I felt like I was on WWYD the other day in the grocery store...I heard this woman say to two young girls (who both looked under 10) she was with. "No! You can not have that because you're both too fat as it is!" I said "What? Unreal!" And shook my head. As soon as I said it she took off down the next aisle and disappeared. Sadly, no John Quinones in sight.😕
It supposed to be what would you do. Why engage people? I like when they let it happen to actually see what people would do. Engaging people is forcing a response.
Yeah I hate this new thing. I was thinking the same, it ruins the whole purpose and not to mention it screams "WWYD". On the previous video, a father asks a random dude "hey man would you sell drugs if you were in my shoes?". Just cringe worthy.
I feel like maybe they wait a bit, and if people don’t engage, then they start it? I dunno, I get wanting to make a TV show, but it ruins the authenticity a bit.
@@applefructose Yeah some topics are a little personal or weird. In that case wll they should revisit all ideas, community problems and things like where there is a chance people will intervene. I wouldn't intervene in this case either tbh.
-Wild situation being discussed loudly in public that should be private -People involved look around and engage bystanders -At a diner or cafe in New Jersey Seems like it ticks all the boxes lmfao
While working at grocery stores there were a few couples that had discussions like this while checking out and it made me think it was this show but no it happened multiple times when I lived in California and it's happened a few times since I've lived in Oklahoma some people just don't care if they are having this type of conversation in public, it's odd but it does happen
I advise adults of all ages reading this, if you’re practicing in adult activities know what the outcomes can be and as my father would say think with the right head. If you’re not ready to be a parent then be smart about your choices!
Me and my wife were praying for her pregnancy but after we tried so many things for many years it didn't happen. Then we decided to adopt and now we're a Happy Family. We love our Daughter with all our life with all our hearts
i’m truly sorry you guys had issues conceiving. but i’m so happy for you that you have your daughter to bring you joy, and also thank you, for adopting.
Also had trouble for years now . I’m with a new partner and he’s willing to adopt with me so I look forward to that one day. Thank you for loving this girl you are lucky to have her ❤️
I lost 2 babies..both late miscarriages..l had terrible issues with my periods... heavy and for 2 weeks at a time..pmt was a nightmare and gave me migraines..age 30 l at last saw a gynaecologist who diagnosed endometriosis.. l took medication for 6 months to stop my periods to see if they'd kick start 'normal ' .. they didn't... just the 😮 o. At work one day, l lost so much blood l passed out..l was admitted to hospital and after all the tests etc was told I'd need a full hysterectomy as the lining of my womb was dislodging..which could cause a haemorrhage so l was on bed rest for 2 months..then age 32 had a full hysterectomy..my partner wasn't prepared to consider adoption or fostering..he wanted..his own children..obviously we split up..l still love him to this day..but l couldn't give him what he wanted so l just had to let him go.. l concentrated on my career and looking after my mom.. I'd moved home after we lost my dad.. I'm a believer in fate, and if I'd had a partner and children, l wouldn't have been able to look after my wonderful mom when she was diagnosed with Alzheimers..l looked after her for 7 yrs..the last yr was the hardest as my sister had been diagnosed with ovarian cancer and she had a hysterectomy and chemo..so l looked after them both at the same time..my mom died in 2002 and my sister in 2004.. l am the oldest left in my family now..I'm 64..l am close with my sisters children..they still turn to me for advice even though they are grown..life throws you curveball...you just have to keep on going and believe the Lord knows best..🇬🇧💕✝️🙏👍👏👍
Me too. A lot of these new scenarios are ones that I wouldn't speak up. If someone is bullying/pressuring someone I would speak up, but this is just a personal conversation.
How? This has been a lot of women's realities for generations. Actually, a lot of abortions happen because of fear of being alone, no support or intimidation. I was told it would ruin his life, it didn't and when I gave birth he loved our son. Whole families have done the same thing with hanging up on a female for abortion but in male defense, sometimes the women are manipulative and have a baby for selfish reasons and don't care about future plans of the guy such as putting them on child support knowing they are going after major careers.
Unlikely public scenario for people to involve themselves in without the actors prompting them. THEN, when people DO start giving advice, John appears and cuts them off lol!
I got pregnant unexpectedly. I was 23, he was 40. He wasn’t happy so he tried to pressure me into terminating. He’d call multiple times a day to ask if I had scheduled an appointment yet. He said if I don’t do it he’d hate me and the child until he dies and that he’d move away and there be no contact ever again. I felt torn and heartbroken knowing I’d lose either way. In the end I chose my baby and it was the only right choice to be made. That was 8 years ago now and I’ve stayed single ever since. Just me and my baby ❤
I can assure you 100% the choice you made was right. I am so very happy for you. If you had listened to him .... the regret would have been unimaginable
@@Elizabeth-qe6lkunless people have been brainwashed into excessive shame and bad thoughts about their reproductive rights they won’t feel regret. It is normal to have an abortion before the developing fetus is alive w spirit and is just an empty vessel. Then you move on. No regrets.
That conversation, no matter how loud they’re discussing it, would be none of my business and I would NEVER dream of influencing someone to keep or terminate a pregnancy, that’s the couple’s decision to make together (if it’s a healthy relationship where they’re able to weigh their pros and cons together etc) and I would stay the hell out of it. In this circumstance that’s a big situation to drop on someone and I don’t think either of their reactions are inappropriate given the circumstance and shock of it all. None of my business, I’d move tables or just ignore them. If either party began to get aggressive I think maybe I’d notify a manager but I’d still not insert myself into such a serious situation. Also, I know it’s a fake scenario lol but dropping a bomb like an unexpected pregnancy on your partner in a public (and enclosed) space is real fucked up lol have that conversation together in private please. We’re just trying to eat our spaghetti right now m’am, it’s not the time or place LOL
Even if the mom decides to give the baby for adoption or something like that, the fact is the woman is giving birth, carrying a fetus for 9 months. Her life will never be the same. It is, her choice only. He can give his 2 cents but her body is the only body that will be affected.
"Hey, so you might be pregnant. I punched a hole in the condom. The thing is, I think you should keep it" would probably give a different reaction from "I lied about being on the pill, and I want you to support the child." Sad, but I'm certain that double standard exists.
@@zacharytaylor190mehh not really.. even tho im a woman i would be shocked to hear eather of those. And i think the “i poked a hole in a condom” would trigger people bc women is the one who goes through all this pain and after that has the responsibility (in most cases) to still emotionally and financially supports a kid, father just needs to pay their part. Idk to me both are horrible, but i would understand why someone would be upset over the mens version more…since a women have to literally put her life on the line and risk death, depression, and other horrible health issues.
Idk how you could stay silent 🤫 maybe it's because I know the consequences and sacrifice that my parents made when I was an unplanned child and that it can be a huge Waite on the child as much as the parents 🤔 😕 💔
"if a father is willing to take it why would you not give him a chance to take it" because it's my body & im not suffering for 9 months bc a man wants a baby & is looking at me like a human incubator.
0:35 it's definitely not 50/50. Both the woman and the man should discuss options but at the end of the day it's always the person birthing the baby who should be the decider, since they have to put their bodies through the super risky process of pregnancy that can damage someone seriously physically and mentally.
I’m a mom of 4, I don’t think I should have had any more say than their father, things like choice of birthing situations, yes of course. I can’t see how a woman can choose to end life and donate the body to science when a man is crying over his child’s miserable end
My dad died before I was born and my mom was just a 23 years old young lady. Her friends suggested her to have an abortion and start her life over again, but she refuses to do that so here I am. THAK YOU MOMMY❤
When I was pregnant with my son the nurse recommended me to have an abortion. Glad I didn't. My son is wonderful. I had a stroke at 43 and he has supported me both financially and morally.
Its funny cause the same people who told her she should keep the baby ARE THE SAME people who would say "most criminals come from single-mother households". They should make their minds up 😂❤
Why was this topic even chosen? They are having a personal conversation. No one in that restaurant should be intervening. I consider myself an outspoken person, and I would stand up for someone being bullied, but I am not about to tell someone to have a baby or abortion against their will.
It's not as simple as popping the baby out and handing it to him. She'd be signing up for potential long term health ramifications, like losing her hair, losing teeth, pelvic organ prolapse, diabetes, intense scaring, and possible postpartum depression. That's not a decision to take lightly or be pressured into.
