This Was Hard For Her To Share... An Oddly *emotional* Mukbang Q+A
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ก.ค. 2024
- What's up wolf gang! We are back with another q&a today, but this one is MUKBANG edition. We answer some of your questions while eating some of our favorite food on the island. The video got unexpectedly emotional and vulnerable after asking Kian a question. Hope you enjoy hanging out with us.
0:00 Intro + What We Are Eating
1:53 Something Kian's Scared To Ask Kyle
2:33 Does Our Attraction Fluctuate?
6:40 Living In Hawaii vs Living In Arizona
11:00 Our Most Vulnerable Moments In Our Relationship
16:09 Our Favorite Worship Songs
17:36 When Do We Feel The Most Loved?
18:00 Favorite Childhood Memories
19:35 Deleting Social Media
20:15 Assumptions About Being A Husband/Wife
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Kian, you have no idea how much I needed to hear what you said about self hurting. I’m newly married and very recently went through a time very similar where it felt like we were fighting constantly and I had so much built up emotion that I would hit things or myself because it felt like I needed to get it out of my system in some way. I eventually confessed to my husband and my parents because bringing things into the light is exactly what needs to happen for healing to begin!! You confessing that on youtube just shows how willing you are to admit where you’re still growing, and so many of us needed that encouragement. Thank you for your obedience, much love ♥️
I love how vulnerable and honest you guys are. I feel like a lot of Christians on TH-cam (and life in general) mask their struggle and aren’t as open minded and honest with themselves. It really frustrates me when they hide it behind pride which isn’t the point of being Christian. Keep staying as close to the LORD as you are! Love you both!
omg I cried when Kian cried! My husband is so humble and has never disrespected me and I feel like i'm on the impatience side, which I blame myself for not giving that all to God because it might cause arguments! But I honestly felt that❤️
Aww I cried editing it too 😭 we all bring something to our marriage and our partner can help reveal it and heal it if we let God do the work in us!
Thank you for normalizing the highs and lows of life, faith, marriage, it’s beautiful to see you guys grow and it encourages me in my marriage. I think if we Christians were more open about our struggles the world wouldn’t be so quick to label us hypocrites when we mess up etc.
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, love how raw and honest these videos are!🙌🏻And yes please do a seperate video on Kyle having to confess sins and be vulnerable, sounds like it would be a very interesting topic.
Thank you Liv 🤍🤍 we appreciate it! Definitely will do another video on that!
Did you all ever make that video? I couldn’t find it.
Oh Kian, how I wished I could give you a hug when you shared that private truth 🤍 the eyes you gave Kyle when he was taking accountability ti what led you to those actions spoke 1000 words. I think a lot of us have been there, I'm glad you two are continuing to handle your emotions differently
I like the mukbang style, I feel like I’m eating a meal with you guys (although I’m just eating a Reese’s egg)
Well dang I wish we had Reese’s for dessert 🤤 I think eating also makes it more casual and conversational for us! Glad you enjoyed!
Please do the sin confession video. It would help so many couples. My fiancé just confided to me some secret sins I had no idea he was struggling in and the news really hurt me. We actually had to call off our engagement to work through these issues. Would love a video on Kyle’s confessions and how you both handled it.
I’m so sorry .. please find the right person it’s better than investing years of your life into someone who’s not right for you
Im in the same boat. It would help a lot to hear the how they worked through that.
Wow. Kian, thank you for being so raw. Kyle, the way you held Kian and took responsibility and stood by her side through your words was sooo tender to watch. What a sweet moment. God works in these moments. God's has the both of you in the palm of your hands! There is healing and restoration in his hands and you both are receiving it and have received it! Seriously, love you both for your honesty! Keeping you in prayers!
I also cried when Kian cried! Thank you for being so vulnerable. The worship song I was listening to yesterday is Break Every Chain and I since I was jamming out so much I think it is one of my current faves.
