I Quit My Job Without Another One Lined Up | Why and what’s next? | Work Life in Singapore vlog
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ก.ย. 2024
- So… I QUIT MY JOB! For the first time in my life, I quit my 9 to 6 job without another one lined up 😖
I know some may say I am crazy for doing so in this economic climate.. but I know I had to do it before it’s too late.
What’s next though? Full time content creator?😝
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Totally understand why you quit. I was a Sec school teacher for 19 years and quit my job in May. I also struggled to find meaning in my job after so long, i guess my passion for the students died sometime ago. Everyday just going through the motion, until i could not take it anymore, fueled by unmotivated students and unreasonable parents.
That’s incredible. 19 years being a sec school teacher!😯 I have friends who teach in schools too, the demands from unreasonable parents and school mgmt culture are key factors. It must have been a difficult decision given that it’s such a niche career 🙁 Hope you found something else that works for u!
I'm gonna resign soon as well..... wish us luck world!!
Ah all the best!! Is it also without a job?
@@yuldaze yup!! Thanks for your encouragement!! You too!! We can do this! :)
😢 i wish i can do that like y’all HAHA!
i’m actually going for interview this period of time before i resign.
I can totally relate to why you quit without a job! I struggle to find meaning in my current role as well, and I'm so mentally exhausted!! All the best with your job hunt 🙏
Thank you! Sorry to hear that you’re facing the same challenge in your current job 🙁 Hope you’ll find something else you enjoy doing!
Am currently jobless too (got fired previously after 1 month into my new job for not hitting my sales KPI) but thank God I just accepted a new job offer.
It’s a tough and cruel world out there but there are many people who will support and encourage you.
Just relax and recharge first. As long as you continue to apply for jobs, a suitable offer will come eventually.
Hang in there!
Ahh thank you so much for the kind words, low 5 to being in a similar predicament🥲 agree that support is so important. Thankful that my family is supportive of my decision too. All the best to you in the job hunt, hope we both find something better!💪🏼
admire the courage and hope you will land on an exciting job very soon!
TYSM!🥰
I totally agree with your thoughts! I tendered my job a couple of months ago without another job as well. I was doing accounting, I understand how well the job prospect can be if I endure through the years but indeed, the thought of doing a mundane job scares me. I’m doing a totally different job now, the pay is slightly lower but I’m much happier and I think that’s what truly matters because we spend 1/3 of our lives working, we need to enjoy our jobs to live life to the fullest.
All the best for your job hunt too! 😁
Ahhh TYSM!🥹 I love reading others’ success stories bc it keeps me motivated! Truly happy for you! Thanks for sharing🙂
Hi! I’ve resigned without a new job before as my mental and physical health were suffering. All the best of luck for your job hunt! You can find one you like! ❤
TYSM!💕 Hope you have since moved on to a job that treats you better?🙂
Yup, it was during the Covid pandemic, now I’ve a better job and pay 😂
Omg so glad to hear that! Praying for the same to happen for me hahaha
quit without a job lined up too! 🙋🏻♀️ for the same reason haha wanted to be clear of any job commitments in order to fully embark on a job hunt 😆 all the best!! hope we can get a job that we enjoy :)
Ahhh glad to know I’m not alone in this!🥹 All the best to you too!! Do share here again when you’ve found a job you enjoy!🙆🏻♀️💕
congrats on quitting the job - there's a reason why they call it a soul-sucking job! I'm sure you'll find something that you're passionate about eventually.
So true! If it has to be soul-sucking, I’d rather it be purposeful haha! TQTQ!
I always feel very amazed by your food choices. I never know that Singapore has so much stuff to eat. I always go to the usual things (Singaporean palette) haha
“Almost spend more time browsing than watching Netflix”.
