He's been married for 20 years and his stuff is still at her house. They're probably gonna get back together. Don't date someone who is married it don't matter if they're separated. Until that divorce is finalized they still legally belong to someone else. People do this all the time and then wonder why they get they heart broken. You put yourself in this situation
Esther Jean as a men I wouldnt want a women who would date me knowing Im married. My belief if a women is ok with that it reflects her decision making skills and makes me look at her as a in and out girl so your 10000% right
Tony G Exactly if you know someone's married keep your distance. It don't matter if they're separated they're still married. If you want to pursue something with them then wait till the divorce is done. It's just common sense
Esther Jean depends on the situation. For long term marriages I agree with you. For quickie marriages between young people it's fine based on the situation. I know someone who got married at 21 to someone she dated for a few months after getting out a 2 year relationship. It's been 3 years and their divorce is almost finalized. 2 out of three years they were separated and it only took so long because he kept holding on to make life difficult for her.
Esther Jean I call bs lil mom mom left her ex and didnt even want none of her stuff back he eventually threw it all out and they still arent divorced 20years later
Believing in love at first sight is absurd. I agree with Tamera that people aren’t able to discern between infatuation and love initially. Maybe it’s just me but the term Love holds a lot of weight and isn’t just given to anyone off bat
I'm not in Paula's situation, but I don't feel it's appropriate to make a relationship public, while the guy is still married & his stuff is with his wife.
Erica was right! Paula exp.other women sleeping with her husband...u think she would do better!!! But I guess when u r in pain u don't care who I hurt! BRANGELINA perfect example! Jolie didn't care Brad was still a married man living under one roof with his wife! Yes around comes around!!! How u get them is how u lose them!!!
i want erica to just be added to the panel already. Like watchu waiting for. She has really good chemistry with the other ladies and shes hilarious at that. It's a keeper.
I don't know who Erica is, I'm not American, but she was a great addition for that episode. Erica voiced her views, but didn't overtalk the others. She is elegant and beautiful too.
P Smith The truth is nobody knows the truth. But often people wanna just see what they wanna see. For some reason people here hate Adrianne, when it's not any one's business.
I agree with you, unless they spent every day together for 30 days straight lol. Love at first sight is not the same as IN LOVE at first sight. Two different things @Fire Thoughts
its not BS my boyfriend who i fell in love with instantly when i saw him, i had been talking to him for over a month before i met him in person and when we finally met, i knew that just saying "youre so cute" or "so sweet" just didnt feel like enough, he is everything i have always wanted, and i knew he was the one before i even kissed him
@ Bookworm Reviews but... you knew him already. It's not love at first sight if you've been talking before that. sight does not literally mean "sight". It means 1st encounter. How are you gunna love someone when you don't know about their life?
Mariamyupperz that was our first encounter, we could have easily been lying to each other while texting or whatever, we both had similar previous bad relationships that made us weary of falling for other crazies, so we weren't do trusting but as soon as we saw each other we fell in love and knew it wasn't too good to be true
as Iyanla says... you must do the work. quality over quantity folks. 30 days or 30 years. doesnt matter. maybe 30 days for me is too soon for love but i am a firm believer that time does NOT heal all wounds and time doesnt foster love. only work can.
True but it's isn't enough hours in 30 days to put in work....I agree love works on the work put in but I don't think someone is truly in love after 30 days can u develop love for a person maybe but to be in love nah
I wish Adrienne was here for this one! She would have had a million and ONE excuses ready for Paula and her situation! She saw this topic and RAAAAAN for the hills!
My parents only knew each other for a week and got married (and had me a year later), both sides of my family thought they wouldn't last but they are celebrating their 22nd year anniversary in July.
