You should ask God for everything. EVERYTHING. No matter how you feel about it, if you feel ashamed or think He won't intervene. You give Him first dibs to change the situation. All it takes is asking. “Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there,' and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.” _ Matthew 17:20-21. “I am the Lord, the God of all mankind. Is anything too hard for me?” _ Jeremiah 32:27 “And whatever you ask in My name, that I will do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you ask anything in My name, I will do it. “If you love Me, keep My commandments.” _ John 14:13-17 “‘If you can’?” said Jesus. “Everything is possible for one who believes.” _ Mark 9:23
Wait what If I was the rebound... I recently found out he was really broken hearted from someone he was seeing before me... literally the day he told me he wanted to just be friends he told me that ... now I think he's talking to one of my friends but I'm not sure .... this is messed up
Don’t tell me i was hoping and praying for 4months that my ex will take me back. But then i find out something which help me move on totally but i felt stupid. His only purpose why he is with me is because he intentionally want to infected me of syphilis. Thank god i came out negative
Watched Brad's videos 3 yrs ago when I was dumped by my 9 year long ex-bf. Fast forward, I'm happily married with someone who gave me the love that I deserve. Thanks for your tips and advices Brad! For those who are still struggling to start anew, be brave! There's more to life!
@Splitting Time The beginning process with a different person is definitely hard..the trauma to trust again was there..but all the "wrongs" before with my 9 year ex were turned into all the "right" with this person..truly, if he's the one..he'll prove that you deserve this kind of love. After all, love is a risk..choose the right person who you're going to take the risk.
As what I always say, the decision to get an ex back is totally up to you. Over time, you know your ex's true worth to you as well as the value of your relationship. So only you can decide whether this is someone you want to go back to or not. All the best!
@@gingerfellah5665 closed the door yesterday and went to do my hair at a salon that was located 155km away from my place. I felt much better and looked good with my new hairstyle😊
It's interesting because after doing this "no contact" I don't want to reach out to them anymore and I like it. It makes it easier to move on and I don't want to look back
Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is worth fighting for at one of the toughest of battles you face in your relationship. Best of luck!
I remember watching these videos like they were my religion. I cried and suffered a lot in my past relationships. However I feel much better years later. I am in a loving relationship, feel more confident and happy with myself and I accepted my past failed relationships. Even if you are suffering now, watching these videos will give you the tools you need for a healthy perspective on relationships. Thank you Brad ❤
@@BradBrowning Hi Brad! I and my ex girlfriend broke up yesterday. And I don't want to lose her. I love her sk much. She said that we'll no longer be together anymore and it hurts me a lot. I want to take her back and I don't want to fall her inlove into some guy. How many months it takes before I do this things that you've teach us. Can I have some advice? Please I love her so much and I don't want her to have someone
If they leave you let them contact you. Your the prize not them. If you contact them it shows that you still want them. Stay the course of no contact it's a 💯 success rate. Either they contact you or you feel better and move on.
I'm not a fan of being passive. Why wait for her/him to run back to you? :-) I never said the "no contact" rule is supposed to go for weeks or months on end. I only said it's for 30 days in about 80% of my videos. Anyway getting an ex back, just like anything that's worth having, takes work, so make sure he's/she's worth it. Anyway the "no contact" rule is just the first phase. There are two more phases to getting an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: th-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/w-d-xo.html and to initiate communicate, this is the vid: th-cam.com/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/w-d-xo.html
It's not passive in no way it's showing that you have higher value. If you reach out to them it shows they can have you back at anytime they want without any consequences and it's shows a lower value of your self. You the prize not them if they don't and can't see that then it's there lose trade up not down. Have more respect for yourself and show that your not a revolving door.Thats why you stay no contact until they decide to reach out to you they choose to leave let them work to get you back ppl value things they have to work for more than just giving it to them.
Brad Browning what about if my ex left me and she's telling me she doesn't want any contact with me whatsoever. If I'm ignoring her won't it make it easier for her to move on since I'm giving her what she wanted?
No joke this works I was tying to hard to get my ex back eventually I gave up a year or two went by and he’s saying he’s still in love with me and trying to get us back together. Even said we would have been married by now. But I’m so over it now and have found someone better so I find it hilarious. Another ex also the same but that was only after about 30 days of no contact. Desperation is the most unattractive trait. Men love the chase!
@@tigerpaws111 wow listen to u.. I find it hilarious.. Lets hope this happens to u and they find it hilarious. There's nothing funny in dangling blokes by ur unwanting finger.. Make sure he finds out u got no interest and let him off ur fish hook of hangarounds.. Why some women feel good thinking blokes still in love with them. Its kind of creepy and wholly insular.
These videos help way more than you think. Todays been almost a week no contact, haven’t been on social media, I’m going ghost to focus on me and my mental state. Anytime I feel weak and want to reach out I watch these videos instead and it really helps me through it all. Much love Brad. You’re amazing man. 🍻
How cow I realized I wasn’t subscribed. Done. You are so crucial in people’s break ups. You and coach Lee are seriously amazing mentors. Helps with the anxiety huge
Its really difficult to move on after the break up but first we have to accept that they are not with us anymore.we have to learn how to live without tnem...it is not easy i know but thats the only way to move forward. Hello broken hearts We are strong we can do this. Hugs from Philippines
Yes, acceptance is key and that may take a while depending on the individual...which is why it's important to employ the no contact rule for at least 30 days because it largely helps with that process and make the "in-denial" period shorter at least.
OMG, I totally made ALL of these mistakes! From begging to appologizing to rage. I will definitely cut contact now and pray he'll come back to me. Thank you for this.
You're welcome. Definitely redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: th-cam.com/video/OzVymYnQFTk/w-d-xo.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: th-cam.com/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/w-d-xo.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: th-cam.com/video/6K3xufEwEFg/w-d-xo.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
Damn! This was totally me about 2 years ago. I finally let his ass go and cut all contacts (no contact always wins) and he popped up at my job crying in tears apologizing. Boy have the tables have turned! 2 years later I politely let him know I don’t give shit!
Can we please just appreciate how helpful this video is... like he really saved someone’s love of their life and all that for free! I am so thankful and wish you all the best. Greetings from Germany❤️
This man knows what he’s talking about.. I took his advice years ago! Agreed to being friends at first... then I went no contact! Got her back after about a month. Didn’t work out in the end. But I got what I wanted at the time :)
Yo I did all of this and guess what! Today and my ex got back! I’m so frickin happy! I’m glad the broke up happen becuase it made us stronger and realize how much feelings we have for each other! We’re still celebrating our anniversary and this 21st we’re going out for dinner ❤️❤️❤️
I'm glad my it's all worked out for you. Now as what I always like to say, please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these videos to help you further: th-cam.com/video/jjrOpxa-wfI/w-d-xo.html and th-cam.com/video/v9mVzh2NVAc/w-d-xo.html or from a more recent advice here as well: th-cam.com/video/-OqYy_DqNJc/w-d-xo.html AND th-cam.com/video/8gc53SzHrac/w-d-xo.html All the best! :-)
@@BradBrowning Should I unfriend my ex? I already done almost everything. I may really say that I do look better now. I suck the first month since I was the one begging and the one trying to contact him.. I dont contact with him. I was actually the one that broke up with him because he was in contact with his ex. He didnt pursue me. Do you have video that you can suggest I can watch?
Hii , I’m just asking asking the first time you guys broke up you or he said things like , maybe we will see each other one day or you or he left in hold and you guys came back to one another ?
He’s 💯 percent correct! I followed the no contact rule and it worked!! I’m taking each steps he gives. I can’t believe it. But it works!! Listen to Brad it’s unreal!!
Wael Ayoubi it took 1 month and 9 days. He kept texting abou random things. I would reply but short answer like ok... yes. Then he wanted to get back together. Still together ❤️
Ahh cool, I want that too ;( im already in 2 weeks NC but today i got a msg she sent that on my mom's mobile she wrote:; you can pickup your clothes and stuff from the coffeeshop downstairs on friday (she is a friend with the owners) because I had to wash everything again Greetings I didnt reply yet :) what should i do now!?
Wael Ayoubi ok that’s what he did to me. I’m gonna come get my stuff out of your pole barn. I waited til next day and said ok. And he never came n got his stuff he was waiting for me to say I miss you and want you back. Just text back ok I’ll get them. Then leave it at that !!!
She’s testing the waters to see what you’ll say. And she’s gonna wonder y your not chasing her. She will text something again about your stuff or anything to see what’s going on
@@BradBrowning 😅😅 lol its all good it was just funny though, but on a more serious note thank you for helping me. You have brought so much knowledge to me about break ups and have been focusing on myself and have been super happy so thank you Brad!
Brad I just want to say thank you. No contact worked a treat. 1.5 weeks after we broke up he started messaging me and now we are officially back together (4 weeks since he broke up with me) and it feels like when we were at our best all over again. Tip to y'all - keep the power for as long as you can in a relationship. Keep him on his toes, make sure you are the one calling the shots and he is the one trying to get in contact with you and hang out with you. If you start doing NC you start to gain that power, but when you start talking again KEEP the power, don't let him walk all over you! Thanks again Brad
@@bloodybonesblue1803 hey no he broke up with me and I immediately started doing NC. After only 1.5 weeks of NC he messaged me :) after that I stopped NC and just did low contact instead (replying when he iniated conversation)
I am so happy for you, sadly that is not the case with me.. I made some of the mistakes mentioned in this video (like asking mutual friends about her and she knew about it). She broke up 3,5 months ago, and we havent spoken or seen each other since. She texted me today for my birthday but thats it, I still hope she realises she decided wrong (we had a 4 year good relationship), but I think I have to move on now...
