so true I learned this at a young age, I remember when I was like 20 I was dating a 22 year old model I met at a gym, she was not only hot but a good person. She liked the fact that I worked 6 days a week, I lifted, I boxed, I skateboarded I made music, I had friends. And when I had time to hang out she would always be all over me, but as soon as I fell in love boom! I stop chilling with my homies, I lose my job, car breaks down no money to fix it haha sell my skate bored , no new music made... then I tell her I love her for the first time!! then I got ghosted hahah I was red pilled at 21.
i was redpilled in highschool. the bitch was giving me lap dances to hook me up and when we started giving eachother more of our time and resources she started banning me from talking to other girls that i GREW UP WITH, no lap dances, baggy clothes, she became a slob. dumped her and she entered a depression
Agreed, only part I'm having trouble on is finding quality guys to have a friendship with. The only guys that I've ever been friends with have had bad habits and turned into losers, so I cut them off.
Nailed it dude, I've got the same problem guys I've known for 20 years have become simps, or really whiny thin skinned betas. In the gym you make a joking comment like "come on dude my grandmother can squat that", I half expect them to start crying in a corner.
Unfortunately... my friends did not do well and smoke and drink a lot and play video games all day but it's hard to cut them off. They're like my friends since high school. I feel like sometimes though they try to bring me down on their level coz i did well in life.
*I've experienced something similar but on a very interesting side road to this. I've noticed many of my friends and co-workers who marry, slowly disassociate themselves from me. It's quite apparent that wives don't like their husbands hanging around with other men who are single. I've confronted a couple of married men about this and they were very defensive and denied that it was true.* *So, I asked them how many of their own friends are single. They said none. I gave them the knowing that I'm right look which embarrassed them that I proved that they were being controlled by their wives, which is subconsciously emasculating to a man. It's very sad and disheartening.*
I was married ; became single again ; moved away and made new friends . I got the same thing . As friends all got wifed up or GF up they had no time for me any more or though I was " wrong " somehow or that " I didnt fit in " etc . It was like why dont you get with someone , settle down etc ? Im like , yeah been there , done that . Its not for me , maybe I´ll change my mind or not but Im ok as I am Some even said they couldnt understand wanting to be " alone " as they put it and some even thought was I gay ?!?! Which Im not . I just woke up and started red pilling , thats all . Work on myself , chase excellence not women etc .
I am an avid amateur road cyclist who does long 100-150km trips 2-3 times a week, especially this time in the summer, with some cyclist group or solo. I met an old friend for beers whom I haven't seen in ages due to lockdown and he brought his new GF. I told him what I do for fun with my bike. He told me "you'll see you won't be able to do whatever you want anymore when you will get a GF yourself, you won't be going riding your bike , you won't be doing that anymore". Of course she was present. I just smiled.
@@tubbyrainbow111 i disagree brother. You just need to keep your diet in check and you can be amazing at both. Look up greg doucette, man's been lifting 30+ years and is in love with cycling. He's pretty huge and jacked. Only thing is he's on gear but that doesnt take away from the point
My girl sometimes gives me shit for going on weekend photography trips because she'll have nothing to do when I'm gone. I don't know how to kindly say her boredom and entertainment is not my responsibility.
Good example: Prince Harry & Meghan Markle. She isolated him from all his family, guy military mates, friends, hobbies. She turned a Prince into a beta simp. Very sad. . .
Thank you so much for making this video! I am a woman with brothers and I always tell my brothers to work on themselves, be strong and alpha and never negotiate with a woman and to never let a woman make your schedule (I have seen this way too many times)! I always tell my brothers to never to chase women and most women are not worth your time, that while there are good women out there (maybe 5% of the female population?), that they should be VERY selective and never give up your hobbies, goals, friends, dreams for a woman!
One of the hobbies I have noticed women are into is looking at their man as a restoration refurbishment project, they can look at their man like a man may look at a damaged high performance sports car in a scrap yard. Men don't look at women this way but women seem to think if they can fix you according to their blue print that you will be eternally grateful and get ownership of you. I have not seen any clips on this but it is deffinately something to look out for as a red flag.
I was widowed a year and a half ago. Restarted the hobbies I put by the wayside. Started several more. The ones I kept going got ramped up. No woman will make me give them up. Retirement and monk mode is great!
I used to collect comics , i still do , first time my now ex wife sees the comics , all nicely displayed and cared for she says well they'll have to go. Met another woman and this time she called my MacFarlane figurine collection " dollies " . Both women gone , still have my figurines, comics , house , guitars, all my stuff , stuff that says ME . I love women , but now i am wise to the shit tests and my hobbies , friends , beliefs , interests are and always will be mine . Any woman that does not get that gets gone . Peace & love.
Been following Rich for years. He is like the father I never had. Not that my father is not a good man. He worked his ass off and provided for his family, but he wasn't knowledgeable in the skills it takes to get through the changing tides of today. Thanks man
I've been into model railroad, scale model plastic kits, and electronics since childhood. My ex wife went on and on about what geeky hobbies I have - I also like to hunt and keep fit. Plus she found fault with all my friends. Needless to say I still enjoy all my hobbies and she is long gone. The thing that cracks me up is that she has no interests at all apart from watching movies.
Probably one of THE most important pieces of content to hear! Ive made this mistake more times than I care to remember! Gus, fishing, trap, cars, weights, friends etc. Then comes misery and so I end the relationship. After that, it takes me a year or more to get my shit together and back to a happy place. Then I’d repeat. I finally got it... embarrassed to say it took me so long. I was beta no doubt! My hope is others learn from my mistakes. Stay strong and love yourself! Self-care is so important for true happiness! I was always looking for a woman to fulfill me. So many years wasted! I’ve found peace like I’ve never known! At 55 this is the absolute happiest I’ve ever been. I’d rather die alone vs die miserable! Get a dog... unconditional love 😂
Never give up good friendships and hobbies for a relationship because if she leaves you're alone and missed out on the great experiences you could've had during that time. Before the video started this is what came to mind after just reading the title
I was only engaged once and my ex-fiancee demanded that I get rid of all my music related stuff (instruments, recording equipment) and she also demanded that I get sell all my baseball trophies and sports paraphernalia to buy her an engagement ring. I ended up hiding all my stuff in a storage unit and bought her a ring but didn't sell anything as she demanded and once she believed that I did sell everything, she started dating a new guy. She eventually got caught cheating. Once I broke off the engagement, I took my stuff out of storage and put it all in my new apartment. She found out that I never sold anything, she flipped out like I never saw in my whole life. At first I just called her out on her hypocrisy but then I realized what was going on in her mind... she didn't want me to have a life after she left and when she saw that I did, (and that I was spinning plates again while playing live shows with a new band on the weekends) she was devastated and said I 'betrayed her'.......Imagine that.. After that horrible experience, I never gave up any hobbies for women ever again. I put hobbies before women on a list of importance. If the fact that I have a "life" bothers a woman, she can take a long walk off a short plank in a cold deep ocean.
