9 Things Highly Confident Femme Fatales NEVER DO !
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- Today we talk about 9 Things highly confident femme fatales never do ! The femme fatale is the ultimate representation of confidence and feminine power ! So what are the things she would never do ?
In France it is a big compliment to be seen as a femme fatale as we love mysterious and alluring women like Eva Green and Monica Bellucci. Of course we will only talk about the good things about her !
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a femme fatale would never stop developing and changing herself for the better. it’s like the woman you see today isn’t the woman you’ll see tomorrow. she’s all about knowledge
Yes absolutely ✨
Amazing ❤
T😊f😮eddy f😮 d z🎉
Feminine is a gift
This question is for the *genuinely* confident women out there: How do you deal with the insecure people who try to shut you out socially because they feel threatened by you?
I ask this because even though I'm a rather confident woman, this gets to me. I'm *not* an extrovert, so I run out of energy when in social situations for an extended amount of time. But whenever I come into a space with an insecure "Queen Bee" I find that my social battery gets drained even more quickly. These are usually people (mostly women) who parade as confident when in fact they're very insecure and easily threatened. They enjoy making confident (female) outsiders feel not welcome in social spaces. My personal experience with this has been that they pretend I'm not present (and avoid my gaze), come into conversations I'm having and try to monopolize the conversation, or even in some circumstances they've literally touched me (my earrings or hair) without having acknowledged me first. I'm assertive, but I'm not obnoxious or willing to play childish games, and I don't like being the center of attention so I always find these encounters particularly challenging because I'm not there to compete. But I also don't like having to walk away from an enjoyable time just because these people can't get over themselves.
Yessss! Make a video on this!
I too have experienced this. Confident, high caliber women are allies, we lift each other up and support each other. However there’s always going to be someone who’s insecure trying to bring us down, and it’s just the worst feeling (especially when they are your coworkers!) My advice, when dealing with an insecure woman (or man) is to be sweet to them and treat them with respect and kindness anyway. Don’t start a fight or drama at a party for instance. Sometimes they need to be confronted in private though. I just try to get through the day or night being cordial with them, but we won’t be friends.
Maybe if it's people always shutting u out cause they are "jealous" maybe maybe there might be an issue with u
@@extrastout1741 The issue is that I'm seen as threatening because I am confident. It makes falsely confident people insecure being in a space with me. Genuinely self-assured women find no issue with me. Either way, it's a frustrating conundrum because these false confident people can cause real problems.
@@neontropic4992 Personally, I aim to avoid individuals who are made insecure by my confidence. But this makes life rather difficult at times. If I am forced to socialize with these sorts of insecure individuals, I am cordial of course. But from experience there's really no winning them over. If you try to humanize yourself in their eyes, at least in my case, they will use that as a form of ammunition and gossip about how flawed you are (this becomes hot gossip for them). While this can seem innocent, it can lead to real problems if it gets out of hand. Trying to discuss the issue with them privately, depending on the person you're dealing with, can also blow up in your face. You could be accused of bullying. Or it can end up with exaggerations of what took place and lead to "can you believe she did THIS to me?", "she yelled at me!", etc.
I speak with experience with all of the above examples. I know my value, but many others don't and that's a problem. And ignoring these insecure people doesn't work when you're constantly exposed to them.
I personally want that femme fetale confidence, not caring what people think of her. Own who you are!
Never looking bad is actually a good rule to live by.
Also I so agree with celebrating other women- encouraging and supporting other women is a very attractive thing. The green eyed monster is not a good look.
I think the term "femme fatale" is being used inapprorpriately here. The wiki definition of a femme fatale is a woman with the traits as Lisa describes. But one who uses those traits to draw men into a trap or otherwise bad situation to take advantage of them. What Lisa is advocating is being simply a strong confident women who has good taste and is glamorous.
Yes I always say I just want to talk about the positive aspect of the femme fatale and not the negative 😄
@@Lisaglamour In any case, your idea that the positive aspect of the femme fatale being an idea standard that women should strive for is a good one to promote.
The wiki definition is not enough. Many woman feel insecure and threatened by Men's presence. Their judgements , gaze , their assertiveness. If a man shames a woman, she'd rather be shameless and trap the the Same men for being a douche.