Following these steps have worked in the past, listen to what Brad says! You'll either get them back or you'll get over them and find someone even better. Currently trying to get my ex back who i have a child with so this one is definitely the most difficult so far.
Hey thanks for dropping by, Zach! Yes, it's tough times indeed and while I can't guarantee 100% success that you all will get your exes back, I do guarantee these are the best tips or the first steps to make it happen. Best of luck!
I've binged watched all of our videos since the breakup! (4days lol) And they helped me get out of the despair and negativity pit. Now I still miss him of course, but I am full of hope, faith and motivation. Thank you Brad, you are a blessing! :D
sir ,my girl don't want me again, no reason to hate me, before she said I am not feeling good, and then she said because of job, and then she said me I don't want to meet you again, sir how to overcome this situation,
I don't even know why I watched this.. I don't want him back I was so stressed! My ego just wants him to miss me in all honesty.. ohhh I have some work to do still. Positive vibes to everyone from Australia 🇦🇺
He admitted to cheating on me. I did no contact for a few weeks. Heartache is still there... but keeping busy, caring for my mental and physical health, socializing as much as possible through this quarantine and prolonged isolation has helped through this healing process. Thank you for this video, and thank you to those who have shared their life story on here. ❤️
Im actually going through breakup as well and one helpful thing is, stop wishing and hoping that you will get back together even though that is aim. Instead think of how sorry they will be for letting you go cuz that will help you to build your self confidence and physical appearance. Also remember to wish to meet someone more wonderful and better than your ex. These mindsets will help you to pull this off better.
Thank you for this. These tactics usually work. And the video in itself is motivating and provides hope. I’m tired of people going “just move on!” I don’t want to. I want to have at least some hope.
Hi guys. Should I unfriend my ex? I already done almost everything. I may really say that I do look better now. I dont contact with him. I was actually the one that broke up with him because he was in contact with his ex.
If i dont where i go,because our house pay bill bank togheter, what can i do???i aply no contact in hose by is dificil is not autentic no contact,im desperate ,my soul is broken ,if i go i be hommless😔😔
Got dumped today!! We were in relationship for 10 months and she left me for her EX I allowed Her to go 😮😮 If there's a chance I'll Never take her back😐
I can relate... though i was not really dumped. He actually chose me but he told me that he cannot stop communication with the girl who happens to be his ex of 28 years. And that confused me. Just why?
no contact is about healing and focusing on you, not about tricks or schemes to get them back. If the relationship wasn’t respectful before, reaching out won’t magically fix it...
No contact is often the first step to help you gain clarity of the situation. It's not as much of a scheme as much as it is about you getting a better perspective of your situation and think for yourself whether the relationship and/or the ex is worth all the trouble or not. Obviously it's a different answer for everyone!
I understand how you feel!! i take comfort in knowing that there is someone out there that loves me and will treat me better than a doormat. Keep your head up and DEMAND more!!!!!
@@BradBrowning yesterday i did it, but not because i want him back again, but because i want my confidence back, i want my inner peace back and i want to be happy. I do not need anyone in my life who treat me like a doormat.
Lesson learned! It's especially difficult when you're new to this dating game! In short, don't think you're not worth anything, and love yourself enough to keep moving forward and enjoy life!
I am in the very beginning of no contact and I can admit it is a struggle because I truly miss my best friend. But I also know it needed to be done and that I can not control or change anything, nor would I want to. I work everyday living in a greater version of myself because at the end of everyday I am my greatest strength and my longest commitment. It does not mean that my heart does not feel but that it knows it's own worth and sets it free. It would be wrong to hope or not hope for it to return, regardless of those emotions in time, self love and silence the understanding will supersede the feelings. 30 days feels like an eternity, but a life time of loving myself first is worth the journey to knowing at the end.
These videos have helped me a lot right now. The feeling of being rejected is really bad and I dont want to be in this situation again. I hope i feel better soon.😔
I hear you. And yes, it's not an easy feeling especially if it comes from someone who's supposed to love you. Take your time to heal instead and don't chase. Watch this: th-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/w-d-xo.html
Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is. Best of luck!
True. It is what it is though, so we ought to make the best of the situation. Use your time productively. Here's my stance on the matter: bit.ly/3bn8bPN
I know it's hard and feel like everything will slip away the moment you cut off contact, but trust me when I say this can really do a lot of benefit to your ex and you as well as your relationship as you'd both be in a clearer headspace to deal with each other when the time comes and therefore less mistakes made that will send your ex running for the hills further. I've seen people disregard the "no contact" rule and end up destroying their chances unknowingly. This is why I recommend you to employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw
I am literally doing each and every single thing since the last 3 months just to get him back😟.. I cannot believe I've loved someone this terrible and I cannot get over😭 I will try these too Thanks 🙏
Here's this to consider: th-cam.com/video/xbDPq23YaNE/w-d-xo.html so be sure to take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz However, that kind of behaviour coming from your ex is somewhat expected after a breakup. That's why you ought to give it enough time where there's totally no contact between you and your ex for at least 30 days. A wide array of different emotions coming from an ex is somewhat expected when a breakup is still fresh and this includes the likelihood of your ex giving you mixed or weird signals. Watch this: y2u.be/siApAVtx8zE This is why I tell people to cut off contact for at least a month first and NOT deal with this ex. You both need to clear your minds first, all right? A breakup hurts both people in it regardless of who has done the breaking up. This is something I've discussed here, so watch it to learn a few tips to help you on how to go about it: th-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/w-d-xo.html
I’ve dated narcissists before, but just recently dated one with high functioning borderline personality disorder. Made the narcissists seem like a walk in the park. BPD people will send you through the extremes of a relationship from the height of joy to soul tearing anguish and then quickly move on to do it again to someone else. They first idealize then devalue you and make you question everything about yourself. I’m pretty tough and resilient but they’re masters at tearing someone down. They will mess you up for a while so if you have gone through one of these, know it will slowly get better. Don’t try to get them back, they won’t take you and you shouldn’t want them back. Some people have unfixable flaws and it’s not your job to fix them, if you try they will hurt you harder.
If your ex has a mental disorder like depression, bipolar disorder or the like, the most loving thing you can do is to give each other space while he/she gets help. Encourage your ex to seek treatment because clinical depression is something only a therapist specializing on this can handle, even this is outside of my scope. But I can help you how to handle things on YOUR end as you go through this difficult ordeal. I know it can be incredibly tough knowing you’ve given it your best shot, yet your partner still fails to appreciate it or is breaking up despite it being a good relationship. Anyway it's a bad idea to be friends with an ex. Consider signing up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed, then guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Yah - (sure that’s a good move. )If that ex comes back, I’m sure she got lots of sex with that other man. -hmmmm ... and now I’m thinking that she’s dirty . I just won’t get her back.
I got tickets for something she may like. It's a simple move. I like this girl very much. (With ups and down) Play cool, be yourself, give her/him a safe space. I will. Thank you Brad.
Are you back on good terms yet and have you given each other enough space? If you answer no to either or both, then really assess the risks first if it's all worth it. Remember, meeting up when you're both not ready will only alienate your ex further, and that's best case scenario. Worst case scenario will land you a spot in the dreaded friendzone. Watch this first: th-cam.com/video/Jzb18j7ZMPE/w-d-xo.html but if you're both ready, watch this video on how to tell as well as how tips for you on tipping the odds to your favor: th-cam.com/video/eJPGrkuQnm0/w-d-xo.html Best of luck!
Step 3 should be step 1 and the only step. Work on yourself. Not for them, for you. Be the best you can be and if it doesn't happen, hold your head high:) Peace✌
To be honest, following Brad’s advice definitely works. I remember four years ago i was on a chase to get my ex back using whatever I could, studying yt videos, i even bought Brads paid book. I did get my ex back but only to let it fall apart, but handled it like a champ. It’s more then just learning how to get your ex back, you learn how to be independent, how to address situations and just be happy alone. There’s way more fish out there and the person is your ex for a reason; things weren’t meant to be. Follow Brad’s videos (or book) intently and you will see major results in your life as a whole. Hopefully this helps anyone
Thank you for the testimony, man. And yes, seems like you mastered the way of life and I'm happy for you! :-) Being happy alone is very important in order to get your ex back so you won't come from a place of neediness and will therefore automatically just mess up things. And yes, sometimes, reunited couples get back together for good, but a few don't. Good luck on your future endeavour!
I've watched a few channels on break up coaching and Brad, your advice is the best! If it wasn't for your videos, I'd probably do something very stupid! Thank you!
