WHO IS THE BETTER ROOMMATE!? **TRIVIA ALERT**

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  • @WendyMayaD
    @WendyMayaD 2 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    I hope Zozi is okay , this can't be easy ....Rest in peace Queen 🕊

  • @heartstrings110
    @heartstrings110 2 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    They did better than most married couples. I hope Zozi is doing well through this tragedy.

    • @chelvinabona360
      @chelvinabona360 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I hope so! May God help Zozi, they were so close

    • @jenniferfumero7615
      @jenniferfumero7615 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Zozi apparently was waiting for Cheslie's texts and called about a wedding Cheslie was supposed to go to the night before she died. I guess Cheslie ignored the texts, nixed the wedding party, and stayed up planning her death.

    • @alycecameron71
      @alycecameron71 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jenniferfumero7615 my god, what a thing to do.

    • @jenniferfumero7615
      @jenniferfumero7615 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@alycecameron71 Her mental state in the 24 hours before her passing hurts me. Once Zozi typed that, I thought it gave us a portal to where Cheslie's mind was if she decided to screw the wedding and stay home alone in her thoughts. And I doubt she slept.

    • @janicevajda1248
      @janicevajda1248 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      God Bless Chelsie & the world we live in. She wasn't in the right place when she took her life. This is so so sad.

  • @thinadlamini4671
    @thinadlamini4671 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love how close they were.

  • @thandiwekhoza5416
    @thandiwekhoza5416 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    This is baffling 🤔 this girl looks so together. Mental health is a beast 😢

  • @wanjirunyambura2708
    @wanjirunyambura2708 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I still can believe Cheslie is gone😭😭. I pray for Zozi too, this is hard for her. Our heartfelt condolences to the family of Cheslie. Rest in eternal peace Chelsie

    • @sophieatieno5148
      @sophieatieno5148 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Right? Coz Gosh if this whole thing has saddened me this much and I only watched her on TH-cam imagine her family and Zozi who literally lived with her.. My heart and prayers go out to her loved ones because heeh. Noone could have seen this coming 😔😔

  • @vivianpickering8182
    @vivianpickering8182 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    She hid everything better than I could ever dream of doing, if I had been dealing with emotions as heavy as she. Cheslie was a very strong woman. Very determined and sure of her intentions. She was very focused and walked in the power of self determination.
    I still respect her. I refuse to look at, or ‘feel some kind of way’ towards her because of her decision to exit the planet, like she did. I celebrate her life and the fact that she is now at peace. She accomplished so much in this lifetime! Rest In Peace, the great Cheslie Kryst. ❤️✨

    • @spud3494
      @spud3494 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Beautifully said ♥️

  • @melomascantodos
    @melomascantodos 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Apart from what happened, I just smiled looking at this. Two beautiful young women having fun. We don’t have the right to say or have a thought about what happened because we do not know. It is terrible to lose such wonderful human being, but still we have to understand what she was going through. We all have been there at some point… Let’s celebrate her with that powerful aura she had! We know where we are right now, but we do not know where are we going to be tomorrow. Kisses and rest easy queen!

  • @bokani79
    @bokani79 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Oh! That’s the South African Beauty Queen. I had no idea.

  • @CriticalBeautySalon
    @CriticalBeautySalon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Omg this is the first time I’m seeing this. I miss Cheslie’s bubbly personally and that infectious cute laughter. She and Zozi seemed like the best of friends and roommates and it’s just heartbreaking that Cheslie didn’t confide with Zozi about her inner struggles. May you Rest In Peace Cheslie. 🙏

  • @muzamara
    @muzamara 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    She sits in silence… that statement is so telling.
    When I’m at my lowest point, I can’t stand listening to music. It bothers me, so it’s just me and my thoughts. I wonder if it was the same case for her or if she just didn’t like to listen to music in general…

  • @julias127
    @julias127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    rest in power cheslie ♥️

  • @swanyjbeautytravelvlog
    @swanyjbeautytravelvlog 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Beautiful video, shows how complex we as humans are, that we could only imagine her pain. RIP beautiful soul,

    • @kevinortiz1411
      @kevinortiz1411 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But what was going on?????! Omg if only one person knew!!!!! When I've a friend I give them everything!!! Idk why some people commit suicide but ..... I just don't understand.

