The Brutal Truth About life in South Korea 🇰🇷 | MY experience

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  • Here's the Brutal truth about my life in South Korea. Again, I love South Korea and my intentions are far from scaring anyone. I just hope to paint the REAL picture for people who romanticize or fantasize about the culture and country.
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  • @ninobk196
    @ninobk196 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    We need to stop trying to fit in where we will never fit in. Go where you are wanted.

  • @td1503
    @td1503 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This is the same for visiting any other country as well...europe, european usa, canada, aussies, you name it...there will always be obstacles to overcome...
    I have visited korea twice...I find the people just as I had envisioned them to be...they are very observant of you, even when you think they are not checking you out...they are.... I have learned that they treat you the way, they see you act...I personally don't want to be bothered, I just want to go and look around a bit, interact with the koreans I feel connected to...and act politely distant with those I only want a fleeting experience with...it worked for me....
    This is my attitude towards all peoples in the countries I have visited and lived (I lived on the continent of europe...UGH, 'hated' every minute of IT, and I don't want to GO BACK !!!)
    BUT, then I am used to the european mind game...I was 'not' overly turned 'off' by my experiences in korea...since korea showed the 'signs' of being CLEARLY indoctrinated into the european 'mind game' phenom...It's a 'cultural dominance game' european diaspora persons play using MONEY....strategically 'investing' large sums of MONEY in korea (and other countries) under certain 'conditions'...and what does koreans CRAVE over anything !!! DON...that's right Money!!! Because to koreans, money means POWER !!! As a result, the good of Korean Culture has been strangled OUT by back room meetings, where sly handshake deals and slick paper signed 'contractual agreements' for MONEY took place...Making korea into a 'disney theme park adventure'...and more of the same ole...same ole...that you can see and experience anywhere in the 'european' west !!!
    It's the same way EVERYWHERE...cultural erosion by way of european 'filthy' MONEY !!!
    So, of course YOU see NO BROWN Physicians, taxi drivers, korean born brown skinned government officials...and of course mostly all omahs and abojees prefer foreigners with 'rice cake' hued skin, to marry their sons or daughters...if there is a question about outside cultural marriage within their families.... It's part of the 'conditioning' of the korean psyche by the european diaspora!!!
    We all know that IT is certainly working the way the europeans want it to go (pun intended)...
    Koreans are WORKED to 'severe' exhaustion in jobs that they have to compete hard to get and hold onto (even when it would be better for them if they resigned from - due to adult work place bullying), their men are afraid of getting MARRIED to real WOMEN...because having children SCARES them to NO END...the possibility they (men) will have to work EVEN harder to LIVE as a family MAN...PETRIFIES them...and the women are having to DO everything...just like....Black - Pink...if you get my drift !!! The european investors, set korea up for self-sabotage-extinction...they used the weak spot of koreans which has almost wiped them out...their own 'avarice' for what the europeans 'hoodwinked' them into thinking were 'needful things' for progressive living !!!
    I feel so sorry for the Koreans...they are suffering because of decisions made seemingly FOR them (in the 80s), but were REALLY against them...
    What's next?...Is their country going to become the european test site for 'AI trans-humanism inductions', as a supposed way to help support the korean 'infrastructure' due to an almost non-existent work force, due to low birthrate and aged 'out' workforce population...Far-fetched you're thinking...NOPE, highly possible....Since WE 'all' are very acquainted with legitimate documentation concerning the europeans' past and present 'gruesome experimentations' involving human beings an 'testing', aren't WE?!...'cruel race those europeans, as well as their diaspora'!!!
    I say...What the HEY, they (the Koreans) are between a rock and a hard place...just like YOU !! So, don't sweat this small STUFF !!! It is 'what it is'....until they the Koreans get tired of running the european sponsored 'rat race' and want to change their one sided understanding of the truth about other cultures, in so doing form a better viewpoint past the JUNK the europeans feed them thru 'student programs' in the usa, britain, france, germany, canada, russia (what the HEY...ALL the european gateposts of indoctrination, including the western media 'misinformation' pathogen blitz)....
    Sorry to say...Things will remain the same (koreans are ADDICTED to MONEY & GOSSIP...europeans LOVE feeding any and everybody's ADDITIONS...
    An Koreans ain't about to get off of the Filthy MONEY train ride they are on with MONEY Train Owners...the europeans!!!
    So go on to Korea..but, at YOUR OWN risk !!! Either get a thick skin...stay there and put up with it....OR 'exit stage left' an get the HANG NAIL outta DODGE !! One way or the other it's YOUR CHOICE !
    Buuuut, leave Korea with some FACE (Respect)...they deserve IT !!!

