Why People GHOSTED Their Best Friend
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*Sometimes best friends aren’t exactly the best.* - Me, Zero/Chriss.
They can even be not your friend at all. Some people you just don't need to mess with😔
True... this is why I sometimes rather be a loner but then again I got mocked for not having friends 💀
@@anonymousina9210 same
for reals
@@anonymousina9210 I KNOW THE FEELING 💀
Who tf tells someone to “get over” their son passing away?! Their child freaking *passed away* and you’re telling them to just “get over it”??!!!
I am glad they ghosted them. I would have done the same thing tbh.
just say passed away it’s better choice of words 😊
Passed away is a better word to say. But yeah, getting over a loved one's death is very hard to do. So yeah thankfully he or she ghosted their friend.
was it a mean “get over ur son’s death jenna, seriously” or “come on jenna…he’s in a better place… try to get over it…”
F that so called ''friend''
@@undercoveryoutuber8489 I think both are bad- loss isn't something you have to "get over," esp for a parent. grief is not linear or timely, it is going to take as long as it takes and nobody should feel like they have to stop mourning the death of their child because they are in someone else's timeframe.
I've learned that some so-called "friends" don't really like you. They just tolerate you because you'll do them favors. Nobody is obligated to like you but you are not obligated keep company with those that don't.
So truu I have just recently realised this that my so call "friends" r not for me and r only around when they need a favor
Tbh, my so-called "friend" since 2nd grade just doesn't want me around, nor do the rest of my "friends". I just like to play video games by myself and play with online friends.
@@strwzberyy Well I hope one day that u get friends that will stay by u no matter wat 😁❤️
I've had a couple of "friends" like that. Never really felt quite comfortable around them, but tried to chalk it up to my generalized anxiety and paranoia. Turns out they never did like me. It was kinda traumatizing, but I learned you definitely gotta trust your gut feeling. Vibes are real.
@@jessarie98 well I hope u find great friends one day will appreciate u for who u r and have a great day! 💗🙏🏾
This is why I am so glad for my best friend. She's a kind soul. We used to be just an on and off fling, but it turned into a great friendship.
So happy for u!!
What sucks the most is not cutting ties with the friends, but mutual friends trying to get involved and wanting to play mediator so "you guys can talk things out". I had a friend who wouldn't stop for about 2 years. It was the only thing that he would talk about. How he wanted to invite me to things, but the friend I cut was also part of the group. I was like "no worries, we can hang out just you and I one on one". He didn't get it until he too had a fall out with the same girl.
Ohhhh my gosh yes. I was being bullied by a girl at school and another girl was like 'just relax, don't lash out, talk it out', etc. even though I was defending myself (verbally), and had tried talking it out multiple times although it only ended in said girl crying and/or running while claiming (LOUDLY) I hated her. Only when another girl started bullying her did she stop trying to get me to 'calm down' or 'talk it out' because then she understood why I couldn't.
Oh man i despise those type of people. Ngl i would say, i was kinda like that, but only to myself. Like no matter what i did or the other person did, i always thought to just talk it out. Broke the habbit by thinking what i did it and why and so on.
Theres always whys how things cannot be fix. I'm just glad i know that i can't fix everything now.
I'm so glad these people left their fake friends. Out of respect, I wouldn't ignore them, but if your 'friends' don't care about you, those aren't your friends. Best to end that relationship.
Ellen saying “you can’t tell someone the trip is free and then make them pay” just immediately reminded me of Tom Nook, that manipulator >:(
He’s a big child labor supporter too >:/
No he's not! He makes you pay debt yet, but im thankful that theres no time limit! You can literally not pay it for like a year, and he won't be mad! #TomNookSupporter
@@Gamer_Dynamite69 lmao u rightttt it is good that there’s no time limit but like still what the heckie doodle Tom :( he made us pay for the phone service stuff when he was the one who gave it to us lol
Lmaooooooo
The wedding one was just sad. The only thing I could see a bride/husband getting mad over is someone proposing at their wedding without permission. They can't help it if they need a cast on your wedding day 😤. Bridezilla much?
Yayy another video after dinner! I ghosted my ex best friend because she was actually really toxic and it took me over a year to realize :/ thinking back on it, she gaslighted me into thinking it was my fault our friendship was falling apart and stuff… let’s just say September 2021 was the worst month of my life. I’m so much happier and feel more free without her now!
