i went to a concert ALONE after a breakup

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  • @SarahBaska
    @SarahBaska  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4940

    omg i forgot to say who’s show i went to LMFAO his name is marc rebillet he rocks :,) @marcrebillet on insta 🌞

    • @Catonacucumber
      @Catonacucumber 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      lmao i love you

    • @yeehaw564
      @yeehaw564 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤟

    • @samanthamorales4505
      @samanthamorales4505 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      we love you sarah💓

    • @pandalover1238
      @pandalover1238 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      the intro was fantastic omg i'm living for it

    • @Fergie10rock
      @Fergie10rock 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      this comment section is like a safe place for all us going thru it. thanks sarah

  • @vlogs2857
    @vlogs2857 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1409

    This was literally a full ass MOVIE. I laughed, I cried, I vibed. I sang

  • @brisedillo3637
    @brisedillo3637 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2060

    i literally felt like i was physically with a friend the whole time didnt even realize 50 mins passed by lol

    • @melodyjones1709
      @melodyjones1709 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me and you both!

    • @marsraya
      @marsraya 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      SAME i was like how long is this? and then i was at 40 minutes in like WHAT

    • @Tarnira222
      @Tarnira222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Saaaaaame

    • @pat_fussyx
      @pat_fussyx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Holy fuck, it sure was 50 minutes. Wow.

    • @nana-wu6sm
      @nana-wu6sm 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      RIGHT

  • @owenwrather7280
    @owenwrather7280 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4062

    THE FACT THAT SHE RECORDED THAT INTRO SONG LIKE A PROFESSIONAL SONGGGG

    • @offbeatkiki
      @offbeatkiki 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      It slapped so hard

    • @souurmoon
      @souurmoon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      it is a professional song 😉

    • @juuzosuzuya6675
      @juuzosuzuya6675 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      She used to do covers of songs and stuff on her chanel she has such a nice voice.

    • @ambroxette
      @ambroxette 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      bruh i thought it legit was

    • @valramos5059
      @valramos5059 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You must be new here

  • @Halli2012
    @Halli2012 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3144

    Not sure if I’ve ever longed to be someone’s friend more in my life

    • @morganbarfield108
      @morganbarfield108 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ME. I honestly felt this on another level 😭🖤

    • @mullerbarbi
      @mullerbarbi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @sofiascarpa
      @sofiascarpa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ME TOO

    • @kendracoutts1869
      @kendracoutts1869 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      THIS

    • @shituniverse1
      @shituniverse1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The entire video I was just thinking “damn, it would be so cool if we were friends.”

  • @baileydedrick
    @baileydedrick 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7509

    I don’t know how to describe how much I loved this.

    • @asmrizzy1574
      @asmrizzy1574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same

    • @Jenelle10102
      @Jenelle10102 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I love Sarah so much💖

    • @briannecampos5349
      @briannecampos5349 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me to! I started watching and I liked how it was going and I stopped watching went back to work and then had some problems w my boyfriend and I was feeling the same way and I just vibes the whole convert with you 😂 once I was Chillin ‘ 😂 I felt better and was able to resolve the issues . Love you Sarah ❣️ I know what your going through and it’s some of the hardest shit tbh. Literally anything and everything makes you cry le think of them but once you get a new routine going you’ll feel way better 🤍

    • @maryrush4540
      @maryrush4540 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Laura Teran same

    • @hannahmoore8108
      @hannahmoore8108 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      THE VIBES

  • @user-es3bl4hb7s
    @user-es3bl4hb7s 4 ปีที่แล้ว +902

    I love how raw her videos are, she doesn’t romanticize her life and all her trips, she shows the realities and talks about it instead of shutting all that out from her videos. I really love how comfortable and actually relatable she is to her viewers and is brave enough to show us. She also doesn’t hide her mental problems like others, she really shows how it is and as someone who struggles with serious anxiety I really appreciate that. Trust me things will get so much better and now that you’re going through this low the only way to go now is back up

  • @Kfixjdisnskk
    @Kfixjdisnskk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1955

    Girl, this is the most REAL thing I've seen from someone on this platform in a long time.

    • @Ayesha-zb1vo
      @Ayesha-zb1vo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      U should check out sara k

    • @adondevas159
      @adondevas159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Ayesha-zb1vo Any specific video of hers or just Sara K’s videos in general?

