FENTANYL KILLS: Jaiden Clark's Story - episode 137
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 ต.ค. 2024
- Mother, Melissa Rambur from Roseville, California shares her story of losing her 17-year-year-old son, Jaiden Clark, to illicit fentanyl in this documentary about the dangers of illegal drugs. To use this presentation at high schools or other educational applications, contact Texas Pictures through our website at www.texas-pictures.com.
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Robert DeNiros grandson died last year of the same thing. By week 2 after his passing the police found the dealer. Everyone should be treated with the same respect
Money talks, BS walks
Never happens for us little folk.
Excellent point - thank you for this comment. 👍🏻
They had to or DeNiro would have went vocal. I suspect that this has become so common lately they just don't have the staff to handle the tremendous caseload. Citizens need to organize and demand this crisis becomes a priority. Raw materials often come from China and travel over the Mexican border. Are they even serious about closing the border? The supply chain needs to be targeted at its origins to make an impact. Getting serious and allocating more resources to increase LE to target local dealers won't even make much of an impact. Much more education to young people might help a little though.
@@odalisgonzalez6875 female was found within a month and we're not rich
When she apologized to her dead son for hitting his head as she pulled him off the bed to perform CPR was so brutally raw. My heart goes out to her. May her son RIP.
All schools need to play these videos for children. Show them what “ getting high” can cause. This has got to end and it’s everyone’s problem and we all need to do a part in stopping this madness.
It would help, along with parents not concerning themselves with being friends with their children. Be the parent and continually support a clean living message through words and actions. It’s nearly impossible to die from Fentanyl poisoning, if you never ingest drugs not prescribed to you. It’s that simple. The poor Mom in this video has so much healing ahead of her; I pray she has a great support system.
It never worked and it never will work. Kids are kids and they try things, thinking "nothing will happen to me".
And if police puts everyone behind bars who sold something laced with fentanyl, someone else will sell it. There are so many poor and so many troubled people. : (
Back in the 70s we were told, we are about to lose our live if we take drugs - it did not bother me. Better dead, than in pain. And no, rehab would not help .Maybe therapy if you are lucky and find a really good therapist and can afford it. And it takes many years.
WHEN THERE IS G*D IN A CHILD'S LIFE VIDEOS AREN'T NEEDED .
IT STARTS WITH PARENTS MOTHER AND FATHER TEACHING THEIR CHILDREN WHY THEY ARE HERE ON EARTH IN THE FIRST PLACE.
UNFORTUNATELY MOST PARENTS DON'T KNOW.
Yes! I used to work on a brain injury unit. I said the same thing about people who rode motorcycles and ATVs, that they should bring high school field trips through there so they could see young people with trachs, tube feeds, craniotomies and wearing diapers as result of those things. It’s so hard to convince kids these bad things can happen to them.
Schools no longer teach this. This needs to be taught AT HOME.
My heart hurts so bad for her. Rest easy sweet boy.
Don’t pretend that you’re alright, the grief that you are experiencing is real and heartbreaking. 🦋
You could see it through the entire video. 😢heartbreaking 💔 😢
NOTHING I watch on TH-cam effects me more, or breaks my heart more than watching these parents💔
So,so strong for telling their story.
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i agree.
I don't think I could do it 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Indeed, very touching. For anyone with true love will rethink about taking street pills to avoid this kind of heartbreak from their loved ones. You can clearly relate what your loved ones will go through when you are gone. Let's not die intentionally, taking street drugs literally mean you are halfway to dying prematurely
Heartbreaking. You can do everything right as a parent and this still can happen
Yup! Don’t I know it. My son od Christmas morning 2023 and died after he was found to have no brain activity. He gave his organs. The Oregon donation team told us that they’ve had so many more Oregon donations because of drug overdoses..
I’m hoping & praying the people that received his organs are doing really really well .
My worst fear
@@durrere1973 agreed. Nothing shows you that more than experience
There are no perfect people
@@durrere1973 it’s ok it happens to adults too etc so whatever
What a horrible tragedy to have to find your own child deceased. It's so unfortunate how she was so nervous about upsetting him by knocking on his door to wake him up, "I didnt want to get in trouble if I woke him up" no child should ever act in such a way that makes a parent walk on eggshells not wanting to upset them.
