marriage. If we relied on who deserves who, then their adultery would make us feel guilt.
Demons will whisper all kinds of evil thoughts and temptations to make you think that its from you. No it's not! Fly to Jesus! It took me many years but eventually I got over my same-sex attraction!. t's possible! Praying for you all
like your reality oriented, outspoken message. answered some questions i have had, and things in dating i found repulsive i thought i had to like/be adaptable to. no, no i dont--even if i will be alone the rest of my life. and im not a prude either--far from it!
Society makes it so difficult to date and plan marriage these days. Nobody can or wants to get married after high school. This is what our parents and grandparents did decades ago. Even 25 years ago finding a job after high school that had a living wage was very difficult. Now in society people are told they need at a minimum a 4 year degree to get paid well. Financial stability is a huge factor for a successful Longterm marriage (money isn't everything I know). This doesn't have anything to do with the Catholic Church. Now Enter the Church and the standards we are expected to live by when it comes to sex. I think being responsible with your body and holding your own standards is a good thing. Its nice to see these speakers talk about how it all worked out for them but they are creating standards most people cant live up to. I don't think micro managing sex through religion in this day and age is realistic. Some comments she said about the actual act of sex and how orgasm should end BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE is over the top. As a Catholic do really care that much about how couples pleasure each other? Imagine having sex with your spouse and thinking" we cant do it this way" ? I still find these talks interesting and I can understand taking care of your body and saving it for that special someone its now harder than ever before with the society around us. Good luck and God Bless.
Or they could be a priest or remain single -- not everyone will get married. (Heard 4 of your ex became priest later after wrote) I didn't have a good Christian mother to guide me. She was all about "Go have fun" or she didn't want to be bothered or to teach us. I forgive her but it's painful to see the sinful outcome of my other siblings too who live in mortal sin. I lived a very sinful life. Sexuality was just part of the whole game. And what makes me sick as my mother thought it was cute or indirectly encouraged us to have a boyfriend. Yes absolutely I'm sure she wanted us to stay married with one man but she did not manage and teach us correctly with Christian principles. In fact we rarely went to church as a child yes we were all baptized and confirmed and had Holy Communion because my father is a Catholic and he was the one who told my mother to make sure we get into the teaching at least the basics. But that's about as far as it went. He was too busy to go to church when we are young he didn't go to church until the last 20 years of his life and then he died when he was 84. But he was a very devout Catholic the last 20 years of his life he had gone back to the church. Now we're dealing with my mother or I am and I'm the only one putting effort to try to follow the Catholic Church teachings. Now we're all old people but we're alive and we're not dead yet. What I mean is we still have a chance to clean up our lives with God. I have been going back to the church for 3 years going to confession trying to do the right things. My mother continues to disregard putting any effort to speak up about mortal sin when the other siblings continue and maintain and remain in this Darkness. I have had to come forward because it bothers me so much. I think this is a great video for young people and I hope that there will be support groups in the Catholic church for young people that might be a good idea also get them started young listening to how important it is to stay a virgin and or stay completely out of sexual immorality until you find the right husband and you can be blessed in the Catholic Church. Unfortunately most homes do not teach Christian morality with a kind loving parent. And yes we need kind loving parents to be part of the equation not a authoritative child spanking mean parent that doesn't usually work. Thank you again for the video
'd like to know more about the study on fertility that Jackie talked about and about the other junk that we get told by the government that is a bunch of baloney. Like the vaccine for HPV, is that something we should avoid?
Hey Jackie, Great video however, I disagree a guy I have a crush on could just touch my shoulder or hand or even look at me and I can be sexually aroused. So, the only thing I can do is pray, pray pray. 😌
not so simple as to just end friendships if somebody makes fun of virginity. people (sadly) make fun of a lot of things about all of us. but we can't just end all the friendships ?! it would depend on extent and intent of the comment(s).
Iam not catholic. I dont understand why one should confess sin to a Priest??? Our lord Jesus Christ so near to us, we can tell him anything to him freely and he will forgive our sins without anyone being an intermediate.
You're not Catholic as you mention, you just say this to open a debate, but don't exhibit an open heart to learn, the question would be why do you wanna have a heated discussion over a very specific Catholic subject?
During confession, the priests presence is a Christ figure, sometimes it feels good to be listened to. Importantly, the priest gives you a penance and advice
Flawed logic. Dating purpose is to find a spouse. Sex purpose is to have children. So what happens when you are 65 years old and do not want any more children, stop having sex ?