True 💯 Also there could be lasting heath affects that makes it not easy to just simply give up the child if your not ready, like your body not functioning properly or really any heath concerns even if it’s not too serious it still can cause issues down the line… just a thought
That's not true. It's actually rare to lose your teeth when you're pregnant. Yes, you may lose your hair and also, organ prolapse is rare as well and diabetes too. So, why are you scaring people with that misinformation? Just because some people have experienced that doesn't mean it would happen to ALL people who are pregnant or trying to get pregnant. That's like telling me that when I do get pregnant, because I have a VP shunt due to hydrocephalus that my baby will develop hydrocephalus in utero, which isn't how it works. If I knew all the risks and scary situations that COULD happen but are rare, I wouldn't want to get pregnant either but the majority of cases are not like that. Stop scaring people with misinformation.
Well, there is some risk of having this rare conditions. And person in such situation deserves compassion. But, I mean, what the alternatives she has 😅
@@Supersoccerchic 45% of women experience a traumatic childbirth, with about 5% actively having PTSD. 1 in 3 women get lasting physical issues of some kind after childbirth. Even if you get lucky and experience none of this, the 10 months of pregnancy and giving birth are tantamount to body-horror for someone that does not want the baby.
@@Supersoccerchic 1 out of 3 women experience long term health problems after pregnancy. That's not misinformation, just the facts. Of course the most common issues are not life threatening, but things that just negatively effect quality of life like incontinence, back pain, and pain during sex.
As a Man I think in this situation it is not a 50-50 choice because the girl will have to go through all the physical changes in her body that result from child birth and that can take a toll on her mental health as well. So it has to be 100% her call whether she wants the baby or not.
Ye but think of all the emotional pain a man has to go through watching his child die before it’s even born. As they say physical pain is temporary emotional pain can be permanent. If I had a gf and we were having a kid and I really wanted and I couldn’t have em cos my gf just didn’t want one I would genuinely seriously think about doing the same thing to myself as what would happen to my kid (hopefully you understand what I mean cos I don’t think TH-cam would let me acc say it) yes the woman goes through a lot cos of it I’m not denying it but it’s impossible for a man to do it, he has no say in it when it is literally his kid and he has to go through all the mental pain just cos his gf/wife doesn’t want it
In my opinion, I think if the girl don't want the baby but the man does then let the man take the responsibility of the child when the baby arrives in this world
@@jackgodfrey.not how that works if a mother doesn’t want to have a baby she does not have to its her body not yours you dont go through the changes the pain so no she doesnot have to have the baby
"It's her body. Her choice." That's a laugh. Seeing how women can't even get their tubes tied without a mans permission. My sister literally had cysts in her uterus and was bleeding every day for a year and they still asked "did you get your husbands permission?" What a fuckin' joke this world is.
What state are you in ? When my wife got her tubes tied, they didn't ask me anything has her husband. Im in Georgia and I have never heard of that unless it's different by state.
Are we living in a hand maids tale....since when is a husbands authorization required??!! as a couple its something to talk about together, but getting permission....NO
Ive had this exact situation with my boyfriend (we did have the conversation in private of course) and it was just shocking bc we were both not really ready to have kids yet and our relationship ended. During my pregnancy we did keep contact and he was slowly trying to make up his mind if he wanted to be there for his daughter. She’s now almost 7 months and we’re a happy family now. Got back together and working it out. I’m saying this bc a lot of people go through it and if it’s happening to you or someone close to you, just know it’s gonna be okay in the end. You will choose the right path, you know deep down that you can. ❤
Why is it only “her body her choice” after being impregnated. Unless its forced conception or rare serious preg risks you shouldn’t have the option. There is some studies that indicate life starts basically at time of fertilization. Even if that is not the case just cause it’s your body does not make it a correct justification to take away the life to be when your actions started it. In this case that life is no longer morally correct for you to make or have that choice. I am muslim this where I get my understanding (to best of my studies) but even if you are atheist don’t believe whoever says we are animals. Clearly We have choice to behave like an animal or worse, or we could be like humans. You people just pick and choose when to and when not to behave like an animal
@@Marz-sd4psI agree I’m on BC arm implant and I get worried even now that I could have a fertilized egg that can’t live in my uterus(due to birth control making my womb non livable ) and stops producing cells/life. I don’t think morally we should have the right to say yay or nay to a baby you’re aware of that’s already forming in your uterus
Damn I would not be with a man that wanted to end a relationship with me bc he got me pregnant. I hope your family works out, but I would be totally insecure if a man dipped from my life like that bc of our actions we did together that produced a baby.
@@muraismybby4617 because the topic of abortion is a sensitive subject & it can be triggering depending on someone's scenario. They could've been forced to have an abortion, forced to have the baby, or even shamed for getting pregnant
@@ShayMiWpeople aren’t responsible for your triggers and are allowed to have public conversations. Especially when it doesn’t involve you and you’re eavesdropping. Just a suggestion but if it triggers you go somewhere else.
The people who say it is 50/50 decision and that the father should have a 50% decision, the father doesn't have 50% of the work in bringing the child into the world. The father doesn't risk their life to bring the child into the world. The father won't have side effects like losing teeth, changes to hair texture and strength, bladder problems, diabetes, etc. The father won't have significant blood volume changes leaving them at increased risk for stroke and heart attack. Hypertension in pregnancy makes you more likely to develop hypertension after pregnancy. I could keep going, pregnancy has so many risks and long-term side effects that most women just brush under the rug and ignore. People act like pregnancy is just this natural thing that is no big deal. It is natural, but it is a huge deal. It has immediate effects on a woman's physical and mental health. The father does not have to deal with any of that. They don't have 50% of the risk, they have 0% risk for "bringing" the child into the world. Asking someone to take on pregnancy which can be insanely risky and forever change that person's physical and mental well-being is a HUGE, HUGE ask and not something you should ever expect anyone to do.
The NERVE of people to be like "Yeah, you're changing your body dramatically, putting yourself through unimaginable pain, growing a human inside you and introducing a lot of health risks as well as having to completely change your diet for nine months but that's one of the hundreds of million sperm I produce every day soooo 50/50, right?" So entitled.
Its such a difficult situation and I feel for both sides. I feel bad for the partners who want to keep the babay and loose out. It must be heart breaking. But I also believe that ultimately you cant force anyone to do something with their body that they dont want to do.
It's a decision between the two, however, at the end of the day, the mother is carrying and birthing the child. There are a lot of health risks and financial costs associated with giving birth, not to mention the 20+ years of dependency, which often the mothers do more childcare then the father, unfortunately. So, it is more like a 40/60 decision, but the mother has the final say on what happens to her body.
But its not just her body. The child is a whole new body inside her body. I know that's not the main subject you were talking about, but I hate the whole "my body" phrasing, when there's a minimum of 3 bodies in this equation.
I’d take physical pain over the emotional pain every day. Losing a child when it could be avoided would push me over the limit. If the woman doesn’t wanna be in me and my kids life cos of financial reasons I’d look after it all on my own she doesn’t have to pay anything she can dump me but physical pain I understand it is hard for a woman but all my scars, all the kicks I’ve taken to the head in football, punches I’d take that any day over my current mental health problems plus this scenario. I’m struggling enough as it is but if I had a child I was starting to be happy with my life then my gf/wife says no I’m aborting there’s a high chance I’m having the same fate as my unborn child. I’m struggling enough as it is but that would push me over the limit
@@whateverwhatever4026 The foetus is not a body yet. It's a clump of cells. And no, there isn't three bodies. He is in no way connected to her body or the foetus. He's a separate being.
@@unapologeticallylizzy She needed him there for BOTH of them to create the "foetus". And no, it is it's own body, and that wasn't an argument. You are a clump of cells, Elizabeth.
People airing their personal laundry in public should not be helped in any way. Roll your eyes at them and move along. People have friends and family for these conversations. Can you imagine talking to a perfect stranger about their sexual health? These scenarios are beyond stupid.
I could imagine a scenario where it makes sense, maybe the woman is scared of his reaction and wants to break it in public because he’ll be less likely to verbally/physically abuse her in that setting. But obviously that was not the dynamic between these two… it was so out of place lol
The father has every right to voice their opinions, nevertheless in the end, the mother is the one who is going to use their body for 9 months to carry the baby so she gets the final say.
That’s fine. But woman in this case where the man doesn’t want it should be made to sign a legal document that they can never seek child support from the father and will legally never be able to claim any if the father didn’t want it. Many woman trap men on purpose and lie about pills and contraception. Men need more protection.
She has every right to have the baby if he wants to walk away then that's his right, but the consequences will be on his head, and he'll likely regret it later, if he abandons the child
I hate how easily men can just say 'Having an abortion is a mistake', meanwhile ALL of the burden of carrying and childbirth falls on the woman. Men do not get to make that decision.
But at the same time it’s unfair for the men. Both of them did consent on doing it knowing pregnancy can come with it, so shouldn’t they own to it? If both agree on abortion then cool, but it’s unfair to leave the decision to the girl just bc it’s her body
@@vsm5787 If a man wants to go through with it and the woman does not, that amounts to FORCED BIRTH which is inhumane on the most basic level. Plus, the number of men who bail once the baby is born because they only cared about it being born.
