My father always told us, THE BIGGEST PROBLEM WITH WOMEN IS THEY DONT LISTEN TO WHAT A MAN SAY. A MAN WILL TELL YOU HE DONT WANT YOU AND YOU WONT LISTEN.
WITH MEN AND WOMEN LOOK AT THEIR ACTIONS. BIBLE SAYS "YE SHALL KNOW THEM BY THE FRUIT THEY BEAR" IT'S INDISPUTABLE. Father's actions say he's a ho and dishonest to "girlfriend" (not the mother)
Thank God you had a father to tell you that. Apparently this young woman didn't. Her desperation is so evident, wolves like this man can easily manipulate their emotions. It happens a lot. That's why the judge told him that he has to become the type of man that will lead his daughter away from bums like him.
Why she keep boasting about "he can't keep his hands off me" like it's a badge of honor. In case you missed it, He didn't claim you or your baby. It's actually sad.
Sadly I was her about five years ago. It took this guy to tell me I was nothing to him (literally in those words) in order for me to move on. Thank God a baby did not come out of the relationship. I truly feel bad for this young lady, but she has to realize that love first starts with yourself.
Villainous Thoughts Listen, soul ties are real. When you have feelings for someone, they don’t just go away, so yes it took that situation to move forward.
I completely understand that was me just a few short months ago. Like you said soul ties are really real n ppl won’t understand until they are in the same position
Bless her heart. You could see the hurt on her face and her whole energy shift when Judge Lake told her the truth about him. She's so young and so naive and that naivety gave her a baby by a bum
Does "I want you to have my baby" replace "Will you marry me"? I've seen too many women on this show say that as if it.was a promise of a lifetime commitment.
Today it is "let's move in" then when it gets serious they go to the have my baby step. But, when you bring up marriage most people say "Ooooo, that's too serious, I'm not ready for that".
I felt bad watching those slow tears go down her face. The kind of tears you get when you realise the person you love doesn't love you back and is just using you. We've all been there girl, keep your head up!
She's 20 and he's been asking for a baby for at least two years ? Something is definitely off where's her parents? Why weren't there talks about college and careers? (Rather than a baby) Sad case I hope she learns from this to teach baby girl to know better.
Sadly this girl is in her 20's; maybe early 30's. The Judge has to be the first one to speak truth in her. The talk should come with from these girls mothers. They have these daughters and teach them absolutely NOTHING. Daughters out here fending for themselves and their sense of logic ends up being misconstrued about life. Don't teach them go to college. Get accepted to a University. NOTHING. You can tell that's the first time somebody ever talk to her. The Judge speaks to her while she has her in her courtroom cause she know this.
This poor girl, I feel so sorry for her. She will most likely have more babies with this man and he wont think nothing of her or her children. She is so in need of counseling, even psycho therapy because she cannot see he does not love her, I dont even think he likes her to be honest. She is just a quick jump. How absolutely heartbreaking. We need to do better as black folk 😥😥
Please watch again this time with no emotions. then you will pick up their emotions what I saw wasn't what you seen. when the baby was mentioned he showed emotions and he cares about that girl don't let a gender opinion a one-sided emotion cloud your thoughts. I don't know if you're messing with beta men but an alpha man is still going to protect the side piece what you saw on TV is not how they are in real life. I'm not here to insult you I'm sorry if you feel that way shalom my sister. 🦁🙏🏾
@@henrydennis7062 a young lady like herself she came and gone ride open her legs while these men because they're going to tell her they will tell her what does she want to hear
"When you do clownery... the clown comes back to bite" slept with him to get back at another chick, ended up a single mom with a dead beat... Whew Chile!!!
For some strange reason idk if she fully understood the gems that was dropped during this hearing. I hope she watches when this airs and get a better understanding for the second time.
I can't even be mad at dude, he is TELLLING her she ain't nothing but a PIECE and she accepting it...oh well, let him keep doing him. Got his name on you, still letting him hit...GIRL GET IT TOGETHER FOR YOUR DAUGHTERS SAKE!
That's so true I hate when people want you to tell them the truth, you tell it to them and they still try to make it seem like you lying. He was upfront about it and everything Lord help her
That's the thing: he's saying two different things. He's saying he doesn't want to be with her and he's not her baby's father one moment but then he's saying he loves her, wants her to have his baby, participates in a gender reveal party, helps her deliver the baby and acts like a boyfriend the next moment. It the dude's fault that it has gotten this far.
@@nolanharris4111 I can't say I completely agree. I'm not saying he's blameless but let's be real. Men have been saying the same thing(s) to women for thousands of years (and for the exact same reasons). Our parents and grandparents didn't fall for that BS, so why are we giving current adults a pass to be silly, naive societal drains? And this guy is probably the worst person to believe. He's 21 and talking about "all his other kids"? Come on! Eventually Ms Phillips is going to have to learn that a real man doesn't TELL, he SHOWS.
Ironic but you can't or won't be positive huh? Maybe her name is Promise because God promised her a chance at life, a chance to have love in the face of hate...but you don't hear me though huh?
She's up here crying because he doesn't want her, but that's what she gets! What did she expect from a man that she took from somebody else. Girl grow TF up!
