I misread the title as "ten year old crush" as in a crush who was ten years old. Wasn't sure but thought this video was going in a completely different direction...
I just could not love Allison any more. I only found this channel today and have watched approximately 400 of their videos. I think she's my spirit animal.
Playlists are super helpful for new fans like me trying to catch up. I wish I could watch all the episodes in order: 2014, 2015, 2016. That would be awesome.
I think Gaby is one of the very very few people out there who can make me *automatically* smile the minute she does. Sometimes I rewatch clips just to watch her smile. Thanks Gaby!
What if the only reason the person who asked the question has a crush on him is because he had a crush on her but used Alison's method so he could reject her Crushception
+SUsii Hadry Wah I'm French and I didn't know "serviette" was used in other languages. It means napkin of course but it also means towel, do you use it to say towel as well in Britain and Germany ?
You guys don't have a PO Box, so I'll leave this here. Dear Allison, I love your strong voice. It carries passion, it sounds like truth, and it feels like it demands respect. If you gave a speech, it would be amazing. You could be a Congresswoman with that voice. Dear Gaby, I love your broad smile that I'm not sure is your normal smile or just the one you do for your "JBU Gaby" character, but I've accidentally started emulating it for my cats and it genuinely cheers me up when I smile like that. Only been watching JBU for a few months, but loving it. Keep it up! :D
The way to survive platonic strong crushing on people is not feeding the illusions. First, the biggest and strongest illusion that one day you love will be rewarded (not that it won't just stop feeding the need that it is, let it be rewarded as a natural thing not as an answer to your prayers). Second, the illusion that this person is "the one" because every single new person you ever meet is potentially capable of being "the one", there is not just one "the one", that's a fallacy. Last but not least, stop feeding the illusion that you are not worthy of love or not good enough for someone, don't feed the idea that love makes you weak because it makes you stronger than all. You admit to what you feel, you feel what you feel, you cry, you go crazy, and that is the human thing, the brave thing. Your heart beats, let it beat proudly.
in my point of view, if you like someone, you just need to tell him, and if he doesn't have same feeling as you do, just accept it and respect his feeling, you don't have to lower your value and challenge yourself, cause if you do so, you only making not a pleasant memory.
Omg getting that moment to reject someone is like the greatest feeling in the world when you have no feelings for them. Years ago a guy tried to ask me out AFTER he tried to kiss me, I fell over his leg and I quickly crawled away in fear. Some people just aren't great at reading signals!
I have had a crush on this guy for 7 years now. He was literally the first person I ever had a crush on (including celebrity crushes), and I have liked him ever since I met him in the first year of secondary school. (There were fluctuations, at some points in the 7 years, I didn't like him, at some points I felt I was in love with him but yeah.) However he is my friend (two years ago we were really close even and would tell each other almost everything). I never told him I liked him and never even flirted. But many times the past year I have felt like something might happen between us and that there was a spark. But two weeks ago, he called me saying that he was aware that I was into him but he didn't feel the same way. So now I'm trying to move on...
Oh, okay. Thanks for clarifying. I thought maybe, possibly Bree got pissed that her specific name got mentioned and it needed to be edited out. But then it wasn't. Okay, cool. :)
I saw the glow in the distance and finally found Alan again. He lights up my soul, but only with cold, so cold, body radiation. Wheres the warmth Alan, The WARMTH !
When I first read it I was like "how to get over a ten year old crush?" And I was like "is the girl in the middle 10?" And then I just started watching and figured it out😂I'm a little slow
+Chloe Natalia Perez ... Probably in their dreams. I dreamt the Powerball numbers one night. If only i had bought a ticket... I would be $52 Million Richer.
I have a similar problem with a girl at work. I started liking her a year ago when she had a boyfriend so I didn't say anything and in early October I found out she wasn't with him anymore so I asked her out and she said no. Part of the reason was that she was busy with her kids from a different relationship and she was just getting ready to move into an apartment after staying in a womens shelter for a while. I didn't say anything for a while but I did flirt with her a little and then I tried asking her out again in March and she said no again. Both times she gave me a reason she couldn't go out with me at that time and she never said anything when I flirted with her but I found out she was being nice by not giving me a direct no it's not gonna happen, and that she thinks of me as a friend. I'd rather be her friend than not be in her life at all but I wish I could just decide not to have feelings for her anymore. I never go anywhere to meet anyone else and I think if I met someone it would help me to stop having romantic feelings for her. She''s also going to teach me to drive which means spending more time with her which might make things worse since I'm trying to get over having a crush on her.