Totally relatable
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Congrats on your decision! I stayed in a job 20 years because at first I was scared to leave because I didn't know what else was out there, then I stayed because I had been there so long I didn't know if I could get paid as much elsewhere. When I finally left it was the best thing. I was doing similar work but for a company I loved working for. (And paid more!) Wishing you all the best!❤
20y is a long time😯 Congrats to you too for finding a job you enjoy so much more! This gives me hope haha. Thank you!💕
@@yuldaze You're welcome! I enjoy watching your videos. ❤
omg i also just resigned without a job lined up (not planning to work currently) and i totally understand having to resign bc sometimes you just need a better environment to focus on yourself. wishing you all the best in your job hunt and that you find something you enjoy!!! ❤❤
Yes, spot on - need the time to focus on self! Thank you!💕
Enjoyed the videooo💗
Be patient and let’s pray and hope for the best 🤞🏻
You’re precious so don’t worry ✨
Also all the home made food looks so good 🥰
I bet who’s making them 🤔
Thank you!! Hope to share good news in due time!🙆🏻♀️💕
All the yummy home cooked food done single-handedly by my MIL!😝
@@yuldaze yesss we are looking forward to 😍😍
And woow you guys are good cookers😭
Waiting to see more cooking skills and overall from everything hehe~
hello! have been watching your videos & find them therapeutic as they reflect your daily lives in a really raw & real state! You’re really brave & courageous to resign before securing a new job but all the best to you! 🥰 hope you can find a job that you genuinely like 🩵 tbh I’m also afraid that I’ll lost my interest in my current job & I know how it feels when you’re job seeking, the immense stress & pressure 😢 may good things come your way! Hwaiting 💪🏻 oh & can you give a review on the vitamins you ate for migraine? I’ve really severe migraines too & has it once every 2 weeks, always have to vomit for the pain to subside…will appreciate if you can let us know if it works! 🙏🏻
TYSM for leaving such a detailed comment and for the kind words!💕 Job seeking is indeed a stressful and tiring process. Still finding ways to keep myself motivated🙂 On the supplements - sure, I’ll share my review once I’ve taken it long enough to experience effects! Your migraine sounds as bad as mine but I try not to vomit, bc it can become habitual😭
I wanted to leave my current toxic job but no courage so far, ur video empowered me somehow... 😢
Sorry to hear that you’re in a toxic workplace! Hope it inspires you to plan for your exit! Jiayou!💪🏼
So for rent and food and other living expenses - how can you still survive without an income? Would your husband or boyfriend or parents support your living expenses while not working?
Mostly surviving on my own savings while getting pocket money from TH-cam. The husband is already paying for household bills so that helps.
Work these days has been so challenging and very fast paced. We should normalize career break and prioritize mental wellbeing. Take a break and come back stronger!!!
TYSM!💕 I will for sure!💪🏼
Support. I also did not renew my contract due to unreasonable demands from employer. Do what you like.
Nice! All the best in your next endeavour!
Didn't know Song fish got sell frozen fruits. Wonder how big the bag is 😊 will check that out.
Can be "rebellious" in job when young 😉 Esp when there's no much monetary commitment.
I did that alot when young 🤪
Do enjoy the days when no work stress (till the next😂)
Wish you all the best in job search🫡
Hahaha thank you! Agree that the lack of monetary commitments (& the husband’s $upport) helps!
me too! gonna leave my current workplace very soon can't wait wahaahhahaa
Awesome!! Hope you’ll get to enjoy a good break!
Hey. Been watching your vlog since early this year. I also tendered last month, serving my 3 months notice now. The only difference is i found a new job before doing so. You are definitely brave, i guess partly is because you are married w/o kids? All the best in your job hunt!
Congrats! It’s definitely safer to resign with an offer! And yes, I did so partly bc I do not have dependents 🙂 the husband is my $upporter😝
Wow it’s kinda sudden that you quitted your job before securing another one! It happened to me before as well
Oooh how did it go after?
LIke you i went for handful of interviews before being offered another position in another different industry, with a slight pay increase@@yuldaze
That’s awesome!!! Congrats to you!!! Happy to hear success stories, keeps me motivated haha!
actually how is food expenses really like for you? it looked like your workplace isnt near any neighbourhood. are food on average around 10?
Ooh actually there are lotsa affordable food options near my current workplace! Mostly food centres. If I want to keep expenses low, it can go as low as $6 per meal, including kopi 🙂
Am sure you already did your risk assessment and all before you quit and good luck in your new job hunt. For me, my job is alright and can be quite fun sometimes, the problem lies with bad and useless management but hopefully things will improve with the restructuring we are going through now...
TYSM!💕 having decent management is so important too. Hope the situation improves after the restructuring!🤞🏼
U can hydrate yourself more by drinking more water, will help in reducing migrane problem, and yea calcium and magnesium can help also
Thanks much! Sleep and stress too, play a part🥺
@@yuldaze Ya have to take note of that too, haha, basically have a balance diet and good lifestyle, i got study nutrition, that's why i know abit
Been there earlier this year (2nd time in my working life - first was in 2017 and that job stayed till this March). Thinking of doing it again as SME company with small office space isn't doing it for me. You got this, Kopi O Queen. Sending love and prayers from across the causeway in KL ❤💪🏼
TYSM!💕 all the best to you too, hope that you’ll find something that suits you better🙂
your bravery in quitting!! I'm in the midst of deciding if I should leave mine too. I used to enjoy working in healthcare but I'm starting to lose motivation with how demanding and draining it is. I won't write a whole essay but here's to a better future for both you and me! (also im commenting 10 months later I hope you ARE at a better place ehehe)
omg I keep checking the local Song fish for frozen fruits.