  • @taeaverett4192
    @taeaverett4192 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1338

    Can we all talk about how she’s actually handling it so well 👏🏼👏🏼

    • @taeaverett4192
      @taeaverett4192 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      So mentally/ emotionally strong to be out doin all this :) it’s inspiring

  • @TheSarahxJay
    @TheSarahxJay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1769

    sarah is literally one of the most genuine people on this platform. it takes so much to be vulnerable online to hundreds of thousands (millions?) of people, the way she tries to combat her intrusive thoughts and anxiety is so inspiring

    • @mollymay4176
      @mollymay4176 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Fr she is SO underrated

  • @grlmyth
    @grlmyth 4 ปีที่แล้ว +678

    SARAHHHHHHHHHHHH do you realize how fucking dope and authentic you are for showing us your struggles? Emotions aren't always pretty, being alone is terrifying, breaking attachments can be so, SO, painful but all of it is overwhelmingly real. Thank you for being vulnerable enough to share so we can grieve and laugh together as part of the same universal human experience. Healing is inevitable girly

  • @kayleeapple4345
    @kayleeapple4345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1187

    her having that anxiety at night literally was to a fucking t exactly how i feel most nights. this was the most comforting video i’ve ever watched

    • @Shellzzbellzz11
      @Shellzzbellzz11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Same!!!! I love her for posting this and being so vulnerable because it was comforting to see someone actually going through what I go through too.

    • @fritzdusseldorff
      @fritzdusseldorff 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same ❤️

    • @hannahburgel4037
      @hannahburgel4037 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      same!🥰🥰

    • @chiaras.1359
      @chiaras.1359 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      hope you‘re okay ❤️

  • @MJ-lq5xl
    @MJ-lq5xl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1305

    sarah. you know that feeling when you watch a movie and you feel so empowered and like you can do anything in the world. that's what i feel like after i watch your videos. like you are the main character to your very own movie, and we have the privilage in getting to watch it. thank you

    • @taylorj1658
      @taylorj1658 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      yes you put it into words!!

    • @kamb8959
      @kamb8959 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i completely feel this

    • @melisacaceres8740
      @melisacaceres8740 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same 🥺💖💕

  • @sydneyheil1461
    @sydneyheil1461 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1744

    Sarah makes me feel so safe. The way she talks to herself and us about handling emotions we don't like and getting through anxiety was so inspiring. It made me realize that when I fall into those dark places, I can just talk myself out of it instead of wallowing. God I love her and I loved the video so so much.

    • @lovislind9753
      @lovislind9753 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same

    • @liadanryan-gerhardt7189
      @liadanryan-gerhardt7189 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ex-actly 👌 You summed it up. Her Dad being a psychologist really shows here😂

    • @meghansullivan6812
      @meghansullivan6812 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ohhhhh im just starting the video and i need this sorta thing

    • @KTL996
      @KTL996 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I like the way she speaks about anxiety, not like the overused, misused terminology used by kardashians

  • @presleyrose31
    @presleyrose31 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3970

    this is honestly the most bad bitch move after a breakup. you go queen we are all cheering you on!!💘💘

    • @nessaflom
      @nessaflom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      FACTS🤩✨ im staring at her like wow 💗

    • @whosthatchick5150
      @whosthatchick5150 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      YESSSS!! Journey begins 💖

    • @lydialeano1007
      @lydialeano1007 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      i was thinking the same thing

  • @tarynshawhan4168
    @tarynshawhan4168 4 ปีที่แล้ว +690

    the comedian/artist guy is literally a male version of sarah

    • @Jasmine-yz6uv
      @Jasmine-yz6uv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Ik! I was like no way she’s gonna meet him at the hotel, no way there gonna get married. 😂

    • @Jayge14
      @Jayge14 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      What is his name?

  • @kaitgrissett
    @kaitgrissett 4 ปีที่แล้ว +694

    My boyfriend and I just broke up and I don’t feel like myself. I have a hard time being alone. I’m crying along with this video.

    • @user-hz8ci2sj5e
      @user-hz8ci2sj5e 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I hope you find some peace and love 🤍

    • @elizabethbravo5648
      @elizabethbravo5648 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Same 😞 i hope you’re feeling better now sis 💛 its extremely tough i had my first boyfriend of 3 years and we broke up yesterday he was my first love i’ve never been through anything like this and i don’t feel like myself either it almost feels as if youre lost and lonely 😔 it do be tuff

    • @ashtwilley
      @ashtwilley 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@elizabethbravo5648 same! my and my ex broke up on the first this shit sucks

    • @mykaela.
      @mykaela. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      me too :( it’s been ab 2 months now but things are gonna get better i promise

    • @jc_80
      @jc_80 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      You don’t feel like yourself because he was a big part of your life and the breakup is still fresh, you will soon feel whole again when you get back to who you were as an individual, you’re basically going through an awkward and sometimes traumatic phase of getting to know yourself all over again, you can’t help but miss the happy times, when you get through this you will feel so empowered and re energised once you heal...

