Hope you completely recover from all these,so sorry about your beautiful mum and thanks for sharing your story to us who is still in it because of children 😢😢I really learnt a lot from your story . Much hugs 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
I take it this isn't the interview you meant (I'm 45 minutes in) . Your channel might release it, so ill subscribe and look forward to hearing it. I'll stop bugging you now. Good luck man
Terra and Collier are truly brave and remarkably open souls, considering what they've been through. I appreciated being able to hear their stories in their in words.
Collier, your mother was absolutely beautiful ❤ I'm so sorry you endured this horror. You're an eloquent speaker. Dr. Ramani, thanks for having him on.
Collier’s dad seems like a straight up psychopathic narc. I am so sorry for all that you have been through and thank you so much for sharing this extremely personal story. And thank you Dr. Ramani for giving us this life-saving platform.
Collier, you are amazing. Thank you for being so strong and doing everything you did to protect the world and yourself from your father. I'm so sorry it took the death of your mother at his hands for you to finally keep people safe from him. I wish there was a way your mother could have been kept safe, too. So sorry for the loss of your beloved mother.
I’m so grateful I came across your channel… I’m listening to stories I can relate to from my childhood.. and listening to you guide them out to healing is insightful
Dr Ramani thank you for giving us an insight into the truth of these situations. I pray that this young man gets all of God's grace in overcoming this ordeal. Time heals very little😢
I just found this channel last night. It's amazing--these interviews and accounts from survivor of abuse. Everyone needs to be educated in my opinion to pay attention to their gut brain. Intuition is there for a reason. I have journaled for years and now I'm glad I did because manipulation from people in my life tried to make me Believe I am crazy. I am so grateful this channel came into my feed and at the right time because I've been struggling with my thoughts and thinking maybe I have some personality disorder and being a very sensitive and empathic person was not really true and my FOO, was right about their scapegoat sister. Anyway, generational abuse is a real thing and it followed me as I found partners in my life who I thought treated me in ways that were/are normal. It feels/felt familiar to me. From my relationship of 32 years, 26 of them married, to following my husband to a Bible group where I experienced spiritual abuse, to now being in a relationship of over 10 years with a man who has rage and anger issues and is never wrong about anything and doesn't apologize and just gets pissed off when I call him out and quickly goes to personal attacks on my character (which is really projecting in my opinion). I'm in a delicate place right now where I'm trying to escape. I go to therapy and I'm constantly questioning my reality. It's a scary place to be.
At the time of Collier's mom's passing, there was little information on narcissists, sociopaths and psychopaths. It was a different time. Today these psychological traits/disorders are more prevalent in our society than ever before. Thank you for pointing out Dr. Ramani that grandiosity comes in many shapes and forms!
@cheryl12196 well, as a society, we still “admire” those personality traits. Look at how corporate directors hide behind the corporate shell while destroying people’s lives, and still want more. *corporation* “tax me less, let me pay surfdom (or less) wages, I deserve to control the lives of those lesser than me, and I am the decider of who those people are.”
Im so sorry this happened to your mom. She had a feeling something was going to happen and its heartbreaking. Makes me want to do more for people who aren't believed if they bring up concerns for their safety. You have striking blue eyes, just like your mom ❤
I understand the question "Why did I go through all of this, if it isn't to help others NOT go through it"? I feel so much , also, that portions at least of my own journey are meant to be shared. We can do this, whether or not we choose to reveal who we are in the story. So many people need to understand psychology. They need to recognize sociopaths and psychopaths...narcissism. It is go good to hear the police and social services were able to assist in this tragedy. And, it's remarkable that he could forgive as well as maintain a strong sense of individuality. Life is painful...thank you for sharing your story.
Thank you Dr Ramani for taking me through the healing process. You have no idea how much you have impacted my healing process. Having a narcissistic mother and ex husband is not a walk in the park. I wish I could erase it from my memory and history. I have learned to move on despite my horrible experiences with them. Thank you so much ❤.
I just agree when you said when that line gets crossed, the line gets crossed all the time many times it’s not a resource where the people don’t realize they’re being abused at all. That’s the biggest problem because many people come from families that abused him as well, so there’s nothing to compare it to.
