That’s right, be a mother first and foremost! I applaud Vanessa Bryant how ever since Kobe passed, she puts all her time for the kids, traveling with them, taking care of them and never once been linked to dating anyone.
She’s literally only dated 4 people since Mark Anthony in 2011 including her marriage to Ben… like what do you want her to do? That’s 1 person every 3 years?! I can’t believe how y’all shame this woman!
@@MareMarMarie It is not the quantity of men she's dated, it's the fact that she meets her next partner while in a current relationship. Whenever her relationships are over, she doesn't take time for herself to heal, she just jumps into the next thing and rushes to get engaged and married ... she is in love with the idea of that " forever true love " .. gosh, wake up, relationships take work, she seems to only think of herself not even of her own kids.
JLo is not a love addict she's a lust addict and loves the first phase feeling when you meet someone, she marries them and then real life sets in, she gets bored, divorces them and then chases a new man to get that first phase feeling again. She's in her 50's and has never learned to be alone and at this age she never will, she'll continue this way for the rest of her life.
JLO isn't a relationship addict...she is a FAME ADDICT and she uses her relationships to maintain her fame. She stays relevant through her relationships being in the spotlight.
Probably. But it doesn't necessarily mean thay she didn't really love Aflleck. Regarding ARod, it doesn't mean that she didn't want a real relationship too.
Yeah I definitely think she is a narcissist. I saw a clip of her daughter trying to sing. And mom (J Lo) was singing over her. Smh. Imagine being threatened by a 12 year old girl when you're a grown ass woman. I kinda feel bad for her kids.
JLo has been married 4 times and engaged 6 times ! 💔💔💔 Ben Affleck was married for 13 years to Jennifer Garner and he and Jennifer are close friends and are co parenting their 3 children. Ben Affleck children are his top priority
Just because he was married for an extended period doesn’t mean much because he said he was miserable with her. His own words. What’s worse- being happy short amounts of time and moving on (JLo) or staying with a person for a long time (for whatever the reason) and being miserable? I don’t know these people or have an opinion on their relationship but if feel bad for anyone with a public relationship because even private ones are complicated. Good luck out there folks!! 🎉
The more I watch old episodes, I realize South Park has always been pretty spot on in their celebrity episodes, even when they were much more well liked at the time of the episode!
J Lo and Ben needs therapy. The red flag was always there Jennifer refused to acknowledge the red flags because she is also sick, she needs to be in therapy along with Ben. 😢
I think for Ben Affleck it might be past that. Batman is done with this relationship. They each have completely different goals and dreams and no amount of therapy is going to change that. I don't think they really thought this through but I wish the best for both of them
Jennifer u don’t need a man. You are very successful in your career. Your children should be the most important in your life. You don’t want your kids to imitate your marriages and to follow your footsteps when they become adults. Stay by yourself and continue your career with your kids by your side.
@@JohnSmith-pg9ns a woman whom truly love a Man don’t expose his privacy in public she ruined his reputation in front of his friends his parents embarrassing his kids this marriage from first time was incompatible they are opposite in everything it didn’t worked like he said Civilized divorce peacefully he cannot stand her anymore she is a controling imposing woman its over lopez should keep self respect some dignity
Ben’s kids will be fine because they have a mother and a father. JLo’s kids I really feel for because they have been bounced around since JLo’s marriage ended with Marc Anthony. ARod’s kids were close to Jlo’s kids and she just picked up and left and now again she has exposed them to someone else who will be leaving them again.
So has Ben’s kids also. He brings them around his girlfriends and they all do things together and we don’t know what Jennifer Gardner does but you can’t tell me she hasn’t been with a man since the divorce. Jlos kids alway had a mom and dad.
She needs time to reflect between relationships she needs time to herself. She’s another Elizabeth Taylor she needs to be married to every man she’s with or engaged. She is not happy by herself. She has very low self esteem…
A blind person could have seen this coming. When he broke up with her the first time, through his weakness letting people like his mom and BEST friend Matt that right there proved what kind of man he was. He/they both were trying to go back and capture what they first had in the beginning. That's dead. And cannot be recaptured. He blew it. Hopefully he grows up and realizes it. As for JLO, there will always be another man somewhere around not far off. Cause she's the kind that can never be without a man.
I’ll believe it when either mr affleck himself says he’s done or Jennifer . Otherwise I don’t care about what tmz says . Tbh it’s pretty effed up they put something like that out for an audience
She treats every man like an accessory. Like they're there just look good standing next to her. She loves the "couple" pics. She did it with Casper, Diddy, Chris Judd, A Rod, Ben , etc etc .
What? She’s a great actress, dancer and she’s gotten better as a singer. Her singing actually fits into the music trend right now. She’s a mesmerizing entertainer.
