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That last one is heartbreaking and you just know it's the step-mom's fault for damaging her at such a young age.
Agreed the op did a awesome job but his limit was reached
I would've been done with her after she decided to follow Phish around.
No but seriously the outcome is messed up.
He tried really hard and I'm pretty sure he feels like he failed.
@@R_A_3000 yet he shouldn't
This effin species is fucking insane from start to finish and fuck up everyhing and everyone around them is all it knows to do, truly doesn't deserve to live. If only. If only.
This hurts since my sister is 14 and she's already stealing. My brother told my mom about it then i told my mom about her stealing. I was blind about it since we live in California but then remember that habits are hard to break. Told my mom everything and she's going to bring the sheriff to see the consequences.
My father cut all communications with me because I refused to be supportive of scientology
Ouch..... Sorry about that :(
What’s scientolgy
@@royrequireswifi488 pretty sure it's a religion based on science. Yeah... it logically doesn't add up
@@nightfall4434 hell no thats the complete opposite they are complete nutbags. Athesis believe in science.
@@royrequireswifi488 apparently the south park episode on it perfectly sums up what they believe in (but only tell senior members). They mostly draw people in by slowly feeding them bullshit (like the emotion tests and afterward sessions they recommend which you pay hefty sums for) slowly indoctrinating whoever joins.
"Parents who disowned a child"
*Not a parent, not disowned, not a human, but my cousin's uncle's brother's father's nephew's sister's grandson put their pet up for adoption once.
Soooooo annoying
EXACTLY
thank you
THANK YOU! I feel so bad for these people but I can hear these stories a lot, OP was asking for parents!!
UB3RFR3NZY
At least they didn't have it put down.
My youngest sister was working at a vets after school when our Mother brought our cat & dog into that vets to be put down in front of my little sister.
Bro, "cousin's uncle's brother's" is just your Uncle lol
Story 10 - my own mother abandoned me when I was five. She never wanted a boy. When I was born and was told I was a boy, the first words to the doctor were CUT. IT. OFF! My father and his mother took care of me for the first couple of years of my life. When my father had enough of my mother and filed for divorce, she said she didn't want any visitation rights. Unfortunately, my father was killed by a drunk driver before the divorce was final and under state law, I was required to go to my mother. (This was 1970).
My mother moved us across the country and proceeded to try to turn me into a girl. Nothing but girls' clothes, girls' undergarments, and girls' toys. She would not let me make male friends and eventually moved us to a commune to keep away from those asking questions.
Finally, she had enough of me fighting not wanting to be a girl and sent me to her parents to take care of me. When I arrived, her parents contacted my father's mother (my Grandma) and told her either YOU take IT (yes, they used the word IT) or it goes to foster care.
My father's mother ended up raising me. Maybe not the ideal childhood, but at least my Grandma gave me all the love and chances you can give a child. It's where I should have gone as soon as my father died and nowadays, it's probably where I would have ended up to start with.
so sorry. Your Mom was just trash. It wasn't your fault.
Parents trying to change their child’s gender is DISTURBING. I’m sorry she treated you so poorly and I’m glad you’re somewhere better :)
I think you misread the original post asking stories.
@@nightglide_ The story is disgusting but please don't attack the Trans community as a whole.
@@idabthereforeiam7479 mood
"What are some stories in which you disowned your child" First Story: So let me tell you how I disowned my dad.
Every dang time!!!!
Story 10 broke my heart. No child should ever have a mother like that. Good on OP for being a great dad!
My grandmother disowned my mother. My mom is a hard working amazing loving and caring woman who cares for our family. My grandmother disowned her because she was jealous about how happy my mom was with my dad and her kids aka me and my sister. After trying to ruin my moms life and failed she just stopped talking to us. Sooner than later no one spoke to my mom from that side since my grandmother was spreading lies about us. Now they put my dad in prison for something he didn’t do. All to ruin our lives… all it’s done was make is stronger. Thx for reading ❤
Edit: TYSM FOR THE LIKES OMG ❤️
What did they say to put your dad in jail? Did he get charged since there's no proof
wait how did he get in prison without any proof
@@kinda_cold_in_the_closet we’re Jewish and the judge was known to be rude to Jewish people. They didn’t need proof all they needed was the judge.
@@ST_worldd oh. i'm so sorry, can't you do anything else? like maybe bring up the fact that the judge ignored all the hard evidence? that judge could seriously get into some big time felony trouble with the government
@@kinda_cold_in_the_closet I wish I can but it’s better not to start the whole “he’s a antisemite” thing because there will always be another one like that. maybe the one who’s judging if the judge is wrong.
I was disowned because i decided to have two cats in my house. I was married and my wife had a cat and i adopted another one, and my mom hated it with full of her passion. She cursed and disowned me. I thought it was not that serious in the early stages, but when my wife was in hospital due to pregnancy issues and nearly died(survived) and my parents did not even come and visit us, thats when my perspective to my own parents changed. Yeah i might be a not so good kid. might rebelled a little but because of two cats i was disowned completely
Abdul, if your parents did that, they are very shallow people. Anyways, if they got mad at you just for two cats, your parents have serious issues.