Idk about LOVE at first sight, but! I did have a strong connection with my husband when we first met. We met at a party and while everyone was getting drunk, we were just having a great conversation. All we did was laugh and talk and he was a real gentleman. By the end of the night we finally kissed and it was just this even stronger connection. We went on plenty of dates afterwards and now we are getting married and been together 5yrs ❤️ so idk about LOVE at first sight but it was pretty soon that I knew he was someone I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. 😌
For me I would say do what's right for you if you FEEL it is the right time to state your love for a person or feel like you are in love with a person... there isn't a time stamp on love... however make to sure to listen to your head at the same time you're listening to your heart & go from there because they both help you make the final decision on if a person is the one for you !
To each their own, but I personally think that 'love at first sight' is absolute rubbish! That so called "love" at that point is more lust and or infatuation than anything else. How can it be love at that point when you've yet to truly discover much of anything about the person's character? And if it's based on their physical appearance alone, that can be any number of other things, but that's certainly not true genuine love.
Yes it’s possible, even love at first sight is possible. I’ve experienced both and had long lasting relationships in these two instances. Lady in pink is absolutely right, you come to know yourself and you know when you see ‘em! Jeannie continued on with facts. Infatuation comes from immature puppy love because your falling for a mystery. Mature love is recognizing quality and knowing a man from a boy.
I'm in a situation now where I'm questioning this. I think I've decided to try the 90 day role and see how it goes. If I'm not feeling that way at that Mark then I know it's not love. I've never tried it before but I will now, this topic came at perfect timing.
Daisy Juice It's from a Steve Harvey dating book and there was a movie (Think Like A Man), waiting 90 days before having having sex with a man if you're interested in a serious relationship. I think women should be careful though, there are some men who will wait the 90 days and still be trash so watch out for red flags.
I think falling in love in 30 days is totally possible, especially when you’ve known the person for a long time before you start dating. I loved my partner for two years as a friend, so falling in love romantically was really quick after that.
I think she is dating around but, she saying she 's not about to broadcast it everywhere. Or let people know she's dating but, she knows personally she is.
On the subject of being in love with still legally married to someone else, Kim Kardashian was still legally married to Kris Humphries when she was dating Kanye, pregnant, and almost on her due date with North. I think as long as the couple communicates honestly, and they know what they're in for, I'm cool with that.
I believe falling in love is the easy part. Definitely can happen in a month. Loving someone however, NAH. You haven’t experienced a person in their totality in that short amount of time. (Being in love is the infatuation, consumption, fun-but not substantial part)
I remember watching a movie where this lady actually got engaged / married in Vegas within 30 days of knowing a guy and he didn't even meet her family until she came back to town married... and to me I was tripped out because how tf do you see signs of marriage readiness within 30 days?!?!
IDK guys. I'm not buying the story. I smell a headline grab the attention plot line now & cash in later. This dude is a FAME SEEKER who just happen to be BFF with Paula. Paula is just being a good friend & is allowing him to ride along on her coat tail to help him out. Keep watching. I'm guessing he'll make up with his wife, write a book & maybe even do a few guest appearances here & there. CHA-Ching! $$$$ Mo Money, Mo Money, Mo Money! Why would she knowingly do to someone else what was done to her years ago that was so painful & hurtful? WHY? Makes no sence. Karma is real & I'm sure she knows that. This entire thing just seem so out of character for her. IDK, maybe she's still stuck on old hurtful feelings & can't see straight. Or, maybe in some way she's being blackmaled. IDK? I like her & I hate seeing this above her name in the headlines. I certainly hope its not a tactic being used to some how get back with her ex Robin. You know, the he's not perfect & neither am I. UGH!
Well, Erica and Jeannie's point of view is the reality. "Love moves in mysterious ways" as the song says. For me, time is not really the basis when it comes to falling in love with someone. But you have to be careful when you actually commit to that certain person. Make sure everything's clean, that you are not hurting anybody and yourself.
It depends. Maybe you see each other every night, 5 times a week and have several dates in those 30 days. Then I could believe it. It's more about how much time you spend together.
