Financial Lack, Masturbation in Marriage, Engagement ⎮ ADVICE Q+A

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  • What's up 🐺 gang! We are back with another advice video by popular demand... so get your pens, notebooks, and popcorn ready because we are about to go IN! You guys submitted some advice questions and we did our best to give you advice in a few different areas. Relationships, finances, talking with your partner about hard topics, and trying to be healthy when your spouse doesn't have healthy habits.
    Video about childhood/money: • What Your Childhood Ta...
    0:00 Intro
    1:35 Feeling lack in finances
    10:55 When/how/should you talk to your partner about masturbation
    12:44 Ready to get engaged, but my boyfriend is waiting for a steady income
    17:08 I want to get healthy, but my husband has a lot of unhealthy habits
    Advice (part 1): • Can I Date A Non Belie...
    Advice (part 2): • Can You Have A Crush W...
    Y O U T U B E
    Kian ⇢ / kiantilton
    Kyle ⇢ / @kylewolfgang
    OUR LOVE STORY
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    Part 2 ⎮ • When God Writes Your L...
    Engaged After 2 Months ⎮ • ENGAGED AFTER 2 MONTHS!
    The Day I Met My Husband ⎮ • The Day I Met My Husba...
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  • @deb8475
    @deb8475 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Thank you for taking the 10 mins to answer that question about money. Thank you for getting deep even when you want to answer a lot of questions. You may see that as a weakness or something to improve, but the Lord just spoke to my soul through you. May He keeps blessing you.

    • @KianandKyle
      @KianandKyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you so much for sharing this with us! It is very encouraging to hear you say that! God bless you 💛

  • @alicerummery5817
    @alicerummery5817 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hey Kian and Kyle 😊😊 Just wanted to to know that you have non-christian viewers (like myself) that find your videos so wonderful and helpful to watch. Your focus on self-reflection and values-based living is not something that I see much in my non-religious circles and that's why I keep coming back. I also love seeing your passion and connection to God - It obviously makes you so happy and I'm all about that. Thought you might like to know! Keep it up! 😊

  • @Bleigh1584
    @Bleigh1584 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    My husband proposed to me with a ring pop while he was making payments on my 💍 💗As always I love your videos!

    • @KianandKyle
      @KianandKyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hahahaha now that is what I'm talking about!!! LOVE IT!

  • @user-ch7zi7zn8t
    @user-ch7zi7zn8t 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Literally when Kyle mentioned stronghold I was like???? Even though I've been a Christian for 3 years and heard it a million times. THEN Kian gets you to explain. The holy spirit my dudes !!

    • @christinawatkinsyoutube
      @christinawatkinsyoutube 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also always just heard the word and never really thought about how some people might not get it 😂

  • @elizabethbrice7432
    @elizabethbrice7432 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Your videos are always so chill and calming and honest. Couldn’t love them more

  • @rosfraylin
    @rosfraylin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I have to say that im amazed by Kyle's humbleness on every video and it shows how much you reflect God, even when sometimes seems like your flaws are being pointed out. I bless your life. I loved that you guys stared praying. And God bless your marriage!

    • @_Natalia24
      @_Natalia24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤️

    • @KianandKyle
      @KianandKyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awww thank you thats so encouraging to hear you say that... God bless you 🙏💛

  • @suewolfgang5130
    @suewolfgang5130 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Such a blessing witnessing you two praying together and sharing your love for the Lord and for each other!!! Your advice truly reflects your total trust in Him!!! I turn to Proverbs 3:5-6 often!!! Love you two and sending hugs your way!!! 🙏💛

    • @KianandKyle
      @KianandKyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks momma! We love you too 🙏💛

  • @esthersotil4137
    @esthersotil4137 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I always enjoy your q&a, I feel like I'm having a conversation with friends! And I love your way of reflecting on things in such a humble way. Keep doing this videos! Love from Barcelona💙💙💙

    • @KianandKyle
      @KianandKyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So happy to hear you say that! We appreciate you! 💛💛💛

  • @everythingalayna
    @everythingalayna ปีที่แล้ว

    Okay first of all, i LOVE yall's videos. They yield so much peace and wisdom straight from the Lord and I love how the birds and chickens are heard in the video. I never feel overstimulated or overwhelmed while watching and look forward to seeing a new video from you! Thank you!!

  • @nannyheather5640
    @nannyheather5640 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys make me smile☺ you are such a light in this world! Thanks for making these videos you both have great wisdom! God bless

  • @MoTheCrown
    @MoTheCrown 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Yay love when I see a post from you guys. Excited to watch!!

  • @rachel1ando
    @rachel1ando 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow, thank you for this video! God really speaks through you two, especially that finance question

    • @KianandKyle
      @KianandKyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen praise God! We appreciate you!

  • @sarahjaneharley
    @sarahjaneharley 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I absolutely LOVE your hat on you!! I hope you’re bringing those back in style!

    • @KianandKyle
      @KianandKyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I LOVE that hat on her too 😉

  • @jonathanrolle5118
    @jonathanrolle5118 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome advice video and you guys are pretty open which is appreciated 👍

  • @sierrarosethompson1053
    @sierrarosethompson1053 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loved the advice on money mindset. Wish the q and a videos were longer I could have listened to so may more of these! Appreciate you guys ✝️🌷

    • @KianandKyle
      @KianandKyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for sharing! Luckily we did 2 before this one and have another one coming out next Friday for you all ;) I'm sure we will continue to do more as time goes on too so no worries! We appreciate YOU 🙏💛

  • @niamooney9657
    @niamooney9657 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Kian and Kyle! You both are so amazing and I really enjoy your channel. I wanted to ask can you guys do a video about your experience with your church home in Hawaii. Is it different than the churches you were apart of in the US, how are you liking it, have you made great community, etc?