You’re amazing, you’ve really given me a much healthier outlook on my situation and even if me and my ex don’t get back together, I’ll be okay with that and it’s all thanks to you bro. So much respect
That's the main thing. You have to be okay with not getting back together and sometimes that's when stuff really start to happen. Just know your worth and love yourself first. Never chase. :-) Here's this to reinforce that: th-cam.com/video/tc3IRenh_30/w-d-xo.html
I appreciate this video a lot! This is hands-down the best strategy possible and I would never recommend anything else to anyone. The only aspect I'd disagree with is the 30 day period. This is ridiculously short. I seriously doubt anyone can get over their ex within a month. Plus, I personally find this whole "Look at the brand new me!" very unbelievable after only 30 days. It takes time to change and heal and become this new best version of yourself. After 30 days there is no way you'll already have that toned body from the gym, no way you have already enjoyed life, dated other people, started new hobbies etc. No way. It's just 4 weeks. Yes, you might have started implementing these changes but I'd say give yourself somewhere between 6 months and a year for this to be realistic.
Hey thanks! The goal of 30 days is to not get over someone but to allow adequate space and time for both of you to calm down and ponder on some things you both should be pondering about. Consequently, the progress you make throughout the process, if you do it right, should also coincide with the growth of becoming a better version of you. But the 30-day rule is just the first path because it all starts with acceptance and dedication to growth. More about that topic here: www.breakupbrad.com
Someone needs to hear this ! You matter ,your worth it, I love you .but stop trying .speaking from experience , they are an ex for a reason and it will never be the same
Self love is key, indeed! Regarding the "reason" though, sometimes the reason is you're both too lazy to work on it and just expect things to miraculously fix things for you. It's that or one or both people don't take accountability for their actions. There will always be issues in a relationship as there is never a perfect relationship, but there is a healthy one! But like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is worth fighting for at one of the toughest of battles you face in your relationship. Best of luck!
Life happens as well as a lot of stuff in the course of your relationship that destroys even the happiest and strongest ones out there. I hear you though. It's tough indeed. But if you wanna give it a try, just know that the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: th-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/w-d-xo.html and the golden rules here: th-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/w-d-xo.html
1. Give them space, no contact 2. Be the best version of yourself 3. Remove their stuff from your space 4. Contact them at right time, keep it casual 5. Arrange to meet, be positive, flirt
As what I always say, the decision to get an ex back is totally up to you. Over time, you know your ex's true worth to you as well as the value of your relationship. So only you can decide whether this is someone you want to go back to or not. All the best!
I followed the no CONTACT rule since July. Saw him in august...he just wanted to be friends, so i quit talking to him and Now its November and he wished me a happy thanksgiving and he keeps calling and texting me. Lol
Don't you recognize an opportunity when you see one? :-) Your ex is opening the lines of communication which is a perfect opportunity for you to transition into phase two. Since you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule, and assuming you've done the "no contact" rule properly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: th-cam.com/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/w-d-xo.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: th-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/w-d-xo.html Good luck!
I've messed up this break up process by doing EVERYTHING he saod not to do... So I'm Doomed. He told me on Valentine's day he never wanted to see or speak to me Again. He found interest in another girl, and I went into depression mode when I found out in front of him.. So... I blew any chances lol my bad 😂
Go by the golden rules here as much as possible: th-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/w-d-xo.html It may or may not be too late, but it’s definitely time to move forward from whatever mistakes you've made and not repeat those! Don’t be so hard on yourself, though, since this is a fairly common issue and most people are guilty of this at some point. If you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
This is honestly the B E S T and MOST complete "no contact" type video ANYWHERE on the internet!!! TRUST ME!! This video is GOLD!! Thank you Brad, you have both re-affirmed what I already knew and helped soooo many people if they would just take this advice and use the instructions word for word. I initially bought this course 10+ years ago and I just recently wanted a refresher on the strategy due to a new recent breakup! I was looking up youtube videos when a familiar face popped up! ;)
Heya there, Steve! :-) Do you still have access to the guide? If not, you can contact my support team at support.exfactorguide.com or to sign up for my coaching program where I can monitor your situation on a regular basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@@BradBrowning I’m Nicole rivera I have a problem with my bf we are just friends now after the breakup but he has contact me everyday day about other people an what happen between me an that person but I just don’t reply to him his name is Nathaniel but what can I do for him to miss me I can restrict him so he don’t that way he don’t know that I am online the more he keeps texting me if I don’t respond the more he’s going to missing me by going crazy getting my friends in contact where I am mad why I’m not talking to him
Thanks so much I’m going through a breakup after a six year relationship where we had two children and it’s been the hardest thing I’ve had to deal with in a very long time these tips make so much sense and are helping me so much! Thanks so much again
A few questions: - Is no contact ideal in a situation where you become friendzoned? - If you were literally only together for a night, but you still have strong feelings for the other person, is a no-contact period of 30 days still necessary? - Should you continue posting on your Instagram stories during no-contact?
No contact is key because trust me, the last thing you'd want to be is to be friends with your ex whom you still have feelings for. For one night stands/flings, it's more often than not simply a case of you two having different goals or asking for something more than what someone else can give. And if that's the case, no amount of distancing yourself away from that person can help... so it's important to see it for what it is rather than how you want it to be. Consider moving on from this.
Sorry to hear you're going through this. I know I can't say anything right now to make you feel better. Healing is a process and everybody has their own journey. They key is to regain confidence and in due time, you WILL feel better. It's important to experience some sense of progress in your life to make things somewhat bearable after a life-altering and excruciatingly painful event such as a breakup. So try as much to set personal life goals and start small to make sure it's attainable, such as going to the gym, planning a healthier diet, etc. Take care!
You are valuable, lovable, important, and Extremely powerful. Your power come from your ability to speak words of encouragement. Then take an action step.
Awesome! My other videos should help out a bit, too but if you still need my help further on this, however, then you and I both ought to take a look at a lot of various factors at play, so sign up for my coaching program so I can help take a look at all the various factors at play including your overall relationship history, issue/s, among many other elements, and to find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis. Please check on availability first because I only have a limited number of clients I can realistically manage before I go into spontaneous combustion. :-) Here’s the link: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hahaha I laugh when I realize I've made ALL of the mentioned mistakes mentioned on the video, and it is absolutely true how it really doesn't work to do any of those things. Hahaha. However, I am glad I've been through all those experiences and I got through to the other side alive and stronger. In my mind you can only learn by going through these things.
Yes, learning learning lessons is definitely part of personal growth and improve yourself and your own life. As to making these mistakes, each situation is different. Watch this first: th-cam.com/video/jikW4YYC9yo/w-d-xo.html So it's it's best you go by the golden rules here as much as possible: th-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/w-d-xo.html Now I can't assess the damage per se, assuming you've only begged for a short while as opposed to months on end, and it may or may not be too late, but it’s definitely time to move forward from whatever mistakes you've made and not repeat those! Don’t be so hard on yourself, though, since this is a fairly common issue and most people are guilty of this at some point. If you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
freedom of speech... to express that not all people wants their ex's back and there are cases that it is not possible to get them back or to remind ourselves how stupid it can get to hope when he gave up your relationship leaving you broken and hurt and betrayed
Like I always say, it's up to you. You know your ex and your relationship better than anyone else on here. If your ex is not worth it, you can always move on and find someone worthy of your time. Best of luck!
I've been loving a girl since 2012,& she was married to someone else in 2016 and it's 2022,she has a child and still today I love her a lot.it was an one sided love and still it's an one sided love. She can't understand my feeling.May be she can't feel what I feel for her. She just take me as a simple boy or as a normal friend. She was my one class senior in my school.and people used to make fun on me that I love someone who is one yr senior of me.But I believe,'when love happens,it just happens, it has no condition,no certain time or age, it just happens'. And still today I love her and I will love her forever. She knows I love her a lot.I can say her that I like u,I want to don't know why can't I directly say I love you in front of her. And still I'm thinking that may be one day a miracle will happen and she will be my. We plan for our life. but unfortunately most of the time God has different plan.
It's good to have unconditional love for someone. The downside to that is if you don't give unconditional love back and she's obviously chosen or is already with someone else to begin with. If it's one-sided, stuff could become toxic for you real fast and I know you don't deserve that. I suggest you make efforts to get over her in order to free up space in your heart to potentially love someone else and have a healthy relationship with. That girl is not it.
If giving someone lot's of love makes them loves you back and values you the same.... Believe me, I would still having the love of my life with me... There's nothing I didn't do to show my love for I even sacrificed myself for but it was nothing I changed myself to accommodate someone who never appreciated the things I did for them I did lot's of crazy things in the name of love But all my efforts goes down the drain There's too much danger in loving the wrong person so so much 💔 It kills you slowly like cancer Bit by bit loosing your mind It doesn't end there ☝️getting thinner and thinner Loosing some sleep over someone who's not thinking about you Know when to stop when someone is not welcoming the love you're giving 🙇♂️
There is a certain danger to unrequited love, yes. Perhaps that should teach you a lesson or two to always strive for balance in your relationships and learn to discern whether your partner is putting in equal amount of effort, okay? I think most of us went through that kind of situation in our lives but we become better and learn in time! :-)
what if Im blocked how can i contact my ex?I've been on no Contact for more than 30days she contacted me today because she knew that my mother is in a hospital now she just check her condition and afterwards our conversation is over
Here's to wishing for your mother's full recovery! As to your ex, try not to worry too much. Unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: th-cam.com/video/5UT92IB5ugs/w-d-xo.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: th-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/w-d-xo.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : th-cam.com/video/D1GpR5MApQk/w-d-xo.html Good luck!
