@@vishnujaiswal5846 2. Maid rkhna zaruri nhi hota h. Meri mummy job bhi krti h aur ghar k AtoZ saarey kaam bhi 3. Govt. Schools hotey hain. Prvt school he bhejna zaruri nhi hota h
Somehow 1st and 2nd point still are affordable. But the 3rd option - it has gone up by leaps and bounds, and there is no control on it by the government.
@@vishnujaiswal5846 aapki baat sahi h Lekin Aisa jyadatar villages k schools me hota hoga shayad AAP toh city me rhte hongey - aur city k govt schools bohot achhe hotey hain... Kam se Kam meri city- Udaipur k schools toh bohot he achhe hain
Meri samajh se school kuch bhi nahi sikhate aur sikha bhi nahi sakte agar bacche ne samajhna na ho... Isliye mere bache ghar ke pass wale saste school mein padhte hai. Jigyasa hogi to sikhega nahi to samay sikha hi dega.
Bhai shahab, school education mein bas padhai hi nahi hai. School jake baccha puri duniyadari sikhne lagta hai. Apne ko public ke saamne kaise conduct karna hai etc etc.
It’s not just about education at school. It is the kind of friends that kids will make. It is the cohort group that they will be a part of. Unfortunately nothing is as simple as black and white. There are 50 shades of gray in between.
Duniyadari Ghar ke bahar koi bhi system mein Jane se mil jati hai. Ghar ka kaam sikhna aur independent Banna zyada zaroori hai aur yeh bhi samajhna ki no one is working for you but you need to contribute in a group to be a part of group.
I am a homemaker for the time being because we can't afford baby sitter for our toddler. I do almost do all household chores myself. Get vegetables and groceries from local vendors. We don't have AC or anything fancy at home. We use minimal furniture. The school I have opted for my child is also among the affordable. The cost of living is so high nowadays it's difficult to survive without any compromise.
सर जी,आपने सभी ३ बाते सही कही है. और इनका उपाय भी है. बच्चे घर में ही पढाई करे.. घर में हर व्यक्ती अपना काम आप करे.टीव्ही सिर्फ १घंटा और डीडी चनेलही देखे.सिंपल रहे.आजकल सोसायटी को चैनबाजी की आदत हो गयी है..
Sirji, mera solution simple hai. Ghar ke sab logo ne kaam karna hai, 8 saal ke bache se lekar budhe tak. Bache ko ghar ke pass wale saadharan school mein dala hai, saal ke 25-30 hazaar. No buying 4 wheeler because it is WHITE Elephant or Liability, so using Ola uber or public transport. Yeh sab karke hi ghar kharid paya hun, taki usse pension ka kaam nikal jaye aur budhape mein tension kum ho.😂
aap duniya se vilupth ho rahe lupthpray prajaatiyon mein aate hai.. you cannot control family members society n media controls them. your solution can only be possible if you live in an area where your maid is living.
Excellent prediction. Yes its true i am working woman and so many years dependent on maid paying Rs.18000 per month. Now i tried without maid, initially it was a hell and frustrating but now i have adjusted its difficult but possible. the advantage is I sleep peacefully due to hardwork and lost weight.😅
In Noida I fired my maid and automated household work as much as possible... Electronic mopper for mopping ...air purifier so less dust....dishwasher....food processor....etc etc Much much better than keeping maid.
@@shivathealmighty most full time maid takes like that...even more than that in metros.... I have a full time caretaker in Kolkata ...She stays in our house and does everything from cooking to cleaning and washing clothes ...She takes exactly 18k per month ...
@@gaurab197 Hey man I live in Mumbai Andheri... Maids here ask for 6000 for cooking and cleaning... 15000 is asked by those who take care of babies... 18000 is an over statement..
चाय और खाने के बर्तन का example आप सही दे रहे हैं मै तो अपने आसपास पुरुषों के नखरे ज्यादा देख रही हूँ, नौकरी करने वाली पत्नी को तंग करके उसे घर बैठने पर मजबूर कर रहे हैं, कुछ नोकरी छोड़ चुकी है और कुछ ताने सुनकर भी लगी हुई है पर हरपल बीमार और दुखी रहने लगी है
I am NRI managing all household without domestic help and also complete phd after baby born. Sango sir is correct its possible to manage home with the help of husband and kid. Dish washer is better than domastic helper we dont need to depend on someone else.
Maid affordability and "nakhre" are increasing already and would be a privilege of the rich soon. Education and car are slowly becoming unaffordable. These trends need to be planned to tackle for in advance, as they have already played out in the West. Excellent points highlighted.
Sir ji recently subscribed, I'm shocked by your observation and analysis. You are correct I live in Bangalore this has started. 1) For baby sitting baby sitters are now charging approx. 20K per month for 8 hours. (and 4 hours she sleeps with child 🙂). 2) House Cleaning alternate days (3k per month) 3) Schools are 1.5 lakh average annually per kid. 4) House rents 10-15% increase per annum. 5) New flats close to office location double every 3 years (I think this will not continue at same pace, but still will be 10-20% per annum.) 6) Car services expensive in Bangalore than any other city.
Pvt school and maid is already showing. Solution:- KV & washing machine,Non iron clothes or self ironing, Dishwasher+robo vaccum cleaner+both couple+little grown up children cooking+low end affordable second hand car & two wheeler for shorter distance+Indian tourism travel+ Not comparing with peers. Spending less on marriage .
Aap akdum sahi ...maine apne bachcho ko sikhaya ..hai apne bartan , undergarments ,socks And rumaal khud wash kero . Mere gher me full time servent hai .usper bhee Mai aur bachche sab kaam kerte even gardening ...children should know their roots .
This is quite right sir ji. I remember myself growing up going to a government aided school. Private Schools like Modern school, DPS, Springdales, Bal Bharti , Cambridge - we could only look at with envy. Buying my first motorcycle a Hero Honda Passion, and this is not so long ago - in 2002 - was a big thing. A big big achievement. I even remember taking driving classes and thinking this is the closest I will ever get to driving a car. Car ownership was that far away from our .minds. Maid was unknown in our house growing up. Last 20 years all three did come within grasp. But you have correctly highlighted that things are likely to go back to how things were during my growing up years.
Sir you are absolutely right. But there is another aspect too. Most women hardly have any marketable skills. I am recently retired but my mother was working too. She unfortunately left her job due to my dad's frequent transfers. But she stitched our clothes and knitted our sweaters. Moreover she gave tuitions also. How many girls today possess some skills ?
It's up to the girls or the women! If they want to earn then they have to learn skills on their own. I mean now a days most of the things are available over TH-cam and all. even knitting, cooking , cleaning, almost everything.Nothing comes into our life easily. Basically girls/women have to learn to value money. Once they learn skills and starts earning then only they would value money. Kyu ki husband ka pesa kharch ne me maje hein but when you earn 100 hundred rupees yourself then you would spend it wisely.
Since 1995 I spent a lot of time abroad and this was the condition in Singapore at that time .Very hard life people were spending and I used to think that we Indians are living life so lavish.Real eye-opening session.But we Indians wont learn.