U can fall in love in 30days. That's cuz live isn't an end, it's a journey and a lifetime of growing. U just don't fall in love and that's it. U can love a person in the first day or the 100th day and that's just the beginning of something which has to grow. As for knowing the person first, u cannot completely know someone before u fall in love, but u can know the necessaries that suits ur situation and it all differs among as many relationships as there are.
You can fall in lust in 30 days, not love. The 5 Love Languages says that people remain in the infatuation mode typically for 6-12 months. Then the real love kicks in.
Jeannie ~I know that Adrienne is very sensitive to antibiotics and that pregnancy is a scary thing since she can't have pain killers or maybe I've gotten things mixed up with what she can take and what she can't. I know this is not the normal route to go but these books are absolutely amazing and is highly suggest she or you read it. I think it'd be helpful and good books to read. It's a lot about pregnancy and I think Adrienne would benefit from it. ❤ you guys! The one book is called Dr. Mom Healthy Living by Sandra Ellis and the other book is called Every Woman's Herbal by Dr. John R. Christopher and Cathy Gileadi. They are great books and talk about how to have a natural pregnancy and birth (without any shots) So she won't have to worry as much I hope. I also hope I'm not overstepping.
people do have the time to date. we dont want to take the time out to date thinking "it maybe a waste of time." it's only a waste of time if you ant learned something. always learn something good or bad. dating should be an experience. that's why the saying goes "be friends first"
I had dated dudes, I fell in lust, and I have gotten to the point where I don't want to be in that situation, I had to re-evaluate myself of what I did, I had realized that I am worth it!!!
You can be in “love” whatever that is, no really knows, however, you don’t have to be reckless, if he’s still married and stuff is in his wife house who he was with for 20 years, than don’t be reckless, just say hey let’s take our time, you got some things you have to work out, I really care about you so I will be here, but you need to handle that first. People are very impatient nowadays that’s why a lot of relationships don’t last, be patient people, a relationship is not a necessity. Just take your time.
I think you can fall in love in 30 days but it might not become true love until all the excitement, infatuation, and honeymoon phase dies down then you'll see if you still want to be with that person.
30 days...too soon. Does this person have an std? What is their body count? What is their credit score? Do they have a good relationship w/their parents and friends? Are they abusive? What are their thoughts on commitment? Listen...I hope and pray that Paula Patton takes it easy. This man has been married for 20 yrs and it not divorced yet. Um..no. I disagree w/Loni and agree w/Tamera.
i think it depends on the couple personally and it helps the older you are ans what you are looking for. my boyfriend told me he loved me i wanna say about 30 days after we started dating...BUT i already knew him for 6 years. and in those 30 days we talked about all those things above. i took longer to say it because like tamera said, i wanted to make sure i wasn't infatuated by what he could do for me.
Harmoni Smith I know some women like that. I ain’t mess with them but, I’ve known😂 But Loni wouldn’t say that if the dude made a strong impression on her first.😂 P.S. I would play with Jeannie’s Hello Kitty 😉
@ Harmoni, I just don't ever agree with Loni on any marriage and dating topics.Other topics perhaps but this area is not her expertise. Her values are so inappropriate for women who want to build strong healthy families. I just wish she wouldn't comment on this area because I respect the morals of the other ladies more.
Yes Jeanie. Lonnie its not an age thing. Our creator created women to be loving, caring, nuturers for our family and husbands etc. Not lay down and get up and disconnect like we are men. Noooo. All of that is connected. When you are intimate with a women, you make love to her mind, body, soul, spirit.
Yes u can...three weeks after meeting my man we moved in it might be crazy for others but 3years later we still together and about to get married with baby on the way....although i dont think it would've worked out with anyone else. .i just got blessed with finding the one ❤
Adrienne's mad she missed this topic.
NemaMudia 😂
lmfaooooo
I'm mad too!! Damnit!
