Friends Who Aren't Really Friends
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Just appreciate how much Kyutie cares for us. She always starts so quickly, considering how much time we have available.
And she never has really long intros like others dang I actually should appreciate her more :(
SAAAAMMMMEEEE!!!!!
i love her sm
This world is full of fake people.
You’re lucky if you find true friends 💞
A true friend is priceless. Tell them every day that you care bcz you never know what may happen.
@Roxys World are we living the same life ? the exact same situation happened with me :( i hope you’re okay.
@Roxys World I’m so sorry that happened to you
:( Some people are just mean and horrible.
@Roxys World I’m sorry to hear that :( ❤️
Yeah don't have one...
She should totally text that friend. In think her friend would love to talk.
Yesh
True friends are so hard to find.
Like the ones that actually care,
Well, we’re all lucky to have Kyutie as our friend aren’t we?
There's this one girl that happens to be my childhood friend/best friend. We are so close before. But we stopped talking since we reached highschool. She's very smart and pretty. I really want to communicate with her but I always chose not to because I thought I'm not good enough to be her friend anymore. I was hoping that maybe soon I'll have my courage and be able to talk with her again. But sadly she died last week. She killed herself.
The saddest part is when I knew she was a loner and she has no one to talk to . If only I have the guts to talk to her before, maybe I saved her. But it's too late now.
(This isn't related to the topic of the video. Kyutie just reminded me of my friend when she said "There's a friend she always wanted to talk to".)
this is sad 🥺
This is so sad
Im sorry about that
u shouldn’t blame ur self
That was really sad
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title: friends who aren't really friends
me: *i know all about this*
Stayyyy
Hi Stay!!
This video should have come 2 years before....😢😂
(Laughing in pain)
me too !!
We all had that one “friend” who came to mind whilst watching this video
@zuh Exol No, you're not, I can't relate to the comment either
I had a few that came to mind
@zuh Exol I have a bunch of them!!
I cant rlly think of any friends cuz i only had good ones but a crush that had 2 faces and showed me the evil side and made me silent like i was his shadow. Im happy that we moved out and i told all my friends about him 😥
Wait if i thought of like my bestfriend who isnt the best person is she fake?
Nobody:
Friends: * stop talking to me once we entered high-school*
Also friends: We never liked you your annoying
Me: ... cool
Me: * cries*
It’s ok. We’re here love🥰
*send virtual hug *
Ikr
Sending you hugs
I never had friends in the first place. Having a good friend group or making yourself comfortable alone, is what worked best for me.
"when I stopped initiating conversations and all communications stopped"
That's how I knew they didn't care about me at all
I personally had a few "Friends" and they sucked.
SAME smh well i hope you’re doing better without them 🤍
Same I feel the pain. But it's our gain and now they should feel pain
@@jiiaaa That's really sad to hear you had some :( And I hope you are as well! ^^
@@karrinereed3840 That is very true, also it rhymed, lol.
@Chicken nugget babyy UwU Hope you're better without them :)
We when I am tired: I’m gonna go to sleep.
*turns off lights*
Suddenly wide awake: well damn.....what do I do now?
My brain is a toxic friend for being tired during the day, but being wide awake in the middle of the night
@@solseclipse gah, sorry don't have any infants right now, maybe in a couple weeks they'll be back in stock, it's been difficult with corona though
@@dimwitteddingo _hol up-_
@@dimwitteddingo 👀
@@dimwitteddingo wait a dayum minute-
Can we all agree that Ellen is that good friend who would never waste your time with long intros?
I remember when I used to live in this town (I lived there for 12 years) and I made around 6 “friends”. One day one of my friends came up to me and said that everyone else were just my friends for free snacks and WiFi (no joke they’d sit outside my front door to use the WiFi and they wouldn’t even ask or invite me to hang out with them). I didnt believe her till she showed me the secret group chat they were all in and she was right. They had been talking about how they didn’t even like me and they only liked me bc I gave them stuff on their birthdays, I gave them food, I bought them Starbucks and i had good WiFi. After 11 years (I moved a year after this) only one of my friends were actually my friend.