BRO SAMEEE it took me almost 2 years to realize my ex bsf was toxic and I needed to leave her,she's had many chances luckily I left her on New Year's Eve
It took me 5 years to realize, and damn we cut ties with them at the same time
1) I had a best friend for 10+ years. I spent my whole childhood with her. When we grew up, we went to different college but our bond was still the same. Then, I got to know what she says about me behind my back. When I confronted her, she had nothing to say and started blaming me. I stopped talking to her. She, then, started spreading disgusting rumors about me.
I was always a shy yet really friendly person. But her rumors ruined my whole image.
2) Other best friend, who I've known for 5 years, fell in love with me. I told him that I don't feel the same way about him. He knew that I had a really huge crush on someone else. One day, he said something bad about him. I told him not to say that as I don't like it. But few days later, he started saying things about him again and tried really hard to make me hate him. On top of that, he started making me feel uncomfortable when we used to meet. I couldn't take it anymore and stopped talking to him as well.
So, yeah... I'm really scared to make friends now.
The “friend crush but you don’t like them back so they bully and manipulate you” was my childhood friend. I’m aromantic (I don’t fall in love) and pretty ugly, so I never had a crush and no one up until that friend had liked me. After she confessed, a friend I had who had been manipulated me and someone else in my group (but we were outvoted by the other friends when we tried to push her out of the group) rubbed it into my face that the friend with a crush on me looked heartbroken. I then thought rejecting someone was the worst feeling in the world. When I first joined high school, a popular girl asked me out jokingly, and with my past trauma, I agreed to date her if we kept it a secret. She humiliated me in front of the whole school (our school is massive btw, 300+ people in the GRADE), outing me as bisexual in the process (we were both girls), and nearly sexually assaulted me (I luckily managed to avoid it, but she tried) I couldn’t explain what I was going through with anyone at the school because they’re all Christian and I didn’t want to further damage my reputation by saying I was aro. Since both the friend who liked me AND the popular girl were girls like me, if I weren’t bisexual, I would have turned homophobic so fast like oml-
Edit: oh and btw I just remembered - the friend with a crush on me bullied me too, not just the manipulative friend
@@falsealarm_9865aromantic people are just not romantic or ambiguously romantic in nature it doesn’t mean that they can’t fall in love
Why would you tell someone to get over someone’s death that was very close to them. . . That’s just horrible
I didn't ghost her, but I mentioned something about my dad's death that happened when I was 8 and she said "Yeah but that was a long time ago." like it was no big deal. She has a dad but he is a pilot meaning he is gone a lot of the time, so I think that she thinks she has it similar, even though it isn't. I mean at least she knows he's coming back ...
Anyway, she and her family are also homophobic, like REALLY homophobic. She thinks Pride Month shouldn't even exist. No way I'm telling her I'm bisexual. I feel like she'd only acknowledge "the part of me who likes boys" even though I prefer girls. Yeah, now that I'm thinking about it, she's a bit toxic ...
This might be hard but it's best to cut off that relationship.
@@marytichelaar7225 Yeah, probably. I put this in when my health class held an anonymous personal problem discussion and they all said the same thing. I'm thinking of writing her a letter about it, and also coming out to her, so I don't have to say it to her face ...
@@novasapphire2865 as long as you do what's best for you, that would ultimately matters in the end.
@@marytichelaar7225 Thank you, I appreciate it a lot!
@@NaishiYT No, she actually does have a strong relationship with him
True friends are those who are there for you, who stick up for you, and are always there through the bad and the good. I have friends that fit these qualities. I am truly grateful for them.
I ghosted a friend of over 30 + years when I told her that I had become severely sighted (Blind)
She just said 'But you can still see 👀!" And that was that.
Maybe she didn’t understand what that meant??
I’m sorry if I sound a bit rude, but maybe you should have just explained it to her instead of ghosting her immediately.
But you can still see how did you typed this message unless you have glasses? Wait no you are blind? Right?
@@calliarichards4895 blind people can type still. also there are apps and settings that you can use on your phone to read what you wrote if you want to make sure you didnt make a typo.