It's like, " you want me to cover up? Act like a proper lady? Let's see who's weaker ! You can't even resist me ! 😏💅"
So the trope is used for the worthlessness so-called Men, who'd show assertiveness on their women but can't even resist their own desires.
Femme Fatales show assertiveness through beauty, confidence and seduction.
I think she made a video on her definition of femme fatale already but she confirmed that she has a completely different idea than to what Google has.(I had the same doubts as you) and she even went as far as categorizing and breaking it down in to like the darker and lighter side of it.
@@Lisaglamour I just wonder what if you use to share alot about your life because you were mentally hurt or something is there a way to reverse it or do you just have to move on and be better?
I love all your videos, this one especially so. Something I think a femme fatale would never do is whine/complain or feel sorry for herself. She would never be a push-over (people pleaser, as you said - I love that!) or put herself in a completely vulnerable position, if at all possible. She will always cherish herself and her natural beauty, enhancing it every chance she had. She would never over-react or lose her composure. I love this topic! xoxo
the problem with an ideal is that it doesn't exist.
Thank you for all these tips, honestly. I don’t have any feminine figures to look up to & i’ve been struggling with just allowing myself to be this. I tend to act boyish when i feel like people are giving me attention, because i’m afraid of the attention i get & people looking at me in a sexy way. I get scared & nervous but i know i should be confident in being the woman i am. Keep putting these videos out, i definitely need help with allowing myself to be feminine…
Why does it matter if you act boyish? You do you lol
@@jcivilis533 it doesn’t matter if i do, but i know in my case, it’s a defense mechanism to turn away attention, I’m not a very confident person but i want to be.
@@SimplyNatalieXoxo I find that being happy in your skin and loving yourself helps. Like I would look in the mirror and say I love my eyes or my lips or a hairstyle I did or my small ears. Find each thing you love and slowly the thing you didn’t even like becomes something you like. I was a tomboy so wearing skirts and dresses slowly made me confident in girly clothes. I never had an issue with my body, but I didn’t like people salivating over it. Men would gawk at me and women would ask how I looked the way I did. But I will say what has always boosted my confidence in myself was looking at myself naked in the mirror 🤭. I’d just stare in awe. Dancing in front of the mirror, posing, exercising and getting dressed in front of the mirror. I guess, get a mirror and learn to love what you see. Masterbating helps too 🫢 this helps in what you like and hopefully it can help women to vocalize what they like to their partner too
I know you said it's a defensive mechanism and nothing wrong with boyish behaviour on its own, but I believe you can definitely make that tomboy energy work for you in romantic/intimate settings. Perhaps think of it more like playful or impish? That can definitely be seductive in its own way and doesn't contradict femininity rather than just being a different flavour of it.
Like everything, it gets easier with practice! You just need to remind yourself that it's what YOU want that is important.
A queen does not concern herself with the opinions of just anybody, so you should try to summon that queen energy wherever possible. 💖
I love this message. Unabashed femininity, confidence, and positivity.
Omg yess Lisa is so fabulous ❤
Regarding overdressing... My motto is this: You can easily be underdressed, but you can NEVER be overdressed! 😉
Very true ✨
Why do I know EXACTLY the type of woman you are talking about? These are magical women.
I have complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder from severe abuse so emotional control is very hard work but I'm learning.
EMDR therapy is helping a friend of mine with PTSD. I hope you find healing.❤️
Lisa IS the ultimate femme fatale ! Beautiful, feminine, seductive and very smart ❤😍
I truly enjoyed this video! The femme fatale trope has always been of great fascination to me and I love how many different versions of her there are, like Barbara Stanwyck's role in "Double Indemnity" and Rita Hayworth's role in "Gilda."
Looking forward to your next video!
Im watching this video over and over again on my level up journey and the bit where is it Gilda says 'the young man cant afford it' made me laugh out loud. Youre helping me so much Lisa😊💝
I’m so happy to hear you’re doing meet ups/ conferences ! I’m not sure how long you’ve been doing this but please continue ! I will definitely put in the work to make the next one. Thank you beautiful! We love you
Thank you. A femme fatale will never be unfaithful to her boyfriend or husband.❤🌹🌹👏👏
This is a confirmation that I’m doing so much right and gave me some tips on what to improve on ❤🔥😇🙏🏽Thank you !