Dear Abdul. That's insane, to be disowned because of cats. I hope things go better for you.
My mom doesn't like cats and is highly allergic to them. She told me if I had my own place with cats she wouldn't visit me but she would never "disown" me wow, I'm sorry for that 😔
how dare they! They were never your parents at heart or in mind if they did that! you are so much better than them.
Whoa.... That's insane o_o. I'm glad you're wife and child survived and I'm happy you didn't buckle under pressure to abandon your cats. This's my first time reading about a person who got disowned because he/she owned pets o_O. Your parents have serious issues...
The first one hits home. My father molested me. I cut him out of my heart, not my life. My mother was very dependent on him. So I couldn't cut him out of my life. I'm the second in terms of having cptsd. I'm an addict, a food addict that is. I'm super-morbidly obese which is terrible for my health.
Your mother is your abuser too. And you won't be free from that weight until you drop them both. You are worth more than them. You deserve a life, happiness and a family of your own one day.
Same, at 12, I weigh 200 pounds, which is obese, I unfortunately cannot use any exercising equipment besides the one at my father's house, and I only go on the weekend. I sunk into a deep depression in 2020, and have been overeating since. It sucks to say the least, But I am fortunate for spring, when my track program starts up again, and I am starting Gym tomorrow, so come spring, and tomorrow as well, I shall have a way to exercise and hopefully get down to the weight of a 5'4 girl.
@@Therizzyrizzler-y4z how's it going
I am truly sorry to hear that, if it makes you feel better though his fate is pretty much sealed, no way he'd ever be successful, and as for you? you can still improve your life, there's always hope.
Please get better.
Mother disowned me when I had a stroke!
It was because I was of no use to her anymore.
7 years later ( I was still in stroke recovery) Dad died & I wouldn't allow her to move in with me because she is lazy & refuses to do anything for herself. I was having enough trouble looking after my own day to day stuff & struggling to stay independent.
So she disowned me again!!
This time she also cut me from her will & declared that the daughter she move in with was now new her eldest child & would receive my share when she died.
( I would like to point out that I am NOT materialistic or $$ focused like her & her other daughters. So I really don't care that she has done that.)
I have had no contact with her since January 2019. It is THE best thing she ever did for me in my entire life. I am so much more happier & much less stressed. She stressed me out & caused my 2nd Stoke by screaming abuse at me while I was recovering from my 1st stroke. I don't have her doing cruel things to me or constantly ridiculing me or have her spewing hatred at me every chance she gets.
This is heartbreaking. My daughter ran away to "look for" my ex. If I had known why she ran away, I would have told her to look in the mirror. 15 years later, my beautiful, smart, funny, talented daughter is finding her way. Like Mulan, she is blooming late but will be "the most beautiful of them all." My ex is dead and at peace, but is buried alone.
@davidc1002 She's wonderful. Thank you.
omg that's so sad. I'm a mirror image of my mother and my big bro. Sad to grow up not knowing who your second parent is. Hope you're both okay. Visit your ex sometime. If your daughter doesn't know, there's gonna be one heck of a conversation about connections and family.
@@that1-side-character Thank you for the love. Yeah, I think we're gonna be fine, but that doesn't happen passively. I have a therapist, because this is much too hard to do alone. My daughter is getting there, and as you encuraged so beautifully, I am telling her her history so she doesn't have to make up fairy tales or spend her life guessing. Best wishes, from my heart.
What a weird way to word that. She’s a human, not a Disney princess
@@kissit012 Mulan was a legendary heroine. Which princess are you talking about?
Honestly I can’t believe how hard it must be to let go of someone you’ve known for almost their whole life; tbh I would break down.
It's easier than you might think. Once you're worn down long enough, the decision becomes easy.
It’s a very strange feeling. Certainly no regrets here though and it became normal not long after. Never made anything public, but cut some ties with some of family and only see them for holidays because I have a large family and still like some of them.
My stepfather disowned my 9 siblings and myself after my mom passed away. Fast forward quite a few years and when his 2nd wife took everything he had, he was left penniless but refused to ask for help out of shame. We all became very successful without his help and were willing to help him but he ignored all of us. I guess he is still alive but he must be hiding under a rock somewhere. Irony is he disowned us because his 2nd wife wanted him to saying "those kids would just be a drain on us". We all retired early and I retired at the youngest age (42).
Good job
I hope u r doing great
I had to disown my father after he chose my abusive stepmother after she tried to kill me and sell me to a man I didn’t know for marriage. And he still denies she was abusive to this day, even after a messy divorce and after she tried to take his life and accuse him for crimes he didn’t commit.
He also sees me as nothing more than a baby factory and doesn’t like that I won’t put myself to death trying to have a child, when it would kill me to be pregnant in the first place-I can’t safely carry a child nor can I get my eggs taken out safely. He says that’s the only way I’d be a true woman in his eyes, a real person. Otherwise, I’m a failure. He talked about “breeding” me since I started puberty and was preparing me for motherhood and sexual exploitation by a rich husband for several years until I decided to take fate into my own hands and run off.