Yeees a fellow mint lover hehehe.
your MIL dishes look so homey T_T I miss my mum's cooking.
wow here i am commenting when this year's 7th month about to start soon when in your video its ended last year, haha.
brb gonna binge your vlogs heh :p
Awww thanks for the well wishes! Well, I am in a better place but… ok, I shan’t spoil it for you 😂 hope you find the courage to pursue a career that treats your well-being better!
@@yuldaze you're welcome~ I am!
leaving a job can be a fine line. I too was in a similar situation where I wanted more of a challenging and meaningful role. My current role at the time was ok. The management and people were super nice and friendly. I subsequently left anyway and then found a new role with more responsibility with a new company. But it came with a price -- my new manager and executives were very toxic and nasty and just pushed down on all the staff. I dreaded getting up and going into the office every morning (this was about 5 yrs ago pre-Covid with no wfh). I only lasted 4 months and begged my old manager to give me my old job back and thankfully she did. Now, if I ever switch jobs, I will only do it through networking with mates because at least they can tell me honestly if the company they are at is a good place to work at or not.
Whaooo your previous company must have also valued your contributions v much👍🏼 Good to hear you managed to escape toxic mgmt - this is the worst environment to be in, no matter how great the job is and how well-paid!
@@yuldaze totally agree. 5-6 years ago, when we had openings, we would only get 20-30 CVs per open role. Now, we receive hundreds being emailed blindly to our HR manager -- and we don't even have any openings ! so yes, it is a tough market. Hopefully you have some leads and can land on something soon !
@@cicliolmo7152 😭it’s an unforgiving job market now. Thank you for the well wishes! Much needed 🥹
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You are a strong independent woman.
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Support. Do what makes you happy. Give and take there is no perfect work, but it should at least be a place that make you more than half happy. Go for it! You can do it! Be happy!!
Agree! No perfect place but I need to feel at least that wee bit of job contentment. Thank you!🙂
Thx for sharing this, and honestly I am struggling to make similar decision. I still need to pay bills so that's why i hesitate to quit. My current job is not what i expected when I joined it few mths ago. Hopefully can find a new job 🙏
Totally understand! It’s definitely safer to find a new job if you have financial commitments and dependents. Hope you secure another job soon. All the best!💪🏼
have you ever thought of being a recruiter or internal HR slowly? If you prefer not having a mundane job.
I’m in a HR and boy. sure it is not mundane for sure. HAHA. work politics, staff issues
Ooh I’ve never considered HR! It seems like such a far flung domain from my current that I thought I might not even be considered haha!
Now Scoot quite cheap, esp Nov time slot. Grab a cheap cheap ticket, fly to Osaka and head down to Shikoku, and drift aimlessly one whole month. Best is to bridge over New Year and then see how. 😁 if you are fearless, try walking long dark motor tunnel, about 30 mins type. You may think it is silly, not really soul searching, but somehow you will communicate with your own soul.
I’m careful about my spending now without an income🥲 But thanks for the inspiration! I might do a short trip nearby🙂
Hey, remember me, your fellow Gold Kili kopi gao kosong fan? Guess what, I also bought that kopi gao gao kosong 1:45...lol. But I think I still prefer gold kili leh...:)
Yes! Quite a few fellow gold kili lovers on this channel😆 I think gold kili has a smoother texture. This one is REALLY gao!
and i reccomend the comedian "Fluffy" gabriel iglesias' shows. his netflix special quite funny
Ooh thanks much!!! I’ll catch it tonight heh
The Big MUSIC word is blocking the subtitles...
Did you turn on cc? Try turning it off!
@ Yul Daze: didn’t expect that you tender w/o a job offer. (You did mention that you have a above average salary)
All the best in searching for a new one!
Haha yes! I’ve been dragging this decision for way too long. Thank you for the well wishes!💕
sometime we just have to do it.
from your past videos, you have headache when it is stress or eating alot to combat stress. if your body can't handle stress well, no point staying.
Yup agree! My migraine is not just due to stress tho🥲 all kinds of triggers
i am working in a manufacturing company for 17 years.
Only taking home 2.5k a month.
43 years old this year, it hard for me to change job.