@@calliarichards4895 Text to speech??
@@navareeves8976 Yeah I use text to speech or vise a versa. I use to touch type as well before I lost my sight.
If I was the second person, I would’ve told that so-called “fRiEnD” not to contact me again, threatened to call the police if she did, and then blocked her. OP did not deserve to go through what they did
My “best friend” ( also my forced roommate chosen by my parents)always foodshames me , I have been underweight all my life and just when I thought I could gain some weight she does this , then moves on to complain I drink too much no not alcohol, water... not to mention all the years of calling me dumb idiot so I shake so much before asking my teacher for help , if I get a question wrong it’s my fault if she does it’s because the department is wrong they should not ask such questions, I am still stuck with her for 6 months at least till I move out for collage.
That first girl definitely needed to ghosted. That's messed up. 😕
When I was going through mental trauma and PTSD from my ex my bestfriend straight up said
"It's not that big of a deal, she's just has to get over it". I got pissed off at her and left the gc, and they added me back and i saw her say "there it is' like she was expecting me me to leave the chat when I saw that message.
I was friends with this girl for almost 7 years. I struggle to make and keep friends so she was my best and closest ever. She always struggled with getting and keeping partners and over the years it got to the point she became a semi stalker to anyone she liked who showed her interest. She'd always ask me for advice bc i got a bf who im now married to and been with for nearly a decade now, she had been my maid of honor. Id tell her to slow down and wait instead of diving stright into a relationship with people but she never listened. The worst of all of this involved a mutual friend of ours who had been interested in her for a very long time. Like 8 years long. But she constantly turned him down bc she supposedly didnt like him. Idk what changed but she seemed to finally get he had been serious about liking her and finally showed interest in him. The thing was he was now taken by a different girl and had been in a relationship with her for 6 months. In the end that didnt stop her as she befriended the girl and started to take his attention from the girlfriend to her. He came to me bc he still had feelings for my best friend but also really like his gf. I said that it was ultimately up to him but if he was to pursue my bf he had to dump his gf bc it wasnt fair to the gf for him to sneak around her back with my best friend. He said he'd try but my bf decided she didnt want to wait despite me telling her too and began to pursue him more aggressively. Shed spend time with him, drive him to and from work and eventually got him to sleep with her a few different times. Obviously he and the gf didnt last and the ability to save any realtionship between them was destroyed. Idk if this affected them getting together at all but my best friend also had some mental health issues so at one point when things were getting bad between them she made attempts on her life twice both of which she told me but wouldnt get help which forced me to be the one to get help for her. Like calling the cops and letting our job know what happened. All of this began to have a negative effect on me and my mental health. To the point the stress was making me sick, break out in hives and i myself stood on that dark egde bc i could do it anymore. My mother, who lives with me for financial reason, had to step in and say enough bc the very worst happened when she had a massive break down and drove to my house and started hitting her head on my patio wall. I had no idea she was there. We were texting the entire time but not once did she say she was outside. Just let me in let me in. My husband was the one who found her bc he went upstairs and heard the banging on the wall. She was sitting down so he couldnt actually see her. And the kicker was that was the day i found out my grandpa had died which i tried to tell her but ended up having to tell her again later. She accused me of adandoning her saying after i graduated highschool (she didnt) I left her behind. That my wedding had hurt her in ways it shouldnt have (no idea what that means) and that getting help for herself just "wasnt in the cards for her". I ended up blocking her and then later the mutual friend bc he wouldnt stop pushing me to talk to her and make up despite what happened. I still feel guilty now and then and think about reaching out but im happier now than before so i just dont
story time!
my ex best friend didn't realize how insulting she is all the time. she called me stupid and an idiot all the time. told me I dressed like a mom (we were 12/13 at the time). sent memes of ridiculous things with the caption "this is (my name)". sent screenshots of my messages with her to a guy who I used to like. she made me crawl around the soccer field with her on my back to the point where I had no energy. but then say "just a little bit longer! I won't put my whole weight on you!" that was grade six. She told me that my problems were nothing. she constantly asked me my weight, after saying that she was under average for our age at the time. she imitated me with a baby voice and always told me that I was too serious (which I was trying to fix).