Answer her: "Yeah,thanks. Hope all is well with you!" Anyway here's how you can tell it's starting to work: th-cam.com/video/4gqo4RjqUpo/w-d-xo.html Anyway here's a quick overview to help guide you: th-cam.com/video/xgR03RcU8mw/w-d-xo.html Lots of folks seem to be oblivious about it, so here goes: the 30-day "no contact" rule, once COMPLETED, is just the first phase for most people (unless your ex sincerely wanted you back and it's shown in their actions). This would also help guide you on what to do after the "no contact" rule: th-cam.com/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/w-d-xo.html Anyway there are two more phases to go through if you want an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: th-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/w-d-xo.html
i have tried so many ways to bring the spark in our 6years of relationship.. we didn't broke up nor we are in love like we used to ...he just lost interest in me...he loves me but his feelings are fading ..he's changed alot.. so now m here watching ur videos.. hope this is the only way where i might get help
Sorry to hear you're going through this. The bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: th-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/w-d-xo.html and the golden rules here: th-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/w-d-xo.html
You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: th-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/w-d-xo.html AND th-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/w-d-xo.html
Do the dynamic "no contact" rule or limited contact. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: th-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/w-d-xo.html AND th-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/w-d-xo.html
I thought my marriage was going soo good. I thought we both loved each other with all our hearts. I thought we were going to be soulmates forever. We had so much fun together, and we never argued. Our children were looking at us as roll models for their relationships. We were married for 21 years. One day she bought an online game, built an online life, and built a relationship with an online player. She told me that it wasn't my fault, and that she just wanted to be alone now. She moved to the basement for 6 months before moving out. That was 2 1/2 years ago. She would come upstairs to get something once in a while. At those times I would try to find out why, or what happened. She's just say, " I just want to be alone". She'd go down to the basement and continue playing and laughing all day and every day while playing her game until she moved out. Except for our divorce hearing, I haven't seen or heard from her since she moved out. I haven't tried to text, call, or make any contact since she left. I'm still in terrible pain. I wish I could let go of the love and memories and just move on. She won't talk to her children, her siblings, or her parents, either. Have no idea what really happened.
Wow, that is tough indeed. Sorry to hear that and how it ended between you two. How she's behaving towards you in the end says it all though, that's your closure right there. She doesn't feel it anymore if she doesn't even try? Consider moving on from this.
If you've reached out to your ex only fairly recently, and assuming you've correctly employed the 30-day "no contact" rule, then that's a normal reaction from your ex. Here, watch this to help you understand things better: y2u.be/CP8FQlvDuVU But what sort of messages have you been sending your ex? It's a different story if you've been trying for so long with all the right moves and still stuck in the friendzone, but I don't think that's the case with you. Focus on the second and third phases instead. It helps to learn the basics here: th-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/w-d-xo.html and/or better yet, read my guide to guide you every step of the way, at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
Is it with the same woman? If you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot. Good luck!
Sorry to hear that. Was there any talk about a divorce? You need to backtrack a bit though and see where it all started. So when did all the trouble started and what has caused it? These are my top two marriage videos which may help: y2u.be/WU0yhd3ADXU and y2u.be/W_vzHFqnasM but it's really challenging for me to know where to give you a headstart, knowing only so little of the situation... Sign up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program so I can help take a look at all the other factors at play and find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you on a regular, ongoing basis at www.marriageguy.com/coaching
This the second relationship I’m doing this process with. It worked with my ex I did 30 day no contact and we got back together but after a couple years we broke up again.
What were the reasons this time? An on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!
Thank you so much for this video. Me and my girlfriend just broke up after 13 months. I have been devastated but I am going to try the no contact. I appreciate this video so much. Thanks man
The bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: th-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/w-d-xo.html and the golden rules here: th-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/w-d-xo.html
I block her I stop all contacts. The one thing I have to stop doing what is caring about who she get in a relationship with. I was angry because she was doing picky stuff like commenting on my post knowing I was in a relationship. This video is helping
Your work has been the most helpful to me,you are wonderful
Glad you found it helpful! Thanks for the support… please like and subscribe if you haven’t already: th-cam.com/users/bradbrowning”
How are you now, did your ex came back
You should ask God for everything. EVERYTHING. No matter how you feel about it, if you feel ashamed or think He won't intervene. You give Him first dibs to change the situation. All it takes is asking.
“Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there,' and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.”
_ Matthew 17:20-21.
“I am the Lord, the God of all mankind. Is anything too hard for me?”
_ Jeremiah 32:27
“And whatever you ask in My name, that I will do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you ask anything in My name, I will do it. “If you love Me, keep My commandments.”
_ John 14:13-17
“‘If you can’?” said Jesus. “Everything is possible for one who believes.”
_ Mark 9:23
“Love didn’t hurt you, the love from someone that didn’t know how to love, hurt you” 🙃
Nah pain comes from expecting certain behaviors that were not delivered
@@RK-su4hs I was nothing but good and when I finally stood up for myself, cuz she kept cancelling on me, she left
I think I was being used
💯💕🥰
Wait what If I was the rebound... I recently found out he was really broken hearted from someone he was seeing before me... literally the day he told me he wanted to just be friends he told me that ... now I think he's talking to one of my friends but I'm not sure .... this is messed up
You are right
So many heartbroken people here including me in 2021
Lmao... We're just so much
Lol we really are many
covid break ups
Me too.. Lol
yep💔
8.1k people who is heart broken but still hoping
including me :'
10k now 😂😭😂
The comments are at least as enlightening as what he is saying.....2 X burned by the same person...I'm moving on.
13k now. You all stay strong! Take care, guys!
Don’t tell me i was hoping and praying for 4months that my ex will take me back. But then i find out something which help me move on totally but i felt stupid. His only purpose why he is with me is because he intentionally want to infected me of syphilis. Thank god i came out negative
What can I do if she's just testing me
Watched Brad's videos 3 yrs ago when I was dumped by my 9 year long ex-bf. Fast forward, I'm happily married with someone who gave me the love that I deserve. Thanks for your tips and advices Brad! For those who are still struggling to start anew, be brave! There's more to life!
@Splitting Time The beginning process with a different person is definitely hard..the trauma to trust again was there..but all the "wrongs" before with my 9 year ex were turned into all the "right" with this person..truly, if he's the one..he'll prove that you deserve this kind of love. After all, love is a risk..choose the right person who you're going to take the risk.
Best of luck to you
The no contact worked for me but it's too late to take him back coz I have got someone better than him
As what I always say, the decision to get an ex back is totally up to you. Over time, you know your ex's true worth to you as well as the value of your relationship. So only you can decide whether this is someone you want to go back to or not. All the best!
@@gingerfellah5665 closed the door yesterday and went to do my hair at a salon that was located 155km away from my place. I felt much better and looked good with my new hairstyle😊
Good for u
Good for u
Great
It's interesting because after doing this "no contact" I don't want to reach out to them anymore and I like it. It makes it easier to move on and I don't want to look back
Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is worth fighting for at one of the toughest of battles you face in your relationship. Best of luck!
@@BradBrowning ,umm sir,could you please reply to my comment,and after that i'll tell you my problems,please do pay heed to my comment
Same!
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@@BradBrowning 👍
I remember watching these videos like they were my religion. I cried and suffered a lot in my past relationships. However I feel much better years later. I am in a loving relationship, feel more confident and happy with myself and I accepted my past failed relationships.
Even if you are suffering now, watching these videos will give you the tools you need for a healthy perspective on relationships.
Thank you Brad ❤
It sometimes feels like it will never ends. Heartbreak is the worst
@@SaraheffinQ It will never end, that's true. However you will grow and become stronger so dealing with things will become much easier.
You're welcome, man. I'm glad you find strength in my videos. All the best! :-)
@@BradBrowning Hi Brad! I and my ex girlfriend broke up yesterday. And I don't want to lose her. I love her sk much. She said that we'll no longer be together anymore and it hurts me a lot. I want to take her back and I don't want to fall her inlove into some guy. How many months it takes before I do this things that you've teach us. Can I have some advice? Please I love her so much and I don't want her to have someone
Message this like he is the solution
I’m living my best life I lost 30 pounds I’m doing new activities loving myself, feeling Beautiful
That sounds awesome, way to go! Having your ex back or getting a new love should be a bonus, then!
If they leave you let them contact you. Your the prize not them. If you contact them it shows that you still want them. Stay the course of no contact it's a 💯 success rate. Either they contact you or you feel better and move on.
I'm not a fan of being passive. Why wait for her/him to run back to you? :-) I never said the "no contact" rule is supposed to go for weeks or months on end. I only said it's for 30 days in about 80% of my videos. Anyway getting an ex back, just like anything that's worth having, takes work, so make sure he's/she's worth it. Anyway the "no contact" rule is just the first phase. There are two more phases to getting an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: th-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/w-d-xo.html and to initiate communicate, this is the vid: th-cam.com/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/w-d-xo.html
It's not passive in no way it's showing that you have higher value. If you reach out to them it shows they can have you back at anytime they want without any consequences and it's shows a lower value of your self. You the prize not them if they don't and can't see that then it's there lose trade up not down. Have more respect for yourself and show that your not a revolving door.Thats why you stay no contact until they decide to reach out to you they choose to leave let them work to get you back ppl value things they have to work for more than just giving it to them.