  • @cammhl
    @cammhl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1936

    That intro song.. the talent... a masterpiece

    • @annatheota23
      @annatheota23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      she needs to use that for every video bc it ✨slaps✨ 😌

    • @jassyboo2622
      @jassyboo2622 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I kept repeating it 🤣🤣

    • @Snutterbutters
      @Snutterbutters 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lol I love it 😂😂🤍🤍🤍

    • @kelsorose9236
      @kelsorose9236 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      A VIBE

    • @cocoraymond2818
      @cocoraymond2818 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      howdy howdy hoot😌🤘

  • @mollyb2721
    @mollyb2721 4 ปีที่แล้ว +467

    “until you get comfortable with being alone, you’ll never know if you’re choosing someone out of love or loneliness”. alone does not mean lonely. you are your own little human, and at the end of the day, sometimes we’re all we have. and that’s okay. that’s enough.

    • @isabelmejia4136
      @isabelmejia4136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Omggggg thank you lol this is literally what I needed to read right now!!!!

    • @makaylacopp3859
      @makaylacopp3859 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      stoooppp, you’re gonna make me cry🥺

    • @kiannaugalde5142
      @kiannaugalde5142 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah, this was it. This was the tweet

    • @aestheticj2348
      @aestheticj2348 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m going through it right now lol so this was great to read. Thank you.

  • @bubbyrodarte106
    @bubbyrodarte106 4 ปีที่แล้ว +442

    did anyone else feel like they were just best friends w/Sarah and just cried w/her :( this is so wholesome I luv

    • @beckysvision
      @beckysvision 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      this is why i love her. you can connect with her so easily

    • @diquanwashingbeard5175
      @diquanwashingbeard5175 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      yesss im a sympathy crier 😭😭

    • @cuteangel98133
      @cuteangel98133 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I feel the same way like connecting with her is easy and I cried and laugh with her 😊 even yelling 😂

  • @raghad2071
    @raghad2071 4 ปีที่แล้ว +458

    Listening to Golden while driving on the bridge was such a power move omggg

  • @bethanychz
    @bethanychz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1212

    the part where she said that the teenagers asked if she wanted a picture of her made me cry :( those people are so wholesome and the way that sarah said it made me cry even more. anyway, we're all here for u sarah. this was so honest and vulnerable and open and i'm so proud of u for doing that and really feeling out ur emotions because they are what makes us human. we love and care about u more than u know

    • @blu2836
      @blu2836 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      literally everytime i think about that i tear up 😭

  • @lucyservo6574
    @lucyservo6574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +742

    This doesn't feel 50 minutes long. Feels like I'm hanging out with a friend, and time just flies by

    • @palladium607
      @palladium607 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was just thinking this!

    • @linajulsmua4419
      @linajulsmua4419 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me now just realizing it was 50 minutes wtf 🤯

  • @meghanmoleski7219
    @meghanmoleski7219 4 ปีที่แล้ว +540

    that “it’s always when the sun goes down man” hit different i felt that

    • @taylorcenter9965
      @taylorcenter9965 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too I’ve felt that before

    • @probablylondon5335
      @probablylondon5335 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      that moon be bringing out emotions

    • @kaitlin3964
      @kaitlin3964 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      dude that hit me right in my feels too

  • @lindseyreames6575
    @lindseyreames6575 4 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    the fucking LYRICS ON THE SCREEN sarah baby thank you for this

  • @xrachizzle
    @xrachizzle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1062

    I literally cried out of nowhere when you started crying and saying that you hate the night time. I felt like I was watching myself. Sending you good vibes.

    • @nessaflom
      @nessaflom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      srsllyy🥺❤️

    • @Joyful477
      @Joyful477 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here 😭❤️

    • @Subllama
      @Subllama 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Im like extending my arms to hug her, i relate so much for her in so many different situations i was in and still feel so alone at night

    • @mychellg5398
      @mychellg5398 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too, aw
      Virtual hugs to you and all

    • @nitgnat
      @nitgnat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ME TOOO when she said "im crying again" tears just fell from my eyes bc i remember being in this exact spot and it's heartwrenching seeing someone else go thru it and know EXACTLY how they're feeling. It's scary but comforting knowing that even tho these feelings are awful and frustrating, they're shared with so many people. It's cathartic ❤️

  • @caseynelson3345
    @caseynelson3345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +430

    this sounds so dramatic lmao but sometimes when i’m by myself and anxious about it i like to pretend that i am in a dramatic coming of age movie where i am the main character it helps lmfao

    • @cdlf1613
      @cdlf1613 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I do the same thing haha

    • @Nameless-dw5nv
      @Nameless-dw5nv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too

    • @troglodytic715
      @troglodytic715 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes me too lol

    • @Tiffxit
      @Tiffxit 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Ty I’m gonna do this😂 even going to the store alone I freak out

    • @ElleEasternSuburbsMum
      @ElleEasternSuburbsMum 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me😂

  • @Johnny-ci8mw
    @Johnny-ci8mw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +298

    We need to normalize TREATING OURSELVES.

  • @bellagiudicessi2656
    @bellagiudicessi2656 4 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    her speaking her fears outloud and then immediately reassuring herself that nothing like that will happen is a situation i can relate to so fucking hard, so thank you for showing this side of anxiety !