😭😭😭
NemaMudia haha
He's been married for 20 years and his stuff is still at her house. They're probably gonna get back together. Don't date someone who is married it don't matter if they're separated. Until that divorce is finalized they still legally belong to someone else. People do this all the time and then wonder why they get they heart broken. You put yourself in this situation
Esther Jean as a men I wouldnt want a women who would date me knowing Im married. My belief if a women is ok with that it reflects her decision making skills and makes me look at her as a in and out girl so your 10000% right
Tony G Exactly if you know someone's married keep your distance. It don't matter if they're separated they're still married. If you want to pursue something with them then wait till the divorce is done. It's just common sense
Esther Jean depends on the situation. For long term marriages I agree with you. For quickie marriages between young people it's fine based on the situation. I know someone who got married at 21 to someone she dated for a few months after getting out a 2 year relationship. It's been 3 years and their divorce is almost finalized. 2 out of three years they were separated and it only took so long because he kept holding on to make life difficult for her.
Esther Jean the bigger question is he's been married 20 years and he has kids that are the same age as Paula's?
Esther Jean I call bs lil mom mom left her ex and didnt even want none of her stuff back he eventually threw it all out and they still arent divorced 20years later
Believing in love at first sight is absurd. I agree with Tamera that people aren’t able to discern between infatuation and love initially. Maybe it’s just me but the term Love holds a lot of weight and isn’t just given to anyone off bat
“Some people like to get peed on tho” TAMERA HAD ME DEADDD!!
Abdulrahman Salim Omg I missed this. Let me go back 😂😂😂😂💀💀💀
Abdulrahman Salim I do hehehehe
I'm not in Paula's situation, but I don't feel it's appropriate to make a relationship public, while the guy is still married & his stuff is with his wife.
Erica has GREAT chemistry with the girls! I like her!
she does. i really hope they consider adding her to the panel.
It would be nice to have her as a permanent cast.
Erica was right! Paula exp.other women sleeping with her husband...u think she would do better!!! But I guess when u r in pain u don't care who I hurt! BRANGELINA perfect example! Jolie didn't care Brad was still a married man living under one roof with his wife! Yes around comes around!!! How u get them is how u lose them!!!
they should keep this girl as a permanent host. she is great
they should huh. i really want them to make her a 5th cohost. Shes hilarious.
She fine too 😛
Y’all say that about every guest host
I want Erica to come on the real more often!
Sehare Shezad For real. She need to be the fifth member immediately. I like her personality.
i want erica to just be added to the panel already. Like watchu waiting for. She has really good chemistry with the other ladies and shes hilarious at that. It's a keeper.
Who is she?
I don't know who Erica is, I'm not American, but she was a great addition for that episode. Erica voiced her views, but didn't overtalk the others. She is elegant and beautiful too.
Sehare Shezad iii
Would have been very interesting to hear Adrienne's thoughts on this situation, she can relate greatly!
yall need to stop lol she wasnt dating a married man
Abigail Jones where you get that from sis? Because she said it??
i'm pretty sure he was already divorced when they started dating. Majority of hate she got wasnt because he was married.
Abigail Jones #fakenews but carry on...
P Smith The truth is nobody knows the truth. But often people wanna just see what they wanna see. For some reason people here hate Adrianne, when it's not any one's business.
SHE SAID R KELLY GOTTA BLAST 😂😂😂🤣
I don't think you know a person well enough to love them after 30 days
Esther Jean Ever heard of love at first sight? 😂😂😂
Fire Thoughts heard of it but I don't believe in it
I agree with you, unless they spent every day together for 30 days straight lol. Love at first sight is not the same as IN LOVE at first sight. Two different things @Fire Thoughts
Maria I Still don't think that's enough time to fall in love with someone. I think falling in love takes time and to love someone it takes time too.
Maria I believe in infatuation at first sight and Lust at first sight
Folks need to follow the 90 day thing. You’ll know in three months whether you wanna move forward with the relationship or not!
Jeanie should quote that
"If you play with little boys you get peed on"
Can someone explain what it means I think I'm the one who didn't get it 😂
Maitha Ali You're going to get played if you mess with someone that's immature
It took my boyfriend and I 24 hours to know that we loved each other, when you just know, you know🤷💙 we've been together for 7 years
Are u serious
Love at first sight is complete BS, that's not love that is lust, there's a difference.