@@WalrusesAreTheOne yeah but I’m talking about genuine guys wanting to raise their kid. As for abandonment that’s where those matters should’ve be dealt with contracts if they don’t keep their end up. You could argue it’s forced birth from the women’s side contra forced abortion from the men’s.
@@WalrusesAreTheOnewhat if she wants to keep it and he doesn’t then he gets forced to pay child support for 18 years, isn’t that forced birth on the fathers end? How’s that not the same way criticised
Yeah! I mean they keep saying it’s their decision to do what they want with the baby. But they are missing the point!It’s their decision to have sex. ….. it was a bit heart breaking to hear that lady say she agrees with having an abortion when she herself had her child at 17. Sad 😢
@Godsmasterpiece1993 it's personal, though. Her point of view, more important so her feelings, her situation. It's always a bit (or frankly) arrogant to pretend to be in someone elses shoes and to basically say: hey, my education is the only right one.
I could never imagine being a deadbeat dad but if the dad says he’s not ready then u decide to keep the kid, don’t be surprised when ur raising the kid on ur own
I really missed this show, but I wish y’all would do realistic scenarios like you use to. A lot of these super loud conversations are unrealistic. Especially when they go out their way to directly involve other people.
I would support my friend whether she wants to continue the pregnancy or discontinue it. ❤ If men want to keep the pregnancy, they should purchase incubators. ❤
WWYD was really reaching w/this one. Who TF has this type of personal conversation in public loudly.... c'mmon 🙄 No one should tell anyone to have a child. That's such a PERSONAL decision between the 2 people involved because no one will be dealing w/the direct ramifications of such a life altering decision. Had I interviewed this lady, I would've asked her how many times has she babysat and helped out her friend whom she convinced to have a child 🤔
It’s refreshing to see the woman at the end talking about the importance of respecting others’ decisions. I’m so used to seeing people tearing each other to shreds in the comments over the pro-choice/pro-life debate. It’s nice to see civil discourse happen in real life.
If she wants to drop, it's her body, you don't have 50%!! If she wants to keep, then you take care to it because it is 50% yours, you should respect her decision WOW!
It really is up to the woman, her doctor,and her faith. Some women shouldn't be a mother, and some children are better off not being born into a family who doesn't want them. Simple as that. The woman should do what she can live with, because it is a forever commitment.
Honestly I feel like this new season of WWYD is way too unrealistic. No one just walks up to others and has personal conversations like this. The whole point of the show is seeing if people will intuitively speak up and now they are initiating it. I also feel like the acting is worse. Sorry, but I'll be watching the old episodes.
This show always gives me genuine vibes and smiles I love this show and seeing compassionate decent people give regular life advice to help others it's such a heartwarming feeling ❤❤❤️🤙
As for “It takes two to make it,” no, it takes two to start it and one to continue baking it for the next nine months. I had a legal abortion in 1976 and have never regretted it. And I have no kids, and being a parent wouldn’t have worked for me.
First, you're right. No question, and this isn't an argument. However, from the perspective of many men, it's their responsibility to further their bloodline. In their eyes, a woman is holding their potential offspring hostage, and there's nothing they can do about it but plead. Again, you're absolutely right. It's just good to remember that his reasons might be more of an existential crisis than a feeling of ownership or leadership
@@lukusblack6442 Thank you. Interesting perspective. Those men who feel that way - not all men do - will have to find women who want kids, THE MEN’S kids. And use better contraception until they find the right women. Or insist the women use good contraception.
@@tecklafurro2040 I don't, up to around the time that it was generally cut off under Roe, about 24 weeks (though I would say around 22). That's when the fetus's brain connects to the rest of the nervous system, and can now feel pain. Something that experiences nothing, in my perspective, isn't a child. It's a potential child.
i mean there should be more context about if she took birth control or she just decided to stop without telling bc thar changes alot but i think they both should be able to leave the situiation
I understand that a father should be able to state his case, but at the same time, why should the mother be forced to transform her body permanently, put up with 9 months of illness, and go through labor because the other person (who can't know what that feels like) says no?
It shouldn't be 50 50 but there should be escapes for the father for example if he doesn't want it he can divorce without paying child support or anything like that.
She does have a right to decide herself, regardless of man's position. But, I mean, even without violating her right of slaughtering an unborn baby, a little moral pressure from father and society may be understandable
@@angelodit9598 To build on this: if he doesn't want it and she does, he should not have to pay child support. If she doesn't want it and he does, she gets the full say.
@@leguminous7564 full say is a little too much but I would say 73 to 27. But my personal opinion is that if it wasn't rape or your too poor to take care of it or if the condom didn't work and health reasons you shouldn't be able to abort it.
As someone who has had 3 children if a woman doesn’t want to go through the demanding process of pregnancy then she shouldn’t have too pregnancy took a lot on my body it weakened my teeth to the point of them cracking and falling apart with no cavities, I lost lots and lots of hair after birth. I don’t regret having my children at all but I don’t think many men understand how much of a physical toll pregnancy can be.
@@Kenyan_LadyIt should be 50/50 with the man’s input but the woman has the last say so and decision it’s her body,and pregnancy leaves long term effects,so if she says she doesn’t want it then she doesn’t.
@@Kenyan_Lady He gets input but she has the final decision on whether she wants to keep the child and while your saying don’t get pregnant if people are worried about long term effects guess what…people still get pregnant due to condoms breaking anything could’ve happened for them to accidentally get her pregnant even if she was on birth control,you can’t just say don’t get pregnant when accidents happen.Once again her body her choice she has the final say.
“Everyone has a story” that last woman says it. What is the best for one isn’t the best decision for all. But it is the woman who carries the baby for 9 month, so she should have the final decision.
Who said she - I’m assuming you meant the last couple - didn’t know his beliefs? She disagreed with his beliefs, that’s all. You’re assuming a lot without evidence.
The thing is tho it’s impossible for a man to carry a baby. I just think it’s unfair on him. My mental health is bad as it is and then if I had a gf/wife who was pregnant and I was starting to feel happy again cos I’d be a dad then she turns around and says I don’t want it and I have to watch my unborn child die that would push me over the limit genuinely. I really would be debating whether I should have the same fate. Ppl seem to forget physical pain can be temporary (most the time) emotional pain can be permanent (most the time) and trust me I’ve had a lot of both and I would rather take all my scars again and my serious injuries again over any of my mental health problems. Kicked in the face playing football had a black eye and really bad nose bleeds dizzy tired everything or literally crying at work cos I feel I’m not good enough walking around wishing bad things just to get home drinking playing games thinking I’m worthless or a disappointment plus this scenario I’d take that kick everyday the pain from the kick lasted a day my black eye 2 or 3 weeks and dizziness 1 week. This emotional pain has been going on for 2 yrs now
@@Nathan-W It. Doesn't. Matter. Obviously it's going to hurt if you don't agree with her decision but it is still *her* decision. It's not your body. Pregnancy is a big deal. It's not just the pain of childbirth, there is so much more to it than that. It's not an easy decision for her to make either way but it is absolutely her decision to make. You're entitled to feel sad about it, of course, but you do NOT get any say in or control over someone else's body. Also, if it's still in the stage where she can get an abortion, it's not a child yet. It's a clump of cells that has the *potential* to become a child.
@@unapologeticallylizzy oh ye I’ll just get pregnant myself oh wait I can’t. Look the only thing I care about in the world rn is football it makes me happy even when I’m annoyed at it. Without it I might not even be here. I’m a goalkeeper you might not know what that is but anyway I had to dive down low I got kicked in the head worst feeling I’ve felt it’s happened a lot but that was the worse I had to go to the doctors they told me I had a chance of not being allowed to play it again which that was bad as it is. You know what the last thing I was thinking about? How much it acc hurt physically. The first thing I thought was emotionally. Now if I can’t play the one thing that comforts me then I find out I’m having a kid that’s getting aborted so you know how I would feel? Probably a lot worse than the woman. I’m not tryna be sexist I’d congratulate any woman who had a baby cos it duckling incredible but if I had a kid that was getting aborted when I really wanted it am I just meant to be happy. Again you probs won’t understand but it’s like the PGMOL (football organisation) saying “I’m sorry we made this horrible decision that cost you the league but just remember we’re sorry” it’s like that but replace it with a baby. It’s not just something an emotional guy can get over. I’m sorry if I’m offending you or any woman but that’s just how I feel and I can’t help that and it just upsets me even thinking about this and I can’t simply get over it. I can bottle it up and put on a front pretending I’m alright but deep down like a lot of things those feelings are still there and they’ll just get worse
@@Nathan-W "You might not know what that is" Dude, yes, you are being sexist. Not only are you mansplaining football to me and being condescending, you're thinking you have a say in controlling what a woman does with her body. Obviously you can't get pregnant as a cis man - but that does mean you don't get a say. If you want to have a kid yourself, that's great - find somebody who wants to have one too. Don't force somebody into having kids who doesn't want them. It doesn't matter that you don't get a baby, it's still not your decision. Also, if you're having sex with somebody, you have to be aware of all the possible consequences. If you don't want to get somebody pregnant who might get an abortion, don't have sex with someone unless you know they want children. If you decide to have sex not knowing if someone wants a kid, that's one of the potential consequences. You have control. THAT is the decision you're making.
