Relational Self-Awareness: The Key to Navigating Modern Love | Alexandra Solomon | TEDxSanJuanIsland
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 มิ.ย. 2024
- Modern romantic relationships are not "plug and play" like they were for our grandparents. Cultural shifts shape what we want, need and expect from an intimate partner.
Relational self-awareness is a meta-tool that helps us create intimate partnerships that will nurture, elevate, and heal us. Dr. Alexandra H. Solomon is an unapologetic love nerd. She is a clinical assistant professor in the Department of Psychology at Northwestern University and a licensed clinical psychologist at The Family Institute at Northwestern University.
She writes articles and chapters for leading academic journals and books in the field of marriage and family and is the author of the book Loving Bravely: Twenty Lessons of Self-Discovery to Help You Get the Love You Want. Her second book, Taking Sexy Back: How to Own Your Sexuality and Create the Relationships You Want, is about sexual self-awareness and will be published in February 2020.
Alexandra maintains a psychotherapy practice for individual adults and couples, teaches and trains marriage and family therapy graduate students She teaches the internationally renowned undergraduate course, “Building Loving and Lasting Relationships: Marriage 101.” She works with groups like United States Military Academy at West Point, Microsoft, and the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy, and frequently appears in media outlets including The Today Show, O Magazine, The Atlantic, Vogue, and Scientific American. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
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We need to learn how to be transparent with our partner but it applies to us as well. Being transparent with ourselves and understanding our own needs.
Tell u what m8.u be transparent..to the point where u become invisible.. that might help the situation...
I really enjoyed her view and talk. Communication is key.
So brave to discuss something that's generally perceived as so taboo. Busting through glass ceilings! Thank you for your work.
I loved this and I love her. Dr. Solomon's books and teachings have been incredibly informing and meaningful to me in my journey. Great talk!
Well spoken, shout it out! We were meant to love, not fear. There is recovery from a violent past in facing the fear with the power of Love. Namaste. Thou art God.
My left ear learnt a lot about love today
So very accurate in so many ways. We need to allow ourselves to feel human & accept it!
“Emotional attunement and Conscious choice” - Yes 🙏🏼
one of the best TED talks I've seen! So very true and raw and absolutely needed in our time!
Really great talk, thank you for sharing your story and your expertise
Love is simple if you remember your partner is complicated and ever changing with time....🌹
Amazing job Alexandra! thank you for the love you bring to all of us
Thanks!! Inspiring
Awesome. Thank you!!!
Just be scandalous and truly love yourself but also know that you can always improve in the direction that you feel is adequate for your emotional and physical well-being. It’s that easy.
Oh my gosh YESSSSSSS!!! Must listen for all. Thank you Dr Solomon!
People are afraid to love these days because of those 3 meanings she mentioned 💯🔥
I am just hear to laugh because of bully hunters lol
Great topic.
Brilliant explanation of relationship. Thank you. :)
Food plays a vital role in this too!!
Hi, I want a signed copy of your book
It's an Iceberg??? MindBlown!
17 minutes talk; only thing I noticed carefully is the iceberg thing. Man will be men, indeed.
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This material is a wellspring of inspiration and fresh perspectives. A book I read with comparable themes guided my evolution. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
Can we put some effort into teaching personal responsibility and self esteem 🙄
Wish she gave tips for males to have more agency. I find myself unable to act on my desires because I don't know what I want.
She does not care about men
By all chances you know what you want.
But lately you are told, in no uncertain terms, that what you want is not good. Or that you really want something else.
Hence the confusion.
I find that a lot of times when you try to tell men what you want in bed you get judged or they argue with you or they just don't want to listen
Choco Cat ☹️😑
Tem a Tradução por favor alguém poderá traduzir... E colocar caracteres....
what is love
Love is a positive energy, you start feeling then when both the souls mingle each other. This happens in every part of our life not only in physical relationship.
Chemicals, mostly.
anyone feels that TEDx Talks lets everyone speak? i mean everybody about everything...
I'm guessing you are a man 😂😂😂😂
@@Amal302 I'm guessing you are a llama 😂😂😂
Yeah they do let anyone talk but this One Is brilliant
I am hear because of bully hunters she was so full of it fake it to you make it
Faca and beyond!
Gonna save you guys 17 mins of your life. Girls can also take the initiative in bed and relationship. Thats whats the whole video is about
Not
You should watch it again. Really!
Lol, thank you Eduardo 😂😂
"Drawing is about placing lines on paper", "Batman trilogy is about punching people", "Video games are about shooting people". I mean, you're not wrong in your second sentence, but there's so much more to this talk.
@@clarissemsp ت
My solution is to live alone..get a dog if u need companionship..lot less complicated that trying to live with a women..you need all sorts of manuals and ultimately a witch doctor if u want to survive a deep deep deep emotional relationship with a female
@@elimarrin who cares..
Can I call a Bully Hunter?
Respect and a job?
1st
Finn Fleischmann ur second.
Sounds like she master baiting was out of control as a teen. Lol
do not take life advice from someone who thinks all women have multiple consciousnesses
The speaker is not a “woman”. He is a biological Male, or didn’t you notice??
@@prettyprudent5779 what gives you that idea?
he didn't atune himself to her...she's just talking talking talking talking...when the talking and words and self awareness stops then you can be in love....not in awareness ....
TED já foi melhor, agora é uma cachoeira de diarréia.
I just wanted to know how relationships work, wtf lady?
Hey women...you too can cure cancer or Aids...stop obsessing about dating cud Men aren't...
Lost all respect for the speaker with the "patriarchy" comment
Hi find the bully hunters video i saw rags and she mentioned it like ten times I would have told her you every played a sport that meant something or had something on the line
Is she aware of how ridiculous her outfit makes her look?
It is he, not she, pay attention.