Shasha Vengesayi Right now that lust can grow to love but so soon? No.
its not BS my boyfriend who i fell in love with instantly when i saw him, i had been talking to him for over a month before i met him in person and when we finally met, i knew that just saying "youre so cute" or "so sweet" just didnt feel like enough, he is everything i have always wanted, and i knew he was the one before i even kissed him
I married my "Love at first sight" dude... 2 month into our relationship.lol
We're going on 8 years now.
BS My ass. lol
@ Bookworm Reviews
but... you knew him already. It's not love at first sight if you've been talking before that.
sight does not literally mean "sight". It means 1st encounter.
How are you gunna love someone when you don't know about their life?
Mariamyupperz that was our first encounter, we could have easily been lying to each other while texting or whatever, we both had similar previous bad relationships that made us weary of falling for other crazies, so we weren't do trusting but as soon as we saw each other we fell in love and knew it wasn't too good to be true
as Iyanla says... you must do the work. quality over quantity folks. 30 days or 30 years. doesnt matter. maybe 30 days for me is too soon for love but i am a firm believer that time does NOT heal all wounds and time doesnt foster love. only work can.
True but it's isn't enough hours in 30 days to put in work....I agree love works on the work put in but I don't think someone is truly in love after 30 days can u develop love for a person maybe but to be in love nah
This story reminds me of someone's husband of the hosts, but I can't remember which one... ☕🐸
Patricia 99 oh that shade ...
I'm so here for this comment 😌😌
Yall hella messy!!😂😂😂😂😂
😳☕️
Patricia 99 ooh that’s shade killed me.Probs why Ms Bailon-Houghton didn’t come in🐸🍵
I wish Adrienne was here for this one! She would have had a million and ONE excuses ready for Paula and her situation! She saw this topic and RAAAAAN for the hills!
It was love at first sight with my husband. It happened on our first date. Truly Blessed.💘
My parents only knew each other for a week and got married (and had me a year later), both sides of my family thought they wouldn't last but they are celebrating their 22nd year anniversary in July.
Still married. That's a no. Is there love at first sight? Nah.
Idk about LOVE at first sight, but! I did have a strong connection with my husband when we first met. We met at a party and while everyone was getting drunk, we were just having a great conversation. All we did was laugh and talk and he was a real gentleman. By the end of the night we finally kissed and it was just this even stronger connection. We went on plenty of dates afterwards and now we are getting married and been together 5yrs ❤️ so idk about LOVE at first sight but it was pretty soon that I knew he was someone I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. 😌
For me I would say do what's right for you if you FEEL it is the right time to state your love for a person or feel like you are in love with a person... there isn't a time stamp on love... however make to sure to listen to your head at the same time you're listening to your heart & go from there because they both help you make the final decision on if a person is the one for you !
To each their own, but I personally think that 'love at first sight' is absolute rubbish! That so called "love" at that point is more lust and or infatuation than anything else. How can it be love at that point when you've yet to truly discover much of anything about the person's character? And if it's based on their physical appearance alone, that can be any number of other things, but that's certainly not true genuine love.
I totally agree to not only wait until the divorce is final,but give yourself or that person divorcing time to truly get over their ex....
I wonder if Freddy watches the show .. 🤔
I sure hope he watched THIS episode, and his gf😂
Awww I love love. So beautiful, has no boundaries and no limits. Love truly is blind❤️😩
They should have Erica as a new co-host! The show needs a comedian to lighten things up, she brings the energy.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 but Loni is... nvm
Yes it’s possible, even love at first sight is possible. I’ve experienced both and had long lasting relationships in these two instances. Lady in pink is absolutely right, you come to know yourself and you know when you see ‘em! Jeannie continued on with facts. Infatuation comes from immature puppy love because your falling for a mystery. Mature love is recognizing quality and knowing a man from a boy.