"You are in a cage of your own building" sigh, Allison just keeps getting more and more relatable. at this point, I'm ready to acknowledge that it's not Allison, it's a side effect of some mental health issue we both probably have. sigh.
You don't do anything right in this channel, they say?! Oh, *HELL NO!* You guys are perfectly fine! (Even without the playlists or the outros or the whatnot.) You do you; keep on keeping on! I LOVE YOU, GUYS :D
Gaby and Allison, answering the questions nobody has the guts to ask, every Monday. Tune in on Thursdays for a hilarious original sketch. Can I get paid to advertise this channel? Jk, watching it is enough for me.
I am having crush on the same boy for 6 years now and I am 12. I don't know if he likes me. I have seen him stare at me and he is quite around me. I just like him so much. What should I do? I see him everyday at school. (sorry for my english)
"At this point they're not even a person to you, you've just built them up into a ten-year-crush pedestal ideal, so you gotta let it go." When did this show's advice start getting real?
I just realized Allison was holding sugar and not a pillow. What a chill dog, through all of that talking.
'Honestly all I want is to reject everyone in my life'
put that on a t-shirt for me Allison 😂
"How do you get over a 10 year old crush?"
Me: You don't lol
+zmatt007 thanks for the tip but I already tried it hahaa
I HAVE BEEN SO EXCITED ABOUT THIS COLLAB!!! Rosianna is a gem and you guys are gems and it's just a GEMFEST ❤️
+Freya Carroll :)
+Just Between Us Ive watched it four times now, still gemmy :)
"I have a problem with France" I want to marry Allison right now.
why?
+Marie M because fuck France
jk I don't know anything about France
+Ace McCool :(
I am french and this makes me very sad....
Gaby, you're MY white whale...#gabree
+BREEessrig I AM DEAD.
+Just Between Us You must live. It's meant to be.
+BREEessrig people would literally pay to see this, me being one of those people. Lets make it happen? New show "Gabree" coming soon!
+Just Between Us are you guys still on buzzfeed?? I don't see you on there anymore..🌷
Are you insinuating that Gaby is a seaborn, mammalian, sub-arctic beast of a beluga? Because that is so sweet!! Aww...
I misread the title as "ten year old crush" as in a crush who was ten years old. Wasn't sure but thought this video was going in a completely different direction...
You all seemed happier to do this episode than usual. Good stuff!!
+Backwards Man We freaking love Rosi. -g
Somehow I've adopted Alison's hand gestures into my everyday conversations. I've been watching for a pretty long time
I just could not love Allison any more. I only found this channel today and have watched approximately 400 of their videos. I think she's my spirit animal.
Playlists are super helpful for new fans like me trying to catch up. I wish I could watch all the episodes in order: 2014, 2015, 2016. That would be awesome.
I think Gaby is one of the very very few people out there who can make me *automatically* smile the minute she does. Sometimes I rewatch clips just to watch her smile.
Thanks Gaby!
+miltdta Yes! Gaby has a brilliant smile. Her whole face lights up.
okay can we take a second and appreciate that they are almost at 1 million?!? Omg so happy for them! They deserve it all 💕💕💕
+Neidin O`Sulliavan We're trying!
who doesn't have a crush on bree?
+peterDcontact IKR?
I don't
+Nicole Chuong same
+peterDcontact
Steve?
+Nicole Chuong same since she said blooming flower tea isnt real tea. i had to leave
i've had a crush on leonardo dicaprio since i was 8 years old and let me tell you it is exhausting
I like that every week, we're slowly getting more information about Gaby's ex who recently moved to LA
its gonna turn out she killed them and this is all the build up
+Erin A. And at the same time, I just wanna forget! Sigh. -g
Bree Esrig?!? Yaaaaassss!!! Gabby did clean her apartment for her hahaha
So I just need to become as successful as Gaby and Allison then I can finally take the power back in this intense back and forth that we have. Got it!
