And that's why there are so many problems between MILs & DILs. MILs want everything to go their way, because no one is ever good enough for her son in her eyes. Keep your opinions to yourself and maybe, just maybe you MILs won't have this scenario happen to you.
Finally a story that is about a strong independent woman responsible for her own success. There are too many story’s that have a woman who obeys or is abused by their husband or mother-in-law.. more storylines like this please x
There have actually been a few stories where the FMC had a strong backbone and took no shit from the antagonist, be it crappy MILs, a-hole husbands, or toxic family members
I love some of these stories that the MIL is a jerk!! Especially when the DIL tries to work with the MIL and gets fed up with her and let's her have it!! Those are the best!! LOL
She thinks that she's the matriarch of the family, so she has absolute power, and nobody is allowed to question or disobey her. Personally, if I had a MIL like Phyllis, I would be catching a case for assault because I would be giving her some rather vigorous percussive maintenance to the noggin to make her remember her place and to help her check her privilege.
My mother was like Phyllis. Always asking when my next vacation was, assuming we would spend it together, me doing all the work. It got to the point I told her I didn't have vacations because I was having to use up my annual leave in place of sick leave because the stress of dealing with her was too much.
I love the story where the husband defends his wife is from his stupid mean mom at all 😂😂😂😂 why don't this mother ln law mind of her business instead of interfere her sons ḿarried life at all so annoying that some mother-in-law loves to cause trouble in their children's life especially in married life.😮😮😮
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Men doing the housework ain't anything new. My Dad did his share, and he was a truckie. As for Phyllis, "Strong the narcissistic projection with this one is." And now she wonders why karma bit her in the britches.
My dad mainly cooked, but he helped as he could. Husband is an OTR trucker, so he isn't home much, but he helps as he can as well. NO reason for a man to not help!
@@wendymonkelien-brown579 I could think of several reasons as to why not help with various reasons, but the only reasons to not do anything at all would be serious impairments (physical or mental) or the extremely, extremely clumsy / unlucky type
@@Robbini0 I have an extremely clumsy/unlucky type, but he still helps when he's home, but yes, there may be some times. Just don't think that was what we all are talking about though.....
@@wendymonkelien-brown579 No, i understood that there shouldn't be any reasons for why they shouldn't do any work, I just mentioned some of the rarer cases that are actually legitimate. I mean, there are several stories in this or other similar channels about very feverishly sick or highly pregnant women being forced to do chores, so I just thought i'd mention some which aren't necessarily as time limited.
One of those rare and epically fun stories with a strong, feisty, intelligent and witty female OP that stands her ground from start to finish 😂. Loved her so much and the beautifully smooth way she deftly dealt with the wicked and childish MIL....such a refreshing change to the usual put-upon submissive and downtrodden OPs. Yaaaay
In Germany. I would be nordpossible, to get a divorce quickly. after filing for divorce, you have to wait one year, before it is finalised, then a judge in court makes it official, even if the separation is in consent. So I am always really astonished as well, to read about this divorces. I thought it’s like this in the US.
Yeah some southern traditions especially the ones with the in-laws who want the daughter in laws to be docile and obedient are so pathetic i mean I’m sorry but that’s my opinion
1. The voices on these videos are mostly annoying. That's why I turn the volume off and read it. 2. Abusive MIL syndrome is not just a southern thing. It crosses all cultures. The root cause is a mother who thinks that she has to make her son's life fit her standards. The worst scenario is the emotional incest situation where the mother and son are so emotionally tied that mommy always comes first in his life.
Phyllis ruined her life & seems to be a bit judgemental & clingy. She only realized she should behave after learning she was going to be a grandma & that OP made enough for Kevin to be a househusband which he's fine with, she became even more desperate after finding out she was getting a divorce & being cut off by her family over the actions she should have stopped before it was too late. I'm guessing they didn't press charges on her for forgery in exchange for leaving with her brother to move in with him for a bit. I say this cause OP said they had everything setup to report her for illegally trying to send in divorce papers for OP & Kevin but there's no mention of it after it's mentioned.