*This happened last year:*
Her: "Hey can I borrow some money?"
Me: "No."
Her: "Well can I at least have that one shirt you wore yesterday? It looks nice."
Me: "Uh no. If you want it you can buy it yourself. And if you want money, just get a job."
Her: "Wow you're being really rude right now. Sometimes your just not a good friend." **Starts ghosting me for a few weeks**
*A few weeks later:*
Her: "Hey I was wondering if you had a necklace I can have?"
I hear that. Too many times to count.
Dang what goes through their minds to think that
+ Arxtix Foxes Ikr!!!
*did you smack her?*
Sis if she was one of my "friends" might aswell throw fists
And this is why I don’t have friends...
*i’M nOt EmOtIoNaLlY uNsTaBlE, yOu ArE.*
Why did you have to call me out like that >:0
Thats right💅
@@littlelemon3465 Same >:0
This, my friend, is what I call ✨relatable✨
Don’t expose me like that
I can relate to this, I had a toxic friend or two, and so did my now best friend lets call her R, she had friends that betrayed her and turned her other friends against her, and i had a friend who ignored me and constantly hurt and pushed my other friends away from me. We aren’t friends now and R us now my best friend and she also has much better friends, I really don’t know what I would do without R, shes the best and shes always there to help and support me. And also Ive seen a lot of comments about people saying friends are overrated, but I think you should keep trying! You’re bound to find someone who will be there for you 💖😄
Clicked on the video cause i can relate to it so much. Never had good trusting friends. I was always used and betrayed. I hope i can have the real trusting friends i made in the past year for the rest of my life. I guess sometimes starting fresh is a good thing.
Bruh how do you even sell someone else like that’s a person sir not a couch 😭💀
Sadly, human trafficking is still a thing
@@Omna420 Or would you? 🤨🧐🤔
@@Omna420 I would-
@@rawtbith 👀
If you have access to a few black markets and their nearby, plus, human trafficking.
Friends are overrated tbh. Tried one out the other day, had to go back to the store and exchange it for a slice of pizza because that was all she was worth.
Seems like she was worth alot
She was worth a lot
LOL-
@Lydia Walton it's a joke-
I mean...my “friend” is worth a black void with no air.
the friend that mocked them for having depression, I'm coming for you
I had a “friend” last year in 4th grade and I didnt know that I shouldn’t have considered her a friend until the summer.
She always punched and kicked me REALLY HARD then would always laugh and go back like everything was normal.
She bit me once, and this is in her own words, cause she “Just wanted to.”
I sometimes woke up with bruises on my arms and legs. They weren’t really dark but just dark enough to notice i had them without having to get really close.
I never told anyone cause I thought “Oh its fine, she’ll stop eventually”. Long story short, she didn’t stop until we had to go to virtual school.
Oh yeah and she would also make fun of my drawings cause they weren’t properly shaded and just anything she could find to point out about them.
Its why I stopped drawing in school and more in private at recess. But yeah I usually hid from her (and everyone else too) and just stayed in a little corner by myself.
I miss a former friend of mine, she abandoned me during the worst time of my life. I am not going to go into anything personal but just know she blocked and ignored me when I needed her the most.
I've had some toxic friends. I always was scared to be around them but I was "friends" with them since kindergarten so i didnt know the difference. I finally realized it was so very toxic and found a new friend to hang out with who is now my forever bestie (almost 3 years). Please if you feel scared or worried around someone LEAVE💕 best decision I've ever made.