Rosianna *and* Gaby and Allison? This is just too much. Best collab ever.
I would literally die of happiness if Gabby and Bree got together
+Taylor Xitco But what about Chrissie?!
Love you both! You are fantastic!
Definitely on about bree essrig
Bree is RIGHT NOW, shouting, "I HAVE A CRUSH ON HER TOO!!!!"
That's why she seems to ignore Gabby. Nerves :-)
I get so excited everytime there's a new video on Monday's or Thursday's
This is the only show I can watch everyday and never get sick of. I have watched every video about 20 times.
Gaby's sigh while Allison is talking about the tea is priceless.
Bree should be a guest that would be super cool
+Oscar Ramirez yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaas
It has already happened.
I asked a guy out that I had known for years he said no and two mins later he asked my bff out😿
auch, sorry for you :(
Wtf, that's savage 😢
what a jerk move D: are you over him now? i mean, if this was a while back and all
well fuck him then
Did your bff say yes cause if she did you should get a new bff unless she didn't know you liked him for so long
What if the only reason the person who asked the question has a crush on him is because he had a crush on her but used Alison's method so he could reject her
Crushception
Just Between Us: Making Mondays Great Again 👌
Hell yeah!
The best part of my entire week.
That was nice of you to invite the British lady over for fake tea and edit out most of her speaking.
serviettes is a normal word in german... we call it serviette
Heeey ich bin auch aus Deutschland😊🙆
Ich auch HEEEYYY
+SUsii Hadry "Napkin" (or nappy) is metric for diaper. Ew.
wir sind alle inernaaaationaaaal viieeeweeeers!
+SUsii Hadry Wah I'm French and I didn't know "serviette" was used in other languages. It means napkin of course but it also means towel, do you use it to say towel as well in Britain and Germany ?
Allison, you can reject me whenever, I won't mind.
Also, nice shoutout to Bree.
+NotThatKevinSmith who is this Bree chick. I must know. For research reasons.
+stoic ryan she's another hilarious TH-camr. Check her out on Nuclear Family or SourceFed!
NotThatKevinSmith Oh right. the red haired girl from sourcefed. at first i was think she's a girl from buzzfeed. lol
You guys don't have a PO Box, so I'll leave this here.
Dear Allison, I love your strong voice. It carries passion, it sounds like truth, and it feels like it demands respect. If you gave a speech, it would be amazing. You could be a Congresswoman with that voice.
Dear Gaby, I love your broad smile that I'm not sure is your normal smile or just the one you do for your "JBU Gaby" character, but I've accidentally started emulating it for my cats and it genuinely cheers me up when I smile like that.
Only been watching JBU for a few months, but loving it. Keep it up! :D
"Just obsessed with him because I don't know what I need to do to crack him."
I feel that too much. How do we stop?
Allison, your advice is totally Taylor Swift's "Mean".
Also, awesome collab!
As a British, I feel like Allison would be a great Brit... Come join us!! You can bring gaby if you want
"How do you get over a 10-year crush?"
Gaby: "You gotta let it go!"
Woah thanks for the very useful and elaborate advice -_-
😂 you have to be used to it by now I mean they Rarely give actual advice .
The way to survive platonic strong crushing on people is not feeding the illusions. First, the biggest and strongest illusion that one day you love will be rewarded (not that it won't just stop feeding the need that it is, let it be rewarded as a natural thing not as an answer to your prayers). Second, the illusion that this person is "the one" because every single new person you ever meet is potentially capable of being "the one", there is not just one "the one", that's a fallacy. Last but not least, stop feeding the illusion that you are not worthy of love or not good enough for someone, don't feed the idea that love makes you weak because it makes you stronger than all. You admit to what you feel, you feel what you feel, you cry, you go crazy, and that is the human thing, the brave thing. Your heart beats, let it beat proudly.