Wow, that's some MIL. She needs to mind her own business .Instead of butting into her Dil's life and dictating how Dil should conduct her life, Mil should be happy that her son actually likes helping his wife with the housework. My mother, when she was alive, had this simple quote, "Many hands make light work." She was correct.😊 My husband would help me with the housework, whenever I needed the help. Most times I'd do it myself, but on those days that I was tired , he'd gladly help, especially with 4 little ones we were raising.I'm glad that this husband and wife stood up to his mother/her Mil and told her where to stuff her remarks.😊❤ There's absolutely nothing wrong wrong with a man's help , just as there's nothing wrong with a grown man shedding some tears when they need to. Doing these things doesn't make them any less a man.😊❤❤
It depends. In some places if the divorce papers are signed by both parties and depending on the other sections in the paper work, it doesn’t need a judge.
@@Mehp2 these are portrayed as being in the states. A judge has to sign your divorce petition in the states to become divorced. You also need to show ID at the court to prove who you are. This is done so someone can’t make you divorced because they’re mad at you or your spouse, and it takes months and months to get divorced just from the backlog of cases in family court. Most states have a minimum amount of time that you have to be separated before you can divorce.
This story teaches one thing very important, which is to never allow anybody to insult, abuse, and use you like a doormat. If the character Carla had put her down the first time when she tried to insult her things wouldn't have gone that far. Also both the male characters are portrayed as spineless aholes who can't stand up for themselves. Learn to stand up against abuse and insults even if it will end your relationship. It is better off to live without spineless aholes. Women should be loving and kind, but also stern and straight. Be loving and kind to those do the same, and stern and straight to the face to those arrogant narcissists.
My obligation to my mother-in-law is curtesy. The woman who is my husbands mother may or may not have my respect, kindness, and willing help. Nobody has a right to claim automatic blind obedience.
I was a good mother-in-law and me and my daughter-in-law got along great but her mom didn't like my son. When my granddaughter was almost a year old my daughter-in-law's mom came and got my daughter-in-law & granddaughter and took them away leaving my son. That was 18 years ago and I haven't seen my granddaughter since. My son was always good to my daughter-in-law but it was his mother-in-law that was the problem. My son is very happy now with a very nice and sweet girl.
Lol it seems to be a running thing in mil stories. You just have to sign papers and give them to whatever government entity oversees such things. No notarized papers. No division of assets. Just sign, or in this case, forge some forms and you're divorced. Nevada has quickie marriages, maybe they have quickie divorces? I know way back in the 40s, if a woman wanted a "quick" divorce they would have to move to Reno and establish residency for a specific number of weeks. There was also the option of going to Mexico. I'm not sure how that worked but I think you could get married and divorced easily there... at least that's how it worked in movies and television. 😂
So the DIl seems to have a few things wrong. Her husband is still HER son. She's STILL gonna have a dil and she's still gonna be that grandmother of that baby. even if you cut her off. she's still gonna be next of kin if anything happens to op, her husband and her fil... i swear the Op's are just as dumb as the bullies in theses now.
Getting really tired of these unrealistically quick divorces (one commenter below said they’re in their fifth year of that process) and the ability of family members to forge paperwork and submit it without them getting in legal trouble for it (that situation is probably THE reason many jurisdictions require them to be signed in the presence of a notary!). One more channel to rediscover and I’m outta here.
Good for Carla, Kevin and Carl for getting rid of that toxic woman from their lives.
And that's why there are so many problems between MILs & DILs. MILs want everything to go their way, because no one is ever good enough for her son in her eyes. Keep your opinions to yourself and maybe, just maybe you MILs won't have this scenario happen to you.
I love this daughter in law! Her "no shits given" attitude and the fact that she doesn't let her warmongering mother-in-law get her riled up.
I cant imagine doing housework for someone as abusive as Phyllis. I can't imagine willingly continuing contact with an abuser either.
My tolerance for their nonsense would be very low. I'm spiteful like that.
Finally a story that is about a strong independent woman responsible for her own success. There are too many story’s that have a woman who obeys or is abused by their husband or mother-in-law.. more storylines like this please x
There have actually been a few stories where the FMC had a strong backbone and took no shit from the antagonist, be it crappy MILs, a-hole husbands, or toxic family members
I love some of these stories that the MIL is a jerk!! Especially when the DIL tries to work with the MIL and gets fed up with her and let's her have it!! Those are the best!! LOL
Apostrophes aren’t plural. You either mean “stories”, or it’s possessive.
acknowledging the 50/50 house work would be cool. It's not a successful man or woman. It's successful partners
@@katsnboots4709my DH and I always say “Marriage is not 50/50, it’s 100/100.”