    • @kevinortiz1411
      @kevinortiz1411 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      May she truly be at peace........

  • @tracym8762
    @tracym8762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I wish they could have stayed together. Chesli seems genuinely happy here!

    • @jenniferfumero7615
      @jenniferfumero7615 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Zozi would have at least comforted her, and made sure Cheslie was ok.

    • @JosephQ384
      @JosephQ384 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It doesn't mean she is.

  • @callieg.breezine3576
    @callieg.breezine3576 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    RIP Cheslie Kryst 1-30-22🙏📿.

  • @newnana9070
    @newnana9070 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I hope someone is looking after ZoZi. That like loosing a sister. So hard. She’s in my prayers with Cheslie’s family.

  • @pol4171
    @pol4171 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Wow, beyond poise and beauty, they are so natural and simple. It's always refreshing to see that queens are also human, who admit their own weak points. Unlike some of us, who always pretend to be perfect. lol

  • @thatbemefool
    @thatbemefool 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    For everyone who keeps saying they can’t tell by this or that, it will only get worse. We live in a society where mostly everything is inauthentic, people say “I Love You” to perfect strangers and most people are actors. The world is a stage now.
    Stop looking because sadly….you’ll NEVER see it.

    • @IndigoCosmic
      @IndigoCosmic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ikr

    • @Mrs_Keys
      @Mrs_Keys 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My thoughts exactly!

  • @originalgoldengoddess
    @originalgoldengoddess 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This world has lost an absolutely beautiful soul... so sad... she definitely is a bright soul ❤🙏🏽🕊

  • @gvn255
    @gvn255 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    *4:17** Rest in Peace Queen Cheslie!♡🕊️*

  • @brendakluttz2557
    @brendakluttz2557 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I’m love seeing this video. My prayers are with her family and everyone who loved her and was touched by her.

  • @sophieatieno5148
    @sophieatieno5148 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Gosh, my heart and prayers go out to her family and all her other friends.I've been thinking a lot about Zozi and how tough this must be on her. Oh Cheslie, it's so sad that someone can be so burdened and in pain with almost noone noticing. I've watched so many of her videos even recent ones and I still saw no signs. That's extremely heavy, high functioning depression.. Lord grant her loved ones strength and also grant strength to anyone else who feels like Cheslie did🙏

    • @babykevinxoxo
      @babykevinxoxo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      cheslie needed a husband. Saddly she never got one.

    • @sophieatieno5148
      @sophieatieno5148 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@babykevinxoxo How do you know she needed a husband? My goodness what kind of conclusion is that? .. From the looks of what's there (and I'm not claiming to know so much since I didn't know her on a personal level) , a closer explanation would be she struggled with aging, feeling like she was running out of time to matter based on her piece on Allure, struggled with trolls online, and also, looks like she was always wondering "what's going to be my next big achievement" so while the last one is supposed to be a good thing, it could also be negative as maybe she felt she hasn't done enough by 30. I think she was a beautiful woman who achieved more than what the average 30 year old can dream of but seemingly she lived for others more than herself sadly.. However this is what it looks like from what's visible but the truth is only God knows exactly what happened to warrant this but you can't just say "she needed a husband." A husband isn't an automatic "need" for a woman who is only 30 so you can't just throw that in from nowhere

    • @Annie-dl9vd
      @Annie-dl9vd 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@babykevinxoxo apparently she was closeted lgbtq

    • @babykevinxoxo
      @babykevinxoxo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sophieatieno5148 everyone needs to be loved even cheslie. Even if she was LESBIAN that is not relevant to me. I would still have been her friend.

