Do Not Need To PLEASE PEOPLE: Ep 5: BK Shivani (English)

แชร์
ฝัง
  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 19 ต.ค. 2024
  • "BEING LOVE - Creating beautiful relationships", a NEW BOOK by BK Shivani. You can order on Amazon: www.amazon.in/...
    Our responses to people need to be based on our personality, reminds BK Shivani. They should not depend on how people behave with us. Our thoughts and words in every relationship is our choice - not to please them, but for ourselves. Let us do things for others because they matter to us, not out of obligation or force.
    For more videos: / bkshivani ##
    SUBSCRIBE to get updates on new videos
    Click on CC to view English subtitles
    For English videos:
    • Going Beyond: English:...
    • English Videos: BK Shi...
    For Hindi videos:
    • Latest Hindi Videos: E...
    • Being Bliss: English S...
    Facebook: / bkshivani

ความคิดเห็น • 263

  • @dannywalker8984
    @dannywalker8984 5 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    I only came across you today, and I'm so glad i did. For many years i have sufford with depression, and always blamed myself for everything that happened. You have give me so much hope and have made me feel so much better. Tablets don't work but I'm sure if i continue to watch your vidoes i can see my life changing in a good way. Thank you so much for your videos

    • @utkarshapatil482
      @utkarshapatil482 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How r u now? Doing well...God bless you 😊

    • @basantathulungchadke3123
      @basantathulungchadke3123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God bless you

    • @vinitham226
      @vinitham226 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same thing happened to me and sister helped me to overcome my depression

  • @kriparamtholiacmdkcismotiv7779
    @kriparamtholiacmdkcismotiv7779 5 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    The teaching of sister Shivani 's are really amazing
    I changed myself completely
    Thanks sister for making my life so beautiful

  • @azlanameer4912
    @azlanameer4912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Wahhh
    What an enlightening sentence...
    "What i want to do for others first i will make my self happy for the work"

  • @suhitarasala5860
    @suhitarasala5860 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I changed because of Shivani didi.. 😊 I am very grateful to her. I love didi♥️♥️❤️

  • @pallavipuja3120
    @pallavipuja3120 6 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    i learned from this lesson that we have to thank GOD for this beautiful life and then live it learn the most till our survival to make our life a lesson for others, then only we can be happy 24 *7

  • @misstaniamaryam
    @misstaniamaryam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Fill your cup first, take care of yourself mentally, physically and emotionally. The solution is internal.

    • @Sofia-wx2ht
      @Sofia-wx2ht 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I got the bottle bring me your cup🎶🎵👍🏽😄

  • @romakashyap2119
    @romakashyap2119 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I watched this at a very critical time, wherein I was feeling quite conflicted and this immediately soothed me and also told me that I need to care for my happiness while doing something. Creating the right energy is important.

  • @inderjitkolappan8673
    @inderjitkolappan8673 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Om Shanti,
    Very good discussion. Excellent meditation in the last.

  • @corinabaicoianu
    @corinabaicoianu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She is so beautiful inside and outside!
    Namaste 🙏

  • @dineshgugnani4284
    @dineshgugnani4284 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sister shivani you are a great speaker. God bless you.

  • @MCCNivethaaE
    @MCCNivethaaE 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My life changed in positive way thank u sister.

  • @easylifeeasy976
    @easylifeeasy976 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I chnged my way of thinking and realized everthing is inside...what all I wish I need to work inside then only I can see that from outside world....my whole thought process became upsidedown after watching your vedios......I am greatful to your teaching for my life......

  • @RituRawat-digital-marketing
    @RituRawat-digital-marketing 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Self Awareness and my thoughts are the building blocks of my happiness. om shanti

  • @sujathathapa1742
    @sujathathapa1742 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Om Shanti thank you so much to Baba nd u both through you Baba give me my answer...

  • @nirmalchandel7197
    @nirmalchandel7197 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Om shanti di and thank you for your motivational classes.

  • @snehak6314
    @snehak6314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She is a beautiful soul

  • @rajasekharvenkataswamy3163
    @rajasekharvenkataswamy3163 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dear sister shivanee wonderful your guidance to human beings in trouble amazing explanations you have presented so well even a kid can understand so well. You actually saved me from death the other day I was feeling hopelessness of living a life of conflicts. Now I switched over to self sabotage to self realization from expectations to accepting.

  • @satierickhi3803
    @satierickhi3803 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    By listening to you I am improving my thoughts.Thank you Didiji.

  • @neogenogroup
    @neogenogroup 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow. This is what should be taught to everyone in every school. Why do we wait for someone in our adult life to tell us these basic truths?

  • @user-vn7zp1cu4g
    @user-vn7zp1cu4g 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Om Shanti
    Sister, you are an angel for us
    Thank you for radiating your positive energy all around.