But 17 years continuous working. I need a break from work
Kudos to you for working tirelessly for 17y in manufacturing some more, no mean feat! Have you tried applying to other jobs?
@@yuldaze no. I am committed to my work
Hello! I’m interested in your smoothie. May I know what yoghurt do you use?
Hi! Just regular Greek yoghurt🙂
Hi! thank u for the sharing. it is very relatable. Was wondering if you would be kind enough to share why u wanted to switch sector
Ah I actually addressed it before in an older vlog. Here it is! (8:28) th-cam.com/video/6DsQri9h8Qw/w-d-xo.htmlsi=nl32xYcpnDV2R9j1
Your MIL’s dishes gives me ideas for cooking dinner. Thanks for sharing 😊
She’d be so pleased to hear this😄
Hi Yul, have you thought of taking up courses to upskill to get better jobs and salary ? 😅😅
Absolutely! Exploring domain specific certification🙂 I have time anyway haha!
Hi, just saying im not a girl contary to my name...
But i love vlogs like these, really brings into perspective the trials and tribulations of a average singaporean living in arguably the most expensive city in southeast asia.
still a poly kid here but very enganging vlogs😀
Thanks for clarifying your handle😆 Glad that you find the vlogs relatable🙌🏼
At your age you can afford to look around. Old peepur like us need the stability 😂
HAHA! I think it's about the commitments than age, but I can see how the two correlates🥲
Hi yul , do you mind sharing what software did you use for adding texts in your video? Thank you! ❤
Ooh it’s all done in VLLO🙂 more details in my description box
Thank you for another great video!! All the best on your job hunt, in the meantime time for some JB trips haha
Thank you! JB customs queue seems pretty intense these days tho 😨
13:00 this is the standing spot right? wow thanks for the idea! Since we have standing desks at home, we can have standing dinner!
Yes! When there are no seats, the standing corner saves the day
I just resigned last week as well 😆 wasn't experiencing ikigai at that place
Glad to know I’m not alone haha! All the best for the job search!
Omg same! Just handed in my notice too! Cheers to a new journey ahead!
Noiceee. All the best to you!🙂
Jiayou in your job search!! Hope you find a job that you enjoy 👍
TYSM!💕
Thank you for this safe space! I will soon look for another job or a part-time. 😊 Wish all of us the best ❤
Happy to! All the best to you! 💪🏼✨
@@yuldaze thank you! 🧡☺️
Brave girl！All the best and good luck to your job search and interviews！
TYSM! Claiming ✨
Try the herbal soup or zichar stall at blk 630!
Ooh ok!! Keeping this bookmarked for my next lunch!
Omg watching this as a fresh graduate….you are really brave 😊
Haha! I hope you never have to go through what I’m going thru!
Hello, I have been following your videos awhile now and find your videos relatable. Super courageous to take the plunge to resign w/o a job lined up. All the best for your job hunt and hope you’ll find meaning in your next role. 💪🏻
Aww thank you for the supporting the channel. Hope I’ll get to share job updates soon!💕
All the best for your next step! jiayous!
TYSM!🥹
Good luck in finding your next job!
Or maybe full time TH-camr? 😂
Vlog cafe hopping whole of Singapore? 😮
Thank you! Cafe vlogs need capital😆 YT also pays peanuts hahaha
@@yuldaze some TH-camrs really go expensive cafes and restaurants?😅
Gl on the job hunt! And yea, coffee hock is actually not bad.
TYSM!🥰
All the best for finding a new job..
TYSM!🙆🏻♀️💕
Whats the job u working as!
Currently in cybersec
I wish all the best and more holidays to come
Thank you!💕
Admire your courage to resign without job… all the best yaa…
How is this magnesium work on you? I also taking but stop before taking other brand.. I dont mind to pass u my if u don mind haha…. 😊
Thank you!🥰 I’m still trying to see how the magnesium works on me. Unfortunately I still suffered another episode of migraine just over the weekend😕 Maybe it takes time. Thanks for the offer though!🙂💕
@@yuldaze ohh i see…. No problem 😉 you take care yaa , migraine takes time though, try to relax ya…
Wish you all the best in your job hunting. You can do it 💪
TYSM!💕
Hi there! Just want to say that you are so brave to make this decision. In fact I did it as well earlier this month because I find that I don't have much to learn from my current job alongside with the career progression. Currently I do not have a job in line but will be going on a part time course which will last about 6 months. The course is pretty good that would help me learn some skills in IT related knowledge which the school would helped me to arranged for interview/job offers based on my technical skills that I have learn throughout the 6 months.