I have PTSD from it and can barely function on my own now thanks to it, but my miserable existence of constant medication and physical pain from the treatments is nothing compared to how karma bit my dad in the butt. He’s alone and miserable and has been taken to the cleaners twice now by ex-wives and is still confused as to why his family won’t talk to him, stating he has “different facts” in the story as he didn’t see any abuse going on even when he was in the room when the violence happened.
My husband was the one who opened my eyes and gave me a safe place to land when I made the massive jump into the unknown. I uprooted my whole life and stopped college just shy of graduation because I didn’t know if I was going to live until that next week. It’s been 6 years and the struggle still persists.
He sounds just as abusive as his wife honestly.
You know... you have multiple sob stories in multiple places on youtube... and they conflict with each other.
which ones real :P
@@givemeanameman1 hes farming for likes
@@givemeanameman1 damn.. good to know this one isn't even real. Even worse, this user could have stolen someone else's story just for likes
bro its another sob story i have seen like 5 already from you quit the lies
Im currently disowning my family. Due to financial reasons, ever since I was 18 they used to drain my money from each check . I thought it was a normal thing. Now im 31 and see how much trauma i went through and completely snapped. Makes me feel like i was born just to provide extra money for them. My hearts in a lonely dark place over it, but my life hasnt been the best so I guess maybe a new start is what I need. Away from all Ive ever known.
Its the ones closest to you that do the most damage.
dude honestly i think taking some money from your child or brother is okay... honestly my parents struggled feeding 7 kids on 10k a year. how the hell can you not help out? like i get if you are financially stable stealing from kids is not okay but like, if you are all struggle the least you can do is help out some.
might sound horrible but my brother has lots of money saved up, yet my parents can't even afford the 200 dollars it cost to fix our car... the same car we risk getting tickets in driving my brother to work. whilst he does nothing to help out. he doesn't even pay for gas.
@@ricethetacuNoones obligated to financially help. These things are normally expected of that child without prioritising the child’s needs. You just get pushed out the pussy to be someone’s atm.
@@ricethetacuYh see ur projecting. Focus on ur brother and stop telling ppl how to live their life
@@ricethetacuyou don’t even know him. Ur projecting ur issues with ur brother on him. No child is obliged to be a family’s atm. Don’t have children if you lack financial planning
I disowned my biological father. I've held a grunge against him as a result of the really nasty divorce he had with my mom. At first, it was if I ever saw him, I wanted to punch him and break his nose. Eventually, it got to the point where I wanted to kill him. That divorce fucked me up badly. His attitude towards me fucked me up even worse. When he died, I never shed a tear. I don't think I felt a thing. Or I was still numb from step grandma passed away.
Oh my god
Totally deserved
Speaking as someone who knows the following firsthand, I have to say this: If you hate each other to the point where you literally cannot stand it, and MUST engage at every opportunity, just get the divorce. As a child of a couple like that, it would have been a LOT less painful dealing with a quick band-aid pull of a parent who didn't love me anyway, and treated me as such, instead of having to be subject to life with him. Just get the damned divorce. You and your kid will be MUCH happier, trust me.
You understand that children blame the parents when they divorce, right? It never matters which way a parent goes .. kids will blame their parents .
Wow. The very first story on here takes up like a quarter of the video's time and not only does it fail to come from the perspective OP's original question was asking for, it also skirts around all of the relevant details that OP was originally asking about. I know these answers come from Reddit but damn that shit was almost impressive. It's like they're doing it on purpose or something now
"Parents who disowned a child, what happened?"
*First story*
"I disowned my father".
most of my family disowned my aunt since she's been a drug addict since her teens, she's now in her 50's, in and out of rehab, in and out of a toxic relationship with her husband that keeps going between her and his other ex wife and is basically their drug dealer, and takes every opportunity to steal what she can to fund this addiction, as well as abusing her children and dumping them out into the streets by 16. By some curse, she's avoided any serious jail time, if any at all from what I've gathered. to make it even more depressing, my grandfather was one of very few that didn't disown her, and throughout the last few months of his life he was begging my mom to get her to visit cause he wanted to see his little girl, but she refused. she kept saying that she needed to "find herself". i'm still surprised she didn't show up to the funeral with that husband of hers to try and get some money from inheritance, but it was better off that way. he deserved the funny and chill send off he got, not whatever shit show would have gone down had she shown her face.
My grandmother and I pretty sure her sister as well disowned their brother and his family. My grandmother disowned him for harassing her after his daughter actually falsely accused my uncle of S.A. when they were younger (the time she said it had, it wasn't even possible for it to have happened at that time or ever). My grandmother's sister was scammed by him while he was living with her and spread lies about her to their dad in order to get more money. The last time my grandmother contacted was 2021 only to late him know their dad died.
