I had A Baby as a Result of An Affair and Now His Wife is Reaching out to Me
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- I had a baby as a result of an affair and now his wife is reaching out to me
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You reap what you sow
Maybe dear aunt is cheating on her husband
Maybe they're in open relationship?
Really hope he was sending text to show that he isn't fit to be a father to this particular child at least when he threatened her. Also she should have some leverage and hopefully get 2 years back child support pay and make sure to stay the primary parent.
I guess he wants organs or something. And wife is shady as hell as well. Maybe she doesn't want her kids to donate so going after the mistress.
It doesn’t work that way. A 2 year olds organ isn’t an adult organ
Weak men lie. If he was strong, if the wife cut off sex he could've been with her the affair partner without guilt or issues
Unpopular opinion but no one should ever stand in the way of siblings or half siblings meeting. It is entirely selfish, no excuse in this case. OP is saying things as if she's a victim, she needs to get over herself.
It has to be mutual, and in this case I believe OP’s son is too young to make that decision. He’s barely at the age where he can start speaking in sentences, I think in this situation it’s justified to keep him away especially considering how sketchy the whole situation is. On a whole I agree but again I think the desire to meet has to be mutual
@@agx8447 Its not her decision tho, unless the ex wife have given OP some red flags then she needs to step aside and let them meet. She knew he had kids before hand so she knew what she she was getting into
@@Nexidal You are projecting. If you tell your parent you want no relationship with your sibling for some strange reason then okay, but a person deserves to know and have a relationship with their siblings and no one should stop them unless it’s for a good reason. It’s like a mom stopping a dad from meeting his kid, unless it’s for a good reason then they have every right to know each other. Sorry your situation didn’t work out but just because yours didn’t doesn’t mean others don’t deserve to know each other.
@@Nexidal Everything you went through has nothing to do with this story. Stop projecting, stop attempting to relate your story to a completely different story.
@@pleasantserenity9648 the ex wife literally has given op some red flags, with her living with the father now and basically acting like some weird messenger. And again, the kid is too young to decide on his own if he wants to meet his half siblings. People don’t magically become good just because you’re related, the siblings could totally resent the child and making them meet could be dangerous. Like I said, if there’s a mutual desire to meet I don’t think you should stand in their way but in this case I think it’s justified not to want to let her son meet those people
Yeah you're a bad mom for denying him a father
So here's what is happening. The husband just wants a piece of meat after losing the other pieces of meat.
I don't think it's important nor is it appropriate for teenagers to meet the two year their fathers affair partner had. If the kid wants to meet them as an adult they should of course be given the opportunity but that is wildly inappropriate and quite frankly a lie on the husbands and ex wife side of things and as far as I'm concerned the husband just wants to run back to old reliable (and easily manipulated to be honest).
I don't know why the wife would be aiding in this, it's so weird to me these people honestly need to leave this man alone and cut ties with each other especially because this whole situation is because of a peace of shit who can't keep it in his pants.
I don't know how this situation even happens but I feel bad for the ex wife and kids who were thrown into this because of some dumb and inconsiderate adults.
Affair partner needs to leave the husband and the ex wife and their family alone, there is no appropriate reason for them to communicate. Just because someone is related to you does mean you need to build on that relationship especially in situations like this.
Humans aren't monogamous. Especially if the wife stopped doing her wifely duty, it's natural for the man to look elsewhere
@@mortaldao8044 Yeah that's the dumbest thing I've ever read especially because you are assuming the wife isn't doing her "wife duties" based on your obvious bias to blame women. You are wrong, you are so wrong it's hard to believe that you are actually serious and I'm going to assume you're a troll.
@@mortaldao8044 Humans choose to be monogamous and if you are married and never discussed having an open relationship you are in a monogamous relationship and you will respect that or get divorced.
You're assuming the wife wasn't doing her wifely duties based on nothing in the story but based on your bias to find a way to blame women and make them the problem. Get out.
@@mortaldao8044 Humans choose to be monogamous and if you are married and never discussed having an open relationship you are in a monogamous relationship and you will respect that or get divorced.
You're assuming the wife wasn't doing her wifely duties based on nothing in the story but based on your bias to find a way to blame women and make them the problem. Get out.
@@mortaldao8044 Humans choose to be monogamous and if you are married and never discussed having an open relationship you are in a monogamous relationship and you will respect that or get divorced.
You're assuming the wife wasn't doing her wifely duties based on nothing in the story but based on your bias to find a way to blame women and make them the problem. Get out.