Toxic Relationships In Thailand, Bipolar, Narcissism, Violence, Selfishness 🇹🇭
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- Toxic Relationships In Thailand, Bipolar, Narcissism, Violence, Selfishness 🇹🇭
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Hope ur doin ok Danny Boy. Im sure u arr fine bcuz William is happy. Ur the man. Dont u dare feel bad because u canyt responde to everybody !!! If some fellas are that selfish and EMOTIONALLY GREEDY thats their problem !!!! Time for them to growup!!! High school is over. Thanx again Dan !
For perhaps hundreds of years, people always said the current generation of young people has it the easiest. But now, I would say that it must really suck to be in your teens or twenties in the West nowadays. Mental illness is rampant, social media has poisoned their minds, school environments are in decay, future career options seem bleak and its incredibly expensive to buy a house or raise a family and younger women act like aggressive men.
No in civilization this stuff is limited. Their just a putrid dumb race and breed
Agree with all. Especially career prospects, low wages, ridiculous rents and stratospheric house prices in many countries.
Very true sir🫡
- Thai culture places a strong emphasis on family and filial obligations. As a result, you may be expected to financially support her family or be heavily involved in their affairs, which can be a source of tension and conflict in the marriage.
true, globalism is directly responsible, those with certain self serving globalistic agendas,,
After living in Thailand for 19 years, ( 4 years in a small Isaan town) I have come to a conclusion that many Thais are not true Buddhists- it’s just a ritual of making “good merit” at the community temple. No sermons / reminders from the monks how to strive for a good moral character or handle social issues ( excessive drinking, wife abuse, drug addiction, responsibility of raising children, unwanted pregnancy…) The monks only want money for their vanity wat projects. Many Thais look at the Buddhist rituals for gaining good luck. No value system is introduced to the temple’s congregation.
Excellent comment from someone who clearly knows.
Yes sir, great observation. I felt something was off with the current general Buddhist culture that l have observed. You really nailed it.
Glad someone is saying this.
Yea 16 years in country and I agree. Morals and values don't exist in most under 40, and as you say, the older ones do it for luck. The monks just chant and eat free food. The whole world is in the tank tho. Western rot has moved in. Much different a decade ago.
This type of atheism is spreading very quickly and probably culture and religion is seperating and in another generation or two will be even worse.
I agree, and it isn’t just Thailand. This sponsorship monthly payment to these women is spreading. My friend had a similar story with a Cambodian girl. They developed a relationship, then he returned to Australia knowing he would go back to make a go of it. He was sending her dollars every month, only for her to ask for more and more. 😮 He went there thinking he would meet a nice petite family oriented woman, but turned out to be a money grabbing super bitch!!! 😢
Is it the pigs fault for eating everything you feed it? Or is it the farmers fault for feeding it everything that's not nailed down? A pig will not & cannot change it's nature. It will eat until it pops. Same thing with women & money.
@@miguelfilo962 Well put! That's their very nature. Pigs do not fly.
Cambo Thai Pinays.
Yes my dad’s phillipeano wife is the same
Well Said.
A family member of my bf married a Thai woman years ago who already had a son from an ex. He brought her and the kid back to our country, had 3 more babies with her, and then he suffered a severe stroke, leaving him wheelchair bound and unable to work. The second that happened she was gone...
Surprisingly enough, the one who stayed to look after him, was her kid from her previous relationship. He literally said "he took me in and provided for me, even though i'm not biologically his and he had no obligation to do so. Because of him I have a better life, so now that he needs help, I'll be there for him."
If she truly loved her husband wouldn’t leave, wasn’t any love in her unfortunately some people are cold and remorseless, but in time karma will knock on her door with a reply.
In some cultures or communities, marrying a Thai woman may be seen as taboo because of stereotypes or misconceptions about Thai women being submissive, exotic, or seeking a foreign partner solely for financial gain. Additionally, there may be concerns about cultural differences, language barriers, or issues with assimilation into the family or community.
A high school sweetheart can do the same thing and they do all the time.
good story, but not surprising thai lady disappears, leaves her kids behind,
Look at the Farangs walking around Pattaya and you'll realizse what decent Thai people think!
Care to elaborate?
@@egbertjeeeee gets obvious when visiting various professional businesses, such as a Pharmacy or Dentist there is always some Farang(usually Brit/Aussie) acting up as if still in colonial times. The "Smile" has long gone replaced with disgust for these guys too used to fooling around the bar girls.
What descent Thais lol
@@underworldringside descent Ha! Ha! means to go down, you must have commented on the wrong statement
@@underworldringside 👍🤣
Thai Girl Motto: “Me no study, me no care. Me gonna marry a millionaire. If he die, me no cry. Me gonna marry another guy.” 🇹🇭
That about sums it up!
Well Said
That's why they say 'love you long tine!!!'
😂😂😂
ok where is the problem? she's right she's not going to stay alone and poor... she might as well find another rich person her notoriety will increase and so will Dan's stories..
