I'm an INFJ and my husband is an ENFP. Best match of my life. I also get along perfectly with my son, he's INTJ. It's great to find these matches, makes life smoother, not perfect, just smoother.
Thank you for this excellent video. As an ENFP whose been married 12 years to an INFJ, I found this video illuminating 💡. We've both recently taken the Myers Briggs Personality Type test and boy am I glad we did. It's explained alot about us as individuals as well as as a couple. This is so fascinating. Well done 👏👍
god plz send a cute infj for me asap n plz tell him that this enfp is planning a marraige . thankyou.. wonderful info.. high 5.. i hv tears in my eyes... 💟
I have a bestfriend since I was around 8 years old, we super clicked until now we're almost 30. I have never connected with anyone so easily on every level. she understands me in every way. Then we found out about mbti, I am an ENFP and she's an INFJ. 💙
I'm an ENFP and Im kinda having a misunderstanding start with an INFj I like. Your video actually helps me figure it out and take the right action towards it.
My INFJ friends (I am an ENFP) Juliana: The first friend I made in high school! It's super easy to talk to her and I can have deep conversations with her. Plus, she laughs at all my terrible jokes and is just a very agreeable person. Sometimes she is a bit hesitant to try new things, but compared to when I first met her, she has come out of her shell in many ways that not many people would know about. My 11th grade English teacher: She was definitely my favorite teacher. Her class was very fun and she seemed like she cared about all of her students, and in that class I could be very crazy and she would just go along with it. Cyrus: A friend I made this year. We have deep conversations with each other, I'm quite silly around him but I also respect him greatly. I always go to him for advice and I admire him a lot. Sometimes he drives me crazy because I will vent to him about my struggles and he will just say, " you can change everything that is hurting you" and that just kills me because I don't have that kind of willpower. What I have realized is that I am able to have very deep conversations with INFJs very quickly if we choose to open up with each other.
I agree that the mirror to one's type has a magnetic force to it..at least in my case too, intp with entj. The attraction has always been undeniable, opposites yet the same. And the secure feeling of someone covering the other side of things you naturally value but can't pay attention to. The ease they pull off things that are your blindspot is. Irresistible. But can also lead to explosive fights and misunderstandings if too young/immature..in my opinion a high risk high reward relationship challenging but so fucking worth. Not saying other types don't work with each other but yeah mirror types are always the OTPs imo
INFJ+ENFP = Such a nice companionship in any regard! :) Both theoretically and in my own subjective experience. Any Swedish ENFPs in the comments? ( That would be something haaa )
Are they more common in the Netherlands? I would say that finding an *ENFP* if you are an INFJ should be easier than the opposite, because statistically the amount of ENFP's is much higher than the amount of INFJ's, so the INFJ's are in the advantage there (they can pick from multiple enfp's , theoretically if the statistics are true) ....ENFP according to statistics is the most common intuitive type
Thank you for sharing this video Erik. I am an INFJ with ENFP partner. We often misunderstand each other messages and we're still working out hope getting better. Hope more videos from you.
28 years old and have never met any ENFP who fits me at all.... I was extremely fond of my aunt when I was a Kid, I wanted to be like her when I grew up but I find myself having difficulties communicating with people with Fi-function and I'm always running after people with Ti. I feel more comfortable, calm and expressive around Ti.
This was so beautiful ! ❤ Thank you so much for the amazing and wise advice Erik ! (from another infj who's confused about the chances of this pairing :p your words were extremely helpful)
Hi Nina, I’m an ENFP that’s got no INFJ’s on my life so I’ve been trying to find them on the internet haha If you want to talk please send me a message Email: oppasuo@gmail.com Discord Aaron Armani#3673
What about INFJ and INFP? INFJs have, for some reason, always fascinated me, and I felt I could draw a lot of similarities between the two of us. Except that maybe Is it because how we share the IN function?
Rohan Rahinwal I think this causes too much miscommunication because of both not sharing enough of thoughts. Where enfp is blasting honesty 24/7 bluntly and results in clearer understanding, by cleverly observing infj. if infp or enfp is more introverted infj might have a problem grasping the REAL intentions because they process things inside and quietly- might judge and assume completely wrong ideas about the introverted partner. It is easier for infj to read pure blunt clear messages and gives them security and decisive on point perception of situations.
6:00 Could this point (happiness vs. success) appropriately be summarized as not having a substantial difference in trait conscientiousness (as in the big five)?
I agree. Even when I watch Infj like you or FJ on YT the videos are so close, and with It’s like a mirror. :) I’d say an admirable mirror. hehe With my roommate who is infj we have more of the polar opposite perceptions, still really good communication and easy going vibe. Great point between happiness and success as the life priorities.. and needs.