I'm in a situation now where I'm questioning this. I think I've decided to try the 90 day role and see how it goes. If I'm not feeling that way at that Mark then I know it's not love. I've never tried it before but I will now, this topic came at perfect timing.
Daisy Juice It's from a Steve Harvey dating book and there was a movie (Think Like A Man), waiting 90 days before having having sex with a man if you're interested in a serious relationship. I think women should be careful though, there are some men who will wait the 90 days and still be trash so watch out for red flags.
Viola I'm not talking about sex per say but they did address it in an episode. I'm doing the 90 day rule to see if it's love or not.
Viola especially after the movie came out lol
AlliLee'sVlogs AndThings ahhh okay, that makes sense, I hope it works out!
V Wbb lol yes the movie exposed everything
Erica needs to be a new cohost. She Brings back the energy that left with Tamar
totally agree. i love her personality.
yes !!!
I love Erica too!!
N she ain’t shady
Oh girl! Naw. 30 days isn’t unimaginable, but his situation seems dramatic
Erica fits very well with this group.
Paula is so beautiful, but that hair is a no go for me.
lilian makori A no go??? That’s one of the most ridiculous phrases ever!! Just sayin
La Citadele yeah like it's not good, I'm not here for it. That hair is a no go.
Same.. I'm not a fan.
lilian makori I actually like her hair
What don’t you like about it
I think falling in love in 30 days is totally possible, especially when you’ve known the person for a long time before you start dating. I loved my partner for two years as a friend, so falling in love romantically was really quick after that.
He is most likely separated, divorce when you have money and kids takes TIME. Usually YEARS. No one has time to wait that long before dating.
Okay Jeannie, clear this up, are you dating or nah?
jeanne violette I have to agree with this. Sometimes she mentions going on dates and then other times she says she’s not ready.
jeanne violette she's not ready to be in anything serious... going on dates and falling in love are two different things
I think she is dating around but, she saying she 's not about to broadcast it everywhere. Or let people know she's dating but, she knows personally she is.
What I’m saying!
She may not be dating, but her ex already has a daughter on the way🤔😒
On the subject of being in love with still legally married to someone else, Kim Kardashian was still legally married to Kris Humphries when she was dating Kanye, pregnant, and almost on her due date with North. I think as long as the couple communicates honestly, and they know what they're in for, I'm cool with that.
It's soo weird seeing Loni at the end of the table😂
Chardiejarh K I scrolled so far waiting to see if anyone else noticed lol
I believe falling in love is the easy part. Definitely can happen in a month. Loving someone however, NAH. You haven’t experienced a person in their totality in that short amount of time. (Being in love is the infatuation, consumption, fun-but not substantial part)
I think you can fall in love in 30 days but that doesn't mean u need to rush the process. (ie get married hella quick)
I love you guys so much. ❤️ you are such incredible role models for young women
I remember watching a movie where this lady actually got engaged / married in Vegas within 30 days of knowing a guy and he didn't even meet her family until she came back to town married... and to me I was tripped out because how tf do you see signs of marriage readiness within 30 days?!?!
IDK guys. I'm not buying the story. I smell a headline grab the attention plot line now & cash in later. This dude is a FAME SEEKER who just happen to be BFF with Paula. Paula is just being a good friend & is allowing him to ride along on her coat tail to help him out. Keep watching. I'm guessing he'll make up with his wife, write a book & maybe even do a few guest appearances here & there. CHA-Ching! $$$$ Mo Money, Mo Money, Mo Money!
Why would she knowingly do to someone else what was done to her years ago that was so painful & hurtful? WHY? Makes no sence. Karma is real & I'm sure she knows that. This entire thing just seem so out of character for her. IDK, maybe she's still stuck on old hurtful feelings & can't see straight. Or, maybe in some way she's being blackmaled. IDK? I like her & I hate seeing this above her name in the headlines. I certainly hope its not a tactic being used to some how get back with her ex Robin. You know, the he's not perfect & neither am I.
UGH!
