DCMWG Talks Dating Rich Men, Virgil Abloh, Molestation + More - Ep11. "Bring Your Kid To Work"
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- DCMWG Talks Dating Rich Men, Virgil Abloh, Molestation + More - Ep11. "Bring Your Kid To Work"
DON’T CALL ME WHITE GIRL EPISODE 11 ”Bring Your Kid To Work"
Welcome Back! It’s that time of the week! On this episode Damona recaps the Thanksgiving holiday, no pregnancy vibes, the right way to remember Virgil Abloh, Quality NOT being under Control, women dating rich men…what about it?, addressing the seriousness and cases of molestation, voicemails & more!
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Executive Producers: Dave Mays & Brett Jeffries
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So he can be big, health conscious, and be very hygienic, but he doesn't think any women can do the same? What kinda weird shit? 🤔
righttttttttt like huh????
Most men who fat shame women are bbw’s themselves it’s so odd
Trap got me tight. Ain’t no way he doesn’t like bbws and he a bbw. He’s really wild.
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Thanks for watching!
Lol
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“I’m into fitness” meanwhile ya body says otherwise! I hate how men who are big themselves won’t date women who are “big” because all of a sudden that’s unhealthy 🙄🥴
Right😂😂😂 and not to mention alot of non-fat/ skinny women don't exercise or eat healthy either...
I came looking for this, I need him to stand up cause he looks the biggest at the table
It's from Kevin Samuels lmao
“ Fitness” food in his mouth!! 😂 he got some nerve
But his mama and a few of his aunts is big girls #JustSaying 😂😂😂
Mona, your honesty on molestation and encouragement for therapy is so appreciated. Sending you continuous healing ✨
I feel the exact same
It’s only one thing missed… I didn’t hear anyone bring up that woman are predators as well
@@Homentertainement2 they most definitely can be
@@Homentertainement2 she actually does mention that! she talked a lot about lil boys that get raped by 20- something year olds
Trap is way beside himself… him not dating fat girls and he’s fat. then trying to down play Mya 😂
screaminggggggg
Love Mona for speaking on r*pe/SA so candidly it speaks volumes to how our generation is really trying to break those generational curses that our parents passed down to us. It’s sad how common that is and how uncommon it is for victims to speak up.
I’m confused cause trap bout to bust out that jacket
Can’t even zip it up
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LMFAOOOOOOOOO @ the big guy that had the most negative things to say about big women.
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Always
I agree with Mona 1000%, behavior has to change when it comes to protecting kids
Thanks for watching!
I love how honest and hilarious this woman is! Glad I found her own platform I’m gonna binge these episodes
Thanks for watching!
The segment on molestation was powerful and the transparency was amazing!
Mona I gotta say this is probably the best episode fr. Your segment on molestation and being so open and honest with your own story is commendable and I give you so much respect for using your platform to shed light on such a serious issue in the black community and encouraging getting help and therapy. I tune in every week on TH-cam and apple podcasts and I’m such a fan but I have immense respect for you after this episode. ❤️ sending you love and light 🙏🏾
It’s ALWAYS the biggest man in the room that hates big women. And tell them how they should eat and live to be skinny, TAKE YOUR OWN ADVICE 🤣🤣 get ya mans Mona
Do Trap realized how dumb he sounds lol. Like for real he need to go back and listen to his response lol. And fyi I'm not a big girl but he sounds crazy
Right!!! he talking like he not a big girl
As a brown skin woman with a lightskin mother, my mother would always tell me growing up that she would pray to have darker skin like me because growing up she went through alot just because she was lightskin, she felt like she always had to prove herself and be tough.
What would you tell parents of light skinned kids? I'm ALLL ears to prelate my kids!🥺😭
i would also like to add that just because you have a lightskin parent or parents does not mean your child will not turn out a darker shade. i would get asked if my mom bleached, if I've permed my hair, if I'm mixed because of my hair (I'm dark skin, and it quiet f annoying, I do not find it to be a compliment. you just sound ignorant). I just hate ignorance
@@cvaldez4937 good question,
first have them understand that just because the world will treat them like they are better than or different, to not treat others less than and to recognize their privilege in the room. We are conditioned that "white is right" so having lighter skin they are closer to white in societies eyes. They will be "tested" and treated like they are soft because they are lighter, so prepare to defend yourself and don't look like a target. They won't be seen as the suspect/aggressor but the victim in an altercation so that in itself is a privilege they shouldn't abuse and pick fights.
