I'm an INTJ with a mother and oldest daughter as ESFP. They are wonderful! I fully agree with your assessment. The INTJ's subconscious is ESFP and vice versa so my daughter and I often relate to each other in that way. They are like us inside and we are like them but it only shows in certain situations. One thing you didn't mention is that they often struggle in intimate relationships because they don't admit to being wrong and don't like being controlled.
Great video! ESFP here and I am glad to get some humbling, would-be butt hurt comments, especially about Fi second function. I'm a big fan of CSJ especially for his cut throat ways, for it's the best for personal development! Please continue with the criticism 🙂
I dont know what TO want or what’s “ok to want” more so than not knowing what I want. I’ve been told what I want is wrong my whole life and now I’ve got decision paralysis lameeeeee … However I’m super good with money…now but I wasn’t So for the past 5years (I’ve done a lot of research on MBTI …mine and others types in order to get along better with ppl & to improve the shitty things about myself. Well, every MBTI test I’ve done I always got ESFP until a couple months ago now I have been getting INTJ which EP types do tend to type wrong and get IP /IJ But I can feel the shift in my mindset and how I handle things and just my over all demeanor etc however I still have issue with decision paralysis 🤷🏼♀️ anyway thanks for sharing your thoughts on ESFP I’m always happy to get constructive criticism
9:25 I'm on her side lol. I think if you schedule an appointment, the default expectation should be that you will show up, regardless of whether you respond to a confirmation request. I want to be understanding of the no-show problem, but like, people also take time out of their day to schedule an appointment and plan their life to make sure they can be there. In many cases, the business's employees are gonna be there regardless for other appointments. And in general, if I have to side with people who are overburdened trying to manage a complex modern life alone vs. a business (a whole organization with procedures for managing these kind of things), I'm prob gonna side with the people. Esp. when taking into account extra executive function struggles like ADHD. 21:30 Yes, I'm very familiar with this one because of people-pleasing/fawning. My instinct is to avoid criticism so I won't be rejected, but I'm still trying to work toward replacing that with being more secure in response to criticism by living my values and being able to carry that knowing with me as a bulwark against unfair criticism.
I dog ESFPs a lot when it comes to them being annoying but they’re also natural artists (their art can even be photography or meticulous graphic design) and quite a few of them (especially females) are a lot more contained and discreet in what they say and do. They can also have a natural and an accurate eye for people. The guys on the other hand most-often live for banter and unfailing weekend chaos, just coming off as a bit too shallow. I like the ones (whatever their gender) who take their aesthetic flair seriously and put more effort, energy and focus into that than just being loud and annoying for the sake of it.
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I'm an INTJ with a mother and oldest daughter as ESFP.
They are wonderful! I fully agree with your assessment.
The INTJ's subconscious is ESFP and vice versa so my daughter and I often relate to each other in that way.
They are like us inside and we are like them but it only shows in certain situations.
One thing you didn't mention is that they often struggle in intimate relationships because they don't admit to being wrong and don't like being controlled.
Great video! ESFP here and I am glad to get some humbling, would-be butt hurt comments, especially about Fi second function. I'm a big fan of CSJ especially for his cut throat ways, for it's the best for personal development! Please continue with the criticism 🙂
I dont know what TO want or what’s “ok to want” more so than not knowing what I want. I’ve been told what I want is wrong my whole life and now I’ve got decision paralysis lameeeeee …
However I’m super good with money…now but I wasn’t
So for the past 5years (I’ve done a lot of research on MBTI …mine and others types in order to get along better with ppl & to improve the shitty things about myself. Well, every MBTI test I’ve done I always got ESFP until a couple months ago now I have been getting INTJ which EP types do tend to type wrong and get IP /IJ
But I can feel the shift in my mindset and how I handle things and just my over all demeanor etc however I still have issue with decision paralysis 🤷🏼♀️ anyway thanks for sharing your thoughts on ESFP I’m always happy to get constructive criticism
9:25 I'm on her side lol. I think if you schedule an appointment, the default expectation should be that you will show up, regardless of whether you respond to a confirmation request. I want to be understanding of the no-show problem, but like, people also take time out of their day to schedule an appointment and plan their life to make sure they can be there. In many cases, the business's employees are gonna be there regardless for other appointments. And in general, if I have to side with people who are overburdened trying to manage a complex modern life alone vs. a business (a whole organization with procedures for managing these kind of things), I'm prob gonna side with the people. Esp. when taking into account extra executive function struggles like ADHD.
21:30 Yes, I'm very familiar with this one because of people-pleasing/fawning. My instinct is to avoid criticism so I won't be rejected, but I'm still trying to work toward replacing that with being more secure in response to criticism by living my values and being able to carry that knowing with me as a bulwark against unfair criticism.
I dog ESFPs a lot when it comes to them being annoying but they’re also natural artists (their art can even be photography or meticulous graphic design) and quite a few of them (especially females) are a lot more contained and discreet in what they say and do. They can also have a natural and an accurate eye for people.
The guys on the other hand most-often live for banter and unfailing weekend chaos, just coming off as a bit too shallow. I like the ones (whatever their gender) who take their aesthetic flair seriously and put more effort, energy and focus into that than just being loud and annoying for the sake of it.
Super true about faking the funk in order to get ppl to let their guard down to gain trust and information from certain people
I am only 6 minutes in and I feel so exposed. 😅 It's like how are you looking right through me.😂🙈
-esfp
Wash face with ice water
I put the vid on X1.5 speed and ma boi was still speakin slow
This video is okay but I wish he would quit comparing esfps to enfps this isn't a video about efps.. lol it's about esfps