Pay her off, take him and bounce. Demons exist and they can not be negotiated with. They want you to suffer.
100% Agreed : Dan needs to completely and permanently bounce outta thailand & make sure that 'that ex thai woman' doesn't follow
Rule 1. It’s 100% about the money. ALWAYS. Rule 2. Your Thai woman IS NOT DIFFERENT.
Too right, well said.
@@chrisbucko2611What Dan shares is 100% accurate. As long as men heed his advice…it will save them a lot of money and heartache.
Nonsense lol
@@underworldringside Rookie. lol.
You are very very WRONG. All this stories is about BAR LADYS or simular. They are a few percent of the womens in Thailand. Many of the men in this channel, Older men looking for young meat, fooling themself, AND probably looser wherever they go, looking in the wrong places (Tourist and and bar areas.) This men are loosers wherever they are.... sorry... but that is a much more true then the opinion on this channel. Thailand is full of serios hardworking womens, single and nice.... But you will never find them in the bars or tourist places. ..... They do not even wan't to be seen in those places.
This is one of the best youtube channels I watch. I was so happy to see you did a video. Keep on going Dan. I wish you all the best. By the way, I married a Japanese woman. I don't know if my wife is typical of Japanese women, but one thing I can definitely say about her, is that she really cares about our daughter (not so much me!) and she does her duties ... which in turn makes me respect her. It's also pretty calm in our household with almost no arguments. And I have to admit that getting red pilled and behaving in a manner that goes totally against my conditioning is ironically improving our interactions. Marriage though is so difficult. I hope that I never get married again. If young men only knew how difficult marriage is (and I think because of the internet they are learning) then I can easily see men refusing to marry and only having superficial hook up relationships with women. And I just wanted to add, when you talk about those Issan women, it really makes me laugh. I get this Benny Hill image in my head of all these Issan women chasing you down the street because of what you've said about them.
Japanese women are a different breed of good women. They are loyal and fabulous mothers.
The man is last in all Asian relationships. Child, family, self, man. That is the order.
I must be extremely lucky. Met this lovely Thai woman 12 years ago and the only issues were brief stints of extreme jealousy on her part. But after those few bumps in the road, it has been clear sailing. Could not imagine her not being in my life. We are older (I am 62 she is 45) so maybe that has something to do with it. Not sure how a 60+ yr old can handle the mental gymnastics of dealing with a Thai girl in her 20s......YIKES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
No not lucky. Met this lovely Thai woman 12 years ago : that was 12 years ago.Thai ladies know they can get money now atm frang. Internet and comunication has made it easy for Thai ladies to learn the scams!!!
Its just a matter of time it's not if but when !!!!!
Agree with you... being married 14 year with my Thaiwife......... My best descision ever. Noobody have ever ask for a Bath. This channel are full ,of loosers from tourist and bar areas. It do not give a true picture of a average Thai women. Also I have seen yhe western men SHOWING OF IN THALAND..... so some of the got what they deserve.
@@lifeasithappens 100% True That 👍
Perhaps white guys date Thai women instead of Vietnamese women because they have a taste for Pad Thai over Pho. Or maybe it's because they prefer the laid-back vibe of Thailand over the hustle and bustle of Vietnam. Either way, it's all about personal preference when it comes to matters of the heart...and stomach!
Great to see you once again. I had to check your channel multiple times to see if you uploaded or not.
I know you love your son and want to be in his life.... but from what I am hearing your only option is to walk away before it is too late, at least then you can still financially support him, which you can't do if you are in a Thai jail or dead.
I am not being dramatic as many will think, I am making this statement as I can hear every word you say being exactly what I was saying 6 years ago.
I had to walk away, after I nearly did get locked up for false allegations..... nobody wanted to hear my side of the story, so I was very close to being locked up in a Philippine jail.
In fact, nobody in authority even asked for my story...they just took what she said and then acted as Judge, Jury and Executioner.
Very Good Advice & Agreed Regarding Dan's Situation...just wondering : did Dan mention yet if 'it' was 'one of those thai weddings' or was it a legal marriage executed in thailand itself?
My half Thai daughter is clearly Narcissistic, her first bf dumped her because of her non stop demanding behaviour so she went to Australian police and pursued a charge of rape. The poor lad had just turned 18, he came from a great family and just got accepted into uni and is working on a double degree. The impact my daughters narcissism and jealousy could have caused that young man would have been catastrophic. The appalling thing was that my wife went and supported her the whole way, fortunately the South Australian Police were wise enough to call her shit. I don't talk to my eldest daughter any more, I have been married for over 20 years. I have a younger daughter who is borderline Autistic and a great kid but she copps a lot of abuse from her eldest. I want to leave and despite my wife constantly threatening to leave me, she wiggz out if I go pack my bags and try to do a runner. I'm losing it.