When I was around 20, I loved lifting weights, fitness, sports etc. Then one toxic person entered my life and told me to focus on her instead of lifting weights or fixing my diet. Now 5 years later, I gained 30 kg, overweight and depressed and she got married to a older guy (hypergamy). Never off guard. I am from Bangladesh and yeah hypergamy exist here too. I wish I got red pilled back in 2014-15
I’m 49, it’s impossible to get friends out for a drink. One guy wanted to sync calendars with me, to see when he was free. I told him, I’m not interested in your crappy calendar. Tell your wife your going out!
The first long term relationship I was in was with a low value single mother with an Absolutely Deplorable set of two kids. I wasn't Red Pilled yet and didn't value myself anywhere near enough! I stuck with her for 11 years because of feminist blue pilled brainwashing. Sayings like: _"A good Man wouldn't abandon her"_ and _"A good Man would stay and make it work"._ These are sayings & expressions I've nicknamed "the Noble Lies". Anyway, that was all before finding out what women and women's true female nature truly are. I have always loved Martial Arts, is the thing. While I was with this abysmal train wreck of a single mother family, I got back in training. I'm a Kenpo Practitioner, myself. I was again loving & enjoying my life when I was away from her and her wretched, out of control kids, see?! I think it was around approximately year 7 of the LTR with her that her son started really screwing up in school and in life. She one day tried to pin his ridiculous behavior problems on me saying that maybe if I took more interest in him, he'd be the polar opposite of what he is currently. That maybe he'd actually be a good person! _It couldn't possibly be because she Absolutely refused to be a competent mother, parent, and disciplinarian to the little darling!_ She that day tried to push the idea that we all need to go to family counseling and that I might actually need to give up going to Kenpo classes on certain nights in order to make this _"family"_ a successful, happy family! Without missing a beat, I very succinctly said no to giving up my Kenpo nights. Ironically, this actually caused her to stay with me for another 4+ years! I did the Alpha, Red Pilled thing by happy accident! I stood up for what I'm going to do for me! Besides, I knew fully well her wretched little monster's behavior was HER fault, and had nothing to do with me! He was an out of control, spoiled, entitled little piece of trash and was only growing bigger! Lolz! Never give up a single thing you do as a pursuit of yours for some woman! . . . . . . And then of course, NEVER have anything to do with single mothers! 👤
Hi Rich, FYI I am a huge fan of Shawn T. Smith and his analysis of Hypergamy. After watching several videos years ago I always questioned whether hypergamy was real. It wasn’t until my X asked me one simple question that led me to the realization that it was very real. One day she randomly asked me “what do you want to accomplish in ten years?” so my response was “I want to be a black belt in Brazilian jiu-jitsu” and she was so dumbfounded and made it seem like I had no other plans or aspirations. She then said to me “that’s it? How could that be all you want to do?” And that to me was when I fully understood what hypergamy was. It had nothing to do with what my dreams and aspirations were but how my sentence could provide financially. It turned into a huge argument regarding what I wanted to do with my life and the choices I was making in my adulthood. It ended in me breaking up with her because I didn’t want someone else dictating the terms of my life and how I should live it. In my opinion every man has an obligation to self defense and the fact that someone would come into my life and belittle my hobby was a clear cut sign that it was never about my hobbies but what I can provide.
Truer words couldn't have been spoken. My father was playing football (soccer) in his 20s. He loved it and wanted to make a career out of it. That changed when he prioritized my mother's goals to make a family and "settle down". I can see that he is still bitter about it and I have learned from his mistake.
Hobbies like fishing, gym, martial arts and so on are healthy and normal. No healthy relationship survives if one or the other has no interests or hobbies outside of the relationship. It's so important to have time apart with separate groups.
This happen to my dad. He used to hunt Used to ride motorcycle Used to play hockey with the lads Used to listen to folk rock bands She made him into a plough horse. Had 8 kids and counting. She would have kept going but the cancer that killed her also sterilized her.
Deer season in my state runs from Sept to Dec. I've told women ( and some employers ) thats what I do , it is what it is, take it or leave it. Funny, the women end up bragging to their friends about how " dedicated " I am to hunting and the drive I have to put in the time it takes. From co workers and bosses , I get the " must be nice " sarcastic envy, cause I use MY vaction time on MY terms.
One of the most important lessons a young man needs to learn is that "women want to be the sole reason for your happiness" and she will slowly strip away anything and everything you enjoy, until you are no longer the man she is attracted too, but what she doesn't realize is that the fruits of your labor is what she was attracted to in the first place. So for example, If you're a gearhead and you like working on your car, all of a sudden the car is getting too much attention and now the car's a problem and she says something along the lines of "you're so passionate about that car, you act as if it's another woman". So you give up working on your car and you sell it, the next thing you know you have a minivan and a few years later she leaves you because you're not the man she married you don't even have a sports car anymore, I used to love it when we would go for rides in your car, like when we first met. Now don't get me wrong, if you have a bunch of kids and you need a minivan, then get the minivan, but you don't get rid of your sports car just because shes jealous of it.
With all do respect I think the same advice goes for ladies. Don’t give up hobbies for a man. If I go to a step class at the gym three times a week I’m not going to stop once I’m in a relationship. Maybe my step class is at dinner time and I could easily want to make dinner for my man and just chill at home. I go with compromise make dinner twice a week. Gym dance class twice a week
True but he has done more than that . It will dawn on him sooner or later. Even from the view of the press reading between the lines . You can see what is going on and how he is being worn down , isolated from his family etc.
I too made the mistake of skipping our annual man trips for 4 years while in a 5 year relationship. Big mistake....one I will never make again. Keep your frame gentlemen. Keep your lifestyle and allow her to be a compliment to it. If your a sucker like I was, them you will allow her to make you feel bad for things like this.
Lol, Natalie from 90 Days Fiancee comes to mind...as in women men should avoid because of what you discussed above about women who impose their values and beliefs on men.
Gotta disagree about guns being in a safe. Too much time to grab when you need it. BUT a gun or AMMO should always be in a safe when children are in that home. Just my 2 cents.