Ugh such a good song!! I love to listen to that one when I’m on the treadmill -Kian
Your honestly and transparency is inspiring and truly makes me feel like you and I are friends! This is an amazing video 💜
I really love your guys vulnerability and sharing these things. Thank you for your honesty and trust to help others💖
I just love every video you post. Thanks for being so open and for sharing the good and the bad things! Love you guys! God bless you! ❤️❤️
Your guy’s video convicted me so much and it was so needed. Thank you both for being you and sharing your lives with us. ❤️
So vulnerable and raw, thank u for sharing!!!
oh wow i can definitely relate to the vulnerable question.. i’ve been there a lot of times, where you can’t control it in the moment and you end up hurting yourself flipping out and yeah def not proud but i’ve come a longgg way and it only gets easier! thanks for sharing
You guys are truly just amazing. Loved this video and the rawness and realness. I always feel so encouraged after watching your videos because you both don’t paint the picture that your marriage is perfect and that everything is “awesome” Would definitely love another video on when Kyle felt most vulnerable confessing sins 🤍
I really love these honest, vulnerable videos. I would love to see the confession video
I literally felt like I was sitting in the living room with you two! I truly love how honest your videos are ♥️
Kian thank you so much for being vulnerable with us! I too struggle with this physical manifestation of anger in hitting things or myself and I really appreciate you talking about it.
Favorite worship song atm - Yet not I but through Christ in me
Also the end of this video had me smiling so big you guys are the cutest 🥰
Oh my goodness, this video was an emotional roller coaster!!! I felt your faith, love, joy, transparency, depth, vulnerability and just enough silliness!!! Sending bunches of hugs your way!!! Love you both so much…and Jesus loves you more!!! 🙌💛🥰
Y’all’s growth is so apparent, I am so happy for you guys. Thank you for sharing!
Love y’all!
Kian, you are so loved! Thank you and Kyle for always being y’all’s most real and vulnerable selves! Kyle, thanks for showing how you love Kian well, not perfect but we’ll. Y’all both do such an amazing job of showing us what real marriage is like when it’s time. I love that y’all don’t present before it’s time but y’all also don’t hold back when it’s time. I am forever grateful for what y’all to here! ❤️
Kian, sending you love ❤️ thank you for your vulnerability…you are not alone. Creating a safe space to be able to share emotions is crucial, Kyle you’re amazing for letting her know where you fell short in creating that environment for her. You two are going to do so well in your marriage having these conversations and being there for one another beyond yourself. Draw close to the Lord and he will draw close to you. Much love to you both 🙏🏽❤️
Wow, this is so raw and transparent!! Love watching you guys💓
Thank you so much for being so vulnerable and honest and raw with us! It's helped me alot
Kian I can relate, you don't know how refreshing it is to hear that honesty and vulnerability from you,
Your vulnerability is freeing to others. Thank you guys 💗
Kian I’m so happy you shared that! I can relate, I was in a relationship where I would get physically abusive with my partner because I felt like that was the only way to get him to stop pushing my buttons, etc. and I was SO ashamed, I’ve told very few people.
I ended up leaving him because I couldn’t keep doing that and I’ve never done it again with my future partners.
Isn’t it so crazy how we think we’ll never be the one to act like that and then certain situations bring it out of us and show us our deeper layers?
Also there’s something to be said about you loving him more than yourself in those moments and not hitting him, and hitting yourself instead.
It’s still not the right way to handle it BUT you avoided wounding your relationship in the moment and I commend you for that💖
Thanks for sharing xx
I just love how your names go together - Kian and Kyle. I know - random, but I really wanted to let you know that. And I really enjoyed this video - very raw and real about how you are. Thank you for sharing. 💜
Kyle and kian, I just want to say I am in awe of what God has done in your marriage. I’ve been married for 5 years and I can truly say I didn’t handle things right in the beginning of our marriage and we recently had a baby 10 months ago and I went back to my old habits. I also did things like you kian. I strayed from God’s path briefly and it showed in my marriage. But my husband has been so patient and has loved me unconditionally that I was able to feel God’s love through him and that’s what has motivated me seek God more deeply. Thank you for sharing your raw emotions.