I met JLo while working at a high-end resort. She always has a 3rd party speak to people on her behalf while she’s standing right there. It’s very rude and entitled when you claim to be from the so-called “block”. She is very full of herself.
People don’t change. They broke up just before going down the aisle last time. Knew the mid life crisis marriage wouldn’t work. Jen = needy attention seeker glamour chick. Ben = down to earth private guy.
I like JLo. But she jumped into this relationship with Ben to do damage control and seek revenge on Alex Rodriguez for cheating on her. Bennifer 2.0 was a disaster waiting to happen from the start. They shouldn't have gotten married. But now that they did, I was hoping it would work. Jen is not a sex addict, but she is co-dependent on relationships. And she's also a workaholic and perfectionist. All of these are signs of her avoiding a bigger issue going on inside her. She also has to stop caring so much about her image, and what we, the public, think. I really like her. I don't think she's a bad person. Like many of us, she has her issues she needs to heal. Hers are a lot more public. I hope she comes out of this okay. I wish her all the best.
Your comment made a lot of sense to me; I mean, JLo had to have been well-received over the years or else we wouldn’t be here watching TH-cam videos about her in 2024. If I was in her shoes, I think I’d just enjoy my family and friends by sharing the fruits of my labor. No need to be unkind to those in service industry…be warm & generous! And give back to the Bronx by doing charity work.
Don’t blame it all on Ben. Harvey is right, she is a love addict and she loves the spotlight and he doesn’t. Didn’t they talk this through before getting back together?
Ben is the problem. He has destroyed the relationship. He begged Jlo for the second chance and got married, then abandoned her and publicly humiliated spending too much time with ex wife. That’s enough to kill any marriage.
They bring awareness to other people.. who knew what a love addict is?, and if JLO watches it she will realize what she needs help with. Dr Drew makes an appearance in this show
@@sbsk2526 she will definitely never watch this, but you are absolutely right that people learning what personality disorders are especially narcissistic, personality disorder, from celebrities so they can watch out for them in real life is definitely a valuable thing.
Jlo needs to know it’s OKAY to be single and alone. If you do find someone, it’s okay to date, no need to rush to get married. Focus on your kids and protect them.
He's too toxic. I mean, I've been married to an alcoholic before, and let me tell you, it's really hard. Usually. People with addiction issues are selfish, irritable, and volatile. And in their histories, they're always the victims. Jen, gurl, give you some me time. You're super ultra talented, no matter what envious stupid people say. You're the whole package, and you and your children deserve better. You're looking for a hero. There's no man that can measure up. Just God. Hopefully, you can realize it.
I’ve been calling on this since they got back together. But I got hammered and bullied. A lot of miserable trolls can’t handle the truth! I’ve been with an addict years ago. Addiction is horrible and no matter how healthy you are or have no addiction issue, it will not survive because the other person’s history with addiction. Once an addict is always an addict. Even when a person is sober. Healthy people can’t save an addict. They run the risk of relapse. So glad this confirmed my stance on their relationship. They were never meant to be together in the first place. There’s a reason they split up once before.
I have a friend like that . She is so exhausted . Man, come first . Not her friend and kid . Man . I no longer speak to her . Always call me for her problem then we'll no contact
Maybe TMZ should do a special of why John Peters left his fiancé to marry Pam Anderson. A woman that can’t be out a man . And has been married for 6 times. And just last year got divorce to her last husband. John Peters looks horrible.
Because Pam Anderson is hot, and sweet, and obviously a sex freak. And not a manipulative narcissist. Of course she's got a boatload of issues, but narcissistic personality disorder isn't one of them. She's genuine and good, despite her faults. Can't say that about a lot of celebrities.
He probably had his eyes opened--finally! Who wants to be with someone who is nasty n rude to people, also lying about a woman being shot at a club in 99, & doesn't respect privacy.
Harvey talked about jlo bad and Ben is an angel, Harvey said jlo s had lots of marriage s and he forgot Ben slept with the nanny and he's been with lots of women
Maybe this really isn’t self love to the extreme. It’s a case of finding someone to have them LOVE her and then the real self love comes when she extricates herself from that person. These are all pawns in living out the myth her parents sold her: “Yo will never be good enough!” Even when it comes to her children, it’s the same song, just different lyrics.
She does not care about anyone but herself. From what we can see she has dragged those children around from one man to another like they are LV luggage.
This is the John Peters that married Pam Anderson And he was only married for 12 days. And he accused her of only wanting to be with him for his money. He said in 12 days he paid her debt of 250,000.