I have been looking into femme fatale feminine energy and this video has got to be one of the best in explaining the characteristics etc thank you for sharing x
I just wanted to say that
You're so inspiring and empowering also I'm glad your mentality is encouraging young women to be better versions of themselves.
Thank you for sharing. I wish nothing but the best for you.💓
Thank you lisa also for making your videos you really help me improve myself i am really thankful thank you so much you are amazing lisa sister 💛
I love your style. I definitely agree. I'm trying to make my own personal improvements and I appreciate your videos. Thank you!
I’m so happy I found your channel at the right time in my life. Needed this . Thankyou so
So much
I love the way you talk about femininity, queen!
Would never get into a physical fight. I just found you channel , I like it being an older woman , it nice to see a younger woman think this way. Keep up the good work young lady
Just ran into this page and it's so refreshing to find. Thank you.
Lisa your content is such amazing it helps a lot! I would like to ask if you can make a video about how it is to be in a relationship with a high caliber man. I think many of us haven’t been there yet and a video like this can help us to sort out and find the right man.
Thank you so much 🙏🏻
Well... Honestly speaking I just enjoyed listening to you all the way till the end...And everything that you said in this video of yours completely resonates with who I am ! ❤😊
Thank you for these videos, they're really useful and interesting!💕
Glad you used the scenes from 'The Killers', 'Gilda' and 'Casino Royale' for number one.
Number two is vital and why some people prefer to be alone. When you think about it.
Number three is never appealing AT ALL.
Number four applies to everybody.
Number five is not something to take for granted ever.
Number six and seven... I've seen this in public and online, it's petty. Not to mention how sad it is.
The 'Vampire Diaries' Katherine Pierce... I like her fashion of 1864 and that's all I'm gonna say. LOL
Once again, Lisa you did another great video!
P.S. A femme fatale would always make a man BE a man.
Wow! I just LOVE ur videos!♥️ this is definitely my fav channel on TH-cam!
I know I'm beautiful and love how I got most of them but I'm socially anxious person and I got some of them you said in the end a confident woman shouldn't be but I gain it from past experiences and I think it does make kind of unapproachable so I'm working on improving myself on those areas but I do feel good about myself after watching this , Thanku Lisa.
Love your channel! I’ve always loved this style and grew up called “too much”. I never really knew what this style was called. ❤I’m also in love with old money lifestyle 💰 not what’s trending!
Love the video💕
You are shining Lisa💕👑
Can you please put the movies where there are femme fatales to help us study them? Like who framed Roger rabbit or basic instinct
Basic instinct (Catherine),
Skins (Effy),
literally any movie about Cleopatra,
maybe Men prefer blonds (Marylins character),
Amalita (sex and the city 1×05),
Syrup ( even though its Amber Heard playing she can still be used as example),
Morticia Addams ofc (this channel has a video about her)
You can also watch some Dita von Tease interviews
I do also like Kristen Stewart performance in the beginning of Charlie's angels movie (very femme fatale behaviour)
Ornella Muti is also giving me femme fatale vibes so maybe some of her movies might be useful
Miss Sloane movie might be good, but she also gives away a lot of masculine energy
Yennefer of vengerberg from the Whitcher for sure
@@blablabarb Where? She puts links to her own videos, not movies.
@@blablabarb One of the movies is Gilda. With Rita Hayworth.
Angelina Jolie in The Tourist
@@yuliiakovalenkokv9546 thank you so much🙏🏼❤️
OMG!!! I just remembered who I was before my kid. 😯
Thank you for the reminder.
Lisa, I have learned so much from you. Thank you for all the effort you put into your work!
You made me love myself again with just one video
Amazing 🤩 thank you for boosting our confidence 🎉
Thank you for the inspiration Lisa. ❤️
I would add Dorothy Dandrige to the list, I used to watch her & Marilyn constantly! ❤
Yes a true icon ! I have a video about her 😘
@@Lisaglamour yay! I have to check it out
Thankyou for this lovely and honest review. Thankyou for being you. Lovely on the inside as well as out. 🥰💝💞❤
I think you are amazing and love your style
Love this - think what a lot of people miss is. A femme fatale is etiquette also.
One more thing that if she feels negative emotions within herself she should understand that it is normal and that she should go through them in a reasonable way only then she will find peace and be confident within herself as now she has the understanding that all this negativity is meant to serve her only
I love your videos, Lisa! ❤️ And you always look so beautiful.
