Why Do People Lie To You?: Ep 31: BK Shivani (English)

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  • @pratibhanath4879
    @pratibhanath4879 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    People lie because they are coward , as it needs a lot of courage to tell the truth, daring people usually don’t lie

    • @sandeepgupta4696
      @sandeepgupta4696 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It's not cowardness dear... It's all about reaction of other people or embarrassment who tell truth

  • @banuradha10
    @banuradha10 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Just lovely didi. Thanks for the new perspective on trust

  • @sangeetarathore3416
    @sangeetarathore3416 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you dii.. Every situation your videos are guiding me on the right path.. ❤☮️

  • @SoumyadeepDutta
    @SoumyadeepDutta 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hats off mam.. Om shanti.

  • @crisgaba5369
    @crisgaba5369 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for pure soul. I steel train myself on this. I can do it I believe.

  • @varshalatasunghuttee8848
    @varshalatasunghuttee8848 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank u for these wonderful words 🌹

  • @dalbirsingh2954
    @dalbirsingh2954 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omshanti omshanti to All Divine Souls

  • @shivashankar6218
    @shivashankar6218 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Om Shanti madam I am very thankful you because when I feeling some reason, I will get very good answer from your speech or conversations, great once more on Shanti.

  • @yamininunna7851
    @yamininunna7851 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thank uuu mam...om santhiii mam...love uuu mam...

  • @balbindarmann7331
    @balbindarmann7331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It’s beautiful but very few people achieve that level of being with self and others

  • @maxell008
    @maxell008 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s really giving me clarity

  • @jahnvimakwana9613
    @jahnvimakwana9613 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you didi for this video...

  • @manojtomar655
    @manojtomar655 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dear Sister OM SANTI.

  • @rajkumariputtoo736
    @rajkumariputtoo736 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very nice words respected shivani and surashjee God bless you both 🙏 😊

  • @nitichadha6988
    @nitichadha6988 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stable when sharing truth yess true.

  • @sumabaiju101
    @sumabaiju101 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Om santhi...... Thank you sister🙏🙏🙏

  • @zoyamadhavan3869
    @zoyamadhavan3869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very true sir I’m agree with ur. Thoughts

  • @nitichadha6988
    @nitichadha6988 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent helpful tome thank you.

  • @banashrisaha7216
    @banashrisaha7216 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Om shanti didi.....😘

  • @mindtunessublimers8573
    @mindtunessublimers8573 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That wasss so smooth.....❤❤❤

  • @sehrishnaseem8104
    @sehrishnaseem8104 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @limeorange1657
    @limeorange1657 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wat about people who keeps breaking trust and takes us for granted then we keep trusting them and gets self hurt.

  • @srimathisamarakoon9106
    @srimathisamarakoon9106 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love watching your videos & at least watch one everyday & try to understand our mind ..but still how can I trust a person who repeatedly doing the same mistake for the last 47 years ..
    Why can't they think of their wrong doing & stop their bad behaviors to keep the relationship smooth .
    Aren't there any videos for them to think & stop their betraying .

  • @ajitkumardas7561
    @ajitkumardas7561 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lie not love but poison of love. Trust is less everywhere so watch and trust.

  • @monarajput1226
    @monarajput1226 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lovely!

  • @soniyasharma1846
    @soniyasharma1846 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    om shanti...

  • @meenalsawant3388
    @meenalsawant3388 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very true om Shanti didi

  • @suchitramb8043
    @suchitramb8043 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Trusting or not trusting is one thing. Whom to trust among whom we want to trust is the big question 😂

  • @sheokandamit59
    @sheokandamit59 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Om shanti didi

  • @user-wp9vf8kx1h
    @user-wp9vf8kx1h ปีที่แล้ว +2

    For example a married man betrays his wife, she accepts n leads a life with him BUT he Never changes!!!!! Constantly Flirting with other women. How to basically lead a life with such person????? We r not God!!!! Complicated Life 😢. Easy said than done:(.