THIS ! 🙌 Parents have lost their ability to parent these days . Things like this are the result, unfortunately.
So true!
@@ny_njtrailrunnert926 I was thinking this same thing. Like what do you mean scared you would get in trouble?? Smh.
I think she just meant she didn’t want to upset him. We all know how teenage boys are, ESPECIALLY about their privacy. Let’s not judge, she had enough courage to tell her story. If you have nothing nice to say don’t say it.
I was thinking the same. Parents have lost the authority unfortunately.
She is so honest and transparent
I have a daughter, and she's my only child. I probably couldn't go on with life if I ever lost her. Watching these videos makes you realize how precious life is. I can't even imagine the pain these parents go through.
Just remember she is an individual with her own thoughts, feelings, desires. Be careful about emotionally smothering her, that is, about emotional incest. Not saying it has anything to do with you, just throwing it out there because it messed up my life so bad. Parents need to try and be aware of it.
It's infuriating the way the police treated this case. Melissa, I am so sorry for your loss.
After watching these videos, what I realized is to never call 911 right away once you confirm your loved ones are passed, spend some time with them, say your prayers, and a proper good bye instead. I hate when police kicks you out in cold weather and does zero Investigation. Might as well just do a proper good byes and hold them in your arms instead.
@@normn2915 this is absolutely true. I found my boyfriend dead in our home from fentanyl. I didn't call the police for probably 20 minutes. I knew he was gone. I laid with him and cried and loved on him. I knew when paramedics came, they wouldn't let me touch him anymore. 💔🕊💫
I believe in the instant shock and devastation of it all, especially when it's your child, the first thought we believe is that they can be brought back and saved. So we call for help and for the confirmation of either. To sit and do nothing, I personally would beat myself up wondering if I had just dialed 911, would they be here.
@normn2915 yeah it's the hope that they can be brought back to life but if you know they are fully gone, I do agree to just spend time with them
😢😢😢😢😢😢 this hit my soul
He was sooo handsome.. my heart breaks for you . 💔 Thanks Texas Pictures for giving these precious parents a safe place to share their stories ❤️ 🙏
Thank you for your comment.
This poor mother broke my heart..I couldn't see her through my tears....may she get the support she deserves to survive her tragedy...
Jaiden's story popped up in my feed and the first thing I thought was: Another mother lost her beautiful, much loved son. So sorry momma!
I am lifting you up in prayer. He is so handsome and sounds like an amazing son. Sending you strength. My heart hurts for you.
I hate how investigators treat families. I think I’ve only seen a couple of these where they got justice. Most families are treated so horribly, and at their worst moments.
They (cops,detectives)act like they never experimented with substances b4..nobody is perfect!!
@@brandip77 stop . They do their job . It’s not their fault ALL THESE KIDS DO DRUGS . They have to have an unbiased disposition bc I’m sure their heart breaks EVERYTIME . It’s nasty that you feel that they didn’t coddle this parent . Thats not their job he had many issues just as most addicts do . And after he died and said she’s still finding pills . This was a issue the parent should have REALLY stuck their foot in , but you can see her mindset as a mother , she’s saying “ i was scared he’d be mad id wake him up” what type of parent is scared of their child .
@@calebabe145exactly. She knew he was doing drugs in a house where she had a 4yo living. Wasn't concerned about the kid finding his drugs when he was alive.
Why wasn't she checking his room whilst he was alive.
She was "afraid" to wake him up even though he had od:d before.
She dropped the ball. Not anyone else.
There's lack of resources, but there's also a coping mechanism. Imagine going through that on daily basis, knowing that you are powerless to make an actual change. At some point, they just get burned out and going through the motions. We need a systemic change, as a society. The way this turned, that's not what we need.
I hate how families and people in these comments treat investigators. They are there to collect information and process the scene. Period. They are not therapists, counselors or friends. If you think you can do a better job, perhaps you should try to get a job in law enforcement and do something more productive than being a cop basher in a comment section of TH-cam. Go show them how it's done.