Tamera is always looking soooo beautiful. Her make-up and hair is always on point.
I feel Jeannie is one of my soulmates. I always agree with her, and love her integrity and honesty!
Well, Erica and Jeannie's point of view is the reality. "Love moves in mysterious ways" as the song says. For me, time is not really the basis when it comes to falling in love with someone. But you have to be careful when you actually commit to that certain person. Make sure everything's clean, that you are not hurting anybody and yourself.
I believe in love at first sight so it's not too soon for me to fall in love in just 30 days as long as they are single and NOT married!
Erica’s hair and makeup is on point
It depends. Maybe you see each other every night, 5 times a week and have several dates in those 30 days. Then I could believe it. It's more about how much time you spend together.
People really need to figure out the difference between their morals and legalities.
I met my husband and it was love at first sight for both of us and we've been married for 8 years with 6 kids.. It can happen 😄❤
Mrs. Johnson Love this
How old were y’all when y’all met?
I dated a guy for 2 weeks and was in love... still together 11 years later
U can fall in love in 30days. That's cuz live isn't an end, it's a journey and a lifetime of growing. U just don't fall in love and that's it. U can love a person in the first day or the 100th day and that's just the beginning of something which has to grow. As for knowing the person first, u cannot completely know someone before u fall in love, but u can know the necessaries that suits ur situation and it all differs among as many relationships as there are.
I believe it’s easy to fall in love but harder to stay in love. People change everyday.
You can fall in lust in 30 days, not love. The 5 Love Languages says that people remain in the infatuation mode typically for 6-12 months. Then the real love kicks in.
Jeanie's hair is on point. Love her outfit too.
Erica made me crack up at the end of this clip!!!!!! R Kelly lol !!!!
right? i died when she said that i was like did she really brought that up lmaooo
TAMERA..."SOME PEOPLE LIKE TO GET PEED ON THOUGH...""😂😂😂😂 .... ERICA..."I DON'T... I DON'T... R. KELLY STAY AWAY.."😂😂😂😂😂😂
Thank you, Tamera there is a fine line between love and lust ...A lot of ppl still don't get that...
Jeannie ~I know that Adrienne is very sensitive to antibiotics and that pregnancy is a scary thing since she can't have pain killers or maybe I've gotten things mixed up with what she can take and what she can't. I know this is not the normal route to go but these books are absolutely amazing and is highly suggest she or you read it. I think it'd be helpful and good books to read. It's a lot about pregnancy and I think Adrienne would benefit from it. ❤ you guys! The one book is called Dr. Mom Healthy Living by Sandra Ellis and the other book is called Every Woman's Herbal by Dr. John R. Christopher and Cathy Gileadi. They are great books and talk about how to have a natural pregnancy and birth (without any shots) So she won't have to worry as much I hope. I also hope I'm not overstepping.
people do have the time to date. we dont want to take the time out to date thinking "it maybe a waste of time." it's only a waste of time if you ant learned something. always learn something good or bad. dating should be an experience. that's why the saying goes "be friends first"
who is that new Beauty on the panel...shes just gorgeous. Love her make up and natural hair.
Situation, situation, situation. More important than falling in love.
Bahaha "I don't R. Kelly, stay away"
I had dated dudes, I fell in lust, and I have gotten to the point where I don't want to be in that situation, I had to re-evaluate myself of what I did, I had realized that I am worth it!!!
Connection at first sight, sometimes it's friends, sometimes romantic.
“I think it depends on the individual” classic Tamera😂
They having all these risky topics while Adrienne is away. Ain't that sleek,
That comment Jeannie said was a low key shot to her ex’s mistress 😂
You can be in “love” whatever that is, no really knows, however, you don’t have to be reckless, if he’s still married and stuff is in his wife house who he was with for 20 years, than don’t be reckless, just say hey let’s take our time, you got some things you have to work out, I really care about you so I will be here, but you need to handle that first. People are very impatient nowadays that’s why a lot of relationships don’t last, be patient people, a relationship is not a necessity. Just take your time.
