I was listening to an older podcast episode and Emily said something about mothering. I'm not sure if this will make sense but the change from thinking of it as parenting to mothering was profound to me. I have 2 under 2 and feel like I have no idea what I'm doing and everyone everywhere seems to be telling you how to parent and that you're doing it wrong. To think that I'm mothering felt totally different. Parenting felt so intimidating to me. Mothering feels natural. Mothering makes me think of my mom and grandmas. Mothering conjured feelings of being safe, loved, and nurtured. Mothering is helping, listening and comforting. Parenting felt like it was about raising perfect humans. Mothering is loving your child and yourself despite everyone's imperfections. It was just a simple word choice for Emily but it's literally changed everything for me.
"I'll listen to the little chicken on the end of your finger, but I'm not gonna listen to you, MOM!" Jason has put the entire experience of parenthood into one concise comment. 😂😂😂
I love your podcast! I’m not really very crunchy, just a little crunchy! I look forward to it every week. It is so entertaining ! I’m a grandmother now and parenting is hard, but you know your kids best and each kid in each family is different so they have to be treated as an individual. Thanks for your perspective.
Hand over hand can be paired with singing or imagining and is how I trained my toddler to help clean up from the time he started solids. No screaming, just him either helping me clean or sitting with me until the mess is done.
As the parent of a child with ADHD/Autism I found the screaming tantrums so hard to bear. A friend advised me to 'lend him my calm' when he was having his moment. If I got upset, it just added to the problem, but by staying calm (or at least trying to appear so!😅) it helped him to calm down too. Trying to reason with a child in that completely overwhelmed state is just impossible! Hope this helps someone else - it does get better!❤
Cycle syncing with the moon is a thing! My cycle matched up with the moon after spending more time daily grounding and having a better circadian rhythm through watching the sunrise, UVA rise, and sunset, and protecting against excessive blue light.
Yes me too! I started grounding and my cycle took only three months to be totally synchronized with the moon! My husband was shocked that it was so accurate. It’s definitely a thing!
I've just taken on SMILE with my 5yr old without even knowing that's what I've been doing. Sometimes when I'm about to say something grumpy I'll say her name (in the naggy way) then end with "I love you" and she goes from so moody to the biggest smiles. Other times we just crack out the dancing.
I fully believe the moon affects us, to the degree I can’t say. I do feel certain moon cycles hold more weight in my family vs others and I don’t know what else is contributing but it is interesting for sure. Also shame on YT because they have not been sending me notifications for this podcast and the algorithm has kind of hid your content from me and I’ve been a day 1 follower. Anyways I have some podcasts to go back and listen to and I can’t wait 😘 Love you guys!
I'm with Jason on the parenting books. Nothing they suggested ever worked for me. My kids never responded the way they were "supposed" to. Lol. I got so frustrated!
Before I started staying at home I taught preschool/special education so 1. Yes the full moon makes a difference 😝 2. Hand over hand is especially helpful with kiddos who have higher needs 3. You’re definitely doing the right thing by waiting for your son to cool off before processing with him!! Their emotions are overriding their ability to think logically One other thing I’ll say is just because it’s not how you prefer to do things doesn’t make it lazy! Unless it’s endless screen time lol
I think some advice that parents need to really understand is that children will match your energy. So when kids are chaotic and being extremely out of control, you freaking out on them is only going to add more chaos. My kids have all responded 100% better when I approach them calmly and allow them to calm down. Yelling for your kids to calm down isn’t going to make them any calmer!
At this second the kids are watching TH-cam and I'm making a slurry for sour dough pretzels. So I feel the whole lazy/survival/I need this this second. It's more than a balance it feels like a interpretive dance recital
Check out We Want To Live By Aajonus Vonderplanitz 📚 Great formula recipes Great parenting tips Nutrition and Physical Degeneration By Weston A Price 📚
Trying to frame this respectfully - I do hear a lot from crunchy, homesteading, homemaking content creators particularly about the evils of too much media consumption and that they themselves don't do it much or at all. Honestly, it just bothers me. Because these creators are to some degree feeding the problem by creating highly engaging, interesting content that keeps people on their phone and making a living off of it. You're not responsible for how people use their devices by any means, and maybe that's what sort of makes everything copacetic, but you do reap benefits from terminal scrolling and feeding the beast. I never hear content creators talk about this moral quandary of their work, and I wish they would. Sometimes I feel really talked down to about the evil my devices (I dont think you guys are here) while using said device to be told it's evil - like what are we doing here people? Why are any of us here doing any of this?