What’s the point of detectives taking their phones when something like this happens when most of the time they don’t do sh*t
That's true in my experience, sickening you can cause death and no punishment.
@@KimfromMichigan-x2u exactly!!! Truly sickening I wonder if this happened to one of their loved ones would they do the same and not f**king investigate the way they should
Has to change new laws
And treat it as a homicide
Better investigations
Investigate who they've been with in the last 24 hours@@KimfromMichigan-x2u
The pain in her voice guts my heart! Im praying for her 😢🙏
Zamiast żałować po tragedii zacznijcie w końcu coś robić z tymi waszymi rozpasanymi dobrobytem dziećmi , które biorą narkotyki, bo już nic ich nie interesuje tylko muszą się odurzać? Chory XXI wiek i dzieci robią co chcą. Od przedszkola wpajajcie im , ze narkotyki dzisiaj to prędka śmierć!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ameryka jest straszna w ilości ćpunów.
When I first started watching these stories, I made myself a promise to watch everyone, to honor the victims and their families. This is a promise I have kept, but it is becoming so hard to do. It is just so heartbreaking. It doesn't matter to me, the persons race, see or age, it is breaking my heart and soul. I can feel the pain of these families, but I can't imagine having to live their reality! My deepest sympathy to all who have lost someone to this epidemic. And to this poor mother my heart is totally broken for your loss.
Thank you for your comments. We also have a series of addiction recovery stories that you might find interesting. Here's a link to the playlist:
From Addiction to Recovery - th-cam.com/play/PLdCPA32W_p39Z8hi7xSIX3Fkqmhd7mRzj.html
@@CatherineCarr-s4f I watch every one of these videos also. And every time one ends, I remind my adult children in their 20s and 30s to never take pills that are not from a prescription in their name. I cry for the people in the videos and have no idea how the families find the strength to go on, let alone relive the devestation over and over in hopes of saving other lives..
Rest in peace Jaiden My heart goes out too the Mother of this Handsome Young Man💕🙏💕
I'm from the next town over from you. Orangevale. I'm so sorry for your horrible experience while trying to save Jaiden's life, your incredible loss and the detective's treatment of your case. It's inexcusable. Sending my sympathy and support to you and Jaiden's other loved ones.
It just breaks my heart to see a mother go through this. My son is 32 years old and he has been addicted to drugs for years. He has been to rehab many times and has OD many times. I’ve done all I know to do to help him. It scares me to death that he’s going to be next. My thoughts and prayers are with everyone that is struggling with an addiction and parents that have lost their children to an addiction. God Bless
I'm so sorry for your loss. Your son was a beautiful young man. I can feel your pain😢
I'm so sorry for your loss
May God comfort you through this difficult time
She is the only yt mother of a biracial child on this series that I've heard admit to biases in law enforcement when it came to her son. She understands that though it happens to all races the callousness that black children and their parents experience is next level.
Amen and Amen she is loving.
Why make everything about race? Race baiting is just as bad. It needs to stop.
@@minigirl6839 Racism is real. No one is race baiting. Race issues are real. Sorry the truth hurts.
@minigirl6839 just because it makes you uncomfortable, does not mean it doesn't happen. It's a known fact. If you don't like it, help to be the change.
@@Phiskskee Ty please preach
This Is Heartbreaking 🥺😞🙏🏾 Prayers And Healing to this Family
Forever 17 ❤
Sad situation. Schools need to show these videos to the students .
RIH Jaiden, another young man lost to this awful fendemic.😢🙏
Omgggggg I'm gonna use that fendemic
God continue to bless you and give you everlasting grace
His obit said mental health struggle was finally over. Gotta think why was she so afraid of her son.😢 something def missing. Rip
These are all sad, but, this one hit different. She is such a genuine person, and obviously, a great mom.