I'm from a Southern family. Carla should tell Phyllis "Bless your heart"😂
I agree.
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😂 oh yes, the phrase to strike terror in your heart !
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Don't forget it's a "bless your heart" with the sad shake of the head.
Phyllis is the kind of person who hate the fact nobody doesn’t listen to her
She thinks that she's the matriarch of the family, so she has absolute power, and nobody is allowed to question or disobey her.
Personally, if I had a MIL like Phyllis, I would be catching a case for assault because I would be giving her some rather vigorous percussive maintenance to the noggin to make her remember her place and to help her check her privilege.
And nobody ever will.
Carla and Kevin won't be getting divorced.
But Phyllis and Carl definitely will be.
Tooo true😅😅
She's so controlling but nobody listens to her so funny😅😅😅
Oh please go away don't know how your husband puts up with you😅😅😅
Karma: “Welp! I didn’t even lift a finger here! LOL!”
If the married couple is happy and working well together, the MIL should butt out! On another note, the DIL is sassy and I love it.
My mother was like Phyllis. Always asking when my next vacation was, assuming we would spend it together, me doing all the work. It got to the point I told her I didn't have vacations because I was having to use up my annual leave in place of sick leave because the stress of dealing with her was too much.
You really need to cut ties
Phyllis is stuck in the 1940's. She really needs to shut up and show herself OUT of her Son's Marriage. Kevin appears to be a strong man.
I love the story where the husband defends his wife is from his stupid mean mom at all 😂😂😂😂 why don't this mother ln law mind of her business instead of interfere her sons ḿarried life at all so annoying that some mother-in-law loves to cause trouble in their children's life especially in married life.😮😮😮
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I had one of those, thank God. She is finally in hell now.
Men doing the housework ain't anything new. My Dad did his share, and he was a truckie. As for Phyllis, "Strong the narcissistic projection with this one is." And now she wonders why karma bit her in the britches.
My dad mainly cooked, but he helped as he could. Husband is an OTR trucker, so he isn't home much, but he helps as he can as well. NO reason for a man to not help!
@@wendymonkelien-brown579 Exactly.
@@wendymonkelien-brown579 I could think of several reasons as to why not help with various reasons, but the only reasons to not do anything at all would be serious impairments (physical or mental) or the extremely, extremely clumsy / unlucky type
@@Robbini0 I have an extremely clumsy/unlucky type, but he still helps when he's home, but yes, there may be some times. Just don't think that was what we all are talking about though.....
@@wendymonkelien-brown579 No, i understood that there shouldn't be any reasons for why they shouldn't do any work, I just mentioned some of the rarer cases that are actually legitimate.
I mean, there are several stories in this or other similar channels about very feverishly sick or highly pregnant women being forced to do chores, so I just thought i'd mention some which aren't necessarily as time limited.
It appears "majority rules" is one expression that always eluded Phyllis.
oh the return of these voices....
When Phyllis said "Let's go, the two of us" and I was all "Oh hell'z no!"
I have often wondered how, during texting, the other person can actually interrupt you message.
Crazy story, who would fill out divorce papers on a dare? I bet FIL planned the whole thing lol
One of those rare and epically fun stories with a strong, feisty, intelligent and witty female OP that stands her ground from start to finish 😂. Loved her so much and the beautifully smooth way she deftly dealt with the wicked and childish MIL....such a refreshing change to the usual put-upon submissive and downtrodden OPs. Yaaaay
Phyllis you need to mind your business you silly billy.
Phyllis sounds like she would order boiling hot bowl of ice and complain to the manager it melted
Where on Earth can you go to get a divorce so quick? Took me over a damn year!
I'm in year five and still fighting... I'm jealous too ^^"
In Germany. I would be nordpossible, to get a divorce quickly. after filing for divorce, you have to wait one year, before it is finalised, then a judge in court makes it official, even if the separation is in consent. So I am always really astonished as well, to read about this divorces. I thought it’s like this in the US.