0:13
See, I just wouldn’t know what to say, if I was physically there with them, I’d give them a hug right away before being able to work out what I want to say, but how do I respond to that over text? I mean maybe I’d say “Sorry for your loss, I’m here for you”
But it’d take me a few minutes or something to work up the courage to respond to something like that without immediately feeling like I worded it wrong or something.
Best to separate yourself from toxic people. It's sad that it would include your besties..😌😊
Wow this makes me glad for the friends that I have, when my grandmother passed away ,my friends were there for me. It honestly sucks hearing about people that had horrible friendships. There is one person though that isn't my friend anymore, and it's because she didn't support my decision to report someone to the police. And I just got back from a mental hospital to top it off, so yeah ever since then I haven't talked to her. Sometimes I really miss her but then I remember the fact she didn't support me when I needed it the most, then I feel better about the fact that I don't talk to her anymore. Because if they don't support you through thick and thin then they are not worthy to be called friends.
Whether you are a man or a woman, if you are assaulted, it IS trauma and equally important. Find someone to talk to and get help. It may feel like nobody cares, but there will always be someone who does care. You just have to find them.
i had a best friend that i left all my other friends that i knew since first grade for. it was 4th grade and i was in a different country for all of 3d grade, so i basically disconnected from everyone (i was 8 years old and didn't have a phone so i hadn't talked to anyone for a year). i came to my home country after a year which the first half of i would cry underneath the playground under recess, bundled up and freezing as i wasn't used to the cold, and the second half with my closest friends ever which i would never get to see again, or even talk on the phone with (time difference). everything was different. i didn't have anyone anymore. i was a year behind on everything social. and there was another "new girl". she joined third grade, when i wasn't there, and was the only girl that had a bestie position open. we became best friends, and then she had a massive fight. again. she always got into trouble, and dragged me along with her. she threatened a girl with her pocketknife... we were NINE. but i was on her side, ofc... i had such a need for ANYONE in my life that i still wanted to be her friend... i wanted to be ANYONE'S friend. just to not be alone. she moved schools a month later cuz they (security) searched her bag everyday when she came to school to make sure she didn't bring a knife, she hated it. she hated it so much she left me. and i fully leaned on that horrible person emotionally since i had no one else. then, a few months later, she proceeded to invite the brattiest girl in my class (not hers anymore) to her birthday party. only her. not me. we even planned to have a tradition of doing the same thing for her birthday every year. we only got to to do it once. fast forward to summer. she invited me to come over, and sure as hell i did. we decided i'd sleep over and it was my first time seeping over at anyone's house. she asked me to leave. said she felt as if it was her first time sleeping over at a friends house. ironic isn't it? i lived 30 mins away from her, and the ride home was silent. her mom drove me home and she decided to come along. her mom tried to ease the mood and talk to me but i was on the verge of tears. i couldn't cry tho. couldn't let that demon see me sad. came home around one am crying my eyes out. i stayed in my room the next day the whole day. a year later we ended up being in an in school course together (basically one day in a school for smarter kids every week), and we had a class together. we were becoming "friends" again. or so she thought. stopped talking to her one day. ghosted. she looked so hurt, but more so surprised at what little, inoccent, 5th grade me did to her. i'm still in that program with her. smile at her once in a while. her face drops every time i do. i don't regret it to this day. i was fucking evil.
she was evil too.
Some people don't know the difference between friends and acquaintenances.
In fifth grade, my best friend of six years made me find out what people thought about her and tell them what she thought of them. Fast forward a through months, the whole class gets into a fight. the teacher eventually resolved it. At the end of that year, she said she would be back in school the next year. We started the year and she wasn’t there. Eventually I found out that she moved away and didn’t tell me or say goodbye. This hit me hard seeing as two years before my dad left and the year before my teacher whom I had for 4 years left. I’m grateful to now have my great bff.