Collier said he had a good talk about the overuse of the term narcissism with you the other day, I hope this is the one he is talking about, because I very much feel that armchair therapists throw that out far too often
IT'S. ,SO. VERY,VERY DIOBALACEL!!!!!😮THANK YOU,DR.RAMANI,,,PUTING,THE NARC.S. STUDY OUT, IN THE UNIVERSE.. I'VE BEEN WATCHING,,YOU FOR 6YRS...ON. YOUR POD CASTS....,THE MEDICAL,,,,CHANEL ❤
That's how my father talk #exactly like in that letter# when my brother passed away in a car accident and we using his car to sort out funeral arrangement. Next day i went fetch my car and left him to go alone when we were doing the funeral preparations. I end up confused and frustrated because it like what are you talking about. The funeral was like it his wedding, the whole time waiting for a funeral it was a nightmare between her and my mother. 2019 November to 2020 December was the worse for me as they got separated in 2020 December. Two narcissist fighting it not fun. So even though there was killing between my parents but this story I relate with it the most because this was almost my life. My father was the only one working at home and mother was a housewife.
What a brave brave courageous boy this lovely young man was and is. I felt my father might flip and harm us. Never could I have been this strong if it had happened. I'm in awe✌
Although I put up with a lot worse during my marraige my line came after 34 years,our daughter and grandkids were home for Christmas the whole 2 weeks he threw things around including gifts,sat stewing in a mood for days,ruined christmas, boxing day,new year,fell out with everyone, that was it for me,the final straw,I could not have cared if I slept in the shed,I divorced him,come to find out he had a girlfriend in the back ground,so having to spend Christmas with us must have been driving him mad.
Narcissists always have backups because they are so fragile they never want to be without a supply so they cultivate multiple streams of supply in case one fails. It even has a name in DV circles mate dependency diversification or something. Will update with the proper name.
Collier, you are complete. Don’t fall for your father’s manipulation, your father died when he killed your beloved mother, he no longer exists. Many of us don’t get the parent we deserve, we can move on and live a great life knowing we didn’t choose our parent. Nurture yourself, not the relationship you wish you had had. Bless you.
I would be interested In Dr Ramani exploring the double life narcissist have. My husband is a Dr and like this case when I looked into it more he is very well liked and respected In my small town. So much so I get gaslighted by medical help I tried to seek out for myself,it took years before someone could say lets-talk about “the elephant in the room” I am still treated like I am the crazy one. However as my husband ages it is becoming harder and harder to keep up the f arcade. People in the beginning would say I married him to be “the Doctors wife” which was so untrue. I had my own career and money. I actually was reluctant to get married, but guess what …..I was loved bombed. I come from the generation that the Dr is always right. It’s been a long and lonely road
Gina, I'm so sorry. Do you still have your own money? I would quietly start planning a safe exit strategy. You'll probably have to leave when he's at work and move as far away as you can. That's what I did. I lost a lot....but what I gained? Oh, my friend, being free is amazing❤
The social propaganda for medical doctors is unearned in reality. They are the 3rd leading cause for patients death due to error. Women doctors apparently have lower fatality rates & better outcomes. Male doctors also have the highest abuse rates even more than clergy! 1. doctors 2. teachers 3. clergy Doctors (specifically surgeons) are also the top 10 jobs of choice for psychopaths. Time to take them of their pedestals.
With everything. All comes to what we accept. And we, as a society, love a bully. The whole system is upside down. The thing is, we have to educate ourselves to the fact the some people are horrible human beings. It just is….we have to get over it. Protect ourselves and try to raise our kids to have acceptance and love ( empathy!). Maybe a few generations from now, the abusers will be rare. And even if they are not, they will be motivated to control it and suck it up…. survival will depend on collaboration and understanding of each other…..
There is no "why.". If there was, it would make some kind of sense. He killed her because he is a psychopath that likes to beat up on defenseless women and children. He liked to go home and take out his frustrations on them. Maybe she didn't give him his way. Maybe she didn't give into him fast enough. Maybe he didn't feel that she had the right to defend herself or her son? They were victims, short and to the point!!