Soooo much love, and a prayer for peace in your heart, I send out. 🤗❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
A year younger than my baby. Precious lives being snatched away!! 😢 Sad and hits to the core 😔
this is just absolutely heartbreaking. really pulled on my heart strings and I have watched so many of these stories. I can feel her mama pain. sending hugs and love
This series displays more than just the aftermath of drug fatalities but the grief these families experience. Thanks for sharing again. ❤
This mom is so brave and strong. She represented her son very well, tactfully but you can tell she fought the good fight for him and went through a lot…”I didn’t want to get in trouble for waking him up”. Warm hugs to her and their entire family. 😢
I lost my 19-year-old daughter to fentanyl November 13 of 2022. It’s been the hardest thing I have ever in my life had to deal with. I will never be the same! I love watching these documentaries Texas documentaries it’s going to be in Oklahoma City August 16 and 17th and we are going And I just cannot wait to sellhear some of these stories in person. Jaden story may be the saddest I’ve seen so far.
I'm very sorry for your loss 💔. I lost my 2 month old grandson on November 13, 2020 and he was a twin. Much ❤️ to you.
I’m so sorry 💔❤️🩹
God Bless you. I'm so sorry for this poisoning. Exactly what this is. I know you'll live forever with missing him.
I’m so sorry for your loss, Mommy 💔🙏🏽
This one really touched me I’ve been watching these all weeks all sad but this for sure pulled at my heart strings I’m at work fighting back tears.
Valentine's Day, breaks my heart with the first few words. 💔 Watching now. I'm so sorry for your loss. Prayers for strength, comfort and peace. 🙏
The D.A.R.E. program is no longer in schools but gender identity is ......let that sink in ......😢😢
@@warrenrobinson8532 we still have D.A.R.E at my kids school
The dare program really helped .
@@nekneversleep It sincerely helped me. I still don’t do drugs at 42 and was in that program in 5th grade.
Truth
I have nothing against the gender stuff but the D.A.R.E program really helped us. The commercials, the ads, the videos were drilled into us. I am in my forties and I still remember the campaigns to this day. I think that was Nancy Reagan’s platform. I’m not a republican but I loved Nancy Reagan and what her campaign did for my generation.
These stories are so hard to listen to and they're so young I couldn't have imagined my children dying like this and me finding them 💔. These Mother's are strong and brave 🙏🙏
Im sorry for your lost. I'm 3 years drug free. I did it for myself but also because i didnt want to break my Mama's heart. She has 8 children and i didnt want to be the reason she cried everyday. I'm praying for you and in honor of you and your son I'll continue to fight the good fight of staying sober and "NOT"returning to my life of addiction God bless you ma'am 🕊️ 🤍 🙏🏾🫶🏾..
congratz on your sobriety, i hope you're well
These stories are so heartbreaking 😢
Have mercy, Lord Jesus Christ. Such a beautiful child. 💔🙏🏽
I'm so sorry for your loss Mom 💔😢 Your son is absolutely gorgeous. I pray you find peace, and please know there are many who care, and know the truth. Jaiden was poisoned by Fentanyl. He is not just "Another" this that or the other! He is a human being and he matters!!! 🙏💖🌹
Wow 💔 her grief is palpable. Bless her 🤍🤍🤍🫶🏻
He was just a baby😢💔
I’m so sorry!! Thank you for sharing.
my hearts hurts for this mother 💔💔
I'm so sorry for your loss. Carry Jaiden in your heart and continue to be his voice.
I lost my son Damon Day 18 years old on the same day different year 2-14-21 I’m so sorry my heart goes out to you and your family I send you a hug 💔 #onepillcankill
I am so deeply sorry for your loss.....
So very Sorry for your loss mom ❤
My goodness nobody should have too go through what this mother went through. So sorry for your loss, my family and I will pray for you.
When she said I was present everyday and it still happened to my son 💔 😢
this kind of pain is unmatched, the strength she has to talk about this is just insane. im so happy that she has support around her and will continue to heal and we are all here for her, the day will come where she will beyond cherish the memories of Jaiden and remember the love he has for her and that he is at complete peace
I’m sorry for your loss, praying for you and your family. Thank you for sharing Jaiden’s story. It’s not your fault, cherish his memories.
Sincerest Condolences, May he Rest in Paradise 🙏🏿
I'm so sorry for your loss, my deepest condolences to you and your family.
So sorry for your loss. This is heartbreaking. May the Lord give you comfort ❤
Don't give up. Sending love.