@@unapologeticallylizzy I’m only saying that cos this is an American based program and I’m from uk your football is different to mine. I’d say the exact same thing to a man as a matter of fact I have said it to American men. I acc watch women’s football and enjoy it just as much sometimes. I watch my teams women’s side more than the biggest teams matches and look I wouldn’t control a women’s body but when my unborn child is involved ofc I’m doing something. What am I meant to do just let my unborn child get aborted and as I said about PGMOL apologies and just have to say thanks for the apology and have no feelings at all? Ofc not. I’d be terrified, I’d not trust a single person, I’d spiral out of control and have no life at all. Like I said my mental health is as bad as it is do you really think this scenario would help me feel any better? No like I said again it would push me over the edge I’d be completely broken and I’d do stuff to myself that ppl that love me would hate to see so I’m sorry that I have emotions and I’m not a robot who could handle theoretical scenarios like this
❤ I was actually unintended. But so happy w m mom & my grandmother. We celebrated my grandmother’s birthday recently. After my bath me still unclothed I actually wrapped myself in a pink-and-white quilt that my grandmother made for me when I was a baby. I went to sit down on the kitchen floor since only my mom, grandmother, my aunt, and my mom’s friends were in the kitchen. Sorry I’m weird it’s my very humble way of showing appreciation for her always having taken care of me. Sorry for the book ❤️🥶
Also, I was a good sport when I was sitting down on the kitchen floor I told myself to stop being a baby and I removed my quilt and handed it to my grandmother who was sitting in a chair so she could talk about the different fabrics she used to make the quilt and her memories ❤️❤️❤️
Abortion is not a decision I would ever make for myself, but I am VERY strongly behind each individual's right to choose. It's a big thing. There are so many kids in this world with shitty parents. With friends, I am admittedly biased towards keeping the baby but you've got to consider money, all sorts - so if a friend were on the fence, I would encourage them to consider both sides very carefully and whatever they chose, they would have my full support.
This is one of those things that just can't just be made fair. I feel so awful for the men who wanted the babies that have been aborted. But it's never going to be ok to force someone to carry a pregnany (or force an abortion). Men can state their wants, feelings, opinions. But it's always the person who is carrying the pregnancys choice. I wish people would stip acting like pregnancy is inherently risk free too.
😬 I feel bad for the last lady.. sounds like that man doesn’t truly know her her beliefs even after spending all these years with her .. he got so upset 😭 !
@@angelodit9598 Honestly , it really does go both ways . I guess since he met her once her daughter was 15, they might have never talked about having kids or their stance on this specific topic. Sucks that their interaction had to be televised for everyone to see, but it’s and eye opener on what type of conversations are to be had with a partner .
@@candykizz3z68 that's true and i agree with ,that how you wrote it made it seem you think that the man Is wrong for his beliefs, because it contradicts his wife
@@angelodit9598 I definitely worded it wrongly . Both parties were in shock of each other’s answers for sure . I think the lady just stood out to me more , because of how upset he got at her 🥹 I was like “damn, that’s a rough ride home” .
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I felt like I was on WWYD the other day in the grocery store...I heard this woman say to two young girls (who both looked under 10) she was with. "No! You can not have that because you're both too fat as it is!" I said "What? Unreal!" And shook my head. As soon as I said it she took off down the next aisle and disappeared.
Sadly, no John Quinones in sight.😕
Sounds like you did the right thing though
@@callumcjham4478but doesnt count cuz she didnt appear on TV. Try next time
There is no way a mother said that!
@@katiem4539 there is a way. All parents, mother or father are not always nice.
There is a better way to discuss that. Because you do want your children to be healthy. But not by demeaning them.
Do people really have such personal discussions in public loudly? If I heard it, I would immediately think I was on WWYD!! 😂
I am a yapper with no regard for societies eavesdropping. So. It's possible.
I would have said: SHUT YOUR FACE AND TAKE IT SOMEWHERE ELSE.
Sometimes... 😅
That’s because you watch the show, you can overhear conversations at restaurants and bars all the time isn’t that unique
@@lasserisvik6616sure you would 🙄
It supposed to be what would you do. Why engage people? I like when they let it happen to actually see what people would do. Engaging people is forcing a response.
Yeah I hate this new thing. I was thinking the same, it ruins the whole purpose and not to mention it screams "WWYD". On the previous video, a father asks a random dude "hey man would you sell drugs if you were in my shoes?". Just cringe worthy.
I feel like maybe they wait a bit, and if people don’t engage, then they start it? I dunno, I get wanting to make a TV show, but it ruins the authenticity a bit.
@@applefructose Yeah some topics are a little personal or weird. In that case wll they should revisit all ideas, community problems and things like where there is a chance people will intervene. I wouldn't intervene in this case either tbh.
I agree seems staged this way
@@kibme5189they always engaged with the public since the beginning of the show but it’s their constant flaw, never thought they will still do it
I’d be looking around for John on this one. That’s an insane conversation to have in public.
Ya this way way too obvious
Maybe. Sometimes people discuss sensitive things in public in an effort to keep it from becoming an emotional screaming match
-Wild situation being discussed loudly in public that should be private
-People involved look around and engage bystanders
-At a diner or cafe in New Jersey
Seems like it ticks all the boxes lmfao
While working at grocery stores there were a few couples that had discussions like this while checking out and it made me think it was this show but no it happened multiple times when I lived in California and it's happened a few times since I've lived in Oklahoma some people just don't care if they are having this type of conversation in public, it's odd but it does happen
I advise adults of all ages reading this, if you’re practicing in adult activities know what the outcomes can be and as my father would say think with the right head. If you’re not ready to be a parent then be smart about your choices!
Me and my wife were praying for her pregnancy but after we tried so many things for many years it didn't happen. Then we decided to adopt and now we're a Happy Family. We love our Daughter with all our life with all our hearts
i’m truly sorry you guys had issues conceiving. but i’m so happy for you that you have your daughter to bring you joy, and also thank you, for adopting.
@@tokiepoke thank you 🥹🥹
Also had trouble for years now . I’m with a new partner and he’s willing to adopt with me so I look forward to that one day. Thank you for loving this girl you are lucky to have her ❤️
This comment jus made my mood: happy, happy, happy 🎶
I lost 2 babies..both late miscarriages..l had terrible issues with my periods... heavy and for 2 weeks at a time..pmt was a nightmare and gave me migraines..age 30 l at last saw a gynaecologist who diagnosed endometriosis.. l took medication for 6 months to stop my periods to see if they'd kick start 'normal ' .. they didn't... just the 😮 o. At work one day, l lost so much blood l passed out..l was admitted to hospital and after all the tests etc was told I'd need a full hysterectomy as the lining of my womb was dislodging..which could cause a haemorrhage so l was on bed rest for 2 months..then age 32 had a full hysterectomy..my partner wasn't prepared to consider adoption or fostering..he wanted..his own children..obviously we split up..l still love him to this day..but l couldn't give him what he wanted so l just had to let him go.. l concentrated on my career and looking after my mom.. I'd moved home after we lost my dad.. I'm a believer in fate, and if I'd had a partner and children, l wouldn't have been able to look after my wonderful mom when she was diagnosed with Alzheimers..l looked after her for 7 yrs..the last yr was the hardest as my sister had been diagnosed with ovarian cancer and she had a hysterectomy and chemo..so l looked after them both at the same time..my mom died in 2002 and my sister in 2004.. l am the oldest left in my family now..I'm 64..l am close with my sisters children..they still turn to me for advice even though they are grown..life throws you curveball...you just have to keep on going and believe the Lord knows best..🇬🇧💕✝️🙏👍👏👍
The sign john is around, over hearing a dramatic convo and one leaves for the bathroom 😂😂😂
So what would you do?
Do you think less people would help bc they are looking for a camera?
lol I would have moved tables too - way too sensitive
Me too. A lot of these new scenarios are ones that I wouldn't speak up. If someone is bullying/pressuring someone I would speak up, but this is just a personal conversation.