    • @babykevinxoxo
      @babykevinxoxo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sophieatieno5148 I would have done what I could to prevent her from killing herself had i been her neighbor.

  • @houseofkadraj3691
    @houseofkadraj3691 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Awww, i love their bond. This picked me up. 💛❤ Both so pretty.
    RIP to Cheslie🥲

  • @traceylennon1204
    @traceylennon1204 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    OMG I'm just seeing this..friendship goals..so funny, such a feelgood video!! Zozi must be devastated!!! Rest in Peace Cheslie...

  • @Tieshia11
    @Tieshia11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    *Oh my it breaks my heart every time I think about what Cheslie, must have been going through MENTALLY..ESPECIALLY since she felt that she couldn't turn to her beautiful mother whom she had a great bond & relationship with..Or her lovely friend Zozi, here in this video..This woman must have been really hurting in silence to feel like doing what she did was the answer to her trials!! Damnit I wish someone couldve saved her!! Iam really sad for her loved ones and friends.
    God bless the family & RIP CHESLIE YOU WERE /ARE LOVED🙏🙏🙏😢😢🤎🤎🤎*

  • @beaglesrfun5896
    @beaglesrfun5896 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    That's why I will always watch and support Miss Universe / Miss USA. Pageants matter.

  • @carmelvillard
    @carmelvillard 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm sorry Sozi for ur loss

  • @b.r.fowler785
    @b.r.fowler785 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I did not want to learn about Cheslie Kryst by her death and the manner in which she died. Learning about how well she masked her pain by putting on this bubbly exterior really makes me wish I was a close friend of hers who she could call and pour her heart and soul to, because I’ve been going through the same things she’s been facing, though not to the same degree as her. I’m so sorry, Cheslie. I feel as though I failed you somehow. I hope you’re at peace now.

  • @miekaxiii
    @miekaxiii 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Heart breaking 🥺 specially the end where they said what would we do without each other. Damn..

  • @Tbone42tx
    @Tbone42tx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    If someone told me what she was going g to do to herself ida never believed it she seemed so happy and full of life...Rip

  • @cmdulz4799
    @cmdulz4799 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    4:17 We missed you there Cheslie. I dont know what might happened and what not happened if we gave you attention. Rest well, dear.

    • @ladyclarke9903
      @ladyclarke9903 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That was very telling.
      My condolences to the bereaved.

  • @AuntyShaPray
    @AuntyShaPray 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    In hindsight you can see the vulnerability and inner child in Cheslie. She projected in Miss USA so "together"and focused and strong. Zozi is stunning, in a way Cheslie could have easily held the miss universe title with that light and radiance. God bless you in rest Cheslie

  • @gearmeup2307
    @gearmeup2307 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I hope they extend both your reigns, so you can be roomies for even longer...Love you both my gorgeous queens

    • @bcoull290
      @bcoull290 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So sad. I wonder how her friend is now and if she was aware of her depression.

  • @keira4988
    @keira4988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Love seeing our queens together! 🥰❤ This video made my day 😂

  • @AliseSloan
    @AliseSloan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I love your friendship!!! Yall are beautiful!

  • @gratefulblacksugar9619
    @gratefulblacksugar9619 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    RIP Ches🥺

  • @steppinoutwithbettyleake7683
    @steppinoutwithbettyleake7683 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Cheslie we miss you so much it hurts😭😭

  • @TM-dd2tz
    @TM-dd2tz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I laughed at this, and I Am sad. This was so cute. They were so close it seemed.

  • @4evermistyblu
    @4evermistyblu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They are so beautiful!!! I know Zozi is hurting, I feel so sad.

  • @Dr.Mini_moe
    @Dr.Mini_moe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Rip queen

  • @chelvinabona360
    @chelvinabona360 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    They are simply the best 😂😂🥰🥰😍👏👏

  • @ngcalicona1702
    @ngcalicona1702 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Eshee I love them❤❤❤❤❤

  • @TiffPo90
    @TiffPo90 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love the video, are you able to do apartment tour?