I hate to bring politics into your personal traumas but it sounds to me exactly like trump's personality. I feel that he has brought trauma into the lives of many of the population and never will be held accountable in his life time for the damage he has caused. I have so much respect for the both of you and hope you continue your journey in such a positive direction and respect your strength immensely. Thanks for speaking out and sharing your journey with others who need support..
There are no words to describe the tragedy this poor man went through. Thank you for your bravery in discussing your father.
Purley. Dioblical. ,,!!!!!!¡
What courage and strength Collier has after facing a demonic coward and surviving.
Thank you SM for having us both Dr. Ramani!
Hope you completely recover from all these,so sorry about your beautiful mum and thanks for sharing your story to us who is still in it because of children 😢😢I really learnt a lot from your story . Much hugs 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
I take it this isn't the interview you meant (I'm 45 minutes in) . Your channel might release it, so ill subscribe and look forward to hearing it. I'll stop bugging you now. Good luck man
@@lemonstealinghorsdoeuvre No, not this one. She was gracious enough to have me on though!
"purest form of evil. looking at someone who has no soul" Perfectly stated.
I've seriously wondered if it's possible for someone to not have a soul and still be alive. These people are monsters.
Terra and Collier are truly brave and remarkably open souls, considering what they've been through. I appreciated being able to hear their stories in their in words.
It’s so good to know about school being your safe place.
Collier, your mother was absolutely beautiful ❤ I'm so sorry you endured this horror. You're an eloquent speaker. Dr. Ramani, thanks for having him on.
Thank you @starlingswallow
Super beautiful lady and Collier is so much like his mom.
I can't imagine having that amount of bravery and knowing what to do at 10 years old.
Collier’s dad seems like a straight up psychopathic narc. I am so sorry for all that you have been through and thank you so much for sharing this extremely personal story. And thank you Dr. Ramani for giving us this life-saving platform.
Collier, you are amazing. Thank you for being so strong and doing everything you did to protect the world and yourself from your father. I'm so sorry it took the death of your mother at his hands for you to finally keep people safe from him. I wish there was a way your mother could have been kept safe, too. So sorry for the loss of your beloved mother.
I’m so grateful I came across your channel… I’m listening to stories I can relate to from my childhood.. and listening to you guide them out to healing is insightful
Dr Ramani thank you for giving us an insight into the truth of these situations. I pray that this young man gets all of God's grace in overcoming this ordeal. Time heals very little😢
I just found this channel last night. It's amazing--these interviews and accounts from survivor of abuse. Everyone needs to be educated in my opinion to pay attention to their gut brain. Intuition is there for a reason. I have journaled for years and now I'm glad I did because manipulation from people in my life tried to make me Believe I am crazy. I am so grateful this channel came into my feed and at the right time because I've been struggling with my thoughts and thinking maybe I have some personality disorder and being a very sensitive and empathic person was not really true and my FOO, was right about their scapegoat sister.
Anyway, generational abuse is a real thing and it followed me as I found partners in my life who I thought treated me in ways that were/are normal. It feels/felt familiar to me. From my relationship of 32 years, 26 of them married, to following my husband to a Bible group where I experienced spiritual abuse, to now being in a relationship of over 10 years with a man who has rage and anger issues and is never wrong about anything and doesn't apologize and just gets pissed off when I call him out and quickly goes to personal attacks on my character (which is really projecting in my opinion). I'm in a delicate place right now where I'm trying to escape. I go to therapy and I'm constantly questioning my reality. It's a scary place to be.
At the time of Collier's mom's passing, there was little information on narcissists, sociopaths and psychopaths. It was a different time. Today these psychological traits/disorders are more prevalent in our society than ever before. Thank you for pointing out Dr. Ramani that grandiosity comes in many shapes and forms!
@cheryl12196 well, as a society, we still “admire” those personality traits. Look at how corporate directors hide behind the corporate shell while destroying people’s lives, and still want more.
*corporation* “tax me less, let me pay surfdom (or less) wages, I deserve to control the lives of those lesser than me, and I am the decider of who those people are.”