Can you tell me if you think ENTJ is the best match for INTP romantically? I heard someone say this was the best on another channel and have heard a lot of different stuff about this topic. I am just curious what you might have to say about who might be the best partner for INTP. I have heard INTP, ENTP and INTJ are also good but I personally am not sure. I am still learning about it and meeting different types.
Definately ENFJ! I'm an INTP speaking from experience (as well as theory) I think and INFJ as a second best option. Types who tend to be more on the opposite side work best, but the S/N difference is often too big of an issue to overcome for types who want mental stimulation like INTP's, hence the ESFJ is not a good choice for the INTP. Similar types (another INTP or maybe INTJ's) seem easy in the fist instance, especially for our type (INTP's) who might not feel socially at ease so easily with extroverts, but the thing is that more similar types do not add any value or strength to you as a couple. The problem is that some types, especially introverted thinkers, tend to 'think' too easily they need another person who is similar to them, but nothing is further from the truth. The types who have opposite functions (so Fe dominant for INTP's) are the ones who value and crave INTP's Ti like no other. Similarly INTP's have a deeper Fe core (Fe - INTP's 4th function) that likes to be stimulated. However, in most circumstances this is not a side that will show much on any types (their 4th function). They need another person who has that function as a dominant function, in order to active that 4th function in them. It makes them a more well balanced person if they operate within that couple. ENFJ's add the warmth INTP's do have, but feel too detached from. ENFJ's are very caring and warm people who love the advice from the logical INTP. Do not let the initial 'confidence' of types like ENFJ scare you, because like most extroverts them seem confident in social settings, but they are actually not that confident or 'scary'as they may seem for introverts who might be more on the shy side (especially when younger or less experienced). Just as it takes a bit of time for INTP's to relax and become more social around other people, it similarly (but oppositely) takes a bit of time for extroverted types to showcase their deeper side. That is the thing most introverts seem to forget. Showcasing their true inner side is harder for the extrovert than the introvert generally. Some other types like ENTJ do not work well with INTP because INTP's and ENTJ's have opposing first functions. This means that the dominant function the ENTJ uses (Te) is usually something that the Ti dominant INTP feels opposed to. Te is a much more shallow thinking function than TI, and even Ti in a type that has lower Ti makes both types understand eachother better than Te and Ti, while on the first instance they may look more similar becaue they're both thinking functions. Both either having Ti/Fe *or* Te/Fi is very important for compatability. Anyway, a very long ramble of me , but I just think many INTP's would be so much happier if they found someone that actually complemented them and made them feel valued for the robotic-logic-machines-with-secret-warmth we are..
Acredito que ENTJ seja a melhor opção para INTP. Vocês compartilham a função NT e considero isso primordial entre um casal. São intuitivos e pensadores lógicos. Alem disso, no MBTI vocês são espelhos um do outro, assim como o INFJ é espelho do ENFP ou INTJ é espelho do ENTP. Há bastante magnetismo/atração entre esses tipos. Acredito que uma pessoa com funções totalmente opostas as suas, deva ser insuportável de se conviver por muito tempo. Isso porque vocês não tem nada em comum. Considero ESFJ e ENFJ uma combinação nada boa para relacionamento com INTP. No máximo, ainda dá para ser bom colega do ENFJ.
I've recently met a guy who is an infj and I'm an enfp.
I've never in my life got along with someone so quickly.
Enjoy!
That’s great
I'm an INFJ and my husband is an ENFP. Best match of my life. I also get along perfectly with my son, he's INTJ. It's great to find these matches, makes life smoother, not perfect, just smoother.
I am an enfp with an infj. We have had all the struggles as well as benefits of this type of relationship. He is my best friend, lover, soulmate.
Lover… that sounds so nice when I imagine her calling me that
What proffesions do each of you have in order to keep harmony in place in your relationship?
Thank you for this excellent video. As an ENFP whose been married 12 years to an INFJ, I found this video illuminating 💡. We've both recently taken the Myers Briggs Personality Type test and boy am I glad we did. It's explained alot about us as individuals as well as as a couple. This is so fascinating. Well done 👏👍
So crazy I just recently met an infj and I’m an enfp and within two hours we’re literally open books.
Awww I’m an INFJ and I’m pretty sure my best friend is an ENFP and we have such a close friendship! I love this :D
god plz send a cute infj for me asap n plz tell him that this enfp is planning a marraige . thankyou..
wonderful info.. high 5.. i hv tears in my eyes... 💟
Ananya Chattopadhyay girl I second, the crying😪
Where you at GURLLLL!
I'm a male infj
If the person I've typed is correctly INFJ, they too have reminded me of my true self... much love for that boy, always
INFJ here who hopes to have an ENFP friend someday
AYO I’m an ENFP looking for INFJ friends!