  • @christinawatkinsyoutube
    @christinawatkinsyoutube 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So excited for this video! Love y’all- also wanted to say Hawaii suits y’all😍

  • @isabellaseely6625
    @isabellaseely6625 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Liam's outfit is so cute!! I feel like everyone's been asking for her to do hair care video. And I am now joining the party! 💕

    • @isabellaseely6625
      @isabellaseely6625 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I meant Kian (autocorrect!!)

    • @KianandKyle
      @KianandKyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha I will pass it on to her and maybe she will do one on her channel 👀

  • @amygiommetti1661
    @amygiommetti1661 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great video the finance question was so great

  • @NowBloom
    @NowBloom 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a lovely video 🥰💕🙏

  • @charkendall
    @charkendall 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this!

    • @KianandKyle
      @KianandKyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      :) thank you for watching!

  • @heatherluna5075
    @heatherluna5075 ปีที่แล้ว

    The word of wisdom ❤❤❤

  • @everythingalayna
    @everythingalayna ปีที่แล้ว

    ALSO pretty please do another part of this? I would love to ask a marriage question hehe!

  • @miriamuhrinova6986
    @miriamuhrinova6986 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙌 lots of wisdooom! Thank you, thank You Holy Spirit! so inspiring and bringing peace & leading by example!☺️

  • @maevelouise06
    @maevelouise06 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    i love kyle’s long hair!!!!

  • @JadaLynnOfChrist
    @JadaLynnOfChrist 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey! About Kyle trying to beat his coffee usage- my Dad was recently struggling with a caffeine addiction and once he replaced his coffee with herbal hibiscus tea, he's wanted nothing else since. So I would recommend doing some research on that :)

  • @KizNic
    @KizNic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What's interesting, in reference to your second-to-last question, wearing wedding rings is not a biblical thing. Not that it's a bad thing but it's not a command. I feel like if people remove the "stronghold" of "there needs to be rings" things may run smoother. Of course there is something called tradition and we know that things have evolved since 'bible days'. We know that rings and other jewelry and methods are used to signify marriage which tells other people, "Hey, we are married, spoken for." And then there are those who don't have any method or ornament but they are married. God just wants the core values of His word to be expressed... ring or not. Once people have that in their mind, spirit and heart, then they can move forward. I would like a ring if marriage is in my purpose from the Lord, but my wanting of it, its priority, has been recalibrated and repositioned.

  • @carlajoyswan
    @carlajoyswan 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you guys hahaha wish my husband and i could be your besties in real life❤

  • @grace.azuara
    @grace.azuara 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I like your lengthy videos

  • @rebecanunez5044
    @rebecanunez5044 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    *Early Squad! :,)*

  • @Alessandra-ec2hr
    @Alessandra-ec2hr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is Kyle going for a new hairstyle? I keep wondering if he hasn’t found a barber yet or if he’s trying something new

  • @CB-oq5yc
    @CB-oq5yc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i believe if a couple isn’t financially stable that can be a reason for them to wait. Like me and my bf for example. I have some medical stuff where I have to go to the doctor alot and get medicine, however the medicine is free because my dad works for the county. I also can’t get a full time job because of my medical issues. If I were to get married right now, my boyfriend would be responsible for paying those medical bills because i would no longer be able to go to that doctor for free, my insurance car stuff all of that, that I can’t pay right now and that my parents are paying for. It wouldn’t be smart for us to go ahead and get married now because of the current situation. Yes God will provide if you trust in Him, but sometimes people do want to wait. Every couple is different when it comes down to the situations they are in. I don’t like how Christians are put in a box where they feel they have to marry within a few months or a year. If the couple is young, not financially stable, not being tempted, then so be it if they date 2,3,4 years before marriage. It’s nobodies business but there’s. Let’s stop putting pressure on christian couples who don’t have the same situations as others.

  • @krisannette84
    @krisannette84 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Have Kyle try Herbal Coffee, eventually it starts to taste like coffee

  • @katherinedennison445
    @katherinedennison445 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Question I have never thought about before…. But what is the biblical connection with an engagement ring? Is that practice from the Bible or more of a modern man made practice? Just curious….

    • @KianandKyle
      @KianandKyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good question - never thought too much about that one 👀

    • @katherinedennison445
      @katherinedennison445 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KianandKyle me neither. I love my engagement ring though :-)

  • @Psalm27.mp4
    @Psalm27.mp4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You guys are really attractive

    • @KianandKyle
      @KianandKyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Haha thats sweet - thank you :)

  • @somegirllaly8390
    @somegirllaly8390 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    he just gave the key to christianity its to depend and rely on him rather than be consumed by your problems

  • @mustafaali8848
    @mustafaali8848 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love from pakistan

  • @jessefoster2832
    @jessefoster2832 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS
    JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK

  • @TooFIT4You
    @TooFIT4You 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    God did not create money. It is never his. He has no interest or tie to money. He gave us a gift of life in the earth to live in bliss and joy ~
    Ugly humans with no ties to the prime creator God made money to trap us in a lack mindset.

    • @maddiecurtis7945
      @maddiecurtis7945 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So God doesn’t make money but He also made money…?

    • @KianandKyle
      @KianandKyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      At the end of the day it's all His right and we need to honor Him with everything we are and have :)