@@brindlebot you are wildly unrealistic. If you value your security and can legally defend yourself with firearms in your home, have it prepared and ready.
Hi ALM, its ready in the safe. The risk (not in a safe) of an accident outweighs the advantage to me. I've spent some time and money with outer perimeter alarm, house perimeter alarm, hardened doors and windows. I'm not sure of the disadvantage of leaving it in an easy to get to safe unless you are planning on carrying it on you or having a gun in every room. My safe takes about 5 seconds to open.
@@brindlebot I respect your opinion and some things you said do have a degree of validity. It can be more dangerous to have a loaded gun at your bedside. However, unless you have children or other people that can't be trusted coming in and out of your room in the middle of night, I don't see an issue there. But if you have to wake up in the middle of the night because you hear something, you will still be drowsy, and you could give away your position by making noise walking to your safe and trying to open it. Not to mention, under high stress you may have issues opening the safe in a timely manner. There precious seconds that are used to get to the safe and open it, retrieve the firearm, should be used to gather intel on the intruders position and/or contacting law enforcement. Cheers.
@@09764312468 If I lived in a really dangerous high crime area I'd definitely give more credence to your view than to brindlebot's. However if you're in a safe suburban environment with very low crime, and have children at home I'd say his view is more valid. The risks outrank the benefits. It depends on your individual situation. Most random burglars are not heavily armed and often are very afraid of running into people when they break into homes, even if they don't have guns. Facing someone with a gun would really be considered a very bad situation for them which they would not be able to defend. Unless you live in a really bad place like South Africa.
When I met my wife I was shooting clays, hunting, playing sports and building shit. Married her and knocked her ass up on the third try and raised an incredible kid. Through the years I gave up shooting, hunting, playing sports and building shit. One day she left me for a guy who was shooting, hunting, playing sports and building shit.
Yes. But I think the point is if you’re truly a team you both should understand that even though work takes up all your time. You will always end up in bed together. With loyalty faithfulness and integrity. Hard part is finding that partner that understands that. “Do the work.”
I work around a bunch of men. It always amazes me when one of them asks their wife for permission to do something. I’m married and we have nine kids and I still don’t ask permission. All I do is ask if there are any conflicts on the calendar when I want to plan something. If there are none, I tell her to not plan anything that would conflict with what I want to do.
Awesome Rich. I just turned down a beautiful lady the other day, just this same stuff. Wanted to lock me into what she wanted and negotiated slightly in my direction, but that would equal resentment later and I could see that coming, or a bargaining chip.. It hurt but I had to protect my future and find someone more suitable. Your saving a lot of men from misery Rich and this vid is gold.
Playing the drums. I've developed my own shit tests for potential women. I ask them about their tastes in music and tell them I play. If I'm not satisfied with the response they're done.
My hobby is playing guitar. Soon after getting married I told my wife about a cool guitar at the music store. A day or two later she told me told me that I should buy it for myself. I went to the store a few days later to buy but it was sold. When Christmas came around she pulled it out because she had bought it for me from her retirement fund. Many years later she wanted French doors on the open game room. I put them in. She said that by doing it myself we saved so much money that I should buy myself a new guitar. I didn’t get around to it so for Christmas she bought me the guitar I told my son about. This is the kind of woman you want forever. We’ve been married 32 years. Through ups and downs we are partners in life.
I didn't stop my hobbies so when we broke up my life continued without any big difference to be honest. Just that I could keep my house clean living alone:)
My ex would go out with his friends every weekend. I usually asked him to stay because his friends were all single and would use these trips to meet women. I found out he had been cheating on me on almost every trip with different women.
Great vid ... I was with a dummy that isolated me from my friends and hobbies ... guilt trips and accusations of cheating ... come to find out she was sneaking away with ‘old friends’ behind my back... what a 304 ... right hubro?...
Im so glad I found your channel you put out great messages and info Im going to continue to watch, a few monthes I took the blackpill its been a dark winter for me.
Been in a marriage before ; I know exactly what this is like . You do stop doing all the stuff you did before without really realizing it . Also its not much point in doing the things with "her" as its obviously not the same and it wont last . Been there before done all that with gym , sports / activiites etc . She just wont be into it ; thee complaining / objections start coming out etc . One good this to do if you come out of a ltr / marriage is get back to doing all those things again that you used to do . One quick way of settling the issue when she starts it , just say " Do I stop you doing things you like to do with or with out your friends ? " . " When have I ever expressed issues with things you do " ? Here is the clincher ... " What right do you have to treat me that way ?" ( I dont treat you that way so you will not treat me that way ) If she doesnt shut up , kick her out
If the man you are after betatization is unattractive to women, why do they put you through it? I agree that it's unattractive to them, so it doesn't make sense why they begin that process. Do they understand it's hurting the relationship and their own happiness?
After a long day of work i like getting online and gaming with friends to chill and mainly just have a good time and have conversations. I've had guys get with women and now they rarely game. Ive known guys who got rid of their gaming systems because she doesnt like him on games. It starts out with them gaming while shes at work and as soon as she gets home they get off immediately. Then they cater to her needs and dont have time for guy friends.
True I've play in bands and when women think they are in control of me they tell me I should grow up and stop music . The very reason they wanted to get their claws into me ! Unrea!!!l and I've always blew them out right then .
Anyone who is not focused on themselves, and are worried about or telling you what you should be doing with your life, say adios, see ya later. There only going to bring you down, and keep you stuck in life...SBN
This happened to me for a while. It was a little bit my wife. And a WHOLE lot of the toxic people we were surrounded by. Trash people destroy beneficial activities for other people because making you a looser is how they look good.
Women hate it when you spend time with your boys. They are wired to be jealous IMO. Any time spent on a hobby or with a buddy is labeled "toxic behavior."
Normally agree, but the comment about "your gun should be locked in a safe," comment needs push-back. That's literally the betatization of then anti-gun (almost entirely feminist/liberal) movement and philosophy. What use is a locked up gun in an emergency? "Hang on intruder, let me go unlock my safe, get the gun, get the separately stored ammo, load the gun....". No. NO. NO.
A classic case, Meghan Markle made a prince abandon his royalty and family. The question i like to ask is if she didn't want that lifestyle why didn't she find a man that wasn't a prince??