Brad Browning what about if my ex left me and she's telling me she doesn't want any contact with me whatsoever. If I'm ignoring her won't it make it easier for her to move on since I'm giving her what she wanted?
No joke this works I was tying to hard to get my ex back eventually I gave up a year or two went by and he’s saying he’s still in love with me and trying to get us back together. Even said we would have been married by now. But I’m so over it now and have found someone better so I find it hilarious. Another ex also the same but that was only after about 30 days of no contact. Desperation is the most unattractive trait. Men love the chase!
@@tigerpaws111 wow listen to u.. I find it hilarious.. Lets hope this happens to u and they find it hilarious. There's nothing funny in dangling blokes by ur unwanting finger.. Make sure he finds out u got no interest and let him off ur fish hook of hangarounds.. Why some women feel good thinking blokes still in love with them. Its kind of creepy and wholly insular.
These videos help way more than you think. Todays been almost a week no contact, haven’t been on social media, I’m going ghost to focus on me and my mental state. Anytime I feel weak and want to reach out I watch these videos instead and it really helps me through it all. Much love Brad. You’re amazing man. 🍻
Glad you found it helpful! Thanks for the support… please like and subscribe if you haven’t already: th-cam.com/users/bradbrowning”
How cow I realized I wasn’t subscribed. Done. You are so crucial in people’s break ups. You and coach Lee are seriously amazing mentors. Helps with the anxiety huge
how it ended?
Update?
Update pls?
Its really difficult to move on after the break up but first we have to accept that they are not with us anymore.we have to learn how to live without tnem...it is not easy i know but thats the only way to move forward.
Hello broken hearts
We are strong we can do this.
Hugs from Philippines
Yes, acceptance is key and that may take a while depending on the individual...which is why it's important to employ the no contact rule for at least 30 days because it largely helps with that process and make the "in-denial" period shorter at least.
OMG, I totally made ALL of these mistakes! From begging to appologizing to rage. I will definitely cut contact now and pray he'll come back to me. Thank you for this.
You're welcome. Definitely redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: th-cam.com/video/OzVymYnQFTk/w-d-xo.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: th-cam.com/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/w-d-xo.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: th-cam.com/video/6K3xufEwEFg/w-d-xo.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
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Honestly, at this point, just let him go. I’m single
Damn! This was totally me about 2 years ago. I finally let his ass go and cut all contacts (no contact always wins) and he popped up at my job crying in tears apologizing. Boy have the tables have turned! 2 years later I politely let him know I don’t give shit!
Owww.... Now he is your boyfrnd? I really want to contact with you. Do u have any instra or fb id?
@Melissa Johnson
Waaauww..And are you now boyfriend and girl friend
Awesome! nice move
girl you bad!
QUEEN!!👏 that's all I gotta say 😌
Can we please just appreciate how helpful this video is... like he really saved someone’s love of their life and all that for free! I am so thankful and wish you all the best. Greetings from Germany❤️
Thank you for the kind words. Hope you're doing well!
This man knows what he’s talking about.. I took his advice years ago! Agreed to being friends at first... then I went no contact! Got her back after about a month. Didn’t work out in the end. But I got what I wanted at the time :)
Yo I did all of this and guess what! Today and my ex got back! I’m so frickin happy! I’m glad the broke up happen becuase it made us stronger and realize how much feelings we have for each other! We’re still celebrating our anniversary and this 21st we’re going out for dinner ❤️❤️❤️
I'm glad my it's all worked out for you. Now as what I always like to say, please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these videos to help you further: th-cam.com/video/jjrOpxa-wfI/w-d-xo.html and th-cam.com/video/v9mVzh2NVAc/w-d-xo.html or from a more recent advice here as well: th-cam.com/video/-OqYy_DqNJc/w-d-xo.html AND th-cam.com/video/8gc53SzHrac/w-d-xo.html All the best! :-)
@@BradBrowning Should I unfriend my ex? I already done almost everything. I may really say that I do look better now. I suck the first month since I was the one begging and the one trying to contact him.. I dont contact with him. I was actually the one that broke up with him because he was in contact with his ex. He didnt pursue me. Do you have video that you can suggest I can watch?
@@ferrero8575 move on with it. You dumped him, he's done with you.
Congrats!!
Hii , I’m just asking asking the first time you guys broke up you or he said things like , maybe we will see each other one day or you or he left in hold and you guys came back to one another ?
He’s 💯 percent correct! I followed the no contact rule and it worked!! I’m taking each steps he gives. I can’t believe it. But it works!! Listen to Brad it’s unreal!!
How long did the no contact last? 1 month?
Wael Ayoubi it took 1 month and 9 days. He kept texting abou random things. I would reply but short answer like ok... yes. Then he wanted to get back together. Still together ❤️
Ahh cool, I want that too ;( im already in 2 weeks NC but today i got a msg she sent that on my mom's mobile she wrote:; you can pickup your clothes and stuff from the coffeeshop downstairs on friday (she is a friend with the owners) because I had to wash everything again
Greetings
I didnt reply yet :) what should i do now!?
Wael Ayoubi ok that’s what he did to me. I’m gonna come get my stuff out of your pole barn. I waited til next day and said ok. And he never came n got his stuff he was waiting for me to say I miss you and want you back. Just text back ok I’ll get them. Then leave it at that !!!
She’s testing the waters to see what you’ll say. And she’s gonna wonder y your not chasing her. She will text something again about your stuff or anything to see what’s going on
Brad "Before you pick up your iphone to text your ex"
Me : "I have an android 😂😂"
😂😂😂
Lmao
😂👍
I swear I was just gonna say "phone" .... didn't know where the "i" came from. lol!
@@BradBrowning 😅😅 lol its all good it was just funny though, but on a more serious note thank you for helping me. You have brought so much knowledge to me about break ups and have been focusing on myself and have been super happy so thank you Brad!
Brad I just want to say thank you. No contact worked a treat. 1.5 weeks after we broke up he started messaging me and now we are officially back together (4 weeks since he broke up with me) and it feels like when we were at our best all over again. Tip to y'all - keep the power for as long as you can in a relationship. Keep him on his toes, make sure you are the one calling the shots and he is the one trying to get in contact with you and hang out with you. If you start doing NC you start to gain that power, but when you start talking again KEEP the power, don't let him walk all over you! Thanks again Brad
Olivia Joseph doing no contact while in a relationship?? that's horrible
@@bloodybonesblue1803 hey no he broke up with me and I immediately started doing NC. After only 1.5 weeks of NC he messaged me :) after that I stopped NC and just did low contact instead (replying when he iniated conversation)
You said it all, man. Good job! And congrats! :-)
I am so happy for you, sadly that is not the case with me.. I made some of the mistakes mentioned in this video (like asking mutual friends about her and she knew about it). She broke up 3,5 months ago, and we havent spoken or seen each other since. She texted me today for my birthday but thats it, I still hope she realises she decided wrong (we had a 4 year good relationship), but I think I have to move on now...
Dries King it’s pretty sad !! But at least she texted you happy birthday !! Don’t you think she wanted you to start again talking back !!!
Following these steps have worked in the past, listen to what Brad says! You'll either get them back or you'll get over them and find someone even better. Currently trying to get my ex back who i have a child with so this one is definitely the most difficult so far.
Hey thanks for dropping by, Zach! Yes, it's tough times indeed and while I can't guarantee 100% success that you all will get your exes back, I do guarantee these are the best tips or the first steps to make it happen. Best of luck!
I've binged watched all of our videos since the breakup! (4days lol) And they helped me get out of the despair and negativity pit. Now I still miss him of course, but I am full of hope, faith and motivation. Thank you Brad, you are a blessing! :D
Im with ya honey
Update??
@@diabetoobs got over the breakup a long time ago, no feelings left for my ex but we are good friends now! It does get better
sir ,my girl don't want me again, no reason to hate me, before she said I am not feeling good, and then she said because of job, and then she said me I don't want to meet you again, sir how to overcome this situation,
@@alx76 any update now?
I don't even know why I watched this.. I don't want him back I was so stressed! My ego just wants him to miss me in all honesty.. ohhh I have some work to do still. Positive vibes to everyone from Australia 🇦🇺
Thanks for dropping by! :-)
Same here.
He admitted to cheating on me. I did no contact for a few weeks. Heartache is still there... but keeping busy, caring for my mental and physical health, socializing as much as possible through this quarantine and prolonged isolation has helped through this healing process. Thank you for this video, and thank you to those who have shared their life story on here. ❤️
Stay safe and stay strong!
Im actually going through breakup as well and one helpful thing is, stop wishing and hoping that you will get back together even though that is aim. Instead think of how sorry they will be for letting you go cuz that will help you to build your self confidence and physical appearance. Also remember to wish to meet someone more wonderful and better than your ex. These mindsets will help you to pull this off better.
Yes, you have some good points there. This is in line with the tips here: th-cam.com/video/gUBNd6pDINM/w-d-xo.html
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I like that answer
What I needed to hear. Thanks
That's not going to work if u were dating a narcissist, just move on
I agree. Discussed that here: th-cam.com/video/m27TLeyUmwg/w-d-xo.html
You are wrong to give that advice, everybody deserves a chance to change!
QBlond84 fucking period. dating a narcissist is so hard bruh.