  • @jakobwhaleart
    @jakobwhaleart 4 ปีที่แล้ว +515

    *"I might call my mom, or my sister, or my dad"* it's so good that her family is a safe space for her. Not everyone can say that. That line made me happy in the middle of everything that was going on.

    • @Golden90960
      @Golden90960 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I felt the same way!!!

  • @hailsies
    @hailsies 4 ปีที่แล้ว +640

    I started crying when she was driving and yelling “I don’t wanna be alone” because I feel like I could feel everything she was releasing 😭😭

  • @adamloudermilk2919
    @adamloudermilk2919 4 ปีที่แล้ว +194

    The stock footage of people dancing throughout the concert is so much funnier to me than it should be

  • @tamaraluciaa
    @tamaraluciaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +250

    THE FREESTYLE AFTER THE SHOW IS EVERYTHING HAHAHA

    • @thesource4189
      @thesource4189 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🔴😦😡
      🏥😼🚑💉🚶🏽‍♂️😴👻🕳

  • @chelseasheltman8536
    @chelseasheltman8536 4 ปีที่แล้ว +506

    If you’ve ever been through a big breakup, you know exactly what she’s going through. Love you Sarah. You’re doing amazing girl.

  • @celesteaddison3948
    @celesteaddison3948 4 ปีที่แล้ว +380

    everyone's talking about her intro song but the BARS she gave us after the concert???? top tier

    • @valruv662
      @valruv662 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was looking for this comment!💚

    • @gracedenunzio
      @gracedenunzio 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yesss!!! she did that!!!!!

  • @madi-es8tk
    @madi-es8tk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +391

    it actually hurts me to see Sarah cry. i feel so protective over her, it physically makes me sick to see her so upset. but i am so excited to see her journey and where this life takes her.

  • @natalie300
    @natalie300 4 ปีที่แล้ว +234

    I feel like this is a video people will always come back to when they need a reminder of what it means to be human and that healing is painful but it will be okay. My girlfriend broke up with me and I remembered you done this video and it's helped me a lot to stay true to the reasons why it had to end and resisting any urge to phone or message. You just need to ride it out until the habit and routine changes. Thank you for this video 🖤

    • @ellafreemanny
      @ellafreemanny 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      this is very true i’m back right now because i needed some comfort and i do always come back to this video when i need a reminder it’s okay to feel bad emotions

    • @roboalz9559
      @roboalz9559 ปีที่แล้ว

      Looking back it right now two years later

  • @makeupbydarbyxoxo
    @makeupbydarbyxoxo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +380

    One of the most empowering things in the world is doing things alone. Dinner, movies, anything! Proud of you, and I’m happy for you.

  • @heathermoffa7267
    @heathermoffa7267 4 ปีที่แล้ว +504

    please don't ever delete these videos! Seeing your journey through self growth and healing is one of the most inspiring things. Also if I'm ever going through a breakup I wanna rewatch these so I don't feel so alone. You're not only healing yourself but you're also helping others heal by showing them they're not alone in how they feel. Ilysm you're so strong and the most amazing person on this platform. Don't ever change and DONT FEEL SAD BEING ALONE CAUSE YOURE WITH YOU, AND YOURE AN EXTRORDINARY HUMAN

  • @yurrrrr3333
    @yurrrrr3333 4 ปีที่แล้ว +614

    sarahs little giggles in between make this so much funnier LMFAO

    • @abigailfernandez5582
      @abigailfernandez5582 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That’s all I heard lmaoooo

    • @isanovo7
      @isanovo7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She was laughing on beat at one point too i thought it was edited for a second 😂

    • @ljepotica6073
      @ljepotica6073 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Her editing during the concert was so funny LMAO

    • @thesource4189
      @thesource4189 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🚗👻🕳 was Sarah yelling at him or someone else when she 1st got in the car 🤔😬

  • @allisonspence5604
    @allisonspence5604 4 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    Why did I get SO emotional when you were singing on the bridge😭 this type of self love motivation is absolutely so needed for so many people. Thank you for showing to us this experience because 99.9% of us women have felt this before and ITS OK!

  • @dorygray7281
    @dorygray7281 4 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    This comment section is honestly so healing, loving, and supportive. You have created such a safe space for everyone who loves you and your content to interact and be honest just like you were being in this video. Thank you Sarah.

  • @rachelynshelby4029
    @rachelynshelby4029 4 ปีที่แล้ว +334

    I’m a single mom In my thirties and I look up to you. You’re very inspirational and I don’t think you’re even trying to be. Respect.

  • @beeboobae
    @beeboobae 4 ปีที่แล้ว +437

    love that she's wearing the britney spears hoodie and posted this on britney's birthday. queen shit

    • @gianna1093
      @gianna1093 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      where’s the hoodie from?!?!?!