Thank you so much for your videos. They are very inspiring. You’re amazing!
Such a beautiful young lady! I wish I had your confidence when I was your age! I love, love, love your videos and your confidence. I am learning that confidence is sexy!
This video is amazing! Thank you very much
A femme fatale will never… be bored!
I love this so much! Thank you for this!
I totally agree with these values.
What an amazing video, I think I found my new teacher. Also, thank so much for showing woman of color. Sometimes, we are not view as feminine.
Please do a video about the Disney princesses. I grew up with Disney and I love the movies. But, I feel like now a days the Disney princesses can be talked down on because they are so young and “all their problems get solved because a big strong man shows up.” You are great about showing the best qualities and the downsides to types of ladies. I would be interested how you would do a video about the Disney princesses.
Oh yes such a great idea I love them ❤️
I literally love you, girl!
ur gorgeous ⭐️ thank u for helping us 💓
Thank you Lisa 🙂
Thank you lovely.I love your energy.❤❤❤🌹
Thank you for the video❤️❤️❤️
I really like everything you say Lisa. It is all that I believe. Beautiful!
u suit femme fatale so welll
I like these types of videos lisa 💛 femininity is amazing 💛
I just love this!! So inspiriering!! ❤️⚘️
I LOVE THIS VIDEO! thank you for explaining this femininity concepts. i came by them before, but this is the first time i get a more detailed meanings for each.
Thank you so much ! ❤️❤️❤️
Very helpful video Lisa, loads of love to you 🙂❤️
Thank you lots of love to you too❤️
Thanks Lisa ❤
This is interesting as I haven’t been very focused on my clothes etc for a while due to cancer (fully recovered) but my husband of 26 yrs still worships me and before we married 3 other guys asked me to marry them and I didn’t sleep with any of them. I have always been quietly confident and never let myself be devalued by anyone, least of all men. Never thought about it that way, but I just thought I had boundaries, standards, good morals etc. I have a strong personality, enjoy wit and banter and intellectual discussions and reading but I have always been very feminine. I still have long hair and an hour glass figure, without really thinking too much about it. I also enjoy sex and sensuality. So I think you are right, it’s the embodiment of a female ideal rather than a masculine one. I like very masculine men though, as I like a strong partner too. My husband is very kind and sweet to me but he is very physically fit and works out a lot and is a good provider. I will have my daughters aged 22 & 19 watch this, they both have high standards but are lovely feminine girls.
Rita Hayworth and Morticia Adams is definitely my favorite 💕 and of course Marilyn Monroe too 🌹 by the by you look gorgeous. I love your tips what great advice love it.
Sublime. Just show up as one some forget lady does she she is one she just is one she does go around saying it or thinking she better she embraces what she has as art.
Wonderful, aspirational video! Advice to embrace, thank you!
Really nice ideas. Thank you! ❤
I love this content
Love this. ❤
Love it! 😍
Fantastic information, for character development. Thank you so much.
You inspire me
Thankful for your amazing energy ❤
thanks lisa . i would love a video on forgiving yourself for the woman you were before .
💕💕💕💕 love to you
Ooo I love this 😍
Love you Lisa!
Love you❤️
YAhhh Girl!! I feel it
Love this topic so much
Brilliant I wish I new all these movies every1 I wud watch
Lisa, you mentioned that a femme fatale is in control of her emotions and does not lash out in public, how would a femme fatale express her anger privately? I identify with a lot of the traits you've shared, but I wonder if I could compose myself in a more 'engaging' way?
I love your videos.
The last line "love me love me...." 🤣🤣🤣
Thank you :)
Thank you
New sub. Loving your vibe and content.
I will only date highly confident femme fatales with divine presents and powerful Aura!
Brava!!!
This is amazing
Gorgeous!
I enjoy over dressing. Great video .
Love your videos I really needed this. Im in the process to gaining the knowledge I need to become that woman. Love this!
Thank you for your channel. A man so desperately need a woman like this, they crave it. A society where women looked after this properly would be a less broken on.
Thanks
I've been a subscriber for a while and I just have to say you are so beautiful always ❤️
Thank you so much 🥹❤️
GORGEOUS DRESS!
Ma'am I need you to link where you get these dresses from lol dont just tell me! your style is to die for 😍😍
She has playlist on this!
Beautiful 😍😍😍