You leave without mentioning anything. Sell the house, split the costs via the standard processes and move on.
@skipper1350 you did the right thing by typing about it here. When we’re losing it, it’s proper & responsible to let that be known- I mean let it be known using words. Don’t let a surprise burst of temper or-god-forbid-a psychotic break be the thing that finally communicates to others how you’ve been feeling. There DO exist situations involving Cluster B personality disorders wherein you’ve gotta straight-up leave & go zero contact. Without further knowledge about your wife, I’m gonna advise you based solely on your post: You. are. allowed. to. leave. If the genders were switched, the overwhelming majority of people would say: “You don’t gotta stay in a dis-satisfactory relationship.” Western society has no problem whatsoever with a woman leaving a relationship. If she’s simply “not into it” anymore, that’s reason enough. She most likely would not be chastised, and she might even acquire a small cheering squad: “you’re so strong and brave to strike out on your own !!” “Independent women are role-modes for young girls !! “100 years ago, women couldn’t vote: nowadays we have autonomy !!” We men have a different situation: “abandon your WIFE ?!?! How COULD you ?!?! PLUS, we men take our promises seriously. And keeping your relationship together through tough times: most men would feel honour-bound to do that. Man or woman, you’re a human being. I HIGHLY recommend taking a 3 - 5 month journey far, far,, away. Rent an inexpensive apartment suitable for just one person. You need time to think and rest uninterrupted. Make good choices about whichever place you choose to go, make sure that currency conversion & the local economy make life as easy as possible. I suggest a 4- month trip because if you’re uncertain about if you should end your relationship with your wife, you could call this a “trial separation.” If you were to truthfully tell your wife “I’m deeply unhappy and upset and if I don’t go away and get some peace, I’m concerned I could go postal.” You can w tell her it’s a paramount health issue {because this is} and four months away is the required treatment. If your wife cannot leave you be for four months, if she doesn’t care that you’re “losing it,” and that you need to help yourself become ok, that REALLY sucks. If that’s how it is with her, then forget about a “trial separation,” you definitely need a divorce. But then you’re totally free to travel anywhere and to do anything-
most of my friends are asian females and im dating a thai girl now so i get to see the other side of this story. i see things thing often from the falang and i have to say, what you are saying in this video is completely stereotyping and hoggwash. its like, even if you were in a western country, you never marry someone you meet in the club, or in some dodgy area. its like, are you dumb. if you wont do it back home, why do you think its any different here in thailand. a relatonship takes alot of compromise, support and understanding from eachother, no matter where you find your loved one and you really think you will meet this princess in the bar, club or the street doing something sketchy. i get that the falang couldnt make things work back home and they have a higher sense of desire form women over here but the same rules apply here too. dont be an idiot. the women are cuter and they might be abit more interested in your but the same rules apply. im sorry dan but i dont agree with your video, you really stereotyping women of thailand and not really talking about how the falang have dumb expectations and its their delusional mindset that sets them up in this situation.
I agree there’s to many TH-camrs spreading misinformation and paranoia after their own failures
I know many nice Thai people
I couldn't agree more. I met a "lovely" woman online . She love bombed me . I fell for it all. Once she had me in her grip, she instantly changed. Moody . Angry. Aggressive . Cold . But I wasn't strong enough to hit the eject button. She was a NARCISSIST. Had no emotion. No empathy. Basically, fake. I wouldn't pay her a salary . She wanted me to build a house. (Previous video on here) I was warned about her by several people and eventually pulled it together and got out. What started off the PERFECT relationship , ended up horrible. Yes . For 5 years, I thought "she was different." I was wrong. Be careful, boys. They are very clever .
Brilliant comment and all true tried and tested by many .
Omg! That’s really scary!😲
It was, and it still is . These people shouldn't be allowed on dating sites for the welfare of others .
they are actually evil.
@ankh111 Absolutely true. It's not worth bothering with. I'm going back as love the place but definitely staying single . There are TOO many horror stories .
There's nothing wrong with being single
And happy.
i was caretaker for a disabled guy who married a thai women, she was ok, but her brothers were crooks. So my advise is, avoid women with brothers.
Excellent point
Avoid thai women with "brothers" AKA 'Other Legal Or Not Legal Husbands'
This bipolar thing is not actually bipolar in most of cases, I know that because that's how my mother is like(at least she was when I was very small and she could do anything to me). It is to hurt you more, if she is total b**ch all of the time then you will harden your hearth towards her and it won't hurt so much. But if she is super nice for some time then she can cause you more pain later. It's just evil sadistic behavior.
Thanx for sharing. It seems not only thai lady has this kind of problematic mind set. super jealous and toxic.
Just my own personal experience. One of my first girlfriends, that turned super jealous and so Toxic. Took me a long time to get over. anyways please take and stay safe all.
True That
Dan. Get your kid and go to England. Why the fk stay at such a place? Go meet a woman you can relate with and have a conversation. These Thai and SE Asian women are difficult to converse with. They’re like 5 year olds.