I probably have too many hobbies though. I work a decent full-time job and as a farrier making 50% of the full-time jobs gross. I sing and play guitar, sometimes at the bar my Dad goes to (doing some of his dad's songs). I do some martial arts (these days not competitive, especially not full contact anymore) I call it health defense. I definitely like to shoot cowboy guns and ride horses (in my younger days was a bull rider). For the last few years have given up all forms of socializing to finish my Certified Journeyman Farrier which is equivalent to a Bachelor Degree as a farrier from the college in England, but after I finish (hopefully in less than another year) I plan on resuming dating. Have always had a hard time saying no. It does seem to me that I do a little too much.
IMO it was a division of labor that created the difference between men and women (obviously genetics is part of it); men hunted, needed to communicate with out talking, create strategies and build tools for the hunt, whereas women were tilling the fields, planting crops and taking care of the children. Farming is boring so you talk to pass the time, you're surrounded by other women in the tribe, who bring personal stories back the next day with other women and discuss to again, stave off the boredom. It's not like women did nothing and just sat around yapping all day waiting for the men to come home. Regardless of the sensible distain for women, all your points are spot on. It's amazing to me that men don't think this way; p**sy is good, but it ain't THAT good. Take the time to build yourself up into someone reminiscent of the heroes of old, then you'll smash all p**sy you want. Same old story, failure = growth.
Safes don't make boomsticks safer. 1) It is out of your reach when it takes seconds to die. 2) With proper training, including all family members, boomsticks become just another tool at your disposal. I grew up around boomsticks and we never had a safe. It's all upbringing
This I why I might never marry and I'm okay with it. I refuse to stop going to the gym, hiking with the boys, doing metalwork and woodworking, playing video games on the weekend for an hour or two with the boys. I like having my space. I just cant do it.
It’s ok to sacrifice for someone who is important to you. Just decide what you’re willing to give up and if she’s actually worth it. A woman should enhance your life and not take from it.
I dont know if you will answer this, I hope you will. My husband and I have been together for over 20 years. I dont have any problem with what kind of hobbies he chooses to do or who his male friends are. Saying that, he chose to have an affair with a coworker. I do have a problem with him remaining friends with her. In his opinion that makes me controlling and he says I am choosing his friends for him. I was just curious what your opinion would be on this subject.
i think all the sitcoms provide a huge disservice through "guidance" to men that it's "inevitable" to be a henpecked loser in relationships, because hey, everybody is like that and that way you're at least with that hot smart independent girl instead of being a fat loser ordering pizza every night. for me, i decided; anyone who was there before the wamen has more say; all my close friends, my ma, my family. they ppl who would take a bullet for me. and i for them, so no way someone can just waltz in and for a p-sleeve think she has all the say. i plan to go to Turkey and Lebanon to visit my besties i haven seen for years. it's a plan foryears in the making and you better believe im going and not taking the waifu with me. plans are made while she wasnt around and im simply going. no fillers, no commisaries. btw. my friends in turkey and leb are female. if it breaks over THAT, then it's better off broken now cause it wasnt worth much in the first place. secondly: i find personal comfort a great guiding light to deal with betazation. no, i dont want it because it brings me discomfort. end of story.
A friend of mine, now in his late 50s, got it right. He’s divorced and is now in a LTR and his gf lives with him. When she moved in with him he made clear from the beginning that it’s his house, his land, they’ll have separate bank accounts, don’t tell him how to spend his money and don’t ever, ever bring up the ‘M’ word. They both work and have different days off. He goes off-roading and hunting on his days off and she would complain that she wanted him home to spend time with him when he was off. He put his foot down and told her not to ever tell him what to do with his time and if she doesn’t like it she can leave. He got it right.
Sounds entitled to me. At some point, what is even in it for her? Sounds like you guys think that women should just go die. Do you guys even like women?
"Whenever someone starts imposing their beliefs on you, it's time to leave." After "you should keep guns in a safe." Canadians shouldn't give gun advice
so true I learned this at a young age, I remember when I was like 20 I was dating a 22 year old model I met at a gym, she was not only hot but a good person. She liked the fact that I worked 6 days a week, I lifted, I boxed, I skateboarded I made music, I had friends. And when I had time to hang out she would always be all over me, but as soon as I fell in love boom! I stop chilling with my homies, I lose my job, car breaks down no money to fix it haha sell my skate bored , no new music made... then I tell her I love her for the first time!! then I got ghosted hahah I was red pilled at 21.
Best learning early !
i was redpilled in highschool. the bitch was giving me lap dances to hook me up and when we started giving eachother more of our time and resources she started banning me from talking to other girls that i GREW UP WITH, no lap dances, baggy clothes, she became a slob. dumped her and she entered a depression
My favorite one is being a car guy. "Oh thats so cool I love it!" To months later "we cant spend money on that" etc
Start meditating my friend
Damn, sorry to hear brother
"Never sell the boat or you can't fish" Brilliant!
Patrice O'Neal the legend
Patrice O’Neal is a god!!!!
“The happiest day of a boat owner is the day they buy and the day they sell.”
They forget to mention all those awesome trips in between.
Agreed, only part I'm having trouble on is finding quality guys to have a friendship with. The only guys that I've ever been friends with have had bad habits and turned into losers, so I cut them off.
Nailed it dude, I've got the same problem guys I've known for 20 years have become simps, or really whiny thin skinned betas. In the gym you make a joking comment like "come on dude my grandmother can squat that", I half expect them to start crying in a corner.
@@brokenbutterfly3178 better alone than with people who will bring you down.
Never be afraid to roll solo and work on being the best version of yourself. Add only those who enhance your life, male or female.
JShel100 yes! Living that right the fuck now.
Unfortunately... my friends did not do well and smoke and drink a lot and play video games all day but it's hard to cut them off. They're like my friends since high school. I feel like sometimes though they try to bring me down on their level coz i did well in life.
*I've experienced something similar but on a very interesting side road to this. I've noticed many of my friends and co-workers who marry, slowly disassociate themselves from me. It's quite apparent that wives don't like their husbands hanging around with other men who are single. I've confronted a couple of married men about this and they were very defensive and denied that it was true.*
*So, I asked them how many of their own friends are single. They said none. I gave them the knowing that I'm right look which embarrassed them that I proved that they were being controlled by their wives, which is subconsciously emasculating to a man. It's very sad and disheartening.*
I was married ; became single again ; moved away and made new friends . I got the same thing . As friends all got wifed up or GF up they had no time for me any more or though I was " wrong " somehow or that " I didnt fit in " etc .
It was like why dont you get with someone , settle down etc ?