  • @trulysensitive5620
    @trulysensitive5620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    She must seek counseling to ensure she is okay after this shocking episode.

  • @destinypalin5657
    @destinypalin5657 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sooooo beautiful love you both forever sisters ♥️♥️♥️

  • @lindajones5979
    @lindajones5979 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    May family continue to be blessed Sandy from NC

  • @acpayne2100
    @acpayne2100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Ever since I started doing pageants I have wanted to be Miss USA and then Miss Universe, you guys inspire me to pursue my dream!! I've had people tell me Pageantry isn't worth it or its just for dumb girls, or that only blonde white girls with lots of makeup on can win. 😭😭 it definitely gets to me sometimes but you guys always make me believe that I truly can earn those titles one day!!! 👑👑👸 THANK YOU for inspiring me to keep going!! Love you guys 😘

    • @bmo3522
      @bmo3522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same! And This is my first and last year being able to compete and I’m going for it. And so should you. It’s an age cap so do it while you have time. Im also in the Army reserve. You can do it!!

    • @alicjakret4868
      @alicjakret4868 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      These contests are only for lazy and vain women who think that this way they will find a rich husband.!!!. Instead of going to normal and normal worka.!!!. And somebody tell me it's no different.!!!

  • @mercyapolot7757
    @mercyapolot7757 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awww this was so cute. 🥺😭

  • @stylebybbm6759
    @stylebybbm6759 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    😌no wonder Zozi is so devastated, they were really good friends 😤💔

  • @nelsonsonja
    @nelsonsonja 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    RIP Angel 👼

  • @michelleririn5075
    @michelleririn5075 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    america: land of cheerful happy faces
    and hopeless demolished hearts🤭🤭

    • @shawnhenderson3628
      @shawnhenderson3628 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Basically, Dysfunctional people are in abundance. Many masks their hidden torments well until an event and or episode create a domino effect and downward spiral.

    • @ajil3824
      @ajil3824 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes, I agree with you
      AMERICA: Land of MENTAL HEALTH PROBLEMS,
      same as Australia / New Zealand / U.K
      the same just not apply to china, japan, russia, africa, middle east, pacific people and many more

  • @atlantanaomi
    @atlantanaomi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    We Loved you Cheslie, Blessed are the Persecuted, for theirs is the Kingdom of Heaven...In Jesus Name. Amen...

  • @colourqueen22
    @colourqueen22 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️❤️ We will miss you forever

  • @marquiswallace9957
    @marquiswallace9957 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful women. Enjoyed watching this.

  • @AseAleisha
    @AseAleisha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Did they live together on her last days?

    • @glasstumble1677
      @glasstumble1677 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They were roommates during there reigns.

    • @AseAleisha
      @AseAleisha 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@glasstumble1677 gotcha

  • @anakarensanchez2835
    @anakarensanchez2835 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Que triste saber que ella eataba riendo en estos videos cuando en realidad no estaba nada bien 🥲💔😔😭😭😭😭

    • @kevinortiz1411
      @kevinortiz1411 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Si!!!!! Cómo me afectó su partida....... Que el Señor la tenga en su gloria.

  • @ogstuart8693
    @ogstuart8693 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm not judging I'm not God but to me it's just hard to believe somebody that's enjoying life will take their life

    • @BrendaBaBoom
      @BrendaBaBoom 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe something to do with managing the complicated aspects of her own energy.

  • @wl6279
    @wl6279 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    wow miss universe should have stayed with her huh

    • @bobbyc912
      @bobbyc912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      she definitely should have kept a roommate so she didn’t feel alone

    • @primeclash1957
      @primeclash1957 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      ...Zozi is in South Africa pursuing other projects. leaving MUO is almost like graduating from high school or college and each student goes to different parts of the country or world to start a new chapter in their life. Zozi should not get any blame for her passing.