Female fertility drops off around 35 and male fertility drops off around 45. There's only a little window to actually have children. Regarding the other commenter, saying that God's will isn't logical is completely naive and shows a severe lack of understanding in both
Jackie, I hope someone by now has told you that it is too coarse to say: "You guys are always _____." The truth is that they do have times when they are more 'sensitive' than at other times, but that biologically they are capable of participating in 'making babies' most of the time, while this is not true with females. Anyway, you should sound more clinical because males get very aroused by hearing a woman broach the subject. You should know that. What did you expect? Cheering? And they are trying to keep their dignity and privacy. Respect that, please!
@Turtle It's not true though. It annoys me when people say "men are always _____", because it's not true. Perhaps for some people, but not for me. There's straight up some times I don't feel that way whatsoever, 0%. This is irrelevant, but it's somewhat frustrating when people hammer men saying "Ask girls out on dates!" or "Guys must initiate love" but then 10 seconds later they say "You should pursue god before a spouse, you shouldn't date if you're not ready for marriage, you shouldn't date if you're struggling, you shouldn't date if you're hurt" etc. I'm getting hammered for not asking girls out, then I'm getting hammered for asking a girl out when I'm struggling with obstacles from the past, thereby making the relationship difficult. It seems like there's no right way to do something.
I don't know. I'm heterosexual but I find it very hard to hear how this woman judges gay people. it's a cross to carry and recommends that they live a life of chastity ? I find it unfair of her to suggest this, but it doesn't surprise me too much. and then she goes on to talk about her happy and sexual marriage. it's pretty judgements stuff.
I think you're way wrong about the semen thing. That was when I realized you were catholic. The picture of marriage you're painting doesn't sound at all appealing. I think whatever you do with your spouse must be exclusively kept between three persons: the husband, the wife, and God. There isn't any breach of scripture if the semen goes somewhere else. That's ridiculous.
Sex is meant to give life because it celebrates God's creation, and like Jackie said, it's to also renew your marriage vows with your spouse. Dont have sex if you're not open to create a new life. It is also mentioned in Genesis that spilling your seed elsewhere is a grave sin. (Genesis 38:9-10, RSV): . . . when he (Onan) went in to his brother's wife he spilled the semen on the ground, lest he should give offspring to his brother. [10] And what he did was displeasing in the sight of the LORD, and he slew him also.
"The opposite of love is not hate, but use."
I felt like a thousands microphones were dropped.
"you don't have to date in high school" amen. I cried inside, a real good thing to hear for just an its ok to me :D love it :D
I've heard Jackie speak several times & she always gives fantastic talks!! I'm 19 & I've never had a boyfriend or been in a relationship, but that's okay. All of this advice is GOLDEN!!!
God Bless you Jackie!
I was reading the book of Numbers, and I realized I don't have yours :P
Kidding, Jackie is amazing, she is the elder sister I wish I had xD
Dear Jackie,
I'm 44 y.o., and your message is mind blowing! God bless you more! Praying for more people to be like you!
Jackie Francois Angel visited my school earlier today. She is AMAZING!! There aren't very many people like her in this world
"Go do the next right thing."
"The devil knows your name and call you by your sin." "However, God know your sin and calls you by your name."
Thank God we have Jackie.
This woman is a voice of sanity for me. Thank you for posting this.
Straight up. Heaven is the priority.
I felt and needed this so much. How am I learning all this at 28! He's on time though. I'm grateful. Thank you Jackie and Matt. God bless you
You brought a tear to a 45 year old mans eye…I hope you’re proud of yourself 😂. God bless and peace be with you.
This explains a LOT...things I should have known when I was younger. I never had an older sister and my mother is mentally ill...
Wow! How I wish somebody had spoken to me about all that when I was 17 or 18! I might not have learned from all of it, but if even some of it stuck with me, my life would have been so different and so much better.
I really enjoyed this...she really said a lot I know people dont wanna hear and i am glad she did.
Jackie You are wonderful inspiring example for me. Thank You. May God bless You and Your family!!
Go Jackie! I have never heard some of this and I have read a lot of books on this topic! I really appreciate her candor 💜🙏🏻
I am praying and struggling with moving forward this late in life. So stupid ....but just needed to hear this
Thank you for being real and honest Jackie! Thank you for getting to the point, and finallllyyyyyy no more euphemism!!!!!
I pray God every day to help me find a wonderful woman to someday marry. It's a bit discouraging to realize that there doesn't seem to be anyone in the horizon yet...
Jackie does it again
Thank you so much for this 😭🙏🏻♥️
i think it's fair enough and valuable that this man says to take the next right step and take baby steps to address pornography addiction.
i believe it takes more than this. It requires some strategy and thought about a solid plan for their life and methods.
in fairness he had to give a quick answer. It would be worth hearing this man cover such a topic in more depth.
Jackie, you are an excellent speaker and are "spot on" with this topic.
I have added you to my daily prayer to sustain your fortitude and dedication to working with and speaking to today's youth.