  • @pradesiparamita1274
    @pradesiparamita1274 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    There is this one person that keeps sending anger to me, and its not easy to trust how she behaves but when i have constant doubt i feel it hurts me a lot.. she may be not getting it and has nice life but i am the one who has miserable life when i keep on doubting her... thank you for reminding me that all are good souls initially and there must be goodness in every person.. i have to forgive and heal myself 😊

    • @thembisaodendaal
      @thembisaodendaal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know it's the hardest thing when you know you keep getting negative vibrations from this one person.But keep cancelling the karmic account because eventually you will win

  • @ruchiagrawal1378
    @ruchiagrawal1378 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks

  • @shajankv4838
    @shajankv4838 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    omsathi .. i trust you

  • @spiderweb9609
    @spiderweb9609 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Om Shanti Sister

  • @parii88
    @parii88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Om Shanti.🤍🙏

  • @nitichadha6988
    @nitichadha6988 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ready to hear truth

  • @meghachalekar
    @meghachalekar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Om shanti🙏☺️

  • @shaziamoughal9662
    @shaziamoughal9662 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi, it would be nice to shear the book name or references, you use/take the quotes from. Thanks

  • @bkritikapuresoul8912
    @bkritikapuresoul8912 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Om shanti🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @nitichadha6988
    @nitichadha6988 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Different way of living. Om Shanti b stable n secured..

  • @prashantpillai9508
    @prashantpillai9508 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏🏻🌹🌹OM SHANTI 🌹🌹🙏🏻

  • @nitichadha6988
    @nitichadha6988 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Heal of hhurt self.great trust completely ram kripa

  • @sacredweeds
    @sacredweeds 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Om shanti. I keep hearing from you we are abused to complete our karma. 😔

  • @sant-osh
    @sant-osh 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    agar aap log ye video hindi me banate to ye bahut achha rahata . aapka bahut bahut dhanyavad....

  • @rbrabingia3675
    @rbrabingia3675 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good morning baba,Om Santi didi

  • @farizai7327
    @farizai7327 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Baat may wazan ha...

  • @dhirendraagarwal4612
    @dhirendraagarwal4612 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sweet gud morng g🌹💕🙏

  • @RosasResources
    @RosasResources ปีที่แล้ว

    Sounds good on paper but a lier and a cheat will only do it again . its like say kill me again, i lived this and it kept happening again and again. You have to know when its time to love someone from a far

  • @archanajaiswal3778
    @archanajaiswal3778 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Om Shanti

  • @ashish01997
    @ashish01997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "hate the deed, not the person" dr zakir says that too 💚

    • @MrPreetvirdee
      @MrPreetvirdee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Try saying that to a child who has been the victim of sexual abuse.

  • @sharletlobo2016
    @sharletlobo2016 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sr. Could you please elaborate on the difference between trust and capability you touched on, in the story of the lady with the cheating husband..

  • @MsDandiwal
    @MsDandiwal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    How can you trust a partner who betrayed you again and again despite trusting them fully each time. Please help

    • @sacredweeds
      @sacredweeds 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      According to her episode Ctrl+Alt+Dlt it’s your karma and you need to forgive them. I can’t believe this means you have to stay with them. Forgive and forget and keep yourself safe through changing habits that send you into harm into habit that keep you healthy.
      I used to trust easily until I was repeatedly run over literally by a car as a pedestrian and figuratively.
      I trust thrives to steal.
      The hurt and fear of my husband would disappear for six months until he again beat me. I am now working on my habit of being a fixer to know I am worthy of better.

  • @nitichadha6988
    @nitichadha6988 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Unconditional trust ram g

  • @anilghorpade4372
    @anilghorpade4372 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omshanti
    Good morning dadji

  • @blackrockz5807
    @blackrockz5807 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    People will lie because they want to.

    • @farizai7327
      @farizai7327 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No.. they r coward.

  • @meenalkhemchandani4893
    @meenalkhemchandani4893 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I accept the fact that lying and hiding the truth are equivalent. But sometimes we tend to hide the truth from loved ones because we know that it would hurt them even more. Is this wrong?? If yes then how can this tendency be corrected??

  • @aanchalgupta3610
    @aanchalgupta3610 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Buttt when people keep lying to u ? And u keep forgiving and forgetting them butt they still continue to do that ??

    • @nehajain6542
      @nehajain6542 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That is bcoz there is a past karmic account they ll keep sending those black ball of cheating that they have earlier received by u may b in costume or previous costume..
      Ur work here is to sending white ball once nd keep closing past karmic account in meditation
      Soon they ll stop sending black ball nd start receiving ur white
      Have patience law of karma is there
      One day u ll feel amazing that u trusted them no matter what nd then they ll really become trustworthy
      Stop sending negative thoughts keep a check on them
      Do morning meditation for them
      Check ur thoughts
      Sooner or later chnge will gonna arise
      Om shanti

    • @faaizavawda9966
      @faaizavawda9966 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Neha Jain hey how to do this meditation? How to overcome this negativity of spouse lying again and again...