Her lifestyle choices are fairly common and pre-City or Hot Girl. She’s just misguided in thinking that giving up some cat means a man wants you as a partner when he really just wants a hole.
I don't know much about the City Girls, but I think this is the exact opposite of what they put out. They tell these girls to get money and not fool with any worthless and deadbeat dudes. 🤷🏾♀️
God Bless that young girl and her daughter. Pray God teach her to put all her confidence in him, and she lean on God. That is the greatest gift she can give her daughter. I see the pain in her face. Period🤝🙏👍
@@hamtaro6471 its trash having more unwanted babies I end up paying for. Now 70 million on Medicaid. We will need to change so we pay them Not to have babies. Sad for country
It's an easy way to get girls these days. It's that feeling of 'oh, he's allowing me the honor of carrying his seed'. So many women fall for that mess, it's sad. Sorry, but I ain't letting dudes fill my garden with weeds 💅🏿
All these women need to hear what the judge said.. close them and keep them closed. The judge don't say it enough!!! .. also say, to keep the pp in their pants and stop hoeing themselves to the man hoes!!
It's sad that the mother was so focused on tearing him down at the end that she didn't realize the Judge was describing *HER* when was listing off the traits that her daughter shouldn't pattern herself after.
I felt bad for this girl because he don't care a thing about her she need to move on and raise her daughter.. Judge gave her some grown woman advice though...
This beautiful young woman loves him so much but for him she just somebody he can sleep with, guys come on let us respect woman, those who has no interest in long lasting relationship don't ruin the life of these young women, remembering that we were born from women and they are our sisters too.
@@doggcript3949 I agree with you but she chased after him to hurt another woman. It's a different situation if she was innocent. She is reaping what she sowed.
@@tricktracy2254 big bro, you got a point but now she is hurt therefore we have to console her. As for me I can't talk like that cause that is exact same mistake made by my close female relatives.
For some reason i feel sorry for her i know she did this to herself but i hope she learns from this and be a example for her daughter such a precious baby.
Im with you, the way she teared up when the judge dropped some wisdom on her, seems like she didn't have motherly advise growing up, though she was embarrassed, you can tell she wanted someone who cared enough to lead her the right way. What's sad is this is many of our young woman, lacking the wisdom of the elder woman to guide them through life.
I believe what the Judge said at the end about the daughter looking for men like her daddy kind of resonated with her. She's teaching her daughter what is and isn't acceptable in a relationship. If she doesn't respect herself, odds are her daughter won't either.
This isn’t true. Sometimes women hearts are fragile and want to believe that real love exists. We’re are manipulated all the time by men claiming to love us back. It’s not that she doesn’t love herself, she was fooled to believe that someone love her back.
She has mental issues. She talks like he wants her. He don’t want her. She’s just desperate to be with him and doesn’t want to look goofy when he leaves her. Gain some self esteem and better your life lady.
She may not have the best role model(s) whilst growing up. I think Judge Lake got through to her a little bit here where she hopefully learned a very touch lesson. I learned the hard way myself but had only one child in doing so (I'm now 47). Hope both these two grow up really quick so they - and especially their beautiful daughter (& his other children) - do not have to suffer like so many young families before them who took years to learn the 'hard way.' And, hopefully those people who threw the 'gender reveal' party for/with them will be of some support. My mother wanted me to be independent but to the point of never ever having anyone in my life so I certainly didn't learn anything nor anything was modeled for me (my mother never would have been one of those women that said I want to be a grandmother no matter my age). I swear she was trying to live vicariously through me as I think she only got married because that what she knew to do at the time (& she was raised as a die hard Catholic...never to divorce). My only sibling died young. I know if my father hadn't disowned me strictly for being with the man that I fell in love with (I found out later that it was not for any reason but to retain control over me even though I was out of my house putting myself through college while working 60+ hrs when I met my ex-husband) and if my father had made me feel special at all then I wouldn't have fallen for my ex's BS. With that said, I know I still have accountability especially for my daughter's sake (I chose this man to be my daughter's father who completely abandoned her in EVERY way at age 8 when we finally separated; I with she could have better but then I get back around to feeling she wouldn't be here either...but still). Thus, the best I can do for my daughter is to continuously break that cycle (by making sure she always feels loved, supported & guided wherever possible; and if I can't do it by myself then I need to find the resources to learn to help me provide for that). Now she's happily married with a child of her own (doing well with her career; she doesn't want anymore children & right now I agree her & her husband are busy enough with the childcare expenses that I help supplement whenever I can as being a parent is a selfless responsibility that never ends IMO...one that I'll always respect & appreciate).
@@dorothybraxton1241 She didn't learn nothing. Had one child, then same guy last night unprotected. Hard way or not, she needs to learn something, before she has another baby and or gets an incurable STD.
I know a lot of people like them, fine, get all you want. But to me, I hate them, they look like dirty spots on someone's skin and I don't care how much colour ink it has, To each their own.
I felt sorry for her when the judge had to slap her with the truth. But I'm glad that the judge did. She needed that slap! Because she refused to face reality. He reminds me of a toddler when they drop something Uh-oh Uh-oh. But toddlers grow out of it. And he hasn't.