  • @Alexis-pt2cu
    @Alexis-pt2cu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    “He asked if I wanted a picture of me..” 😭❤️ ok I made it to 45 mins without crying lmao

    • @sicastellara
      @sicastellara 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same for me. Omg

    • @alicem1961
      @alicem1961 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Just watched that part and i am sobbing

  • @zoeepple382
    @zoeepple382 4 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    Pov: ur crying watching sarah cry and a kohls ad starts

  • @selenay9200
    @selenay9200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +670

    why did i cry when she said that the boy asked if she wanted a picture..

    • @rynsthetic
      @rynsthetic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ME TOO UGHH

    • @delfina7481
      @delfina7481 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same :(

    • @nattgomezz
      @nattgomezz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Literally crying rn cuz same

    • @meangirl2275
      @meangirl2275 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @jaiyahh
      @jaiyahh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      me too lmaoo

  • @limitedm3807
    @limitedm3807 4 ปีที่แล้ว +347

    sarah, people have MAD respect for people who do stuff alone. it takes some serious self security and confidence do that that kind of stuff. you will be okay and i am so proud of you!

    • @vivig426642
      @vivig426642 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      it really does

    • @xoMadness
      @xoMadness 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The stuff I'd do alone if I wasn't so *anxious* and had some *self-esteem*

    • @agstinacueva1673
      @agstinacueva1673 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wish I could go to a concert alone, nowadays only a concert but wtv

  • @rawrmonster78
    @rawrmonster78 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    This is quite literally the video that healed me from my breakup. Sometimes I come back to it just to see how far we have both come 😭

    • @Cc-tp8tk
      @Cc-tp8tk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same!

  • @ellarose1685
    @ellarose1685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    Never in the history of music has it made more sense for someone to like a musical artist than Sarah liking that guy lmao what a vibe

  • @rachelurbano
    @rachelurbano 4 ปีที่แล้ว +639

    this gives me "coming of age" or like "slice of life" vibes

    • @_gen10_
      @_gen10_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      YES AND I LOVED IT SO MUCH

    • @rachelurbano
      @rachelurbano 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@_gen10_ I KNOW ME TOO

    • @thewwmm25
      @thewwmm25 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      because it feels so real...and it is real.

  • @wolfroarxx6055
    @wolfroarxx6055 4 ปีที่แล้ว +449

    As someone who is always alone... I can just imagine how hard it would be for someone who's not used to it :/

    • @agstinacueva1673
      @agstinacueva1673 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ik, she at least has her family and friends tho

    • @Jess-19L92
      @Jess-19L92 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It fuckin sucks !! Tbh I'm struggling. But it makes me happy to see people like you can see things from the other view.

    • @Rashelleb23
      @Rashelleb23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Girl, same. I don’t even notice if people are looking at me or judging me for being alone anymore. I’ve gotten so used to it I think I’d feel the same way in a group situation now

    • @moccisimo
      @moccisimo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same I weirdly felt naked in a sense when I first started doing things alone but I'm used to it and feel a little weird when I hang out with other ppl now. It's definitely freeing :)

    • @teaburnett-testa1173
      @teaburnett-testa1173 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yeah:( she was with him for 4 years so ofc it's gonna be a lot

  • @emmad9595
    @emmad9595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    the golden gate sunset scene was a spiritual experience

  • @K44-o1e
    @K44-o1e 4 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    You’re helping a lot of people by showing yourself raw like everything you go through, it reminds us it’s ok to feel all these emotions

  • @foreverPriscilla
    @foreverPriscilla 4 ปีที่แล้ว +495

    i swear you’re the only youtuber i truly love sarah. sarah’s just so genuine & real and that’s so rare these days amongst influencers.

    • @johannagrupe369
      @johannagrupe369 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can read my mind

    • @fay5772
      @fay5772 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      she she absolutely is. she helped me through so much anxiety n depression periods of my life she has been a part of my life since high school and now i’m already in uni

    • @charlotteh2280
      @charlotteh2280 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @charlotteh2280
      @charlotteh2280 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @helenlazenby5324
    @helenlazenby5324 4 ปีที่แล้ว +217

    THE EDITINGDURING THE FDT PART SARAH IM SCREAMING WHO ARE THOSE WOMEN WITH THE BLONDE BOBS HAHAHAH

    • @SarahBaska
      @SarahBaska  4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      HDHDHDHDHDHJSSJ

  • @ahmahgawd15
    @ahmahgawd15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    when you sobbed *"I hate the night-time"* I sobbed with you..I know your pain but I'm SO proud how you grounded yourself and how you handled it. give yourself allllll of the credit and more♡ you mature beautiful being you

  • @maryssapotlongo1399
    @maryssapotlongo1399 4 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    The stock videos of people dancing to the beat of his music is killing me