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Great story!
Phyllis, 3 words for ya...kiss my grits!
Good Lord, the mother-in-law voice makes my head hurt. Feel dumber every minute that I listen to an accent like that.
Yeah some southern traditions especially the ones with the in-laws who want the daughter in laws to be docile and obedient are so pathetic i mean I’m sorry but that’s my opinion
1. The voices on these videos are mostly annoying. That's why I turn the volume off and read it. 2. Abusive MIL syndrome is not just a southern thing. It crosses all cultures. The root cause is a mother who thinks that she has to make her son's life fit her standards. The worst scenario is the emotional incest situation where the mother and son are so emotionally tied that mommy always comes first in his life.
To clarify, it is not the traditions shown in this video that make it feel like I grow dumber just by listening to it. It is the southern accent.
What's up with these monster in laws attacking the Dil's, jealousy is all it is...
Op should have said 'Jeslously is a diease, get well soon'
How do people in these stories think filing divorce papers for others would work?
Phyllis ruined her life & seems to be a bit judgemental & clingy. She only realized she should behave after learning she was going to be a grandma & that OP made enough for Kevin to be a househusband which he's fine with, she became even more desperate after finding out she was getting a divorce & being cut off by her family over the actions she should have stopped before it was too late.
I'm guessing they didn't press charges on her for forgery in exchange for leaving with her brother to move in with him for a bit. I say this cause OP said they had everything setup to report her for illegally trying to send in divorce papers for OP & Kevin but there's no mention of it after it's mentioned.
Wow, that's some MIL. She needs to mind her own business .Instead of butting into her Dil's life and dictating how Dil should conduct her life, Mil should be happy that her son actually likes helping his wife with the housework. My mother, when she was alive, had this simple quote, "Many hands make light work." She was correct.😊 My husband would help me with the housework, whenever I needed the help. Most times I'd do it myself, but on those days that I was tired , he'd gladly help, especially with 4 little ones we were raising.I'm glad that this husband and wife stood up to his mother/her Mil and told her where to stuff her remarks.😊❤ There's absolutely nothing wrong wrong with a man's help , just as there's nothing wrong with a grown man shedding some tears when they need to. Doing these things doesn't make them any less a man.😊❤❤
Phyllis seriously needs to get a life and not stop getting on nerves with her actions and ridiculous behavior.
Mil like this woukd drive me insane.
A judge has to grant your divorce in a court.
It depends. In some places if the divorce papers are signed by both parties and depending on the other sections in the paper work, it doesn’t need a judge.
@@Mehp2 these are portrayed as being in the states. A judge has to sign your divorce petition in the states to become divorced. You also need to show ID at the court to prove who you are. This is done so someone can’t make you divorced because they’re mad at you or your spouse, and it takes months and months to get divorced just from the backlog of cases in family court. Most states have a minimum amount of time that you have to be separated before you can divorce.
A couple who cleave to each other, it's easy when your mother/MIL is like that; Phyllis sounds very bossy.
Love the DIL's trolling.
Mother-in-law doesn't like daughter-in-law because daughter-in-law speaks her mind. I love the daughter-in-law 😂😂😂
Really really REALLY beginning to hate these surprise CEO stories.
I call it the “Secret CEO” 😂
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Her husband is a good person, her mother-in-law is bad, but in return, she has a husband who understands and loves
If my MIL had ever treated me this way, she'd have gotten a hearty "F You" and "MYOB" about two sentences in.
Y the hell do these mil think that their dil becomes their slave marrying in to the family.
Phyllis decided she'd rather be a widow than a divorcee, and smiled all the way to prison.
Carl would have had to split the assets or pay alimony.
This story teaches one thing very important, which is to never allow anybody to insult, abuse, and use you like a doormat. If the character Carla had put her down the first time when she tried to insult her things wouldn't have gone that far. Also both the male characters are portrayed as spineless aholes who can't stand up for themselves. Learn to stand up against abuse and insults even if it will end your relationship. It is better off to live without spineless aholes. Women should be loving and kind, but also stern and straight. Be loving and kind to those do the same, and stern and straight to the face to those arrogant narcissists.