I am so sorry for your loss😪🤍🙏
I’m so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful boy.
I am sorry 😢😢
Heartbreaking story...
I lost my daughter to an overdose in November 2023 , I have often called the detectives to see if any investigation has lead up to anyone's arrest.
I had talked to several people that knew my daughter and the dealer that sold her the drugs.
Still no arrest.
If anyone from lumberton nc is reading this the dealers name was Nennie Keisler, and yes he is still selling his poison at the same place and no arrest yet.
We will be shooting stories in Asheville, NC late next month
@@TexasPictures Could you interview him?
It doesn’t seem likely that a dealer would be open to that.
The dealers will stop dealing only when the demand decreases, sad to say.
My God my God. As a mother, my heart breaks for her. There is nothing more heartbreaking than a mothers tears. Sending prayers of Peace 🙏
Did she say “I didn’t want to get in trouble for waking him up”??🥺🥺…sad sad case! Praying for her peace.
I'm so sorry for the pain you are going through. He is resting in peace now. Not only do we need to teach our kids the dangers of drugs but show them these kids that look like them and their stories.
I have shared your channel in a college assignment to spread this important look at the devastating loss fentanyl poisoning is causing around our country.
Thank you for sharing.
Sending an abundance of love & light to you and your family. ❤❤
🌷 *Mama* Melissa *Jaiden* absolutely *mattered* & is a *precious* son with *angel* wings *watching* over his *beautiful* mother.🕊
My heart hurts for Jaiden, his story left untold.
The Flonase was to clear up the sinuses from snorting pills.
You are so brave to share your story to try to prevent this from happening to others. My heart breaks for you. I’m so sorry for your pain. May God give you peace and strength. Your son looked like a sweet young man. You’re a great mom♥️🙏🏼
I am in tears right now I can feel the rawness in her story...
In almost every episode I've noticed 2 things that should be made to available especially to those in Rehab. 1, once presumed to be a Fentanyl Death, deceased is devalued as once being Human. 2, How that Devaluation Rips at the Soul of those left behind for a second Time.
You are so right😢The loved one died twice: once when they pass, the second time when their death is treated as unimportant by authorities/society/etc. Your loved ones matter. YOU matter. May this suffering mother heal some way, some how💔🙏😢
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Lord God Almighty of the Bible please hold this mothers heart in your hand. I pray and ask that your spirit would overwhelm her with the peace and calm that passes all mans understanding. Comfort her in your wings. Thank you in Jesus name. You are no longer struggling Jaiden, safe from this evil world.
hi folks
Hello! 😊
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whats up
Hi! 😂😂😂
👋 beautiful afternoon
I’m so, so sorry for your loss 💔😞
Oh Mama 💔 I felt this interview to my core. I am so very sorry for your loss. You are so brave and strong to share his story. Because of you and your son I will educate my children and their friends on fentanyl. You might save their life if they ever have to make a decision. I’m saying a prayer for you and your family ✝️
so young this is sad and heartbreaking no one deserves this 🥹🙏🏼
I could sense her anger and pain, so painful. Sorry that have to go through this.
I watch my grandmother n aunt loose sons shot killed they never were the same its something i never wish a mother has to endure praying for her n family
God is always with you, lean on him! You will eventually be able to cope with the pain. God Bless you!❤
C-pandemic took a lot of people and not just by way of the virus. The mental anguish was too much for our babies & most of us weren’t equipped with the tools to help them
I watch these and feel for all of these parents that keep going through this 🙏🙏🙏
I have a 17 yr old daughter and I can't even imagine. Heartbreaking
Bless your soul.
My heart goes out to his family. I pray healing Godspeed.
SORRY for YOUR LOSS, YOU and YOUR FAMILY have MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY❤❤❤
6:43 girl what. That’s why he was off the chain
I'm so sorry for the loss of your son! You told my story. Like you, my son was just a number. God bless you on your journey! This is a hard road that no mother should ever have to travel!
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Jaiden's story hit close to home. Went to high school in Roseville.
I am so sorry fo ryour loss. I hope your story helps to prevent another loss.
This woman broke my heart 😢😢😢god give her the strength please 🙏