Im like , yeah been there , done that . Its not for me , maybe I´ll change my mind or not but Im ok as I am
Some even said they couldnt understand wanting to be " alone " as they put it and some even thought was I gay ?!?!
Which Im not . I just woke up and started red pilling , thats all . Work on myself , chase excellence not women etc .
I am an avid amateur road cyclist who does long 100-150km trips 2-3 times a week, especially this time in the summer, with some cyclist group or solo.
I met an old friend for beers whom I haven't seen in ages due to lockdown and he brought his new GF.
I told him what I do for fun with my bike. He told me "you'll see you won't be able to do whatever you want anymore when you will get a GF yourself, you won't be going riding your bike , you won't be doing that anymore". Of course she was present. I just smiled.
That's so sad that he actually thinks that way
Can you tell me more about road cycling? How to get into it? Gear? Can you lift with that volume of cycling?
@@oiseo4498 you can do both but you'll be mediocre at both then. They're opposite sports that, for the most part, negatively effect each other
@@tubbyrainbow111 i disagree brother. You just need to keep your diet in check and you can be amazing at both. Look up greg doucette, man's been lifting 30+ years and is in love with cycling. He's pretty huge and jacked. Only thing is he's on gear but that doesnt take away from the point
My girl sometimes gives me shit for going on weekend photography trips because she'll have nothing to do when I'm gone. I don't know how to kindly say her boredom and entertainment is not my responsibility.
Dude, run to the hill 😅
Just tell her man
Tell her to get a hobby.
@@seansoukup2133 Telling her won't change a thing. SHe'll just start resenting him for telling her "she's not good enough for him".
invite her?
Good example: Prince Harry & Meghan Markle. She isolated him from all his family, guy military mates, friends, hobbies. She turned a Prince into a beta simp. Very sad. . .
how do you know this? do u know Prince Harry?
@@Spawny500 all of this is very obvious to pick up from the news.
@@whirled_peas yea, ur right. after all, the news is always right
Thank you so much for making this video! I am a woman with brothers and I always tell my brothers to work on themselves, be strong and alpha and never negotiate with a woman and to never let a woman make your schedule (I have seen this way too many times)! I always tell my brothers to never to chase women and most women are not worth your time, that while there are good women out there (maybe 5% of the female population?), that they should be VERY selective and never give up your hobbies, goals, friends, dreams for a woman!
One of the hobbies I have noticed women are into is looking at their man as a restoration refurbishment project, they can look at their man like a man may look at a damaged high performance sports car in a scrap yard. Men don't look at women this way but women seem to think if they can fix you according to their blue print that you will be eternally grateful and get ownership of you. I have not seen any clips on this but it is deffinately something to look out for as a red flag.
I was widowed a year and a half ago. Restarted the hobbies I put by the wayside. Started several more. The ones I kept going got ramped up. No woman will make me give them up. Retirement and monk mode is great!
I used to collect comics , i still do , first time my now ex wife sees the comics , all nicely displayed and cared for she says well they'll have to go.
Met another woman and this time she called my MacFarlane figurine collection " dollies " .
Both women gone , still have my figurines, comics , house , guitars, all my stuff , stuff that says ME .
I love women , but now i am wise to the shit tests and my hobbies , friends , beliefs , interests are and always will be mine .
Any woman that does not get that gets gone .
Peace & love.
Been following Rich for years. He is like the father I never had. Not that my father is not a good man. He worked his ass off and provided for his family, but he wasn't knowledgeable in the skills it takes to get through the changing tides of today. Thanks man
Weird how they don’t know it.
I point it out to them all the time. Shuts em up and I get to do what I want.
I've been into model railroad, scale model plastic kits, and electronics since childhood.
My ex wife went on and on about what geeky hobbies I have - I also like to hunt and keep fit.
Plus she found fault with all my friends.
Needless to say I still enjoy all my hobbies and she is long gone.
The thing that cracks me up is that she has no interests at all apart from watching movies.
Many women like that .I had one like that as well. Needless to say she is gone . I started back all the stuff I used to do or found new things etc
Women come and go, but hobbies and friends are being around much longer.
Probably one of THE most important pieces of content to hear!
Ive made this mistake more times than I care to remember! Gus, fishing, trap, cars, weights, friends etc.
Then comes misery and so I end the relationship. After that, it takes me a year or more to get my shit together and back to a happy place. Then I’d repeat. I finally got it... embarrassed to say it took me so long. I was beta no doubt! My hope is others learn from my mistakes. Stay strong and love yourself! Self-care is so important for true happiness! I was always looking for a woman to fulfill me. So many years wasted! I’ve found peace like I’ve never known! At 55 this is the absolute happiest I’ve ever been. I’d rather die alone vs die miserable! Get a dog... unconditional love 😂
Never give up good friendships and hobbies for a relationship because if she leaves you're alone and missed out on the great experiences you could've had during that time. Before the video started this is what came to mind after just reading the title
Lots of respect from zimbabwe
I was only engaged once and my ex-fiancee demanded that I get rid of all my music
related stuff (instruments, recording equipment) and she also demanded that I get
sell all my baseball trophies and sports paraphernalia to buy her an engagement ring.
I ended up hiding all my stuff in a storage unit and bought her a ring but didn't sell
anything as she demanded and once she believed that I did sell everything, she started
dating a new guy. She eventually got caught cheating.
Once I broke off the engagement, I took my stuff out of storage and put it all in my new
apartment. She found out that I never sold anything, she flipped out like I never saw in
my whole life. At first I just called her out on her hypocrisy but then I realized what was
going on in her mind... she didn't want me to have a life after she left and when she saw
that I did, (and that I was spinning plates again while playing live shows with a new band
on the weekends) she was devastated and said I 'betrayed her'.......Imagine that..
After that horrible experience, I never gave up any hobbies for women ever again.
I put hobbies before women on a list of importance. If the fact that I have a "life" bothers
a woman, she can take a long walk off a short plank in a cold deep ocean.
When I was around 20, I loved lifting weights, fitness, sports etc. Then one toxic person entered my life and told me to focus on her instead of lifting weights or fixing my diet. Now 5 years later, I gained 30 kg, overweight and depressed and she got married to a older guy (hypergamy). Never off guard. I am from Bangladesh and yeah hypergamy exist here too. I wish I got red pilled back in 2014-15
Thing is though , you know now . Learn and move forward
I’m 49, it’s impossible to get friends out for a drink.
One guy wanted to sync calendars with me, to see when he was free.
I told him, I’m not interested in your crappy calendar.
Tell your wife your going out!