Sango to bad feel.karva rh h M bh sare Kam khud hi krti hu Bt mre husband 4 bhk le rh bol rhe maid rkhenge ab Bht kaam ho jyga sab manage ni ho pyga akele Vo to kuch ni kr skte
@@mannbhatia सफाई एक दिन पूरी गहनता से अगले दिन जहां ज्यादा गीला और गंदा होता है वहां तो रोजाना ही फटाफट ऐसे ही कपड़े एक दिन कम अगले दिन ज्यादा ठीक खाने का हिसाब किताब भी अंदर बदलकर किसी दिन छप्पन भोग तो किसी दिन दाल रोटी चावल उसी हिसाब से बर्तन भी उतने ही गंदे होंगे , तो रोज रोज सारे काम भारी भरकम नहीं होंगे
Bai ka option : Dishwasher(cost< 30k), eureka robot jhadu pocha ke liye Car ka option: used car, ola, metro, ebike School ka option: subsidized schools, e bike, e car, pta to fight over charging Wife can work part time only or from home
Thank god! I myself learned to clean, cook, make bed and wash clothes/utensils. I don't find the need to marry a woman just because of her ability to maintain a house
Half way into the video, I am liking the way you are straight to the point. Sir I am a Financial Advisor, I get horrified when I am with the Clients. The way they are Financial illiterate. Ho jayega is the attitude.
Schools already think like parents money is coming from some tree... today only we got a notice from school that child has to carry 5 sharpened pencils and no sharpener allowed can you believe it😮😮 Also i started watching and came across one of the videos " Why middle class is getting poorer" and i felt all the points logical then i saw few other videos also which you told not to share with someone... Videos are not like others English style i admire a lot🎉🎉
Sir, you are 100% correct and if you extend your logic a little further after 10 years it will be wise not to get married and have children at all. That day is not far off. 😄
Why 10 years wait...I can feel the same now ..everywhere it is shown, marketed that there is so much of a headache to get married, have kids, etc... everything everywhere is linked with money...what kind of society will be in future where man has to live all by his self as he will not be able to afford anything...only rich will get married
@@darshikatailor not getting married is not going to workout as Western civilization already suffering from it and there are dire consequences of being lonely, depression and what not...u need a companionship... Children part i agree upon .. partially..
Honestly sir, coincidentally I am working from home today, living in Gurgaon, kids gone to school wife gone to work and I am washing dishes at this moment and I can feel the future. But since I am already your followers tou life mein maza aa raha hai… no problem at all.😊
Golden words. Middle class women need to work home and outside situation same in Mumbai maid are charging salary 15000 plus. Even that they find less. . They back answer they come at their sweet time. Etc but if we go to office even 5 mins late we are marked late. No rise in salary inpsite of education or availability of jobs like 4 hrs. Government needs to give us jobs like 4 hrs where we give our work the best and leave for managing homes.. Whole system doesn't allow such jobs. Life in abroad is more off shove it in oven kind of food not like india where we cook.. We women need jobs for few hrs. Quality over quantity. Maid issue car issue school all perfect as u said
Young women these days will always speak untruth...I also live in Mumbai.. I pay Rs 6000/- for cleaning, cooking.. No maid asks for 15000/- unless she is taking care of your baby...
I am 45, moved to west 13 years ago. You are telling the Indians- what is already happening in the west. It’s a BIG mindset change. (I am upper middle class in income here- I drive a 2007 Honda, I do my own dishes & home cleaning,I can’t afford a maid, my kids go to public school- can’t afford private schools Alert: Divorce rates will increase as well, like the west (I heard- they have already increased in the last 10-15 years)
I agree brother. Upper class Indians don't know the luxuries they have compared to us in the West/ I am a female based in Canada now and am training in a Canadian university to become a school teacher. We are lucky that public education here is decent and free but cost of living is too high and so are home prices. My family and I already coordinate household chores as maids here take $200 CAD here just to clean house mediocrely once a month. We have a 2015 Toyota but my siblings share with our parents and take public transportation when it is feasible. Long gone are the days of expensive luxuries.
what to first to avoid these problems 1. remove maid start doing work at home what is possible both husban and wife second start 2. start saving a little bit more in a separate area for car maintaince and insurance 3. donot jot give sufficient pocket money to kids to have unneccarsy junk foods which vl help to some extent for their tution fee avoid going malls frequently and avoid bad habots of spending money on not much needed items
Zabardastttttttttt Mazzzzzza Aa Gaya, Amit Ji! 🧨🔥🧨 Please make a Video Series for such Upcoming Top 3 trends for Middle Class across different instances of life 💫♥️💫 Key Takeaways: - By 2026, Car Prices & Maintenance ⬆️ - Maid Salaries ⬆️ - School Fees will also sky rocket in coming 3 years 🚀
Mr sangwan firstly I would like to once again thank you for this wonderful & thought provoking video, I tried sending this video to my wife & my mother-in-law but their system refused to even acknowledge that such type of content even exists.
@02:35 this is not a fair comment at all. I don't know which middle class housewives you are talking about who think cleaning house is not work that they are supposed to do. Maybe they want some space and time to themselves and not physically exhaust themselves to point of I'll health by the end of the day. No male is going to contribute to home beyond some symbolic stuff. Please also talk about the other stuff they do do every day (mostly single handedly) which family members don't appreciate and many times actively criticise (house is not clean, my pants are not pressed properly, sabzi mein meri mummy aur sister jaisi mere hometown wali baat nahi hai). Here is a off the cuff list of what middle class housewives do every day (almost entirely without even acknowledgement as if these activities don't add any value): Send kids to school with homemade packed lunch. Sometimes one snack tiffin and 1 lunch box. Make sure they have school supplies. Clothes washing (off course in washing machine). Folding and some ironing. Cleaning, organising and dusting the home. Deep cleaning - few times a year. Cooking - all of it. All groceries and marketing including for fresh produce Managing workers who do small time maintenance in the home Paying attention to kids school work and home work when they return Taking the little ones to activity classes and groups and arranging the same for them and Ensuring older kids are enrolled in some sports or other hobbies Yeh sab kuchh appko Kam lag raha hai kyaa? And I detect a strong streak of disdain and disgust at the fact that middle class housewives want help for sweeping, mopping and vessel washing. That is judging I think. I used to work for 23 years. I have huuuuuge respect for my friends and batchmates who exclusively handle and manage their homes. My humble and constant salute ladies.....don't be afraid to ask for help, insist on it and if u want to give away 3-4 jobs to focus on health and interests - please go ahead. Go for good gadgets and electronics that can help us and reduce your dependence on maids - no. 1 purchase - automatic washing machine and a good dishwasher.
Aapki baat mai truth hai ..ladies ka role kafi bada hai .... they have to be strong in india to takle so much responsibility...or husband have to help her ..motivate her...
Sir is absolutely correct.. I am a working women and have a kid and Taking care of my house husband and kid alone.. Please all the ladies out listen to sir and start work to support family and invest your money for yout kid future...
Schools के लिए काम किया जा सकता है dr devender balhara ये कर रहे हैं, उनका कहना है कि अगर सब parents मिल कर सरकारी स्कूल में अच्छी facilities and educationकी मांग कर दे तो सरकार को आपके आसपास के सरकारी स्कूल में सब arrangementsकरने पडेगे और educationभी ऐसी हो जाएगी कि students 12th तक आते आते career भी बना लेगा
New car/suv prices have gone drastically up. So as school fees, Hatchbatch car costs 11 lakhs now a days which was unimaginable 3 years ago. Even cabs are very expensive
Respected Sir, Hamne aaj tak koi bhi servant or maid ghar yan office me nhi rakhi. Morning apni car khud saaf karta hun aur office me apna office aap saaf karta hun. Is'se sehat bhi theek rehti hai aur kisi ke uper depended nhi hona padta.