Come talk to me
Email: oppasuo@gmail.com
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I have a bestfriend since I was around 8 years old, we super clicked until now we're almost 30. I have never connected with anyone so easily on every level. she understands me in every way. Then we found out about mbti, I am an ENFP and she's an INFJ. 💙
The accuracy of everything you said wow the best video i saw today. thank you.
I'm an ENFP and Im kinda having a misunderstanding start with an INFj I like. Your video actually helps me figure it out and take the right action towards it.
My INFJ friends (I am an ENFP)
Juliana: The first friend I made in high school! It's super easy to talk to her and I can have deep conversations with her. Plus, she laughs at all my terrible jokes and is just a very agreeable person. Sometimes she is a bit hesitant to try new things, but compared to when I first met her, she has come out of her shell in many ways that not many people would know about.
My 11th grade English teacher: She was definitely my favorite teacher. Her class was very fun and she seemed like she cared about all of her students, and in that class I could be very crazy and she would just go along with it.
Cyrus: A friend I made this year. We have deep conversations with each other, I'm quite silly around him but I also respect him greatly. I always go to him for advice and I admire him a lot. Sometimes he drives me crazy because I will vent to him about my struggles and he will just say, " you can change everything that is hurting you" and that just kills me because I don't have that kind of willpower.
What I have realized is that I am able to have very deep conversations with INFJs very quickly if we choose to open up with each other.
As an infj this was so heart warming to read ❤
I agree that the mirror to one's type has a magnetic force to it..at least in my case too, intp with entj. The attraction has always been undeniable, opposites yet the same. And the secure feeling of someone covering the other side of things you naturally value but can't pay attention to. The ease they pull off things that are your blindspot is. Irresistible. But can also lead to explosive fights and misunderstandings if too young/immature..in my opinion a high risk high reward relationship challenging but so fucking worth. Not saying other types don't work with each other but yeah mirror types are always the OTPs imo
Yeah, I agree with that, high risk, high reward.
INFJ+ENFP = Such a nice companionship in any regard! :)
Both theoretically and in my own subjective experience.
Any Swedish ENFPs in the comments? ( That would be something haaa )
ENFPs are uncommon in Sweden afaik but have met many esfps and entps
Are they more common in the Netherlands? I would say that finding an *ENFP* if you are an INFJ should be easier than the opposite, because statistically the amount of ENFP's is much higher than the amount of INFJ's, so the INFJ's are in the advantage there (they can pick from multiple enfp's , theoretically if the statistics are true) ....ENFP according to statistics is the most common intuitive type
me!!!
@@ErikThor Yeah totally relate to that! Not too many ENFPs in my life over time! :D
@@PowerRedBullTypology Yeah that makes sense. You ENTP? ^^
Thank you for sharing this video Erik. I am an INFJ with ENFP partner. We often misunderstand each other messages and we're still working out hope getting better. Hope more videos from you.
11.111 subscribers. Nice. :D
yay! growing so fast! :)
Love these concepts. Thank you for sharing.
Can you make a video on ENFP and INFP relationship. Cause I am an INFP and have a crush on ENFP
I love how you think!
28 years old and have never met any ENFP who fits me at all.... I was extremely fond of my aunt when I was a Kid, I wanted to be like her when I grew up but I find myself having difficulties communicating with people with Fi-function and I'm always running after people with Ti. I feel more comfortable, calm and expressive around Ti.
This was so beautiful ! ❤ Thank you so much for the amazing and wise advice Erik ! (from another infj who's confused about the chances of this pairing :p your words were extremely helpful)
Hi Nina, I’m an ENFP that’s got no INFJ’s on my life so I’ve been trying to find them on the internet haha
If you want to talk please send me a message
Email: oppasuo@gmail.com
Discord Aaron Armani#3673
This was very insightful. I am an ENFP dating an INTJ.
What about INFJ and INFP? INFJs have, for some reason, always fascinated me, and I felt I could draw a lot of similarities between the two of us. Except that maybe Is it because how we share the IN function?
My ex is a INFJ (Im an INFP). When it was good it was very good but when it was bad it was awful....
Rohan Rahinwal I think this causes too much miscommunication because of both not sharing enough of thoughts. Where enfp is blasting honesty 24/7 bluntly and results in clearer understanding, by cleverly observing infj.
if infp or enfp is more introverted infj might have a problem grasping the REAL intentions because they process things inside and quietly- might judge and assume completely wrong ideas about the introverted partner.
It is easier for infj to read pure blunt clear messages and gives them security and decisive on point perception of situations.
@@thisispi1491 Sim. Exatamente isso!
6:00 Could this point (happiness vs. success) appropriately be summarized as not having a substantial difference in trait conscientiousness (as in the big five)?