These friends ain’t friends. This year was hard but given me a lesson to be learned. Also Allen where’s your red in your hair I loved it 😻
To the woman with the husband that got sexually assaulted you are an absoluet angel and queen. One that would see that men get sexually assaulted and need suport
*I am like what Kyutie described. I guilt trip myself because I was too naive and nice plus desperate for friends that I ignored what their doing to me.*
*They were bullying me but not too intense, they just like to tease me a lot and then smack my forehead as a joke.*
*And, now, I would complain I don't have friends ( when there is one but only a few ) and glad at the same time, I left those people I considered friends even though, it was just me thinking it.*
*I'm now not sure if the friends, I had are real..but they always stick beside me, so, I guess, they aren't so bad.*
I literally have just 3 friends and 1 best friend... Like she is actually the BEST... ♥️
Re the friends who did not say anything when the mom died. Some people truly have no idea what to say and often are frozen with silence. We do not talk about dying enough.
My ex best friend was being bullied heavily and i was the only one who stuck up for her and got bullied for it as well, she found a new friend shortly after and completely stopped talking to me cause “i wasnt fun”, sometimes i cry about it but oh well
My best friend of nine years completely ghosted me for no apparent reason other than she was maybe busy? She didn't even respond when I said "Happy Birthday!"
Another friend told me "Fix your crap and don't call me. Hitting me in the heart with an axe every time I think of you." and then continued the conversation as normal.
I was finally able to cut ties with a toxic friend last year. She was really ignorant of how self-absorbed she had become and victimized herself in every situation. Being with her reduced my self esteem to the point I felt like I was the reason for every problem in her life kinda thing.
When I finally realized that she was toxic, I tried to talk to her- because she wasn't the type to purposefully hurt someone but without knowing hurt ppl. But she didn't listen and again blamed me and told me to reflect on what I said abt her. Never have I ONCE told her she was in fault in any situation (because welp she's too sensitive to handle it) and when I finally do tell her, she decides to blame me and didn't even try to listen what I had to say, when I've been listening and supporting her in this whole friendship.
After that fight I just never talked to her. She tried to call me several times and even got her mom involved in it. I just didn't want to reconnect with her again. But I gotta say she did help me to find my own faults and stuff- but she over-did it.
I cut contact with a friend because she was affecting my mental health in a very negative way. She was suicidal and it was every day I was talking her out of ending it.... It got to the point that any message from her would fill me with dread..
I had a best friend in highschool who i slowly stopped talking to and eventually just stopped talking to because she always tried to hard to get into the "popular" crowd. She would talk about me behind my back but then would call me every night to explain herself to me. Eventually i realized how toxic our relationship was and I stopped caring.
That woman who said that to the husband who was SAd is lucky it wasn't my spouse. She'd have gotten socked right in the jaw. On the flip side, that husband's spouse is a fricken beautiful gem of a human being for standing up for him 💯
The fact I know someone who would probably do 94% of the things these “friends” did in the video
I have similar situation. My so-called best friend, always ignores me and never texts or calls me. It’s only me who calls or texts her. And every time I try to cut the ties she starts to play victim. And so I get to guilt trip myself, because she doesn’t really have other friends.
Oh, my God, the one about her husband being assaulted, I would have beat that "friend" so bad, she couldn't walk or talk for a month!!! Screw me going to jail, no one treats someone I'm with like that.
My ex friend said "get over it its just a cat" when my cat died, she has no animals and doesn't understand that it can be hard when you're attached to a pet, they're like family
8:45 that is just thatvegenteacher
I could tell endless stories about toxic friends. I seem to attract them.
Honestly I'm the friend that can't stick up for you but I cry rivers of tears even if you so much as sprain your ankle. I think I'm a good friend for caring for them but I may be a tad too emotional.
"nobody cares what happens to a man" - Bill Burr
PEOPLE: I have the best bestfriend that always has my back
ME: can't relate
The best friends in this video r truly sick TF!?! I am sooo gladdd I have moved away from those ppl in my life
Heyyy , love your videos ❤️
My mom is in hospice with colon cancer that may have already spread to her liver. I'm worried about losing my friend. I quietly unfriended and ghosted my friend when he sent me a long message asking why I'm supporting the gay agenda and saying "Girl wake up" and "you need to turn away from this evil path"
I'm Queer Agender.
Great post kyutie❤ love you so much🥰💯
Omg that hat is everything 🙌❤️
4:53 this is why I love Ellen! ❤ 👏
you'reeee sooo pretty 😩❤️
She stuck in 2017 we need to get her out
7:34 I wasn't really paying attention (this was playing as background noise) the moment she read the last sentence though I went "hold up did I type that?" I had to read it myself to realise no I didn't.