I contradict you: 40 yrs before clerk grade salary was 300 INR today average clerk grade salary is 30,000 What you predict 10% expenses then clerk grade salary would pro rata basis increase. Indian life style would go as it is rather it would improve. Think positive. Booming economy would correlate to all in general
Very True Sir! Well said. As a working lady I felt all the issues especially maid one, so to overcome during covid and post covid me and my husband are taking responsibility together of household chores. The money we saved on maids during these time helped us to afford dishwasher and automatic washing machine. Now we don’t need any maid.
@@ranjuhappyparyushanparvaan3287 labh Gurgaon mein admission try karo sab samajh aa jayega , delhi I pay ₹5000/- pm for my child in a very prestigious convent school 🏫 which is impossible in gurgaon .
Who says delhi private schools are economical.....we live in dwarka and any private school in dwarka have same fee structure...I have two daughters I pay 70,000 every quarter if you don't believe go an check ....only bal bharti dwarka has reasonable fee but waha seat kaha milti hai .....
you are indeed right about western world in general and America in particular where housemaids are unheard of. I was born in India but have been here in America for majority of my life - came here as teenager ad have been here since almost half a century. Eduated, made career and raised family here all without hired help. Yes, we do not have custom of having housemaid here, but I will tell you - we love that just fine. For one thing, we have high standards of cleanliness and hygine, so it is best that we do household work ourselves to our satisfaction. Also, we are rather independent people and prefer not to have outsiders intrude in our day to day life. Afterall, maid would be an outside party who would be in and out of your home few times a day - too much unnecessary and unwanted traffic for us. We prefer our privacy over minor benefit of someone doing our chores. In fact we are about to retire and even if we decide to spend some months in India (Airbnb, etc), we will just do our own dishes, laundry and house cleaning. We are just too used to it. We totally love not having to depend on outside help for day to day house work.
What abt elderly people who are your members of yr family. Because of independence once u become independent u shift to a seperate accomo. And with age ones mind physical strength dominish and with related diseases how an oldi can survive? Perhaps the answer lies in OLDAGE HOMES? Those who hvno one close enough are destined to go there but what abt others?
Itni tangdili bhi kis kaam ki Harsh, ki woh tumhe chichora bana de... Kya tum Mohammed ko personally jaante ho? India ke alawa kitne mulko main ghoome ho tum...?
@@nareshagarwal5605 mujhe lagta hai urban/educated Pakistanis frustrated hai apnehi logose...unko India me shamil hona accha option lagta hai...kyoki youtube se unko pata chal gaya ki India me log bahot age nikal gaye😄😜😀🤩😂😆🤣
We are living in mumbai..and its very difficult to survive in mumbai with one earning.. fortunately we both are working and we wonder how do people enjoying their life in mumbai with single earing.. my husband and i are in public sector.. i feel jealous when i see housewives in our staff colony enjoying at homemm they have house help (i also have) and full day free.. i feel bad when i leave my kid at creche and go to work and they are going for morning walk .but at the end of day i feel proud of myself that i am taking care of my family...i am going to buy my own flat in mumbai..i have bought a car for my father.. and i am taking care of all expenses of my baby.. not every girl is lucky enough. I always thank my parents that they always push me to do a job..even unka stand tha..jab tak betiyan job nahi krengi unki shadi nahi krenge
Great, I feel every word that you said! Fortunately, my parents were also the same 😊 And i am also a proud bread earner for my family. A woman living with luxury using her own earned money and also contributing to household expenses and children. Nothing is fancier than that.
This is not great. Because this time job is compulsory for every person male or female doesn't matter. Also need change law where only male responsible for parents, wife and children liabilities. Thanx.
Very true sir The maid salary has increased in the last 10 years from 1000 to 6000 in the last 10 years how ever my salary has just increased by 3 times and my wife’s salary has not even doubled So I feel maid issue the biggest followed by school fees and car
It depends on the City and Location. So maids would still be affordable in those non central areas for many years, because of poverty and population. More schools will spring up when the cost of education goes up to take advantage of the boom. Quality will be a concern.
I struggled for buying a car for over 2 years. Last me Jake parents se hi mangni padi. Buying a car has definitely become the most difficult in last 4 years.
Bohut badhiya knowledge share Kiya hai sir ji. Hamare ghar me mai aur meri wife dono kaam karte hain. Dono hi bacchon ka care karte hain. Bacchon ko wife padhati bhi hai kyunki wo ek government teacher hai. Ghar ke kharch, investment, insurance ka kharch mai uthata hu. Wife ke poore paise investment me lagta hai. Maid ke naam pe ek babysitter hai jo 4 hours rehti hai.
सुँदर। हमारा बड़ा बेटा आपके सुझावों (जो कुछ मेरे भी हैं) पर बिलकुल चल रहा है। मैंने २०१८-१९ में १ गाड़ी change करने को कहा, बड़े बेटे ने नहीं बदली, Corona आ गया तब बेटे की समझ अच्छी लगी। अभी तक भी नहीं बदली, सामर्थ्य होते हुए भी।उसकी House Wife income & घर के काम से पूर्ण स्थिति को maintain कर रहे हैं। मैंने भी, ये स्थितियाँ समझकर ७२+ में retirement के बाद खेती, चंडीगढ़ से ग्रेटर नोएडा में स्वयं करवानी शुरू कर दी। संघर्षमय जीवन आगे है। राम नारायण यादव 👍👍
Thanks for making this kind of content video. Seriously all the 3 things you had mentioned it's increasing day by day. 1. Maid affordability. 2. Maintenance of car 3. School fees I think people will adjust with point 3. But it's difficult for point 1 and 2.
Covid taught us to do without maids ,post covid my family has continued to help with the household chores, now we have one maid instead of two ,you're absolutely right
Sir, you are very right. We are at the threshold of a lot of changes. Both men and women will have to abandon their conservative "gender" based roles. Father's will have to take a break from career to bring up kids. As Private schools become unaffordable, govt schools will have to up their game in terms of quality of education, faculty and campuses. More options for flexible work and hourly based income will come into existence. Keep Inspiring sir❤❤
This is an extreme scenario and will likely never happen because men are the primary source of income in any family and they will never take a break from career to bring up kids. In fact if somehow this situation plays out, men will never have kids or they will never marry.
@@prasunkumar1434 som of the men won't give up career who are the sole bread winner in the family but others i Where both are working, some good rational men would share the household chores and family life will be peaceful.
Sir you have forgotten to include the fourth thing "housing". Land prices are sky rocketing. No middle class will be able to buy land and construct house.
Sir, agree with you. Please also make a video as to how maids can support their families if they lose their jobs when all start doing their own household chores .