These ladies who come here saying loud and proud... "he wanted me to have his baby.."... Please don't be so proud to say that out loud.. 😒😒 P. S... His side, her side and the truth.
She said: "I want my baby to have a father, not a daddy, a father; a for-real father". This touched me and speaks VOLUMES. I guess her "Daddy" was the fun guy that showed up once per month for ice cream.
She was confused . The saying goes “ I want a daddy for my child , not just a father ‘ anyone can be a father , only the good ones become daddy’s . Meaning they are involved in the child’s day to day life .
@@nobodymatters3294 I think Cecilie was offering another response to a man who says he wants a woman to have his baby. Somehow 'Warehouse Packer' doesn't strike me as the best line of work to support multiple children.
“I’m gettin sick of these gender reveals, we need to have some father reveals”!
💯
Judge spoke the truth.
Felicia Hepburn that’s the line right there! Judge Lake is the business.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
💯💯💯
“You can’t believe what a man says when your legs are open, you gotta listen to what they say when your legs are closed.”
Amen!🙏🏻
Preach Sister!!🙏🏻🙏🏻
That's a word!
Amen!
Best quote for the YEAR!!!
She is so pretty, but SO slow. OMG Who gets a "property of" tattoo?!!
😂😂😂
you would think that a tattoo listing yourself as "property of" would be seen as *especially* degrading for a black woman
It’s like her head is empty. Just a bunch of bumbling mess speeding out of her mouth. Embarrassing!!
Rightt she sold her self with one tattoo 🤦🏽♀️
Childdd
She talk 100 miles per hour 🤦🏾♀️ Girl breathe.
I come from another English speaking country and man she is hard to understand sometimes!
period
Fr
yesss
Alesha Brown 😂😂😂
guy: uh oh.
girl: period.
whew chile, the ghetto...
ramon x 💀😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
ramon x 😂😂😂😭
I thought only I realized this!.. G H E T T O
Bruh! I expected at some point a twerk session with dollar bills being thrown...😂😂😂😂
She laid with him trying to hurt another woman and ended up hurting herself and daughter
Big Karma. And now the guy linked to her for the rest of their lives and doesn't want nothing but what she wanted from him to hurt the other woman
Exactly!! So sad.. don't make a bed for somebody else unless you're prepared to lay in it
I love karma
Amen, well said.
Facts 💯
Girl!!! Last night? No protection...For a man who is denying your child? Why???
3 or 4 rounds honey and proud🤦🏻♀️
Desperation
I was the same at 21. It's so sad when a young girl doesn't know her worth 😭
& the baby only a month old she didn’t even wait 6 weeks. C section scar barely healed 🙄
Desperate!!!!
My father always told us, THE BIGGEST PROBLEM WITH WOMEN IS THEY DONT LISTEN TO WHAT A MAN SAY. A MAN WILL TELL YOU HE DONT WANT YOU AND YOU WONT LISTEN.
WITH MEN AND WOMEN LOOK AT THEIR ACTIONS. BIBLE SAYS "YE SHALL KNOW THEM BY THE FRUIT THEY BEAR" IT'S INDISPUTABLE. Father's actions say he's a ho and dishonest to "girlfriend" (not the mother)
@@rosej5029 What? Did you pay attention to the video? They both some hos
Thank God you had a father to tell you that. Apparently this young woman didn't. Her desperation is so evident, wolves like this man can easily manipulate their emotions. It happens a lot. That's why the judge told him that he has to become the type of man that will lead his daughter away from bums like him.
Wise Dad. Better listen to him.
Ms. Utopia Whew PC friend! Give us the word Chile!!! I tell my younger cousins this all of the time.
why is she proudly admitting sleeping with him the night before the show??? girl this is not making you look good
Their both CLOWNS
THIS WHAT BEING COUNTRY AND SLOW GETS YOU
Why she keep boasting about "he can't keep his hands off me" like it's a badge of honor. In case you missed it, He didn't claim you or your baby. It's actually sad.
E right! Can’t keep his hand off of you but mistreating your child. Smh.
She mistook lust for love. It was heartbreaking to watch Judge Lake school her, but she needed to hear it.
E 😭😭😭😭😭 what I was thinking
this is a true definition of a FOOL, EVEN AFTER SAID AND DONE HE WILL STILL GIVE HIM SOME AFTER THE SHOW, FACTS
@Roger King I am and my husband treats me like one.
all i heard was “ period “ and “ uh oh “ this whole episode i’m sorry 😐
That period at the end when judge was talking was super cringe.
@@Shanteb Yeah she got in about 50 PERIODS in one minute😔
I could take his "uh oh's" over that "period"😔 I was like if this girl say that one more time 😬😵and then she said it 100 more times😬😵😲😖
I was waiting for the judge to tell them to shut up. 😒😒
He was very annoying with that "oh o" like a lil schoolboy.
Sadly I was her about five years ago. It took this guy to tell me I was nothing to him (literally in those words) in order for me to move on. Thank God a baby did not come out of the relationship. I truly feel bad for this young lady, but she has to realize that love first starts with yourself.