Yeah, he got to be married to Pamela Anderson. He needs to STFU. He knew exactly what he was getting into. She is a lovable, sweet, genuine woman with a lot of issues, and she is very open and honest about them, to the entire world. She is not, a grandiose narcissist, despite whatever problems she has. She has never ever ever pretended to be perfect and has publicly proclaimed the opposite. Anybody who marries her should pay whatever the price. She's actually a great person and obviously she's Pamela Anderson. Not at all a manipulative narcissistic J Lo Kardashian type. Headache? Probably nonstop. Lying and covert malignant narcissistic manipulation? Almost certainly not.
This woman think she can control Ben but is totally wrong the only thing she's doing is bringing a lot problems to him and to her children. She needs to be alone by herself with her kids please GOD bring peace in the mind of JL so she can stop all this madness for the safety of her kids now Amen 🙏
Jlo is toxic. She tried to control him too much. She can't be alone always needing a relationship. When you end one relationship take at least a year for yourself before dating again. Ben and Jlo are like oil and vinegar.
JLo has been married 4 times and engaged 6 times, not one of those men has remained friends with her, not even Marc Anthony, he tolerates her because of the kids...on the other hand, Ben was married 13 years and to this day considers JG his best friend, they co-parent and put their kids first...whose the problem her, the narcissist, that's who. She loves herself way too much to make room for any man! Selfish, entitled and her way or the highway...come on now, doesn't take a PhD.
The guy who said Jlo needs to go to Nashville and do a country album and he would fund the whole thing because it would be wildly successful - he obviously does NOT have his finger on the pulse of country music.
These celebrities should never dream of thinking their children will ever have a normal relationship by their examples they keep giving them with their own lives as statement. 😔🙄
Daaaaamn, that is some advanced master certified therapist ish right there. Not being sarcastic at all, that's a great lesson. Sincerely, a professional therapist.
Why’s everybody blaming JLo when Ben is an alcoholic with addiction problems exacerbated by being in the spotlight and he literally chose a career in the spotlight 🤔
I saw it coming when they first started to date Jlo was insanely jealous of his relationship with his ex-wife Jennifer Gardner & his family with her ….all his kids She tormented (jlo) tormented Ben
he is a substance addict, drink a lot, smoke a lot, curse a lot, he is always grumpy and he cheated on Jen Garner. Why you would want jen G to be miserable again? I think the problem in Ben.
Ben needs to leave and never look back. He was reeled in for narcissistic supply, nothing else. The draining of his life force from her emotional vampirism shows in his face. They both need therapy but not to repair the relationship, to heal from it.
@@redwoodcoaststudio1610 thank you. I have nothing against Jennifer, I don’t know her. But I can see the dynamics of what was happening inside the relationship and he was being damaged by it, pointing to extreme narcissism. I’ve seen her demonstrate that personality disorder, even toward Shakira when they performed together. Already she’s brought in another man for supply, it was in the news, but probably just using him for a temporary salve. Personally, I don’t understand their neediness since I devote my life to giving and loving, and find that very rewarding (but never to narcissists, they never appreciate anything, they’re like vampires.)
Between the both of them, thats 6 marriages. She's been married 4 times, him twice. At this point, I would say, its time for the them to go seek some much needed therapy, and learn how to be alone for a while.
It is truly disheartening to witness the extent of online bullying that Jennifer Lopez has been subjected to recently. It is not appropriate to engage in disparaging remarks about someone simply because their actions do not align with one's preferences. Such behavior is counterproductive and does not contribute to a positive or constructive environment. Ben should take full responsibility for his alcoholism and cheating, every woman he is with he'll destroy.
She is also beautiful, we don't know who contacted first who. I won't attack a women wanting to find love. She thought that this was the man and it's nobody's business...
Until one of them say we are no longer together, people right now assuming there marriage is ending getting divorce, it has to come from them, I will be laughing if Ben Jennifer Lopez end up suing TMZ other people assuming about there marriage
@@jessicamarie8299 so many people say same thing, makes one wonder why he pursued her again. And she forced that Las Vegas marriage. He never looked happy about it. Wonder if he was under the influence or at a very low low time.
Occasionally, rarely, people who are true loves work through a bunch of their own crap after many years and get back together and do it right. Far more often, a few years go by and people only remember the hot sex and none of the toxicity and they try it again and immediately remember the toxicity and think oh my God why did I do this? 😅😂
Jlo needs to learn to stay by her self and be a mother first.
That’s right, be a mother first and foremost! I applaud Vanessa Bryant how ever since Kobe passed, she puts all her time for the kids, traveling with them, taking care of them and never once been linked to dating anyone.
She’s literally only dated 4 people since Mark Anthony in 2011 including her marriage to Ben… like what do you want her to do? That’s 1 person every 3 years?! I can’t believe how y’all shame this woman!