Or if they are on antidepressants or any medication that numbs their emotions
@@reginaldhunt4729 you clearly haven't dated a girl with NPD. They can't change. Sorry.
Thank you for this. These tactics usually work. And the video in itself is motivating and provides hope. I’m tired of people going “just move on!” I don’t want to. I want to have at least some hope.
Did this worked?
Finally someone that understands me
Hi guys. Should I unfriend my ex? I already done almost everything. I may really say that I do look better now. I dont contact with him. I was actually the one that broke up with him because he was in contact with his ex.
ikr. even though it's sounds impossible to get back in relationship
@@natashayg2997 It's not
i have one advice,only one MOVE ON.Time will pass and they will come back to you,they will want you,but dont accept that,you are not TOY
tq 😍😍😍😍
agreed !
Agree.
❤️❤️❤️
If i dont where i go,because our house pay bill bank togheter, what can i do???i aply no contact in hose by is dificil is not autentic no contact,im desperate ,my soul is broken ,if i go i be hommless😔😔
So happy I'm way over this, moved on to a new job bought my own home
Tired of getting ignored intermittently ...not playing the mind game anymore...1ST DAY OF no contact...I need a MATURE PERSON...
Did you get a nicer person ??
Got dumped today!!
We were in relationship for 10 months and she left me for her EX
I allowed Her to go 😮😮
If there's a chance I'll Never take her back😐
Danish
I got dumped today, too. High five!
If she left you, that is because she didn't love you. It's hard, but it's the truth. You are right to move on.
Danish maybe she’s still contacting her x!! i hate it if they still contact there x!
I can relate... though i was not really dumped. He actually chose me but he told me that he cannot stop communication with the girl who happens to be his ex of 28 years. And that confused me. Just why?
No if you play your cards right then you will be able to get her back
Mine is worst and I have moved on now,,,, I have a better man more than him,, May God make this work
Best of luck on your current relationship!
Same exact thing for me. I sent my last msg on Instagram yesterday. Going into NC mode now. I hope this works for us both!
no contact is about healing and focusing on you, not about tricks or schemes to get them back. If the relationship wasn’t respectful before, reaching out won’t magically fix it...
No contact is often the first step to help you gain clarity of the situation. It's not as much of a scheme as much as it is about you getting a better perspective of your situation and think for yourself whether the relationship and/or the ex is worth all the trouble or not. Obviously it's a different answer for everyone!
i am never so strong enough for no contact.. that´s maybe why he treat me like a doormat bc he know i am always there no matter what
I understand how you feel!! i take comfort in knowing that there is someone out there that loves me and will treat me better than a doormat. Keep your head up and DEMAND more!!!!!
Time to change that (if you haven't already) and love yourself more!
@@BradBrowning yesterday i did it, but not because i want him back again, but because i want my confidence back, i want my inner peace back and i want to be happy. I do not need anyone in my life who treat me like a doormat.
If you treat him like a celebrity he's gonna text you like fan.. remember this
🎓Smith and another in00
Lesson learned! It's especially difficult when you're new to this dating game! In short, don't think you're not worth anything, and love yourself enough to keep moving forward and enjoy life!
I am in the very beginning of no contact and I can admit it is a struggle because I truly miss my best friend. But I also know it needed to be done and that I can not control or change anything, nor would I want to. I work everyday living in a greater version of myself because at the end of everyday I am my greatest strength and my longest commitment. It does not mean that my heart does not feel but that it knows it's own worth and sets it free. It would be wrong to hope or not hope for it to return, regardless of those emotions in time, self love and silence the understanding will supersede the feelings. 30 days feels like an eternity, but a life time of loving myself first is worth the journey to knowing at the end.
Stay strong! Looks like you have some hidden wisdom in you that serves you well at this time. Take care!
These videos have helped me a lot right now. The feeling of being rejected is really bad and I dont want to be in this situation again. I hope i feel better soon.😔
I hear you. And yes, it's not an easy feeling especially if it comes from someone who's supposed to love you. Take your time to heal instead and don't chase. Watch this: th-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/w-d-xo.html
Even though she isn't my ex and was only needing some space from me, this video really helped me balance my current relationship situation. Thanks man
So it works
It takes an enormous amount of time and energy! It’s easier to move on and meet someone new. Somethings are better left alone.
Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is. Best of luck!
Thanks Brad, keep up the good stuff. Regards A.
"The best version of yourself"😊
Yep.
the “miss you” factor is big in relationships... but according to this quarantine.. it’s the devil.
True. It is what it is though, so we ought to make the best of the situation. Use your time productively. Here's my stance on the matter: bit.ly/3bn8bPN
My own relationship of 3yrs just got broken last week😢😢 . i feel devastated
I know it's hard and feel like everything will slip away the moment you cut off contact, but trust me when I say this can really do a lot of benefit to your ex and you as well as your relationship as you'd both be in a clearer headspace to deal with each other when the time comes and therefore less mistakes made that will send your ex running for the hills further. I've seen people disregard the "no contact" rule and end up destroying their chances unknowingly. This is why I recommend you to employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw
I am literally doing each and every single thing since the last 3 months just to get him back😟..
I cannot believe I've loved someone this terrible and I cannot get over😭
I will try these too
Thanks 🙏
Take it as a lesson learned and help it shape you to become a better, wiser person in the future.
They ask why you don’t call
You call
Then they act like you are being a problem calling them
Lesson learned
Follow intuition always
Here's this to consider: th-cam.com/video/xbDPq23YaNE/w-d-xo.html so be sure to take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz However, that kind of behaviour coming from your ex is somewhat expected after a breakup. That's why you ought to give it enough time where there's totally no contact between you and your ex for at least 30 days. A wide array of different emotions coming from an ex is somewhat expected when a breakup is still fresh and this includes the likelihood of your ex giving you mixed or weird signals. Watch this: y2u.be/siApAVtx8zE This is why I tell people to cut off contact for at least a month first and NOT deal with this ex. You both need to clear your minds first, all right? A breakup hurts both people in it regardless of who has done the breaking up. This is something I've discussed here, so watch it to learn a few tips to help you on how to go about it: th-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/w-d-xo.html
Now I know why he's the number 1 TH-cam relationship couch, his stutters are quite funny and makes me wanna listen to every word he say : )
Aww thanks! haha
I’ve dated narcissists before, but just recently dated one with high functioning borderline personality disorder. Made the narcissists seem like a walk in the park. BPD people will send you through the extremes of a relationship from the height of joy to soul tearing anguish and then quickly move on to do it again to someone else. They first idealize then devalue you and make you question everything about yourself. I’m pretty tough and resilient but they’re masters at tearing someone down. They will mess you up for a while so if you have gone through one of these, know it will slowly get better. Don’t try to get them back, they won’t take you and you shouldn’t want them back. Some people have unfixable flaws and it’s not your job to fix them, if you try they will hurt you harder.
If your ex has a mental disorder like depression, bipolar disorder or the like, the most loving thing you can do is to give each other space while he/she gets help. Encourage your ex to seek treatment because clinical depression is something only a therapist specializing on this can handle, even this is outside of my scope. But I can help you how to handle things on YOUR end as you go through this difficult ordeal. I know it can be incredibly tough knowing you’ve given it your best shot, yet your partner still fails to appreciate it or is breaking up despite it being a good relationship. Anyway it's a bad idea to be friends with an ex. Consider signing up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed, then guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Just be alpha.
If shes meeting someone then let that someone screw it up.
And when shes back, reject her.
Yah - (sure that’s a good move. )If that ex comes back, I’m sure she got lots of sex with that other man. -hmmmm ... and now I’m thinking that she’s dirty . I just won’t get her back.
Legend qq
CHARLIE COOLWATER dirty?! You only had sex with just one person then? Dude, no. Don’t be THAT guy.
Alpha by rejecting her? You're coward.
Yeah tough guy
I got tickets for something she may like. It's a simple move. I like this girl very much. (With ups and down) Play cool, be yourself, give her/him a safe space. I will. Thank you Brad.
Are you back on good terms yet and have you given each other enough space? If you answer no to either or both, then really assess the risks first if it's all worth it. Remember, meeting up when you're both not ready will only alienate your ex further, and that's best case scenario. Worst case scenario will land you a spot in the dreaded friendzone. Watch this first: th-cam.com/video/Jzb18j7ZMPE/w-d-xo.html but if you're both ready, watch this video on how to tell as well as how tips for you on tipping the odds to your favor: th-cam.com/video/eJPGrkuQnm0/w-d-xo.html Best of luck!
Step 3 should be step 1 and the only step.
Work on yourself. Not for them, for you. Be the best you can be and if it doesn't happen, hold your head high:)
Peace✌
To be honest, following Brad’s advice definitely works. I remember four years ago i was on a chase to get my ex back using whatever I could, studying yt videos, i even bought Brads paid book. I did get my ex back but only to let it fall apart, but handled it like a champ. It’s more then just learning how to get your ex back, you learn how to be independent, how to address situations and just be happy alone. There’s way more fish out there and the person is your ex for a reason; things weren’t meant to be. Follow Brad’s videos (or book) intently and you will see major results in your life as a whole.