"Parents who disowned their children, what happened?"
"I didn’t disown my children but.."
Story 7, the grandmother and aunt story-- don't cut them fully out of inheritance ever, leave them one cent. If you cut them out they can claim its a mistake and still get money.
Ask Reddit answers are so annoying. You can say “People who like pizza..” and someone will be like “I don’t like pizza but, “
Nobody asked. The question wasn’t pointed towards you.
screw off. they're interesting stories
@@GiordanDiodato
Tf, so? Yeah they were alright but that wasn’t why I watched the video. Your comment changes nothing I said.
@@Pommmmm dude seriously chill
@@GiordanDiodato
bro you told me to screw off, don’t start that.
Yes, seems to be a common problem in this kind of content...
My dad 'disowned' me repeatedly. It was one of many weird games he played psychologically and one of the least effective given that everything he felt was a big deal about him wasn't anything I cared about and, as I had to spell out for him once, the only possessions of his I'd ever had an interest in were 3-4 relatively mundane objects that were rightfully junked before my teens. The most memorable time was him 'disowning' me for doing a half-ass hop when he told me to 'jump' instead of asking how high. Man wasn't even military, he was just a small time dictator.
Fun part: none of this has stopped him from begging money and time from me and getting the few people not sick of him to try to get me to 'understand' his 'point of view' became he's 'faaaaamily'.
My wife's father - he was an abusive man, alcoholic, and drug users. He always put his wants before his family. It finally came to ahead when wife was 12 years old, her mother packed her up and left taking her daughter back to WV but her son (15) didn't want to go, he wanted to stay with his father, he let him run wild but mom wanted to raise him right. So for almost fast forward 14 years, over those years, she had some contact with him, he moved back to WV also over that time and was just down the street from her, he never paid for a thing, didn't get to walk her down the isle at her wedding. My wife basically checked in on him to make sure he was still alive. We move to outside of Pittsburgh and we have started a family, wife has been kind and let him see the grandson's, he was living with family members (his mother, cousins, anyone that would take him in). So over the next 12 years, we have 3 boys, and she drives down to WV to see her mother and check on her father, he was not at the cousin's house, she kicked him out, he was at a homeless shelter and my wife was going to leave him there and come home, I stood up and said you can't do that, bring him back home when you come, we will help him get set up the housing, food stamps, and basically take care of him. It take 3 months of him living with use before we got everything done, he was actually OK the whole time he was here. So we take him back to WV, he is all set up and living better then anytime before that. OK, over time we visited and 10 years go by, he is now in a senior care. My wife's mother passed away with little warning, it was quick. We all go to see him to tell him about his ex-wife passing, He did not console his daughter, say a nice word about her. He asked, "DID SHE OWN THAT TRAILER SHE WAS LIVING IN?" I looked at my wife, the boys looked at her, not knowing what to expect. She just looked at him, said goodbye and walked out of the room. She broke all contact, she has not once checked in on him (3 years), he did reach out to see why she was not calling, and I just said I would ask, I didn't want to say anything without confirming she was done. She told me to ignore him, she doesn't even know if he is alive. We do suspect that he is, his side of the family always expected someone else to pay for things, and they will want a huge funeral for this man and expect us to pay for it. They have not reached out so he must be alive.
I am on my way to cutting my mom off after she sexually and psychology abused me.
She kicked me out and to me that was my chance to get out, I took it even after she wanted to take it back.
I found out after being taken in by my bfs parents that my life with my parents was not normal, from not being able to eat certain things they made (I ate noodles and chicken while they ate steak, not allowed to eat BBQ sauce, CPS being involved heavily throughout my childhood).
Now I knew it wasn't exactly normal but I never knew to the extent it was, little things like knocking, the quietness of the house, not being forced to clean the kitchen and living room and being punished for not doing even if it was because of work, apparently I'm able to buy cars the whole car off the lot.
I was manipulated about a lot of stuff and the bigger things being that I was annoying, ungrateful and selfish for not wanting to do a lot of that stuff.
So after I moved in with my bf after being homeless I decided I should cut my mother off and just her because although my dad was very neglectful and abusive as a child, he's actually apologized and gotten better at taking responsibility for what he did and we have something of a relationship.
It's hard to describe, but I think if it came down to my mother dying, it would be bittersweet, recently I've read Jennette McCurdys book and I relate to a lot of things she says about her relationship with her mom and I've come to realize that my mom was a narcissist who even when something actually bad happened to her, she reviled in it and took advantage of people around her.
So this year I'm getting my LCDC, getting an apartment with my bf and after gathering my stuff together I'm cutting my mother off.
I am extremely sorry to hear about what happened with your mother, but I’m glad you’re at least able to pick up the pieces and put the puzzle of your life back together in some way. No one deserves to have to go through what youve been through with your mother, but I want you to take those scars and see them in a new light if you can. See that you’re strong for pulling through this, and that you can get through anything if you’ve gotten through such unsettling trauma.