    • @AdaomaOnwukaeme
      @AdaomaOnwukaeme  7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Wow!Wow! This was quite a read. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

  • @KennieinKorea
    @KennieinKorea หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    It's hard for foreigners to work in the health care system

    • @AdaomaOnwukaeme
      @AdaomaOnwukaeme  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yes, it is. But there are aspects like working in International center where one can work as a translator. But I see that many of such personnel are either half-breds or Koreans who have lived abroad.

  • @AdaomaOnwukaeme
    @AdaomaOnwukaeme  หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Hi, did you find this video valueable? I'd love to hear from you.

    • @cathrynnkay
      @cathrynnkay หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Wow...I loved this real truth about life in Korea. I'm a Ugandan Nurse and my Korean boyfriend is a medical doctor and owns his private medical facility there. I won't forget the fact that my Korean Obstetrician went on leave unexpectedly at the last hour and I had to check into another hospital. Thank God the medical team at Sacred Heart Hospital in Gangdong were great. They all treated me with love and respect. I moved back home when our baby was only 2 months. She's 10 years now and has the best life here.Her dad comes to visit and loves our beautiful country too. The true beauty, love, unity and hospitality we have as Africans can't be traded for anything. We have many tribes, speak different languages but are all one race. Proud to be African and my boyfriend can attest to that.

    • @AdaomaOnwukaeme
      @AdaomaOnwukaeme  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@cathrynnkay wow! I am so glad to read this. I am glad you are living your best life. Cheers.

  • @falanayemisi4022
    @falanayemisi4022 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you ❤

  • @tiwozo718
    @tiwozo718 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jyd1384
    @jyd1384 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    South Korea isn't a heavenly state for foreigners, honestly. But most foreigners used to forget or disregard the nation's real situation and the related living conditions. This nation has a cheaper but reliable healthcare system for most residents including people from overseas. At the same time, Korea's public security level particularly at night is trustable too. It's much better than other countries practically. But that's all, no more or less. Not all things are good for visitors' lives unconditionally.
    Gentlemen, what were your expectations in South Korea? Get real. South Korea is a normal democratic state and not a heaven-like country. Once lots of Koreans who went to the US used to imagine their much better lives about 20 years ago. However, nowadays, many Korean Americans had to go back to South Korea. The main reasons are America's racial discrimination, the worst street security, insane living costs, and crazy college tuition. There can't exist a heavenly nation on this earth and that's the human world.

    • @AdaomaOnwukaeme
      @AdaomaOnwukaeme  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for your submission.

    • @bpavilion8994
      @bpavilion8994 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yeah they barely make laws to take care of their own people much less foreigners... Example: There's no way that someone should be doing overtime at work and not getting paid for it....

  • @godwinluke1454
    @godwinluke1454 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hello sister for someone who have south Korea visitor visa how to run things please

  • @malehlwa1583
    @malehlwa1583 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hectic

  • @danisverse
    @danisverse 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    To be fair they have a lot to come into diversity. But you do have an ajunma look hun and they are very much into beauty and people with western cute looks. Its already a standout when you are a foreigner but when you do not fit into cute stereotype too, then.. you might not have as good/bad experience as some other foreigners. But as a foreigner you have to come into Korea with your own thing because if you expect to thrive with a company there as a Black ajunma looking lady, definitely hardest. Better head to UK or Us for that lol.