@@MareMarMarie It is not the quantity of men she's dated, it's the fact that she meets her next partner while in a current relationship. Whenever her relationships are over, she doesn't take time for herself to heal, she just jumps into the next thing and rushes to get engaged and married ... she is in love with the idea of that " forever true love " .. gosh, wake up, relationships take work, she seems to only think of herself not even of her own kids.
her poor kids had 4 men in their life (inc ARod) and every time they has to move, instability is the worse what you can do to a child
@@MareMarMarieShe's been married 4 times
JLo is not a love addict she's a lust addict and loves the first phase feeling when you meet someone, she marries them and then real life sets in, she gets bored, divorces them and then chases a new man to get that first phase feeling again. She's in her 50's and has never learned to be alone and at this age she never will, she'll continue this way for the rest of her life.
Elizabeth Taylor was the same
Well said.
@@Jazzie654WELL, SAID say the idiot to the bot😂
She's 55.
@@ehla0144”WELL SAID, said the idiot to the bot 😂” said the idiot to the bot
Her kids must be so over the multiple relationships that their Mom keeps forcing them into.
Revolving door for rhwm
I cant even remember whos the father of those kids.,,
SURE. BUT I NEVER SEE THIS KINDA NARRATIVE WHEN ITS A MAN WHO IS BEHAVIOR LIKE SHE DOES. HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT ABOUT IT?
@@TESLA-fc6wmMarc Anthony, at least she didn’t have multiple baby daddies tho lmao
She obviously can't keep a man either 🤷 lol
These are the days i miss Wendy williams 😢
amen
😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆 stop 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆
Yes! 😞
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She would have told us the real tea!
A golden rule, never go back to an ex🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Exactly! Don't put spoiled milk back in the fridge.
I've never seen a brown skin Hispanic woman on TMZ, Harvey has no right to speak about Lopez
@@CynthiaM-vs8kn What? I’ve never seen a purple one either 😆
Yep..second time makes you realize why the first time didn’t work
Yep, they're an ex for a reason !
JLO isn't a relationship addict...she is a FAME ADDICT and she uses her relationships to maintain her fame. She stays relevant through her relationships being in the spotlight.
Sounds like Smegma 😂🤣
A classic grandiose narcissist.
Got you are a spot on.
Probably. But it doesn't necessarily mean thay she didn't really love Aflleck. Regarding ARod, it doesn't mean that she didn't want a real relationship too.
Yes
She’s not a “love addict” lol She’s a narcissist
Love addict is someone who jumps from relationship to relationship, so she is, maybe she’s both ?
She's both a love addict & a narcissist all rolled into 1.
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Yup. She’s a narcissist so she is a “supply addict”.
Yeah I definitely think she is a narcissist. I saw a clip of her daughter trying to sing. And mom (J Lo) was singing over her. Smh. Imagine being threatened by a 12 year old girl when you're a grown ass woman. I kinda feel bad for her kids.
This woman doesn't know anything about love. She needs to learn how to love herself first
Rong the problem is she overloves herself and she's not even all that mxm
@@berniejacob6832Exactly.
sad woman
Absolutely you hit the nail right on the head!!
She loves herself TOO MUCH
JLo has been married 4 times and engaged 6 times ! 💔💔💔
Ben Affleck was married for 13 years to Jennifer Garner and he and Jennifer are close friends and are co parenting their 3 children. Ben Affleck children are his top priority
Ben Affleck top priority is drugs, not his children.
His 1st love is Alcohol
2nd his kids .... 3rd, He still loves the mother of children
@@ragepie292Jlo top priority is lusting men instead of spending time with her children.
Jennifer Gardner did the work while Ben appeared to have trashed it.
Just because he was married for an extended period doesn’t mean much because he said he was miserable with her. His own words. What’s worse- being happy short amounts of time and moving on (JLo) or staying with a person for a long time (for whatever the reason) and being miserable? I don’t know these people or have an opinion on their relationship but if feel bad for anyone with a public relationship because even private ones are complicated. Good luck out there folks!! 🎉
JLO is infatuated with the idea of love, but she doesn't want to put in the hard work into having a HEALTHY and LASTING relationship.
Yeah, like respecting your man's wishes to not share private relationship stuff like their emails.
It's called narcissistic personality disorder. It's in the DSM-V.
Ben and Jenny's relationship has been problematic since the early 2000s. South Park was not wrong.
The more I watch old episodes, I realize South Park has always been pretty spot on in their celebrity episodes, even when they were much more well liked at the time of the episode!
Why can't Ben affleck see this before dragging his children into a lopez mess ...Ben is not as intelligent as people think.😢😮
@@bootsiekeegan4401 People think he's intelligent? lol
J Lo and Ben needs therapy.