I did have a friend who said something similar to that one.
I had a childhood friend of 13 years (we met in 2nd grade) who I protected from bullies (she was overweight but couldn't help it and I would stand up for her) she was my best friend so I'd tell her everything from secrets, surprise party plans, to other stuff and we jokingly say we hate each other and stuff like that.
Anyway back in high school I introduced her to a friend I made a few weeks prior who a year later became my Gf. After graduating they went to the same collage and I went to a different one. I spent a quarter of my free time with my Gf, a quarter with my old friends (including my Gf), a quarter with my new friends at my collage and a quarter to myself.
Apparently I was spending so much time with my Gf who I rarely got to see and my friend was pissed because I was "stealing" her friend. One day its just me and my friend talking on the phone and I show her a ring that I was gonna use to propose to my Gf on our anniversary that was coming up a week later. That apparently was the last straw because hours later she started telling my Gf lies. Like accusing me of saying I told her to "Go die in the deepist pit of Hell!" and so many other things (Some of my Gfs friends told me what the lies were and some are dark. Like horror movie dark. Others are straight out of a sad romantic drama.) My Gf broke up with me when I went to see her on our 6 year anniversary!
I was more upset that my friend started telling my Gf lies about me only hours after I told her I was gonna propose than I was with my Gf breaking up with me. To this day I still don't understand why she was mad that I was gonna ask my Gf to marry me, why she said I was stealing her friend, the same friend I introduced her to! Who she wouldn't have met without me!
My Gf found out the truth a few months later (due to the friends that told me about the lies) but we never got back together. I loved her but she lost her chance the moment she thought I could say so many horrible things to my best friend and mean them. I still haven't forgiven my friend either and she never apologised or even admitted that they were lies.
Happy New Year, stay safe and healthy💖🥰.
For the first one she dont deserve those friends she isnt understanding enough to see that her friends mught not know what to say. I wouldnt want a friend like her anyway
is it just me or she gets prettier in every video
2:06 is me and my bsf rn except the fact and im brown. her boyfriend is Muslim (and so am i) but whiteish. (not full on white person but not a poc) her bf would say the n word and other racist things and she didnt care and just told me like i wouldn't care think its funny, and told me not to tell him, and when he started making racist jokes in our groupchat i confronted him, and she got mad at me telling me i was tryna break them up, and blocked me. i talked to her less and less as she cared for a shitty man that did things she didnt like more. ( its happening nowadays btw) and our ''friends'' mainly hers (but i know bc some of them are in my form) would make jokes about my weight or bodyshame saying its joke. she wouldn't back me up AT ALL. when i was with her all the time when she was struggling with a ed, but now she flexs how shes ''skinny'' or has a ''hourglass'' figure to me, to ridicule how much fatter i am than her. tbh i love her bc she would defend me and stuff back then but now she ignores me and acts like im a gross shit, and i dont wanna loose her, because she saved me from unaliving. help pls
how can humans be so cruel like damn
I became close to a girl (I am a boy) through the course of covid because I 'thought' she understood my clinical depression, she told me she had depressive episodes for two weeks so I believed her then about 6-7 months later when we were talking about my depression again, she told "grow up and be a man" after that I talked less and less to her and finally ended up ghosting her.
P.S The cherry on the cake was that she was my crush (I don't like her anymore)
8:50 *VEGAN TEACHER JOIN THE CHAT*
This has nothing to do with the video. My grandma passed away today and it’s obviously been really hard on me and my dad because that was his mom we’re going to her house if I can even called that anymore to support her husband my dad‘s dad but I fear that I can’t go in the house because all my life all I’ve ever called it was grandma‘s house but she’s not here anymore and I don’t know if I’m in the wrong is it OK for me to sit outside in the car or should I just suck it up and go in she passed away due to cancer which she’s been battling for about four years now and I don’t know what to do I just need some advice.
8:43 that vegan teacher be like
Warning ⚠️⚠️⚠️: Extremely long texts ahead.