I would stay to eavesdrop, lol :-)
Especially now that you can get cancelled for either opinion in this
@@toridaub3475 Ikr they are running of out ideas, understandably so, and they still gotta entertain so...
I would barely even feel comfortable weighing in on this with friends, never mind strangers. It's not my place. It's such an individual thing.
I hate when they force people to intervene.
I love how this show relies on others being nosy 😂
Even the people who GET UP AND WALK AWAY because they feel triggered aren’t safe from John Kinyonees.
I love how at 2:04 he literally says the show's title
😂
He said it! He said the thing!!!
john in the back like "never bring him back. cut the camera dead ass"
Other actors have said that too.
@@kevinpham15 "Let him sleep with the fishes!"
This was the most awkward episode of WWYD ever 💀 It felt so unnatural
How? This has been a lot of women's realities for generations. Actually, a lot of abortions happen because of fear of being alone, no support or intimidation. I was told it would ruin his life, it didn't and when I gave birth he loved our son. Whole families have done the same thing with hanging up on a female for abortion but in male defense, sometimes the women are manipulative and have a baby for selfish reasons and don't care about future plans of the guy such as putting them on child support knowing they are going after major careers.
No, the most awkward 1 was the lady at the restaurant asking to try other people's food.
@@brandelynsweetenburg2097I think the acting was so bas it made it feel so fake. To me at least
2:04
"What would you do?"
He said it! He said the thing!
who else has been in public with such a crazy discussion around you that you just start looking around for wwyd cameras 🤣
SAME 😭😭 (i live in the uk)
Same I literally heard a girl say she doesn't do certain things...
Unlikely public scenario for people to involve themselves in without the actors prompting them.
THEN, when people DO start giving advice, John appears and cuts them off lol!
I got pregnant unexpectedly. I was 23, he was 40. He wasn’t happy so he tried to pressure me into terminating. He’d call multiple times a day to ask if I had scheduled an appointment yet. He said if I don’t do it he’d hate me and the child until he dies and that he’d move away and there be no contact ever again. I felt torn and heartbroken knowing I’d lose either way. In the end I chose my baby and it was the only right choice to be made. That was 8 years ago now and I’ve stayed single ever since. Just me and my baby ❤
40?!
You made the right choice, a baby is a living being regardless of location. ❤
I can assure you 100% the choice you made was right. I am so very happy for you. If you had listened to him .... the regret would have been unimaginable
@@Elizabeth-qe6lkunless people have been brainwashed into excessive shame and bad thoughts about their reproductive rights they won’t feel regret. It is normal to have an abortion before the developing fetus is alive w spirit and is just an empty vessel. Then you move on. No regrets.
bruh 40 💀 you got groomed bro but glad you and your baby are healthy. i wouldve went with abortion
That conversation, no matter how loud they’re discussing it, would be none of my business and I would NEVER dream of influencing someone to keep or terminate a pregnancy, that’s the couple’s decision to make together (if it’s a healthy relationship where they’re able to weigh their pros and cons together etc) and I would stay the hell out of it. In this circumstance that’s a big situation to drop on someone and I don’t think either of their reactions are inappropriate given the circumstance and shock of it all. None of my business, I’d move tables or just ignore them. If either party began to get aggressive I think maybe I’d notify a manager but I’d still not insert myself into such a serious situation.
Also, I know it’s a fake scenario lol but dropping a bomb like an unexpected pregnancy on your partner in a public (and enclosed) space is real fucked up lol have that conversation together in private please. We’re just trying to eat our spaghetti right now m’am, it’s not the time or place LOL
And who would bother strangers by asking them to weigh in on such a life-changing decision (life-changing if the baby isn’t aborted)?
All I can think right now is, "Ma'am, this is a Wendy's..."
“It’s not embarrassing. It’s life.” I love that.
These actors are horrible. Stop hiring people just because they are attractive.
They're not attractive.
You define attractive in a very forgiving, and perhaps kind manner.
There's also more attractive actors/actresses on this show that are way better actors than this.
Paulina was hot in the uber episode but she's aged out
Even if the mom decides to give the baby for adoption or something like that, the fact is the woman is giving birth, carrying a fetus for 9 months. Her life will never be the same. It is, her choice only. He can give his 2 cents but her body is the only body that will be affected.
Not wearing a condom was also a choice. Why can’t they own up to it if the other party wants to keep it?
Yess I wanted them to switch roles!!!
"Hey, so you might be pregnant. I punched a hole in the condom. The thing is, I think you should keep it" would probably give a different reaction from "I lied about being on the pill, and I want you to support the child." Sad, but I'm certain that double standard exists.
@@zacharytaylor190mehh not really.. even tho im a woman i would be shocked to hear eather of those. And i think the “i poked a hole in a condom” would trigger people bc women is the one who goes through all this pain and after that has the responsibility (in most cases) to still emotionally and financially supports a kid, father just needs to pay their part. Idk to me both are horrible, but i would understand why someone would be upset over the mens version more…since a women have to literally put her life on the line and risk death, depression, and other horrible health issues.
@@zacharytaylor190 you can still get pregnant on birth control
@@huskylover8167 and a condom can break. Both are unlikely when used properly.
the lady casually sipping her coffee @ 7:04 😂😂😂
"But that's none of my business"
LMAOOO
Children are only blessings if you actually, genuinely want them. Other than that, they are burdens 🤷🏽♀️ iswis
This is the only “what would you do” scenario where I would do nothing
Idk how you could stay silent 🤫 maybe it's because I know the consequences and sacrifice that my parents made when I was an unplanned child and that it can be a huge Waite on the child as much as the parents 🤔 😕 💔
@@kevin4gwen it’s no one’s decision other than the two people involved
What about the child that gets murdered???@@Youcanthandleme319
"if a father is willing to take it why would you not give him a chance to take it" because it's my body & im not suffering for 9 months bc a man wants a baby & is looking at me like a human incubator.
0:35 it's definitely not 50/50. Both the woman and the man should discuss options but at the end of the day it's always the person birthing the baby who should be the decider, since they have to put their bodies through the super risky process of pregnancy that can damage someone seriously physically and mentally.
Yep!
Then why have s3x willingly unprotected?
I’m a mom of 4, I don’t think I should have had any more say than their father, things like choice of birthing situations, yes of course. I can’t see how a woman can choose to end life and donate the body to science when a man is crying over his child’s miserable end
That's true
They are breaking the scenarios too soon now!
My dad died before I was born and my mom was just a 23 years old young lady. Her friends suggested her to have an abortion and start her life over again, but she refuses to do that so here I am. THAK YOU MOMMY❤
When I was pregnant with my son the nurse recommended me to have an abortion. Glad I didn't. My son is wonderful. I had a stroke at 43 and he has supported me both financially and morally.
😭😭😭😭tell your mom I said thank you
Your mom did the right thing
Its funny cause the same people who told her she should keep the baby ARE THE SAME people who would say "most criminals come from single-mother households". They should make their minds up 😂❤
@@hermanbrachey7653 I don't think in modern society that we should shame single moms but that doesn't mean we shouldn't advocate traditional family.
what would you do he asks him haha
These newer episodes are not cutting it.
Why was this topic even chosen? They are having a personal conversation. No one in that restaurant should be intervening. I consider myself an outspoken person, and I would stand up for someone being bullied, but I am not about to tell someone to have a baby or abortion against their will.
It's not as simple as popping the baby out and handing it to him. She'd be signing up for potential long term health ramifications, like losing her hair, losing teeth, pelvic organ prolapse, diabetes, intense scaring, and possible postpartum depression. That's not a decision to take lightly or be pressured into.
True 💯
Also there could be lasting heath affects that makes it not easy to just simply give up the child if your not ready, like your body not functioning properly or really any heath concerns even if it’s not too serious it still can cause issues down the line… just a thought
That's not true. It's actually rare to lose your teeth when you're pregnant. Yes, you may lose your hair and also, organ prolapse is rare as well and diabetes too. So, why are you scaring people with that misinformation? Just because some people have experienced that doesn't mean it would happen to ALL people who are pregnant or trying to get pregnant. That's like telling me that when I do get pregnant, because I have a VP shunt due to hydrocephalus that my baby will develop hydrocephalus in utero, which isn't how it works. If I knew all the risks and scary situations that COULD happen but are rare, I wouldn't want to get pregnant either but the majority of cases are not like that. Stop scaring people with misinformation.
Well, there is some risk of having this rare conditions. And person in such situation deserves compassion. But, I mean, what the alternatives she has 😅
@@Supersoccerchic 45% of women experience a traumatic childbirth, with about 5% actively having PTSD. 1 in 3 women get lasting physical issues of some kind after childbirth.