The red flag was always there Jennifer refused to acknowledge the red flags because she is also sick, she needs to be in therapy along with Ben. 😢
I think for Ben Affleck it might be past that. Batman is done with this relationship. They each have completely different goals and dreams and no amount of therapy is going to change that. I don't think they really thought this through but I wish the best for both of them
Exactly!!!💯💯💯💯
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She will never change Ben well he knows he stepped into crap marrying her dragging his children along. DIVORCE end this NONSENSE
Jennifer u don’t need a man. You are very successful in your career. Your children should be the most important in your life. You don’t want your kids to imitate your marriages and to follow your footsteps when they become adults. Stay by yourself and continue your career with your kids by your side.
Jlo said herself, she's always in a relationship,
Lopez ruined his reputation in her Documentary
She sure did! She should have listend to her husband and very good friend, Jane Fonda. Wisdom is precious.
Another bot
@@ehla0144says the bot is jho paying you to defend her?
What documentary? How so
@@JohnSmith-pg9ns a woman whom truly love a Man don’t expose his privacy in public she ruined his reputation in front of his friends his parents embarrassing his kids this marriage from first time was incompatible they are opposite in everything it didn’t worked like he said Civilized divorce peacefully he cannot stand her anymore she is a controling imposing woman its over lopez should keep self respect some dignity
Shes delusional
Ben’s kids will be fine because they have a mother and a father. JLo’s kids I really feel for because they have been bounced around since JLo’s marriage ended with Marc Anthony. ARod’s kids were close to Jlo’s kids and she just picked up and left and now again she has exposed them to someone else who will be leaving them again.
JLO calls her daughter Emma. " They". Because Emma is non binary. Too young to choose identity. Best wishes to JLO kids❤
They are teens now 16, so I’m pretty sure they are smart to know what’s going on
It’s pure selfishness.
She left because he cheated on her !!!!
So has Ben’s kids also. He brings them around his girlfriends and they all do things together and we don’t know what Jennifer Gardner does but you can’t tell me she hasn’t been with a man since the divorce.
Jlos kids alway had a mom and dad.
She needs time to reflect between relationships she needs time to herself. She’s another Elizabeth Taylor she needs to be married to every man she’s with or engaged. She is not happy by herself. She has very low self esteem…
So they marry the men they love. Look at all the women who live with one after another. Same thing. But people don't count the live ins.
People don't care how their children are affected.
Isn't this about their two non-binary daughters getting real close.
A blind person could have seen this coming. When he broke up with her the first time, through his weakness letting people like his mom and BEST friend Matt that right there proved what kind of man he was. He/they both were trying to go back and capture what they first had in the beginning. That's dead. And cannot be recaptured. He blew it. Hopefully he grows up and realizes it. As for JLO, there will always be another man somewhere around not far off. Cause she's the kind that can never be without a man.
OK "expert".
When TMZ says it…u know it’s real
I’ll believe they are getting a divorce when they both announce it themselves.
Is probably because of her, he is done.
I’ll believe it when either mr affleck himself says he’s done or Jennifer . Otherwise I don’t care about what tmz says . Tbh it’s pretty effed up they put something like that out for an audience
@@ysl23addidasqthey can do what they want 😂
@@ysl23addidasqthey're waiting until the movie comes out she made w Ben and Matt Damon.
@@jessicamarie8299hence why I said what I said . They’ll either come out with it or not . Lol 😂 you’re funny
Why do i get the feeling that JLo only treats Ben as one of her valued accessories 😖
Probably because she has zero respect for the little boundaries he does have
She treats every man like an accessory. Like they're there just look good standing next to her.
She loves the "couple" pics. She did it with Casper, Diddy, Chris Judd, A Rod, Ben , etc etc .
OHMIGOD! Yes! This is what I think too!
Because you can recognize narcissistic personality disorder.
Narcissism, addiction, and dysfunction on parade! SMH - Love Dr. Drew!
Nobody missed the warning signs lol 😂 everyone saw this coming
Sadly, you are correct
Anyone married to JLo will be Miserable
NPD abuse
“Investigates” JLo and Ben!!! 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭
Like what is there to investigate???? 😂😂😂😂😂
I'm sure there's alot on both sides 😂
It cracked me up when the producer said she’s talented, as what? Lip sync 😂😂😂😂 she can’t act … I will give her dancing, she seems okay
She’s an amazing Dancer and entertainer.
She is a very good actress
What? She’s a great actress, dancer and she’s gotten better as a singer. Her singing actually fits into the music trend right now. She’s a mesmerizing entertainer.
I think she's a good actress
I agree her looks made her famous.She is a good dancer
Now no one will want her. She has put a very bad name to herself. The kids should’ve been her main and only priority!
The whole world knows that JLo can't keep a man in her life for very long.
Ben aged so much being married to Jlo, poor Dude omg😅
Remember he was once married too. We don't know why that marriage ended.