OMG I use that tea all the time when guests come too. It looks pretty cool when it blossoms.
in my point of view, if you like someone, you just need to tell him, and if he doesn't have same feeling as you do, just accept it and respect his feeling, you don't have to lower your value and challenge yourself, cause if you do so, you only making not a pleasant memory.
I would watch Gaby fight Zaragoza for Bree. That's quality entertainment.
Who's Bree?
+Kyndra Bree Essrig
+inFamousCompetiton
Why would Steve fight?
Great sketch idea!
First Last
ok, ya, for a sketch he would.
Allison gets me, I also want to be able to reject everyone.
I had a crush on a girl for 5 years, one day she asked me out, I panicked, cracked a joke, and haven't seen her since.
I think some special events could take you to the next level. Awesome job gals.
Omg getting that moment to reject someone is like the greatest feeling in the world when you have no feelings for them. Years ago a guy tried to ask me out AFTER he tried to kiss me, I fell over his leg and I quickly crawled away in fear. Some people just aren't great at reading signals!
Yessss! New episode
ALLISON NEEDS TO PUT MORE VIDEOS ON HER CHANNEL
YES! Best collab!
So this is from 8 years ago but I definitely got excited to see Rosiana!!
After countless videos, and many hours struggling to remember... Allison's voice reminds me of Rachel Dratch from SNL !!! They're both awesome !!!...
I have had a crush on this guy for 7 years now. He was literally the first person I ever had a crush on (including celebrity crushes), and I have liked him ever since I met him in the first year of secondary school. (There were fluctuations, at some points in the 7 years, I didn't like him, at some points I felt I was in love with him but yeah.) However he is my friend (two years ago we were really close even and would tell each other almost everything). I never told him I liked him and never even flirted. But many times the past year I have felt like something might happen between us and that there was a spark. But two weeks ago, he called me saying that he was aware that I was into him but he didn't feel the same way. So now I'm trying to move on...
THAT TEA IS SO COOL but you're supposed to put it in the tea pot so you don't get hit in the face with the flower when you drink it
Man, you guys should turn Rosianna's visit into a 1 hour video. I'd definitely watch that.
I unapologetically love these guys
I'm french myself and the way she said "serviettes" was adorable! You guys are so funny, can't stop laughing 😅
PS : France forgive you btw 😉
+Léa Tudzs Tu arrives à lui pardonner ça toi ? :p
Adri Delaf Oh tu sais il faut faire preuve de gentillesse parfois ... Et puis elles sont drôle donc bon, ça aide ;)
Léa Tudzs Ouais ça va encore ;) Mais je préférerais quand même qu'elle ait un problème avec les british :p
Adri Delaf Hahaha J'approuve ! :)
+Léa Tudzs How do you pronounce it? I pronounce it the same as she does. I didn't realise it wasn't a word used in the US.
"At this point they're not even a person to you"
DAMN that's so true!
One of your best guests
"All I want is to reject everyone in my life." Allison, SAAAAAME 😂😂
I don't get it, why was this vid. taken down the first time a couple of days back? It was on TH-cam for like 6 minutes.
+NGMonocrom Because it was an accident. This advice segments should be uploaded on Mondays :D
Oh, okay. Thanks for clarifying. I thought maybe, possibly Bree got pissed that her specific name got mentioned and it needed to be edited out. But then it wasn't. Okay, cool. :)
I saw the glow in the distance and finally found Alan again.
He lights up my soul, but only with cold, so cold, body radiation.
Wheres the warmth Alan, The WARMTH !
What Gaby said first when the question was asked. That was it. That was the right answer.
This is my new favorite tv show. I know it's not tv but it should be!!!!
I was avoiding watching this because I felt pathetic lol. Now there are others who I can feel pathetic with! :D .......right?
Why can't you make DAILY videos? And/or why can't your videos be like ten to fifteen minutes? I NEED more! You two are the best. For reals.
you just made my monday better, girls x
ah. i remember when this came out accidentally a few weeks ago. good times. a lot has changed since then
MY TWO FAVOURITE CHANNELS COMBINED!