@A G . I'm so proud of you how are you holding up
Villainous Thoughts Listen, soul ties are real. When you have feelings for someone, they don’t just go away, so yes it took that situation to move forward.
Dutchess Carniege Gordon I’m good honey; thank you for asking! It’s been 7 years since that situation and I’m FREE! Thank you again for asking ❤️
I completely understand that was me just a few short months ago. Like you said soul ties are really real n ppl won’t understand until they are in the same position
Know👏🏼your👏🏼worth👏🏼❤
He killing me with this 'uh-oh' 😂😂😂
Sade Adams IKR! Make it stop!
I was so tired of him saying that.
He reminded me of Jo Koy when he said that...
Sounding like the 1.5 year old I take care of, smh...
Ikr?! Someone come get him
this how manny times the girl said “period”
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amour.angie does it matter?
amour.angie 🤣🤣🤣 Good one.
Lol saying period but missed her period
Uhoh
Ben Walter yes it shows how ignorant this generation is! She doesn’t know how to articulate in a courtroom! Period!
Bless her heart. You could see the hurt on her face and her whole energy shift when Judge Lake told her the truth about him. She's so young and so naive and that naivety gave her a baby by a bum
If all you have to give is what she did, that is how you will be treated. Stop excusing her.
Does "I want you to have my baby" replace "Will you marry me"? I've seen too many women on this show say that as if it.was a promise of a lifetime commitment.
Makes no sense to me. No thought to that child. Sounds selfish to the tenth degree.
Unfortunately, it is a life time commitment but not in a good way... poor children 😢
For the pick me, pick me, ride or die types it seems like an aphrodisiac.
Today it is "let's move in" then when it gets serious they go to the have my baby step. But, when you bring up marriage most people say "Ooooo, that's too serious, I'm not ready for that".
DefiesAllStereotypes extremely selfish and hedonistic for sure!
Judge verbally snatched the goofy out that girl. She needed to hear ALL of that!
She really did
Her “hYUk” headass needed to hear it
She sure, I wish Judge Lake would have got at him a bit more. Cause he definitely played on her low self worth and openness
She.needed to hear a lot more if u ask me
😂😂 she sure did
I felt bad watching those slow tears go down her face. The kind of tears you get when you realise the person you love doesn't love you back and is just using you. We've all been there girl, keep your head up!
She needs sense.
You can't listen to what a man says when your legs are open you have to listen to them when your legs are closed ~Judge Lake
That hit the girl cold when judge said it. And that is true.
Amen...Roll Tide.
Rhema
Avi B BBB
True
I feel so bad for her...it seems like she has had little to no guidance.
Nightnurse 117 agreed ! I feel bad for her as well... 😔
True. Who in their right mind would tatoo "property of ..." on their skin?!
She act slow
She's 20 and he's been asking for a baby for at least two years ? Something is definitely off where's her parents? Why weren't there talks about college and careers? (Rather than a baby) Sad case I hope she learns from this to teach baby girl to know better.
Zero! Where is her mother???
“I’m about sick of these gender reveals! We need to start having some father reveals!” THAT PART, Judge Lake!
He sitting there snapping his fingers like they were really sharing spoken words of value. Her tatoo should have said Property of BooBoo the Fool. Smh
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Right 🤣🤣
😂
Correct 😂🤣
Uh oh
My girl shouldn't be worried about him riding a little scooter she should be worried about him riding bareback! He's 21 and has how many children 🤔
Debe JohnB word🗣🗣🗣
Thank you!!! This man said “ALL my other kids” bruh how many is that?!?!
@@Chasla93 thought I heard that but didn't feel like rewinding
'Bare back' though! 🤣😄🤣😄🤣 Ain't that the TRUTH!
@@Chasla93 I think EVERYONE thought that when they heard it.
I’m glad the judge told her like it is! She needs to keep that same energy in every episode.
no fr
This judge is fair and just idk why some ppl accuse her of toxic feminism
She really believed he cared, or really didn't want to believe he didn't...she's the delusional one.
Sometimes men says things and you believe it. That's why people are multiplying.
Perioooooooopood🤣🤣🤣.
Love is not logical.
Dont down her.
@@maryrose2757 😂😂😂
She thought that she was being cute until the judge read her but she needed to hear all of it. Periodt!
lol
😂😂😂😂😂eeeee
Sadly this girl is in her 20's; maybe early 30's.
The Judge has to be the first one to speak truth in her. The talk should come with from these girls mothers. They have these daughters and teach them absolutely NOTHING. Daughters out here fending for themselves and their sense of logic ends up being misconstrued about life. Don't teach them go to college. Get accepted to a University. NOTHING. You can tell that's the first time somebody ever talk to her.
The Judge speaks to her while she has her in her courtroom cause she know this.
@@jackiethompson4112 she's 20 years old
Not the periodt at the end 😂😭😭😭
He does not respect her at ALL smh 🤦♀️
“All my other kids...”. How many kids does this 21 year old man have?!?!
The use of the word 'all' would lead me to believe 3, minimum. 🤮
At least 2 or 3
He have 6 kids
@@missbeehaven2023 I know them both. He got 3 boys one didn't make it and 3 girls.