By default we have been conditioned that darker skin is tougher and so it can handle pain better, that's why excessive force is used against darker people. Your daughter may be seen as "fast" and a 403 and other girls will see her as a threat so be prepared to lose some "friends" along the way. Your son may be bullied and pushed to fight because of jealousy, however the world will see him white-aligned. Same with your daughter but the hierarchy goes white man, white woman, black man, black woman, in that order...so she may or may not "benefit" as her male counterpart. I say all that to say if they want something in life and focus and do well in school people will adjust to them vs someone darker having to adjust to their environment. This is all coming from experience of lighter family members and friends and even the unattractive ones are by default "accepted" into society because they are seen as the better option of the two.... so there's that too, people will want to befriend them, date them, etc all because they are light skinned. My mom's Mona's complexion and has no female friends, Women assume the "she thinks she's better than everyone" even her sisters. theres a video about pretty privilege on youtube that also explains more. Good luck
As a grad student in clinical counseling, thank you for your comments on mental health. Much love 💜
Regarding the man she asked if he would date a big girl...Is he not big?
He talking a lot of shit abt his “ preference” with that tight ass coat on😭✌🏽
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Homie is fat as me 😂. He particular about eating cheesesteaks
THANK YOU for addressing molestation. I try to open ppl eyes about it almost every day because it's a serious thing!!! I am the same way about my kids
This is my new favorite episode ! Thank you for sharing your story but you’re so right about the victims taking up for the predators especially being in the family
I appreciate that you’ve been candid about your experience with molestation. It’s powerful to hear that especially with a platform like you have.
My mother never let me spend the night out growing up ‼️I didn’t get it then, but I understand completely now and I’m praying for everyone that had to deal with unfortunate circumstances 🥺
The show was great overall….BUT Mona’s hotel story at the end KILLED ME 😂😂😂😂😂. How are these people in the studio not crying laughing???
all that and then she said she cheated on him 😂😂
@@forgivejordan 😂😂😂 Mona is the GOAT
The people in the studio with her might as well just stay home cause all they do is sit there and stare at her. 😑 Even when she’s talking to them ….*silence *
You can’t let mixed age group kids play together out of your direct eyesight either I never hear that talked about but it’s anther pain point.
I’m sending my daughter to boarding school in two years. She’s excited ☺️. It’s a wonderful option.
And thank you for your honesty on motherhood. Like…🤯
Thanks for watching and sharing!
Wow. Smfh
@@Username7110bluThey be messing them kids life up Mona was just playing b!tches be delusional I feel you that was my exact thoughts SMFH
When I was 14 I almost could have been molested. My father and uncle's best friend touch my behind when I was 14. Shiddd yhank God I had a father in my life. I told the family he was the only one in the family that believed me. My grandmother was mad because she's a uppity upper class black older woman and she's one of those ppl that think about bringing shame on the family. She's big on her image in the family's image. Cuz she damn near raised this man from a little boy and when this happened he was in his late 30s. He was still a part of the family then. So like I said my grandmother she didn't believe me. She was mad (AT ME🤯) my father literally went off on his mother, and I believe that was the first time he ever talked back to his mother. That was never his character that was my uncle who used to talk back even in his 30s and 40s. he will go to my grandmother now my grandfather and bully her out of money. Anyway that's not the point though. My father was like that's why things like this happen to children, this is why kids don't tell because ppl don't believe them. My father took care of it. I don't know what happened. I don't know what was said. But get this my grandmother still talks to him on the phone, still loves him, and is still close with him BOOM!!💥💥 Now he's suffering for it he's having seizures and got all kind of health problems. So I can relate with you Ramona. We made it though. We both have a son and a daughter, and we're doing well for ourselves. We are survivors.
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Mona, I congratulate you on your bravery and your honesty. It takes a big heart to put one's livelihood on the line to talk about something dark. I know exactly what you've been through because I was that child too.
Plus you congratulating yourself on doing well talking about dark shit is why I'm such a big fan of yours 😂.
You are hilarious… on a serious note I appreciate your candor and transparency these conversations are a reality and need to be had more often.
Thanks for watching and for the kind words!
It’s the chunky average guy talking about mya being average 😂😂😂🤦🏾♀️
lol at him being "average" lol
He’s busted
As an Chemotherapy patient I totally understand where Virgil was coming from wit his secrecy & not unraveling it to the world.