If you can get a passport for him and take him, he will have a better chance. Unless you go somewhere else such as migrating to NZ, Australia, Canada or the USA (since you can speak English).
Unfortunately since Brexit you cannot move to continental Europe with ease.
I noticed in one of your thumbnails a while ago with your ex in the photo. I noticed her look. A look of disdain and unhappiness. I felt sorry for you and had the feeling this relationship was not right.
Came to Thailand in April 1966, when I was in the military and 19 years old. Met and married a wonderful 19 year old Thai girl when I was 25. We had 5 children, all graduated university. 3 live in Florida an 2 are in Thailand. My wife and I are still together, still in Thailand. I am now 76 and she is 70. It's been a wonderful life with not a single regret. You are correct though, these times are not anywhere near it was when I arrived. In all those years I never heard her say one bad word about anyone. If we were in a group and they started talking about someone she simply gets up and walks away. I realize how lucky I am having come to Thailand when it really was The Land of Smikes and kindness.
Social media has changed everything. Unfortunately, these women’s minds have been poisoned since they were young by social media. Totally different world now.
I would love to hear your story 🫵🏽
@@georgelowe4822 the short version. I’ve been Thailand on and off for 10 years. Dated several Thai women. What Dan shares is 100% accurate in my experience. Social media has poisoned society in general. Anyone can download an app and have sex with random people so easy it’s scary. It is a relationship killer Especially in Thailand. Also, the cultural differences and psychological challenges Dan has shared in the past are huge factors as well.
Smikes?
@@sparky6996 At 76 with arthritis you are entitled to a few typos. LOL
Oi lad - from Leeds. Single Dad in Nakhon Ratchasima. 5 years old. Ex business in Manchester. Met the Thai devil in Sheffield. You should interview me buddy - we have a lot in common.
I wanna hear that story
@@mklenno Yeah
I lived in Brazil for twenty years and there was an American guy who had a nightmare relationship with a Brazilian woman. Just reading about it might make you feel a little less victimized. David Goldman abduction. There are crazy people all over the world. My American ex was another nightmare...almost ruined my life, but I got custody of my daughter and raised her from three years old myself. You are doing the right thing, Dan. Be proud of yourself.
I went to Brazil and noticed many women were like the SE Asians. Money hungry. Left happily after having a good time.
I am familiar with Goldman's story. Mine is worse, Brazil as well.
...but my woman is different 😂
🤣
It's not just Thai women, I was married to the worse narcissistic Cuban woman but it didn't show it's ugly head until I got her to the UK, I still went ahead and had a child with her. The toll it took on my mental health was near death. My son is now 22 he's got issues but mainly he's a good healthy happy person.
Wow good to see you
I have never been in a long term relationship with a Thai however I was married to a bi-polar and had a child. It put me through hell. So I have so much understanding and sympathy for you. That for the love of your child you would endure such hell makes you a hero.
We're All Pulling For You Dan : Stay Strong Bro🤗& Yes Dan, For Your Own Safety, Happiness, Peace Of Mind, etc., = really do try to not get 'involved' ever again with a thai female. Major Note Regarding thailand & the thais in general : There NEVER Was & There NEVER Will Be any real Logic, Fairness, Reasonings nor Sensibilities whatsoever = All Facts/Truths which has also/already extended into cambodia, vietnam, laos, the philippines and myanmar where Greed Is Always #1 'On The Agenda' At Any Given Time. STAY SAFE 'Out There' Dan & Consult With 'a non thai legal entity' AKA 'A Genuine Pro West/Western Family Law Attorney' who also 'understands' thailand, thai (based) marriages : if You haven't already
I made the mistake of marrying a Thai woman here in the states. What Dan is saying here follows very closely to what I went through. Proceed with extreme caution and never put a ring on any woman. The ability to leave is your only leverage.
cuban woman were similar about 20 years ago or so
@@notinservice3724 cuban women are so beautiful
absolutely dont marry here, or put anything in her name, car, house, debit card etc
Looking back, my mistake is clear to me & it was this:
'I see that you're acting crazy but I understand why. You've been through some truly awful things and you've despaired of ever having love & security in your life but I've got you now-I won't give upon you & I won't let you down. I will make your life better. I will love your daughter as my own. Eventually your insecurities will fade away & then you will start to blossom & become the person you were always capable of being'
Wishful thinking on my part. Crazy is who she genuinely is, her real, authentic self. I dread to imagine what creatures are scuttling about in the dark recesses of her psyche. She doesn't want to change.
I couldn't lift her up. She pulled me down instead & she exploded our family in the process.
It has been the famous unstoppable slow-motion train wreck. Please don't make my mistake. You can't reason with crazy & you can't entice her out of her craziness with your love. Now I've learned my lesson. I'll never take a rescue dog.
Well said, I identify 100% with what you have written. As the saying goes "been there, done that".