  • @einraasoh4654
    @einraasoh4654 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So sorry Zozi

  • @leyaluvz589
    @leyaluvz589 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Was Zozi there when she did this 😢

  • @tracey8698
    @tracey8698 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She is so different on this video to anything I've seen of her,like a child very playful not having to be so serious,poor girl

  • @annadavis6361
    @annadavis6361 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All I can say is! Dang Dang Dang! 😔

    • @sheilaelaina8587
      @sheilaelaina8587 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did anyone notice the photo of the girls before you click on. Cheslie covers one Eye with the paper. That is the sign of Illuminati.😔

  • @BlackandIndi
    @BlackandIndi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    But where was Zozi when she jumped?

    • @LA-ty2ug
      @LA-ty2ug 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Living in her hometown in South Africa. They only lived together in the USA organization’s apartment during their reigns and then Zozi moved back overseas where she’s from.

  • @somozamaria
    @somozamaria 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How did this happen...

  • @ryanbrell
    @ryanbrell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm worried for Zozi and Catriona

  • @juicygossipworld4024
    @juicygossipworld4024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    😢

  • @betzy7560
    @betzy7560 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sooooooo she didn’t live alone???

  • @tonisellers7159
    @tonisellers7159 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    She was a kind soul....this was a brutal and horrifying way to end it all!!! Where are the surveillance cameras showing her going to the 29th floor?(something as insignificant as jay z and solange fighting was showed world wide...why can't we see Chelsea going on and off the freaking ELEVATOR! IF SHE WAS BLONDE HAIR AND BLUE EYES I BETCHA WE WOULD SEE IT!!! ) How come the media isn't showing that? How we don't know someone didn't go up there with her? Maybe someone getting paid to burn or surpress those tapes.maybe it was the 30th floor..30th day 30th birthday 30th floor satanic Hollywood sacrifice...Black women don't jump to their DEAThs...white males do...also my Major was Administration of Justice...I wanted to be an attorney/ or anything in Law enforcement...one thing about...my personality that I see in her...is a will to survive and thrive...a go getter...I have taken hard hits throughout the years...and ran across evil I didn't know exist...but I wasn't going to take my Life....this girl didn't EXIT this life volunteeringly she was forced to leave this LIFE
    Any personalities that are aspiring Attorneys...that's what you do...you fight for other people's lives...
    If depression hit her that hard ( which is a DEMONIC force) she can't function
    And she would have sought help
    I don't see her quiting like that
    EVERYBODY knows what it takes to get a degree
    To perform in a pageant...and host a show with all white folks...and she gone jump to her DEATH...???
    And the mom finds out two days before her DEATH...it's some foul play in this mess
    It will come out in heaven or a few years from now
    But I had to learn to tone down my voice cause I came across as a smart azz to PEOPLE...a know it all...a matter of fact type of person
    Attorney type people are like that...that girl did not kill herself...,,💔God forgive me if she did

    • @differentlyrome9732
      @differentlyrome9732 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agreed so weird really

    • @mayy9685
      @mayy9685 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree in some ways I think it’s more to the story. Black women just don’t jump it’s a white mans thing. I think it might have been a set up.. something isn’t adding up

    • @OuttheMud212
      @OuttheMud212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mayy9685 also a woman thing.. no woman would want to be found so vulnerable and in public. Especially a young and beautiful woman. idk?

    • @mayy9685
      @mayy9685 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OuttheMud212 yea it’s a horrific way to die. I personally never seen it but a friend of mine who worked for suicide cleanups company said it’s a horrific way to die loooks wise. I truly feel like something isn’t adding up

    • @porshalockett8754
      @porshalockett8754 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true

  • @reedssweden
    @reedssweden 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    R.I.P. young lady. I hope the investigators can figure out how Cheslie's body got so far out into the STREET, or that a witness (if their was one) can tell the investigators HOW she jumped (if she jumped). If she jumped she would have had to clear the low building UNDER the terrace, as well as the SIDEWALK in order for her to end up where she was found??? Something smells here!!!