Hopefully this helps anyone
Thank you for the testimony, man. And yes, seems like you mastered the way of life and I'm happy for you! :-) Being happy alone is very important in order to get your ex back so you won't come from a place of neediness and will therefore automatically just mess up things. And yes, sometimes, reunited couples get back together for good, but a few don't. Good luck on your future endeavour!
I've watched a few channels on break up coaching and Brad, your advice is the best! If it wasn't for your videos, I'd probably do something very stupid! Thank you!
Always welcome! Thanks for watching and commenting. :-)
@@BradBrowning am in a distance relationship and my ex cheated on me with someone living close by him
You’re amazing, you’ve really given me a much healthier outlook on my situation and even if me and my ex don’t get back together, I’ll be okay with that and it’s all thanks to you bro. So much respect
That's the main thing. You have to be okay with not getting back together and sometimes that's when stuff really start to happen. Just know your worth and love yourself first. Never chase. :-) Here's this to reinforce that: th-cam.com/video/tc3IRenh_30/w-d-xo.html
i'm just tired of been in a relationship and all i ever wanted now is to get married with the right person..
A lot of work needs to be done before that can happen, so work on yourself first.
Heartbroken in 2023. Thank you
Stay strong. You're welcome!
Me to
Right there with ya brother
Going through now..22 years together 😢
if you love something, let it go
princess only love adventurer not their knight in shinny armor
I appreciate this video a lot! This is hands-down the best strategy possible and I would never recommend anything else to anyone. The only aspect I'd disagree with is the 30 day period. This is ridiculously short. I seriously doubt anyone can get over their ex within a month. Plus, I personally find this whole "Look at the brand new me!" very unbelievable after only 30 days. It takes time to change and heal and become this new best version of yourself. After 30 days there is no way you'll already have that toned body from the gym, no way you have already enjoyed life, dated other people, started new hobbies etc. No way. It's just 4 weeks. Yes, you might have started implementing these changes but I'd say give yourself somewhere between 6 months and a year for this to be realistic.
Hey thanks! The goal of 30 days is to not get over someone but to allow adequate space and time for both of you to calm down and ponder on some things you both should be pondering about. Consequently, the progress you make throughout the process, if you do it right, should also coincide with the growth of becoming a better version of you. But the 30-day rule is just the first path because it all starts with acceptance and dedication to growth. More about that topic here: www.breakupbrad.com
Someone needs to hear this ! You matter ,your worth it, I love you .but stop trying .speaking from experience , they are an ex for a reason and it will never be the same
Self love is key, indeed! Regarding the "reason" though, sometimes the reason is you're both too lazy to work on it and just expect things to miraculously fix things for you. It's that or one or both people don't take accountability for their actions. There will always be issues in a relationship as there is never a perfect relationship, but there is a healthy one! But like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is worth fighting for at one of the toughest of battles you face in your relationship. Best of luck!
No contact at all is really a good idea.. Huhu I still remember the feeling.. From the first day until he message me.. 😘😍
Yep.
I miss him so much 😭 it hurts so bad to know that he doesn’t even care about you
Life happens as well as a lot of stuff in the course of your relationship that destroys even the happiest and strongest ones out there. I hear you though. It's tough indeed. But if you wanna give it a try, just know that the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: th-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/w-d-xo.html and the golden rules here: th-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/w-d-xo.html
1. Give them space, no contact
2. Be the best version of yourself
3. Remove their stuff from your space
4. Contact them at right time, keep it casual
5. Arrange to meet, be positive, flirt
My mistake 8 is wasting time and energy trying to get back with ex when could have been dating someone new 🤦♂️
As what I always say, the decision to get an ex back is totally up to you. Over time, you know your ex's true worth to you as well as the value of your relationship. So only you can decide whether this is someone you want to go back to or not. All the best!
I followed the no CONTACT rule since July. Saw him in august...he just wanted to be friends, so i quit talking to him and
Now its November and he wished me a happy thanksgiving and he keeps calling and texting me. Lol
Don't you recognize an opportunity when you see one? :-) Your ex is opening the lines of communication which is a perfect opportunity for you to transition into phase two. Since you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule, and assuming you've done the "no contact" rule properly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: th-cam.com/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/w-d-xo.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: th-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/w-d-xo.html Good luck!
I've messed up this break up process by doing EVERYTHING he saod not to do... So I'm Doomed. He told me on Valentine's day he never wanted to see or speak to me Again. He found interest in another girl, and I went into depression mode when I found out in front of him.. So... I blew any chances lol my bad 😂
Go by the golden rules here as much as possible: th-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/w-d-xo.html It may or may not be too late, but it’s definitely time to move forward from whatever mistakes you've made and not repeat those! Don’t be so hard on yourself, though, since this is a fairly common issue and most people are guilty of this at some point. If you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Diana How are you now after your break up.
This is honestly the B E S T and MOST complete "no contact" type video ANYWHERE on the internet!!! TRUST ME!! This video is GOLD!! Thank you Brad, you have both re-affirmed what I already knew and helped soooo many people if they would just take this advice and use the instructions word for word. I initially bought this course 10+ years ago and I just recently wanted a refresher on the strategy due to a new recent breakup! I was looking up youtube videos when a familiar face popped up! ;)
Heya there, Steve! :-) Do you still have access to the guide? If not, you can contact my support team at support.exfactorguide.com or to sign up for my coaching program where I can monitor your situation on a regular basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@@BradBrowning I’m Nicole rivera I have a problem with my bf we are just friends now after the breakup but he has contact me everyday day about other people an what happen between me an that person but I just don’t reply to him his name is Nathaniel but what can I do for him to miss me I can restrict him so he don’t that way he don’t know that I am online the more he keeps texting me if I don’t respond the more he’s going to missing me by going crazy getting my friends in contact where I am mad why I’m not talking to him
I’m trying to let him miss me
To thoroughly become your best self on every level (mentally, spiritually, physically, emotionally) really takes time. I think a year minimum.
It's a lifetime process to achieve the "best" level.You deal with what you got and try to make things better instead.
@@BradBrowningDepending on what areas of your life your working on, will cause it to take a lifetime. But it's worth it.
Thanks so much I’m going through a breakup after a six year relationship where we had two children and it’s been the hardest thing I’ve had to deal with in a very long time these tips make so much sense and are helping me so much! Thanks so much again
Sorry to hear that. Stay strong! And you're welcome. If you need further help, you know what to do.
This advisor of couples is brilliant. Everything he says makes damn good horse sense.
A few questions:
- Is no contact ideal in a situation where you become friendzoned?
- If you were literally only together for a night, but you still have strong feelings for the other person, is a no-contact period of 30 days still necessary?
- Should you continue posting on your Instagram stories during no-contact?
No contact is key because trust me, the last thing you'd want to be is to be friends with your ex whom you still have feelings for. For one night stands/flings, it's more often than not simply a case of you two having different goals or asking for something more than what someone else can give. And if that's the case, no amount of distancing yourself away from that person can help... so it's important to see it for what it is rather than how you want it to be. Consider moving on from this.
@@BradBrowning i have a Q? What if they still follow u on insta and see your stories?
I am after breaking up from a 7 years relationship and I am so depressed please someone help me .
Sorry to hear you're going through this. I know I can't say anything right now to make you feel better. Healing is a process and everybody has their own journey. They key is to regain confidence and in due time, you WILL feel better. It's important to experience some sense of progress in your life to make things somewhat bearable after a life-altering and excruciatingly painful event such as a breakup. So try as much to set personal life goals and start small to make sure it's attainable, such as going to the gym, planning a healthier diet, etc. Take care!
You are valuable, lovable, important, and Extremely powerful. Your power come from your ability to speak words of encouragement. Then take an action step.
And i replied after 24hrs and brief response i let him to make an effort until now im continuing NC. I love this video👍🏻
Awesome! My other videos should help out a bit, too but if you still need my help further on this, however, then you and I both ought to take a look at a lot of various factors at play, so sign up for my coaching program so I can help take a look at all the various factors at play including your overall relationship history, issue/s, among many other elements, and to find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis. Please check on availability first because I only have a limited number of clients I can realistically manage before I go into spontaneous combustion. :-) Here’s the link: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@@BradBrowning "No freakin way" she wasn't in to giving "Head" but she surely liked it
Hahaha I laugh when I realize I've made ALL of the mentioned mistakes mentioned on the video, and it is absolutely true how it really doesn't work to do any of those things. Hahaha. However, I am glad I've been through all those experiences and I got through to the other side alive and stronger. In my mind you can only learn by going through these things.
Yes, learning learning lessons is definitely part of personal growth and improve yourself and your own life. As to making these mistakes, each situation is different. Watch this first: th-cam.com/video/jikW4YYC9yo/w-d-xo.html So it's it's best you go by the golden rules here as much as possible: th-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/w-d-xo.html Now I can't assess the damage per se, assuming you've only begged for a short while as opposed to months on end, and it may or may not be too late, but it’s definitely time to move forward from whatever mistakes you've made and not repeat those! Don’t be so hard on yourself, though, since this is a fairly common issue and most people are guilty of this at some point. If you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
I feel so much better after watching this, thank you so much Mr. Brad!
Videos like this helps me to feel better and helps me to be positive.
Great to hear. Stay strong!