Im so sorry this happened to your mom. She had a feeling something was going to happen and its heartbreaking. Makes me want to do more for people who aren't believed if they bring up concerns for their safety. You have striking blue eyes, just like your mom ❤
I understand the question "Why did I go through all of this, if it isn't to help others NOT go through it"? I feel so much , also, that portions at least of my own journey are meant to be shared. We can do this, whether or not we choose to reveal who we are in the story. So many people need to understand psychology. They need to recognize sociopaths and psychopaths...narcissism. It is go good to hear the police and social services were able to assist in this tragedy. And, it's remarkable that he could forgive as well as maintain a strong sense of individuality. Life is painful...thank you for sharing your story.
Thank you Dr Ramani for taking me through the healing process. You have no idea how much you have impacted my healing process. Having a narcissistic mother and ex husband is not a walk in the park. I wish I could erase it from my memory and history. I have learned to move on despite my horrible experiences with them. Thank you so much ❤.
"you can look yourself in the mirror and say, I did what was right", yes Collier, you did, you did more than you even know.
Collier you have really helped with my healing process. Thank you ❤.
Brave surviver. Wish you well.
Thank YOU COLLIER,,AND TERRA.....YOU BOTH ARE AWAKEING PEOPLE ON THE PLANET TO OPEN THERE EYES,,,AND BE AWARE......(WOW) ❤
The murderer ... sounded like... "GPchat" wrote the letters to the son. The son was so, so smart and brave. God bless.
I just agree when you said when that line gets crossed, the line gets crossed all the time many times it’s not a resource where the people don’t realize they’re being abused at all. That’s the biggest problem because many people come from families that abused him as well, so there’s nothing to compare it to.
School (and my best friend's home) were my safe places when I was a kid. I don't know how kids today can learn anything with the stress.
Collier said he had a good talk about the overuse of the term narcissism with you the other day, I hope this is the one he is talking about, because I very much feel that armchair therapists throw that out far too often
This episode made me cry 😢
IT'S. ,SO. VERY,VERY DIOBALACEL!!!!!😮THANK YOU,DR.RAMANI,,,PUTING,THE NARC.S. STUDY OUT, IN THE UNIVERSE.. I'VE BEEN WATCHING,,YOU FOR 6YRS...ON. YOUR POD CASTS....,THE MEDICAL,,,,CHANEL ❤
That's how my father talk #exactly like in that letter# when my brother passed away in a car accident and we using his car to sort out funeral arrangement. Next day i went fetch my car and left him to go alone when we were doing the funeral preparations. I end up confused and frustrated because it like what are you talking about. The funeral was like it his wedding, the whole time waiting for a funeral it was a nightmare between her and my mother. 2019 November to 2020 December was the worse for me as they got separated in 2020 December. Two narcissist fighting it not fun. So even though there was killing between my parents but this story I relate with it the most because this was almost my life. My father was the only one working at home and mother was a housewife.
Fabulous clarifying conversation. Thank you all ❤
What a brave brave courageous boy this lovely young man was and is. I felt my father might flip and harm us. Never could I have been this strong if it had happened. I'm in awe✌
Although I put up with a lot worse during my marraige my line came after 34 years,our daughter and grandkids were home for Christmas the whole 2 weeks he threw things around including gifts,sat stewing in a mood for days,ruined christmas, boxing day,new year,fell out with everyone, that was it for me,the final straw,I could not have cared if I slept in the shed,I divorced him,come to find out he had a girlfriend in the back ground,so having to spend Christmas with us must have been driving him mad.
Narcissists always have backups because they are so fragile they never want to be without a supply so they cultivate multiple streams of supply in case one fails. It even has a name in DV circles mate dependency diversification or something. Will update with the proper name.
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Collier, you are complete. Don’t fall for your father’s manipulation, your father died when he killed your beloved mother, he no longer exists. Many of us don’t get the parent we deserve, we can move on and live a great life knowing we didn’t choose our parent. Nurture yourself, not the relationship you wish you had had. Bless you.
Dr Ramani in my opinion really understood and had very insightful comments. For both you and Terra.