@@kenyannakershaw1847 6 kids? I hope he's working on establishing a solid career so that he can take good care of all his kids.
As crazy as they both are, the hurt on her face near the end broke my heart.
Na had me laughing still.
Yeah me too 😥
She will probably spend many more years trying to convince herself that she's going to be relevant to him. Just sad SMH
@@davidalbritton4282 lol I was laughing also
Right I hope she finds her self esteem.
This poor girl, I feel so sorry for her. She will most likely have more babies with this man and he wont think nothing of her or her children. She is so in need of counseling, even psycho therapy because she cannot see he does not love her, I dont even think he likes her to be honest. She is just a quick jump. How absolutely heartbreaking. We need to do better as black folk 😥😥
So very true.
I feel bad her
Please watch again this time with no emotions. then you will pick up their emotions what I saw wasn't what you seen. when the baby was mentioned he showed emotions and he cares about that girl don't let a gender opinion a one-sided emotion cloud your thoughts. I don't know if you're messing with beta men but an alpha man is still going to protect the side piece what you saw on TV is not how they are in real life. I'm not here to insult you I'm sorry if you feel that way shalom my sister. 🦁🙏🏾
@@henrydennis7062 a young lady like herself she came and gone ride open her legs while these men because they're going to tell her they will tell her what does she want to hear
@@henrydennis7062 👍 true. 👋🏾 hi, are you an alpha male? Peace.❤
I bet the ex-boyfriend is watching and laughing right now at her.
I wonder how many children she has with him. We know Mr. Polk has some, since he said "that baby didn't look like my other kids."
Hopefully non with the ex, because she is going to try and make him pick up the slack.
MVP comment
@@ibnzuhr8722 Absolutely! If she doesn't have kids with the ex, he's like 'whew! Dodged a large caliber bullet with that one!'.
@@Remianen
Dodged a 3.5 inch 54 pellet buckshot.
"When you do clownery... the clown comes back to bite" slept with him to get back at another chick, ended up a single mom with a dead beat... Whew Chile!!!
I hope that other girl is living her life like it's golden
Yup, she should’ve let god take care of that other girl instead of taking revenge into her own hands.
and the fact she cheated on her boyfriend with him showed her character from the start he wasn't going to respect a woman like that
This! I bet the other girl is living her best life ever, too
He said when he held the baby at birth he had “Bad Vibes” 😂😂😂😂
Hey a vibe is a vibe and that baby didn’t have a good one
I hope the daughter doesn’t see this as she gets older
💀
😂😂
Such an idiotic thing to say 🙄🙄🙄
The tattoo don’t just say his name she said it says “ property of *his name* “ smh wheww
That girl does not think. .
@@me-pm6mx first she'll need a brain
She a bird, when will people realize that babies don’t keep a man...
🤣 man I can’t imagine
Double sigh.
nobody:
not even the judge:
the guy: UH OH
😂
i think he got tourette
@@anastasialapointe5277 what the fuch how
@@itskiaraooax3_ cuz thats tourette behavior
@@anastasialapointe5277 😳
For some strange reason idk if she fully understood the gems that was dropped during this hearing. I hope she watches when this airs and get a better understanding for the second time.
I can't even be mad at dude, he is TELLLING her she ain't nothing but a PIECE and she accepting it...oh well, let him keep doing him. Got his name on you, still letting him hit...GIRL GET IT TOGETHER FOR YOUR DAUGHTERS SAKE!
That's so true I hate when people want you to tell them the truth, you tell it to them and they still try to make it seem like you lying. He was upfront about it and everything Lord help her
That's the thing: he's saying two different things. He's saying he doesn't want to be with her and he's not her baby's father one moment but then he's saying he loves her, wants her to have his baby, participates in a gender reveal party, helps her deliver the baby and acts like a boyfriend the next moment. It the dude's fault that it has gotten this far.
@@nolanharris4111 I can't say I completely agree. I'm not saying he's blameless but let's be real. Men have been saying the same thing(s) to women for thousands of years (and for the exact same reasons). Our parents and grandparents didn't fall for that BS, so why are we giving current adults a pass to be silly, naive societal drains? And this guy is probably the worst person to believe. He's 21 and talking about "all his other kids"? Come on! Eventually Ms Phillips is going to have to learn that a real man doesn't TELL, he SHOWS.
I’m glad the Judge gave her that wake up call 😂 because she needed it.
“He’s not delusional, he’s manipulative.”
UH OH...UH OH
“When you down grade him , You down grade yourself.” 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾.
Poor thing
As soon I saw the pic...i knew that baby was his...that baby looks just like him
Leslie Graham doesn’t she!’
The nose couldn't hide one bit..
She looks exactly like him
Twin
Yeap this one was easy.
I find it funny that the baby name is “Promise” yet neither one of them “promised” to be loyal to who they were with 😂😂😂
Ironic but you can't or won't be positive huh? Maybe her name is Promise because God promised her a chance at life, a chance to have love in the face of hate...but you don't hear me though huh?