Homemaker n art of homemaking are getting extinct. You depend on maids n tuition teachers n nanny to run house. To pay them, get up at 5 n get bfast n tiffins n kids n urself ready n do 10 more things before u actually start paid work.. finish paying job n return to your peaceful abode n before u sit down for a cup of tea.. catch up with kids, cook, mom in law n their complaints. Meanwhile what’s spring cleaning n deep kitchen Maintainence n wardrobe upkeep.. Sunday is for drinks n party n dinners n shopping n collecting more toys n clutter. Work harder outside to pay Someone to work at ur home n teach ur kids. Then u need more clothes n makeup n parlour visits too. We create our own problems n keep busy to cope with them. N don’t talk about small entrepreneurs.. just so much mediocrity.. no professional approach. Not easy to handle all aspects of doing small business. U need funding n manpower n space. Otherwise ur business is all over the living space of family.
From many years we are doing all work of home, incuding male 2. Govt. schools will solve the problem. Best real merited teachers will be appointed 3,) Electric cars will solve problem.I know all problems of E V 's .
Really interested to know what is the definition of middle class and upper middle class? Is this the income level you are referring to or lifestyle or any other criteria?
Hello sir, I am watching your video first time, I like what said, yes it true, I myself is a house wife and also teach students at my house and now after my husband expired, i I also headly our shop with my children, Yes, female must be like Durga, must know to handle the situation which ever comes in life.
Very good topic Sir, thank you, but I also feel that the middle class families will feel the pinch of medical bills, as all the members will start ageing
Sir baccho ki educational toh poori kerwadi ache schools shukrana hai bacho ka admission ache govt colleges mei hogaye mujhe bahut acha laga jo yeh aap bataa rahe ho woh 6 saal phele he apply kerliya tha isliye tension Kum hai lekin mahilaye bahut lazy hogayi hai jo ghar per hai yeh sach hai sach kadwa hota hai
I don’t think we have to wait 3 years. I am in Bangalore and paying 30k for domestic help (maid + cook+ nanny + car wash). Luckily my wife is also working and earning well. However, I don’t feel car maintenance has gone up. With hybrid work model, it had gone down for me. For school fees looking forward for a separate video.
1) Car me to dikh raha hai.. 2) School ka bhi 10% annual fee increment fix hai.. 3) Maids ka abhi shayad thoda jaada time lagega.. 3 years kam hai.. In the next 10 years this will surely be true
1. Insurance & maintenance of the car.
2. Maid affordability.
3. Private schools fees.
2 & 3 to karna hi hota hai
@@vishnujaiswal5846 2. Maid rkhna zaruri nhi hota h. Meri mummy job bhi krti h aur ghar k AtoZ saarey kaam bhi
3. Govt. Schools hotey hain. Prvt school he bhejna zaruri nhi hota h
Somehow 1st and 2nd point still are affordable. But the 3rd option - it has gone up by leaps and bounds, and there is no control on it by the government.
@@cliffi5498 govt school ki haalat dekhi hai ? Ek to school khulte nhi hain, khulte hain to padhai nhi hoti.
@@vishnujaiswal5846 aapki baat sahi h
Lekin Aisa jyadatar villages k schools me hota hoga shayad
AAP toh city me rhte hongey - aur city k govt schools bohot achhe hotey hain... Kam se Kam meri city- Udaipur k schools toh bohot he achhe hain
Meri samajh se school kuch bhi nahi sikhate aur sikha bhi nahi sakte agar bacche ne samajhna na ho... Isliye mere bache ghar ke pass wale saste school mein padhte hai. Jigyasa hogi to sikhega nahi to samay sikha hi dega.
Bhai shahab, school education mein bas padhai hi nahi hai.
School jake baccha puri duniyadari sikhne lagta hai. Apne ko public ke saamne kaise conduct karna hai etc etc.
भाई साहेब आपके विचार बहुत ही उपयोगी हैं। स्कूल शिक्षा बहुत ही highly rated है।
It’s not just about education at school. It is the kind of friends that kids will make. It is the cohort group that they will be a part of. Unfortunately nothing is as simple as black and white. There are 50 shades of gray in between.
Mera 11 saal ka beta bhi chai ka bartan dho leta hai Mai to working hone k sath bhi dho leti hu
Duniyadari Ghar ke bahar koi bhi system mein Jane se mil jati hai. Ghar ka kaam sikhna aur independent Banna zyada zaroori hai aur yeh bhi samajhna ki no one is working for you but you need to contribute in a group to be a part of group.
I am a homemaker for the time being because we can't afford baby sitter for our toddler. I do almost do all household chores myself. Get vegetables and groceries from local vendors. We don't have AC or anything fancy at home. We use minimal furniture. The school I have opted for my child is also among the affordable. The cost of living is so high nowadays it's difficult to survive without any compromise.
True
Where are you based?
Rents are unaffordable nowadays and it actually shatters the whole budget.
@@hemanthk6960 simple ladkiyon production ki factory band padi hai. Bhul se ekadh ban jaati. Don't worry, u hv to compromise, u hv to help her
Very good
सर जी,आपने सभी ३ बाते सही कही है.
और इनका उपाय भी है. बच्चे घर में ही पढाई करे.. घर में हर व्यक्ती अपना काम आप करे.टीव्ही सिर्फ १घंटा और डीडी चनेलही देखे.सिंपल रहे.आजकल सोसायटी को चैनबाजी की आदत हो गयी है..
Sirji, mera solution simple hai. Ghar ke sab logo ne kaam karna hai, 8 saal ke bache se lekar budhe tak. Bache ko ghar ke pass wale saadharan school mein dala hai, saal ke 25-30 hazaar. No buying 4 wheeler because it is WHITE Elephant or Liability, so using Ola uber or public transport. Yeh sab karke hi ghar kharid paya hun, taki usse pension ka kaam nikal jaye aur budhape mein tension kum ho.😂
I agree with u bhaiya and will apply the same
Why are you living? For only work?
😂😂😂
Great
aap duniya se vilupth ho rahe lupthpray prajaatiyon mein aate hai..
you cannot control family members society n media controls them.
your solution can only be possible if you live in an area where your maid is living.
Excellent prediction. Yes its true i am working woman and so many years dependent on maid paying Rs.18000 per month. Now i tried without maid, initially it was a hell and frustrating but now i have adjusted its difficult but possible. the advantage is I sleep peacefully due to hardwork and lost weight.😅
Wow that's great. You are saving lots of money too.
In Noida I fired my maid and automated household work as much as possible...
Electronic mopper for mopping ...air purifier so less dust....dishwasher....food processor....etc etc
Much much better than keeping maid.
Which maid takes Rs 18000/- pm 😂😂😂???
@@shivathealmighty most full time maid takes like that...even more than that in metros....
I have a full time caretaker in Kolkata ...She stays in our house and does everything from cooking to cleaning and washing clothes ...She takes exactly 18k per month ...
@@gaurab197 Hey man I live in Mumbai Andheri... Maids here ask for 6000 for cooking and cleaning... 15000 is asked by those who take care of babies... 18000 is an over statement..
चाय और खाने के बर्तन का example आप सही दे रहे हैं
मै तो अपने आसपास पुरुषों के नखरे ज्यादा देख रही हूँ, नौकरी करने वाली पत्नी को तंग करके उसे घर बैठने पर मजबूर कर रहे हैं, कुछ नोकरी छोड़ चुकी है और कुछ ताने सुनकर भी लगी हुई है पर हरपल बीमार और दुखी रहने लगी है
I am NRI managing all household without domestic help and also complete phd after baby born. Sango sir is correct its possible to manage home with the help of husband and kid. Dish washer is better than domastic helper we dont need to depend on someone else.