Even if you get lucky and experience none of this, the 10 months of pregnancy and giving birth are tantamount to body-horror for someone that does not want the baby.
@@Supersoccerchic 1 out of 3 women experience long term health problems after pregnancy. That's not misinformation, just the facts. Of course the most common issues are not life threatening, but things that just negatively effect quality of life like incontinence, back pain, and pain during sex.
Shoutout to that last lady saying she chose one way but wouldn’t shame anyone for going in the opposite direction the world needs more of this
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No it doesn’t
@@infiniteg7852 what would you prefer?
Ya props to her
@@blackshyguy2160saying “I will help you find resources to help you.” There is never a good reason to murder a child
As a Man I think in this situation it is not a 50-50 choice because the girl will have to go through all the physical changes in her body that result from child birth and that can take a toll on her mental health as well. So it has to be 100% her call whether she wants the baby or not.
Ye but think of all the emotional pain a man has to go through watching his child die before it’s even born. As they say physical pain is temporary emotional pain can be permanent. If I had a gf and we were having a kid and I really wanted and I couldn’t have em cos my gf just didn’t want one I would genuinely seriously think about doing the same thing to myself as what would happen to my kid (hopefully you understand what I mean cos I don’t think TH-cam would let me acc say it) yes the woman goes through a lot cos of it I’m not denying it but it’s impossible for a man to do it, he has no say in it when it is literally his kid and he has to go through all the mental pain just cos his gf/wife doesn’t want it
Remember that this Baby is the Man’s aswell. If the man wants to keep it THEN ABSOLUTELY THEY MUST KEEP IT.
In my opinion, I think if the girl don't want the baby but the man does then let the man take the responsibility of the child when the baby arrives in this world
@@blacksavage6255 agreed.
@@jackgodfrey.not how that works if a mother doesn’t want to have a baby she does not have to its her body not yours you dont go through the changes the pain so no she doesnot have to have the baby
why are they screaming, wwyd is getting so fake its annoying lmao
I was thinking that too.
"It's her body. Her choice." That's a laugh. Seeing how women can't even get their tubes tied without a mans permission. My sister literally had cysts in her uterus and was bleeding every day for a year and they still asked "did you get your husbands permission?" What a fuckin' joke this world is.
What state are you in ? When my wife got her tubes tied, they didn't ask me anything has her husband. Im in Georgia and I have never heard of that unless it's different by state.
@@Hugo-Hernandez Indiana. I would figure Georgia being more lenient. It does happen, though.
Are we living in a hand maids tale....since when is a husbands authorization required??!! as a couple its something to talk about together, but getting permission....NO
Mm... I mean, in what county does your sister live? 😅
@@samvaldes2682 oh, it's a thing.
Ive had this exact situation with my boyfriend (we did have the conversation in private of course) and it was just shocking bc we were both not really ready to have kids yet and our relationship ended. During my pregnancy we did keep contact and he was slowly trying to make up his mind if he wanted to be there for his daughter. She’s now almost 7 months and we’re a happy family now. Got back together and working it out.
I’m saying this bc a lot of people go through it and if it’s happening to you or someone close to you, just know it’s gonna be okay in the end. You will choose the right path, you know deep down that you can. ❤
Why is it only “her body her choice” after being impregnated. Unless its forced conception or rare serious preg risks you shouldn’t have the option. There is some studies that indicate life starts basically at time of fertilization. Even if that is not the case just cause it’s your body does not make it a correct justification to take away the life to be when your actions started it. In this case that life is no longer morally correct for you to make or have that choice. I am muslim this where I get my understanding (to best of my studies) but even if you are atheist don’t believe whoever says we are animals. Clearly We have choice to behave like an animal or worse, or we could be like humans. You people just pick and choose when to and when not to behave like an animal
@@Marz-sd4psI agree I’m on BC arm implant and I get worried even now that I could have a fertilized egg that can’t live in my uterus(due to birth control making my womb non livable ) and stops producing cells/life. I don’t think morally we should have the right to say yay or nay to a baby you’re aware of that’s already forming in your uterus
Damn I would not be with a man that wanted to end a relationship with me bc he got me pregnant. I hope your family works out, but I would be totally insecure if a man dipped from my life like that bc of our actions we did together that produced a baby.
I love this show. I love hearing everyone’s different opinions and it’s beautiful in a way.
I love how the couple at the end started having their own argument lol
FINALLY A 10 MINUTE VIDEO, THANK YOU WWYD!!
Tbh this wouldve triggered me. I wouldve been annoyed at hearing this convo
How does something happening in another person's life trigger you??? Wth 🤣
nasally shrieks during an all too personal convo in public may do that to people@@muraismybby4617
@@muraismybby4617 because the topic of abortion is a sensitive subject & it can be triggering depending on someone's scenario. They could've been forced to have an abortion, forced to have the baby, or even shamed for getting pregnant
@LashayMW "forced to abort"? Only happens to pregnant minors and to those with unviable pregnancies! Sorry, take your false narratives elsewhere ❤
@@ShayMiWpeople aren’t responsible for your triggers and are allowed to have public conversations. Especially when it doesn’t involve you and you’re eavesdropping. Just a suggestion but if it triggers you go somewhere else.
The people who say it is 50/50 decision and that the father should have a 50% decision, the father doesn't have 50% of the work in bringing the child into the world. The father doesn't risk their life to bring the child into the world. The father won't have side effects like losing teeth, changes to hair texture and strength, bladder problems, diabetes, etc. The father won't have significant blood volume changes leaving them at increased risk for stroke and heart attack. Hypertension in pregnancy makes you more likely to develop hypertension after pregnancy. I could keep going, pregnancy has so many risks and long-term side effects that most women just brush under the rug and ignore.
People act like pregnancy is just this natural thing that is no big deal. It is natural, but it is a huge deal. It has immediate effects on a woman's physical and mental health. The father does not have to deal with any of that. They don't have 50% of the risk, they have 0% risk for "bringing" the child into the world.
Asking someone to take on pregnancy which can be insanely risky and forever change that person's physical and mental well-being is a HUGE, HUGE ask and not something you should ever expect anyone to do.
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼thank you so much
The NERVE of people to be like "Yeah, you're changing your body dramatically, putting yourself through unimaginable pain, growing a human inside you and introducing a lot of health risks as well as having to completely change your diet for nine months but that's one of the hundreds of million sperm I produce every day soooo 50/50, right?"
So entitled.
@@unapologeticallylizzy speak your truth👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
No one should have a choice to abort
yeah well the baby wont have any of that either i guess.
Its such a difficult situation and I feel for both sides. I feel bad for the partners who want to keep the babay and loose out. It must be heart breaking. But I also believe that ultimately you cant force anyone to do something with their body that they dont want to do.
It's a decision between the two, however, at the end of the day, the mother is carrying and birthing the child. There are a lot of health risks and financial costs associated with giving birth, not to mention the 20+ years of dependency, which often the mothers do more childcare then the father, unfortunately. So, it is more like a 40/60 decision, but the mother has the final say on what happens to her body.
Was thinking the same 25-75 choice
But its not just her body. The child is a whole new body inside her body. I know that's not the main subject you were talking about, but I hate the whole "my body" phrasing, when there's a minimum of 3 bodies in this equation.
I’d take physical pain over the emotional pain every day. Losing a child when it could be avoided would push me over the limit. If the woman doesn’t wanna be in me and my kids life cos of financial reasons I’d look after it all on my own she doesn’t have to pay anything she can dump me but physical pain I understand it is hard for a woman but all my scars, all the kicks I’ve taken to the head in football, punches I’d take that any day over my current mental health problems plus this scenario. I’m struggling enough as it is but if I had a child I was starting to be happy with my life then my gf/wife says no I’m aborting there’s a high chance I’m having the same fate as my unborn child. I’m struggling enough as it is but that would push me over the limit
@@whateverwhatever4026 The foetus is not a body yet. It's a clump of cells. And no, there isn't three bodies. He is in no way connected to her body or the foetus. He's a separate being.
@@unapologeticallylizzy She needed him there for BOTH of them to create the "foetus". And no, it is it's own body, and that wasn't an argument. You are a clump of cells, Elizabeth.
People airing their personal laundry in public should not be helped in any way. Roll your eyes at them and move along. People have friends and family for these conversations. Can you imagine talking to a perfect stranger about their sexual health? These scenarios are beyond stupid.
But why speaking about that in public place anyway????
Yeah, that is a very private conversation.
I could imagine a scenario where it makes sense, maybe the woman is scared of his reaction and wants to break it in public because he’ll be less likely to verbally/physically abuse her in that setting. But obviously that was not the dynamic between these two… it was so out of place lol
People should understand that ultimate decision is always from the mother...Its her body...Period.
Cringe.