Amazing how the abusers start "getting religion" when they smell money, ain't it?
This was a good one
I love this one! A DIL with spunk!
Momma may be a totally horrible person, but have to love her voice and speech.
I don't mind a Southern accent, but at least make it authentic.
That mom is just clueless
My obligation to my mother-in-law is curtesy. The woman who is my husbands mother may or may not have my respect, kindness, and willing help. Nobody has a right to claim automatic blind obedience.
Hahaha! My husband likes me better when I'm at work🙄
It sounds like Phyllis has a bit of a southern accent.
Bless her heart. 😊
That's because she does
Oh my goodness! I think they modeled Phyllis after my mother!
I was a good mother-in-law and me and my daughter-in-law got along great but her mom didn't like my son. When my granddaughter was almost a year old my daughter-in-law's mom came and got my daughter-in-law & granddaughter and took them away leaving my son. That was 18 years ago and I haven't seen my granddaughter since. My son was always good to my daughter-in-law but it was his mother-in-law that was the problem. My son is very happy now with a very nice and sweet girl.
You stay away from me and my baby (sy)phyllis.
Oh boy
44 minutes in
Nice background..thanks for
If I had a mother-in-law would tell her to mind her own damn business
In what universe is a divorce only a few days????
Lol it seems to be a running thing in mil stories. You just have to sign papers and give them to whatever government entity oversees such things. No notarized papers. No division of assets. Just sign, or in this case, forge some forms and you're divorced. Nevada has quickie marriages, maybe they have quickie divorces? I know way back in the 40s, if a woman wanted a "quick" divorce they would have to move to Reno and establish residency for a specific number of weeks. There was also the option of going to Mexico. I'm not sure how that worked but I think you could get married and divorced easily there... at least that's how it worked in movies and television. 😂
@@teresabillings8378😂😂😅😅
So the DIl seems to have a few things wrong. Her husband is still HER son. She's STILL gonna have a dil and she's still gonna be that grandmother of that baby. even if you cut her off. she's still gonna be next of kin if anything happens to op, her husband and her fil... i swear the Op's are just as dumb as the bullies in theses now.
~ 15:24 ~ Did they just go meta?!!
All those Apple text format accounts should buy some imagination. Seems like 5 stories keep being retold over and over.
PHYLLIS LISTEN UP AND LISTEN GOOD THERE TOO CUPCAKE
Way too long
Badly selfish mother
I really wish they'd share if the baby was born female or male, or at least the baby's name!
For me, the story just feels unfinished/incomplete. 😢
I'm confused, does OP live with Phyllis? How does she know laundry isn't done?
she stole an extra key and was snooping around.🦝
Her voices are getting worse... Did not think that was possible... Shame.. I know she is trying. But sadly have to leave again... no like button again
put it on mute and read it. that’s what i did and it was very good👌 like a book
Do you people just not edit your videos or read these before recording? Too many errors that could be fixed with those two solutions
Babyyyyyyyy the daughter in law is very petty and straight Savage 😂😂
They are not getting divorced got it!!!!!
Another nosey mother in law she should keep her nose out of peoples business
Mother in law needs a gag
Or a Scolds Bridle 😂
Getting really tired of these unrealistically quick divorces (one commenter below said they’re in their fifth year of that process) and the ability of family members to forge paperwork and submit it without them getting in legal trouble for it (that situation is probably THE reason many jurisdictions require them to be signed in the presence of a notary!). One more channel to rediscover and I’m outta here.
Why’d you make the mil sound like the rooster from Looney Tunes?
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Some MILs are so old fashioned.
Ha Ha
The sarcasm is real
Damnnnnnnn lady you lost your whole family by derailing your own train
Deluded woman😅😅😅😅😅
The voice actors are so bad that I couldn’t even finish the video
These mother-in-law stories are ripe.
Never phyllis😅😅😅😅
Same old same old. Who/what ever writes these strange little stories needs some new ideas!
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It's disgusting how these mom's keep calling their grown ass sons little boys
Monster-In-Law strikes again
Kevin is a great husband
why is it that the worst misogynics in these stories is always a woman i.e. the horrible MIL?