Al the money the elite organizations are making
Domestic
Yeah because you can’t afford a maid , so called NRI 😂
Our bahu in London always remains busy all over the day. No domestic help.
Manages both personal and professional life. Helping children grow.
Brave and busy
You completed your Phd
Maid affordability and "nakhre" are increasing already and would be a privilege of the rich soon. Education and car are slowly becoming unaffordable. These trends need to be planned to tackle for in advance, as they have already played out in the West. Excellent points highlighted.
Education car and maid are slowly becoming redundant.
Car - ola, uber.
Education - TH-cam, chat gpt
Maid - washing machine, dish washer, robo cleaner.
Sir ji recently subscribed, I'm shocked by your observation and analysis. You are correct I live in Bangalore this has started.
1) For baby sitting baby sitters are now charging approx. 20K per month for 8 hours. (and 4 hours she sleeps with child 🙂).
2) House Cleaning alternate days (3k per month)
3) Schools are 1.5 lakh average annually per kid.
4) House rents 10-15% increase per annum.
5) New flats close to office location double every 3 years (I think this will not continue at same pace, but still will be 10-20% per annum.)
6) Car services expensive in Bangalore than any other city.
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facing same issues. Metro city life is getting too expensive
Nowdays girls want ias officer or 10 crore salary
@@roshinitoenlightenment Guys should also demand girl with no less than kendal Jenner types body and right to be physical whenever required.
Pvt school and maid is already showing.
Solution:-
KV & washing machine,Non iron clothes or self ironing, Dishwasher+robo vaccum cleaner+both couple+little grown up children cooking+low end affordable second hand car & two wheeler for shorter distance+Indian tourism travel+
Not comparing with peers.
Spending less on marriage .
100%
same here
Exactly
Except non iron cloths other things we follow ! Self ironing is advisable
@@dhb702 👍
Right sir
Aap akdum sahi ...maine apne bachcho ko sikhaya ..hai apne bartan , undergarments ,socks And rumaal khud wash kero .
Mere gher me full time servent hai .usper bhee Mai aur bachche sab kaam kerte even gardening ...children should know their roots .
If members join together household work is not a problem at all because it becomes an exercise for everyone.
Yeah.i think children should be taught to take part in household works from an early age.that builds character too.😍👍❤️
This is quite right sir ji. I remember myself growing up going to a government aided school. Private Schools like Modern school, DPS, Springdales, Bal Bharti , Cambridge - we could only look at with envy.
Buying my first motorcycle a Hero Honda Passion, and this is not so long ago - in 2002 - was a big thing. A big big achievement. I even remember taking driving classes and thinking this is the closest I will ever get to driving a car. Car ownership was that far away from our .minds.
Maid was unknown in our house growing up.
Last 20 years all three did come within grasp. But you have correctly highlighted that things are likely to go back to how things were during my growing up years.
Sir you are absolutely right. But there is another aspect too. Most women hardly have any marketable skills. I am recently retired but my mother was working too. She unfortunately left her job due to my dad's frequent transfers. But she stitched our clothes and knitted our sweaters. Moreover she gave tuitions also. How many girls today possess some skills ?
No one.
They have mastered the art of playing VICTIM CARD
It's up to the girls or the women! If they want to earn then they have to learn skills on their own. I mean now a days most of the things are available over TH-cam and all. even knitting, cooking , cleaning, almost everything.Nothing comes into our life easily. Basically girls/women have to learn to value money. Once they learn skills and starts earning then only they would value money. Kyu ki husband ka pesa kharch ne me maje hein but when you earn 100 hundred rupees yourself then you would spend it wisely.
Since 1995 I spent a lot of time abroad and this was the condition in Singapore at that time .Very hard life people were spending and I used to think that we Indians are living life so lavish.Real eye-opening session.But we Indians wont learn.
True about education fee
I paid more in my kids tuition fee than I paid for my 4 years engineering degree in just one year
पढ़ें लिखे होने के बावजूद तीस साल से घर के सभी कार्य स्वयं ही करते हैं और कभी आत्मग्लानि नहीं हुई, बल्कि गर्व ही हुआ हमेशा
Sango to bad feel.karva rh h
M bh sare Kam khud hi krti hu
Bt mre husband 4 bhk le rh bol rhe maid rkhenge ab
Bht kaam ho jyga sab manage ni ho pyga akele
Vo to kuch ni kr skte
@@mannbhatia एक दिन छोड़कर कर सकते हैं ,एक दिन कुछ अलग काम कपड़े धोना जैसे
या फिर कोई हल्का फुल्का काम संतुलन बनाकर
@@kavita9249 matlab kse jo daily k kaam h vo to krne hi pdnge
Cleaning
Bartan
Khana
Kapde
Kapde press
@@mannbhatia सफाई एक दिन पूरी गहनता से अगले दिन जहां ज्यादा गीला और गंदा होता है वहां तो रोजाना ही फटाफट ऐसे ही कपड़े एक दिन कम अगले दिन ज्यादा ठीक खाने का हिसाब किताब भी अंदर बदलकर किसी दिन छप्पन भोग तो किसी दिन दाल रोटी चावल उसी हिसाब से बर्तन भी उतने ही गंदे होंगे , तो रोज रोज सारे काम भारी भरकम नहीं होंगे
Bai ka option : Dishwasher(cost< 30k), eureka robot jhadu pocha ke liye
Car ka option: used car, ola, metro, ebike
School ka option: subsidized schools, e bike, e car, pta to fight over charging
Wife can work part time only or from home
Thank god! I myself learned to clean, cook, make bed and wash clothes/utensils. I don't find the need to marry a woman just because of her ability to maintain a house
Half way into the video, I am liking the way you are straight to the point.
Sir I am a Financial Advisor, I get horrified when I am with the Clients. The way they are Financial illiterate. Ho jayega is the attitude.
Please dont make fun of them
Already horaha hai humne realise Kiya hai....aaaspass k logou k baat soun ker feel horaha hai that you are correct 💯
Schools already think like parents money is coming from some tree... today only we got a notice from school that child has to carry 5 sharpened pencils and no sharpener allowed can you believe it😮😮
Also i started watching and came across one of the videos " Why middle class is getting poorer" and i felt all the points logical then i saw few other videos also which you told not to share with someone...
Videos are not like others English style i admire a lot🎉🎉
@@putin3491 excellent bhai
@@putin3491 I totally agree with u
Patel and middle class words do not go hand in hand ...
@@putin3491 which city Putin??
Sir, you are 100% correct and if you extend your logic a little further after 10 years it will be wise not to get married and have children at all. That day is not far off. 😄
Wahi to😂
Why 10 years wait...I can feel the same now ..everywhere it is shown, marketed that there is so much of a headache to get married, have kids, etc... everything everywhere is linked with money...what kind of society will be in future where man has to live all by his self as he will not be able to afford anything...only rich will get married
@@darshikatailor 100% true
@@darshikatailor not getting married is not going to workout as Western civilization already suffering from it and there are dire consequences of being lonely, depression and what not...u need a companionship...