Mate she knows you love your son. This can mean , she has you by the balls. Good luck, my friend.
If you've been there for any length of time you would know this behavior is normal for Thais. Falling for the first one you come across that shows any interest in you then compounding it with children is just to silly for words. You need to spend quite a bit of time there and with a few partners before you even entertain the idea of pairing up with any of them. I can't even feel sorry for those guys as it's totally on them for being that stupid. If you do shake up with a Thai having only been there a short while especially if she has a bar background the first sign of any of this shite you need to grow some balls move her on. There is always another one just around the corner. You mention in your case money helps fix things, I'm betting it's money that starts all these problems men have with Thai women in the first place though one form or another.
Same in any country if you want a relationship it comes with a price
That you insinuate there is equivalency is absurd. Akin to saying there is crime everywhere when a Japanese person remarks on the crime level in Sao Paulo (for example).
People on the youtube vlogs make things too complicated, all u need to find is a woman with good education and good job, otherwise they will be stupid and materialistic
Dan, I went through similar things with my ex. She wasn't Thai, but many of the traits you mentioned, she had. I fought her all the way to the courts, eventually being awarded 50% of my daughter's upbringing, which was very unusual at the time (late 90s). Your situation has brought back many, not-so-great memories of the things I had to go through, the pain, stress, and trying to keep it all together. So, hang on in there mate, hopefully, better times are ahead, and most importantly, seeing your son, being part of his upbringing, and guiding him through life, is the greatest gift. Take care, mate. Glenn
I saw someone elses video that was talking about one of his friends that retired to Thailand and got him self one of these girls to live with him and this guy was under the impression all was well even though his friend was not only paying for this girl to live with him but also paying the girls family. I tried to explain that this is like some sort of long term escort service type of a deal, but he insisted that this is just how relationships are done in Thailand. Obviously I didn't buy it but there was no convincing him that his friend was getting a bad deal and that she didn't actually care for him.
Sounds like the well is thoroughly poisoned. Time to move on... or just go to the bars for a bit of fun.
Yeah, domt leave your brain on the plane, but do leave your heart ❤
those "bars" are All Rigged & Seriously Dangerous Traps for Most/All Westerners : no matter how 'street smart', 'educated', 'cultured', 'cool'
If she is emotionally unregulated and/or doesn't show empathy...then run. No matter how pretty she is.. or how good the bed fun is. RUN
Can you find a bar girl who is going to truly love you and not use you for your money? Yes. However, exceptions don't make the rule. If I have to save every penny for when I hear" But she is different" I will be a millionaire.
Been ij pattaya 3 days and they all want money if u ferrang
Really?
Welcome to the Kingdom
Great to see a video Dan, the last few days I have been really worried about you. Best thing I got from your video was to ask a potential partner, "How can I bring you happiness and how can you bring me happiness ". That is so basic, you are a champ mate. No one should have to go through what you have gone through, and still are going through.
It's not bipolar, Dan. It's BPD -Borderline Personality Disorder-, and it's much-much worse than bipolar. Bipolar is a mood disorder that is easily treatable with medication. BPD is a Cluster B personality disorder, that doesn't respond to medication at all.
My ex English wife was diagnosed with bpd. It was horrific. Truly. In the end so dangerous the police moved me and the kids away to a refuge. She turned to heroin in the end and took her own life 3 years ago.
@@markrunswithseagulls2523 I'm sorry to hear that. It does show all the classic signs of BPD indeed. The suicide rate for BPD is about 40% and substance abuse is very common.
I think we forget the mental health pandemic is just as bad if not worse here in the Uk!
Thanks a lot for the video! I feel you, I went the full 9 yards of that missery, too. My Thai girlfriend moved to my house in Germany in 2018. I had to call the police twice, as she started to run after to me with a big kitchen knife and later again, when she started to smash my furniture, doors, you name it. She was, what many call a good girl in TH, as she was a government teacher. Love blindfolded me in the beginning that hard, that I didn't see all the big red flaggs, e.g. she didn't have any close friends in TH, was just complaining heavily about the other teaches in her school in TH. Even the relationship with her siblings where problematic. All my friends told me instantly after seeing her the 1st time: stop it. It took me nearly a year to recover, but now I am a happy camper, again. 🙂
Sounds, generally, like most modern women anywhere. LOL I guess the hot take is that no, Thai women are not different.
Been worried about you bro. Thailand can eat people up and spit them out so happy your keeping on top of your situation and keep your marbles when you have so much stress
I can think of 15 reasons to retire in SEA and a girl/relationship/marriage/love/whatever isn't on the list.
Guys leave shit show drama in their home country just to get it in another.
I struggle to understand this concept.
Keeping yourself productive and busy could be how to keep yourself safe from the relationship bullshit drama that's plaguing Thailand/Phillipines etc...:
This is my personal list of priority and you need to create your own:
1) Golf.