    • @AdaomaOnwukaeme
      @AdaomaOnwukaeme  2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 @ajummma look

    • @AdaomaOnwukaeme
      @AdaomaOnwukaeme  2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @daniverse, do you reside in Korea. Please how do 'unajunma' my look.

    • @danisverse
      @danisverse 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @AdaomaOnwukaeme If you are interested, have a look at Korean beauty standards, look it up and see if you fit the description or the comparisons between your look and their standard. Their system is generally worse than the White standard they are trying to imitate. Current day & age, many white people are trying to tan and be more darker in complexion. But the current Asian (East & South East) beauty standard are trying to look whiter than White people themselves. It's as though they are decades behind in the what is currently happening in Western beauty standard. So I give them about 20 years before they become much more diverse & focus less on the tiny pointed features, skinny figure, smooth skin and pale skin trend that they are currently are stuck in. Currently, mostly foreigners that match those standards are likely to thrive within their community you should know. If you do not fit that description then it is best you go there somewhat established prior to trying to join their community, otherwise you will struggle to benefit within their community. Everyone should learn and understand this, especially as a Black person. Even more important as a Black female, we are respected even lesser than Black males.

    • @AdaomaOnwukaeme
      @AdaomaOnwukaeme  22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      @danisverse thank you for your submission. I completely understand what you mean, and where you are coming from. That you will take the time to write to me, means a lot. Honestly, I am quite comfortable in my skin and not interested in their "white standard". By the way, who created standards of beauty? On what criteria is beauty or looks weighed? Anyway, this is just me thinking aloud.

  • @EmmanuelChika-gm3tm
    @EmmanuelChika-gm3tm 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My sister how far
    Please do Nigerian passport holder need a transit visa for layover just for 7 hours i am not interested of coming inside south korea or even have stemp in there passport
    I am Nigerian with EU family members permanent residents card i am flying to japan for 10 days on my way back to Frankfurt Germany i will have stop over in south korea for 7 hours
    Asian countries is more useless i have stay and lived in Singapore Asia countries is not for black people i just want visit Japan for 10 days

    • @AdaomaOnwukaeme
      @AdaomaOnwukaeme  7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I doubt If you need one since you will just be waiting to transit. Please, double check with the airline to be sure. Safe travels.

  • @bpavilion8994
    @bpavilion8994 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I think the reason why they prefer certain people to teach english (which is their first language) versus someone who learned English as their second language is because of maybe pronounciation? Like for example, I kind of have a hard time understanding some of what you are saying, especially if you talk too fast. Like here 9:30, I did not understand what you said here.

    • @AdaomaOnwukaeme
      @AdaomaOnwukaeme  28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I used a Korean word there. Wagook means foreigner. Do you understand now?

    • @AdaomaOnwukaeme
      @AdaomaOnwukaeme  28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Well, I speak very fast, it's one of the perks of being me. But there are others who speak perfectly. Infact, English is the lingua franca for Nigerians cos we were colonized by the British and I dare say, a large percentage speak perfectly English.

    • @mayathayil
      @mayathayil 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I'm Indian I understand your accent....no issues
      Worst English accent is American English and they have worst grammar too.....best is British English

    • @bpavilion8994
      @bpavilion8994 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@mayathayil LoL that's funny because Americans say the same thing about Indian accents and language! Talk about a language that I would NEVER want to speak, it would be Indian and Thai. They sound so bad...

    • @mayathayil
      @mayathayil 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@bpavilion8994 love that you got triggered....what a mess the usa is and how well educated they are is seen the in the news that comes out from usa.....
      I wrote the earlier comment for the author of the video but seeing you triggered makes me feel what level usa is really at...thank you again 👍🏼🙏🙏🙏
      And yes the best English is British English America English esp it's spelling and grammar are absolutely rubbish 🚮🗑️

  • @cleommaletsoenyo9685
    @cleommaletsoenyo9685 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am sorry you have to experience that. But, it's not everyone 's experience. Your accent... Nigerian English accent is never really clear. That's honest truth .... Unless you grew up speaking fluent English... I am not trying to shame you but...I didn't understand most Nigerians