  • @annmariehall8330
    @annmariehall8330 4 ปีที่แล้ว +632

    The random clips of people dancing bring this entire thing together.. I can’t 💀😂

    • @jennadae5195
      @jennadae5195 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      FOUND YOU

    • @annmariehall8330
      @annmariehall8330 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jennadae5195 ok that’s scary also did not realize this comment had 40 likes 😂

    • @Cookieeata
      @Cookieeata 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      they had me DYINGGGG

    • @thesource4189
      @thesource4189 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@annmariehall8330 🕵🏽‍♂️😅

  • @victoriaspeth3265
    @victoriaspeth3265 4 ปีที่แล้ว +379

    anyone else cry when Sarah started crying.. that shit hit different ILY SARAAAHH

  • @friendlyneighborhoodhypegi8866
    @friendlyneighborhoodhypegi8866 4 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    you will get to a point when being alone isnt lonely. It takes time and there will be times when sadness comes out of nowhere but it will be okay, just remind yourself that no one ever cried themselves to death. (at least that i know of) Keep being amazingly you even if that means crying.

  • @happyautumn8448
    @happyautumn8448 4 ปีที่แล้ว +287

    Anyone else struggle with the nighttime anxiety like so bad that you force yourself awake till 5am just so you pass out from tiredness so you don’t have to think about anything....

  • @skylercampbell2853
    @skylercampbell2853 4 ปีที่แล้ว +346

    Sarah makes me feel so human again. Like I’m not alone going through this roller-coaster of life.

    • @dontstealmiigummyX3
      @dontstealmiigummyX3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So true I was trying to find the words to describe it and yes

    • @Litteratii
      @Litteratii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      sooo true all these other influencers have so much privlege and act like nothing phases them but she's so human

  • @clarehalacy9266
    @clarehalacy9266 4 ปีที่แล้ว +436

    I just started crying reading these comments thinking about her reading them and feeling so loved.

  • @mikaylamoscatello
    @mikaylamoscatello 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    This is what it feels like to refocus on yourself after a relationship OR even just to get back to yourself. Love the vulnerability dude, definitely important to let the feelings flow through.

  • @brookeamy09
    @brookeamy09 4 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    i don’t like how i get along with sarah so well and don’t even get to be her friend irl 😭

  • @dustinvuong
    @dustinvuong 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1969

    THE WAY I COVERED MY MOUTH THE EXACT SAME TIME YOU DID WHEN U SAID U SHOULD LISTEN TO GOLDEN ON THE BRIDGE AHHH

  • @lindsaytucker3491
    @lindsaytucker3491 4 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    The experience of you driving across the Golden Gate Bridge scream singing golden specifically the line “I don’t want to be alone”.... I’m speechless that must’ve felt so cathartic and bittersweet. I love you so much sarah, you are incredible.

  • @delaneyy318
    @delaneyy318 4 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    "It's always when the sun goes down." bitch ive never related to anything more

  • @sammisauce2
    @sammisauce2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +503

    This seemed like the perfect concert to go to when you’re sad because the shit he’s saying you cannot help but crack up laughing and then vibe out 😂

  • @zoramilan1217
    @zoramilan1217 4 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    Honestly I bet everyone was looking at you thinking that its amazing that you could go somewhere alone like that. That’s actually cool.

  • @darbyroberts69
    @darbyroberts69 4 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    that’s called mindfulness. realizing you’re having a thought & gently pulling yourself back into the present. my patients are taught mindfulness. it’s amazing. love you girly

  • @carinamauricio9376
    @carinamauricio9376 4 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    Sarah’s laugh throughout the entire show 😂😂😂

  • @cowboybuttz
    @cowboybuttz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    i have never felt anything more personally than "it's always when the sun goes down" i love you.

  • @jasminkhg
    @jasminkhg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    I love that Sarah's open and doesnt try to sugar coat everything or like act as if she's ok. It's a lot more relatable and weirdly nice (??) to see others go through the same thing as you

  • @icyy_addi
    @icyy_addi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    I literally started sobbing when Sarah said she gets bad anxiety at night and that’s she feels trapped because I relate to that so hard rn omg 💕

  • @carolineheater6004
    @carolineheater6004 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    i cried with you Sarah. I know the pain you’re in. it makes you question if all the love and happiness you went through was even worth it. you are a bad bitch and you are going to get through this

  • @irinajuca7569
    @irinajuca7569 4 ปีที่แล้ว +238

    I feel bad for the person that didn’t end up with her but happy for the person that will cherish her. This video was too refreshing and real.