The first long term relationship I was in was with a low value single mother with an Absolutely Deplorable set of two kids. I wasn't Red Pilled yet and didn't value myself anywhere near enough! I stuck with her for 11 years because of feminist blue pilled brainwashing. Sayings like: _"A good Man wouldn't abandon her"_ and _"A good Man would stay and make it work"._ These are sayings & expressions I've nicknamed "the Noble Lies". Anyway, that was all before finding out what women and women's true female nature truly are.
I have always loved Martial Arts, is the thing. While I was with this abysmal train wreck of a single mother family, I got back in training. I'm a Kenpo Practitioner, myself. I was again loving & enjoying my life when I was away from her and her wretched, out of control kids, see?!
I think it was around approximately year 7 of the LTR with her that her son started really screwing up in school and in life. She one day tried to pin his ridiculous behavior problems on me saying that maybe if I took more interest in him, he'd be the polar opposite of what he is currently. That maybe he'd actually be a good person! _It couldn't possibly be because she Absolutely refused to be a competent mother, parent, and disciplinarian to the little darling!_ She that day tried to push the idea that we all need to go to family counseling and that I might actually need to give up going to Kenpo classes on certain nights in order to make this _"family"_ a successful, happy family! Without missing a beat, I very succinctly said no to giving up my Kenpo nights. Ironically, this actually caused her to stay with me for another 4+ years! I did the Alpha, Red Pilled thing by happy accident! I stood up for what I'm going to do for me!
Besides, I knew fully well her wretched little monster's behavior was HER fault, and had nothing to do with me! He was an out of control, spoiled, entitled little piece of trash and was only growing bigger!
Lolz!
Never give up a single thing you do as a pursuit of yours for some woman! . . . . . . And then of course, NEVER have anything to do with single mothers!
👤
Man , copyright the " noble lies " you've hit on something there.
Great post. Well done.
Love the noble lies titles. I’m gonna use that. Thanks
She said it was her or the plane. I replied, "Clear prop!" x"D
Hi Rich, FYI I am a huge fan of Shawn T. Smith and his analysis of Hypergamy. After watching several videos years ago I always questioned whether hypergamy was real. It wasn’t until my X asked me one simple question that led me to the realization that it was very real. One day she randomly asked me “what do you want to accomplish in ten years?” so my response was “I want to be a black belt in Brazilian jiu-jitsu” and she was so dumbfounded and made it seem like I had no other plans or aspirations. She then said to me “that’s it? How could that be all you want to do?” And that to me was when I fully understood what hypergamy was. It had nothing to do with what my dreams and aspirations were but how my sentence could provide financially. It turned into a huge argument regarding what I wanted to do with my life and the choices I was making in my adulthood. It ended in me breaking up with her because I didn’t want someone else dictating the terms of my life and how I should live it. In my opinion every man has an obligation to self defense and the fact that someone would come into my life and belittle my hobby was a clear cut sign that it was never about my hobbies but what I can provide.
Truer words couldn't have been spoken. My father was playing football (soccer) in his 20s. He loved it and wanted to make a career out of it. That changed when he prioritized my mother's goals to make a family and "settle down". I can see that he is still bitter about it and I have learned from his mistake.
Hobbies like fishing, gym, martial arts and so on are healthy and normal.
No healthy relationship survives if one or the other has no interests or hobbies outside of the relationship.
It's so important to have time apart with separate groups.
This happen to my dad.
He used to hunt
Used to ride motorcycle
Used to play hockey with the lads
Used to listen to folk rock bands
She made him into a plough horse. Had 8 kids and counting.
She would have kept going but the cancer that killed her also sterilized her.
When you talk about how it is unattractive to say yes. Being disagreeable THE trait of a leader. To lead you MUST be disagreeable
Deer season in my state runs from Sept to Dec.
I've told women ( and some employers ) thats what I do , it is what it is, take it or leave it.
Funny, the women end up bragging to their friends about how " dedicated " I am to hunting and the drive I have to put in the time it takes.
From co workers and bosses , I get the " must be nice " sarcastic envy, cause I use MY vaction time on MY terms.
One of the most important lessons a young man needs to learn is that "women want to be the sole reason for your happiness" and she will slowly strip away anything and everything you enjoy, until you are no longer the man she is attracted too, but what she doesn't realize is that the fruits of your labor is what she was attracted to in the first place. So for example, If you're a gearhead and you like working on your car, all of a sudden the car is getting too much attention and now the car's a problem and she says something along the lines of "you're so passionate about that car, you act as if it's another woman". So you give up working on your car and you sell it, the next thing you know you have a minivan and a few years later she leaves you because you're not the man she married you don't even have a sports car anymore, I used to love it when we would go for rides in your car, like when we first met. Now don't get me wrong, if you have a bunch of kids and you need a minivan, then get the minivan, but you don't get rid of your sports car just because shes jealous of it.
Men need hobbies. She needs her interests also.
Usually ones designed and chosem to piss him off or worry him.
With all do respect I think the same advice goes for ladies. Don’t give up hobbies for a man. If I go to a step class at the gym three times a week I’m not going to stop once I’m in a relationship. Maybe my step class is at dinner time and I could easily want to make dinner for my man and just chill at home. I go with compromise make dinner twice a week. Gym dance class twice a week
Makes me think of Prince Harry and how he gave up hunting because of Megan.
True but he has done more than that . It will dawn on him sooner or later. Even from the view of the press reading between the lines . You can see what is going on and how he is being worn down , isolated from his family etc.
.... I share your videos far and wide.... Thanks for another masterpiece !!!
“You have a gun in the house...which should be locked in the safe by the way”
Haha that’s a funny joke
Thank you for making the clips channel..
I told my gf many years ago to never, ever try to get in the way of my hobbies. They make me happy. I can’t be a good partner if I’m not happy.
Love these shorts clips 👍🏻
I too made the mistake of skipping our annual man trips for 4 years while in a 5 year relationship. Big mistake....one I will never make again. Keep your frame gentlemen. Keep your lifestyle and allow her to be a compliment to it. If your a sucker like I was, them you will allow her to make you feel bad for things like this.
This podcast is gold and should be treated as such....💯💯💯💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
"They can't make a four days trip because they wifed up."
And people still wonder why I am so happy without a committed relationship
Lol, Natalie from 90 Days Fiancee comes to mind...as in women men should avoid because of what you discussed above about women who impose their values and beliefs on men.
Gotta disagree about guns being in a safe. Too much time to grab when you need it. BUT a gun or AMMO should always be in a safe when children are in that home. Just my 2 cents.