I had one friend that I was scared to be around, or more like a mutual friend I guess. He was friends w/ my best friend, so sometimes we'd all talk to eachother, but I think he did something to turn my best friend against me or convince my best friend that I was "using her to talk to another friend" (bc another one of my friends was his sister and sometimes when we were on call I'd ask to talk to her), and one day they called, ALL THREE OF THOSE FRIENDS, and this guy was leading them on and saying I was 'using them to talk to her'. After that, he only called when he wanted to say I was doing something wrong. Blocked his number rq after that
I'm so happy for you! I'm glad that you were brave enough to step out of the situation ✊
@@littlelemon3465 Ngl it was scary but the best thing I could do for my mental health. One of the girls in the group particularly hurt me. Her closed mind and mean comments really messed me up in the head.
@qυιηтεssεηтιαl qυεεη so proud of you. I met my bestie 2 years ago but didn't leave my toxic friends for her until I've already known her for 2 years.
I can relate to alot of this unfortunately especially @6:02 about graduation. My whole senior class was talking about it back then that year about who's going to who's graduation party. Several kid's during homeroom bragged about how there whole summer was full with going to different students graduation parties all summer. The last day of school. We were in line to return book's back to the school & the girl standing next to me asked if I was going to any graduation parties. I said nope no one bothered to invite me so I didn't invite anyone to my graduation party. She then looked at me & said not even your own cousin didn't invite you to her graduation party (me & my one cousin were at the same school & in the same grade back then) I told her nope. She told me that's cold even for her... I didn't care. Went to Dave & Buster's for my graduation party & had a blast~ 😁✌
5:17
That's not just being a bad friend, that's straight up being a bad person, I can't believe people do this..
Exactly like why? Ya know
I had a really toxic friend but when she noticed how bad it affected me she stopped and since then she has been slowly improving her attitude 😃
Imagine leaving your friend because they can't throw parties
If y'all have fake friends, am I totally down to being your friend because I think you're awesome ❤️
can we be besties 👉🏼👈🏼
I have a fake friend. She has been my BFF for years. But it would feel weird not being her friend. I don’t know what to do
@@mizukiakiyama289 girl it doesn’t matter, cut her off
I don't give a fuckk 🤗
I stopped being friends with all my fake friends I’m so glad ❤️
the thing is ik my friend is my friend because she always looks out for me and offers to listen to me whenever i really need help, she would literally drop anything for me- but the thing thats throwing me off is whenever i achieve something she would get angry and once said to me 'if you do better than me, of course im gonna be angry- i'll be happy a bit but obviously i'm mostly gonna be annoyed' she insults me a lot as well, but im confused- she is so loving and kind but then gain she has that side of her- im not sure if she is toxic or im just overreacting bc honestly i see her as family, a big sister.
5:12
Kyutie: And I know she wouldn’t be mad
Captions: I know she wouldn’t be a man
I personally have had many of these “friends”
Right now I have one that just won’t leave me alone. Like just won’t stay away and she knows I hate her but try to be nice
The sad part is that I’m only in year 7 and have had more of them then real friends
Bro, ngl, kinda wanna punch someone right now
@@meow.610 damn
Friends who aren't really friends: *when your friend steals the last slice of pizza*
My bestie does that🤣
Your profile says it all, your friend did that?
@@saidaabdille8603 Yes, but then we were watching anime and I stole her last mochi as revenge xD
I was told that's what only best friends do.......
@@rosepetunia1829 Well my best friend did that to me, so I guess it's accurate xd
I had a fake friend once she would always boss me around
When I ended our friendship she started spreading rumours about me and said I bullied her
But I would never do any of that stuff
I’m so happy I moved schools
I lost all my friends except 1, but she was so toxic. I felt like I owed her because she was the only one that stayed and said 'We're friends, why wouldn't we be?' but she made me so insecure and constantly belittled me. Whenever she was uncomfortable she would make jokes about me and the way I looked, making everybody else make fun of me. She constantly interrupts me and knows about people talking bad about me but doesn't tell me. All she says is
'I wasn't the one talking bad about you! I just saw the text and decided not to tell you, you're sensitive I didn't want to hurt your feelings " then the next day tell me how trash I look and if I'm having a 'crazy hair day' like -_-
She also doesn't let me hang out with ANYBODY but her, like ACTUALLY. I'll try to sit with somebody at lunch and she will literally take my arm and pull me to her table BUT THERE IS NOWHERE TO SIT BECAUSE SHE DOESNT LEAVE ANY ROOM FOR ME. Then she doesn't talk to me the whole lunch period because I was at the end of the table, almost falling off the seat.