Thanks for sharing Gabriela, the fact that you are noticing yourself reverting to old habits is such a win in itself! Praying that God would renew those areas to be more like Christ 🤎 bless you and your marriage
Oh my gosh it touches my heart how Kyle apologizes so humbly when you were describing your vulnerable moments. Love you guys and how you guys genuinely pursue God and sharing what it looks like to live out your faith authentically, with all the ups and downs in between. 🙂🤍
Love your honesty . The food looks amazing
I love these videos so much, thanks for being so honest. I also used to lose control when arguing, throwing stuff and hitting my head in frustration. It feels so scary.
Yes it brought on so much shame afterwards and just fear of how out of control you can feel when having big emotions. I’m really glad I’m in a much better mental state now 🙏🏼🤍
Yes on the video! I’m crying and laughing at the same time because there’s never a dull moment with you guys.
Thank you for being vulnerable Kian! I struggle with Trichotillomania - hair pulling - from 2007 to now. It’s a form of self-harm and internal anger, and I pray for deliverance because I wouldn’t wish it on anyone 🙏🏼🙏🏼
I’ve said it before and I will say it again- you really do complement each other well. Just watching the heart felt words of your most vulnerable moments and believe it or not it’s sweet to see the engagement you have together- Kian’s more serious vulnerability and Kyle’s more funny one- you balance each other-I’m sure the roles switch depending on the moment too!! Be blessed :).
Intense fellowship 😂
Whenever I need a pick me up or to clear my mind and find something light and grounding your channels have been very helpful 🙏🏻 thank you!
You two have the best Q & A videos! I'm not bothered at all by your eating - in fact Drunken Noodles are my favorite Thai dish too! My favorite worship song is "When I'm with You" by Citizens Way.
favorite worship songs that are not really your "generic" worship songs: literally every song from jervis campbell!! so so good! my faves are "Eden", "Friend", and "You have my heart"
I know it can be really tough to share your relationship with other and want to maintain an “image” but genuinely praise God for you guy’s transparency and vulnerability in the hardship of relationships. God is really using your marriage to deconstruct the perfect Christian marriage that a lot of us have created in our own minds, but He is really showing the beauty He can make from the mess we are. I hope this all makes sense but nonetheless I really love you guys 🤎🫶🏾🙏🏾
Love how real and raw you guys are!
my favourite worship song, which I discovered yesterday, is Lion by Elevation. really recommend.
Thank you so much for this video Kian. I appreciate the guts it took to be so honest about what your going through. LOTS of love.
Thank you for so much honesty and vulnerability! I pray that this video blesses many couples as I'm sure it'll help me in my future marriage ♥️
I really really think y’all should do a podcast!! I would love to listen to it😊 thank you for your vulnerability!
After watching you guys eating, I had to order some szechuan noodles. I definitely don't mind the mukbang aspect of your vid ❤ And thank you for sharing your vulnerability on here. I admire your strength
Thank you for being so open Kian!
My favorite worship song right now is “Yet not I but Christ in me”
I commented the same song! My new church sings this one and it's so good!!!
I’ve been listening on repeat to “In Jesus Name” by Katie Nichole. Such an amazing powerful song! And the story behind the song is beautiful. Also thank you both for being so honest and vulnerable with your answers.
Same!!! God has used It to heal so many parts of me…
I really loved this video❤ thank you so much for sharing. I also liked the question: "When do yoy feel more loved"? ♡♡ def asking some of my friends this week.
Your videos are so encouraging! Thank you!!
The boys comforting Kian was so pure and precious 🥺🤗
You guys are so much more real and less fake than many of the popular Christian you tubers. You aren't selling out like a lot of them are lately. You're real and relatable and I appreciate that.
Great video. Thank you for your honesty.