I have certain family & fickle friends who are insensitive to my weight & my lifepath of battling cancer cells, I go to get my chemo next Saturday matter fact & I don't even tell many people about my immune illness anymore because they judge judge judge instead of understanding & love love love. Plus I've been molested by own sister at an young age so I know how that feels too!!
Thanks for bein' you Don't Call Me Whitegirl, TH-cam suggested this to me I'm glad I chose to give your podcast my time.
Thanks for sharing and we are wishing you all the best! Thanks for watching!
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🎯🎯 I'm with Ramona on this one. Mya is gorgeous and she is fine as hell now. She's independent, she's on her shit, she has a record label, and she's just doing the damn thang.
With no surgeries or publicity stunts and scandals! 😭
@@kyk5400 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
My parents never let me spend the night anywhere. I was pissed but my mom told me when I was an adult that she was sexually assaulted over her friends house. I wish she would have just told me why instead of always saying no, I thought she was being mean and I would cry and feel so left out as a child
The issue is that (Colorist) people don’t know the actual meaning of preference because their preferences really be requirements.
That part. Having an attraction to tall slim men is a preference. When you’re always seeking out light skin women that’s colorism. Only dating white or other is a fetish. They blur the lines to fit their narrative smh.
I’m sorry you went through that! I’ve had multiple situations. One was from my dad. When it happened, I didn’t say anything. I completely agree! We need to talk about it and the lasting trauma. No matter how over it we feel. Love you Mona!
Wow , I’m really happy you chose to get a little personal ✨💕💕definitely can relate.. My child doesn’t stay anywhere
I admire your wisdom and open mindedness. Very real and not ignorant or superficial the way that society is today.
girl being a momma is hard, i ain’t even give birth but i raise my brother and sister, shout out to the mommas and big sisters that taking care of the babies !
Thanks for watching and sharing!
I was a victim of being molested listening to you speak help encourage me in so many ways and I just want to say God bless on all of your success
I love this woman...she gon keep it 100000 no matter what
Thank you for your transparency and vulnerability! You definitely blessed people with that one! I appreciate you sharing your truth
I thoroughly appreciate your segment on molestation! Much love to you for that!
He said he particular. look at his aazz. The nerve. Tight ass coat belly hanging over his sweats. Cut it out.
I appreciate the openness. Most informative conversation about the Preferences on the BBW! 😌😂❤️
My mother-in-law was a cancer survivor. 💪🏾💪🏾🎗️🎗️ (They need a pink ribbon on here for cancer) She survived it the first time, but not the second time then she started having strokes. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I'm just grateful my daughter do remember her grandmother and how good she was to her.
Way a minute. He bigger than both of them at the table. Lmaoooo. He right I hope those women run. Super judgmental.
This has became my favorite podcast and I’m trying to start one and this giving me inspiration
Yes, s/o to your Virgo daughter ♍️. We are awesome fr
“Older Boosie” 🤣🤣🤣 This is great content, Mona! Definitely tuned in ✅
I appreciate you what you said about being ok to tell your experience not taking away from anyone else’s well said
Thanks for watching!
this dude got a gut and talking about he into fitness... man work on yourself first
Daughter is so beautiful! God bless her
Thanks for the kind words!
“ When i don’t feel like arguin with that NiGGA imma just turn my FUCCIN back “ I’m weak asf 😂😂😂😂
Yes we are Damona! Virgo women are great people! I love you
Lmao i love Mona she had me screaming at the end of this interview 😂😂😂😂 girl not the shirt pulled over his head like a wrestler omggg😂😂😂
This authenticity is everything! I’m here to see where Mona goes, she’s a star!
I love when you have the little ones on the pod she is soooo beautiful 😍 genuinely love u and the show Mona ♥️
Yasssss another awesome 1🎬 Good morning Mona🤩 #dontcallmeewhitegirl for President 👸🏽💐👍🏽
That last story at the end 🤣🤣🤣 oh my gosh. Mannnnn that's gone be with me forever.
😂 Thanks for watching!
The story about buddy being sad because his thang aint work with you spread eagle made me spit out my drink Mona😆
its always the big girls who font like big girls.... SIR YOU ARE A BIG GIRL. and there are big women who eat healthy but they are not going to be super small
“My butthole looks nothing like it used to.” LMAO!
Thanks for watching!
Thanks for sharing your story ✊🏼
Each week it gets better and better 😂😂😂😂 much success
😂 Thanks for watching!
Mona never stop, you're so amazing you instantly can make my day turn around. God has such a plan for you. The real dont always win but the smart do, and you both!