But the thing is I have stuck up for her, when she was bullied about her acne by one of my ex-good friends I stopped talking to them (a GOOD FRIEND )and RUINED OUR RELATIONSHIP for her. And she has the nerve to become best buds with them!
It's like she owns me...
That is an example of an abusive relationship. Get away from them quick as you can. The only thing at the end of that road is pain and misery.
Truck her
Message your friend! At least you'll know the outcome and won't regret not messaging them. Also, I'm sure she would still want to be your friend because you are an amazing person, but don't do it if you aren't comfortable.
im only 11 and i can now tell i lost half of the people i thought i knew thank you for making this video it was very useful
Me this year: *invites only one friend for my birthday*
That one friend: *gives me a ten-minute notice of a suspected Covid case in their family*
Me: are you kidding me
man, the thumbnail story was just absolutely brutal. like *why the heck would your "friends" even do that to you??* 😒
because theyre a criminal :) selling people is the definition of human traffic(k?)ing
Yah army💜
Lmao that was wild
Why would they not have reported the so called friend G?? Next time she does it what if nobody is there to save the person?? This is human trafficking she and he need to be reported .
Yes, message your friend. I had lost contact with a friend and we started to message each other. She found out had pancreatic cancer. We were in contact for the remainder of her life (2 years). It was bittersweet...so much time lost between us but at least we did get back in contact. She lived in Canada and I am in USA so did not get to see her...but saw photos on Facebook. So glad we were able to have some final time before she passed.
I haven’t watched kyutie for like 3 yrs and I just remembered her 😩😂❤️
This just made me soooo GRATEFUL that I have such amazing, supportive and hilarious friends ☺️
Through all of Junior High me and him were thick as thieves. We were in mostly the same classes and we were always the smartest so when we worked together we always did well. He was honestly the best friend I ever had until we got to High School. Once we got to high school he started acting like he was better than everyone and I became the butt of every joke. He started targeting things only he knew I was sensitive about, things I had confided in him because I thought I was safe with him. People said "that's just who he is" but that's not who he was with me. My heart broke because I lost the only person who knew everything about me.
I really love your comeback videos and revenge stories. Here’s something that happened today.
My brother and o were sitting on the couch and my brother looks at my stomach and says “look how you can see your stomach moving in and out” I looked at him confused (like that was something weird to say but we do say some weird things to each other). I look at him with a straight face and said “it called breathing and I’ll make sure you don’t breath” he looked at me and we both laughed.
The title:
Me: ✨yOuRe tOxIc✨
I had 2 friends who hated each other and every time they fought i was always in between them and got tossed around saying shit about each other, and quarantine saved me from their mess👌
Honestly I have no friends because I never message first. It's so horrible. This is why I like meeting up
I have this one friend who I kinda hated at the beginning of our friendship. Honestly, I think the only reason we hung out together was that we had always gone to the same school (we were in middle school together). We would always give each other fake compliments, and it was honestly a really toxic relationship. Fast-forward a few years and now we're best friends.
I had a friend in middle school and she was the first person I had ever opened up to about EVERYTHING. I always thought that she really cared about my personal life, but she actually just wanted to start drama. Eventually I realized that I wasn’t her best friend, I wasn’t an exception to all the secrets she would tell and crap she would talk about others.
I was going through a lot of stuff at home at that time and when I needed her the most, she wasn’t there for me.