I have two favorite worship songs at the moment:
Jason upton - Whisper
Phil Wickham - It’s Always Been You
I haven’t heard these yet! Adding to my list 🙏🏼
Here’s another one, maybe u haven’t heard before. I have so many favorite worship songs.
I love you by Judah, Dante Bowe, Aaron Moses
Yes please do confession video!! So important to be able to share that within marriage
Kian, know you are not alone in not knowing how to handle those hard moments sometimes. When I first got married I threw a fork at my husband, threw a laundry basket at him and also punched my leg as hard as I could multiple times because I also didn’t know a healthy way of release from the anger and emotion that came with our intense arguments. Especially when you’re a believer it can bring about shame for sure because we have the Holy Spirit and aren’t we supposed to be self controlled? Haha that wrestle with sin and our flesh is so hard. But no condemnation for those in Christ and our inner self is being renewed day by day 💛 he’s not finished with us, sis. Thank you for being so vulnerable with us when you def don’t have to. xoxo
Oh my gosh when you were sharing your most vulnerable moment handsome was so adorable giving you his love and licking you
Firm foundation from maverick city!! Was sobbing this morning listening and feeling so comforted by Christ.
Yes!!! Such a good one
Love you guys. You show us how to grow through the struggles because we know they are real. So y'all are always living proof of how beautiful a Christ-centered relationship can turn out if you feed it, don't neglect it, and give it your attention and always, always seek the Lord first. How much grace He gives us for each other when He is the author! Amen💖
I really appreciate how open and honest you both are. I love that you normalize having highs and lows in your faith, relationships, careers etc.
It’s so easy to fall into the trap that no one else is struggling with these things especially on the internet. Thank you!
*You are loved* by Stars Go Dim. My favorite thus far and it'll be an instant favorite for you too! Love you guys and God bless! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
we love how honest you are guys ❤❤
Jesus+Asthetic Tree wind in the background+food..... thats heaven on Earth yall.
I really appreciate you both for being so open, honest and real. Being transparent like that is so hard but so needed. Hearing others going through hard times remind me that the things I’m going through are normal and I will get through them. Thank you for being you ❤️
😂😂that ending was so chaotic-I loved it!
When I heard “explosion” and the fart noise I geeked. Not gonna lie, it was hilarious. Great video though. Loved the honesty.
I love how real you guys are 💕
I love these types of videos!!!
Ah! Kyle, your answer to the question on living in HI as opposed to AZ.... that whole roller coaster thing and the fact that you are more stretched and challenged here? THAT IS MY PROCESS! I am currently a leader of a sub group of young girls in my church, but not too long ago I was a leader of another subgroup. I had forged so many relationships there, it was hard when I had to "move". Things felt difficult in the beginning of the move, I had to do more stuff and then I realized that that was God's plan. It felt awkward painful because I was still holding on to the old (new wine, old wineskin) and then it got better when I saw that this was for my growth. To stretch me and take me out of my comfort zone, to help me be a more courageous leader and to brave those roller coasters! Thank God for the sight we have otherwise we may look at it in the wrong way and complain like the Israelites, and want to go back to where we were from. 🙂🙌
Love the honesty!
Love you both so much! ❤️❤️
Ahhh kick the can!!! Yes!!! Haha such a fun neighborhood game. We also played spotlight.
My favorite worship song at the moment is Yet Not I But Through Christ In Me by City Alight. SO powerful!
Love you guys! Marriage is most definitely sanctifying. And praise God for that. We always say that when we get married, it's like looking at yourself in the mirror and seeing all the ugly edges. There's no one better to expose those than our spouse though. Because our spouse is a safe place. Keep pursuing the Lord, admitting fault, repenting and forgiving. It's where its at! You are so very loved ❤. God bless you guys 🙏
One of my favorite songs right now is What He’s Done by Passion. It’s so good!