I think you can fall in love in 30 days but it might not become true love until all the excitement, infatuation, and honeymoon phase dies down then you'll see if you still want to be with that person.
Yes Jeanie for the ZARA dress ... it's soo comfy ❣️
I wish Adrienne was there for this topic. I can already her how defensive she would be😂😂
Go Loni! 'How deep is your love?' Lol! Much love for
The Real, from Jamaica!
30 days is not too soon to fall in love but it is too soon to know or to be sure youre in love.
I don't believe in love at first sight and I don't believe you can LOVE someone in only 30 days...
You can see Erica taking a big sip of tea at the beginning full well knowing it would be a juicer situation if Ade was there
I believe in love at first sight. I met my now fiance when I was 15 (I'm 21 now) and I love him more and more everyday. 😍 o
"I don't, R Kelly, stay away", lmaooooo. You know what Erica, I can't.
30 days...too soon. Does this person have an std? What is their body count? What is their credit score? Do they have a good relationship w/their parents and friends? Are they abusive? What are their thoughts on commitment? Listen...I hope and pray that Paula Patton takes it easy. This man has been married for 20 yrs and it not divorced yet. Um..no. I disagree w/Loni and agree w/Tamera.
i think it depends on the couple personally and it helps the older you are ans what you are looking for. my boyfriend told me he loved me i wanna say about 30 days after we started dating...BUT i already knew him for 6 years. and in those 30 days we talked about all those things above. i took longer to say it because like tamera said, i wanted to make sure i wasn't infatuated by what he could do for me.
Loni's advice?? Helll nahhhh!!! Sleep with them THEN see how you feel about them??? What the hell!! I'm sure she's not doing that!! SMH! 🙄
Harmoni Smith
When you hit that age or experience, you just get right to it. Loni’s is there Lol.
Harmoni Smith Agreed!
ManPursueExcellence I hear you!!😂😂 But still nahhh!! 🙄😆
Harmoni Smith
I know some women like that. I ain’t mess with them but, I’ve known😂
But Loni wouldn’t say that if the dude made a strong impression on her first.😂
P.S. I would play with Jeannie’s Hello Kitty 😉
@ Harmoni, I just don't ever agree with Loni on any marriage and dating topics.Other topics perhaps but this area is not her expertise. Her values are so inappropriate for women who want to build strong healthy families. I just wish she wouldn't comment on this area because I respect the morals of the other ladies more.
Tamera's hair is doing the most 😍
Yes Jeanie. Lonnie its not an age thing. Our creator created women to be loving, caring, nuturers for our family and husbands etc. Not lay down and get up and disconnect like we are men. Noooo. All of that is connected. When you are intimate with a women, you make love to her mind, body, soul, spirit.
I am loving this discussion,I will ❤for Erica to be on the real.
I knew I was in love after a little over a month. We’ve been together for over two years.
I do believe in love at first sight. 💜
“Some people like to get peed on tho” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
30 days is enough to make me crazy in love.
Love takes time, infatuation is at first sight. It takes time love someone becuz it takes time to know them.
She looks super cute! And happy. Let her do her
Yes u can...three weeks after meeting my man we moved in it might be crazy for others but 3years later we still together and about to get married with baby on the way....although i dont think it would've worked out with anyone else. .i just got blessed with finding the one ❤
Thanks Jeannie, you are so dam intelligent
I was hanging out with a boy for 30days before we started daiting, and we have been together for almost 7 years now.
So yeah, its possible.
Yes it’s possible to fall in love very soon. You don’t know how the couple vibes with another.
Sometimes people won't let another person out they done been divorced for years but the other person wont sign the papers its sad
30 days is not too soon, especially if you are older
I love all the girls equally but Loni she has to be my favorite
It feels like Loni is saying that just because Jeannie is young at heart she wouldn't know better about certain things??!... that's ridiculous...
..."hello kitty"....wtf Jeannie??! LMFAO XD