@Eroxi3 Oh absolutely. I agree with you. I think more like Instagram, Facebook, short form videos - whatever platform that encourages mindless scrolling and is typically the net you cast to garner followers to consume further content to make profit (such as blog, podcast, shop, etc). I just see content creators bring on hosts or talk on their podcasts about the woes of scrolling when the thing that brought me to their podcast was finding them via scrolling. Like if you really think this is bad for people and something you yourself don't do and it encourages laziness, why are you feeding the machine ultimately? If you would never let your kids watch TV then why would you produce children's TV shows for a living - you know? Bad analogy probably.
It’s a weird position to be in. I think where we tend to fall is that there is always a time to just sit and decompress, and that’s ok! I guess the hope is that if we create content, it’s for everyone-those who only get on for 5-10 minutes a day and the doom scrollers. If people are going to watch, we want to at least give them the best-produced, highest quality content we can make. The fact that it’s a weird place to be is not lost on us. Our main hope is that our content ends up being a net benefit to people in some way or another.
@thereallyverycrunchypodcast thank you so much for responding. Thats super genuine - I appreciate it a lot just to have it addressed. Thank you for also taking my comment in the best light possible. You guys are great!
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I was listening to an older podcast episode and Emily said something about mothering. I'm not sure if this will make sense but the change from thinking of it as parenting to mothering was profound to me. I have 2 under 2 and feel like I have no idea what I'm doing and everyone everywhere seems to be telling you how to parent and that you're doing it wrong. To think that I'm mothering felt totally different. Parenting felt so intimidating to me. Mothering feels natural. Mothering makes me think of my mom and grandmas. Mothering conjured feelings of being safe, loved, and nurtured. Mothering is helping, listening and comforting. Parenting felt like it was about raising perfect humans. Mothering is loving your child and yourself despite everyone's imperfections. It was just a simple word choice for Emily but it's literally changed everything for me.
Love this!
Best pregnant/parent book
We Want To Live By Aajonus Vonderplanitz 📚
Nutrition and Physical Degeneration By Weston A Price 📚
"I'll listen to the little chicken on the end of your finger, but I'm not gonna listen to you, MOM!"
Jason has put the entire experience of parenthood into one concise comment. 😂😂😂
I love your podcast! I’m not really very crunchy, just a little crunchy! I look forward to it every week. It is so entertaining ! I’m a grandmother now and parenting is hard, but you know your kids best and each kid in each family is different so they have to be treated as an individual. Thanks for your perspective.
The wide shot looks so good, Jason!
Thank you!!!!
The adult version is turning on a Playlist of songs your teen son loves, to lure him into the kitchen for joining you on dishwashing chores 😅
I’m running 6 miles while listening! With that said definitely guilty of “lazy” parenting or just surviving. I love the SMILE acronym. Great episode!!
Emily we would like to hear more about the parasite cleanse!!
Hand over hand can be paired with singing or imagining and is how I trained my toddler to help clean up from the time he started solids. No screaming, just him either helping me clean or sitting with me until the mess is done.
You guys are doing awesome! Thanks for the content while I make dinner!
I was fully entertained this episode. 😊
“I don’t get past I, by then I am angry” 😂
As the parent of a child with ADHD/Autism I found the screaming tantrums so hard to bear. A friend advised me to 'lend him my calm' when he was having his moment. If I got upset, it just added to the problem, but by staying calm (or at least trying to appear so!😅) it helped him to calm down too. Trying to reason with a child in that completely overwhelmed state is just impossible! Hope this helps someone else - it does get better!❤
Check out We Want To Live By Aajonus Vonderplanitz 📚
Love this video! Thanks for the hard work you do ❤
Cycle syncing with the moon is a thing! My cycle matched up with the moon after spending more time daily grounding and having a better circadian rhythm through watching the sunrise, UVA rise, and sunset, and protecting against excessive blue light.