    • @AngelaNicolexo0729
      @AngelaNicolexo0729 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The coroner ruled it a suicide and her parents spoke out about her being depressed too. The people that know her better than anyone and said she was very depressed in recent days . I feel she did this and it was a suicide but I don’t think she had it planned. it was a rash decision I feel :( we can’t determine what will happen when we jump off a building so we need to stop speculating foul play when the coroner ruled it out and her mom as well. Also she left a note leaving everything to her mom and she pinned a note a year ago to allure magazine about dreading being in her 30s. She was very sad in recent days it seems:( RIP to her she was so lovely and kind 😢🙏🥺

    • @AseAleisha
      @AseAleisha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stop assuming

    • @jenniferfumero7615
      @jenniferfumero7615 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They did ask people. That's how they called the police. Someone ran to a convenience store to report it to somebody!

    • @AngelaNicolexo0729
      @AngelaNicolexo0729 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jenniferfumero7615 yup I heard that too! They saw her jumping I heard and then some other people saw her body on the street :( how traumatic for them to see that 😢😩

    • @jenniferfumero7615
      @jenniferfumero7615 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@AngelaNicolexo0729 I read that too! That someone called the cops and ran away in terror. I feel for everybody involved.

  • @lunsas
    @lunsas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awwwww

  • @gorgeouswales9635
    @gorgeouswales9635 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So sad now when you watch🙏🏽 Zozi her roommate doesn’t know anything??

  • @BoKnows-t9t
    @BoKnows-t9t 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    just priorities so messed up, attachment to materialistic things, addicted to social media, etc. These are recipes for a toxic mental state, and I am afraid many people are like this, just about almost everyone. Social media is the devil man. How could she do that to her mom, the level of pain her mom is going through right now. It is not always about you in life, many people need you around. Rest in peace Cheslie.

    • @lasagnekiller
      @lasagnekiller 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      High functioning depression is a serious mental illness. This is not a matter of priority or choice. This poor young woman was desperate enough to jump from a building, which means she must have been in absolute agony. Hopefully you will never understand.

    • @lifestraight
      @lifestraight 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Parker is thinking from a very selfish mindset that ironically prioritizes the health of others over one's own individual health. Cheslie's life was to be lived to her satisfaction and her fulfillment. She was not meant to merely exist as a depressed, decorative ornament or feature in the lives of people who loved her. Of primary importance in one's life should be their health. If they are merely existing so as not to sadden others who would be hurt by their absence, that is not a life lived well.

    • @gems3604
      @gems3604 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yours is not a popular view. It cannot be popular in this society and at this time. I'm surprised, actually, that you did not mention the importance of a strong faith and spiritual life. Up until recently Black women have had the absolute lowest rates of "self deletion" than any other group including Black men. Black women in this country face a lot of health, socio-economic and romantic stress compared to other groups. But they have historically withstood the path of self deletion. Not so surprisingly, the statistics tell a different story for Black women who choose to follow the narrative of the modern successful career woman. Everyone must choose his or her own path. Cheslie Kryst followed the script of success diligently. She practiced self care and, according to some reports I have read, she did seek counseling. I do wonder if she was on any medication for depression. She did all the right things. She was beautiful and successful. Her family loved her. Her friends loved her. Her colleagues loved her. Yet, she was found smashed and crumpled on the concrete after jumping from the 29th floor of a luxury high rise condominium. I can't question what was in her head. I can question what the impact of the facts I recited have on me and what kind of instruction I can give my daughters as they begin to make their way in the world. That's all we can do. I hear what you're saying, though, loud and clear.

    • @kathrynbryant5966
      @kathrynbryant5966 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lasagnekiller 9

    • @bbailey908
      @bbailey908 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gems3604 By far the best summary I have read! You are brilliant!

  • @ayah812
    @ayah812 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🇿🇦🇺🇸❤️

  • @jackieo4980
    @jackieo4980 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Their gay, but it doesn’t matter.

  • @christinawilliams3982
    @christinawilliams3982 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    😢