Proud of you. Was ready to tell you to move out before even reading the 2nd sentence. My brother relayed a lot of the same stuff with his girlfriend and her family. Said it’s completely different. No drama, just quiet and peaceful. Everyone complains about him spending more time with her family and I certainly won’t complain again because I’ve made the same realizations and know we’re better off distancing ourselves from our family.
My sympathy to everyone involved in and affected by these stories.
Thank you, definitely that story about the two girls who got abused by their mentally sick and psychotic mother got me. Imagining living with your mother who is that much psychotic because of some mental illness. Terrifying to imagine it. But I hope that the younger sister managed to leave and get a better life that she deserved.
It's always awful when someone in the family takes advantage of an elderly, or indisposed family member when they are at their most vulnerable. Inheritance hawks belong in prison as the thiefs they are.
ITT: a whole bunch of people who aren't parents who disowned children. Which is too bad since I'd actually be interested in hearing the stories that were requested.
"Parents who disowned their kids" First story, "I disowned my dad"
PARENTS who have disowned your children: First answer "I disowned my father". No beef with the video but does anyone else get really annoyed how Redditors just instantly discard the prompt.
"Teachers of Reddit whats the strangest thing a student ever said to you?" "Well Im not a teacher or know a teacher or have ever been to school or have ever interacted with other children but [three paragraph story]"
I'm right there with you. I'm actually going to be skipping this video until I have time tags. I feel bad for these people, I don't care about their stories right now that's why I'm here lol
I'm on story 6 and none of these stories were by parents.
Man... some people really dont know how to answer a prompt
I don't know which is worse, having a parent just peace out of your life and you never find out why, or having them peace out and then learning they're perfectly happy with kids they had after you.
The last one screamed " I need therapy"
My mother told me that I was left on the doorstep by gypsies because EVEN GYPSIES didn't want me.
I kinda understand this but from a kids perspective. My family on 1 side is mentally and on occasion physically abusive. My dad left when I was about 4 that’s when the depression started and before you say that’s too young the youngest a person needs to be for the brain to experience that is 3. I lived with my mom who was extremely mentally and emotionally abusive. She rarely put her hands on me but it did happen. On my dads side they didn’t know what was happening and as my dad was out of the picture there was no way they could help I would have just gone to my moms side of the family and their worse. I suffered my entire life. And when I turn 18 I plan on renting a place with friends and moving out right away, I already have a job and am saving up. I am scarred, I lost my childhood to my parents. I don’t believe I can forgive that. I’ve had to be an adult since I was mentally capable.
Hey, I am so sorry for all that you have had to go through, this never should have happened. I just want to let you know that you don’t actually have to wait until you are 18 to leave, you could call CPS and let them know that foster care is the better option for you because your extended family is bad too, or look into legally emancipating yourself (you already have a job so that’s part of it) You don’t have to stay in an abusive situation, there are options.
@@Thebirthdaylibrarian sadly most of the time it doesn’t work like that. I’m at the age most kids don’t get adopted also CPS has a record for not being reliable. I have lots of issues and there are people who foster for the money and mistreat kids. It’s not worth being removed from everyone i know.
You've got this
I hope the best for all of the people that have been disowned or
have disowned abusive people
I swear if someone said they disowned or cut of a family member simply for being part of the LGBTQIAP+ community.
I disowned my 16 son.. The disrespect became to much to bare.. It hurts but, I got feelings too, and didn’t like the place it was taking me. I decided that before I allow to cause me to hate you, I’ll just let you go..
Reasons parents disown children in 99% of cases: stepparent.
In some of these stories I would have stayed to protect sibling, Nice nephew whatever. Because leaving kids who can’t leave yet is terrible I know what it is to be fully and truly alone with the 1 person you fear mos. I couldn’t bring myself to leave them. If there is someone in your life who is like this I ask at least consider staying to protect the children stuck under that person. It’s your choice.
It seems like in some of the cases the person was staying to protect the sibling, but eventually just couldn't take it anymore. Everyone has their limits.
Yeah I Dong have enough self preservation instinct I also don’t care enough for myself, so ig my choices would be different. I’m the kind of person who would easily take a bullet for a friend.
@@EnyaTheDrakaina its easy to say when its not you in that situation
everyone and their situations are different, cant really judge them without a full story.
Unfortunately, my family can relate to this whole video. We had to disown my older brother, but that’s something I don’t wanna get into.
Natural pregnancy at 55 would be in the worlds top 20 ever non IVF. Seriously.
I am in the process of disowning my oldest child. I've had enough abuse from her. She's 49 turning 50 in October.
I have always had problems with that one child. I went to the therapist hoping for a solution to her bad behavior. My mother didn't want me to take my daughter with me. She indulged her terribly, taught her to call me a vulgar word for prostitute. By the time she was almost 5 years old, I couldn't take anymore and left with her to Germany far away from my mother. But, it was already too late. Families didn't want my daughter to play with their children. My daughter was nasty, bullied kids and stole money. So, feel bad for my daughter, I moved back to the USA.