Ok so I had this group of friends in elementary, there's four of us. We're all bestfriends. Let's call this friends g, r, and l. I'm really close to g and r is really close to l, it's always been that way and we all know that. Then years later, we're in highschool. L didn't go to the same school as us so now there's three of us. R is a social butterfly, she's always been good at communicating to people so it's not long for her to get close to the top of our class( grade 7) and her group of friends. Now, me and G is not really sociable, we're quiet and shy and we didn't like to talk to people we're not comfortable with.
Our class ends at 3:45, me and G is supposed to be going home because we still had to commute but R made us wait for her until 5 o'clock, the bad thing is that someone always came to fetch her so me and G had to commute at 5 and got home 5:30. It's not a problem at first but then when we're in our 8th grade, G had to transfer cause she's not a 'with high honor' ( when you're general average is 90-94, you won't pay for the tuition, just books, uniform and miscellaneous fee, but when you're GA reach 95, you'll just pay books and uniform) and her family don't want her to still study there because it's expensive. So now it's just me and R.
Now, I'm not close to my current( at that time) classmates, when we're in room, I had no one to talk to. I feel like air, I was 13 at that time and I caught an anxiety, I was also extremely sad and lonely at that time, looking at them laughing and at R socializing with everyone, I feel empty. I don't know if it's depression or I'm just extremely sad but I even think of just killing myself. With the pressure of my parents being disappointed with my grades, having no one to talk to, I feel like I'm alone even when it's crowded. And everytime class is over, I'm gonna have to wait for R for about an hour then go home alone. She just said bye and she's off. I was tired of the setting.
Months passed just like that, I found a new friend, she's also loud and funny, but that's just when you're close, I'm happy again, I found a new group of friend where I was very welcome. I'm happy even though there's still the pressure over my grade. I was doing fine when R came to talk to me, I feel weird. We haven't talk for months and now that we did, I don't know what to do. Her hugs feel strange and I can't hold a proper conversation with her anymore because I feel so awkward, she noticed that and asked me what's wrong and I said nothing, so she continues to rant about her problems, after that I avoided her for a week, pondering over my decision to end my friendship with her, it was Friday when I finally made my decision, I talked to her alone and I said that I'm not familiar with her anymore, it's best if we just end our friendship right here, she ask me several times if I'm sure and I said yes. So I go home crying, and also informed my parents, and cried the entire night. The next day I am okay, she still tried to mend our relationship after that but I already quit, there was no going back once I made my decision. Time flies and I'm now in my 12th grade, currently happy 😊😊😊.
Ps: I'm neither angry with her over her new friends while I'm still her friend, nor jealous that she spends much time with them than me( I even had to eat alone at the cafeteria while she's in our room eating happily with them), I just feel disappointed that she's not there when I needed her the most, and she's even one of the reason why. I don't know what would have happened to me if I hadn't found a new friend at that time, maybe I'll go crazy, or maybe still extremely sad or maybe I'm not here anymore today if I really proceed with suicide
Are some people really that self centered, entitled and stupid?
In the second one thats how it felt when my bestie betrayed me
Why I ghosted two of my bestfriends
One called me a racial slur
And I dated one of my bestfriends and we broke up.
That's not the reason I ghosted them.
I found out that the were talking to other people while we were together so I just tried to avoid conversation with them.
my ex bsf accused me of ignoring her and i said to her it’s bc she was always on her phone, and she would ignore me when i’d try to talk to her. Then we stopped talking lol. But im glad we ain’t friends anymore bc she’d insult the way i look by comparing me w a ugly character, and made jokes about my insecurities.
i had to cut off a close friend today bc they keep lying and trying to pick fights
The thing about vegans is true. Because there aren't that many vegans people go off of their negative experience with one vegan and sadly judge us all. I hope people can see that the majority of vegans are kind and reasonable people.
I've ghosted my friend because she became to clingy and expecting and demanding that it made me feel like she's entering my personal space and it made me uncomfortable
This is off topic but I love her hat
This is why I don't have a best friend🙂
The one about the friend outing the other one as gay, she doesn't know why they don't talk to her anymore? Really? Are some people seriously that thick?