But who created us?
finally an old-fashioned wwyd
It’s still a VERY hot topic today lol but yes we need more “old fashion” videos
These two actors were very good, just as believable in either role.
The father has every right to voice their opinions, nevertheless in the end, the mother is the one who is going to use their body for 9 months to carry the baby so she gets the final say.
And HE should get the final say on whether HIS money will subsidize her choice or not.
God set forth rules and our body is not our own
@@adityaronanki4682exactly!!!!!
That’s fine. But woman in this case where the man doesn’t want it should be made to sign a legal document that they can never seek child support from the father and will legally never be able to claim any if the father didn’t want it.
Many woman trap men on purpose and lie about pills and contraception. Men need more protection.
@@adityaronanki4682 I can assure you most women are not fully relying on a man's money. Wake up, its 2024 not 1950
Just once I would love to see a patron tell the actors "Hey, could you please keep it down, or take this outside"
6:28 I agree with that woman
She has every right to have the baby
if he wants to walk away then that's his right, but the consequences will be on his head, and he'll likely regret it later, if he abandons the child
I want to watch full episodes.... where can I watch them ? ...as I m not from America I can't watch them on abc platform
Hulu
@@jdm9251 Hulu don't exist outside of the USA and Japan.
TH-cam
Easy solution. Both parties be responsible enough to have some form of birth control.
I hate how easily men can just say 'Having an abortion is a mistake', meanwhile ALL of the burden of carrying and childbirth falls on the woman. Men do not get to make that decision.
But at the same time it’s unfair for the men. Both of them did consent on doing it knowing pregnancy can come with it, so shouldn’t they own to it? If both agree on abortion then cool, but it’s unfair to leave the decision to the girl just bc it’s her body
@@vsm5787 If a man wants to go through with it and the woman does not, that amounts to FORCED BIRTH which is inhumane on the most basic level. Plus, the number of men who bail once the baby is born because they only cared about it being born.
@@WalrusesAreTheOne yeah but I’m talking about genuine guys wanting to raise their kid. As for abandonment that’s where those matters should’ve be dealt with contracts if they don’t keep their end up. You could argue it’s forced birth from the women’s side contra forced abortion from the men’s.
@@WalrusesAreTheOnewhat if she wants to keep it and he doesn’t then he gets forced to pay child support for 18 years, isn’t that forced birth on the fathers end? How’s that not the same way criticised
@@Anonymous_56789 Uhh, is he risking his life by giving birth? No. The stakes are way lower, dude.
I would mind my own business. Only 1 person gets to make that call. The pregnant one.
In my opinion, if you can't deal with the consequences of your actions, don't act! Part of growing up
Yeah! I mean they keep saying it’s their decision to do what they want with the baby.
But they are missing the point!It’s their decision to have sex.
….. it was a bit heart breaking to hear that lady say she agrees with having an abortion when she herself had her child at 17. Sad 😢
@Godsmasterpiece1993 it's personal, though. Her point of view, more important so her feelings, her situation. It's always a bit (or frankly) arrogant to pretend to be in someone elses shoes and to basically say: hey, my education is the only right one.
I could never imagine being a deadbeat dad but if the dad says he’s not ready then u decide to keep the kid, don’t be surprised when ur raising the kid on ur own
Lmao the people moving their glasses around the place to take in the information 😂
I really missed this show, but I wish y’all would do realistic scenarios like you use to. A lot of these super loud conversations are unrealistic. Especially when they go out their way to directly involve other people.
I would support my friend whether she wants to continue the pregnancy or discontinue it. ❤
If men want to keep the pregnancy, they should purchase incubators. ❤
Yet you don't want men to be given any choice in parenthood. They must be forced to subsidize YOUR choices, the irony.
I love it everytime that i see that its John with the camera crew.
WWYD was really reaching w/this one. Who TF has this type of personal conversation in public loudly.... c'mmon 🙄
No one should tell anyone to have a child. That's such a PERSONAL decision between the 2 people involved because no one will be dealing w/the direct ramifications of such a life altering decision.
Had I interviewed this lady, I would've asked her how many times has she babysat and helped out her friend whom she convinced to have a child 🤔
It’s refreshing to see the woman at the end talking about the importance of respecting others’ decisions. I’m so used to seeing people tearing each other to shreds in the comments over the pro-choice/pro-life debate. It’s nice to see civil discourse happen in real life.
If she wants to drop, it's her body, you don't have 50%!! If she wants to keep, then you take care to it because it is 50% yours, you should respect her decision WOW!
I think before making any decisions you should have at given it alot if thought and not make any rash choices you may well live to regret
It makes it so obvious when they move over to the table
First two guys were handsome tho.
So are we gonna ignore the fact that he is 21 and she is 23 lol
Children Are A Blessing ❤😂
Way too loud, way too obvious, way too uncomfy
It really is up to the woman, her doctor,and her faith. Some women shouldn't be a mother, and some children are better off not being born into a family who doesn't want them. Simple as that. The woman should do what she can live with, because it is a forever commitment.
Honestly I feel like this new season of WWYD is way too unrealistic. No one just walks up to others and has personal conversations like this. The whole point of the show is seeing if people will intuitively speak up and now they are initiating it. I also feel like the acting is worse. Sorry, but I'll be watching the old episodes.
the more attractive the lady is, the less willing John is to initiate a handshake, at the end she probably initiated the handshake
This show always gives me genuine vibes and smiles I love this show and seeing compassionate decent people give regular life advice to help others it's such a heartwarming feeling ❤❤❤️🤙
As for “It takes two to make it,” no, it takes two to start it and one to continue baking it for the next nine months. I had a legal abortion in 1976 and have never regretted it. And I have no kids, and being a parent wouldn’t have worked for me.
First, you're right. No question, and this isn't an argument. However, from the perspective of many men, it's their responsibility to further their bloodline. In their eyes, a woman is holding their potential offspring hostage, and there's nothing they can do about it but plead. Again, you're absolutely right. It's just good to remember that his reasons might be more of an existential crisis than a feeling of ownership or leadership
@@lukusblack6442 Thank you. Interesting perspective. Those men who feel that way - not all men do - will have to find women who want kids, THE MEN’S kids. And use better contraception until they find the right women. Or insist the women use good contraception.
Do you see it as k1lling a child?
@@Ceerads Agreed.
@@tecklafurro2040 I don't, up to around the time that it was generally cut off under Roe, about 24 weeks (though I would say around 22). That's when the fetus's brain connects to the rest of the nervous system, and can now feel pain. Something that experiences nothing, in my perspective, isn't a child. It's a potential child.
The last two women were listening and then looked at each other and had a powerful telepathy moment. 😭
Watching right away!
You don't have to be a mother. But adoption is a thing, and ideally this is something you've considered before getting to that point....
looks like that 16 year old run away actress named Pauline or something, she looks 30 something now
oh shet. you're right.
More info please?
@@Davez621 They once did a segment years ago in which a creep (played by the great Jeremy) tried to pick up a runaway
No it’s not
@@Heavilymeditated777 it or she?
Personally, I wouldn't have said anything because I feel like it's not in my place. It's a personal matter and I would respect that.
i mean there should be more context about if she took birth control or she just decided to stop without telling bc thar changes alot but i think they both should be able to leave the situiation
My son LOVES going to Vegas! For us Vegas is a must with the kids 🤣 he is 7 & been there like 4 times & wants to go again!
I understand that a father should be able to state his case, but at the same time, why should the mother be forced to transform her body permanently, put up with 9 months of illness, and go through labor because the other person (who can't know what that feels like) says no?
It shouldn't be 50 50 but there should be escapes for the father for example if he doesn't want it he can divorce without paying child support or anything like that.
She does have a right to decide herself, regardless of man's position. But, I mean, even without violating her right of slaughtering an unborn baby, a little moral pressure from father and society may be understandable
@@angelodit9598 To build on this: if he doesn't want it and she does, he should not have to pay child support. If she doesn't want it and he does, she gets the full say.
@@leguminous7564 full say is a little too much but I would say 73 to 27. But my personal opinion is that if it wasn't rape or your too poor to take care of it or if the condom didn't work and health reasons you shouldn't be able to abort it.
This exactly.
As someone who has had 3 children if a woman doesn’t want to go through the demanding process of pregnancy then she shouldn’t have too pregnancy took a lot on my body it weakened my teeth to the point of them cracking and falling apart with no cavities, I lost lots and lots of hair after birth. I don’t regret having my children at all but I don’t think many men understand how much of a physical toll pregnancy can be.
Everyone has a story!!! ❤❤❤
Very true
Even the boy could be having a story of how he dreams to keep his babies. It should be 50/50
@@Kenyan_LadyIt should be 50/50 with the man’s input but the woman has the last say so and decision it’s her body,and pregnancy leaves long term effects,so if she says she doesn’t want it then she doesn’t.