Children part i agree upon .. partially..
Correct and u can focus more on wealth as well...
Yes school fee iam paying 2 lakhs per year Mumbai. Maid salary 15 thousand per month.
Sir apki salary bhi jayada hogi
@@Jaihindurashtra1 yes.... around 24 lacs per annum
@@dramangupta8204 all in cash or some corporate
all 3 things are started. in metro min 1.5 lakhs are needed for premium survival. truely said. Amit ji
1.5 lakhs me se 60-70k home loan and other EMIs hai kuch logoke....husband wife & 2 kids will find it difficult to survive
You missed most favourite among middle class that's gold middle class won't afford gold in just one more year
Honestly sir, coincidentally I am working from home today, living in Gurgaon, kids gone to school wife gone to work and I am washing dishes at this moment and I can feel the future. But since I am already your followers tou life mein maza aa raha hai… no problem at all.😊
Bhai, will i be able to watch old classes and webinars of amit sir if i purchase the premium subscription?
@@alokgaur4564 Yes.
Golden words. Middle class women need to work home and outside situation same in Mumbai maid are charging salary 15000 plus. Even that they find less. . They back answer they come at their sweet time. Etc but if we go to office even 5 mins late we are marked late. No rise in salary inpsite of education or availability of jobs like 4 hrs. Government needs to give us jobs like 4 hrs where we give our work the best and leave for managing homes.. Whole system doesn't allow such jobs. Life in abroad is more off shove it in oven kind of food not like india where we cook.. We women need jobs for few hrs. Quality over quantity. Maid issue car issue school all perfect as u said
What is the definition of middle class,upper middle class and Rich class
Young women these days will always speak untruth...I also live in Mumbai.. I pay Rs 6000/- for cleaning, cooking.. No maid asks for 15000/- unless she is taking care of your baby...
@@shivathealmighty it depends on area where u live. Manas why does your mom wife sister speak untruth
@@shivathealmighty yeh buddha kuch jyada hi fekta hai
@@scientistswife May be you along with ur mom work in other's house and ask for such nonsense salary.... Fekne ke liye dusra jaga dhund..
I am 45, moved to west 13 years ago. You are telling the Indians- what is already happening in the west.
It’s a BIG mindset change.
(I am upper middle class in income here- I drive a 2007 Honda, I do my own dishes & home cleaning,I can’t afford a maid, my kids go to public school- can’t afford private schools
Alert: Divorce rates will increase as well, like the west (I heard- they have already increased in the last 10-15 years)
I agree brother. Upper class Indians don't know the luxuries they have compared to us in the West/
I am a female based in Canada now and am training in a Canadian university to become a school teacher. We are lucky that public education here is decent and free but cost of living is too high and so are home prices. My family and I already coordinate household chores as maids here take $200 CAD here just to clean house mediocrely once a month. We have a 2015 Toyota but my siblings share with our parents and take public transportation when it is feasible.
Long gone are the days of expensive luxuries.
Yes. Children education is big expense. Most of the expensive education institutes are directly or indirectly belong to politicians
Absolutely you are right. Politicians are fleecing public in private schools.
@@dahliajaji9547they are fleecing from everywhere be it water , school,college ,roads everything
Wonderful Sir, you have a birds eye view and you connect with the ground reality very well at the same time. Big fan of your`s Sir for lifetime 🙏🙏
what to first to avoid these problems
1. remove maid
start doing work at home what is possible both husban and wife
second start
2. start saving a little bit more in a separate area for car maintaince and insurance
3. donot jot give sufficient pocket money to kids to have unneccarsy junk foods
which vl help to some extent for their tution fee
avoid going malls frequently
and avoid bad habots of spending money on not much needed items
Private school fallout. Homeschooling will rock.....
Self reliance..... Machine innovations....
Public transport usage
Isko bolte hain 4th industrial revoluti0n 🙈
4. Medical / Health insurance & Private hospital expenses ?
5. Overseas Travel
Zabardastttttttttt Mazzzzzza Aa Gaya, Amit Ji! 🧨🔥🧨
Please make a Video Series for such Upcoming Top 3 trends for Middle Class across different instances of life 💫♥️💫
Key Takeaways:
- By 2026, Car Prices & Maintenance ⬆️
- Maid Salaries ⬆️
- School Fees will also sky rocket in coming 3 years 🚀
GURUJI AAPKE CHARAN KAHAN HAI, AAP KO BAHOOT BAHOOT DHANYAWAD, 3 SAAL PAHLE SUCHIT KARNE KE LIYE
Mr sangwan firstly I would like to once again thank you for this wonderful & thought provoking video, I tried sending this video to my wife & my mother-in-law but their system refused to even acknowledge that such type of content even exists.
😂
Absolutely.. PVT SCHOOL FEES 10-15% is non stoppable.
@02:35 this is not a fair comment at all. I don't know which middle class housewives you are talking about who think cleaning house is not work that they are supposed to do. Maybe they want some space and time to themselves and not physically exhaust themselves to point of I'll health by the end of the day. No male is going to contribute to home beyond some symbolic stuff.
Please also talk about the other stuff they do do every day (mostly single handedly) which family members don't appreciate and many times actively criticise (house is not clean, my pants are not pressed properly, sabzi mein meri mummy aur sister jaisi mere hometown wali baat nahi hai). Here is a off the cuff list of what middle class housewives do every day (almost entirely without even acknowledgement as if these activities don't add any value):
Send kids to school with homemade packed lunch. Sometimes one snack tiffin and 1 lunch box. Make sure they have school supplies.
Clothes washing (off course in washing machine). Folding and some ironing.
Cleaning, organising and dusting the home. Deep cleaning - few times a year.
Cooking - all of it.
All groceries and marketing including for fresh produce
Managing workers who do small time maintenance in the home
Paying attention to kids school work and home work when they return
Taking the little ones to activity classes and groups and arranging the same for them and Ensuring older kids are enrolled in some sports or other hobbies
Yeh sab kuchh appko Kam lag raha hai kyaa? And I detect a strong streak of disdain and disgust at the fact that middle class housewives want help for sweeping, mopping and vessel washing. That is judging I think.
I used to work for 23 years. I have huuuuuge respect for my friends and batchmates who exclusively handle and manage their homes. My humble and constant salute ladies.....don't be afraid to ask for help, insist on it and if u want to give away 3-4 jobs to focus on health and interests - please go ahead. Go for good gadgets and electronics that can help us and reduce your dependence on maids - no. 1 purchase - automatic washing machine and a good dishwasher.
Aapki baat mai truth hai ..ladies ka role kafi bada hai .... they have to be strong in india to takle so much responsibility...or husband have to help her ..motivate her...
@@ygp47 so you want all of us to be as miserable as the maids who are working in our home? Only then you will be satisfied it seems.
Sir is absolutely correct..
I am a working women and have a kid and Taking care of my house husband and kid alone.. Please all the ladies out listen to sir and start work to support family and invest your money for yout kid future...
Maid k bare me jo aapne kaha hai ye meri mummy aaj se 25 sal pahle hame batati thi.
This is the Greatest Video that I ever watched on TH-cam! Thank you Sir!