I dropped her like a hot potato and now I have good, healthy friends and a best friend who isn’t toxic and loves me ❤️
Omg when she was talking abt wanting to talk to that friend I think she totally should ik it takes a lot of courage but overthinking will only be your lost even if that friend isn’t interested it’s worth a shot
Ngl, I kinda wanna be friends with half of the people in this comment section.
Ooooohhhh...Let's be FRIENDS! :)
I have the same thought too... :')
@@thecockroachunderyutaschai3694 alrighty then. Friends:)
@@meow.610 What's up??? XD
@@thecockroachunderyutaschai3694 nothing much man, whats up with you?
Or
The sky
hi does this include me?
These videos make me feel like my friends are awful, and they are...
Dump them.
Don’t message them for 3 days or talk to them then if they don’t check in on u or talk to u then just cut them off don’t tell them tho just don’t contact them or anything
1 view, 144 Likes.
👌🏻
Me on the other hand seeing 1 view, 5 likes 😭 my youtube is playing too much
TH-cam is drunk again-
Yes 👍🏻
@Dandy boi Seungbean ugh my yt said 14 views, 3 likes and 29 comments when the video came out.
also i really like your name 👀
@@lvrzlaine thank yuuu🥺🤍 and your youtube is smarter than minee🤣
If you feel scared or anxious about someone, leave. If they make you feel bad and humiliated by them, leave. They are probably toxic for you. It's not good for your mental health to stick around bad people. You will be a lot happier. Don't be scared to.
I can relate both of these to one "friend" I used to have, who hung out with me normally for a bit bc he was friends w/ my best friend, but then he convinced her that I was 'using them' to talk to his sister, bc I asked to talk to her once and we made a group call on our own _after they said ok_ bc they were talking about a game we didn't have and we felt kind of left out. Then he started trying to turn my friends against me, and _every time_ he asked to call I knew there was going to be trouble. Luckily, I blocked his number, and I'm still friends w/ my best friend and his sister
I had an online friend we broke our friendship yesterday because she made me feel like a worst friend and I got broken I would just "smile" while my other online friend was trying to explain what was going on and she told me if I apologize to her she will be my friend again and I said no because she made like I am the worst friend anyone can ever have but this vid made me feel alot better
Lol I love that 2:01
ALSO AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO HAS A NORMAL COMMENT AND NOT “first lol”
how did u watch to 2:01 already when it was just uploaded o.o
@@elxgant1621 Lol
My friend: I've been really sad for three weeks and you haven't even noticed!
My POV: I've been battling with depression and going through anxiety for three years and you haven't even noticed.
@Addie Leigh - It's not your fault, you have nothing to be sorry about!
*BRUH* the thumbnail is so messed up
Edit: My "BFF" talked behind my back and I backstabbed her by saying her crush thinks she's *TOO* annoying(true though) and overdramatic over little things 🙄
You should try talking to your friend. Say how you've been wanting to do so for a while but never really knew how to start. A lot of people are really understanding when it comes to contacting a friend after a while : )
I love your eye makeup a lot just wanted to say that. And also when I come to your channel I am never bored. Have a nice day 💚💚💚
I'm one of those friends who would never reach out to you first and it would feel like I don't care, but in reality I'm just too conscious about calling someone or texting someone. I'm always there for whoever wants to have a chat with me or wants to share their problems but I just never initiatethe conversationmyself. So, I'm really grateful to all my friends who understand me and always reach out to me. If they didn't text me or call me, I think I would have zero friends.
you should definitely try talking to that one friend! you'll never know how they feel unless you try 🥰
i told my friend my crush, and she had his number, but i was saying 'dont tell him pls, dont, im not ready, dont tell him' and she said, 'I told him and he doesnt like u' and Im like, I TOLD YOU NOT TO TELL HIM.
moral of the story: *dont trust friends with crushes*
;~; a real friend wouldn't do that trust me
@orbit omg, i feel bad. that's horrible.