She sort of blended in with other bad kids here in the bad neighborhood. And I was never happy with the kinds of people she prefers. Criminals and ex-cons. She recently met a woman who is as bad as she is. And she replaced me with her. She also replaced me as my grandchildren's grandmother with her too.
I don't want to play that game anymore, so I have decided to give up. I am getting out of that daughter's life, giving power of attorney to my sons, giving them everything I own and letting them know, she gets nothing, I don't want anything to do with her. Children can abuse parents too. There has to be a point when parents say enough is enough! I reached that point.
a rule for my siblings & I. Me & my sister went." 🙄LEARN GRAMMAR!
Ive disowned my own sister for a plethora of reasons, here are said reasons
1) She's accused me of rape on three different occasions, and will change her story over and over (a gyno and a rape psychologist proved it wrong and completely false)
2) She ruined my first relationship with a girl that had been raped before in the past and said Ex believed my sister over me, no i dont hate my Ex what so ever, she was having family issues during our 4 month long relationship.
3) She continues to claim i raped her after 3 years of being proven wrong and wont let it go
4) She's now trying to fight me (she's 5'3-ish and roughly around 100LBS, im curretly 5'11- 6ft and roughly 130LBS and ive been in fights before and i will put her on her ass if she swings on me)
5) she is trying to ruin my current relationship that is almost a year strong and will be on the 22nd of February, that aint gonna happen as ive cut all contact between my GF and my sister
6) oh and she claims ive raped her again
its fun having a psychopath as a relative
Jesus, that's disgusting, especially considering how insulting to the ACTUAL victims of sexual assault....
@@SirBolsón its beyond disgusting, but she is now getting help and mentally and physically she is doing better, I still deep down hate her, but since she's getting help I'm trying to change.
Sorry you're going through that.
Best thing you can do, is maybe move to another city/state.
And start life all over again, with a clean-slate.
Don't tell your future gf, about the false rape allegations, that were brought up against you.
And keep your future gf away from your sister.
and maybe stay away from "damaged" women.
They will destroy your kids mental health. And make your life a living hell.
And they will use those false rape allegations, against you; the first chance they get.
And they will believe your sister over you.
The "western" family unit, is completely fucked!
People are insane!
We are going through a huge mental health crisis.
About 1/3rd of young American women are suicidal.
The numbers are similar for other "western" nations.
redditors answer the actual question challenge (impossible)
I basically cut contact with my father because he refused to give me my former stepmother's contact information. She treated me as if I was her own baby and I loved her so much. For years my father would never tell me her number and would say that he does call her on occasion and tell her that I'm doing great. The final straw came when he yelled at me for asking again saying that why was I so fixated on some woman. There were other reasons why I cut off contact with him but this was the straw that broke the camel's back.
Crazy how the first story was already not about the original question
Wow, these are some crazy stories. Jeez. I can't believe this all actually happened.
PARENTS why did you disown your kids
“So my mom disowned me but….”
i saw this video's title and said "Oh no."
I had a friend whose parents completely disowned them, cut them off and abandoned them. They came running to me, and when I asked him what had happened, they explained that because she didn’t want to live the anti-vaccination lifestyle with her baby. They cut her off because the dad was a deadbeat and ran away. She had to live with her parents until they cut her off.
That first one it hits me hard because I understand what he means about enjoying watching the person that treated you like shit your entire fucking life suffer but every now and then you get that glimpse of the person that they once were that was nice and loved you and made you feel safe. It’s bitter sweet and I envy those of you that are able to cut your parents out when they’re toxic people but at the same time I want to watch her suffer I want to watch her suffer for everything she did to me and my sister growing up.
I've disowned my father since I left 11 years ago. Never ben happier. Currently pregnant with my first child, in a rented accommodation. Aside from being very ill (both related and unrelated to the pregnancy, as I have gallstones on top of it). My brother escaped 2 years ago and has contact but is not going back.
You can tell the damage done to my brother, he is selfish, PC-bound with no life, can't stand the two jobs he has had since leaving home and barely interacts with anyone, if someone does something he dislikes he yells at them. He doesn't talk, he yells. Like our dad did. He has no respect for anyone but himself. Oh and has sex toys which he cleans in the shared sink and sometimes forgets. He was mildly partly responsible for my eviction last year, not entirely (there was another and the dementia of my last LL appeared out of nowhere and she invented things about my partner that were not true, including finical situations wherein he owed her money despite proof he'd paid her).
My dad had finical control over us, emotionally blackmailed us, physically was abusive but not that often, mentally was abusively. He was very controlling and got worst as we and he got older (especially as we wised up to his tricks). Worried us, trained us to behave a certain way (my case, fall apart, my brother's case get very angry) and no matter what made sure we reacted so he was the victim if we lashed out. So if one of us attacked him, the law was on our side not his, as we never had reports of his physical abuse. Lied to us about everything. I missed so many opportunities to do better as an adult, as I was too poor to leave home and was forced to stay put. This lead to loss of job as he sabotaged me a lot. Interview clothes going missing, taking me to the place and then driving so poorly I was a nervous wreck the other end... Just being a giant a-hole.
