♥️Absolutely inspiring! Testimonies of love. Truthful self talk and self reflection were key in raising and continuing to raise your kids. Roman and Julija write a guide book for others!! ♥️
Adoption will never stop but the people/person adopting or fostering need to understand the mental struggle these children will go through. You're not a hero, we're not a bandage for your infertility and you're not our parents.
It's kinda unfair, they are your parents. They have chosen to give all their love to you and only you, no matter if you are not biologically linked. Of course I'm not saying it's easy, but they are your parents and you are their child
Not everyone adopts due to fertility issues. Many have kids, enter foster care bc they can't stand the idea of kids leaving in group homes or orphanages. When a child becomes adoptable in foster care many people who already have kids say say yes instead of no. Many situations like this exist. It is not only due to infertility and not everyone thinks they are heros.
@@BlueberryCheesecake8 if they are our parents, they need to do better and acknowledge that they are the parents of a special needs child. There's no such thing as a fairytale adoption.
Adoptees and birth mothers are the real survivors, but yeah, tell me more about how you suffered by choosing to purchase children from parents whose only crime was being denied the resources to raise them.
Not all biological parents are victims, some actually didn't want to have children in the first place and if they had kept them would probably be abusive and irresponsible. The fact that you are saying these people "purchased" a child is an awful generalization against adoptees that have had better opportunities and love from their adoptive parents.
@@BlueberryCheesecake8 people are forced to make decisions they otherwise would not if the circumstances of their lives and culture had been different. Deep down, no one wants to give up their child, whether by adoption or abortion.
Wow, how can I restrain myself and not to write: "This is my professor over there"!
♥️Absolutely inspiring! Testimonies of love. Truthful self talk and self reflection were key in raising and continuing to raise your kids. Roman and Julija write a guide book for others!! ♥️
Adoption will never stop but the people/person adopting or fostering need to understand the mental struggle these children will go through. You're not a hero, we're not a bandage for your infertility and you're not our parents.
It's kinda unfair, they are your parents. They have chosen to give all their love to you and only you, no matter if you are not biologically linked. Of course I'm not saying it's easy, but they are your parents and you are their child
Not everyone adopts due to fertility issues. Many have kids, enter foster care bc they can't stand the idea of kids leaving in group homes or orphanages. When a child becomes adoptable in foster care many people who already have kids say say yes instead of no. Many situations like this exist. It is not only due to infertility and not everyone thinks they are heros.
@@BlueberryCheesecake8 Not every adoption results in the adoptive parents being loving unfortunately .
powerful statement
@@BlueberryCheesecake8 if they are our parents, they need to do better and acknowledge that they are the parents of a special needs child. There's no such thing as a fairytale adoption.
Adoptees and birth mothers are the real survivors, but yeah, tell me more about how you suffered by choosing to purchase children from parents whose only crime was being denied the resources to raise them.
Not all biological parents are victims, some actually didn't want to have children in the first place and if they had kept them would probably be abusive and irresponsible. The fact that you are saying these people "purchased" a child is an awful generalization against adoptees that have had better opportunities and love from their adoptive parents.
Not always the case,some parents abuse and neglect their kids and don't do what they need to do to reverse this in the time allowed.
Amen.
@@BlueberryCheesecake8 people are forced to make decisions they otherwise would not if the circumstances of their lives and culture had been different. Deep down, no one wants to give up their child, whether by adoption or abortion.