@@bptherevolution1123 now i think i about it, ikr
My friend got mad over a small thing, i got mad at them, then they told me it was a prank so that I would seem like i was the one who overreacted and they were the person who just wanted to have fun. Not my friend anymore, thank goodness.
I clicked on the video cause i can relate to it so so much. I was always used and betrayed from the start to end of primary school. In secondary school i went to school where i knew no one. I realised the meaning of true friends recently and i hope i can keep them all till my death bed. I guess sometimes a fresh start is good for you.
yay youre finally getting more views in a short time congratsss
and yes i have a friend like this she's always pointing out my flaws and its really embarrassing, i get upset about it but i cant do anything. Me and my other frenf tried cutting ties with her by ignoring but nOpE shes gonna go to the old gc and go *hi* ever 2 days and then when we dont respond she gets annoyed.
I HAD A FRIEND JUST LIKE THAT. He was friends with my best friend so when she called, sometimes he'd ask to join in, we'd let him bc why not? After a couple nights of talking like normal, I asked to talk to his sister bc she was also my friend. He let me, and she joined the call. Then my best friend and her friend started talking about their own thing, and we felt like we were being left out, so we told them we were making our own separate call and we'd let them do their thing and they just said 'ok'. After that, my best friend's friend (I hope this isn't getting too confusing xD) asked to call, and I thought it was a normal friendly call as usual, so I said 'sure'. Well, my best friend and his sister were there, and I think he convinced them that I was using him and my best friend to talk to his sister. _Because we made our own separate call once._ I wasn't using them ofc, so I tried to explain, but they changed topics after that and left me out the rest of the night. After that, he'd only call me when there was something I was doing wrong. Usually it was stuff I didn't even realize and couldn't fix, like 'you talk too loud' or 'you talk about your favorite anime too much'. After I realized what he was doing I blocked his number so yayyyy :>
@@solseclipse lucky. It got a bit confusing but i understood it when i finished. If i blocked my friend, im telling you, she would literally hunt me down the next time she saw me and act all innocent as if shed have no reason for me to be mad at her. She even has like, super complicated plans that manipulators have (yes she is very manipulative) and in 3rd grade, she tried making me and another friend by telling lies of each other and like, it was really annoying. She'll point out how im fat or something (look for a teen i think im fine i mean i may weigh more but my actual body mass is fine, and my stomach is there but you dont see it much ;-; im already insecure about it, having her is great!) and since she likes my other friend shell compliment her and everything and then hate on me. Oh well...
@@lynxii3234 I hope you find a way to get away from her, people like her are awful and don't shouldn't have friends :(
@@solseclipse aww ty, i hope so too. I also hope you never meet any people like your old friend.
Your videos make my day ❤
True friends are like diamonds, precious but rare.
False friends are like autumn leaves, scattered everywhere
Back in elementary school my "friends" weren't good people, after I got into middle school I finally made a friend who I think I wanna keep around for a while
I've dropped a friend once, after not wanting to be their friend for 1-2 yrs. For that time it was one sided on the other persons part and I feel bad now but there was/is a 5 year difference and I just started feeling they were immature so- 🤷♂️
That "bad talking to mutual friends" one.. Dude, this happened to me last month. She (my best friend since a decade) was trash talking about me to our only mutual friend (whom we know for 5 years). He told me what she said and now I don't talk to her.
And when I told her that I have depression, she said "ok". That's it.
I had a group of "friends" in high school where anything I really liked or was passionate about they either made fun of or downplayed it like it was lame and when I was struggling with my grades at one point they said stuff like "You're probably going to graduate last in our class" and then after they said it they laughed like it was so funny..after we graduated I learned how fake they all were and I haven't seen or spoken to them in years. This same group of "friends" also would choose when to hang out with me and I had to stop myself multiple times from practically begging to hang out with them. When they decided to not invite me to the senior party they had at one of their big houses after graduation that was the final straw for me.