The worst bit is, he thinks he did good as a parent and we were at fault, not he. But us.
Honey you are continuing the pattern of abuse with your brother. You have a child on the way. Do you really want your child around his yelling and nonesense? Your brother is a grown man. You are trauma bonded. But your first priority needs to be your child now or your child will have that generational trauma from their Uncle.
That first one near the end was crazy😮
Hey me!
Seeing how completely fucked up these people's lives are, gives me hope to find success in mine. Sometimes I think I have broken my own rules already, but it seems like I've done nothing too bad yet.
I feel like the answers are completely irrelevant to the question which is disappointing, and rather long. Kids disown their parents a lot more frequently than the other way around which is what made the actual question interesting.
Mine parents disowned me because:
1) I disagreed with their opinions;
2) had my own opinions;
3) argued with them;
4) said that they ruined my life;
5) accused them of narcissism;
6) stopped talking to my abusive grandma;
7) dropped out of the hardest college in my country(I was going through many kind of issues, mainly my family drama, financial issues, finding a rent, mental breakdown and burnout...).
In other words, I stopped being an opinionless, easily manipulable child and failed to perform academically.
not all people deserve to have kids
Not me, but I know someone who did. She disowned him after he tried to sexually extort a barely legal vulnerable young girl. That was when she finally was forced to accept that he'd become a monster.
We have left one of our adult kids out of our living trust. He estranged himself from our entire family and all his sibling 7 years ago. Haven’t heard from him so we stopped trying . He will be unaware when we die - by instruction- so it won’t hurt his feelings. There’s not all that much to leave ,but what we do have , I want my other kids and grandkids to enjoy. We have heard about his life - he is such a mess. It’s very sad. He was a very sweet little boy but he got very strange in college ( we now believe he was on the autism spectrum) and we know he has struggled with mental illness for years as he was in the mental hospital for a while ( put himself in) . We pray for him.
"Parents who disowned a child"
*Not a parent, and I didn't disown anyone, but my ancestors 10000 years ago didn't like bread.
I was basically disowned by my parents for being trans and having a gf, basically shedding the mask I was required to wear to be "a good girl"
They said "You can't come back here if you're going to be called Holden"
So now I'm boarderling homeless, using all of my paycheck to pay for rent, and I have to drop out of college because I can't afford it (not like I know what I'm doing)
So like...don't do that to your kids- just don't be a dick in general. I had to go through 10 months of hell with them just because they hated I was trans
My husband was 46, always a bum, abusive and refused to take his blood pressure medication. He's now in a home, no one visit except one kid, ones a year. He's now 53.
My parents cut off all of my extended family from us growing up & then disowned me for carrying around too much weight. The affects of having no family as an adult has been very devastating & impractical.
“Not a parent BUT”
my family disowned me for exposing their abusive ways to CPS and the police and then they tried to reconnect and said that they were sorry and that they overreacted and they were sorry for what they did and when i asked for my stuff they said that it was all either sold or smashed i refuse to speak to them ever for what they have done to me and i am a lot happier without them in my life
the stories: 😭
the elephant person on the snowboard: 😎
My dad used to be a man of science and slowly became a grifter after he stopped looking up his research
10:55 antisocial personality disorder (aka, sociopathy and psychopathy). They have no conscience - not as in ''bad person'', as in, literally, they have no capability to experience shame or remorse. To someone like that, the only thing they are capable of regretting is getting caught and their excuses/manipulations not being believed.
Disowned my deadbeat dad so i dont inherit his debts😂
For the first one it seemed the evil was destroyed in the dad. sadly the son won't move one from the ghost of the evil
Everyone a victim here, no parent disowning their child
The ending of the first one sounds like a punishment straight out of the Inferno
So I was given up to the state at birth because my mother did almost everything to kill me in the womb. Then I was adopted by 4. At 24 I decided to get ahold of my bio family and have stayed in close contact with my sisters and there family including my grandmother. BUT every one of them told me to not get ahold of my mother. Come 2022 on Cinco de Mayo and I'm having sushi with my foster parents and at the sometime without knowing my bio mother is having surgery at the hospital across the street from me........and dies on the operating table. I got the news a day later. What's ironic is that I moved around as a kid and not once have I ever meet my mother.......and the only two times I was physically close to her was at my birth and at her death.
Anyways a few days gone by and I found out that she had a stroke a week before and most of my sister's were involved BUT forgot to tell me about it because they all thought that a major stroke was not serious enough to call me.
I love my sisters, my grandmother, that entire family. But I felt like I was robbed of making my peace with my mother. I know that they we're trying to protect me and I TRULY appreciate it because that's what family is supposed to do.......but I will never get to hug my mother for the first and last time.
I think you should talk to someone about this. You have some grief you may need help working through. Your holding onto a figment of a dream. Your real mother is still with you.
