🇵🇭 12 RED FLAGS 🚩About Filipinas NOBODY EXPECTS!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ต.ค. 2024
- American expat living in the Philippines for 2 years breaks down the 12 red flags 🚩 you need to look out for in your Filipina partner/ potential partner.
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Single moms are a no no it doesn't matter what country you're in. Choose better
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@@JasperinthePhilippines Imagine if the ladies thought the same about Guys with kids?
Ya right.
I say don’t date single moms with local baby daddies if a girls children are over 18 or a woman has a foreigner baby daddy a lot of times single moms are unavoidable unless you’re dating 18 and 19-year-olds in any country
@@JasperinthePhilippines You know when I first when there 20= years ago very rarely met single mums, now I rarely if ever ,meet a girl without at least one kid?
Solid, the phone thing I want to add to. If she’s always on her phone it’s the guys fault. Set the boundary of “you out with me or wanna go home and surf instagram?” If she continues then it’s a red flag and she doesn’t like you. Women crave strength, and setting a boundary and sticking to it will level you up. Setting a boundary and not enforcing it, or only occasionally enforce it, you just lost all her respect
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@@jghosth87nailed it
Spitting out facts brother! Unfortunately, the SIMPS will ignore your warnings, especially the “leading with your wallet”.
Unfortunately some guys have wasted their entire lives and that’s all they have to offer. You’re totally correct
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I agree on , when their always on the phone. Especially on a date, in your company it's disrespectful to you and your time. You don't have their attention and that's a no go to me.
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Absolutely agree! Especially the attitude that it’s my obligation to make her life better because mine is. It’s not my responsibility. Such woke, entitled crap.
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Just wanted to say I think all of these where solid red flag. I would immediately end interaction with a woman who exhibited these traits anywhere in the world. Great advice Jasper thanks.
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I refer to them as Hogaritas!
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Damn....Excellent and exactly what I was thinking...great work.
Thank you Todd.
Someone inspired me to make this video. 🤣
My caribou is sick, lol!
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Hello Jasper, I made sure to find a Filipina that doesn't have any children. I didn't want to deal with another man while I was raising His child. Take care.
That is always best in any country, smart man
Totally makes sense. I've communicated with a few online dating site women and have detected this, or at least strongly suspected a few of these signs. I didn't know it was common, but it just didn't smell right. There are too many choices to jump at one and take a chance in my opinion. I have been tempted, but quickly follow top rule of, don't sent any money. So far so good.
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Totally agree with everything you said.
1 thing i want to mention is if you have been dating the girl for a while and she keeps forgetting what you told her about yourself that girl is not into you any girl that is into a man will remember most of what both of yous have talked about
If she keeps forgetting it means she isn't interested in you.
Also if she doesn't ask questions about you like your hobbies likes dislikes that is also a major red flag.
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These Western gimme-girls have done a pretty good job of building my red flag algorithm, lol, but this is definitely a good supplemental list of scenarios for the guys that wear their naked hearts on their sleeve!
Yes sir
🚩 Being A Filipina.
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Simps gonna simp. No helping them to see the light
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I’m trying
Excellent Video List 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Thank you my friend.
I guess if you want to be charitable, you can decide to give a house to a random woman. If aren't be charitable, don't build a house for a woman who you don't know. Wait at least 5 to 10 years if you will do it. During the "waiting time," monitor her behavior. Look and see if she is really committed to you. When you do build a house, don't invest so much it will hurt you if things go wrong. Use wisdom.
Consider it a gift, no matter what definitely wait many many years I agree
Hi, Jasper..., It is always ( MONEY 💲💵 ) for them or her family, (e.g., Mom, Dad, Uncle, Aunt, brother, sister, cousins, relatives and friends, etc. ) ! ! * It's almost like they were ( trained ) for this ✋💵🤝 💵 ! ! = 💰 * I have seen ( foreigners wiped out ) of money💲💵 within two ( 2 ) months or less... * Be very careful and watch your wallet, bank account and always be on guard... * Watch and listen to everything you do in the Philippines..., especially with a ( Filipinas ) and your hard earned MONEY 💲💵 ! ! * 💵 Here today and gone tomorrow... * Excellent video and very informative, and "Thank you" for sharing the video... "Semper Fi" Mike in Montana :)
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The tampo issue. You need to pay close attention to why and when tampo happens. A lot of women have learned how to manipulate men this way.
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13. She has money, but it's locked up in escrow. She has a job lined up in [your country] and just needs a little front money to take advantage of this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity.
The "little" money will grow with each document she sends you... perfect forgeries of real passport, H1a type visa, work permits, etc.
Crazy
What gets me is I don't know how she broke through my resistant shell. I had just turned down two other women who asked for money. In this case I seemed to be in some kind of trance (figuratively) wherein I suddenly awoke to having given her a couple thousand dollars within a few weeks. As soon as I "awoke," i saw the flaws in her documents and cut her off.
Maybe this was some kind of example to me, or what I call a "humility lesson."
A few thousand American dollars Jesus that’s like a year salary in the Philippines
Yeah, regardless of the woman’s age Beauty or story I would say just say no to even five dollars and just put yourself on an airplane
@@JasperinthePhilippines I know! That was my guideline until this incident. That's why I feel so weird about it.
The money's not peanuts to me, though I never would give away money I've saved or use for staples. I do give a fair amount to people in need, so I thought this was just one more who might, or might not, click with me when she got here.