You say it like it is, and you speak the truth.
God bless you.
P.S. You can use aroused instead of "horny." It's more dignified and less embarrassing to the innocent. You asked, that's why I'm commenting.
You're amazing, keep up the good work.
This IS SO GOOD!
Excellent talk! Thank you for sharing it FUS!
WOW so inspirational! Thank you! I wish I heard this when I was still in high school!
Chivalry is the most needed aspect of dating. Girls, at least I observe, want the attention of chivalry of a guy. She wants him to open a bottle of water for her. If she does not get this, she falls for attention of guys who use them. It is an impoverishment of affection. And girls settle, because they do not find the real guy who places chivalry before them.
Thank you Jackie.
Thanks y’all...God bless you and us all...🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thank you.....
From Nagaland , India .
Thank you Jackie ❤️
AMEN! Thank you so much!
much love from Italy
Awesome talk to kids! Don't agree in all topics but great regardless.
Nobody deserves anyone. God blesses us with His presence in the sacrament of marriage. If we relied on who deserves who, then their adultery would make us feel guilt.
Thanks for posting such amazing content.
I have never heard this before!
Cool, so tough but it has to be done, there' s 50/50 chance of rejection when the guys asked for a date X-D but that's life.
God bless, Rev. 21:4
Demons will whisper all kinds of evil thoughts and temptations to make you think that its from you. No it's not! Fly to Jesus! It took me many years but eventually I got over my same-sex attraction!. t's possible! Praying for you all
Jackie is my favorite person
This is wonderful!!!
PREACH!!!!
I’m here because I saw Father Mike Schmitz in one of those captures...🤣
I’m afraid I am too Catholic but so not perfect. Never been good enough
Waw i m the first one to comment .
Thkq Jakie so good of u giving n sharing with brethren Continue ur good job
like your reality oriented, outspoken message. answered some questions i have had, and things in dating i found repulsive i thought i had to like/be adaptable to. no, no i dont--even if i will be alone the rest of my life. and im not a prude either--far from it!
Just make the next right choice 🙌
Amazing talk👌
Love this😍
I would like to have these talks in Spanish. As I work with youth in a boarding house and school with natives.
Society makes it so difficult to date and plan marriage these days. Nobody can or wants to get married after high school. This is what our parents and grandparents did decades ago. Even 25 years ago finding a job after high school that had a living wage was very difficult. Now in society people are told they need at a minimum a 4 year degree to get paid well. Financial stability is a huge factor for a successful Longterm marriage (money isn't everything I know). This doesn't have anything to do with the Catholic Church. Now Enter the Church and the standards we are expected to live by when it comes to sex. I think being responsible with your body and holding your own standards is a good thing. Its nice to see these speakers talk about how it all worked out for them but they are creating standards most people cant live up to. I don't think micro managing sex through religion in this day and age is realistic. Some comments she said about the actual act of sex and how orgasm should end BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE is over the top. As a Catholic do really care that much about how couples pleasure each other? Imagine having sex with your spouse and thinking" we cant do it this way" ? I still find these talks interesting and I can understand taking care of your body and saving it for that special someone its now harder than ever before with the society around us. Good luck and God Bless.
love this❣️
Love this!
Please, spanish subtitles someone!!!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Alleluia, Jackie... 🥰🥰🥰
Prayers to all those addicted to Pornography. Amen. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Amen to honesty...lol
Or they could be a priest or remain single -- not everyone will get married. (Heard 4 of your ex became priest later after wrote)
I didn't have a good Christian mother to guide me. She was all about "Go have fun" or she didn't want to be bothered or to teach us. I forgive her but it's painful to see the sinful outcome of my other siblings too who live in mortal sin. I lived a very sinful life. Sexuality was just part of the whole game. And what makes me sick as my mother thought it was cute or indirectly encouraged us to have a boyfriend. Yes absolutely I'm sure she wanted us to stay married with one man but she did not manage and teach us correctly with Christian principles. In fact we rarely went to church as a child yes we were all baptized and confirmed and had Holy Communion because my father is a Catholic and he was the one who told my mother to make sure we get into the teaching at least the basics. But that's about as far as it went. He was too busy to go to church when we are young he didn't go to church until the last 20 years of his life and then he died when he was 84. But he was a very devout Catholic the last 20 years of his life he had gone back to the church. Now we're dealing with my mother or I am and I'm the only one putting effort to try to follow the Catholic Church teachings. Now we're all old people but we're alive and we're not dead yet. What I mean is we still have a chance to clean up our lives with God. I have been going back to the church for 3 years going to confession trying to do the right things. My mother continues to disregard putting any effort to speak up about mortal sin when the other siblings continue and maintain and remain in this Darkness. I have had to come forward because it bothers me so much. I think this is a great video for young people and I hope that there will be support groups in the Catholic church for young people that might be a good idea also get them started young listening to how important it is to stay a virgin and or stay completely out of sexual immorality until you find the right husband and you can be blessed in the Catholic Church. Unfortunately most homes do not teach Christian morality with a kind loving parent. And yes we need kind loving parents to be part of the equation not a authoritative child spanking mean parent that doesn't usually work. Thank you again for the video
Four guys who dated you went to seminary afterwards! That's a record.
can you post the steubenville florida talks please??