@@onnaorwhateva3948 what do you mean last say? Thats not 50/50. If you are worried about long term effects then don't get pregnant!
@@Kenyan_Lady He gets input but she has the final decision on whether she wants to keep the child and while your saying don’t get pregnant if people are worried about long term effects guess what…people still get pregnant due to condoms breaking anything could’ve happened for them to accidentally get her pregnant even if she was on birth control,you can’t just say don’t get pregnant when accidents happen.Once again her body her choice she has the final say.
“Everyone has a story” that last woman says it. What is the best for one isn’t the best decision for all. But it is the woman who carries the baby for 9 month, so she should have the final decision.
What would you do!! Seriously? 2 mins late?? Lol
John Quiñones have such awkwards commands 😂😂
Y'all are too forceful nowadays.
ikr..Directly asking people...
The only reasonable answer when they try to get you involved in a topic like this is “why the fuck are you bringing this up in public”
feel so bad for him after all this years she still doesn't know his true beliefs 😔
Who said she - I’m assuming you meant the last couple - didn’t know his beliefs? She disagreed with his beliefs, that’s all. You’re assuming a lot without evidence.
Looks like the actress's voice still remains based on her acting in WWYD segment about the fake grab driver 🤣🤣🤣
I believe she should consider his input, but the decision is 100% hers. He gets a 50% say when he can carry 50% of the pregnancy.
The thing is tho it’s impossible for a man to carry a baby. I just think it’s unfair on him. My mental health is bad as it is and then if I had a gf/wife who was pregnant and I was starting to feel happy again cos I’d be a dad then she turns around and says I don’t want it and I have to watch my unborn child die that would push me over the limit genuinely. I really would be debating whether I should have the same fate. Ppl seem to forget physical pain can be temporary (most the time) emotional pain can be permanent (most the time) and trust me I’ve had a lot of both and I would rather take all my scars again and my serious injuries again over any of my mental health problems. Kicked in the face playing football had a black eye and really bad nose bleeds dizzy tired everything or literally crying at work cos I feel I’m not good enough walking around wishing bad things just to get home drinking playing games thinking I’m worthless or a disappointment plus this scenario I’d take that kick everyday the pain from the kick lasted a day my black eye 2 or 3 weeks and dizziness 1 week. This emotional pain has been going on for 2 yrs now
@@Nathan-W It. Doesn't. Matter. Obviously it's going to hurt if you don't agree with her decision but it is still *her* decision. It's not your body. Pregnancy is a big deal. It's not just the pain of childbirth, there is so much more to it than that. It's not an easy decision for her to make either way but it is absolutely her decision to make. You're entitled to feel sad about it, of course, but you do NOT get any say in or control over someone else's body.
Also, if it's still in the stage where she can get an abortion, it's not a child yet. It's a clump of cells that has the *potential* to become a child.
@@unapologeticallylizzy oh ye I’ll just get pregnant myself oh wait I can’t. Look the only thing I care about in the world rn is football it makes me happy even when I’m annoyed at it. Without it I might not even be here. I’m a goalkeeper you might not know what that is but anyway I had to dive down low I got kicked in the head worst feeling I’ve felt it’s happened a lot but that was the worse I had to go to the doctors they told me I had a chance of not being allowed to play it again which that was bad as it is. You know what the last thing I was thinking about? How much it acc hurt physically. The first thing I thought was emotionally. Now if I can’t play the one thing that comforts me then I find out I’m having a kid that’s getting aborted so you know how I would feel? Probably a lot worse than the woman. I’m not tryna be sexist I’d congratulate any woman who had a baby cos it duckling incredible but if I had a kid that was getting aborted when I really wanted it am I just meant to be happy. Again you probs won’t understand but it’s like the PGMOL (football organisation) saying “I’m sorry we made this horrible decision that cost you the league but just remember we’re sorry” it’s like that but replace it with a baby. It’s not just something an emotional guy can get over. I’m sorry if I’m offending you or any woman but that’s just how I feel and I can’t help that and it just upsets me even thinking about this and I can’t simply get over it. I can bottle it up and put on a front pretending I’m alright but deep down like a lot of things those feelings are still there and they’ll just get worse
@@Nathan-W "You might not know what that is"
Dude, yes, you are being sexist. Not only are you mansplaining football to me and being condescending, you're thinking you have a say in controlling what a woman does with her body. Obviously you can't get pregnant as a cis man - but that does mean you don't get a say. If you want to have a kid yourself, that's great - find somebody who wants to have one too. Don't force somebody into having kids who doesn't want them. It doesn't matter that you don't get a baby, it's still not your decision. Also, if you're having sex with somebody, you have to be aware of all the possible consequences. If you don't want to get somebody pregnant who might get an abortion, don't have sex with someone unless you know they want children. If you decide to have sex not knowing if someone wants a kid, that's one of the potential consequences. You have control. THAT is the decision you're making.
@@unapologeticallylizzy I’m only saying that cos this is an American based program and I’m from uk your football is different to mine. I’d say the exact same thing to a man as a matter of fact I have said it to American men. I acc watch women’s football and enjoy it just as much sometimes. I watch my teams women’s side more than the biggest teams matches and look I wouldn’t control a women’s body but when my unborn child is involved ofc I’m doing something. What am I meant to do just let my unborn child get aborted and as I said about PGMOL apologies and just have to say thanks for the apology and have no feelings at all? Ofc not. I’d be terrified, I’d not trust a single person, I’d spiral out of control and have no life at all. Like I said my mental health is as bad as it is do you really think this scenario would help me feel any better? No like I said again it would push me over the edge I’d be completely broken and I’d do stuff to myself that ppl that love me would hate to see so I’m sorry that I have emotions and I’m not a robot who could handle theoretical scenarios like this
Imagine being the daughter of the last woman who regretted not having an abortion and watching this. 💀
❤ I was actually unintended. But so happy w m mom & my grandmother. We celebrated my grandmother’s birthday recently. After my bath me still unclothed I actually wrapped myself in a pink-and-white quilt that my grandmother made for me when I was a baby. I went to sit down on the kitchen floor since only my mom, grandmother, my aunt, and my mom’s friends were in the kitchen. Sorry I’m weird it’s my very humble way of showing appreciation for her always having taken care of me. Sorry for the book ❤️🥶
Also, I was a good sport when I was sitting down on the kitchen floor I told myself to stop being a baby and I removed my quilt and handed it to my grandmother who was sitting in a chair so she could talk about the different fabrics she used to make the quilt and her memories ❤️❤️❤️
Abortion is not a decision I would ever make for myself, but I am VERY strongly behind each individual's right to choose. It's a big thing. There are so many kids in this world with shitty parents. With friends, I am admittedly biased towards keeping the baby but you've got to consider money, all sorts - so if a friend were on the fence, I would encourage them to consider both sides very carefully and whatever they chose, they would have my full support.
Yet you don't support men's choice to become a father or not. Funny how that works, eh?
This is one of those things that just can't just be made fair. I feel so awful for the men who wanted the babies that have been aborted. But it's never going to be ok to force someone to carry a pregnany (or force an abortion).
Men can state their wants, feelings, opinions. But it's always the person who is carrying the pregnancys choice. I wish people would stip acting like pregnancy is inherently risk free too.
😬 I feel bad for the last lady.. sounds like that man doesn’t truly know her her beliefs even after spending all these years with her .. he got so upset 😭 !
Humans can disagree, I feel so bad for him after all this years she still doesn't know his true beliefs 😔
@@angelodit9598 Honestly , it really does go both ways . I guess since he met her once her daughter was 15, they might have never talked about having kids or their stance on this specific topic. Sucks that their interaction had to be televised for everyone to see, but it’s and eye opener on what type of conversations are to be had with a partner .
@@candykizz3z68 that's true and i agree with ,that how you wrote it made it seem you think that the man Is wrong for his beliefs, because it contradicts his wife
@@angelodit9598 I definitely worded it wrongly . Both parties were in shock of each other’s answers for sure . I think the lady just stood out to me more , because of how upset he got at her 🥹 I was like “damn, that’s a rough ride home” .
July 5th, 2024, I have a date with a Vasectomy 🤩
Don't do it you'll regret it later trust me!!
@@sumasurm9638how do you know he will regret it? You have a lot of audacity to think that you know someone’s situation better than they do.
@@sumasurm9638 you can literally reverse it lmao. HIS BODY HIS CHOICE.
@@firebenderkitty313 wth is wrong with you I just gave my opinion and it was for him not for you so if he replies it'll be better
@@j0ellyfish nope it ain't reversible 100% the chances of reversal are 0.001 %