UH OH...UH OH
“Tell him again your earner. Tell him again your earner.” Lol
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂🤣🤣madea moment
Quijuandas You are WRONG for this. And right. And funny.
😂😂😂
Quijuandas “ Look at my baby eerrrs.” 😂😂😂😂
She’s not making any sense... she thinks she’s talking too fast but she actually talkin too much!
Shes sounds crazy af
Right !! I was thinking the same thing.
In some cultures it basically is.
Judge was harsh to this little girl... FINALLY. Brought her to tears. She needed to hear all of that.
She wasn't saying all that PERIODT when she missed her PERIOD! lol
Uuuuhhnhh u foolin...jst as much as thm
🤣🤣🤣
Lol..done with you lol 😆
No she wasn't. Instead she switched to oh oh.😲😀
😂😂😂😂😂
She's up here crying because he doesn't want her, but that's what she gets! What did she expect from a man that she took from somebody else. Girl grow TF up!
Exactly!!!
For real💯
He need to grow up to it stop playing these women like it's some kind of sport
Facts!!!
@@dashawnathomas6402 you’re right but….she’s playing the victim. She was trying to hurt another woman by sleeping with him.
"You listen to what he says when your legs are open. You need to hear what he says when your legs are closed." That was HEAVY!!!!
this is sad, they should be embarrassed
Courtney Bailey yesssssss this was ignorance at its finest. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ No shame.
She should be embarrassed
Walter Brown naw I said what I said..
So true.
@@mrspaceforever exactly
"He caught a little Scooter Uber"😂😂😂😂😂
Laughing N. Learning 🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😭😭
Judge said he need to stop scooting between every pair of legs that will open for him 😂😂😂😩
@@755Media 😂😂😂
he sounds like a broken mixtape
“uh-oh uh-oh uh-oh”
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂uh-oh uh-oh
“Tell him again your erner” girl what ? 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 💀💀💀💀💀
That’s that South Carolina acsent😂
@@sweetypie8855 I promise we don't all speak like that lol
The Walking Megan lol I wasn’t saying it like in a bad way but it tickles me when I hear my cousins talk like that! Lol
😂😂😂
she’s trying so hard to make him look bad but it backfires every time🤦🏽♀️
YESSSSS
It's true. Notice when Judge question her about her behaviour she goes quiet but when he addresses him, she has alot to say.
Hé didn’t said uh-oh when the results said your ARE the father 🤣😂😂😂
She's going to crying in a few years and look back at this video. She made a complete fool out of herself.
FACTS, WHERES HER PARENTS AT?
And she still wont be able 2 say more than PERIOD😔 They both were inmature but it was her bragging that sent me💁 Judge handled her well💯
No they'll be back in 12 months...he's whipped & she thinks it means something...glad Judge LL told her straight
I hope so cuz many never learn or takes 10 plus years and 3 kids later
She’s dickmatized! Poor thing and she’s delusional
I’m so glad the Judge said “Girl, Girl, stop...” and everything after that was nothing but truth. That girl needed to hear that.
Both parents too young to raise a child. They still need to grow up themselves.
Mentally childish yes
Judge was all the way fed up when she said "gurrrrl stoopp"
City girls got TOO much impact on the young generation Lord help us...
Mannnn this is NOT City Girl activity. 😩
Smh...PERIOD!
Her lifestyle choices are fairly common and pre-City or Hot Girl. She’s just misguided in thinking that giving up some cat means a man wants you as a partner when he really just wants a hole.
I don't know much about the City Girls, but I think this is the exact opposite of what they put out. They tell these girls to get money and not fool with any worthless and deadbeat dudes. 🤷🏾♀️
Snapped Star honestly I was like if she says period one more time
lol “we need more father reveals” I am dead. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
‘He’s a very toxic person
Judge: girl, stop just stop 😂
Shawty was trying to give a sympathy speech but the judge ain’t no fool
He is a very toxic person but I slept with him last night unprotected, I would stop her too if I were the judge
I love
I’m sorry I don’t care how 🔥🔥 the d is I’ll never get a man name tattooed on me... EVER....
The only guy i will get is my son named.
If u really love him u would get his name tattooed. Smh
ALL FACTS....🤞🏾👍🏼🙏🏽
@@shantellspeaker6293 right. The only male names I have on me are my boys...👩👦👦
PREACH!
God Bless that young girl and her daughter. Pray God teach her to put all her confidence in him, and she lean on God. That is the greatest gift she can give her daughter. I see the pain in her face. Period🤝🙏👍
What is all this “I want you to have my baby” nonsense?? I live in an inner city and this mess is RAMPANT. WHY?
It's these new Generation people. So sick of them. 😷
It's a pay raise for them from the tax payer
it's disgusting!!
@@hamtaro6471 its trash having more unwanted babies I end up paying for.
Now 70 million on Medicaid.
We will need to change so we pay them Not to have babies.
Sad for country
It's an easy way to get girls these days. It's that feeling of 'oh, he's allowing me the honor of carrying his seed'. So many women fall for that mess, it's sad. Sorry, but I ain't letting dudes fill my garden with weeds 💅🏿
She needed to hear that. I hope she listens. You were on point.