2) Gastronomy.
3) Sight Seeing.
4) Fresh Start opportunity.
5) Peace. (Bullshit free/Drama free living.)
6) Muay Thai gym added by other activities.
7) Medicinal CBD-THC.
8) Learn to speak Thai. (Currently fluent in 4.)
9) Road Tour of Thailand.
10) SEA Road Tour Travel.
11) Cost of living saving.
12) Beach.
13) Buddhism.
14) Gun range.
15) 3 or 4 more can be added.
16) Bang as many chicks along the way safely.
I hope this idea helps and good fishing fellas!😎
Was worried about you mate…. Glad you alive 👍
Dan, I don’t have a lot of time right now to get further into it, but I am a licensed mental health professional and you are a little mistaken in your labeling of disorders. What you are calling “Bi-Polar” is really an Impulse Control Disorder. Bi-Polar Disorder happens over the course of months, not days or hours. There are different kinds of Bi-Polar Disorder as well. Even the Bi-Polar Disorder with the most rapid manic-depressive symptoms (cyclothymic disorder) takes weeks for it to cycle through.
Also, Google Borderline Personality Disorder. It is more in line with what you are describing than Narcissistic Personality Disorder. (Although we can’t rule out Narcissism.)
Hey Dan iam very happy for you that you are making the ultimate effort for your son I became a dad at 16 and was lucky enough to be married to a wonderful woman for 30 years the best of luck to you and I understand because they are your flesh and blood 😊
I live for him, my happiness comes from him, it’s such a strange feeling caring about someone and at more than yourself 🥰 sounds like you have had a nice and interesting life, 30 years of marriage is awesome and I really hope your kid/s are doing well 🤝
To all viewers - I have lived in Thailand on and off since 1995 - what Dan says in my experience is spot on - Thai women who chase Farangs in the majority are trouble - with all or some of the traits outlined by Dan...
Peace of mind and happiness is priceless!
Just get laid and move on!
Work on yourself to control the feeling of desperation and/or obssesion to be in a relationship or marriage.
You should know by now that it's over rated and full of downsides for men!
Stay strong fellas.💪
Well said!
You no wrong my thai wife of 12 years narc. And demonic.
When I educated my self about narcissistic I was calm to her drama give her no supplying I new that she has devalued me and discard me, she told me she return to Thailand as we were Australia I calmly replied if that is what you wanting I happy for you to go, she didn’t expected my answer, all I can say to anyone who are in narcissistic relationship is run run do not look back they don’t change they are evils people they never wrong and have no empathy they moving from one relationship to the next they been born to destroying lives of normal people.
The reason why these women treat you badly is because you're broke, and you're picking women that are out of your league 😅 women tend to treat men who are out of their league badly. But like dan said, but if you have a lot of money then your life willl be better with her lol
Never make deals with the devil. 😈
Hi Dan. I live in Chiangmai 6 years. This was a good episode thanks. I have to ask you, cuz you spoke of it in this video: After 2 years of experiencing your ex's bipolar personality, why on earth did you CHOOSE to make a baby with her?? How did you rationalize that decision to exponentially complicate your life, while also giving your child a severely unbalanced mother for years to come. There is no possibility of your son NOT being emotionally and or psychologically affected in some degree in his adolescent development and into adulthood. Hopefully there will be a period of COMPETENT therapy in his not so distant future. Dan you don't appear to be an idiot. You present yourself well and insightful. you have spoken many times (and honestly) of your "less than ideal" childhood family life. Is it possible that you unconsciously passed on or replicated your childhood trauma to your son? You had the chance to break the cycle but your decision to make a baby with a woman that you knew was severely unstable, continued your family legacy. I'm sure that was the LAST thing that you wanted to do Dan, but that is literally exactly what you did. I wish your son a beautiful and healthy childhood and life, and I hope he makes the choice that you couldn't, and he breaks the cycle of trauma of your lineage. Keep up the good work of this channel Dan. And I mean no disrespect to you at all.
It is the educated not being able to see that they are scammed. Just because you know about something doesn't stop it from happening to you. Being knowledgeable on a topic stops you from admitting that it has happened to you. Thankyou for bringing this to the fore.
I think that Dan don't know after 2 years that the Buriram ' s girl friend was so psicopatic. I think they was in love
Looks like we know the reason why Thai men ditch these women so much. They know the score!
@@SGS_Rider_2020 True That
I have been here 25yrs. This is probably the best video about Thai women I have seen on Utupe. It's true not all Thai's are like this especially if they have further education. I would put the number as high as 70%. Good luck 😐
I've had a relationship with a bipolar woman, and a few years later, a narcissist.
The narcissist was the worst.