  • @jenniferkelly1343
    @jenniferkelly1343 4 ปีที่แล้ว +271

    Sarah being paranoid that people are judging her for being alone when In reality they were fans and recognized her but was to scared to say anything 🥺😘

  • @novapoe4708
    @novapoe4708 4 ปีที่แล้ว +426

    Sarah’s such a timeless TH-camr I’ll never not immediately click on her videos

  • @lilahking50
    @lilahking50 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I literally come back n watch this video whenever I feel super lonely/sad because the way she trains herself to be okay w being alone helps me learn too

  • @briahwelch7256
    @briahwelch7256 4 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    why is this inspiring me to breakup with my bf and get out of my toxic relationship. i’m so happy for u

    • @tayloralexandra9507
      @tayloralexandra9507 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Yes!! I’m rooting for you sis. It’ll be soo worth it

    • @morganquinn716
      @morganquinn716 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Do itttt. You’ll be happier lonely than in a toxic situation

    • @gracecatherine3948
      @gracecatherine3948 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      you can do it! i’ve been there before and it’s so much more freeing when you do what’s best for you, we’re all rooting for you sis

    • @carlie4964
      @carlie4964 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      girl do itt! you will feel sm happier. I just broke up with my bf cuz it was really toxic and it's such a relieving feeling, free yourself from all that's negative, you deserve it

    • @Taytay2201
      @Taytay2201 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      GIRL YES get out of that!!!!! I just got out of mine of 4 YEARS. You'll feel these emotions but I swear someone out there will walk right into your life in no time, and show you what you never thought possible. This happened to me this year, about 3 months after leaving my toxic ex behind.

  • @caroooolineeee
    @caroooolineeee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    i love how you're afraid for random people at the drive in to think you're weird for going to a show alone but you put it on video for 1.67 million of us

  • @ijeoma7963
    @ijeoma7963 4 ปีที่แล้ว +284

    Dude you can so tell Sarah’s sister is a good therapist. Like the way she talks about thoughts and emotions is so on point

    • @nilainmercado8054
      @nilainmercado8054 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Also I think her dad is a psychologist.

    • @bananamary5907
      @bananamary5907 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes ❤❤ she communicates so well

  • @littleekellyy
    @littleekellyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    i have no friends. i only have my siblings and parents that don’t really talk to me. no other family. i’ve been recently going through some really hard times and cry myself to sleep almost every other night. watching this video made me realize it’s okay to be alone sometimes and figure things out on my own. as obvious as it is, it can be really hard to fully understand. watching someone else going through something similar made me feel validated so thank you for being vulnerable with us sarah. i know it’s hard

    • @DarkElf-t
      @DarkElf-t ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi! I hope you're doing well now!

  • @cloover333
    @cloover333 4 ปีที่แล้ว +824

    HAHAHAH SARAH IM DYING THE INTRO IM TOO HIGH FOR THIS IVE MISSED YOU

    • @MarieCalvar
      @MarieCalvar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      LMFAOOOO ME TOOO

    • @kennadyprociuk5526
      @kennadyprociuk5526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      As we all should be I love this 😎🥸

    • @TJsketchz
      @TJsketchz 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love this comment

    • @erinmarie6736
      @erinmarie6736 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      MY EXACT THOUGHTS !!

    • @adel.000
      @adel.000 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      sameee

  • @chloestidman4877
    @chloestidman4877 4 ปีที่แล้ว +363

    Ur literally the only person to hold my attention for an hour while I’m high

    • @raayjayyy
      @raayjayyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      THIS

    • @fatimafares9593
      @fatimafares9593 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same girl

    • @kelseybasss
      @kelseybasss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      frrr I love her

    • @Xolivlou
      @Xolivlou 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Never thought when I started the video I'd make it all 50 minutes lol

    • @ysabelenriquez2385
      @ysabelenriquez2385 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      FUCKIN SAME

  • @mialeon7498
    @mialeon7498 4 ปีที่แล้ว +425

    Miss girl gave us a whole movie and I’m here for it😌

    • @liviaboeglin5179
      @liviaboeglin5179 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      yesss 👏🏼👏🏼 i love long videos

  • @jessicahewitt8726
    @jessicahewitt8726 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    My boyfriend and I broke up after 4 years and I've been so lost trying to figure out what to do. I've been so lost and insecure but watching you do all these amazing things by yourself and actually talk about how you're feeling is so inspiring. I honestly feel like I can do whatever by myself now because it really doesn't matter. Thank you so much.

  • @yazziekiener4612
    @yazziekiener4612 4 ปีที่แล้ว +439

    the pain in her eyes when she's trying her best to be happy💔💔💔💔

  • @Gabadelicc
    @Gabadelicc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +397

    I bet the people next to you were like “wait a minute...isn’t that Sara Bahhskaa"

  • @nosrednawyt
    @nosrednawyt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    I can’t with the stock footage IAJDISNDKSJS so funny

  • @carolinesmith4253
    @carolinesmith4253 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    just wanted to say when u originally posted this i was single, now watching this almost 2 years later going through a breakup and have been feeling the exact same way at night, anxious,struggling to fall asleep, wishing i could call him to say good night and watching u go through the same thing and now relating to it makes me feel 1000x less alone and i feel calmed down enough to go to sleep now, thanks girly, love ya