All these women need to hear what the judge said.. close them and keep them closed. The judge don't say it enough!!!
.. also say, to keep the pp in their pants and stop hoeing themselves to the man hoes!!
It's sad that the mother was so focused on tearing him down at the end that she didn't realize the Judge was describing *HER* when was listing off the traits that her daughter shouldn't pattern herself after.
Better cover that tattoo with some flowers😂
Better to have it painfully removed so she can remember her stupidity.
Better yet, cover it with her daughter's name
😭😭😭😭
He funny asf 😂😂 “uh oh” and she keep saying period like she don’t look like a clown
Girl a whole clown!
I wish she could've learned this lesson without having a baby. I feel so bad for her.
UH OH..UH OH
I felt bad for this girl because he don't care a thing about her she need to move on and raise her daughter.. Judge gave her some grown woman advice though...
I mean it is her fault she had a bf and cared zero about that man’s feelings this is karma
She didn't hear NONE of it
This beautiful young woman loves him so much but for him she just somebody he can sleep with, guys come on let us respect woman, those who has no interest in long lasting relationship don't ruin the life of these young women, remembering that we were born from women and they are our sisters too.
@@doggcript3949 I agree with you but she chased after him to hurt another woman. It's a different situation if she was innocent. She is reaping what she sowed.
@@tricktracy2254 big bro, you got a point but now she is hurt therefore we have to console her. As for me I can't talk like that cause that is exact same mistake made by my close female relatives.
For some reason i feel sorry for her i know she did this to herself but i hope she learns from this and be a example for her daughter such a precious baby.
Im with you, the way she teared up when the judge dropped some wisdom on her, seems like she didn't have motherly advise growing up, though she was embarrassed, you can tell she wanted someone who cared enough to lead her the right way. What's sad is this is many of our young woman, lacking the wisdom of the elder woman to guide them through life.
@@savonhdtv6009 you are so right
Yeah, it’s clear she didn’t have much guidance and she’s very young. Looking for love in all the wrong places.
@@KrysBrown89 exactly
I believe what the Judge said at the end about the daughter looking for men like her daddy kind of resonated with her. She's teaching her daughter what is and isn't acceptable in a relationship. If she doesn't respect herself, odds are her daughter won't either.
When you don’t love yourself, it shows in your choices in men. Bless this girl and this innocent baby, she’s got a long road ahead in growing up😔
This is the absolute truth.
This is a great statement.
This isn’t true. Sometimes women hearts are fragile and want to believe that real love exists. We’re are manipulated all the time by men claiming to love us back. It’s not that she doesn’t love herself, she was fooled to believe that someone love her back.
She has mental issues. She talks like he wants her. He don’t want her. She’s just desperate to be with him and doesn’t want to look goofy when he leaves her. Gain some self esteem and better your life lady.
Epic Topic she’s young and honestly doesn’t know any better. It’s nothing wrong with her mentally. She need guidance.
But they arent together..he git an entire girlfriend and it aint her
She may not have the best role model(s) whilst growing up. I think Judge Lake got through to her a little bit here where she hopefully learned a very touch lesson. I learned the hard way myself but had only one child in doing so (I'm now 47). Hope both these two grow up really quick so they - and especially their beautiful daughter (& his other children) - do not have to suffer like so many young families before them who took years to learn the 'hard way.' And, hopefully those people who threw the 'gender reveal' party for/with them will be of some support.
My mother wanted me to be independent but to the point of never ever having anyone in my life so I certainly didn't learn anything nor anything was modeled for me (my mother never would have been one of those women that said I want to be a grandmother no matter my age). I swear she was trying to live vicariously through me as I think she only got married because that what she knew to do at the time (& she was raised as a die hard Catholic...never to divorce). My only sibling died young. I know if my father hadn't disowned me strictly for being with the man that I fell in love with (I found out later that it was not for any reason but to retain control over me even though I was out of my house putting myself through college while working 60+ hrs when I met my ex-husband) and if my father had made me feel special at all then I wouldn't have fallen for my ex's BS. With that said, I know I still have accountability especially for my daughter's sake (I chose this man to be my daughter's father who completely abandoned her in EVERY way at age 8 when we finally separated; I with she could have better but then I get back around to feeling she wouldn't be here either...but still). Thus, the best I can do for my daughter is to continuously break that cycle (by making sure she always feels loved, supported & guided wherever possible; and if I can't do it by myself then I need to find the resources to learn to help me provide for that). Now she's happily married with a child of her own (doing well with her career; she doesn't want anymore children & right now I agree her & her husband are busy enough with the childcare expenses that I help supplement whenever I can as being a parent is a selfless responsibility that never ends IMO...one that I'll always respect & appreciate).
FELISHA1 It’s a lot wrong with her mentally😂
Epic Topic being in denial doesn’t equate to having mental issues
I’m glad the judge called him raggedy twice at the end. Perfect description, and the only thing that seemed to get his attention.
No it didn’t he found it funny lol he don’t care
the way this woman said "left my lil boyfriend" i almost fell out!!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Everything is little to her
😂😂
😂😂
Safiya Lawrence so ratchet 😩😂😂😂
Girl, he is addicted to getting off. She is gonna continue to be his side hit. Periodt.