I got disowned by my dad because he was and still is a insane parent/person i don't miss his abuse or alcoholisme he did me a favor by staying out of my life
The story about the dad has be crying. I have a similar relationship with my dad. Became an alcoholic so now he’s pretty much pushed away all his family. No one deals with him. I still love him but he’s verbally abusive. But I fear the day he gets old and sick and no one will be there to care for him. Or worse he will end up like the guy in the story. I don’t think my heart would allow me to abandon him in that state if that was the case. Some part me maybe hopes that will happen so maybe for once he will be nice….. and my kids can meet him. AND NOW IM CRYING…. Thanks :(
My father said he'd disown me if i adopted a child with black skin.
Im gonna do it anyway✨
do it.
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Oh i will 😊
@@teenage_grl good :)
That baby needs you. Thank you for making the world a better place.
The last sister is an ungrateful walking disappointment. Yes she's been traumatized, still gratitude goes a long way. Even if she hates herself don't make it harder for the ppl who fought for her and made he life easier. No different from suicidal ppl who drink and drive and kill families on purpose to take themselves out.
My mother died a few years ago. Recently I was talking to my stepdad about some complex things I'm doing, and the resultant obstacles involved. Out of nowhere my stepfather started to say he thought I was lying to him, and that I was making things up. He made it sound as if I was spinning fiction to make myself feel important. With my mom out of the picture to temper the situation, I realized my stepfather was always like this. In his eyes literally everybody else is just a liar. I argued with him and then I quetly disowned him. Soon after, I was approached by an aunt who told me some false accusations he had leveled at me. I disown her too. I dare anybody else in my family to test me on this, I'll drop your ass right now, an you'll never see me again. I know this doesn't hurt the feelings of any of my relatives, and that's kind of the point behind my chosen course of action.
2:11 cops beat him brain dead. Also I can’t believe this story there are always three sides to a story his, yours and the truth
I know someone who was disowned because she eloped. They never reconciled.
Ok, poor guy with the terrible sister.
Disowned my bio father for divorcing my mom, turning his family against her, and for his crappy parenting. I made that choice not to see him after he visited my school and embarrassed me during class.
Last story really packs a punch
The first story was similar to mine. My mom was never abusive, but it was rather my dad who was like a manipulative, bipolar disorder, autistic loser. He would beat the shit out of me because of me getting into trouble in school. It wasn’t often because my mom doesn’t want my dad to visit me often. He lives in another state of Australia. In the last few years our family has had a lot of problems especially with school and my mom/dad’s marriage. It led me to having to switch schools, due to the amount of hatred I got from students and teachers. Then after I finally found a new school and stayed stable, we found out why my dad was being so manipulative and batshit crazy. He cheated on my mom and gave a woman $50,000 dollars, hell, maybe even more. I was incredibly mad, and my mom was left heartbroken. We are in a much better place than the last few years of suffering but I realised from an early age that my dad was already hopeless. He could only provide us money, but he has never provided me or my mom any sort of support, help or love. He is often pessimistic about life, and holds little to no faith in me, which led me to develop depression and suicidal ideation. It also led me to hate myself incredibly much and made me feel like nobody loved me. I always felt like I didn’t want to live whenever he visited us in Australia. My dad was genuinely a vampire who would never help my mom or me, and he abused me just recently. My mom is still crying because he did that, but i honestly could not care less. I knew he’s already hopeless, and someday I wish karma hits him.
I don't get the first story, but i think i came to this video with the wrong idea?
This was a video about parents disowning their kids, but in the first story is about a guy talking about his dad being an addicted? What
Last story is f-cken wild!
My mom disowned my half sister because she would always steal, lie, etc. There's a lot of details but I don't wanna bother people with details. Long story short she stole some of our stuff and she was never allowed at our house again. She also took advantage of our late uncle who did his best to help her.
"because I should never have had children. I am a failure"
That is THE ONLY answer.
That first story hits too close to home, like a photo copy with some tweaks
Since i live in rhode island, im happy that rhode island just got acknowledged in this video :)
The first story is so sad to me, I feel bad for both op and the dad
Keep trying to hear my mom’s version but I’ll see her at her funeral 😅
Daddy, you’re next 😅
around christmas my dad disowned me (he's on drugs) and then 2 days later, regretted it and then came back, i havent lived with him since i was 1
If you stop and take a good long thought about the people in your life you’ll realize how some of them just aren’t any good for you and when you decide to go no contact with them you’ll have peace of mind I promise you. Don’t be afraid to do it you deserve a misery free life free of manipulation and heartache. I’ve gotten rid of some very close people after I took a minute to think about them.
I'm trying to watch a video about parents just owning in their kids not kids disowning their parents.
Right? I'm so sick of this happening. I want to hear the stories I've never heard, not stories about the same thing that happens to so many people.
I was cut out by my mother when my dad died.until I'm given a specific reason for this,I guess that I will think about it every day, spinning it around in my head trying to find the answer.i think I have part of it but I will never say publicly anything I don't know to be the absolute truth.