    • @_maddawg
      @_maddawg ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i'm going through this exact same situation right now and i have so much gratitude for you to commenting this it helped so much more than you could ever know :) i hope you healed and are happy

  • @woahhhnelly
    @woahhhnelly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +528

    WHEN U FREESTYLED IN THE CAR i’m cryin

  • @shiannalynn9705
    @shiannalynn9705 4 ปีที่แล้ว +302

    hey sarah... ive literally been crying every night since my breakup. I was in a very abusive, domestic violence relationship for 7 years and had two kids during it. He went to prison for brekaing my ribs and selling drugs and during that time I went homeless because I didnt have him to provide. I met some amazing people who have helped me get into college, an apartment, get full custody of my kids and just being okay. Its been two years since then and i found someone who loved me. and helped me thru alot of stuff... and we just recently broke up.... crying fucking helps bro. games help. distractions help. friends help. drives help. drawing helps. creating helps. anything that you need to do that makes you happy freaking helps. for me its my two babies, art and podcasts as well. I love you so much and i fucking enjoy you. youre helping me thru my own breakup as youre currently dealing with yours. I love you sarah! 🤍

    • @abby0_058
      @abby0_058 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      wow shianna i don’t normally comment on youtube but your comment really touched me. i am so excited for you and your new life. you will be an even better person and mother with the strength and resilience you gain from growing through all of that pain. sending you so much love

    • @shiannalynn9705
      @shiannalynn9705 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Abby Diaz DeLeon man... thank you so fucking much. People like you and the pureness of your heart is what keeps the world goin round. I appreciate you so much 🤍

    • @callieb1863
      @callieb1863 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      i don't normally comment either but your story is powerful. sending all my love to you

    • @beccad6666
      @beccad6666 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I recently got out of an abusive relationship as well and I understand how hard it is. you’ll get through this and become even stronger and all your dreams will fall into place! you can do this! sending you love beautiful 💛

    • @sarahmarie3317
      @sarahmarie3317 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Not to be cheesy as fuck but... ima be cheesy as fuck for a second. I’ve learned that when relationships end, it really is a blessing. Even if the relationship was good, if they were the one for you you’d still be together. So that just means that they’re stepping out of the way so that when your person comes along, there’s nothing and nobody standing in your way. I know it hurts now but girl you are fucking RESILIENT!!! Look at all you’ve been through and came back fighting ten times harder for yourself and your babies. You fucking got this. I’m so proud of you, damn.

  • @anneallison645
    @anneallison645 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Going through a breakup currently and watching this helps so much. Thank you so much for posting raw moments like these. The nights are always the worst when you don’t have the distractions during the day. Love you Sarah

  • @epicbutterfly1
    @epicbutterfly1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +245

    I'm breaking up w my bf tomorrow because I know that I deserve way better - I've just been scared to because of the stability he provides. But this video helped me realize it's okay to be alone. Thanks big sis

    • @nicoletrammell5852
      @nicoletrammell5852 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      yes girl!!! proud of you! i left my relationship earlier this year and you don’t realize how much that affects your mental health and life overall. it’ll be hard but i will keep you in my thoughts!! lean on friends and family as well if that’s possible💘

    • @epicbutterfly1
      @epicbutterfly1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@nicoletrammell5852 thank you sissy this made me tear up LOL

    • @cheedarcheese5811
      @cheedarcheese5811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I hope ur doing okay now ❤️ i gathered up courage to break up with my ex earlier this year bc it was so toxic. it was hard for like 2 months after that but then it gets better! my mental health is thriving so much. Like its crazy lol. Im glad u realized u deserve better bc u do!! sending u so much love and healing energy~ proud of u girlie! 💗🦋✨

    • @missy5523
      @missy5523 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aweee yesss it is so beautiful to me when someone knows they deserve way better🥺♡︎ you got thisss sis keep being brave❥ 𝑀𝑢𝑐ℎ 𝑙𝑜𝑣𝑒ꨄ

    • @tiredbby
      @tiredbby 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      good luck bby I believe in u i hope everything turned out well

  • @alyssa01cl
    @alyssa01cl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +271

    I just wanna say how refreshing it is to see a person who puts their life out on social media to show this vulnerable side of them. We all make our lives look so much better on socials then we feel sometimes. We as human beings go through these feelings and it’s completely valid and normal. thank you for showing this side of you because we all can relate and see that we’re not alone. If anyone is feeling alone just know that you are worthy, loved, and strong. I love being apart of this fandom and we always got each others back. ❤️

  • @OceanicJessie
    @OceanicJessie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    every time you cried, I cried with you. night anxiety is the absolute worst especially during rough periods. this was such an amazing video

  • @jaychan6876
    @jaychan6876 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    me coming back to this video after going through a breakup