Why would I want to have that loser back? 🙄
Without him, life is so much more peaceful 🙏
Agreed👍, it only means that they really never cared at all!
freedom of speech... to express that not all people wants their ex's back and there are cases that it is not possible to get them back or to remind ourselves how stupid it can get to hope when he gave up your relationship leaving you broken and hurt and betrayed
@@sbahar1010 exactly, i do too
@@thecoolestpersononyt i'm not contradicting Brad points i'm just expressing my thoughts based on my experienced " To each his own"
Like I always say, it's up to you. You know your ex and your relationship better than anyone else on here. If your ex is not worth it, you can always move on and find someone worthy of your time. Best of luck!
I've been loving a girl since 2012,& she was married to someone else in 2016 and it's 2022,she has a child and still today I love her a lot.it was an one sided love and still it's an one sided love. She can't understand my feeling.May be she can't feel what I feel for her. She just take me as a simple boy or as a normal friend. She was my one class senior in my school.and people used to make fun on me that I love someone who is one yr senior of me.But I believe,'when love happens,it just happens, it has no condition,no certain time or age, it just happens'. And still today I love her and I will love her forever. She knows I love her a lot.I can say her that I like u,I want to don't know why can't I directly say I love you in front of her. And still I'm thinking that may be one day a miracle will happen and she will be my.
We plan for our life. but unfortunately most of the time God has different plan.
It's good to have unconditional love for someone. The downside to that is if you don't give unconditional love back and she's obviously chosen or is already with someone else to begin with. If it's one-sided, stuff could become toxic for you real fast and I know you don't deserve that. I suggest you make efforts to get over her in order to free up space in your heart to potentially love someone else and have a healthy relationship with. That girl is not it.
I discovered your channel and I must say I am learning a lot...
Good to know! Thanks for dropping by! :-)
If giving someone lot's of love makes them loves you back and values you the same....
Believe me, I would still having the love of my life with me...
There's nothing I didn't do to show my love for
I even sacrificed myself for but it was nothing
I changed myself to accommodate someone who never appreciated the things I did for them
I did lot's of crazy things in the name of love
But all my efforts goes down the drain
There's too much danger in loving the wrong person so so much 💔
It kills you slowly like cancer
Bit by bit loosing your mind
It doesn't end there ☝️getting thinner and thinner
Loosing some sleep over someone who's not thinking about you
Know when to stop when someone is not welcoming the love you're giving 🙇♂️
There is a certain danger to unrequited love, yes. Perhaps that should teach you a lesson or two to always strive for balance in your relationships and learn to discern whether your partner is putting in equal amount of effort, okay? I think most of us went through that kind of situation in our lives but we become better and learn in time! :-)
Seems like this is a good step towards moving on too....
You have to move on a little before you can be in a position to get your ex back!
Thank you, so much.
Edit: thank you for liking my comment and highlighting it Brad, I do appreciate this video ❤️
what if Im blocked how can i contact my ex?I've been on no Contact for more than 30days she contacted me today because she knew that my mother is in a hospital now she just check her condition and afterwards our conversation is over
Here's to wishing for your mother's full recovery! As to your ex, try not to worry too much. Unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: th-cam.com/video/5UT92IB5ugs/w-d-xo.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: th-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/w-d-xo.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : th-cam.com/video/D1GpR5MApQk/w-d-xo.html Good luck!
I stopped contact with him brad and after two weeks he texted me that its good to see you moving on so good 😂
Answer her: "Yeah,thanks. Hope all is well with you!" Anyway here's how you can tell it's starting to work: th-cam.com/video/4gqo4RjqUpo/w-d-xo.html Anyway here's a quick overview to help guide you: th-cam.com/video/xgR03RcU8mw/w-d-xo.html Lots of folks seem to be oblivious about it, so here goes: the 30-day "no contact" rule, once COMPLETED, is just the first phase for most people (unless your ex sincerely wanted you back and it's shown in their actions). This would also help guide you on what to do after the "no contact" rule: th-cam.com/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/w-d-xo.html Anyway there are two more phases to go through if you want an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: th-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/w-d-xo.html
Should have left him on read
All of the mistakes you named I did them, it was my first break up and I didn't know what to do.
Live and learn. Live and learn. :-) It'll get better! Focus on your own happiness first!
i have tried so many ways to bring the spark in our 6years of relationship.. we didn't broke up nor we are in love like we used to ...he just lost interest in me...he loves me but his feelings are fading ..he's changed alot.. so now m here watching ur videos.. hope this is the only way where i might get help
Sorry to hear you're going through this. The bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: th-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/w-d-xo.html and the golden rules here: th-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/w-d-xo.html
How can I do no contact when we work together? I see him 3 times a week, and we are assigned to do projects together.
Go see artical on Coach Lee site, i am working also with my ex in same office :)
You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: th-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/w-d-xo.html AND th-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/w-d-xo.html
These videos are the only thing helping me through this right now 🙏🙏
ecgolds, you look cute!😍😍😍😍
U go girl
Meeting my ex in 3 days after something more than one month.... wish me luck guys.
Good luck
How did it go
good luck
How did it go
Hope all went well
No contact isn't feasible for us, we have a kid, we go to the same church.... we're cordial
Do the dynamic "no contact" rule or limited contact. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: th-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/w-d-xo.html AND th-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/w-d-xo.html
The dating is really helping me. Dieting hard and going to the gym is the best advice. Thanks.
@Abia Umaya I broke up with him only last Thursday. He attempted contact on Monday and Tuesday. I'm not going to respond until I lose 15 lbs.
Awesome!
I thought my marriage was going soo good. I thought we both loved each other with all our hearts. I thought we were going to be soulmates forever. We had so much fun together, and we never argued. Our children were looking at us as roll models for their relationships. We were married for 21 years. One day she bought an online game, built an online life, and built a relationship with an online player. She told me that it wasn't my fault, and that she just wanted to be alone now. She moved to the basement for 6 months before moving out. That was 2 1/2 years ago. She would come upstairs to get something once in a while. At those times I would try to find out why, or what happened. She's just say, " I just want to be alone". She'd go down to the basement and continue playing and laughing all day and every day while playing her game until she moved out. Except for our divorce hearing, I haven't seen or heard from her since she moved out. I haven't tried to text, call, or make any contact since she left. I'm still in terrible pain. I wish I could let go of the love and memories and just move on. She won't talk to her children, her siblings, or her parents, either. Have no idea what really happened.
Wow, that is tough indeed. Sorry to hear that and how it ended between you two. How she's behaving towards you in the end says it all though, that's your closure right there. She doesn't feel it anymore if she doesn't even try? Consider moving on from this.
Awful. How did it end?
What if your ex is ignoring you for like 5 months, does not respond to your calls n text
If you've reached out to your ex only fairly recently, and assuming you've correctly employed the 30-day "no contact" rule, then that's a normal reaction from your ex. Here, watch this to help you understand things better: y2u.be/CP8FQlvDuVU But what sort of messages have you been sending your ex? It's a different story if you've been trying for so long with all the right moves and still stuck in the friendzone, but I don't think that's the case with you. Focus on the second and third phases instead. It helps to learn the basics here: th-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/w-d-xo.html and/or better yet, read my guide to guide you every step of the way, at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
never thought i’d be back here again
Is it with the same woman? If you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot. Good luck!
Yes NC works he reached out after 2months
Great! Him reaching out is just the first step though so don't get complacent. :-) Here are the basics again: th-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/w-d-xo.html
How’s it going now? Are you still together?
Feels like he has forgotten me.. He's keeping silence. Even though I want to talk to him I am keeping silence too.
He does no contact too.
But how to break it. I am sure he's not gonna answer my calls.
Nethuni Dilhara how’s everything?
@@dorathythea6370 nothing happened... I think I should move forward.
Nethu N goodluck
I was married to my ex for 23 years. He was the love of my life. And he left me. Help.
Sorry to hear that. Was there any talk about a divorce? You need to backtrack a bit though and see where it all started. So when did all the trouble started and what has caused it? These are my top two marriage videos which may help: y2u.be/WU0yhd3ADXU and y2u.be/W_vzHFqnasM but it's really challenging for me to know where to give you a headstart, knowing only so little of the situation... Sign up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program so I can help take a look at all the other factors at play and find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you on a regular, ongoing basis at www.marriageguy.com/coaching
This the second relationship I’m doing this process with. It worked with my ex I did 30 day no contact and we got back together but after a couple years we broke up again.
What were the reasons this time? An on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!
Thank you so much for this video. Me and my girlfriend just broke up after 13 months. I have been devastated but I am going to try the no contact. I appreciate this video so much. Thanks man
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For me am still under frustration but I don't call or text it hurts knowing he moved on n left me with a son
Lol I listen to these videos and realize how much I am over my ex.
lol thanks for watching!
I tried and I think I had.. but after a month a long for him.
Like my ex were soooo obsessed with me for like 7 month and now he tells me that he doesnt feel anything. Can he love me again?
The bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: th-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/w-d-xo.html and the golden rules here: th-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/w-d-xo.html
Mine was kinda the same he used to be crazy about me, but then he just lost feelings. How’d thins turnout for you?
I block her I stop all contacts. The one thing I have to stop doing what is caring about who she get in a relationship with. I was angry because she was doing picky stuff like commenting on my post knowing I was in a relationship. This video is helping
If blocking your ex helps you heal, then do that. Although it should be a last resort.