Just want to say that you are a brave lady because not many young couples are able to do that with the increase in cost of living + housing loan + daily expenses or some even with kids to take care of.
Lastly, please take care of mental health and stay positive while the job hunting might take up to 6 months (hopefully less than that).
Good luck!
Whaoo brave fellow job seeker!!! Thanks for sharing your own experience - I’m sure you’ll do well. I am also exploring courses to take while I’m job hunting🙂 and yes, I am prepared (mentally and financially) for a long journey to get to my destination. All the best to us both!💪🏼
@@yuldaze Thank you for the kind words and all the best! Jiayou 😊
All the best for your next chapter!🎉😊
Thank you!💕
wat is ur exercise routine to eat so much snacks and unhealthy food? Cannot be just that simple workout at home?!
I haven’t worked out in 2 months 🥲 I think what maintains my weight is intermittent fasting!
@@yuldazeEx-colleague of mine does intermittent fasting but is still horizontally challenged 😂
Hope that you can find a new job soon.
TYSM!💕
I just quit my job without a job too haha
Low five!🥲
I’m a hardcore kopi lover and swear by my green Gold Kili Kopi o Kosong which I have been loving for the past seven years and counting. Will definitely try this hock coffee out!
HIGH 5 on green gold kili! This hock coffee one is much more expensive though. Try to find a prime supermarket bc it’s on discount now till end Sep there!
You gals can also try out Ah Huat Kopi O Kosong. I love coffee and I find this brand thick enough to my liking. Let me know if you like it too if you ever try. 😊
Congrats on your resignation!
TQTQ!🙆🏻♀️
Love watching your vlogs💕
TYSM!💖
What's the blender you are using, look so portable and strong
It’s a blender from Mayer. Used it for years, very durable and portable!
@@yuldaze nice. Thanks for that!
All The Best In Future!
TYSM!💕
all the best in you job hunt
TYSM!🙆🏻♀️💕
congrats on leaving! i also left my job earlier this job without securing another job.
Ooh! Did you manage to secure a job soon after?
@@yuldazesorry for the late reply! no, i was out of job for 6 months, but i literally got a job offer today!
@@sippingtehpengatthekopitia1789 OMG CONGRATULATIONS!!! 👏🏼🎉 All the best in your new job!
ur vlogs put such a good end to a long day
Aww glad that you enjoyed the vlogs!🙆🏻♀️💕
I am going to work in SG next year❤…so excited
Nice, hope you enjoy all the good food in SG!
Looking forward with SG food❤️...
Congrats on taking the brave step to not settle and take the time to explore what you want! Years from now, when you look back at this moment, taking this time off to find what you really want, will definitely not be a regret compared to forever wondering "what if". Wishing you all the very best. You got this!
Hiii!! TYSM!💕 Not sure if you remember sharing your experience of changing industries to find more meaning in your work - you said that if you knew you weren’t happy where you were, the only choice left was to move on. This was really poignant and resonated with me so so much! I’m sure I won’t regret my choice too🙆🏻♀️
@@yuldaze I do remember and so glad to hear it helped ♥ Thank you for sharing your journey with us too. Look forward to seeing you trying open the doors to your next adventure!
take care!!
Thank you!
Jiayou!
TQTQ🙆🏻♀️💕
wow you are so brave!!!!
Brave or reckless 😆
maybe you will find niche in ugc content creator who knows?
@@yuldaze
Ooh I’ve been seeing UGC content on TT! Will check that out 🙂
Where is the bubble tea shop in the video?
Oh that’s from Happy Cup!
@@yuldaze is the tea good? Haha I only know typical bbt like koi, ChiCharSanQian and gongcha
@@ongzhangteng5790 I thought it was pretty close to Chicha actually. Tea seems to be cold pressed too!
Enjoy the kopi!
Thank you for the super thanks again!! Will slowly savour the kopi 😌
Can’t go wrong with mint chocolate ice cream 👌
YAS! Fave ice cream combi
Oh dear, my ex boss allowed me early release also today 😂 but I’m going for new clinic tomorrow 😅 don’t worry, good 😊 employers are many. I’m sure we are leaving for good reasons. Sending much ❤️ over
Ooh lucky you! Healthcare isn’t easy too, but glad to hear you’ve got something lined up. Thank you for the morale boost!🙌🏼💕
Thanks for being so real in your journey! I thot I was the only one that left without a job. Seeing ur video makes me know that I’m not alone in this. Thanks for being so real! 🤍
Most welcome! I too feel less alone sharing my journey🙂 You got this! 💪🏼