    • @shubhrapashine2668
      @shubhrapashine2668 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Walk away from liars.

  • @barnalidebbarma4379
    @barnalidebbarma4379 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😍

  • @gaytrirami9496
    @gaytrirami9496 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My momma is like this

  • @snehareetun3746
    @snehareetun3746 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    what about when a partner cheats in a relationship? should we continue to trust

  • @beingindian2746
    @beingindian2746 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💐💐💐

  • @happysoul8263
    @happysoul8263 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i have one genuine question what to do when we have lied someday and the thing is of nature which just can't be told to that person otherwise it will hurt person badly. relationship, guilt, love, trust all will come again but it will be knot in their heart life time. what to do ?

    • @aditisharma842
      @aditisharma842 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Confess it tell them the truth .... Becoz if once lied it will make u vulnerable to lie many a times.... And it will come to a stage that u can't even tolerate there hurting nature and u will say I did so much for u why r u getting hurt and there will be a loss of understanding especially from your side .... Clean Stains from your heart your side .... It will surely help them to do so .... It is not even good for your mental health and there's too .... They will become comfortable from your so called trustable lover side That even a small matter can destroy there whole relationship

  • @Marcolino5467
    @Marcolino5467 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love you BKShivani

  • @calmdowngurl
    @calmdowngurl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️🙏

  • @singaporevirtualtours1101
    @singaporevirtualtours1101 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    If only i had watched this video earlier, if only i had heard about Sister Shivani earlier, but it is better to be late than never😀

  • @ashishnirghude5494
    @ashishnirghude5494 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My partner breaking my trust even after promisingv she wont do it again
    Now i have proof she is still breaking trust i have not told it to her
    How can i still continue trust and maintain relation ?

  • @dollydolly628
    @dollydolly628 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Maa kya hume sawal karna chahiye ki apne juth kiu bola.. par yeh sab puchne se ek relationship anger, hatred ke sath khatam hoti he, mai anger ke sath unko hate karke relation nhi todna chahti.. toh iske sath kaise deal kare.. hum unko pucche ya na? Nhi puchne se andar dabi rehti he, puchne se v shanti nhi hoga jo outcomes niklega..

  • @nabanitasarkar8080
    @nabanitasarkar8080 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ওমঃ শান্তি

  • @swaminiwalawalkar6635
    @swaminiwalawalkar6635 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    😇🙏

  • @kirtitomar2407
    @kirtitomar2407 ปีที่แล้ว

    Om shanti didi... bt if someone lie to u in their 1st meeting nd stick to tat lie until u scold nd ask them to tell the truth. Wt does tat suppose to mean ????

  • @EliShanti
    @EliShanti 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She might be right but for how long should a person allow abuse to change someone? I am giving up after more than 30 years. I trust the process not the people. I'm sorry if this is not spiritual. To me is life or death litterally

  • @souravhalder5086
    @souravhalder5086 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why people say lie Hindi language please please uplode

  • @vandanachauhan4369
    @vandanachauhan4369 ปีที่แล้ว

    10:54 26:42 ❤️

  • @shambhavisingh2484
    @shambhavisingh2484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is it a sin when you lie out of insecurity that people will judge you or laugh at you?

  • @mallikaj3240
    @mallikaj3240 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Their wish

  • @ektayadav3083
    @ektayadav3083 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    didi pliz hindi me bolo

  • @kusumsharma1032
    @kusumsharma1032 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Om shanti shivani ji
    Please video hindi main jada banaye first of all matra bhsha mai kahi bat jada deeply prabhavit karti hai ras nishpati jada achhe se hoti hai me samajati hun apke video pooriduniya main deke jate hai esliye international language b jaruri hai par kyunki mera adhyan adhyapan ka visha hindi raha hai esliye sulabhta se hindi main samj pati hun

  • @sheokandamit59
    @sheokandamit59 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Didi plz video Hindi m banao

  • @nitichadha6988
    @nitichadha6988 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stop telling us true because of stability.

  • @suspenserealitykatha
    @suspenserealitykatha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sorry i am not agree

  • @nehapanwar9044
    @nehapanwar9044 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hlo mam plz can i talk to personally????

    • @reemas8128
      @reemas8128 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Neha Panwar you can mail them up or call them up.. There's a channel called peace of mind, which provides all this info 's 😇

    • @rakshithas3734
      @rakshithas3734 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Reema S can u say email Id r number

  • @ruchiagrawal1378
    @ruchiagrawal1378 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks