My Experience Being A Gay Police Officer | My Coming Out Story

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  • @shitsugane
    @shitsugane 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    This makes me so proud. Yes. Just a man, first. Really proud of you. And it's an inspiration.

  • @jt7794
    @jt7794 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    Congratulations 🎉 man! You're bave and not ashame for who you are. I am one of your subscribers I didn't know you were in Tennessee and it was one of the state that I've planned to move and own my house...one ❤ man my regards to your fiance. Salut from Ohio

    • @Coffee_withtoast
      @Coffee_withtoast  18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for the kind words!

    • @jt7794
      @jt7794 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Coffee_withtoast you're welcome man you deserve it and thank for your service.

  • @goldfinchxx
    @goldfinchxx 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Hey, man, thank you a lot for this video. Videos like yours really help me (and many others I suppose) to see that there are no predefined traits/interests/jobs and you can be successful in anything, you really are a role model. Thank you.

  • @markfortuin7111
    @markfortuin7111 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I think you have the courage, mental fortitude & strength, both physical and emotional to forge ahead. Follow your convictions. Don’t let anyone or anything deter you. Now go and enjoy a good cuppa ☕️.

  • @JuanRodriguez0883
    @JuanRodriguez0883 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Very relatable. Army veteran here and also fellow police officer now. Also gay!. Stay safe brother.

    • @Coffee_withtoast
      @Coffee_withtoast  9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You too bro

    • @shitsugane
      @shitsugane 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      I'm so proud of you all.

  • @frankrossmann8470
    @frankrossmann8470 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Congratulations dear. I respect your choice of coming out. Be strong, be gentle with yourself and you are giving a wonderful example to your community. Yours, Frank, Berlin Germany

  • @terenceconner9196
    @terenceconner9196 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Congratulations on all your achievements in your career. You are a brave young man, be safe out there doing your job. Don’t give up hope for a better relationship with your parents. Happy New Year to you and your fiancée 🥂.✌🏾

  • @Shortstuff1985-t1q
    @Shortstuff1985-t1q 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I lived almost my whole life trying to be straight to fit the "norm" I'm 39 and finally came out at 35. Props bro.

  • @leonduplessis
    @leonduplessis 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I could not hear anything in the vlog, but I think you are a brave man to work in that type of enviroment. I am sorry about your parents not being able to accept who you are and that is really a terrible thing to go through. Wishing you and your fiance a bright future together. Happy 2025!

  • @briankeeferbriankeefer3316
    @briankeeferbriankeefer3316 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Congratulations on navigating through the career journey, and for “ sealing the deal” with your fiancé and be able to live your best life. Prosperous and successful New Year!!! And the continual pursuit of the perfect cup of coffee lol

  • @MRJLS15
    @MRJLS15 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Congratulations! I love that you're opening up to us, and I'm excited for your journey and more.

    • @Coffee_withtoast
      @Coffee_withtoast  18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for watching and for the support!

  • @The_Black_Caps
    @The_Black_Caps 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am glad i discovered yalls channel now, sending much love :)

  • @calvind2054
    @calvind2054 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I’m sorry that your parents didn’t respond well, but it’s more important to live in your truth regardless, just as you are doing. It’s your life that has to be accountable to your future. Parents are given the choice, unfortunately, to walk with you or not. So hopefully they will decide not to miss all of it. Things do change sometimes. ❤
    Both of my parents passed away before I got the opportunity to tell them, although I certainly that my father knew from something he once said. I will never know though how it would have been received. Sometimes, I wish that I did know, was it accepted or not. And I don’t have that to hold onto. We only have the lives that were given to us, is something I like to say.

  • @MM-cy1tc
    @MM-cy1tc 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Nice video. Isn't it something how painful it is when your family is not able to fully accept you. There is such a deep wound there and you can see that you are still hurt by this. I hope that your mother has come around.

  • @rodericwalter2862
    @rodericwalter2862 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Congratulations, sir! And thanks for your service.

  • @arthurdavis9386
    @arthurdavis9386 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Congratulations, for having the courage to inform folks about you . I'm sorry that you had to experience that with your mother n the treatment behind it. It's sad that your parents or folks can't handle your sexual preferences. U still a man at the end of the day. It's your life, and the folks n parents need to be supportive .Especially at that age of being 17 yrs old 👍
    If you had never stated it, no one would know your sexual preferences. Stay strong n live in your truth. Love youself and love those who ❤️ you💯

  • @collinellis1051
    @collinellis1051 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I salute you on the courage u have to come out just continue to be u self

  • @SuperCommando60
    @SuperCommando60 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    glad your command is supportive...was wondering how that worked out considering the environment. my guess would have been that the Marines today would have been more supportive than a southern PD. I am married to a Navy/AF vet, and at the time of his enlistment there was active investigatory action taken against anyone who was suspected of being gay...different world now. hope the 'friend' who outed you realized the breach of trust and apologized.

    • @Coffee_withtoast
      @Coffee_withtoast  9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He only made it about 6 months before he realized the job wasn't for him. Haven't heard from him since!

  • @ronsmith2241
    @ronsmith2241 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Congratulations. I hope you find a wonderful man as your fiance. You deserve that. I hope things get better with you family.

  • @robbieross6646
    @robbieross6646 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thanks for sharing. Blessings to you.

  • @TransientSoul-er2cp
    @TransientSoul-er2cp 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    But u haven't talked about ur coming out story from ur parents side.
    Wish u make it out as well.
    Btw, congratulations 🎉 u r the inspiration for many like u.
    Keep inspiring them.
    Love from India ❤

  • @Carl-x8y3c
    @Carl-x8y3c 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I want to say this. You are open minded , which will serve you well in your position as a police officer. Some straight people aren't open minded , and they can let their prejudices affect their views about things. I wish you well .

  • @ted1091
    @ted1091 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great video. Thank you

  • @curt349
    @curt349 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You are a handsome guy Wish you were in the Dallas area

  • @gregorymanigo6791
    @gregorymanigo6791 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Congrats you are awesome!!

  • @chrisb2844
    @chrisb2844 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Interesting story from a very fine respectable man in the police force and community, so if you see me flying through the area in TN, don't ticket me too hard ok lol!!

  • @vaughnparkes
    @vaughnparkes 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Interesting story! It was evident that you were nervous whilst putting across your story. Try to employ some practice speaking in front of the camera with your topic in mind for solely building more confidence.

  • @havingyouthere
    @havingyouthere 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow❤

  • @PreciousPrecious-qi7rp
    @PreciousPrecious-qi7rp 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤❤

  • @dominicjeromeh4979
    @dominicjeromeh4979 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you, am not an attractive cryer 😢😢❤❤

  • @rickyrichardson7240
    @rickyrichardson7240 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    👑🦾

  • @CabriniDivo
    @CabriniDivo 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    💯💯💯❤️

  • @CabriniDivo
    @CabriniDivo 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Me I can even keep it as a secret 😭

  • @AlfredoF75
    @AlfredoF75 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi, greetngs from Mexico City..

  • @store-i4p
    @store-i4p 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    you are the real masculine gay, there nothing feminine about you and incredibly handsome and sexy

  • @BA-ek4oi
    @BA-ek4oi 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    💯💪🏾🚔

  • @blakeheisman8198
    @blakeheisman8198 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    are you the top or bottom?

    • @danielimpastato3466
      @danielimpastato3466 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      bro- man's a first responder and a public servant. your question is so inappropriate. get a life.

    • @summer-w1d
      @summer-w1d 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Right like what's the point smh ​@danielimpastato3466