I met JLo while working at a high-end resort. She always has a 3rd party speak to people on her behalf while she’s standing right there. It’s very rude and entitled when you claim to be from the so-called “block”. She is very full of herself.
Elizabeth Taylor 2.0 … she can never be alone- poor thing
Jennifer needs to stop getting married! Terrible for her kids!
Nobody cares.... we got high gas prices, high food prices, and a President that shit himself on TV 😂😂😂 we got bigger things to worry about 😂😂😂
Stop lying
@@mariabynum2309 about what....what am I lying about
People don’t change. They broke up just before going down the aisle last time. Knew the mid life crisis marriage wouldn’t work. Jen = needy attention seeker glamour chick. Ben = down to earth private guy.
is Jennie back on the block again?
SHE'S always on the block !!
J Lo needs to be in some kind of rehab period.
I like JLo. But she jumped into this relationship with Ben to do damage control and seek revenge on Alex Rodriguez for cheating on her.
Bennifer 2.0 was a disaster waiting to happen from the start. They shouldn't have gotten married. But now that they did, I was hoping it would work. Jen is not a sex addict, but she is co-dependent on relationships. And she's also a workaholic and perfectionist. All of these are signs of her avoiding a bigger issue going on inside her. She also has to stop caring so much about her image, and what we, the public, think. I really like her. I don't think she's a bad person. Like many of us, she has her issues she needs to heal. Hers are a lot more public. I hope she comes out of this okay. I wish her all the best.
oh be quiet she is addicted to being in a relationship
Your comment made a lot of sense to me; I mean, JLo had to have been well-received over the years or else we wouldn’t be here watching TH-cam videos about her in 2024. If I was in her shoes, I think I’d just enjoy my family and friends by sharing the fruits of my labor. No need to be unkind to those in service industry…be warm & generous! And give back to the Bronx by doing charity work.
Don’t blame it all on Ben. Harvey is right, she is a love addict and she loves the spotlight and he doesn’t. Didn’t they talk this through before getting back together?
Literally, no one is blaming it all on ben
Ben is the problem. He has destroyed the relationship. He begged Jlo for the second chance and got married, then abandoned her and publicly humiliated spending too much time with ex wife. That’s enough to kill any marriage.
Immediately it is his fault.This woman also has big problems.She moves from one man immediately to another.And people think it is normal
These type of shows don't help the situation.
? The media is J Lo's life. You don't get just the good
They bring awareness to other people.. who knew what a love addict is?, and if JLO watches it she will realize what she needs help with. Dr Drew makes an appearance in this show
@@sbsk2526 she will definitely never watch this, but you are absolutely right that people learning what personality disorders are especially narcissistic, personality disorder, from celebrities so they can watch out for them in real life is definitely a valuable thing.
I think they are both broken people ☹️
Yup
Agreed! I wish them both healing!
Jlo needs to know it’s OKAY to be single and alone. If you do find someone, it’s okay to date, no need to rush to get married. Focus on your kids and protect them.
People with NPD can't be alone. Never gonna happen.
He's too toxic. I mean, I've been married to an alcoholic before, and let me tell you, it's really hard. Usually. People with addiction issues are selfish, irritable, and volatile. And in their histories, they're always the victims. Jen, gurl, give you some me time. You're super ultra talented, no matter what envious stupid people say. You're the whole package, and you and your children deserve better. You're looking for a hero. There's no man that can measure up. Just God. Hopefully, you can realize it.
Yes. No doubt he has porn addiction too.
Ben grow up and take responsibility.
I’ve been calling on this since they got back together. But I got hammered and bullied. A lot of miserable trolls can’t handle the truth! I’ve been with an addict years ago. Addiction is horrible and no matter how healthy you are or have no addiction issue, it will not survive because the other person’s history with addiction. Once an addict is always an addict. Even when a person is sober. Healthy people can’t save an addict. They run the risk of relapse. So glad this confirmed my stance on their relationship. They were never meant to be together in the first place. There’s a reason they split up once before.
Never better said.
I agree
Totally agree that Jen needs to learn to be alone and good with it before she gets into another relationship. I wish her the very best. 💜
I have a friend like that . She is so exhausted . Man, come first . Not her friend and kid . Man . I no longer speak to her . Always call me for her problem then we'll no contact
Maybe TMZ should do a special of why John Peters left his fiancé to marry Pam Anderson.
A woman that can’t be out a man . And has been married for 6 times. And just last year got divorce to her last husband. John Peters looks horrible.
Because Pam Anderson is hot, and sweet, and obviously a sex freak. And not a manipulative narcissist. Of course she's got a boatload of issues, but narcissistic personality disorder isn't one of them. She's genuine and good, despite her faults. Can't say that about a lot of celebrities.