Secure your perimeter - plenty of time to get it. Nobody is getting though my door or window in less than a minute without a lot of noise.
@@brindlebot you are wildly unrealistic. If you value your security and can legally defend yourself with firearms in your home, have it prepared and ready.
Hi ALM, its ready in the safe. The risk (not in a safe) of an accident outweighs the advantage to me. I've spent some time and money with outer perimeter alarm, house perimeter alarm, hardened doors and windows. I'm not sure of the disadvantage of leaving it in an easy to get to safe unless you are planning on carrying it on you or having a gun in every room. My safe takes about 5 seconds to open.
@@brindlebot I respect your opinion and some things you said do have a degree of validity. It can be more dangerous to have a loaded gun at your bedside. However, unless you have children or other people that can't be trusted coming in and out of your room in the middle of night, I don't see an issue there. But if you have to wake up in the middle of the night because you hear something, you will still be drowsy, and you could give away your position by making noise walking to your safe and trying to open it. Not to mention, under high stress you may have issues opening the safe in a timely manner. There precious seconds that are used to get to the safe and open it, retrieve the firearm, should be used to gather intel on the intruders position and/or contacting law enforcement. Cheers.
@@09764312468 If I lived in a really dangerous high crime area I'd definitely give more credence to your view than to brindlebot's.
However if you're in a safe suburban environment with very low crime, and have children at home I'd say his view is more valid. The risks outrank the benefits.
It depends on your individual situation.
Most random burglars are not heavily armed and often are very afraid of running into people when they break into homes, even if they don't have guns. Facing someone with a gun would really be considered a very bad situation for them which they would not be able to defend. Unless you live in a really bad place like South Africa.
Being a car guy I can relate.
When I met my wife I was shooting clays, hunting, playing sports and building shit. Married her and knocked her ass up on the third try and raised an incredible kid. Through the years I gave up shooting, hunting, playing sports and building shit. One day she left me for a guy who was shooting, hunting, playing sports and building shit.
The work place is so demanding nowadays that people disconnect with each other because their jobs take up all their time 🤷🏽♂️
Yes. But I think the point is if you’re truly a team you both should understand that even though work takes up all your time. You will always end up in bed together. With loyalty faithfulness and integrity.
Hard part is finding that partner that understands that.
“Do the work.”
i have had some in the past try that with me . i will never give up working out and video games for a women that doesnt like either of those things
I work around a bunch of men. It always amazes me when one of them asks their wife for permission to do something. I’m married and we have nine kids and I still don’t ask permission. All I do is ask if there are any conflicts on the calendar when I want to plan something. If there are none, I tell her to not plan anything that would conflict with what I want to do.
Awesome Rich.
I just turned down a beautiful lady the other day, just this same stuff.
Wanted to lock me into what she wanted and negotiated slightly in my direction, but that would equal resentment later and I could see that coming, or a bargaining chip..
It hurt but I had to protect my future and find someone more suitable.
Your saving a lot of men from misery Rich and this vid is gold.
Great video Rich, I love your stuff
Playing the drums. I've developed my own shit tests for potential women. I ask them about their tastes in music and tell them I play. If I'm not satisfied with the response they're done.
My hobby is playing guitar. Soon after getting married I told my wife about a cool guitar at the music store. A day or two later she told me told me that I should buy it for myself. I went to the store a few days later to buy but it was sold. When Christmas came around she pulled it out because she had bought it for me from her retirement fund.
Many years later she wanted French doors on the open game room. I put them in. She said that by doing it myself we saved so much money that I should buy myself a new guitar. I didn’t get around to it so for Christmas she bought me the guitar I told my son about.
This is the kind of woman you want forever. We’ve been married 32 years. Through ups and downs we are partners in life.
Oh my God dude!! The first few seconds you just described my brother.
I didn't stop my hobbies so when we broke up my life continued without any big difference to be honest. Just that I could keep my house clean living alone:)
My ex would go out with his friends every weekend. I usually asked him to stay because his friends were all single and would use these trips to meet women. I found out he had been cheating on me on almost every trip with different women.
Sounds like you picked up a loser.
I like the Patrice O’Neil boat joke
Patrice was the man - Men are grizzly bears and woman are salmon covered in honey
Best example of this is what Markle has done to Prince Harry. In record time too!!
Great vid ... I was with a dummy that isolated me from my friends and hobbies ... guilt trips and accusations of cheating ... come to find out she was sneaking away with ‘old friends’ behind my back... what a 304 ... right hubro?...
Im so glad I found your channel you put out great messages and info Im going to continue to watch, a few monthes I took the blackpill its been a dark winter for me.
And the love for your children is the anchor they tie your boat down with.
Betatization by a thousand concessions. Good book tittle
Been in a marriage before ; I know exactly what this is like . You do stop doing all the stuff you did before without really realizing it . Also its not much point in doing the things with "her" as its obviously not the same and it wont last . Been there before done all that with gym , sports / activiites etc . She just wont be into it ; thee complaining / objections start coming out etc .
One good this to do if you come out of a ltr / marriage is get back to doing all those things again that you used to do .
One quick way of settling the issue when she starts it , just say " Do I stop you doing things you like to do with or with out your friends ? " . " When have I ever expressed issues with things you do " ? Here is the clincher ... " What right do you have to treat me that way ?" ( I dont treat you that way so you will not treat me that way ) If she doesnt shut up , kick her out
Thank you Rich
If the man you are after betatization is unattractive to women, why do they put you through it? I agree that it's unattractive to them, so it doesn't make sense why they begin that process. Do they understand it's hurting the relationship and their own happiness?
My guy had no hobbies I begged him to get a hobby but he said no so i gave up years ago 🤷♀️
Stay on your path and purpose and don't be a yes man or woman in this case to her.
After a long day of work i like getting online and gaming with friends to chill and mainly just have a good time and have conversations. I've had guys get with women and now they rarely game. Ive known guys who got rid of their gaming systems because she doesnt like him on games. It starts out with them gaming while shes at work and as soon as she gets home they get off immediately. Then they cater to her needs and dont have time for guy friends.
Chris rock never scared
True I've play in bands and when women think they are in control of me they tell me I should grow up and stop music . The very reason they wanted to get their claws into me ! Unrea!!!l and I've always blew them out right then .
Anyone who is not focused on themselves, and are worried about or telling you what you should be doing with your life, say adios, see ya later. There only going to bring you down, and keep you stuck in life...SBN
Many of my friedns look like they are being castrated after they got a girlfriedn or wife. It saddened me.