I agree. Even when I watch Infj like you or FJ on YT the videos are so close, and with It’s like a mirror. :) I’d say an admirable mirror. hehe
With my roommate who is infj we have more of the polar opposite perceptions, still really good communication and easy going vibe.
Great point between happiness and success as the life priorities.. and needs.
What do you think of the isfj and infp relationship??
Works great if you're a more stability or loyalty oriented INFP and if one or both of you are more outgoing and can activate each other :)
Acredito que um ENFJ cái melhor para um INFP. Vejo o relacionamento INFP e ISFJ como sendo bem monótono.
I am an enfp and I feel like my infj best friend was a non romantic soulmate. She was an infj so this is interesting.
Missy Lee I’m an ENFP and I feel the exact same with my INFJ best friend. ❤️
I find extroverts scary... i dont know why!
Mormegil we scare ourselves mate 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Aww...@@meg-d3024
@@sherbetlemons That would make you an INFP like me: poor you lol
Nah dude the socionics INFJ is an MBTI INFP. The 'mirror' in socionics is used to describe the Exxx to Ixxx relation.
No he's talking about the Socionics INFp which is the MBTI INFJ
In Socionics, INFp & ENFp are contrary relations, right?
INFp and ENFj are mirrors.
Can you tell me if you think ENTJ is the best match for INTP romantically? I heard someone say this was the best on another channel and have heard a lot of different stuff about this topic. I am just curious what you might have to say about who might be the best partner for INTP. I have heard INTP, ENTP and INTJ are also good but I personally am not sure. I am still learning about it and meeting different types.
Definately ENFJ! I'm an INTP speaking from experience (as well as theory) I think and INFJ as a second best option. Types who tend to be more on the opposite side work best, but the S/N difference is often too big of an issue to overcome for types who want mental stimulation like INTP's, hence the ESFJ is not a good choice for the INTP. Similar types (another INTP or maybe INTJ's) seem easy in the fist instance, especially for our type (INTP's) who might not feel socially at ease so easily with extroverts, but the thing is that more similar types do not add any value or strength to you as a couple. The problem is that some types, especially introverted thinkers, tend to 'think' too easily they need another person who is similar to them, but nothing is further from the truth. The types who have opposite functions (so Fe dominant for INTP's) are the ones who value and crave INTP's Ti like no other. Similarly INTP's have a deeper Fe core (Fe - INTP's 4th function) that likes to be stimulated. However, in most circumstances this is not a side that will show much on any types (their 4th function). They need another person who has that function as a dominant function, in order to active that 4th function in them. It makes them a more well balanced person if they operate within that couple. ENFJ's add the warmth INTP's do have, but feel too detached from. ENFJ's are very caring and warm people who love the advice from the logical INTP. Do not let the initial 'confidence' of types like ENFJ scare you, because like most extroverts them seem confident in social settings, but they are actually not that confident or 'scary'as they may seem for introverts who might be more on the shy side (especially when younger or less experienced). Just as it takes a bit of time for INTP's to relax and become more social around other people, it similarly (but oppositely) takes a bit of time for extroverted types to showcase their deeper side. That is the thing most introverts seem to forget. Showcasing their true inner side is harder for the extrovert than the introvert generally.
Some other types like ENTJ do not work well with INTP because INTP's and ENTJ's have opposing first functions. This means that the dominant function the ENTJ uses (Te) is usually something that the Ti dominant INTP feels opposed to. Te is a much more shallow thinking function than TI, and even Ti in a type that has lower Ti makes both types understand eachother better than Te and Ti, while on the first instance they may look more similar becaue they're both thinking functions. Both either having Ti/Fe *or* Te/Fi is very important for compatability. Anyway, a very long ramble of me , but I just think many INTP's would be so much happier if they found someone that actually complemented them and made them feel valued for the robotic-logic-machines-with-secret-warmth we are..
ENTJs are awfully scary (Im an INFP)
@@PowerRedBullTypology Very insightful. What do you think is/ would be an INFJ's best match, partner/mate-wise??
Acredito que ENTJ seja a melhor opção para INTP.
Vocês compartilham a função NT e considero isso primordial entre um casal. São intuitivos e pensadores lógicos.
Alem disso, no MBTI vocês são espelhos um do outro, assim como o INFJ é espelho do ENFP ou INTJ é espelho do ENTP.
Há bastante magnetismo/atração entre esses tipos.
Acredito que uma pessoa com funções totalmente opostas as suas, deva ser insuportável de se conviver por muito tempo. Isso porque vocês não tem nada em comum.
Considero ESFJ e ENFJ uma combinação nada boa para relacionamento com INTP.
No máximo, ainda dá para ser bom colega do ENFJ.
I’m INFJ, you can keep my ENFP.
I m an enfp-t ...emmm ok bye