Yes me too! I started grounding and my cycle took only three months to be totally synchronized with the moon! My husband was shocked that it was so accurate. It’s definitely a thing!
First guest! 🎉 Excited to see how it goes ❤
I've just taken on SMILE with my 5yr old without even knowing that's what I've been doing. Sometimes when I'm about to say something grumpy I'll say her name (in the naggy way) then end with "I love you" and she goes from so moody to the biggest smiles. Other times we just crack out the dancing.
I fully believe the moon affects us, to the degree I can’t say. I do feel certain moon cycles hold more weight in my family vs others and I don’t know what else is contributing but it is interesting for sure.
Also shame on YT because they have not been sending me notifications for this podcast and the algorithm has kind of hid your content from me and I’ve been a day 1 follower. Anyways I have some podcasts to go back and listen to and I can’t wait 😘
Love you guys!
I'm with Jason on the parenting books. Nothing they suggested ever worked for me. My kids never responded the way they were "supposed" to. Lol. I got so frustrated!
Hang on, I need to hear more about this parasite thing
Before I started staying at home I taught preschool/special education so
1. Yes the full moon makes a difference 😝
2. Hand over hand is especially helpful with kiddos who have higher needs
3. You’re definitely doing the right thing by waiting for your son to cool off before processing with him!! Their emotions are overriding their ability to think logically
One other thing I’ll say is just because it’s not how you prefer to do things doesn’t make it lazy! Unless it’s endless screen time lol
Keep up the good podcasting you two
I think some advice that parents need to really understand is that children will match your energy. So when kids are chaotic and being extremely out of control, you freaking out on them is only going to add more chaos. My kids have all responded 100% better when I approach them calmly and allow them to calm down. Yelling for your kids to calm down isn’t going to make them any calmer!
At this second the kids are watching TH-cam and I'm making a slurry for sour dough pretzels. So I feel the whole lazy/survival/I need this this second. It's more than a balance it feels like a interpretive dance recital
I am absolutely begging you to write a Crunchy guide to pregnancy!!
Check out We Want To Live By Aajonus Vonderplanitz 📚
Great formula recipes
Great parenting tips
Nutrition and Physical Degeneration By Weston A Price 📚
My son was born a day before his due date; on a day of the full moon. I call him my full moon baby. The legend of full moon birth is true for me! 😂❤🎉
I was a dog trainer before having kids so I was obviously the best 😂😅 then I had kids 🎉😊❤
Awesome ever read Pottenger's Cats 🐈 by Francis M Pottenger 📚 BARF diet
@xeniamongan4530 there's videos on TH-cam like book summary .. I found out about it from reading We Want To Live By Aajonus Vonderplanitz 📚
So many laughs but I can’t comment on anything else since I don’t have kids. 😂
Our son started losing his teeth and started crying because he thought they grow back. Took us a while to tell him they do, it was hard to not laugh.
📚 The Care and Feeding of Children by Luther Emmett Holt (1894)
When God repeats himself in the Bible I take that as a literary version of Him yelling at me, like You need to Hear This!
Whoa! Is the buttercream gang a homeschool thing bc I’ve never known any else who knew what it was 😂 I watched those in my homeschool days in the 90s!
🤣🤣🤣
Baking soda in water or ox bile supplement should help with the heartburn. You may be consuming too much sugar or eating too late.
Sipping ice water helps
I really don’t notice anything different around the full moon, in myself or in my household or anywhere.
Trying to frame this respectfully - I do hear a lot from crunchy, homesteading, homemaking content creators particularly about the evils of too much media consumption and that they themselves don't do it much or at all. Honestly, it just bothers me. Because these creators are to some degree feeding the problem by creating highly engaging, interesting content that keeps people on their phone and making a living off of it. You're not responsible for how people use their devices by any means, and maybe that's what sort of makes everything copacetic, but you do reap benefits from terminal scrolling and feeding the beast. I never hear content creators talk about this moral quandary of their work, and I wish they would. Sometimes I feel really talked down to about the evil my devices (I dont think you guys are here) while using said device to be told it's evil - like what are we doing here people? Why are any of us here doing any of this?
A podcast is a bit different don't you think? Are you taking about Emily specifically or other people?