  • @snehayadav8720
    @snehayadav8720 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Doing for others which I feel doing comfortable
    Take care of others but before that take care of urself

  • @DevineTouchHQ
    @DevineTouchHQ 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Om Shanti
    Today's my mind state is so much pure
    So that I'm on time to attend didi's class
    I'm enjoying
    Thanks for this great social work
    I'm Shanti

  • @PMcse
    @PMcse 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Om Shanti ! Divine blessings to all. 🙏

  • @PrabhatRanjanSatapathy7229
    @PrabhatRanjanSatapathy7229 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks with respect, Omm Shanti..

  • @revathisunder5759
    @revathisunder5759 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Om Shanthi 🙏

  • @maryreena3117
    @maryreena3117 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank u suresh sir fr speaking on behalf of us, thank u didi fr de beautiful moral support. 👍

    • @Numbers0123
      @Numbers0123 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Who is this gentleman, is he an actor

    • @pallavisinha214
      @pallavisinha214 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Numbers0123 He is an Indian actor Mr Suresh Oberoi. He is a renowned and legendary actor.

  • @mithireenaentertainment3646
    @mithireenaentertainment3646 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Om shanti my dear didi...thanks for ur teachings

  • @deesticco1719
    @deesticco1719 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is like accepting people on social media competing against posts you innocently posted to your interest or creativity; and in return would see your social group associates, not all keep throwing at you all these posts ! It is hilarious how human nature is influenced in today’s context with social media to compete as mentioned Face Book has created uncommercial competition ! Accept their cause of other’s thinking and compliment if genuinely like it !
    So thankful fir these discussions to enlighten the human mind ! 💖🙌🏼🙏

  • @barailygita6377
    @barailygita6377 ปีที่แล้ว

    always i feel happy when i listened to you dear shivani di❤️❤️

  • @watchme7076
    @watchme7076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Don’t receive anger it stays in them.
    Your Personality should be yours
    Your Responses should be your
    Your Way of talking should be yours
    In respective of other people
    Be Courteous
    Courtesy is your quality nice and friendly comes natural to you
    I’ll be courteous so mater What,When&Where
    Your personality changes your not aware of it
    Control someone by saying is this the way you speak you cant tell your mind “is this to think & react”
    Think feel & be
    You cant make people happy by doing it for them you have to feel happy then do it

  • @leenasaxena6954
    @leenasaxena6954 ปีที่แล้ว

    Om shanti 🙏 Good night Shivbaba 🙏 good night 🙏

  • @rajnipundir5991
    @rajnipundir5991 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The Suresh sir, giving example of fasting is quite convincing..

  • @DeeptiVashishth-j2f
    @DeeptiVashishth-j2f 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Om shanti Mam ❤😊...

  • @narendarvempati8879
    @narendarvempati8879 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This man is diverting the very good discussion, not letting her express to full.

  • @lobsanggengla9063
    @lobsanggengla9063 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    To be humble to superiors is duty, to equals courtesy, to inferiors nobleness. 🌸

  • @geetasaini1660
    @geetasaini1660 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    To be happy with ourselves is our priority

  • @prashantpillai-w4g
    @prashantpillai-w4g 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🙏🏻🌹🌹OM SHANTI🌹🌹🙏🏻

  • @laxminagar5334
    @laxminagar5334 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I practice what didi says and its true that i feel better in a conversation and the person also tendsbto calm herself or himself...

  • @lightandmight1817
    @lightandmight1817 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    When a human soul pleases GOD, The ALMIGHTY, by the fragrance of its virtues then there is a probability that others also will be pleased by that automatically.

  • @shuchiagarwal2935
    @shuchiagarwal2935 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Too good...well said...being unhappy u cant make anybody happy...so true ❤️❤️

  • @sangeetanair3643
    @sangeetanair3643 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very true...whatever we do we should do in happiness 😇

  • @kevinashcroft2028
    @kevinashcroft2028 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love listening appreciate your reasoning when our rationality threatens a robotic existence
    🔸️🔆🔹️🔆🔸️🔆🔹️🔆🔸️🔆🔹️

  • @jaishreedawda8431
    @jaishreedawda8431 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So, the new meaning of tolerance is to do things for others with an accepting and positive mindset and not as a duty towards others.

  • @Sierra-oh6sn
    @Sierra-oh6sn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mam you are my inspiration 🌸🌸🌸🌸

  • @Bulletproofyourhealth
    @Bulletproofyourhealth 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Isn't trying to make them happy our way of putting importance in them and making them feeel special.

  • @Mayamaya60
    @Mayamaya60 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Maa apne mere jeene ka andaz aisa badal diya mere sochne ka tareeka badal diya aur is dharti ko mere liye swarg bna diya.