Schools के लिए काम किया जा सकता है dr devender balhara ये कर रहे हैं, उनका कहना है कि अगर सब parents मिल कर सरकारी स्कूल में अच्छी facilities and educationकी मांग कर दे तो सरकार को आपके आसपास के सरकारी स्कूल में सब arrangementsकरने पडेगे और educationभी ऐसी हो जाएगी कि students 12th तक आते आते career भी बना लेगा
Wo parents kabhi demand nahi kar payenge, wo surrender kar chuke hai.😅
वो नहीं होगा
Sir, in one way it is a warning for middle class family. Good advice
New car/suv prices have gone drastically up. So as school fees, Hatchbatch car costs 11 lakhs now a days which was unimaginable 3 years ago. Even cabs are very expensive
Respected Sir, Hamne aaj tak koi bhi servant or maid ghar yan office me nhi rakhi. Morning apni car khud saaf karta hun aur office me apna office aap saaf karta hun. Is'se sehat bhi theek rehti hai aur kisi ke uper depended nhi hona padta.
That dishwasher idea you had in a previous video was pretty good.
I contradict you: 40 yrs before clerk grade salary was 300 INR today average clerk grade salary is 30,000
What you predict 10% expenses then clerk grade salary would pro rata basis increase.
Indian life style would go as it is rather it would improve.
Think positive.
Booming economy would correlate to all in general
Very True Sir! Well said. As a working lady I felt all the issues especially maid one, so to overcome during covid and post covid me and my husband are taking responsibility together of household chores. The money we saved on maids during these time helped us to afford dishwasher and automatic washing machine. Now we don’t need any maid.
Invest in a washing machine, dish washer, mop on alternate days kick maids out ty hv too much nakeas🤔
Sirji aap mere tauji ki yaad dilate ho. Such a good understanding of life and the world around us.
I recently checked the school expenses in Gurugram and I was shocked , Thankfully delhi private school are still affordable for me
जिस दिन केजरीवाल की सरकार गई, दिल्ली के स्कूल भी ऐसे ही महंगे हो जाएंगे. तब तक ऐश करें 😊
Delhi ke school bhi mehnge hi hain.
@@ranjuhappyparyushanparvaan3287 labh Gurgaon mein admission try karo sab samajh aa jayega , delhi I pay ₹5000/- pm for my child in a very prestigious convent school 🏫 which is impossible in gurgaon .
Delhi not needed in system
Who says delhi private schools are economical.....we live in dwarka and any private school in dwarka have same fee structure...I have two daughters I pay 70,000 every quarter if you don't believe go an check ....only bal bharti dwarka has reasonable fee but waha seat kaha milti hai .....
Don't agree with your first point...2nd point has already happening...third point on car was never a basic necessities...
Labor cost as well, people will become electrician plumber labour painter carpenter, DIY things will come up
very very realistic video .. 3 things more to add Medical expenses , traveling and monthly Fm expenses on food
you are indeed right about western world in general and America in particular where housemaids are unheard of. I was born in India but have been here in America for majority of my life - came here as teenager ad have been here since almost half a century. Eduated, made career and raised family here all without hired help.
Yes, we do not have custom of having housemaid here, but I will tell you - we love that just fine. For one thing, we have high standards of cleanliness and hygine, so it is best that we do household work ourselves to our satisfaction. Also, we are rather independent people and prefer not to have outsiders intrude in our day to day life. Afterall, maid would be an outside party who would be in and out of your home few times a day - too much unnecessary and unwanted traffic for us. We prefer our privacy over minor benefit of someone doing our chores.
In fact we are about to retire and even if we decide to spend some months in India (Airbnb, etc), we will just do our own dishes, laundry and house cleaning. We are just too used to it.
We totally love not having to depend on outside help for day to day house work.
Great lifestyle !
What abt elderly people who are your members of yr family. Because of independence once u become independent u shift to a seperate accomo. And with age ones mind physical strength dominish and with related diseases how an oldi can survive? Perhaps the answer lies in OLDAGE HOMES? Those who hvno one close enough are destined to go there but what abt others?
People forget that cleaning , cooking , laundry , basic electric and plumbing, gardening, farming are basic survival skills each human should know
You are 100% Correct Sir. Future mein Jo cost cutting per dhyan dega wahi survive ker payega.
Agreed, about maid, school and car things have started happening in big urban cities of Pakistan especially in Karachi.
Ham Pakistan ko count nahi karte।😂
Itni tangdili bhi kis kaam ki Harsh, ki woh tumhe chichora bana de... Kya tum Mohammed ko personally jaante ho? India ke alawa kitne mulko main ghoome ho tum...?
@@harshgurung4136 tu count mat kar....par bahut jaldi khud ko count karega...isi list me
@@nareshagarwal5605 mujhe lagta hai urban/educated Pakistanis frustrated hai apnehi logose...unko India me shamil hona accha option lagta hai...kyoki youtube se unko pata chal gaya ki India me log bahot age nikal gaye😄😜😀🤩😂😆🤣
@@nammi895 yea good question.
गुरु जी आप मिले जिदंगी मे कुछ नया मिल गया शुक्रिया
We are living in mumbai..and its very difficult to survive in mumbai with one earning.. fortunately we both are working and we wonder how do people enjoying their life in mumbai with single earing.. my husband and i are in public sector.. i feel jealous when i see housewives in our staff colony enjoying at homemm they have house help (i also have) and full day free.. i feel bad when i leave my kid at creche and go to work and they are going for morning walk .but at the end of day i feel proud of myself that i am taking care of my family...i am going to buy my own flat in mumbai..i have bought a car for my father.. and i am taking care of all expenses of my baby.. not every girl is lucky enough. I always thank my parents that they always push me to do a job..even unka stand tha..jab tak betiyan job nahi krengi unki shadi nahi krenge
Great, I feel every word that you said! Fortunately, my parents were also the same 😊
And i am also a proud bread earner for my family. A woman living with luxury using her own earned money and also contributing to household expenses and children. Nothing is fancier than that.
This is not great. Because this time job is compulsory for every person male or female doesn't matter. Also need change law where only male responsible for parents, wife and children liabilities. Thanx.
😂😂😂😂 ये वाला भारी पड गया सर .....माॅ ने कहा ...जो काम कल करनाही है ...आज हे ही start कर ले....आदत बनाने मे भी तो time चाहिये.....😂😂😂😂 13.07.2024
Very true sir
The maid salary has increased in the last 10 years from 1000 to 6000 in the last 10 years how ever my salary has just increased by 3 times and my wife’s salary has not even doubled
So I feel maid issue the biggest followed by school fees and car
6000 per month???
Pl do not compare your salary with that of your maid.
@@biswajithota2524 then I will compare with whose urs. R u gonna pay her
प्रणाम सर, यह सब बनाए रखना, बहुत धन्यवाद।
my dear it's already happening in day today life. it's very difficult to afford the car . school and employees
Guruji aap ki baatoon mein bada dam hai.dhanyavad.🎉🎉🎉
It depends on the City and Location. So maids would still be affordable in those non central areas for many years, because of poverty and population. More schools will spring up when the cost of education goes up to take advantage of the boom. Quality will be a concern.
Population ki vajah se maid yaha aur jada milegi
I struggled for buying a car for over 2 years. Last me Jake parents se hi mangni padi. Buying a car has definitely become the most difficult in last 4 years.