A bipolar is up and down...a narcissist is a narcissist full time....cheers🍷🇨🇦
Pushing the EJECT button on time is key. Can’t count my Viet and Thai exes, they must hate you Dan 😂 great stuff, thanks
The blind leading the blind 🤣🤣🥴👍 that would be a great name for your channel👍😵💫
Your personal story is a total CRASH AND BURN STORY, perfect fit for your channel
Hiya pal long time wonder were have you been, I feel you having issues with you know who ? 😅.
Totally agree Thai women are like United fans, deluded, living in the past, jealous about my Man City 😂. Sorry our kid watching you but listing to Fulham v mu on my Alexa.. 😂 .Good to see you back and 2 yrs here living in a Thai area, 15 top Thai beauties but don't like me only my lady but if I go 1k to a local bar and I am Brad Pitt. I was 150kg now 50kgs run, swim work out and blonde hair blue eyes ...but nobody loves me only me CRAZY lady and she's knows I call her that .
Like you I wake up and I don't know what I am getting . The best part is that she works 6 days a week and I only have to prepare for 1 day . For A amazing day with her or HELL with the word MONEY leading the way ..if you want a Thai remember this ABBA Song MONEY MONEY MONEY , that will but you 5 mins .
STAY SINGLE live longer .. see you soon BLUE.. sorry our kid 0-3. 😂 take care mate
From my year experience there this is 100% accurate.
So many smarter than everyone else dumb men there that allow this to happen. Or desperate?
stay strong dude, your son is lucky to have you 🙏
I find that they can put on an act for the first 3 months then cracks will start to appear in their armour . Can also happen before the 3 months is up but there are always warning signs or red flags that you should heed
Been a sub & fan of your honesty for months. This vid is critical advice for #passportbros travelling to Thailand. Recent LA expat here for the cost of living and still figuring my way around but it don't take me 2 hrs to watch 60-minutes. I keep asking myself how would you feel if plane loads of Thai men came to your hood to loot the booty? #justasking #loveyourchannel
I know about a guy who married 2 Thai women in his home country. They just brought their behaviour along with them. Both of them cheated with other men. One cheated with a local thai "friend" who was a boyfriend she had reserved after she got her citizenship, and the other ran a massage parlour where she slept with some of the men during sessions. The good thai women I have worked with have been married for 20+ years to the same farang. One of them even said: Young thai women, no good.
Yes : Countless Stories 'Like That'
Instead of bashing women of other nationalities,why not just stick to your own kind and there will be less trouble and misunderstandings?A lot of misgivings are due to cultural differences and expectations.
Have you seen the state of English women lately ? 😂😂😂
@@whittakerwinstanleyiii4051 Have you seen your average Brit farang? Seems a good match to me
HE’S BACK…..🤠
Toxic, bipolar, Narcissism, violent, selfishness they are the good parts lol what about the bad ones.
Like others have said Dan it’s not just Thai women. I was married for 25 years when my ex wife started behaving that way. It was a bad situation as we had 7 kids together, it was terrifying to me on behalf of the kids. After a few years I moved out and supported my kids every week for 2 or 3 days / evenings. This was extremely difficult at first but it was the best thing I ever did. Just to re echo your points so not stay with anyone who treats you this way. I wish I’d left sooner but fear for the kids kept me there several years longer than I should have. I could say I I could do it under those circumstances then it shows it’s not only possible but essential for your mental health.
He never said its only Thai women but majority of Thai women especially in Issan are nuts insane plum crazy !!!!!
Its not bipolar. Its she who didnt like you, but still forced to be with you. Cant keep up good mood in that situation all the time.
If u want to look deeper into it its mostly borderline personality disorder its one of the cluster B disorders. mostly started from lack of a farther figure which is alot of thai familys
Move forward, make things right for your boy and live life .
Be well
Thank you, Dan. Other than a good shag, I'd never try to form a serious relationship with these girls. After following your story as well as a few others, I've become all too aware of the dangers.
Dan! You're videos are blessed! You are a great guy!
I have had some relationships with thai-girls the last years and you are really on the right track.
One thing I would like to say as a medical doctor in psychiatry is that Bipolar is not so common!
BUT they are narcissists and have per definition emotional instability disorder!!
They learn very fast to hook foreigners with manipulatory behavior!
And money is very important. The jealousy is in my experience based on that they do not want mine or yours money spent on somebody else!!
There family relationship is as well toxic.
How could a healthy mother send her daughter to Pattaya for getting money for the family?
The mother could work as well I think. But no,,,,,,,,,,,,,
Regerards
Henrik
Welcome back
Stay well dude you are doing a great service 👍 and wishing you good vibes🤙🤙🤙
Dan are you back on the channel?
Dan, there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. On the bright side, you are still young and healthy. It did not take long time for you to learn your lesson. You have so much time left to enjoy your life. Just do not step in the same shite twice. Be smart. Stay free. Remember: pigs do not fly.