  • @payelmondal3842
    @payelmondal3842 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    You changed my life... Om shanti

  • @VimalKumar-wk2oi
    @VimalKumar-wk2oi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Om shanti

  • @cheenu4228
    @cheenu4228 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks you to all of you 👼

  • @bhailalsoni3093
    @bhailalsoni3093 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks you
    very so much
    good bless you

  • @godhascometogivetheawarene5697
    @godhascometogivetheawarene5697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You were born to help for baba.

  • @tinaaarav3620
    @tinaaarav3620 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Om Shanti 🙏

  • @dibyajyotighosh2089
    @dibyajyotighosh2089 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    there are so pure hearted people like you... can't we diminish corruption madam?? that is the only big issue eating all the innocent poor people...

  • @simplyfoodwithneetumelwani7819
    @simplyfoodwithneetumelwani7819 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanku Di, listening to you, just changes your perspective towards life. So much depth in your words. Listening to you , adds so much more meaning to life. 🙏🙏

  • @alkagaur2662
    @alkagaur2662 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Inspiring.. thanks Sister Shivani.
    But i request to u U TUBE please do not put advertisement in between it disturb our mind.

  • @jdolphinc.1230
    @jdolphinc.1230 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing your gift of clear thought and and such clear explanation. It provides instruction that is easier to follow...focus on one simple quality. I feel I can do that!!! I don't need to react, God gave us the ability to respond. Thank you

  • @jkm8049
    @jkm8049 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Good questions asked by oberoi sir

  • @mediatricemutiyumana1630
    @mediatricemutiyumana1630 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, Shivani 25:30

  • @geetagupta2033
    @geetagupta2033 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Shivani didi aap mujhe bahut inspire karti hai

  • @rakhimotihar9737
    @rakhimotihar9737 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Om shanti didi
    Thanks a lot for your motivational speech
    Thanks a lot for explaining the real meaning of happiness 😊👌🏼

  • @bhaktichande
    @bhaktichande 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    This is very difficult when our family members are on the opposite side. You have to face them or their behavior quite often than others. And we face the same rude behavior quite often....... Then what to do. For how long can you still remain sweet and sober?

    • @bhaktichande
      @bhaktichande 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      In this case isn't it better to to just shut up and mind ur own business and talk only as much needed? Like this you atleast don't shout or react and u r neither sugary sweet.... U are just nothing at all. To the point conversation and minding ur own self....isnt this safer than reacting every single time they react?

    • @RadheyRadhey108
      @RadheyRadhey108 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Bhakti Chande yes be calm peaceful and send positive vibrations and they will change ..🕉☮️💟💕🌸

    • @Bulletproofyourhealth
      @Bulletproofyourhealth 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      true that

    • @puspalatapani2152
      @puspalatapani2152 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@bhaktichande She is not asking to TALK sweetly. You have a free will, you can talk to them nicely or ignore them. What she means is don't harm yourself by thinking about them, complaining about them, cribbing about them.

    • @arpitaamit3275
      @arpitaamit3275 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @yes do what pleases you, keep yourself happy.... Don't do anything for others without taking care of yourself

  • @supriyadutta9678
    @supriyadutta9678 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Gratitude ❤❤
    Thanks a lot ❤❤😊😊

  • @amygreen7998
    @amygreen7998 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for your amazing videos they are so very helpful to me in my life.

  • @brahmakumariwinifred9138
    @brahmakumariwinifred9138 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Sister, you open many nice peoples and including me understand better myself.

  • @staywithrika4459
    @staywithrika4459 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    good morning sister, I watch everytime your video finds a new lesson every time

  • @alif7284
    @alif7284 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    nice u both r really great personalities. .... .....
    m from pakistan ..... feel happy to listen u

    • @elmakumar9915
      @elmakumar9915 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Arfa Faheem

    • @harmitjutla103
      @harmitjutla103 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We all are God's children dose not mater where you born how we call God's name like all of us we all look different and we have different names in the we are part of god .

    • @azlanameer4912
      @azlanameer4912 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sister Fatima
      For how long have you been listening them? I am also from Pakistan and within few days listening i am feeling tremendous positive change. plz

  • @ArtistaPoojaHindi
    @ArtistaPoojaHindi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Om Shanti

  • @vimlajoshi4295
    @vimlajoshi4295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanku mam🙏🙏

  • @bdsahu974
    @bdsahu974 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    OM SHANTI 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @azlanameer4912
    @azlanameer4912 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Though Sister's every video and every word is nectar drop for me but her discussion with Sir Suresh is not less than a special feast for me! Slamti Ho ap dono per💖💖💖🙏

  • @deeptiagrawal7186
    @deeptiagrawal7186 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    do the things what make yourself happy and not others

  • @dineshbiswal8617
    @dineshbiswal8617 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Om shanti didi

  • @premaleelaj4258
    @premaleelaj4258 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    A teacher is ever learner 👍

  • @kasturikasturi9760
    @kasturikasturi9760 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Om shanthi

  • @sonalichatterjee8549
    @sonalichatterjee8549 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks

  • @anjalinicholas4441
    @anjalinicholas4441 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u.God bless u..great job

  • @snehayadav8720
    @snehayadav8720 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Everything I do I should be emotionally healthy. Other people willnot make me happy. Full stop
    Now I will never do things to make me happy. Happiness is my constant state.