Terra, you are a superhero!! So strong n always keep your head up!! I am so proud of you!!❤
42:22 does dad sound like any politicians we know? *i am responsible for NOTHING; everything is everyone else’s fault.*
Omg my story is still going on an started wit my parents. Please let me tell it I need to get a hold of them. Appreciate u so Dr Ramani
I would be interested In Dr Ramani exploring the double life narcissist have. My husband is a Dr and like this case when I looked into it more he is very well liked and respected In my small town. So much so I get gaslighted by medical help I tried to seek out for myself,it took years before someone could say lets-talk about “the elephant in the room” I am still treated like I am the crazy one. However as my husband ages it is becoming harder and harder to keep up the f arcade.
People in the beginning would say I married him to be “the Doctors wife” which was so untrue. I had my own career and money. I actually was reluctant to get married, but guess what …..I was loved bombed.
I come from the generation that the Dr is always right. It’s been a long and lonely road
Gina, I'm so sorry. Do you still have your own money? I would quietly start planning a safe exit strategy. You'll probably have to leave when he's at work and move as far away as you can. That's what I did. I lost a lot....but what I gained? Oh, my friend, being free is amazing❤
The social propaganda for medical doctors is unearned in reality. They are the 3rd leading cause for patients death due to error. Women doctors apparently have lower fatality rates & better outcomes.
Male doctors also have the highest abuse rates even more than clergy!
1. doctors 2. teachers 3. clergy
Doctors (specifically surgeons) are also the top 10 jobs of choice for psychopaths. Time to take them of their pedestals.
Don Hennessy books on the intimate partner abuser very helpful to read.
Courageous Collier
This stuff should be taught at school otherwise it's too late and nothing will change.
They don't teach this in school because the system is built around trauma.
With everything. All comes to what we accept. And we, as a society, love a bully. The whole system is upside down. The thing is, we have to educate ourselves to the fact the some people are horrible human beings. It just is….we have to get over it. Protect ourselves and try to raise our kids to have acceptance and love ( empathy!). Maybe a few generations from now, the abusers will be rare. And even if they are not, they will be motivated to control it and suck it up…. survival will depend on collaboration and understanding of each other…..
Is there a link for part 1?
Wheres the part 1?
th-cam.com/video/JB3gF8a0sEc/w-d-xo.html
Part 1 focuses on Terra Newell's story.
Title: Survivor Squad: Terra Newell Story w/ Collier Landry - Pt 1 | Navigating Narcissism with Dr. Ramani
I’ve always been interested in what the outcome of Sherry and the baby. Does she still support Collier’s father?
Can't find part one, can anyone help with a link? 😊
Part 1 focuses on Terra Newell's story.
Title: Survivor Squad: Terra Newell Story w/ Collier Landry - Pt 1 | Navigating Narcissism with Dr. Ramani
21:03 thats the in the UK now, we now have a law about coercive control. Its a crime, the last one tried was put in prison for 5years.
Murder in Mansfield
What a horrible man. Sounds like my mother. Victim blaming. So sad 😢. Sorry Collier you had such a dad.
There is no "why.". If there was, it would make some kind of sense. He killed her because he is a psychopath that likes to beat up on defenseless women and children. He liked to go home and take out his frustrations on them. Maybe she didn't give him his way. Maybe she didn't give into him fast enough. Maybe he didn't feel that she had the right to defend herself or her son? They were victims, short and to the point!!
What’s apapethic ?? Not sure about spelling??
Means indifference. Doesn't care. Showing no empathy for others.
@@vivavoice7211 A form of apathy?
@@nancyparker8363 Yes it is.
Apathy means you could care less. Collier describes his father as apoplectic. He had a violent temper.
Apoplectic = overcome with anger : - )
She interviewed me , it was so harrowing, will never be shown
I hate to bring politics into your personal traumas but it sounds to me exactly like trump's personality. I feel that he has brought trauma into the lives of many of the population and never will be held accountable in his life time for the damage he has caused. I have so much respect for the both of you and hope you continue your journey in such a positive direction and respect your strength immensely. Thanks for speaking out and sharing your journey with others who need support..
Thanks to Jada Pinkett Smith!
Terra's mom is definitely a narcissist also and never put her children first.
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