I want to see her WIN BAAAAAAAAADDDDD!!!
Definitely agreed wit Mona about spending the night out. My child/children not spending the night out. I just can’t and won’t do it… Also I dated a big buy.. he spoiled me.. however I constantly saw sh*t stains in his briefs. I told him I saw it. I jus can’t do it. I’m big on smells and cleanliness. PSA (Wash your ass thoroughly!)
The more I listen to you the more I love your platform ❤️
Mona!! Love the show!! Girllllllll big ups to you
Many more blessing and many more shows I can’t wait to call live next show cuz I got a question and I’m so confuseddddd! If I know one thing from this show tonight you gon have the right answersssssss
Ya hair looks great Mona 😍
RIP to Young Dolph.🙏🏾🙏🏾 He had a beautiful wife and beautiful children. He did not deserve that neither the they. Now his kids won't even have their father there for the holidays. This will probably be their first holiday without their father. I can't even imagine how that would feel! And I don't want to know. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
when she said phelps kicked the dog down the stairs! 😂😂😂
i really don't like podcasts an she the first person I'll ever watch 😭‼️ I love her fr, she we got the same personality. it's a cancer & aquarius thing.
I agree w/ Mona. Child predators position themselves around children and gain the trust of their parents in order to gain access. Parents need to be aware of this.
I just found your podcast. Please keep being honest. Love it. 🔥
Thanks for watching!
I'm obsessed with this woman and her podcast!!
“Colorist. Shout out to the yellow skin dudes that only date skin lightskin women and your moms is very dark. Woah😹😹😹” monaaaaa ♥️♥️♥️
How are you a bigger guy who eats well but think there's no big women who also eat well?? That doesn't make sense.
Exactly, 😂😂 I don’t really go after bigger man and I’m big but I don’t judge them. Wtf
He just seen like very negative about it which is why ppl are saying some.
Thanks for watching!
BTW, I love your platform and Phelps too... All the shows that I've caught have been amazing. Keep doing your thing
How he big but don’t like big girls? Talking bout he eat right 😭😭😭 nigga you eat McDonald’s just like us thick girls, stop capping
The guys just need a lil bit of light, not as much as yours but some type of light their part of conversation. Love the show 🥰
Noted! Thanks for watching!
Aint nothing but a pinky promise 🤣🤣🤣🤣Dic Lips jokes on him 🤣🤣🤣☠️☠️
Earlyyyy with the spliff & coffee 🥰
Mooddddd!
Awww us virgos love you too boo!!! Shout out to your daughter happy belated sweetheart!!! ♍️🖤🎂
This was a beautiful show great discussion great awareness
Thanks for watching!
I don’t know homeboy name but he’s not cute enough for his Mya comments
Thank you for talking about the colorist too. It's all facts
Your point on fupa and extra body fat is true imo….the collective of society thinks your lazy and don’t work out!
For me, myself I’ve lost 17 pounds since January, waist has slimmed down about 4 inches but this fupa ain’t gonna be non existent until I get surgery. Atp in life if you phucking with the fupa cool, if not then scram! 😂
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I was so sick when Chadwick Boseman passed away. We finally get our first black superhero and poor thing passed away from cancer. He didn't even tell us he was sick. He kept on working and doing his thing til he passed. The crazy thing is they was roasting him and going in on his. people are so stupid first he was your hero he was our first black superhero.
💙💙✊🏾✊🏾💪🏾💪🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️
Wakanda forever!!
You are dope and you relate because you remind of us regular girls! Keep shining love!!
I swear 🤬 I must have rewind the episode to 51 mins. Almost 10 times. The sign language so I can turn my back on him has me crying laughing 😃 like it's the 1st time I heard it each time I rewind it. I ❤️❤️❤️❤️ this episode. Love you mama...I listen to you everyday. God bless. You deserve it all.
I really appreciate this
Heard it on Apple now I gotta support the TH-cam account.
Her on Lil Baby is sending me! 😂😂😂😂
Thanks for watching!
The energy is almost perfect….hoping for one heavy tweak to the roster! 🤞🏾
Good show
Mr. “I eat clean” need to touch the ground. He almost made me not wanna finish watching 😭
I’m sorry but why is dude bein so judgy about females and he chubby himself he can’t talk about somebody bein average look in the mirror my guy
This was real solid 💪🏾 Real Aquarius shit. You changing the game
It’s the age of Aquarius.
This was a great episode.