@Eroxi3 Oh absolutely. I agree with you. I think more like Instagram, Facebook, short form videos - whatever platform that encourages mindless scrolling and is typically the net you cast to garner followers to consume further content to make profit (such as blog, podcast, shop, etc). I just see content creators bring on hosts or talk on their podcasts about the woes of scrolling when the thing that brought me to their podcast was finding them via scrolling. Like if you really think this is bad for people and something you yourself don't do and it encourages laziness, why are you feeding the machine ultimately? If you would never let your kids watch TV then why would you produce children's TV shows for a living - you know? Bad analogy probably.
It’s a weird position to be in. I think where we tend to fall is that there is always a time to just sit and decompress, and that’s ok! I guess the hope is that if we create content, it’s for everyone-those who only get on for 5-10 minutes a day and the doom scrollers. If people are going to watch, we want to at least give them the best-produced, highest quality content we can make. The fact that it’s a weird place to be is not lost on us. Our main hope is that our content ends up being a net benefit to people in some way or another.
@thereallyverycrunchypodcast thank you so much for responding. Thats super genuine - I appreciate it a lot just to have it addressed. Thank you for also taking my comment in the best light possible. You guys are great!
@@mdmcgee Of course! It's a very interesting conversation, and might be a good topic to discuss in full.
I want to know how you de-worm! I tried a program, but the fee and supplements were WAY too expensive!
Same
Don't kill your gut bacteria ❤ diverse gut Microbiome ❤
Germs Are Friends podcast
Terrain Theory podcast
Dr Tom Cowan
Parasites are the cleaning crew of the body🤗
📚 We Want To Live By Aajonus Vonderplanitz (2005)
📚 Doctors are More Harmful Than Germs: The Truth About Chronic Illness By Harvey Bigelsen (2011)
📚 Dissolving Illusions by Roman Bystrianyk and Suzanne Humphries (2013)
📚 The Invisible Rainbow by Arthur Firstenberg (2016)
📚 What Really Makes You Ill ? By Dawn Lester and David Parker (2019)
📚 The Contagion Myth by Thomas S. Cowan MD, Sally Fallon Morell (2020)
📚 Corona, False Alarm? Facts and Figures by Karina Reiss and Sucharit Bhakdi (2020)
📚 The Truth About Contagion: Exploring Theories of How Disease Spreads by Sally Fallon & Thomas S. Cowan (2021)
📚 An End to Upside Down Medicine By Mark Gober (2023)
📚 The Final Pandemic: An Antidote To Medical Tyranny By Dr Samantha Bailey, Dr Mark Bailey (2024)
📚 Can You Catch A Cold? by Daniel Roytas (2024)
TH-cam is putting links to apps over where I can type in a comment. I don’t like their sneakiness!
Forceful
Rude
Oppressive
Wounding
Narcissist
I just learned a few weeks ago that some women are in sync with the moon. How do you know? I've tried researching, but don't know where to begin.
Please do not deworm your children if they don't have worms WTF anyway
I mean she said she wormed them. I was completely confused why she didn't say dewormed. Anyone no toxins against worms in children without worms.
Parasites/Germs/Bacteria are friends 🤗
Parasites are the cleaning crew of the body ❤
Germs Are Friends podcast
Jacob Diaz undercovervirologist
Terrain Theory podcast
Dr Tom Cowan
📚 We Want To Live By Aajonus Vonderplanitz (2005)
📚 Doctors are More Harmful Than Germs: The Truth About Chronic Illness By Harvey Bigelsen (2011)
📚 Dissolving Illusions by Roman Bystrianyk and Suzanne Humphries (2013)
📚 The Invisible Rainbow by Arthur Firstenberg (2016)
📚 What Really Makes You Ill ? By Dawn Lester and David Parker (2019)
📚 The Contagion Myth by Thomas S. Cowan MD, Sally Fallon Morell (2020)
📚 The Truth About Contagion: Exploring Theories of How Disease Spreads by Sally Fallon & Thomas S. Cowan (2021)
📚 An End to Upside Down Medicine By Mark Gober (2023)
📚 The Final Pandemic: An Antidote To Medical Tyranny By Dr Samantha Bailey, Dr Mark Bailey (2024)
📚 Can You Catch A Cold? by Daniel Roytas (2024)