This was amazing❤️
Can Kian give us a skin care/ makeup routine pls bc my girl is glowinnn✨
Kian, I have had outbursts very similar to yours during arguments with my SO. Thanks for being so honest. I also carry a lot of shame for that
love the worship song “the commission” it’s right out of scripture and nothing better than singing scripture:)
Closer by Brandon Lake. Such a calming worship song
My current favorite worship song is "Just as Good" by Chris Renzema. Such a jam!
I cried with you guys, thank you for your honesty! 🥺❤️ and fav worship song, Majesty - Cover by Jesus Image.
God turn it around is such an AMAZING song!!
As far as worship songs ~ I love Isla Vista Worship, and my fave song by them is called Through Every Season😊
Thank you for this video :)
I would say my favorite worship song is "It Is Well With My Soul" performed by the Gaither Vocal band with David Phelps as the lead. They also have a beautiful song called, "It Is Finished." Pretty much anything that group performs, I love.
Thank you for being so open and honest with your responses! For your question about great new songs, you should check out Lion - Elevation Worship, if you haven't heard it yet! Such an amazing song!! ☺🙌🏻
I've been loving the song "me in your mind" by Matthew west has me tearing up every time ❤️
fav worships songs rn are:
ring and a robe, bethel music ft. dante bowe!
living God, red rocks worship!
nothing else, cody carnes
this is the day, tim timmons
absolutely love these!! and any mav city song lol
Would love a video on the spiritual warfare you feel in Hawaii
Omg can we just talk about handsome licking you while you’re sharing your most vulnerable moments 🥺
I love your videos. We were baptized 2015 and still learning a lot. I relate on a lot of the topics as well. I need to learn to give all my burdens to Him.
I created a list of all my favorite songs for when I'm going through dry spells that gets me back on track in times of need. List below is not all but it's a start. Hehe.
1. Amazing Grace - this part always makes me cry "How sweet the sound
That saved a wretch like me.
I once was lost, but now I am found,
Was blind, but now I see."
2. Above All - this one also makes me tear up when it comes to the part of trampled roses and you lived to die, rejected and alone.
3. Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus
4. Redeemed
5. When We All Get to Heaven
6. Power in the Blood
7. Faith is the Victory
8. Leaning on the Everlasting Arms
9. Wonderful, Merciful Savior
10. Here I am to Worship
11. Power of Your Love
12. Draw Me Close to You
13. Trust and Obey
And many more.
Sending love and blessings from Arkansas. 😇🙏💝
My hands down favorite worship songs are Another in the Fire by Hillsong, Even If by Mercy Me, and Rescue by Lauren Daigle
Oh praise the Lamb you guys! I definitely picked the cue on being more selfless. We won’t be wanting to have things to ourselves anymore. It’s much more about others. This points to the gospel it’s not about us but Christ in Us. Continue to have fellowship with him. He is indeed at work within you. Truly I tell you The devil is malicious. When one falls, the other lift him up. Interceding for you both. God is SoO good. 🕊💕🌿🙌🏾🔥
Thank you! Appreciate the prayers 🤎🙏🏼
I have learned a lot about living as a Christian couple from you guys, thank you for it❤️ but I have a feeling if you are thinking your relationship too much and sharing too much intimate questions at your own mental healths cost. Talking and talking about relationship and its problems may cause it to go in circle and the focus is so inwards and all that analysing makes anxious. We are complex beings, never perfect or completly ready and harmonous. Focusing on something outside you two to work on together side by side could make it easier to live than focusing so much on talking about your relationship. Maybe some Bible study content rather than q&as would be great for a while
I totally agree with that. Their testimony is completely relevant and these videos should exist but it can be mostly draining, specially if they've not fully overcomed the feelings behind each situation.
love you guys. not my own by united pursuit has been my song lately. ❤
the ending had me lol-ing :D hahahaha so cute!
I loved watching this video
Ulysses by Josh Garrels. Some of his songs are in the movie “Tulsa”. I would recommend watching it, it’s free on TH-cam!
I love Upperroom !! They have goood worship 🤍😭