😀😂😂😂😂
Uh oh
Ooh.
😂😂😭😭😭
@@acoolperson5603 😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Girl needed to hear this, but I felt for her, I think she loves him still :(
If she says, “PERIOD” one more time 😒
Uh Oh
..let's just hope that period comes or else it's baby #2..
@@nadja1618 Okaaaay!?!?!?
@@nadja1618 booooo👎
See how that face dropped when Judge Lake told her wisdom that her MOMMA should have told her
Maybe her momma did tell her and she didn't listen, some young ladies have to learn the hard way.
It was like she had never heard those words before.
@@dorothybraxton1241 She didn't learn nothing. Had one child, then same guy last night unprotected. Hard way or not, she needs to learn something, before she has another baby and or gets an incurable STD.
Maybe her mother died or gave her away...never know someone else’s story
Whatever her story, she needed to hear it...and needs to hear it over and over until she gets it tatted on her BRAIN!!!
She is definitely hurting you can see the tears before she started crying 😢
UH OH....UH OH
Yassss!! THIS is the Judge Lauren Lake that I’ve been waiting for. She gathered the both of them rightfully so.
You can’t believe what a man says when your legs are open..lol this made my day😀😀
Sarah Tombo This statement should be on a hallmark card!! 💯👌🏾
She needs an auntie like me...to love her and tell her to do better!!!!
I feel like she named the baby Promise after all the broken promises this man fed to her.
DAT make sense
I know . How sad . Beautiful name though , my sister's name is promise, except hers is spelled "promiss"
Or that's her promise to eff his life up from this point on 😂
Right I got a classmate that named her baby secret because she is one 😒
Yea she seem Petty like that😂🤣
I wouldn't get cleavontasia tatted on me even if that was my own name
😂😂😂
🤣🤣
😩😭😭😭😭
I know a lot of people like them, fine, get all you want. But to me, I hate them, they look like dirty spots on someone's skin and I don't care how much colour ink it has, To each their own.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Judge dropped some cold, hard facts on BOTH of these young folks. I hope they took her words to heart.
When sis told Judge Lake he caught a scooter uber and Judge Lake laughed, I LOST IT, PC FAM!
I felt sorry for her when the judge had to slap her with the truth. But I'm glad that the judge did. She needed that slap! Because she refused to face reality. He reminds me of a toddler when they drop something Uh-oh Uh-oh. But toddlers grow out of it. And he hasn't.
Judge Lake is just a bank of wisdom. PREACH JUDGE PREACH✌🏾
These ladies who come here saying loud and proud... "he wanted me to have his baby.."... Please don't be so proud to say that out loud.. 😒😒
P. S... His side, her side and the truth.
🤣🤣🤣🤣.
😂😂😂😂😂 Judge Lynn shut her all the way down "Girl stop" 😂😂😂😂😂
Malika Sampson Not Lynn Judge Lakes
Malika Sampson Judge Lauren Lake
Malika Sampson this is Judge Lauren. Judge Lauren Lake not Judge Lynn Toler.
@Dis1chick I guess I was 😂
My dude said "I made that picture"
lol
Buddy got the MOST one/two word responses 🤣🤣🤣😂😂
"Not a Real Intention behind You" -------"A Snap Away"! TRUTH💯
She said: "I want my baby to have a father, not a daddy, a father; a for-real father". This touched me and speaks VOLUMES.
I guess her "Daddy" was the fun guy that showed up once per month for ice cream.
If she truly wanted her poor baby to have a for real father, she would have waited to get married before breeding
Then she should have had her with someone who wants to be with her🤷🏿♂️
She was confused . The saying goes “ I want a daddy for my child , not just a father ‘ anyone can be a father , only the good ones become daddy’s . Meaning they are involved in the child’s day to day life .
Dude thinks he’s so cute saying “uh oh, uh oh”....🙄🙄
He needs a wake up call!! It looks like he put a bowl on his head and cut around it... 😂😂😂
All that finger snapping, nose ring, double earrings. This is Generation A (Androgyny).
Naw you think he’s cute and your mad
He is cute asf tho
Response to I want you to have my baby,
I WANT A MARRIAGE! I WANT A HUSBAND AND FATHER.
Why do these women think that is a compliment? I'd feel totally insulted and he would have to go.
I want you to have a good job!!😒😏😒
@@ceciliem1811 I do have a great job. I am a stay at home mother for 22 years for 4 children. Married
@@nobodymatters3294 I think Cecilie was offering another response to a man who says he wants a woman to have his baby. Somehow 'Warehouse Packer' doesn't strike me as the best line of work to support multiple children.
"he can't keep his hands off me" but he can definitely keep his feelings away from you....oh ok
The babies name is promise this guy better promise he will be there in his daughters life smh 😂
Unfortunately, that's a promise he's gonna break, figuratively and literally. Let's pray we don't see her here in 16 years
I promise I never leave you like Taxes
@jim calhoun what's a future midget? You've lost me
This episode’s Judge Lakes Standing Ovation moment: “You can’t believe what a man is telling you while your legs open”.