4 Reasons INTJs only have 2 friends

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  • @abeeflesstip8744
    @abeeflesstip8744 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    "Its not that we hate everyone, just that we love very few" - INTJoseph
    It shows that there are few INTJs out there when you are the only other person I've heard say this. Love your videos.

    • @intjoseph
      @intjoseph  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @A Beefless Tip thank you 🙂. Now I’m curious who else has said that…

    • @SumJrk
      @SumJrk ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@intjosephoddly enough, I have! A business associate once asked me why I don't like anyone and that is what I told him.

  • @jeffrey-825
    @jeffrey-825 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I have 4 friends. I'm sort of an extroverted INTJ myself.

  • @sirclarkmarz
    @sirclarkmarz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    As an INTJ I can confirm that this is true although I know many people I consider them to be acquaintances and associates. But there's only one person I think of as a friend and the imaginary ones don't count .

  • @MariankGonzalez
    @MariankGonzalez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yes, thank you for the upload, Joseph! Fellow INTJ here.

    • @intjoseph
      @intjoseph  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Mariank Gonzalez thank you for watching! 🙂

  • @meechipeachi
    @meechipeachi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Like much of my life, I prefer "Quality over Quantity"

  • @RonHaddock1
    @RonHaddock1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Spot on.

  • @well1076
    @well1076 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    i love my intj bestie. since i know he feels more confident being at home, i often plan to hang with him at home and just watch movies. and since he knows i'm an enfp who loves to go out, he often offer himself to explore the world with me, even tho he doesnt like that much. as an enfp, i looooove being alone with him... to me, being with an intj is the same feeling as exploring a new place. intjs might be silent around crowd, but when intjs are comfortable with a few people, they get very interesting, sharing their ideas and deep passions. i feel like i was made to be around them. sometimes i freak out about little problems like "i dont know what to buy to my mom :(((((((" and he makes me see the situation in a lighter point of view, and i easily get relaxed about my "mini drama"

  • @HermesGirl
    @HermesGirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I hear ya and I agree.
    II would rather put more energy into one or two relationships at a time than spread myself too thin over many.

    • @intjoseph
      @intjoseph  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Jessica Rose 🤝

  • @devildogkogg8353
    @devildogkogg8353 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have no friends except one of my brothers. The other members of my family think my demanding insistence on never lying to me was simply asking too much, and the general public I live around are borderline insane and emotionally unstable. I feel like the world around me is a Mike Judge movie.
    The one friend I have is a ENTP.

    • @meechipeachi
      @meechipeachi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ENTP's are great for Adventures!

    • @SumJrk
      @SumJrk ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah, I have less than absolute ZERO tolerance for wilful liars and it is an instant deal breaker for any person that is, was, or has a chance of being a friend in the future! I have only 1 true friend (he's an INTP) who has proven himself to be genuine in good times and bad.

  • @ArtandKitchen_
    @ArtandKitchen_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i have two friends. My black cat and my white cat

  • @justme8108
    @justme8108 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's far more than I have.

  • @SumJrk
    @SumJrk ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can see where is coming from, but I'd say I've never had more than 2 close friends at once! not that I've never had more than 2 people I'd consider friends at once.

  • @SumJrk
    @SumJrk ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Joseph... Do animals count in your assessment? I do have more than 2 friends if so 😉

  • @00029percent
    @00029percent 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    When the constitution doesnt exist in front of my window only people arent worth your time and you dont battle their enemies

  • @diewahrheitistmitdir675
    @diewahrheitistmitdir675 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have no friends. No need for it. I have an Trustlevel for everybody, some people i trust more, but dont say they are friends. For me it would be unfair to other people, to count them out, or think a few people are more importent then everybody els. I know its a stupid logic, but i don´t need this concept "Friend". So to say everybody can my be my "friend"

    • @intjoseph
      @intjoseph  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Die Wahrheit it’s mit dir sounds logical to me and I understand where you are coming from. I have a somewhat similar idea only I do use the word friend and if a person is high enough in level of trust I consider them family

  • @liliesofthefieldyt
    @liliesofthefieldyt ปีที่แล้ว

    This is false. I have 3 friends.