At the end, I don't even think she lived in the Pinas. Maybe someone in Nigeria finally got to me?
Actually, given the level of document forgery, I suspect a ring in an Eastern European country. However, neither the NBI nor FBI showed any interest in the forged documents I kept. Maybe the CIA is earning some dough this way? They've done worse - and they are experts at mind control! My intellect sure went on vacation for those three weeks.
At the end, when I revealed what I'd learned, she went nuts, not with anger, but fear. She was with someone who was off-camera that she was very afraid of.
Maybe I'll use the incident and my guesses to write a short story!
Nice sharing, Watching here.🎉❤
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Why run away from those girls? Tap first, then run.
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How dare you
If Filipina Girl asking money means this woman not seriour to you ok,
If woman always have alibi if you want to talk means this girl have secret or have someone especial.
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Good points bro and right on as usual.
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Great advice. Thanks for sharing.
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This is exactly on point, pay attention to this blog plz
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Not even Merry Christmas. If they are over with. It’s finished, if not, it is not over.
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Wildebeest linebacker!!!! Killed me! 🤣
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Hi Jasper,
Thank you for the great video! Those 12 cases are good to know about. Also, it’s very encouraging to hear that you are currently with a good Filipina. I’m hoping to come to the Philippines sometime next year, and I plan to contact you at some point. Here are a few other red flags I’ve heard about, drinking, too much, going to dance clubs on a regular basis, bad hygiene, bad eating habits, mental health issues such as borderline personality, or depression. The Mayo clinic has a great website with symptoms and traits of these mental health issues. I even heard a story about the Filipina, who broke into a guys cell phone by using his thumbprint when he was asleep. Then she planted spyware on his phone.
I look forward to your next video.
Thanks!
Thank you
It's so difficult because a con artist is known to act well so it's just damn hard to get a genuine relationship these days. I'm not saying it's impossible it's just very very hard.
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Great advice here! Guys watch and learn this important info many times. Before traveling anywhere in SEA, and the rest of the world. Make sure you are in shape physically and at the top of your game when dealing with foreign women. Most of all NO single moms ever, Be careful out there.
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Good video.
Men shouldn't be on dating sites looking for Filipinas because they eventually fold like a pretzel.
Wait until you get there once you get it together.
Your odds will be better!
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All 100% true
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My Carabao is sick 😂😂😂
You are the best!
this only about the 2nd video of this huys ive seen , but hr is really dropping some solid things to remember from little seen from him
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Money is very TRUE!
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I forgot to mention chronic lying about things like where they live, if they are married, or if they have children. I’ve heard it’s possible to get a certificate of non-marriage from A Philippines government office. Also extreme jealousy can be really detrimental to a relationship.
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Number 13. Muteness. Not talking. Yes, Not talking at all. She sits and says nothing,. No questions from her about your likes or dislikes, and most importantly, no questions at all. That is a killer.
Or you ask her a question, and she answers with one word, and there is no " How about you?"
A date is your time to get to know each other, not to sit there mute like a rock.
And " I am not fluent in English" is a bs excuse. All their school is in English since they are children. That is an excuse for a Korean or a Japanese girl. Or a Thai. Not for a Filipina.
She can speak to you in a " non-fluent" English and get by just OK.
You may attribute it to extreme shyness, in that case, you can give her one more date, but if she is mute again, that's it.
That’s “tampo”
@@JasperinthePhilippines No, this is on the first date. Not because of something you did. The girl has zero communication skills.
Tampo is already when you are in a relationship.Here, it did not even start.
That’s different
I would walk away immediately
I think the phone thing is also just about having respect for each other. It's also about connection. Do you want to connect to each other as a feminine and a masculine masculine and have a real relationship? Or do you want to be with a woman who is looking at her phone and not giving you her ultimate attention?
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Def agree with Jasper re the guy friends thing. So crazy in the West how every girl says she has lots of guy friends because she doesn't get along with women. Smh
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Met her at Royal age 21 went to Power Plant Mall with her and she wouldn't get off that phone during the movie couldn't wait to get away from her!!! LoL
Yeah, total waste of time severely disrespectful to do that. Also movies are terrible with somebody that you’re not really with already because you have to sit there and silence basically for two hours.
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I disagree
A movie after Salad Stop which is right outside the theater Power Plant Mall allows the two of you to break the touch barrier and I've been successful with that many times. Breaking the touch barrier is also good sitting close side to side at the bar etc
I don’t know I never did the movie thing. I would just always invite a woman back to my place. If I decided she passed my interview and then immediately break the “touch barrier”
Remember, if you make these demands you absolutely must be in Her life as in constantly all day everyday contact. These are the relationships that work. Everything else is suspect and subject to failure. These Women are Hot after you mate with them and cannot be judged for being "broken in" by you then left to simmer for any period of time. Its not fair or realistic. Good day Gentlemen.
I don’t need to be with my girl all day every every day
But you certainly can’t go back home to your country and think that they’re your girl that I can tell you
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Man this is good 😂
Thanks
A wildebeest linebacker from the west....😂
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A woman with a lot of guy friends....beware, one of those guys is your replacement.
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Five green flags for tomorrow’s video lol
@@JasperinthePhilippines Tell you what, I keep finding them with Che. 🤞
The green flags right?
@@JasperinthePhilippines Yessiruni! 🎉