Jennifer Lopez isn’t even pretty it’s kind of amazing how she became a celeb in the first place
Makeup artists (all smoke and mirrors)
He probably had his eyes opened--finally! Who wants to be with someone who is nasty n rude to people, also lying about a woman being shot at a club in 99, & doesn't respect privacy.
Harvey talked about jlo bad and Ben is an angel, Harvey said jlo s had lots of marriage s and he forgot Ben slept with the nanny and he's been with lots of women
Ben and Jlo were the only ones who missed the signs. It was never going to work. It didn't work the first time, it won't work the second time.
True.
She loves herself
Maybe this really isn’t self love to the extreme. It’s a case of finding someone to have them LOVE her and then the real self love comes when she extricates herself from that person. These are all pawns in living out the myth her parents sold her: “Yo will never be good enough!”
Even when it comes to her children, it’s the same song, just different lyrics.
She does not care about anyone but herself. From what we can see she has dragged those children around from one man to another like they are LV luggage.
I can care less about those 2 bums 😂😂
Yet your commenting lol 😂
I can't imagine if you could!
I’am hearing your words in the voice of Ralph Kramden. 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@avalon1108😂😂😂😂😂😂…NOT Ralph Kramden! 🤣🤣🤣
people fall for the hope and feeling of being in love and marry and not the reality that the person is not for you
This is the John Peters that married Pam Anderson
And he was only married for 12 days. And he accused her of only wanting to be with him for his money. He said in 12 days he paid her debt of 250,000.
Yeah, he got to be married to Pamela Anderson. He needs to STFU. He knew exactly what he was getting into. She is a lovable, sweet, genuine woman with a lot of issues, and she is very open and honest about them, to the entire world. She is not, a grandiose narcissist, despite whatever problems she has. She has never ever ever pretended to be perfect and has publicly proclaimed the opposite. Anybody who marries her should pay whatever the price. She's actually a great person and obviously she's Pamela Anderson. Not at all a manipulative narcissistic J Lo Kardashian type. Headache? Probably nonstop. Lying and covert malignant narcissistic manipulation? Almost certainly not.
This woman think she can control Ben but is totally wrong the only thing she's doing is bringing a lot problems to him and to her children. She needs to be alone by herself with her kids please GOD bring peace in the mind of JL so she can stop all this madness for the safety of her kids now Amen 🙏
Jlo is toxic. She tried to control him too much. She can't be alone always needing a relationship. When you end one relationship take at least a year for yourself before dating again. Ben and Jlo are like oil and vinegar.
Jlo need to be alone , alone alone with herself ❤
she is also an attention and work addict.
Mix that with love addict 🌪️ 🌪️🌪️
JLo has been married 4 times and engaged 6 times, not one of those men has remained friends with her, not even Marc Anthony, he tolerates her because of the kids...on the other hand, Ben was married 13 years and to this day considers JG his best friend, they co-parent and put their kids first...whose the problem her, the narcissist, that's who. She loves herself way too much to make room for any man! Selfish, entitled and her way or the highway...come on now, doesn't take a PhD.
Doesn't take a PhD to recognize NPD!
The guy who said Jlo needs to go to Nashville and do a country album and he would fund the whole thing because it would be wildly successful - he obviously does NOT have his finger on the pulse of country music.
These celebrities should never dream of thinking their children will ever have a normal relationship by their examples they keep giving them with their own lives as statement. 😔🙄
Never marry your mistakes. 😖
Daaaaamn, that is some advanced master certified therapist ish right there. Not being sarcastic at all, that's a great lesson. Sincerely, a professional therapist.
@@redwoodcoaststudio1610 what would be your advice? Play house?
Why’s everybody blaming JLo when Ben is an alcoholic with addiction problems exacerbated by being in the spotlight and he literally chose a career in the spotlight 🤔
I’m sure Ben is thrilled about this deep dive into his privacy.
Lolololol you win, now I can go to bed, thanks.
She needs to learn to be alone point blank period.
I saw it coming when they first started to date Jlo was insanely jealous of his relationship with his ex-wife Jennifer Gardner & his family with her ….all his kids She tormented (jlo) tormented Ben
That producer !!! He should be judging no one . 😅😂
I do like Ben and Jennifer G together, always did
he is a substance addict, drink a lot, smoke a lot, curse a lot, he is always grumpy and he cheated on Jen Garner. Why you would want jen G to be miserable again? I think the problem in Ben.
I wish them all peace as they meander through this difficult time as children are involved!
Jlo is not made for mariage at all
Ben needs to leave and never look back. He was reeled in for narcissistic supply, nothing else. The draining of his life force from her emotional vampirism shows in his face. They both need therapy but not to repair the relationship, to heal from it.