Well Said
I can relate to you so much. I spent four years in the Philippines with a girl I loved but unfortunately we couldn't get along. I still have a scar on my hand from her biting me! I had to use my coffee mug to get her off me. Luckily, we didn't have kids. Now, back in the UK I find myself in my 40's with a delightful daughter aged 7 and going through a separation with her Lithuanian Mother who is another psycho. I think I get with women who are able to converse with me rather than just agree with everything I say but they end up trying to control me whereas i'm a free spirit and can't be told what to do! Anyway, she has ruined my mental health by starting nasty arguments and threatening to take our child back to Lithuania which used to upset me so much. Because she was working, I was with the child every day since she was born and after school etc. I had my own income stream and never had a penny from her and our house was 90% mine but everybody assumed I was leaching off her.
I lost most of my family years ago and only have my Mother and daughter who really care about me and for some reason this ex of mine has done her best to convince them that i'm the problem when I swear she is the trouble maker as I like peace and quiet and hate arguments. She is probably a psychopath I believe. Put up a few hidden cameras to catch her out. Always remain composed. Best of luck with your child.
Welcome back Dan
The new hat is a plus
What a terrific start to Saturday night!
It's crazy bro, sounds crazy. Glad lil' Will's doing well.
Good to see you back.
Couldn't have been watching football or he wouldn't be wearing that jacket!!
I’ve only had really good experiences….I’m jus chill with all of them….jus be assertive & you’ll have no problems…you start acting like a proper SIMP…..then you’re bang in trouble…..act like a man & lead & you’ll be fine….👍
Im not so sure about the first part, that this issue mostly affects women looking for foreigners.
I was living in Bkk for nearly 10 years and know really a lot of normal Thais, because as you you, im interested in Thailand and the people, the language etc etc. I think besides the friends from Germany who visited me and some co workers i have 0 other contact to foreigners.
And really many of those normal Thais have also metal issues. Especially the hi so (sorry to say that, its just my experience). And the youth, no matter what so.
But thats Bangkok, i can imagine that its a bit different outside. In Bangkok it seems mental illness is really wide spread....
Bipolar, jup. Its so crazy. Ive met a few one of those. And had one relationship with one. It was a nightmare. She was such a nice women, honestly. No bargirl or something. But the jealousy in her phases was just too much after a while.
BTW keep it 1000 fellas...many men of many nations have come to Thailand with naughty intentions to contribute to the salacious culture of the many back streets of Thailand - based on my recent observations & research. It's simple...you make your own bed each day. Or not. #respectthekingdom #imnewhere #donthatethegame
Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental health condition in which people have an unreasonably high sense of their own importance. They need and seek too much attention and want people to admire them.
You guys are welcome 👍🏻
Sorry to hear that, I spent over a dozen years with (I didn’t know) a covert narcissist before I ended it for good (then I stumbled on it). An absolute nightmare right from the get go. Good luck navigating through.
Sorry to hear your relationship didn't go as expected. I hope that the deal you have put in place will benefit your son and his future. The world is your oyster. Get out of Thailand. Plenty of fish outside Thailand.
Maybe BEWARE of the younger. The over 45 year old Thai appear as you say indirectly an older generation. Sure they may have no money, or, just self sustaining, however somewaht honest about their goals and willing comprimises for a new relationship ... a general comment based on what I have seen.
Lol..."No, she's a psycho..." Love it 🤪
When smartphones were added to the mix, women have gone downhill in quality, social media feeds their egos, and it's just gonna get worse.
Dan things could get a lot worse for you if you stick around. What’s your ex going to do when you get a new girlfriend.
That’s right she’s going to stop you seeing your son & maybe start a lot of trouble.
So get out of there asap Come home set up a new business & move to a nice part of the uk.
you won’t have much say in your son’s upbringing when your ex gets a new man anyway. Unless you’re prepared to spend a lot of money in & out of courts.
Don’t forget I’m looking at this from Outside the Box. Just like you do on your channel when reading the story’s.
Good Advice & Agreed Regarding Dan's Situation...just wondering : did Dan mention yet if 'it' was 'one of those thai weddings' or was it a legal marriage executed in thailand itself?
@@helena20000 Dan had a village wedding.
It’s true…all true. Even good girls do this to get money from you…it’s called the long game.
Absolutely truth. Seen it first hand.
Great video Dan... I've only just split with my own head job myself... thankfully no kids together and Im only about 15,000b out of pocket so very small change. I'm glad you got out.
Plus they will take all your money and give it to the Thai Love in the Village 😂😂😂
True That
I think your channel should be part of the High School curriculum
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Very similar to my experience. They are very troubled and it's hard not to feel a great deal of sympathy for their situation.
A lot of these girls are put under great pressure to provide for their families. In the west it's quite the reverse situation. Older generations look after younger generations. The women are often the only source of income for an extended family so they have very little to no chance of breaking out of the poverty cycle.
How much this has contributed to their mental health I am not sure but it certainly wouldn't help.
My advice. Do your best to never get involved with a Thai lady in the first place.
"...never get involved with a Thai..." = 👍