Restoring my classic cars and motorcycles are my life and no women will come between my passions.
This happened to me for a while. It was a little bit my wife. And a WHOLE lot of the toxic people we were surrounded by. Trash people destroy beneficial activities for other people because making you a looser is how they look good.
Good stuff Rich. Respect brother!
Practice saying NO to your woman, your friends, other people at least once a month!
Women hate it when you spend time with your boys. They are wired to be jealous IMO. Any time spent on a hobby or with a buddy is labeled "toxic behavior."
Women when you're still single: I like guys with motorcycles.
Women once you start dating: Motorcycles are too dangerous. I think you should sell it.
You are right, have seen in a lot, those men turned into beta not willing to face her and express his needs.
Normally agree, but the comment about "your gun should be locked in a safe," comment needs push-back. That's literally the betatization of then anti-gun (almost entirely feminist/liberal) movement and philosophy. What use is a locked up gun in an emergency? "Hang on intruder, let me go unlock my safe, get the gun, get the separately stored ammo, load the gun....". No. NO. NO.
7:45 I see youre familiar with the Patrice Oneal stand up bit!
A classic case, Meghan Markle made a prince abandon his royalty and family. The question i like to ask is if she didn't want that lifestyle why didn't she find a man that wasn't a prince??
She made him sell his high end guns. She keeps his testicles in a lock box in the bank.
I probably have too many hobbies though. I work a decent full-time job and as a farrier making 50% of the full-time jobs gross. I sing and play guitar, sometimes at the bar my Dad goes to (doing some of his dad's songs). I do some martial arts (these days not competitive, especially not full contact anymore) I call it health defense. I definitely like to shoot cowboy guns and ride horses (in my younger days was a bull rider). For the last few years have given up all forms of socializing to finish my Certified Journeyman Farrier which is equivalent to a Bachelor Degree as a farrier from the college in England, but after I finish (hopefully in less than another year) I plan on resuming dating. Have always had a hard time saying no. It does seem to me that I do a little too much.
hey Rich try a trip to Tamagami something sacred about this spot. God bless amigo
IMO it was a division of labor that created the difference between men and women (obviously genetics is part of it); men hunted, needed to communicate with out talking, create strategies and build tools for the hunt, whereas women were tilling the fields, planting crops and taking care of the children. Farming is boring so you talk to pass the time, you're surrounded by other women in the tribe, who bring personal stories back the next day with other women and discuss to again, stave off the boredom. It's not like women did nothing and just sat around yapping all day waiting for the men to come home. Regardless of the sensible distain for women, all your points are spot on. It's amazing to me that men don't think this way; p**sy is good, but it ain't THAT good. Take the time to build yourself up into someone reminiscent of the heroes of old, then you'll smash all p**sy you want. Same old story, failure = growth.
So Good Rich. 100% true.
Safes don't make boomsticks safer. 1) It is out of your reach when it takes seconds to die. 2) With proper training, including all family members, boomsticks become just another tool at your disposal. I grew up around boomsticks and we never had a safe. It's all upbringing
Jeezzz Rich.. you always come down hard on vegans. We aint all that bad.
All men need hobbies and friends to help them escape the nagging wife at home.
I wish I found your channel 10 years ago
Stopped playing slow pitch softball and gave up martial arts when I dated my ex-wife. Of course, she cheated in the end 😂 fucking lesson learned
Certain Women compliment our lives, but they do not complete it!
We lose lots of skilled and talented men over here in Australia due to men being put under the thumb of their women,
"gun should be locked in a safe". lol ok that's stupid . What you gonna do if someone breaks in? Hold on let me open my safe first?!?!
This I why I might never marry and I'm okay with it. I refuse to stop going to the gym, hiking with the boys, doing metalwork and woodworking, playing video games on the weekend for an hour or two with the boys. I like having my space. I just cant do it.
It’s ok to sacrifice for someone who is important to you. Just decide what you’re willing to give up and if she’s actually worth it. A woman should enhance your life and not take from it.
@@dantan1249 exactly. If she is high valued girl, she won't stop you to enjoy your life.
I dont know if you will answer this, I hope you will. My husband and I have been together for over 20 years. I dont have any problem with what kind of hobbies he chooses to do or who his male friends are. Saying that, he chose to have an affair with a coworker. I do have a problem with him remaining friends with her. In his opinion that makes me controlling and he says I am choosing his friends for him. I was just curious what your opinion would be on this subject.
That's a major NO - should be obvious @Andrea Kurjata - Know your self worth
I hope you left him!
The love of my life will be bigger than one Woman.
i think all the sitcoms provide a huge disservice through "guidance" to men that it's "inevitable" to be a henpecked loser in relationships, because hey, everybody is like that and that way you're at least with that hot smart independent girl instead of being a fat loser ordering pizza every night.
for me, i decided; anyone who was there before the wamen has more say; all my close friends, my ma, my family. they ppl who would take a bullet for me. and i for them, so no way someone can just waltz in and for a p-sleeve think she has all the say.
i plan to go to Turkey and Lebanon to visit my besties i haven seen for years. it's a plan foryears in the making and you better believe im going and not taking the waifu with me. plans are made while she wasnt around and im simply going. no fillers, no commisaries. btw. my friends in turkey and leb are female. if it breaks over THAT, then it's better off broken now cause it wasnt worth much in the first place.
secondly: i find personal comfort a great guiding light to deal with betazation. no, i dont want it because it brings me discomfort. end of story.
Turkey is an amazing country .
Be well .
Best take that safe with you in the back country you know for safty
A friend of mine, now in his late 50s, got it right. He’s divorced and is now in a LTR and his gf lives with him. When she moved in with him he made clear from the beginning that it’s his house, his land, they’ll have separate bank accounts, don’t tell him how to spend his money and don’t ever, ever bring up the ‘M’ word. They both work and have different days off. He goes off-roading and hunting on his days off and she would complain that she wanted him home to spend time with him when he was off. He put his foot down and told her not to ever tell him what to do with his time and if she doesn’t like it she can leave. He got it right.
Sounds entitled to me. At some point, what is even in it for her? Sounds like you guys think that women should just go die. Do you guys even like women?
"Whenever someone starts imposing their beliefs on you, it's time to leave." After "you should keep guns in a safe." Canadians shouldn't give gun advice
Wife: "Do you have to go hunting with guys this weekend?"
Husband: "I don't know. Do you have to go to the soap with the girls this weekend?"