I'm happy I've got such great friends! :)
You should message your friend 🙂
Ooo, I just remembered something. When I was in middle school (high school now) I remember I sat at a table with all of my friends, but none of them ever spoke to me unless they wanted my food that I didn't eat. Only one friend asked me once if I was ok. I'm still friends with these people, but I avoid them outside of school because I keep remembering this
My best friend since we were 7 told me a few years ago that if I really wanted to die that I would’ve killed my self already. I also have this big friend group but only 2 of them really care. When I’m in an uncomfortable or dangerous situation everyone will ignore me but will find the time to talk about anime instead of my safety
I finally found your account after so many years...your personality and voice are literally the exact same! ^^
I found out that two of my closest girlfriends from middle and high school didn't care about being my friend anymore when I texted them telling them how much I missed our friendship. I hung out with them once after those texts and they both never initiated conversation again or agreed to hang out. I believe we grew apart which is understandable but it still hurts because I thought I would be friends with these people forever. (As you can see from my comments I don't have the best experiences with friends, I really only have three good friends right now and that's my little brother, my boyfriend, and my best friend shanel)
I got rid of a toxic friend , and I'm still in the process of it. Whatever I had , she had to get it and if she could not get it should would lie. She then always needed attention, started lying about her breaking bones, etc. She then invited me places, left me for her other friends. Whenever I was talking to someone , she would find their Instagram and talk to them too (she tried face timing my bf over 13 times). Then she reached out to me, I told her I didn't really want to talk anymore and she had the audacity to tell me- and I quote, "You don't have the human decency to keep friends." I flipped out on her, then after I made valid points with proof she said she had a mental illness (minor anxiety) and how bad it was. I *never* try to "top" anyones anyone's illnesses, etc. but when I was really depressed and had several panic attacks every day, she was never there for me. Yet now that she has anxiety she expects me to be there for her? I don't get it, but I'm doing better now- slowly healing over my illnesses and I'm getting rid of her. I found my true friends, and I'm excited about that. I just can not believe I spent so much time on that fake person. Of course now they're going places I am going , etc. but I'll live! Just know it is worth it to get rid of them.
What are two causes of depression?
-Sadness
-Anxiety
What are both of these things mainly cause by? Other human beings. Why? Anxiety is one of the two because one might feel like they don’t fit in, or get made fun of by other people. Sadness most likely because of bullying or other things going on in their lives, also caused by human beings.
So what is the most common cause of depression?
Human beings.
Fake friends.
Fake relationships.
I had this one friend that bragged about her friend relationships with boys.. like she said how they liked her. I felt happy for her the first time. She was bragging about it not telling me like true bsfs do
I have these friends and one of them only talks to us when it’s about her and when we are talking about smth else she changes the subject and the thing is she moved schools so bc of COVID she has to do online classes so it’s harder to make friends for her so instead of confronting her about it we just complain about her in a different gc and I feel bad for her but she rly annoys the rest of us.
so going with the theme of this video, i have 3 online best friends today they all decided to gang up on me and say whats wrong with me, they basically said i use my asperges as an excuse, and said i create too much drama and talk to much, i have cut them off and im only going to have genuine friends now, just goes to show that when you cut the negativity out of your life, the positive things become more clear
Me: I don't have friends, I don't have a best friend😖
Best friend: hold up hold up, what you say, do you need a nap😂
Friends: uhmmmmmmmmmm, are you feeling okay😆
You should message your friend kyutie
Me: I should say first
Also me: maybe I should make some sort of a meme out of it
That’s what I do
Bruh
Hahaha!
Wait.....
*that IS the meme-*
I have a friend that she never sticks up for me and it has caused us to quit being friends in the past. As of right now, our friendship is more of texting here and there to check in with one another and share memes but it isn't a friendship where I feel like I can ever fully trust her. I would cut her off completely from my life but I feel bad if I do and I know now to place boundaries within our friendship.