I’m a vegetarian and even I hate when other vegans/vegetarians try and push our eating style on others like everyone in the world ain’t gonna stop eating meat so chill
I love the way you edit your video I love watching your video I’m your biggest fan you make amazing video you make awesome video
I just realized how pretty her hair is :0
The "friends" in these stories obviously aren't actually friends at all and are terrible people. In the 1st story, those "friends" should've been there for the person. In the 2nd story, the person should've stayed with him/her/they instead of leaving to chase after a guy. In the 3rd story, I agree with Kyutie that the person should've just continued to keep it a secret. In the 4th story, at least the guy was able to find/make new friends who accepted him. In the 5th story, the woman who was the bride was terrible. In the 6th story, the woman shouldn't have made fun of that. What happened to the husband is something that people should never make fun of/joke about. The wife did the right thing when she cut ties/cut contact with the woman (including blocking her) and saying that anyone who spoke about the woman would face the same fate. In the 7th story, the "friend" should've been there for the woman instead of saying that she needed to get over it and was just trying to get attention. In the story at 8:02, the "friend" had no right to do that. it's up to the 2 people themselves to decide when they want to come out as LGBTQ. In the story at 8:42, the vegan shouldn't be trying to push their lifestyle onto others. I agree with Kyutie that not all vegans are like that and that the vegans who are like that can make other vegans look bad.
Feminism killed chivalry.
What in the 1 view and 10 comments is this...
You look super cute in this video
8:47
Me remembering the Vegan Teacher(KaReN): Ah sh!t here we go again-_- **loads up rifle with meat bullets**
I really like her hat.
Me and my friend S were best friends. Like siblings. He and i well we didnt see the other alot, he was terrible at texting, so eventually he stopped message me and i could see he saw them but never replied. I found out his insta well i am not a follower and cant see it But i never un followed it. Apparently he ghosted me and never told me why or said another word to me again
Had a bestfriend she was always moving around with boyfriend from boyfriend to family house, she'd aways telling everything that was going on, I always wanted to give here a place to stay at my house, but she always refused like my house was the pleg or something, after awhile I stopped trying and then we decided to get a place together I paid for both of us to get the new apartment but after some days she didn't want to anymore because she knew her new boyfriend wouldn't be able to move in with us, so I stopped talking to her for a bit then she called me up asking if I was still mad at her for what she did I said yes and till this day we still haven't talked she said the only reason she agreed to getting the place was because I wouldn't shut up about it, that really hurt me, we've been friends for years but she changed more than I thought she would, it's always something to do with boys thk
We used to be 3 girls we always stay together one of her crush like me I didn't know about this until I told him about her and he said I was just being frndly with her because of I like you then 3rd girl told her every thing they stopped both talking to me i tried for 4 month but they didn't understand thn I changed my college never try to make any contact with them
Super off topic but I'm at my uncle's funeral rn 🧍🏼♀️
may your uncle rest in peace
i’m sorry for your loss…
My condolences.
*u are pretty*
My best friend baby mom died the police thought he did it and thought i helped. They looked through my house took my phone for months before giving it back ( probably hacked it to listen in ) havent talked to him since.
Why? What did your friend do. The way you've worded it just makes it seem like the police thought you would be an accomplice
@@birdsbirdsandmorebirds6251 thats exactly what the police thought lucky i went out of town that week and had evidence i wasnt even in town it was one of the worst things ive ever experienced
@@Londonlink yeah but why don't u talk to ur friend anymore?
@@birdsbirdsandmorebirds6251 because he was acting real suspicious at first i gave him benefit of the doubt but than ( his baby mom apparently got shot in garage) he burned it down with all the evidence than went missing police was looking for him. They were harassing me and came to look through my girlfriend appartment looking for a gun and still it was a complete mess. Cps got called and they were asking about my girl kids i was so embarrassed
Nice vids!
i used to have a bestfriend…
don’t worry he’s my boyfriend now 😌
It’s my birthday
happy birthday!
Happy Birthday!
Happy birthday! :))
Happy birthday
8:01 sounds a lot like she has bpd i’m not like this but i use to be and i got help obviously i’m no psychiatrist though
Hii
Sounds like the vegan teacher
Random comment but I had a very bad day yesterday and my grandmother died aswell but my dad wants me to stay for a month so now I can't go to her funeral and I miss my baby brother-Random comment but I had a very bad day yesterday and my grandmother died aswell but my dad wants me to stay for a month so now I can't go to her funeral and I miss my baby brother-
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TH-cam keeps deleting my comments 😒