You are the first person in 100 comments I've read that understands narcissistic personality disorder abuse. Thank you.
He was "hoovered"
@@redwoodcoaststudio1610 thank you. I have nothing against Jennifer, I don’t know her. But I can see the dynamics of what was happening inside the relationship and he was being damaged by it, pointing to extreme narcissism. I’ve seen her demonstrate that personality disorder, even toward Shakira when they performed together. Already she’s brought in another man for supply, it was in the news, but probably just using him for a temporary salve. Personally, I don’t understand their neediness since I devote my life to giving and loving, and find that very rewarding (but never to narcissists, they never appreciate anything, they’re like vampires.)
Two selfish people leaving a trail of destruction and broken lives.
They need their privacy so the kids are not affected
Between the both of them, thats 6 marriages. She's been married 4 times, him twice.
At this point, I would say, its time for the them to go seek some much needed therapy, and learn how to be alone for a while.
"Soon as it loaded it imploded ".....HYSTERICAL
It is truly disheartening to witness the extent of online bullying that Jennifer Lopez has been subjected to recently. It is not appropriate to engage in disparaging remarks about someone simply because their actions do not align with one's preferences. Such behavior is counterproductive and does not contribute to a positive or constructive environment. Ben should take full responsibility for his alcoholism and cheating, every woman he is with he'll destroy.
Jlo deserves it she’s no saint!!!
Jlo is a man-eater.
@@jessicamarie8299 two famous rich, good-looking narcissists, what could go wrong? 😂😂😂
Lesson learned ...never go back to your ex ..it's your ex for a reason 👍
😂😂😂😂 that producer said it how it is 👏
The only way a woman will find a good man is when she loves herself first. Men can smell desperation miles away
no one really knows what is going on in a marriage
She is also beautiful, we don't know who contacted first who. I won't attack a women wanting to find love. She thought that this was the man and it's nobody's business...
Until any one of them announce their "DONE" thats the real thing🥴
LOVE ADDICT😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤢🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮 LAUGHING SO HARD I BARFED
Shes SCARED to be ALONE
I also heard SEX ADDICT 😮😂
Clearly she doesn't like being alone. She craves attention 💯% 24/7. Who will worship her if she's alone?
Spot on
I am always shocked she was with Marc as long as she was! Shocked! Shocked! Shocked!
Ben Mom told him when he first met jho!! To not bring jho to her dinner table
Lies, she helped Ben with decorations, when he proposed to her, the first time
Ben is the ho and alcoholic, a train wreck. Jlo is the narcissist.
@@neslynfrederic659 I bet his Mom saw right through "THE LOW WOMAN."
I'VE NEVER BEEN MARRIED.BUT DAMN DIVORCED 4 TIMES JLO STOP CHASING A RELATIONSHIP AND LOVE YOURSELF!
Until one of them say we are no longer together, people right now assuming there marriage is ending getting divorce, it has to come from them, I will be laughing if Ben Jennifer Lopez end up suing TMZ other people assuming about there marriage
I’m sure Ben’s buddy Matt Damon is talking w/ him even though it has been clear in the past he will not say anything regarding Ben & JLo in the past.
Matt married someone who's not in show biz. That's usually the best thing to do
Ben’s brother didn’t even attend his wedding. He knew this marriage wouldn’t last.
@@jessicamarie8299 Ben's mother never liked her. His brother probably didn't either.
@@grwoobie1297 I don’t blame them. I’ve heard Jlo is very mean and rude to people.
@@jessicamarie8299 so many people say same thing, makes one wonder why he pursued her again. And she forced that Las Vegas marriage. He never looked happy about it. Wonder if he was under the influence or at a very low low time.
She is addicted to herself. That is Jlo's addiction. She would marry herself if she could.
Never go back to your ex.
Hot sex doesn't last forever.
Wiser words have rarely been spoken
Occasionally, rarely, people who are true loves work through a bunch of their own crap after many years and get back together and do it right. Far more often, a few years go by and people only remember the hot sex and none of the toxicity and they try it again and immediately remember the toxicity and think oh my God why did I do this? 😅😂
Shes in love with the idea of being in love.
It is god justice . Lopez post is stupid silly its over
Calm down he's not a prize
Never get back with an ex...
People actually saw this coming? Really??
😂
Jon Peters looks like the “Wolf of London.”
The trouble is she wants it all. And in life, you do not get that. And he only wants to be left to his habits. A bad combination.
Ask Jerry Garcia who got married with a full heroin addiction a year before he died, to an ex-girlfriend, who got all his money. Good times!
The entire GD organization refers to her as "the widow." "Black" being unspoken, but perfectly understood by everyone.
Oh, I'm sorry. Did somebody say Kurt? Yeah…