'd like to know more about the study on fertility that Jackie talked about and about the other junk that we get told by the government that is a bunch of baloney. Like the vaccine for HPV, is that something we should avoid?
Pray for me I can find my partner of life
Tell me MORE...please,!
Where are the Steubenville Toronto talks??
Amen... 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Awesome , but I got a question... What about sex in pregnancy?
Hey Jackie, Great video however, I disagree a guy I have a crush on could just touch my shoulder or hand or even look at me and I can be sexually aroused. So, the only thing I can do is pray, pray pray. 😌
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How can you both be open to children if the wife is past her child bearing years. Does that mean 2 - 50 year old's cannot get married?
not so simple as to just end friendships if somebody makes fun of virginity.
people (sadly) make fun of a lot of things about all of us.
but we can't just end all the friendships ?!
it would depend on extent and intent of the comment(s).
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Hope this is not being recorded...lol
17:24.
Iam not catholic. I dont understand why one should confess sin to a Priest??? Our lord Jesus Christ so near to us, we can tell him anything to him freely and he will forgive our sins without anyone being an intermediate.
You're not Catholic as you mention, you just say this to open a debate, but don't exhibit an open heart to learn, the question would be why do you wanna have a heated discussion over a very specific Catholic subject?
During confession, the priests presence is a Christ figure, sometimes it feels good to be listened to. Importantly, the priest gives you a penance and advice
John 20:23
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Flawed logic. Dating purpose is to find a spouse. Sex purpose is to have children. So what happens when you are 65 years old and do not want any more children, stop having sex ?
I know it’s so tough but it’s God’s word not Logic
Female fertility drops off around 35 and male fertility drops off around 45. There's only a little window to actually have children. Regarding the other commenter, saying that God's will isn't logical is completely naive and shows a severe lack of understanding in both
Not at all. It’s for marital bonding. Even in menopause when you cannot have children.
Jackie, I hope someone by now has told you that it is too coarse to say: "You guys are always _____." The truth is that they do have times when they are more 'sensitive' than at other times, but that biologically they are capable of participating in 'making babies' most of the time, while this is not true with females. Anyway, you should sound more clinical because males get very aroused by hearing a woman broach the subject. You should know that.
What did you expect? Cheering? And they are trying to keep their dignity and privacy. Respect that, please!
@Turtle It's not true though. It annoys me when people say "men are always _____", because it's not true. Perhaps for some people, but not for me. There's straight up some times I don't feel that way whatsoever, 0%. This is irrelevant, but it's somewhat frustrating when people hammer men saying "Ask girls out on dates!" or "Guys must initiate love" but then 10 seconds later they say "You should pursue god before a spouse, you shouldn't date if you're not ready for marriage, you shouldn't date if you're struggling, you shouldn't date if you're hurt" etc. I'm getting hammered for not asking girls out, then I'm getting hammered for asking a girl out when I'm struggling with obstacles from the past, thereby making the relationship difficult. It seems like there's no right way to do something.
And HOW in the world can you condemn oral sex? Did you read Song of Solomon?
I don't know.
I'm heterosexual but I find it very hard to hear how this woman judges gay people.
it's a cross to carry and recommends that they live a life of chastity ?
I find it unfair of her to suggest this, but it doesn't surprise me too much.
and then she goes on to talk about her happy and sexual marriage.
it's pretty judgements stuff.
I think you're way wrong about the semen thing. That was when I realized you were catholic. The picture of marriage you're painting doesn't sound at all appealing. I think whatever you do with your spouse must be exclusively kept between three persons: the husband, the wife, and God. There isn't any breach of scripture if the semen goes somewhere else. That's ridiculous.
Sex is meant to give life because it celebrates God's creation, and like Jackie said, it's to also renew your marriage vows with your spouse. Dont have sex if you're not open to create a new life. It is also mentioned in Genesis that spilling your seed elsewhere is a grave sin.
(Genesis 38:9-10, RSV):
. . . when he (Onan) went in to his brother's wife he spilled the semen on the ground, lest he should give offspring to his brother. [10] And what he did was displeasing in the sight of the LORD, and he slew him also.
No, God slew Onan for the very act you are ok with (pulling out) (it’s mortally sinful)