Had a friend who was a female and our classmates made fun of us for being a 'couple' to the point where she didn't want to become friends anymore. I agreed to her but I never would've know that she was going to bully me. They then mocked me saying I was gay since I looked like a girl
(What so am I straight or gay? Which statement were they gonna use to offend me?)
Today I broke up with one of my closest friends, they were toxic when they were mentally unstable and it would effect how they are normally. It sucked, so I left them today, it really hurt...thank you for this video, it made me feel better! I’ve been a subscriber for years and years now 💖💖💖
I’m so sorry
But I am glad you got out of that toxic friendship
@@aestheticsquad3141 thank you 💖💖💖
You did the best thing. Being around toxic ppl will make you miserable. Sometimes you are better alone.
@@suzi_mai my tarot card reader said this was going to be the best decision I make right now, so I guess she was right!
You're the smile that people need after a break up. I'm people. 😌
When my ex dumped me for someone else, and my "friends" instead of comforting me, like you were too good for him and things of that nature, instead said crap about him. Yes, I know he was shite to do that, but I expected some empathy or sympathy or something!
This is a bit odd but in primary school, I didn't want friends. Like if ppl came up to me like 'hey' I'd just walk away or ignore them and if they continued to follow me I'd say "me no English" while speaking English perfectly fine in my lessons- yeah, then ppl knew just to leave me alone. But then in high school ppl wanted to be my friend and for the first time I didn't say no, then I made the bestest friends ever and had a great time in my first year but we had to move. When I moved school, I wanted to have friends again but didn't wanna start convos n stuff- I was a little awkward since everyone had always came to me first, I didn't really have to try, but now I did. And well, I was lonely for a couple years but later I made 3 great friends :)
Thank you for listening to my Ted talk 😂😅
Ahh Kyutie u should text that one friend! If things go well, it’ll be great. If they don’t, then you know u tried. Life is too short for what ifs! I hope you do it 😁 also I love this video!!
When I was going threw a rough time I had a close friend who I tired to open up to but they kept comparing my problems to their problems and often made body shamed me told me I was annoying hit me and played the victum in fights I'm so glad I left that relationship
I kind of feel guilty but I have ghosted a friend. He was a pretty chill dude but all of a sudden he got really religious. I wasn’t bothered by it until he started pushing his believes on me. We are from different religions and I'm fine with my own believes and morals. So when he started saying things like "you're gonna go to hell for believing/following this or that" I started to avoid him.
Let's be honest for the most part animals (pets in particular) are the greatest friends and are better then human "friends". Although kind careing people make the greatest impact on us all.
I was watching Drunk Among us before this and the thumbnail made me think of it 😅
Lmaoo yess i was too
Omg I haven’t watched you in a while, I loved you videos so Imma start watching you again.
The time I realised One of my ex bestfriends wasnt real was when she believed one of her newer friends when he said I was bullying him. I was the one who was bullied for liking mlp. The boy who pretended I was bullying him is really cool and we are good friends now.
Also when another ex best friend tried to give me the wrong chapters to study for a test, my mother then took over and got the correct chapters out of her.
Just so you know, these weren't the only things these girls did.
Frenemies, I know one when I see one. I’ve had to many past experiences with fake friends that I now have trust issues.
One time during lunch me and my friend who was popular (let’s call her A) walked by our other friends table (let’s call this friend B), and I heard B say something along the lines of “Why is she hanging out with her? She’s not good enough to be friends with her” and I thought she was talking about A, so as soon as we were out of earshot I asked A if she heard what B said, and I was going to go talk to B because how dare she say that to my friend, but then A said “oh I think she were talking about you” which made much more sense seeing as A is much more popular then me. B continued to act like a good friend around me like she had before and I never had the guts to bring it up. I wonder sometimes how many times she or others have said stuff like that behind my back that I just never caught
As someone who is in a toxic friend group
I can relate to some of these