Sir, please give your inputs on homeschooling in India. I feel its immediate solution for private school issues.
Great point. I was thinking of homeschooling ideas, it is the need of the hour
Bohut badhiya knowledge share Kiya hai sir ji. Hamare ghar me mai aur meri wife dono kaam karte hain. Dono hi bacchon ka care karte hain. Bacchon ko wife padhati bhi hai kyunki wo ek government teacher hai. Ghar ke kharch, investment, insurance ka kharch mai uthata hu. Wife ke poore paise investment me lagta hai. Maid ke naam pe ek babysitter hai jo 4 hours rehti hai.
Aap list main add aur karo....bhaer ka khana especially swiggy / zomato se order karna
सुँदर। हमारा बड़ा बेटा आपके सुझावों (जो कुछ मेरे भी हैं) पर बिलकुल चल रहा है। मैंने २०१८-१९ में १ गाड़ी change करने को कहा, बड़े बेटे ने नहीं बदली, Corona आ गया तब बेटे की समझ अच्छी लगी। अभी तक भी नहीं बदली, सामर्थ्य होते हुए भी।उसकी House Wife income & घर के काम से पूर्ण स्थिति को maintain कर रहे हैं।
मैंने भी, ये स्थितियाँ समझकर ७२+ में retirement के बाद खेती, चंडीगढ़ से ग्रेटर नोएडा में स्वयं करवानी शुरू कर दी।
संघर्षमय जीवन आगे है।
राम नारायण यादव
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Thanks for making this kind of content video. Seriously all the 3 things you had mentioned it's increasing day by day. 1. Maid affordability. 2. Maintenance of car 3. School fees I think people will adjust with point 3. But it's difficult for point 1 and 2.
Yeaaah
Ola uber thik hai city ke liye
City main bhi ola uber abhi boht high price bolta hai....
Aur jabh demand bar jata hai toh kuch bhi demand karta hai 6 7 kms jane ke liye 600 rupay mangta hai...
Isse acha toh ek second hand car lena chaiye...
Maine bhi wohi kiya hai...
Ek second hand gari kharida hai...
Bangalore Delhi me fees lakho me hai ,chhote shahro me chal jayega 3 point
Very good anticipation sir. Thanks.
i felt bad for car price rise and education fees in primary, high schools. because of slow salary rise of the middle class labour skilled people
Very nice thoughts. It will surely happen.
Covid taught us to do without maids ,post covid my family has continued to help with the household chores, now we have one maid instead of two ,you're absolutely right
True but the entire family has to pitch in. You are lucky that way. Some ladies do not get that support, maid or no maid .
May be your words are little bit harsh to digest, but it's time to accept the reality.Thanks for this awareness programme.
Sir, you are very right. We are at the threshold of a lot of changes. Both men and women will have to abandon their conservative "gender" based roles. Father's will have to take a break from career to bring up kids. As Private schools become unaffordable, govt schools will have to up their game in terms of quality of education, faculty and campuses. More options for flexible work and hourly based income will come into existence. Keep Inspiring sir❤❤
This is an extreme scenario and will likely never happen because men are the primary source of income in any family and they will never take a break from career to bring up kids. In fact if somehow this situation plays out, men will never have kids or they will never marry.
@@prasunkumar1434 som of the men won't give up career who are the sole bread winner in the family but others i
Where both are working, some good rational men would share the household chores and family life will be peaceful.
The day a Man gives up on career, the very day Females will leave their Men. This is called HYPERGAMY.
1. School fees increase
2. Insurance amount increase
3. Car & Maintenance
4. Maid and other domestic human resource needs
5.
School fees
Maid both
You r right sir
Sir you have forgotten to include the fourth thing "housing". Land prices are sky rocketing. No middle class will be able to buy land and construct house.
Sir, agree with you.
Please also make a video as to how maids can support their families if they lose their jobs when all start doing their own household chores .
Very true , eye opening video ❤. Govt should check this scam on private schools .
Homemaker n art of homemaking are getting extinct. You depend on maids n tuition teachers n nanny to run house. To pay them, get up at 5 n get bfast n tiffins n kids n urself ready n do 10 more things before u actually start paid work.. finish paying job n return to your peaceful abode n before u sit down for a cup of tea.. catch up with kids, cook, mom in law n their complaints. Meanwhile what’s spring cleaning n deep kitchen Maintainence n wardrobe upkeep.. Sunday is for drinks n party n dinners n shopping n collecting more toys n clutter. Work harder outside to pay Someone to work at ur home n teach ur kids. Then u need more clothes n makeup n parlour visits too. We create our own problems n keep busy to cope with them. N don’t talk about small entrepreneurs.. just so much mediocrity.. no professional approach. Not easy to handle all aspects of doing small business. U need funding n manpower n space. Otherwise ur business is all over the living space of family.
From many years we are doing all work of home, incuding male 2. Govt. schools will solve the problem. Best real merited teachers will be appointed 3,) Electric cars will solve problem.I know all problems of E V 's .
Really interested to know what is the definition of middle class and upper middle class? Is this the income level you are referring to or lifestyle or any other criteria?
Hello sir, I am watching your video first time, I like what said, yes it true,
I myself is a house wife and also teach students at my house and now after my husband expired, i I also headly our shop with my children,
Yes, female must be like Durga, must know to handle the situation which ever comes in life.
Sir ek owning a car vs ola/uber per ek video zaroor banayein...very relevant now a days.
Sir ये बात मैने 3 साल पहले कही serious होके,, तो सबने कहा महंगाई सबके उपर आयेगी आज नहीं हमेशा से आती रही है, तब मैं कुछ नहीं कह पाया।।। 😢😢
I do my household work myself....
Bang on Sir, we're seeing all of this at play already.. CRAZY!!
I am a retired person. I do house hold work myself. Gandhiji taught us when we were in school. Work is worship.All kind of work are dignified.
Very good topic Sir, thank you, but I also feel that the middle class families will feel the pinch of medical bills, as all the members will start ageing
Sango uncle ka damdar video. 👏
Very very good speech sir thank q sir
Maid ki salary to double ho gayi hai last 3 saal mein Pune mein.
Fir bhi to bahut zyada nahi hai. mainds ko lagta hai sub IT wale mahine ka 1.5 lakh kamate hai to loot lo.
Sir baccho ki educational toh poori kerwadi ache schools shukrana hai bacho ka admission ache govt colleges mei hogaye mujhe bahut acha laga jo yeh aap bataa rahe ho woh 6 saal phele he apply kerliya tha isliye tension Kum hai lekin mahilaye bahut lazy hogayi hai jo ghar per hai yeh sach hai sach kadwa hota hai
I don’t think we have to wait 3 years. I am in Bangalore and paying 30k for domestic help (maid + cook+ nanny + car wash). Luckily my wife is also working and earning well.
However, I don’t feel car maintenance has gone up. With hybrid work model, it had gone down for me. For school fees looking forward for a separate video.
1) Car me to dikh raha hai..
2) School ka bhi 10% annual fee increment fix hai..
3) Maids ka abhi shayad thoda jaada time lagega.. 3 years kam hai.. In the next 10 years this will surely be true
Sir i like ur videos very much....u talk very harsh practical truth of life...