  • @SunshineInspirational
    @SunshineInspirational 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    om shanti sister shivani...

  • @hanahnguyen3981
    @hanahnguyen3981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much 🙏🏽🙏🏽🎋🎋❤️

  • @putulkumari6578
    @putulkumari6578 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great motivational speaker

  • @bhargaviramireddy2059
    @bhargaviramireddy2059 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    OM SHANTI

  • @dianethincnantnoid4675
    @dianethincnantnoid4675 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My responsibilities. Om Shanti.

  • @lenavaldeira6192
    @lenavaldeira6192 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you sister - OmShanti

  • @premaleelaj4258
    @premaleelaj4258 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good information. Exactly 🙏

  • @mariaj4
    @mariaj4 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Family pretend to be happy even if we as good humans send positive vibes doing our duty full heartedly. Eventually making you a doormat ny dear. Its everyone's duty to do their respective duties and not only one person

    • @Bulletproofyourhealth
      @Bulletproofyourhealth 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      true that

    • @ThuLe-eh1xe
      @ThuLe-eh1xe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agree. Sister teaches us to stand up for ourselves. But i wonder if that daughter in law loves to go to work, will she be able to stand the criticisms and pressure of her husband's family? She might get sick eventually, she might have to divorce if she wants to stick to her own happiness, which is to go to work outside of the family to be strong and independent.. Life is hard.

    • @Guddilove801
      @Guddilove801 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ThuLe-eh1xe 100 agree. But we dont know yet what the family will think of her behaviour when she gets bold and goes against the initial restrictions of not working. When she does this with self respect and trust in her nature .. the strength and courage they will witness in her will automatically change their outlook on the restrictions. Such is the power of a high frequency human being. Their negativity won't survive the happy joyful strength of the daughter in law.

    • @ThuLe-eh1xe
      @ThuLe-eh1xe 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Guddilove801 the daughter needs to find strength

    • @ThuLe-eh1xe
      @ThuLe-eh1xe 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Guddilove801 the daughter in law needs to find strength, joy, help, support in herself and outside of the family. She cannot be alone by herself. Pray God to provide helps from friends, government etc...
      The family, parents in law, might never change because of fear of losing power, losing face. Oh! Wicked culture, wicked tradition!
      She does not have to be slave emotionnally, mentally, physically to her in law. Her happiness does not need to depend on the approval , change of mind of her in law because she is not a yoyo for them to put her up and down.
      If she does not act right now to save her life, she will get very sick.
      It is why faith should win over fear. She should pray to God to send good friends to help her.
      In USA, many battered wives have to take the children with them to flee away from violent husbands. They live in their car!
      Oh, my heart breaks for them...

  • @charumullick5010
    @charumullick5010 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazingly simple and beautiful ❤️ road to peace and happiness

  • @gopinathghosh9399
    @gopinathghosh9399 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a very interesting and very significant discussion I like to listen this type of video which presents us very good lessons Thanks

  • @ellis-pr7hh
    @ellis-pr7hh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A real wisdom❣️

  • @Reenanaik674
    @Reenanaik674 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You always help me to calm my emotions 😘😘😘

  • @kiruthigakuppuswamy3711
    @kiruthigakuppuswamy3711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful conversation. 👌😍

  • @veraf.4508
    @veraf.4508 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you

  • @shajankv4838
    @shajankv4838 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omsanthi ...

  • @senthamarair8339
    @senthamarair8339 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you sister Shivani.

  • @Anjalir1
    @Anjalir1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Om shanti 🙏😇😊😌😌😌

  • @godhascometogivetheawarene5697
    @godhascometogivetheawarene5697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are baba's well wisher❣🤚🍰☕🥭

  • @LetsDoEnglish1
    @LetsDoEnglish1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for putting things into perspective for us so beautifully! Truly empowering talk!

  • @azlanameer4912
    @azlanameer4912 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    at 21.00 "happiness does not come from out side but takes birth,first, within our own self" waaahhh

  • @bobispro132
    @bobispro132 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Whether a person can get married after taking this knowledge I mean om shanti pure knowledge.

    • @SuperKishore108
      @SuperKishore108 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      did you take the seven days course

    • @rashmirashu1810
      @rashmirashu1810 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ofcourse its ur choice only..ur life!!

  • @SelfParivartan
    @SelfParivartan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love

  • @techworld7499
    @techworld7499 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks a lot