When I first read it I was like "how to get over a ten year old crush?" And I was like "is the girl in the middle 10?" And then I just started watching and figured it out😂I'm a little slow
I'm sorry Allison, what is your problem with France ??
Hey Bree essrig, glad you watch too 👏🏾
YAAAS BREE AND GABY
BRABY OR GREE! Either ways, now my OTP
+Roshani Jain Wouldn't Gabree be better? :P
+Jake Cassar yes it does!
I only noticed the dog at 4:00, and the fact that Allison was also drinking Rosianna's tea
They had two mugs in the beginning.
This episode is so me 😂😂👌
I had already watched this 😂
how.......?
+Chloe Natalia Perez ... Probably in their dreams. I dreamt the Powerball numbers one night. If only i had bought a ticket... I would be $52 Million Richer.
+Chloe Natalia Perez they accidentally posted it on Thursday
"I have a problem with France"
I'm now heartbroken.
+Marianne Hugoo Your fries are a lie, they're actually Belgian. :p
And your toast.
Allison is so cute and adorable
Anybody else watch this last Thursday when they accidentally posted it?
+eyl227 Shhhhh! We had to color correct it first! -g
Just Between Us Is that what you're telling everyone?
You need to get one of Bree Essrig's new (scantily clad) posters and just have it on a wall somewhere in the background on your next show.
+speedbump0619 I already bought one. -g
+Just Between Us omg the ship is real #Gabree
"I mean, that's better than marriage" YESSS
I have a similar problem with a girl at work. I started liking her a year ago when she had a boyfriend so I didn't say anything and in early October I found out she wasn't with him anymore so I asked her out and she said no. Part of the reason was that she was busy with her kids from a different relationship and she was just getting ready to move into an apartment after staying in a womens shelter for a while. I didn't say anything for a while but I did flirt with her a little and then I tried asking her out again in March and she said no again. Both times she gave me a reason she couldn't go out with me at that time and she never said anything when I flirted with her but I found out she was being nice by not giving me a direct no it's not gonna happen, and that she thinks of me as a friend. I'd rather be her friend than not be in her life at all but I wish I could just decide not to have feelings for her anymore. I never go anywhere to meet anyone else and I think if I met someone it would help me to stop having romantic feelings for her. She''s also going to teach me to drive which means spending more time with her which might make things worse since I'm trying to get over having a crush on her.
Gabree needs to happen!
"You are in a cage of your own building"
sigh, Allison just keeps getting more and more relatable. at this point, I'm ready to acknowledge that it's not Allison, it's a side effect of some mental health issue we both probably have. sigh.
You don't do anything right in this channel, they say?!
Oh, *HELL NO!* You guys are perfectly fine! (Even without the playlists or the outros or the whatnot.)
You do you; keep on keeping on! I LOVE YOU, GUYS :D
My nose also starts bleeding randomly when I'm stressed/nervous/anxious!!! I thought that was weird lol
lmao where was this when I needed it last year
Gaby and Allison, answering the questions nobody has the guts to ask, every Monday. Tune in on Thursdays for a hilarious original sketch.
Can I get paid to advertise this channel? Jk, watching it is enough for me.
'I have a problem with France' but Allison looks like Belle, she is french
+lexie203 We're both French! I love France, haha. -g
as a french person im sorry! and i totally get it. your vids are awesome!!
MY FAVES COLLIDED AND I AM SO ECSTATIC RIGHT NOW
I am having crush on the same boy for 6 years now and I am 12. I don't know if he likes me. I have seen him stare at me and he is quite around me. I just like him so much. What should I do? I see him everyday at school.
(sorry for my english)
"At this point they're not even a person to you, you've just built them up into a ten-year-crush pedestal ideal, so you gotta let it go." When did this show's advice start getting real?
Why do you have a problem with France though?
"That's better than marriage!" XD lmao
I had this, and now I'm dating him. I still don't believe it's happening.
Sugar is such a cute lump, always laying about on Allison's lap with his head tucked away
I haven't seen Rosianna in so long! :) I love all of you.
Please make a podcast 💕
I can't believe that this video actually makes me feel better hahahaha
"This isn't real tea." [Looks concerned]